How your THOUGHTS Create or Destroy Your SELF CONFIDENCE | Ed Mylett

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  • Опубликовано: 3 фев 2019
  • "I am worth it!" "I deserve it!" This is what I'm going to teach you to believe about YOURSELF!
    It's the feeling that creeps up on you when you need your confidence the most. That relentless voice that tells you, you're not good enough, smart enough, fast enough, strong enough, beeautiful enough.
    Doubt can be so crippling. It can stop you from achieving greatness in your business, in your faith, in your relationships... in EVERYTHING!
    I can tell you a million times that YOU ARE ENOUGH but if YOU don' believe it yourself, that temporary boost of confidence will eventually wear off and the doubt will settle back in.
    Confidence has to be cultivated from within! But how do you do this???? In this episode, I'm going to teach you the exact skills that will allow you to conquer self-doubt and replace it with self-confidence!
    I'm going to release you from the guilt of self-doubt so that you can crush the hold it has on you. It's time to STOP reinforcing your self-doubt and strip away its power.!
    Are you ready to break free from self-doubt and shame?
    The time is now to build confidence and self-worth!
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  • @EdMylettShow
    @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад +216

    What is 1 PROMISE you're going to make and KEEP starting TODAY?
    I'll send an autograph copy of my book to the for the best promise!

    • @jimtraister2587
      @jimtraister2587 5 лет назад +8

      Go for a run. Thanks for the wisdom shared too!

    • @Arron-Lloyd
      @Arron-Lloyd 5 лет назад +8

      I promise to give total focus to every task I take in order to be more productive. I promise to take more massive action to create 75K by April 15th 2019.

    • @realtalkuniversity7128
      @realtalkuniversity7128 5 лет назад +7

      I promise to wake up an hour earlier everyday to write my book. I promise to finish by July, and by writing for an hour every morning, I promise that it will be completed by then.

    • @jacobmartinez4892
      @jacobmartinez4892 5 лет назад +4

      I promise to DREAM Bigger dreams and make more MASSIVE GOALS by taking MASSIVE ACTION and Believing in MYSELF and My SAVIOR to make it a REALITY. .. Better to aim high and miss then to aim low and hit. #MAXOUT

    • @BoNipper-nt2xg
      @BoNipper-nt2xg 5 лет назад +6

      I promise that I’m going to stop just listening to motivational videos and thinking about working hard and start putting in an extra 30 minutes at night drawing on landscape design software and actually being a beast. I get so pumped up and talk about how I work hard but I’m still only going at 95%

  • @SamVDW
    @SamVDW 5 лет назад +27

    "Build up your self-confidence by keeping the promises you make to yourself." This statement is a game changer for me.

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад

      WOW ! .. you seriously just summed it all up perfectly
      Curious, do you have a favorite interview i've done so far? Would love to hear your thoughts!

  • @solomonverderame9333
    @solomonverderame9333 3 года назад +35

    "Scratch it!" This changed my life more than anything. I'm grateful brother for your inspiring message.

  • @briantobias9212
    @briantobias9212 5 лет назад +123

    Negative thoughts are such a killer. Positive thinking is so underrated.

    • @NaraOshima
      @NaraOshima 5 лет назад

      Applying this now 2/4/2019

    • @cakepudding3220
      @cakepudding3220 4 года назад

      That's what drives suicide

    • @lilsportsking2392
      @lilsportsking2392 3 года назад

      You don't understand... It's your Intentions 😇😇😇😇

    • @JDS51
      @JDS51 3 года назад

      So true!!

  • @terrycurtin2137
    @terrycurtin2137 5 лет назад +68

    It was depressing when I had the possessions. Even the airplane. I wasnt happy. I even said. My God. This is it. After all I dreamed. Then possessions went away.
    The recession along with bad decisions left me penniless. All I had left was a huge tax lean. I took a job at a gas station from the 1.2 million dollar home blocks away.
    I was happy though. Then I got serious about change.
    I realized I was the problem. Not money.
    On my way back. Full steam. #maxout

    • @solomonverderame9333
      @solomonverderame9333 3 года назад +1

      Very Powerful Terry. Thank you for the wealth of wisdom because it's coming from real experience. So thank you for being real

  • @MentorMyLife
    @MentorMyLife 5 лет назад +82

    Master your mind to master your life. If you can do that you will be unstoppable.

