Its so true that as an INFP, im really afraid to fail. I fought so hard in college to the point I reached my last year, 4th year, but sadly...its when I failed. I guess its time to be the very first person to comfort myself and be there for myself to say it's all fine and we all experience failure at times:
Thank you. You are spot on. It brought tears to my eyes when you said we are amazing and the world would be better if there were more of us in it. In today's world we tend to be looked upon as weak, when in fact, we are the strongest tribe and have to be in a world of negatively, disgusting behavior and pure evil. We need more people like you who see us INFP's as imperative souls.
Our strength is definitely unique. To see the cruelty happen, yet remain steadfast to our positive, helping principles, that is something I feel us INFP should be proud of. To be able to stare evil in the eye, yet not waver; a, yes, love so strong that it can practically be a weapon. I am proud of that, atleast :)
I am sad....as currently I have distance myself from everybody.... It's really overwhelming right now but will make sure to do something as you mentioned, in my life!!!
It will happen. It's so rare but if you put yourself out there enough you run into some really kind people out there. All I can say is be patient plz. There's a hole world of people who you haven't even met yet. 😊💜 much love friend. I know we all can get though this together.
To be honest, my "kindness and sweetness" lies behind a giant wall of unstable emotions. I am very emotional, and also honest - these two traits combined can easily lead to conflicts, and because of these conflicts (which I don't even want to start, but just can help it) people don't really want to talk to me that often.
this happens with me too. I am an INFP and can totally relate. These unwanted conflicts jab me really hard in my mind and then people think wrong of me and stops talking and all i think is that it was exactly me who messed it up at the end.🙄
@@dhruw9935 This exact situation happened to me too. There's just this unresolved tension now, because I wasn't even there when it all went down. I told her some honest secrets about me and instead of telling me how she felt about it directly, she waited until I had gone to sleep and then told everyone who was still awake. I didn't even know what was happening until my brother dropped it all on me because the girl I was talking to was his friend. He was really angry with me, but I should be angry with that girl because she was the one who stabbed me in the back. Now it's been over a month since it all happened, and I can't even communicate with her at all because she's blocked me on everything, and my brother said that she apparently doesn't want to see me again. No one can see it from my point of view.😥 The worst part is that I don't even know if it's real, or if it's one big lie because I was asleep when it all happened....😥
This video is spot on. I’m always saying sorry for no reason and can be emotional x10. I must say I am a lone wolf but enjoy being alone. Relationships are hard because I don’t trust easy.
Making mistakes is how you gain wisdom, to move forward in life with joy. You just gotta be willing to try, and strengthen your boundaries. Idgaf, what anyone else has to say about shit. I love you. I'm here to help you, not hurt you. Like her... But the longer you take, the more you hurt and take the risk. No one else is on this adventure but you, and I can't move forward with you if you are still undecided darling. Every choice has a consequence regardless of who advises us or not. Love is the highest vibration, take the leap of faith and trust God to lead you to where you wanna go. Becareful of who you open up to. You are beautiful in every way
1. If I'm not strict on myself I'll flow and won't be able to do anything 2. Whenever I show my real personality or feelings people always leave so it's better to be afar or fake happiness 3. I literally can't express my emotions I just run off 4. I'm my own critique. I can't listen to others criticising me 5. How could I say this? What if they are hurt from my confrontation? 6. What if doing/moving on is a bad decision? 7. I just want everything perfect 8. I can't! 9. I can't express my emotions verbally and people around me are not patient enough to read my feelings! 10. To whom should I trust? I'm resentful! 11. I'm always curious. I've zillion questions always. But I'm too awkward to ask them cause they are silly 12. Imagination is great escape from reality 13. I tend to react to the worst imagination which is not practical in real life
I'm an INFP and I sometimes think thank I think a little too much than I should. The meaning of life, the purpose of everything around often drive me crazy.
