Thanks for the enjoyable ep!! ☺️Would have been great if there were a deeper discussion on the moralisation of abstinence & purity culture; as well as how these beliefs could potentially influence relationships & well-being?
Another thing is, I feel like people are ignoring a key factor. I feel like the BF isn't afraid of having sex nor is it a moral thing. It's not moral because they already engaged in other forms of sex that not penetrative. I think it has a lot to do with income, anxiety, economy. He's probably not where he wants to be and the thought of having a child is one major headaches he can avoid. It's not the most logical fear because if they use contraceptives they can avoid it (97% chance of not having a child). If he made a great income and felt stable, I feel like he'd be able to get past this with therapy. If they're doing other sex acts I doubt it's actually sex drive or morals. Morally he wouldn’t do anything beyond kissing and he wouldn’t have the drive if it were a sex drive issue.
While improbable, it is possible to get pregnant if you have sex during your period. Sperms can survive inside the female reproductive tract for up to 5 days, and early ovulation may occur.
the guy is just not into her, plain and simple. all the 'in case get pregnant' nonsense is just his way of subtly telling his GF im not into you. Or this Bf may into guys and not girls. She's just a practice ground for him, while he has other girl or guy. He might be doing it with someone else for all you know. she should just move on. if you cant 'test' it, forget it!
Kudos to those who stuck by their beliefs and values here. It's especially hard when the world is becoming more 'liberal' and the lines get more blurred.not easy to stand by Ur view esp when yours seems like the less 'liberal' pov.💪🏼
Couple has to have at least one or two things in common and sex for couples are not just sex, it can be known as making love too. We need 2 to become 1 at times if both are looking into marriage together or else these kind of compromises eventually be tired of accepting. Marriage might be on the rocks. Else either one will cheat or “buying services” from another lady or guy for the long run
It's irritating the guys mocking and making jokes as Denise is trying to read out the person's problem! It's NOT nice to mock or make fun of a person who's never had sex. Like WTF?! Grow up lah. There's nothing to mock whether a person has sex, or doesn't, or is a virgin, by choice or not, or whatever.
Sex was heavily documented and spoken about in many different cultures in the past. It's a natural desire as well. Also, plenty of cultures weren't that religious. That being said, in the past a lot of stuff that's not ok now was ok back then (that regard sex). 11:30
who say can upload 20 min episode
Thanks for the enjoyable ep!! ☺️Would have been great if there were a deeper discussion on the moralisation of abstinence & purity culture; as well as how these beliefs could potentially influence relationships & well-being?
Another thing is, I feel like people are ignoring a key factor.
I feel like the BF isn't afraid of having sex nor is it a moral thing. It's not moral because they already engaged in other forms of sex that not penetrative. I think it has a lot to do with income, anxiety, economy. He's probably not where he wants to be and the thought of having a child is one major headaches he can avoid.
It's not the most logical fear because if they use contraceptives they can avoid it (97% chance of not having a child). If he made a great income and felt stable, I feel like he'd be able to get past this with therapy.
If they're doing other sex acts I doubt it's actually sex drive or morals. Morally he wouldn’t do anything beyond kissing and he wouldn’t have the drive if it were a sex drive issue.
Agree
Why would u feel scared of pregnant if u never have sex b4 tho 😂😂😂 (a girl here)
It all comes down to their love languages 🥰 if one is physical touch and another is quality time then it might not work out
idt watching a movie for 2 hours surpasses a 10 mins sex. emotional intimacy cannot be measured by time.
While improbable, it is possible to get pregnant if you have sex during your period. Sperms can survive inside the female reproductive tract for up to 5 days, and early ovulation may occur.
the guy is just not into her, plain and simple. all the 'in case get pregnant' nonsense is just his way of subtly telling his GF im not into you. Or this Bf may into guys and not girls. She's just a practice ground for him, while he has other girl or guy. He might be doing it with someone else for all you know. she should just move on. if you cant 'test' it, forget it!
20:00 - Highlight of the video 😂😂😂
Kudos to those who stuck by their beliefs and values here. It's especially hard when the world is becoming more 'liberal' and the lines get more blurred.not easy to stand by Ur view esp when yours seems like the less 'liberal' pov.💪🏼
Couple has to have at least one or two things in common and sex for couples are not just sex, it can be known as making love too. We need 2 to become 1 at times if both are looking into marriage together or else these kind of compromises eventually be tired of accepting. Marriage might be on the rocks. Else either one will cheat or “buying services” from another lady or guy for the long run
No leh. Sex is not a necessity for some - don’t assume everyone has the same urges as you.
BF closeted la
It's irritating the guys mocking and making jokes as Denise is trying to read out the person's problem! It's NOT nice to mock or make fun of a person who's never had sex. Like WTF?! Grow up lah. There's nothing to mock whether a person has sex, or doesn't, or is a virgin, by choice or not, or whatever.
Guy maybe hve std. just a possible reason. Or maybe have ED.
Sex was heavily documented and spoken about in many different cultures in the past. It's a natural desire as well. Also, plenty of cultures weren't that religious. That being said, in the past a lot of stuff that's not ok now was ok back then (that regard sex). 11:30
Lolol i'd not want my sister/daughter to ever be with someone like Jon Paul.
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The BF must have got it from somewhere - from another GF/SB, Geylang or worst - another guy. Simple as that. Just tell the BF to come clean.
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The Daily Ketchup Podcast, This made me laugh so much! Thanks for sharing!
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11:26 mega L take from Dan, its obviously the other way round. sad jon wasn't here to rebutt him on this brainwashed nonsense
I think he’s right leh. Just because you disagree doesn’t mean he’s wrong.
just use the other hole la. easy win-win 😃😃