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад +1

      BOOM! Perfectly said.
      What do you think I should talk about next?

    • @PennyPorta
      @PennyPorta 5 лет назад

      omg I am working on it...

  • @JaimeeRae
    @JaimeeRae 5 лет назад +75

    Self confidence is self love♥️

  • @terrygarcia8826
    @terrygarcia8826 5 лет назад +42

    This is what we need to be teaching in our schools!
    What a FANTASTIC message!!

  • @David-tn4ok
    @David-tn4ok 5 лет назад +7

    1 PROMISE that I AM going to make and KEEP starting TODAY is that I AM going to workout 1 hour every single day! I want to personally thank you Ed Mylett, these amazing series of videos you've been doing in 2019 I ABSOLUTELY LOVE! I have been using a 10 minute timer with my iPhone to micromanage every 10 minutes. This has completely revolutionized my life! I want to share this with everyone so please spread the word! Every single 10 minutes that timer alarm goes off is a reminder to me saying: "David, are you focused on the present moment right now? Are you keeping those promises you've made to yourself to increase your Self-Confidence?" This completely keeps me on track and is reprogramming my mindset. I want to say GOD BLESS YOU Ed Mylett!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR AMAZING TRANSFER OF ENERGY! I AM BLESSED!

    • @alexandriadean2222
      @alexandriadean2222 5 лет назад +1

      David A THAT IS FANTASTIC! I too use a 10 min timer, but mine is mainly to keep me focused and not sidetracked. I did not think about the acknowledgment of keeping my promise or just being present! That is a BRILLIANT share! Oh My Goodness!! Thank you! That is #maxout !!

  • @CL2GBenefits
    @CL2GBenefits 5 лет назад +5

    I will keep the promises to myself by starting to scratch and erase the negative thoughts about how I am and what I've accomplished. My possessions, accomplishments, and self image are not who I am as a child of God. I am a confident and strong minded woman with the determination to succeed. THANK YOU ED FOR ALLOWING GOD TO USE YOU TO IMPACT THE LIVES OF OTHERS, especially me.

  • @kipj9900
    @kipj9900 5 лет назад +14

    ...AND l just heard you say "entrepreneurship is the greatest self discovery process in the history of mankind". That is the absolute TRUTH!! Entrepreneurship has taught me more about myself than anything else. I know l am a better person for going through this process.

  • @Migdk24
    @Migdk24 5 лет назад +144

    Thumps up as always!
    I need to spend a day with Ed! If get 100 thumbs up Ed we’ll have to make this happen

    • @Migdk24
      @Migdk24 5 лет назад +3

      A day might be a lot to ask I realize so let’s go for just a FaceTime 😁

    • @christianhendriksen6241
      @christianhendriksen6241 4 года назад +1

      @@Migdk24 only 30 to go! One day it will get there

    • @paulstrasser4456
      @paulstrasser4456 4 года назад +2

      I agree 100% Ed Mylett is a true motivator ! Love it!

    • @davep3671
      @davep3671 4 года назад +1

      5 more

    • @stevenskoog
      @stevenskoog 4 года назад +1

      2 more to go! Good luck!

  • @MrNew87
    @MrNew87 5 лет назад +5

    As a "Christian Buisness" owner It can sometimes be discouraging knowing that my audience is a lot smaller than other businesses but keeping focused on who I am in Christ and what he has already accomplished through me helps me to overcome any self doubt that I may face. Tha k you for the reminder and reaffirmation brother. Stay blessed!

  • @nicolegonzalez6178
    @nicolegonzalez6178 5 лет назад +13

    “That’s not my thought that’s someone else’s “. I can breathe better just saying that statement. So much value thanks Ed grateful for your videos. Keeping the promise to myself to impact someone’s day everyday but uplifting, loving, and encouraging them.