I feel like I am not that personality type at all half of the time (like, I never took criticism personal, I love getting it bc it helps me improve; I also don't dwell on past mistakes and I am rarely embarrassed about anything I do and stuff like that + I didn't cry at this video like apparently all infps do lol😂❤️) , even though some things fit perfectly in some cases - but I always got the same test result sooo yeah it's confusing. But I wish I could meet another infp irl, none of my close ppl knows how my brain works and it gets exhausting sometimes, it would be lovely to meet someone to whom I don't have tp try to explain it
I'm an INFP and a man. I work in a medical laboratory (diagnostics and tests) with a team of both men and woman. It can be a nice environment, but sometimes I get the feeling that the guys are trying to impress the woman and will purposely "roast" and attack each other's identities in order to look better (and to be honest, some of the woman have been a part of this too). I have to say that I suck at giving witty/quick thought roasts and provocations and generally try not to be included, but that fact has made me a bit of a target too 😐. Honestly i'd almost prefer the lab to be completely silent sometimes, as getting shit on out of nowhere just ruins my day.
As a woman, I have also experienced this, but you don’t have to phrase it like in the video. You don’t have to say I am sad and depressed and therefore need to be alone. You can just say, “I need some alone time”, and inforce this boundary. And if you sense the person you’re talking to is a predator or a parasite, then don’t be open with them. Arthur Burke has alot of great books and pdf’s online about this, if you would like to find out more. You got this💪
I loved all advices , I'm working in these things, but its kind of hard to talk about my feelings and not feeling weak, I don't want people to look at me like that :(
I think I became happier and less stressed when I stopped seeking validation from other people, especially people I don't know and like. I just do what I like to do as long it doesn't harm people, and if other people don't like it, then maybe they aren't the right people for me. As for ghosting, I ghost people I don't like. 😅😂
But when you say "Believe me when i say this, you are an amazing INFP" unconciously i dont believe that and suddenly the picture of all failure that i have done in my life pop up in my head
Please change the thumbnail image. Infps are not that weird looking. But thanks for the advice but it is not easy to be yourself in a world where people always expect us to be someone else not everybody will accept us for who we are and we cannot be open to everybody because some people will not hesitate to use our sensitive nature against us. I personally made this painful experience and after three months of depression I think it is preferable not be yourself with everybody
You are not an INFP.....i figured that much out from this. If you were, you would know that, even if we tried all of these it would only be temporary relief. When the experience happens....its just something my words cannot describe. if you are looking for happiness, you need only look into your heart. For it contains all the answers. You need only take enough time to listen to it.
You´re telling us what to do but not how to do it, this video is just a reminder of the weeknesses that we already know we have but it's not helping because you don't say much about HOW to actually do it in reallity. This is like when someone is worried and you tell them "don't worry" lmao.
An urgent message from your Guardian Angel: bit.ly/2NX3rHc
I cried so hard at the end because our seeking for validation is often so tiering and to receive it at the end is just- thank you!
Yeah, I can agree on that
@Sarah 💯
I love reading INFP video comment sections because I can just imagine all of us in a giant group hug.
Its so true that as an INFP, im really afraid to fail. I fought so hard in college to the point I reached my last year, 4th year, but sadly...its when I failed. I guess its time to be the very first person to comfort myself and be there for myself to say it's all fine and we all experience failure at times:
Thank you. You are spot on. It brought tears to my eyes when you said we are amazing and the world would be better if there were more of us in it. In today's world we tend to be looked upon as weak, when in fact, we are the strongest tribe and have to be in a world of negatively, disgusting behavior and pure evil.
We need more people like you who see us INFP's as imperative souls.
You put it perfectly
Our strength is definitely unique. To see the cruelty happen, yet remain steadfast to our positive, helping principles, that is something I feel us INFP should be proud of. To be able to stare evil in the eye, yet not waver; a, yes, love so strong that it can practically be a weapon.
I am proud of that, atleast :)
MY god, i cried at the end.
So all the infps became emotional at the end?
Are you surprised that we did? We do love validation.
I am sad....as currently I have distance myself from everybody.... It's really overwhelming right now but will make sure to do something as you mentioned, in my life!!!
Its never easy to be on your own. But know there are a world of friends willing to help you get though this.
"a trait that people respect" ... Hmm, I'd like to experience that respect some day
As an INFP I understand now that we have to make people respect us, by speaking up
It will happen. It's so rare but if you put yourself out there enough you run into some really kind people out there. All I can say is be patient plz. There's a hole world of people who you haven't even met yet. 😊💜 much love friend. I know we all can get though this together.