  • @alexshin2137
    @alexshin2137 4 года назад +4

    The part where he says that you weren't born with negative thoughts and that someone else planted them in you is so true. We were fearless and our curiosity was at our highest level at this age. I feel it is a duty of becoming an adult and unlearning these things that our experiences or people have taught us in the past.

  • @shawnstoik
    @shawnstoik 5 лет назад +1

    I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you Ed your time is worth so much and yet you spend your value time sharing and helping others.
    May the Lord continue to bless you and your family brother...
    Thank you for not being afraid to share your faith.🙏🏼
    Everyone watching this, please share this to everyone!!!!

  • @EvanCarmichael
    @EvanCarmichael 5 лет назад +107

    Fire content as always 🔥 #Believe

  • @kadyf6946
    @kadyf6946 5 лет назад +13

    Beautiful!! After reading my devotional today I decided to check email and am glad I did. I clicked on your email and came to watch your video. I struggle with self confidence and an trying to grow in that area. I never thought about giving myself credit for my intentions or that promises I make to myself that I keep are one way to build on my confidence. I have a goal planner I write in daily. Goals to drink more water, eat greens daily, workout daily. I check them off when I complete them. One promise I have made is no matter how I feel whether I'm motivated or not is to move. I put on my workout clothes daily, no matter what. I've had days I'm not in the mood or have a headache and I still show up (in front of my tv to do my cardio and upper or lower body work). I may not push super hard if I'm not feeling well but I always complete my workouts. Thank you for helping me see that I may miss my mark on getting up to a gallon of water but I always get at least half that and I can grow in confidence that I'll always show up to workout.

  • @venessavanschalkwyk5219
    @venessavanschalkwyk5219 5 лет назад +6

    Ed, I promised myself that I'll listen to a motivational video every day and I am glad our company President, Brian Roberts, recommended your channel!! I've Been listening to your RUclips channel 2-3 times a day,. You are a wonderful motivator. I'm seeing Good changes in myself!! Keep up the good work!!

    • @Rugbystu14
      @Rugbystu14 5 лет назад

      I listen to his videos and podcasts at home, in the gym, in the car on the way to work. I want to listen to everything as much as possible, until it gets properly stuck in my head. Trying to kind of brainwash myself haha.
      Luckily, my job is a pretty brain-dead kind of. I get to think about my business while at work and, taking Ed's advice, I can build self-confidence, despite all the wrong things going on. I start to think about solutions and how I'm going to conquer all these hard times and build a person worthy of living a success life

  • @thezakkhan
    @thezakkhan 5 лет назад +2

    Whenever I watch your videos Ed, not only do I leave with a renewed sense of vigour and loads of practical advice but I find myself feeling really good about myself and the path I'm on. Thanks!

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад

      Glad I was able to show you a different perspective! Sometimes seeing things in a different perspective opens up new opportunities.
      What other topics you think I should go over next time?

  • @EEGIAZAROV
    @EEGIAZAROV 5 лет назад +3

    Ed, you're so unbelievably accurate in your assession of what's going on inside our heads and what we need to do. Huge thanks man!

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад

      Incredibly happy to hear you enjoyed the video ! Truly appreciate the love and support.

  • @IosebDzhugashvili
    @IosebDzhugashvili 5 лет назад +3

    You're a legend Ed. Watch your videos every morning.

  • @HookedonLowCarb
    @HookedonLowCarb 5 лет назад +11

    I am not my accomplishments!!! This is something that I have only recently come to learn and you are completely right, its just a never ending cycle of proving yourself worthy when... you already are!

  • @marcernest3165
    @marcernest3165 5 лет назад +2

    Ed , you might have just changed my life once more. I finally got it. A life changing epiphany regarding tying my self worth to achievement and recognition. Thank you man 🙏

    • @marcernest3165
      @marcernest3165 5 лет назад

      You know what this is so profound that I want to share it before I forget, when you said your self worth will always be tied to your achievement I became aware of how outcome oriented I am because of my desperate need for significance and recognition and how selfish my intentions really are, whenever I talk to someone I've always been completely outcome oriented just going through the motions so I can book a meeting with them and you made me realize that I'll always be chasing something if I tie my self worth to achievement and I realized this the tension and pressure feeling I've always had in my stomach from stress (I know you know what I'm talking about) slowly faded. And I decided that now I will shift my focus to becoming process oriented and have my happiness stem from taking the right actions which are what I'm really here on earth for which is make people feel better about themselves and keep my own promises to me, and the ironic part I also realized is that when I make this shift ironically enough, all the results and achievement I've chasing will come as a byproduct. Sorry if it's too long lol

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад

      Absolutely welcome! Happy to put it out for you.
      Did you hear a particular golden nugget that stuck with you?

    • @marcernest3165
      @marcernest3165 5 лет назад

      @@EdMylettShow yeah I posted a whole essay in the reply to my first comment lol. In a nutshell, Get my self worth internally from taking the right actions instead of externally through achievement and recognition

  • @shalenadiva
    @shalenadiva 5 лет назад +25

    I LOVE your definition of self confidence!!! I smash all of my goals when I kept my promises to myself. Thank you for pointing this out to me. Keeping my word and promises to myself makes me feel AMAZING. What is my reputation with myself? Am I reliable, consistent, brave, confident, etc? I will rebuild my reputation with myself over the next few weeks. This will help me to build a healthier self image. I never heard anyone explain it this way. Thanks, Ed!!!

  • @loryolsen6464
    @loryolsen6464 4 года назад +3

    Dude-you are amazing!! If everyone listened to you 15 minutes everyday, we'd all do ourselves a huge favor! Loved the things you said- I'm going to put them to practice-Thanks a ton!!

  • @Sim_baah
    @Sim_baah 5 лет назад +53

    Best content on youtube hands down my fav channel.

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад +2

      Thank you! Appreciate the love and support.
      What was your favorite part?

    • @Sim_baah
      @Sim_baah 5 лет назад +1

      EdMylett about not believing what others say you are. Other people’s opinions of you does not have to be your reality.

    • @annettefluit3496
      @annettefluit3496 5 лет назад

      I love that you bring your faith into these videos and that you encourage others to do the same.
      We are created in His image.

    • @armansfitvibe9893
      @armansfitvibe9893 4 года назад

      EdMylett you’re amazing thank you

  • @shannaanwiler7891
    @shannaanwiler7891 2 года назад +2

    I seriously love you!!! I'm so thankful that I found you for this season in my life! I never celebrate my wins or keeping my commitments to myself but I am very quick to attack myself when I don't. I am going to start to celebrate my wins and own the good in me!

  • @bonkahermitakaintjudge9228
    @bonkahermitakaintjudge9228 5 лет назад +2

    Thanks again for your response. I will be reviewing this video from time to time to ensure not slipping into feeling down during times when I don’t have constructive things to do that are pride building. Thanks again

  • @kenlewis3641
    @kenlewis3641 5 лет назад +4

    Bananas, I AM keeping my promises to myself. I AM growing daily towards my ultimate greatness. I wake up daily to learn and improve in order to become someone that makes a difference! Ed, Grateful once again for your willingness to help others.

  • @AshleySalvatori
    @AshleySalvatori 5 лет назад +32

    Wow!!!! I am my possessions!!! That is so true, when I was younger I can see how I linked that with who I was and my confidence. I have completely lost that as my confidence level increased but didn’t even link the two!!! Another amazing one Ed 🙌🏻

    • @spiralsun1
      @spiralsun1 2 года назад

      I never understood possessions that way… makes sense. I liked the patterns and meaning in them. Everything has so much meaning just to me. I am here to tell you that those kinds of possessions are good like repeating meaningful mantras. They are there every day to remind you of higher things like the rosary. My favorite is nature and it’s not even a possession in the legal sense. ❤️‍🔥🙌🥰

  • @rushabhnehul8531
    @rushabhnehul8531 5 лет назад +1

    Love your practical stuff and yet basic no one pays attention about. I am all about keeping my promises and I can tell that from my experience that's the key to self confidence. No one talks about. Thankyou for sharing your practical n deep stuff @edymylett 🙏

  • @ThePermacultureStudent
    @ThePermacultureStudent 5 лет назад +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ADDRESSING THE ADVERSARY!!! A key for my confidence is rooted in knowing that I am loved, that I am a child of God, and that I was born for this.