To be honest, my "kindness and sweetness" lies behind a giant wall of unstable emotions. I am very emotional, and also honest - these two traits combined can easily lead to conflicts, and because of these conflicts (which I don't even want to start, but just can help it) people don't really want to talk to me that often.
this happens with me too. I am an INFP and can totally relate. These unwanted conflicts jab me really hard in my mind and then people think wrong of me and stops talking and all i think is that it was exactly me who messed it up at the end.🙄
@@dhruw9935 This exact situation happened to me too. There's just this unresolved tension now, because I wasn't even there when it all went down. I told her some honest secrets about me and instead of telling me how she felt about it directly, she waited until I had gone to sleep and then told everyone who was still awake.
I didn't even know what was happening until my brother dropped it all on me because the girl I was talking to was his friend. He was really angry with me, but I should be angry with that girl because she was the one who stabbed me in the back.
Now it's been over a month since it all happened, and I can't even communicate with her at all because she's blocked me on everything, and my brother said that she apparently doesn't want to see me again.
No one can see it from my point of view.😥 The worst part is that I don't even know if it's real, or if it's one big lie because I was asleep when it all happened....😥
This video is spot on. I’m always saying sorry for no reason and can be emotional x10. I must say I am a lone wolf but enjoy being alone. Relationships are hard because I don’t trust easy.
Making mistakes is how you gain wisdom, to move forward in life with joy. You just gotta be willing to try, and strengthen your boundaries. Idgaf, what anyone else has to say about shit. I love you. I'm here to help you, not hurt you. Like her... But the longer you take, the more you hurt and take the risk. No one else is on this adventure but you, and I can't move forward with you if you are still undecided darling. Every choice has a consequence regardless of who advises us or not. Love is the highest vibration, take the leap of faith and trust God to lead you to where you wanna go. Becareful of who you open up to. You are beautiful in every way
As an INFP, I cried at the end. Your message is so inspiring and very touching. Thank you! 😊
“feeling sorry is absurd, dump the feeling and move on with your life.” I needed this
Me to... honestly. I'm just glade to know there's others out there. We're never truly alone.
We're just 4% of the world guys, we need to be happy enough like the rest of the 96%.
Pretty sure INFJs are similarly miserable based on suicide rates.
@@Umeshukitsune well, hop in then, we be in the same train 👍🏽
1. If I'm not strict on myself I'll flow and won't be able to do anything
2. Whenever I show my real personality or feelings people always leave so it's better to be afar or fake happiness
3. I literally can't express my emotions I just run off
4. I'm my own critique. I can't listen to others criticising me
5. How could I say this? What if they are hurt from my confrontation?
6. What if doing/moving on is a bad decision?
7. I just want everything perfect
8. I can't!
9. I can't express my emotions verbally and people around me are not patient enough to read my feelings!
10. To whom should I trust? I'm resentful!
11. I'm always curious. I've zillion questions always. But I'm too awkward to ask them cause they are silly
12. Imagination is great escape from reality
13. I tend to react to the worst imagination which is not practical in real life
I have no idea why i cried so freaking hard at the end but thank you so much...
Man the deal of being INFP is litteraly being depressed like HOWWWW???
I'm comforted. Thank you for this video! Thank You, Jesus! I am loved indeed!
I like The Ending :) Good request :)
This interrogating thing, I totally agree with
I'm interested in almost anything as long as someone is willing to explain
We're very strict on ourselve. If we done something not to the full we will kick ourrselve for it, recharging energy is very important to us.
This made me cry and laugh . Thanks . Us infps are the tiggers of the world .
him: you need to stop being sorry and guilty
me: **THE OVERWHELMING PAIN**
THANK YOU for telling me the problem and how i can fix it at such a comfortable and understanding way 🙂
Great video ♡
That's was sweet! Thank you very much!!
this is so pretty thank you
I'm an INFP and I sometimes think thank I think a little too much than I should.
The meaning of life, the purpose of everything around often drive me crazy.