  • @susanhenson6338
    @susanhenson6338 5 лет назад +4

    This is such empowering reality! I'm a recovering addict and I needed to hear this.

    • @therealchief1446
      @therealchief1446 Год назад

      It's four years later have you been progressing?

  • @realtalkuniversity7128
    @realtalkuniversity7128 5 лет назад +8

    I am worth it! I think we are all worth it. We just have to stay disciplined enough, work our buts off, and then you will truly be able to believe that you are worth it. And once you do, your mind will start to accept things far better and more fruitful than before. It is all a mindset! Thanks for sharing this Ed.

  • @dr.princessbriggs
    @dr.princessbriggs 5 лет назад

    Don't think I've ever commented on ANY person's RUclips video. But THIS.... This video has given me a jump start. No more negative self-talk! I scratch those words from my life. I receive, instead, the greatness that I was born with and destined to share with the world.

  • @mr.t382
    @mr.t382 2 года назад

    Hi Ed,
    Came across your channel this morning! Amazing. Amazing Sir!
    I have been a Christian many years. After hard things in life became awfully discouraged and depressed. Yes - even Christians can believe wrong things about themselves due mostly to “life” happening.
    Ed,
    Love your stuff - I’m going to believe better about myself!
    Thank you so much!
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @katemonroe7572
    @katemonroe7572 5 лет назад +9

    🎯🎯🎯🎯
    If every person could hear and internalize this message, what a different world we would inhabit! Beautiful truth! This is fantastic. Thank you for getting this message out ❤ You could not have hit this nail any more on the head!

  • @CarnivoreDownSouth
    @CarnivoreDownSouth 5 лет назад +29

    I needed to hear this this morning!!! I’ve been struggling, BAD!!! Depression Sucks!

    • @lowriden82741g
      @lowriden82741g 5 лет назад +1

      JANALYNN McKenzie i can relate

    • @CarnivoreDownSouth
      @CarnivoreDownSouth 5 лет назад +2

      Emil Schmidt prayers for you! Praise God and I am a lot better.

    • @lowriden82741g
      @lowriden82741g 5 лет назад +1

      JANALYNN McKenzie thanks.thats great how did you manage to feel a lot better if you don’t mind me asking?

    • @CarnivoreDownSouth
      @CarnivoreDownSouth 5 лет назад +3

      Emil Schmidt listening to this type of thing, reading scripture, and prayer. It took several days. I finally snapped out of it.

    • @CarnivoreDownSouth
      @CarnivoreDownSouth 5 лет назад +3

      I also read Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer. It was really good.

  • @carolharrington4745
    @carolharrington4745 3 года назад +1

    Why am I only finding you now?? I love the passion and the fact that you get to the point quickly and clearly. Thank you! I have never heard anyone speak on "keeping the promises you make to yourself"

  • @indianaaerials8614
    @indianaaerials8614 5 лет назад +2

    I really like your thoughts about Confidence being about promises you keep to yourself! I am going to start making small promises to myself I know I can keep to work on building up the confidence! Thanks Ed!!!

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад

      You are so welcome! Thank you for listening. Good to know it resonated with you!

  • @jimwilliams182
    @jimwilliams182 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you! My promise to myself, going to the Gym at 4:30 am while listening to Ed Mylett. ✅

  • @DropshippingKZ
    @DropshippingKZ 5 лет назад +8

    Thank you very much again Ed Mylett! From now on I will give myself a CREDIT for my GOOD INTENTIONS and DEEDS! 🙏🏻 I resonate with you so much man! You are my best mentor! Thank you again! 🙌

  • @SeanDavid33
    @SeanDavid33 5 лет назад +2

    You are a phenomenal person Ed!!! This video is so great!!! No one is bringing light to this like you.. You are a blessing to us on this earth.. Thank you for sharing this!!! God bless

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад +1

      You’re so welcome! Thank you for the kind words! Happy you liked and enjoyed the video! God Bless!
      What's some more stuff you'd like me to talk about?

  • @crakahhtalia
    @crakahhtalia 5 лет назад

    Mr. Mylett, without knowing it I've been searching for you most of my adult life and recently found you. I would like to impress upon you just how much these messages mean to me and penetrate to my soul. You see, your messages, your voice your delivery, your conviction and especially your faith in; and references to, God reach me in a way no other speaker has. Since discovering you through Andy Frisella and Tom Bilyeu I have been binging on your content and it has only left me thirsty for more.
    I don't know what else to say other than I truly love you in the most hetero manly way possible. Thank you is not adequate for the change you have and will continue to speak into my life.

  • @Artloveandlife
    @Artloveandlife 5 лет назад +17

    I can't tell you how much I appreciate your content and this one especially! I make time to listen every morning. Thankyou and have an amazing day!

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад +2

      My absolute pleasure! Thank you for the love and support. You keep showing up, and i'll keep putting videos out! Have an amazing day!

  • @jimgoldfuss525
    @jimgoldfuss525 5 лет назад +4

    Great way to start a Monday!!! Can't emphasize this message enough. As one who has emerged from the darkness that is depression and anxiety, the truth spoken here is just so powerful - because this is where it all starts. When I understood this, and started taking action - my world changed. This is what I know, this is what I speak about, this is what I coach - this is my passion!! Thanks Ed!!!

  • @austinsmith2756
    @austinsmith2756 4 года назад

    Your "table" analogy about how doubt gets a foothold in our life was brilliant. With a more clear definition, of doubt, I'm certain I will be able to break away the legs of the future doubts that come my way.

  • @number1angel66
    @number1angel66 7 месяцев назад

    Keeping promises to myself is my biggest challenge. I grew up in a dysfunctional family and was married to an abusive narcissist for 24 years. My ex-husband was so controlling that I have been struggling to live independently for the past 14 years. I have made tremendous improvements in my life and will tackle this issue too! Thank you for all you do! Blessings of love and light to all!

  • @dennisrepetitonmiskowski7677
    @dennisrepetitonmiskowski7677 5 лет назад +12

    I love the part about scratch it and build up your self confidence scratched doubt I am a very confident person I can do anything I see. I sent this video to a couple of people that I believe in that have self-doubt thank you I was looking for something like this you read my mind

  • @ElishaCeleste
    @ElishaCeleste 5 лет назад +5

    Awesome video as usual, thank you Ed! MY ONE PROMISE: I'm committed to giving myself 30 minutes every morning with my coffee with NO phone, social media, email etc so I can do my morning journal and create MY OWN inspiration for the day by asking one question that always lights me up: how can I best serve the world with my unique gifts TODAY? I know if I start every day asking that question, what goes on my to-do list will be so much better than if I let other people dictate it with the usual snow-balling distractions.

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад +1

      Great stuff sister, looks like you're really trying to Maxout all areas of your life!
      What's one thing you'll remember from this?

    • @ElishaCeleste
      @ElishaCeleste 5 лет назад

      @@EdMylettShow I started clapping out loud when you said "we're not how we look, we are beautiful souls" and then addressed all of us ladies - THANK YOU for really getting what a human being is on all these levels - physical, mental, emotional, spiritual. We are ALL of these and then some, and...at the end of the day (or the end of a life), what remains is the soul and spirit part of us which will never be extinguished.

  • @georgecasillas7380
    @georgecasillas7380 5 лет назад

    I started worshipping and Thanking God everyday and it is amazing to see the changes in my spirit, I promise to continue my journey with God to inspire my 2 children twins Diego and Miranda abd amazingly they love to wat h your videos before class starts, Thanks

  • @bobburger7372
    @bobburger7372 5 лет назад +1

    Ed what you said hit me. I was really feeling bad about past mistakes, but we are human and my intentions are not to hurt anyone. Great job!