Wow. This is really profound and accurate for my experience. Mahalo for the words of wisdom 🌸🙂🙌
Great Video💛 Thanks for the advice.^^
I am often impulsive when it comes to my own plans and ideas. Otherwise, I relate heavily with being an INFP
I had already the comment section before watching the video but I still cried at the end wtf is wrong with me
Thank you so much. This vid really did me good
Thank you so much!!
I feel like I am not that personality type at all half of the time (like, I never took criticism personal, I love getting it bc it helps me improve; I also don't dwell on past mistakes and I am rarely embarrassed about anything I do and stuff like that + I didn't cry at this video like apparently all infps do lol😂❤️) , even though some things fit perfectly in some cases - but I always got the same test result sooo yeah it's confusing. But I wish I could meet another infp irl, none of my close ppl knows how my brain works and it gets exhausting sometimes, it would be lovely to meet someone to whom I don't have tp try to explain it
Thank you for this amazing message! 😭
Thank you
Thank you❤️
I'm an INFP and a man. I work in a medical laboratory (diagnostics and tests) with a team of both men and woman. It can be a nice environment, but sometimes I get the feeling that the guys are trying to impress the woman and will purposely "roast" and attack each other's identities in order to look better (and to be honest, some of the woman have been a part of this too). I have to say that I suck at giving witty/quick thought roasts and provocations and generally try not to be included, but that fact has made me a bit of a target too 😐. Honestly i'd almost prefer the lab to be completely silent sometimes, as getting shit on out of nowhere just ruins my day.
The well intended advice on being open would not work for male INFP's but instead make them a visible target for predators/parasites en mass.
As a woman, I have also experienced this, but you don’t have to phrase it like in the video. You don’t have to say I am sad and depressed and therefore need to be alone. You can just say, “I need some alone time”, and inforce this boundary.
And if you sense the person you’re talking to is a predator or a parasite, then don’t be open with them.
Arthur Burke has alot of great books and pdf’s online about this, if you would like to find out more.
You got this💪
I feel a little good thinks for this video 😊
I loved all advices , I'm working in these things, but its kind of hard to talk about my feelings and not feeling weak, I don't want people to look at me like that :(
I think I became happier and less stressed when I stopped seeking validation from other people, especially people I don't know and like. I just do what I like to do as long it doesn't harm people, and if other people don't like it, then maybe they aren't the right people for me. As for ghosting, I ghost people I don't like. 😅😂
But when you say "Believe me when i say this, you are an amazing INFP" unconciously i dont believe that and suddenly the picture of all failure that i have done in my life pop up in my head
Please change the thumbnail image. Infps are not that weird looking. But thanks for the advice but it is not easy to be yourself in a world where people always expect us to be someone else not everybody will accept us for who we are and we cannot be open to everybody because some people will not hesitate to use our sensitive nature against us. I personally made this painful experience and after three months of depression I think it is preferable not be yourself with everybody
@@TriggerVisions yes thankyou
Agreed
I learn through visualization and just the picture alone bothers me.
why what was the picture ?
why the f i am an INFP? Why I am not careless? Why I am so over scrupulous and so anxious? Ahhh
I long for the day that AI voiceovers are finally abandoned
Hey Gozzy, The voice in this video is not an AI VoiceOver, this is one of our voice actors.
@@TriggerVisions my apologies
All infps are IRON MAN like tony stark
Stop being strict on myself okay😬🤪
You are not an INFP.....i figured that much out from this. If you were, you would know that, even if we tried all of these it would only be temporary relief. When the experience happens....its just something my words cannot describe.
if you are looking for happiness, you need only look into your heart. For it contains all the answers.
You need only take enough time to listen to it.
way to make me cry ig
/lh
Things That Terrifies INFPs
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How to be a happier infp: *Just stop being an infp.*
I've been heartbroken 5 times lmao maaan am I naïve.
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You´re telling us what to do but not how to do it, this video is just a reminder of the weeknesses that we already know we have but it's not helping because you don't say much about HOW to actually do it in reallity. This is like when someone is worried and you tell them "don't worry" lmao.
I liked. I get disgusted by "inter-racial" stuff. Right?
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@@BruceL33Roywhat do you need?