  • @ismilareyes4176
    @ismilareyes4176 5 лет назад +4

    Self confidence sends people to see once value- this works during my recent job interview. It is true that if you believe in yourself, it will positively reflects how people see you as a potential asset to their organization. Thank you for bringing the ariticles about self confidence and persuation, its a game changer ❤ ed mylett

  • @BoldMindHQ
    @BoldMindHQ 5 лет назад +38

    After you're done watching this amazing video :
    .
    .
    How to build UNLIMITED self confidence
    -The solution to self doubt is to
    _"build something BIGGER than doubt"_
    - You can't win when you doubt.
    - more confidence = less self doubt.
    - negative thoughts were planted into you by the external sources (example - Your parents : don't do this or that etc.)
    *GUARD YOUR BELIEFS*
    - You were not born doubtful. you were born _perfect_ , _happy_ .
    - There were no negative self thoughts , doubts they were *somebody's else thoughts*.
    x-----------------------------------------x
    *HOW TO BUILD SELF CONFIDENCE*
    1. Self Confidence is building a reputation with yourself.
    - Keep promises you make to yourself.
    - Self Confidence is an internal game NOT external. ( You don't need an external source to build self confidence ).
    - ASK YOURSELF : _"what is one promise I can make and keep?"_ .
    - *SCRATCH the NEGATIVE THOUGHTS!.*
    - Acknowledge negative thoughts are NOT YOURS.
    - Build self confidence and scratch self doubt.
    *_FLAWED THOUGHTS_*
    #1. I am my possession. *NO YOU ARE NOT!*
    #2. I am my accomplishments. *NO YOU ARE NOT!*
    #3. I am what other people say I am. *NO YOU ARE NOT!*
    ---> don't live for likes and comments on your social media.
    #4. I am what I look like. *NO YOU ARE NOT!*
    ---> you are your soul , spirit , intention , perfectness.
    ---> you are not defined by what you look like , you are defined by the content of your characteristics.
    __________________________
    2. Give yourself credit for the promises.
    - Two B's : Brain & Body
    *Brain* : Generate thoughts like -> _I am good person, I'm kind, gentle, generous, strong, faithful._
    *Body* : Move your body , movement creates self confidence , exercise.
    ___________________________
    3. Give yourself credit for your good intentions.
    - Ask yourself : _"Are my intentions good?"_.
    ___________________________
    4. You have to believe that you DESERVE TO WIN.
    - Believe you deserve to win , believe you are worth winning
    __________________________
    5. OUTWORK everyone and convince yourself to win!
    #MAXOUT

    • @bien.mp4
      @bien.mp4 4 года назад

      thank you so much for this cheat sheet.

  • @gregoryjewell5875
    @gregoryjewell5875 4 года назад

    A friend, out of the blue sent me this video link. I'm facing a surgery tmw to correct damage from a work injury. The self-confidence has been hit hard. But every day, God has sent me a message. A ray of sunshine if you will. Thank you for these words and tips. I knew them, but needed a reminder. God bless you in your mission to help others.

  • @americanmoodswing
    @americanmoodswing 4 года назад

    Ed.... Have you ever thought of being a Pastor ? Your uplifting delivering is obviously evangelical and is most certainly gear towards that possibility... A continued thanks for all you are doing for all of us... beyond grateful and glorifying our Great God ! Keep up this GREAT work !!!

  • @rockerguitarchef
    @rockerguitarchef 5 лет назад +7

    Holy Shit! I think my third eye just opened! It's crazy how much that video hit me just now, especially with that last statement. I have been trying to find that answer and has always been there, i am risking it all, i am testing the boundaries of what i can do in my business. I should give my self props for that, and i am working harder then many others, shit that was good!
    Cheers,
    Nick

  • @FavouredBYyTheMostHigh
    @FavouredBYyTheMostHigh 5 лет назад +4

    I love this man, I'm so grateful for the free content (value) Ed has been giving to us.
    The #1 promise that I'm going to keep to myself starting today is to keep my screen time (usage) under 4 hours/day so that I can achieve a lot more.
    Thank you ❤️

  • @freedomlandscaping7922
    @freedomlandscaping7922 5 лет назад +2

    Great great great!!!!! The way you word things and how you explain is on point!! Thank you for all you do Ed!#maxout

  • @elizabethcooper9815
    @elizabethcooper9815 Год назад +1

    Great video! Everything you said is so on point. Thank you Ed. I can remember when I was younger my mom told me that I couldn't be happy until she was happy. I knew that would never happen..As an adult, I feel for my parents struggles. She felt so boxed in, that she didn't know what else to do but lash at me. We have to remember, they not know what they do. Even if they did at that moment, most don't know how to heal it.
    Many blessings Ed and everyone on this platform. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @azizahassan9308
    @azizahassan9308 5 лет назад +4

    scratch it remembers me something i always say at the gym when ever i feel like i'm done but don't wanna stop till i finish it and that is ''PUSH IT PUSH IT'' , it really helps me. thank you for this great video.

  • @harryjohnson7822
    @harryjohnson7822 5 лет назад +11

    Thank you Ed! Humans helping humans. We ARE made in the image and likeness of God. To me this means we were made to to BE like God and have EVERY POWER that God has. And I believe that FAITH, as in experiencing TODAY what your future vision is in your minds eye (even though there is no evidence in your life right now to support it), activates that very thought of your future vision. AND TURNS IT INTO REALITY FOR YOU!
    Thank you for the inspiration Ed!
    I was feeling worried about my future this morning. Your message completely turned me around. #maxout

  • @patrickoneill5305
    @patrickoneill5305 Год назад

    Take stock of your intentions. Intend good, and know it is worthwhile. This thought alone makes this video a gem. Thank you Ed.

  • @lovecore3828
    @lovecore3828 2 года назад +1

    This is awesome. The enemy does want us to cower and get off track when faced with challenges. Knowing ourselves and keeping this in perspective with faith is key, especially when challenges come up!

  • @lespaul2000
    @lespaul2000 5 лет назад +3

    God bless you and your family Ed. In this Life and the Hereafter. Thank you for sharing all of your knowledge. One thing I noticed about this video, was how focused you were on the viewer. How much you want to help us and how passionate you are. Thank you for all of the energy and time you spend teaching us. God Bless.

  • @Itravelbackintime
    @Itravelbackintime 9 месяцев назад

    Hollywood can tell you who you should be like, the people at your job, teacher at school......but at the end of the day my confidence comes from the very foundation of God's promise about who he says I am, why I was created and the purpose I have in this life that matters. I love your videos Ed and I've subscribed because I want to learn to because a better version of myself and to better serve others to see the bigger picture.

  • @pamelacho5356
    @pamelacho5356 5 лет назад +2

    This video about confidence is exactly what I needed to hear. I don't know exactly where my lack of confidence stems from, but exercise has always been my way of feeling better. Now I can also work on keeping promises to myself, and scratching those negative thoughts. Thank you!

  • @platinumklub3070
    @platinumklub3070 5 лет назад +12

    You’re doing a beautiful job on this planet earth 🙏🏻

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад +1

      Thank you very much, your words are far too kind!
      Give me a few topics I should talk about !

    • @jojoj3056
      @jojoj3056 5 лет назад +1

      Yes you are!!!

  • @miniegarcia4172
    @miniegarcia4172 5 лет назад +4

    @Edmylett this is such a powerful message, so much better than any I have listen. Your message got "muscle, body, soul and skin" all in one.
    Love the "you are not what people think you are, good and bad" among others.

  • @peterbain9461
    @peterbain9461 2 года назад +2

    Found this channel as I needed motivation through a rough time, it’s now turning out to be so much more. I regularly listen and am incredibly motivated every time, thanks very much Ed

  • @jmarkes02
    @jmarkes02 5 лет назад +1

    In each one of your videos I pickup something. In this one I learned the “scratch” trick. This is helping me eliminate negative thinking and negative self talk. Thanks Ed!

  • @RUNNINGWATER
    @RUNNINGWATER 5 лет назад +5

    Love this video! You are just in time Ed I will have to put this video into my system and implement this. Thank you!

  • @bonnieorona
    @bonnieorona 5 лет назад +3

    So awesome!!! Thank you for being such a blessing over and over!!! I loved how you talked about how we are defined by our creator and how we need to give ourselves credit for our good intentions.
    I believe I deserve to win!!! I believe I am worth winning!!!! SHARING!!!

  • @21taneone
    @21taneone 5 лет назад +1

    Be aware when you are speaking with your children. Self empathize and talk to your kids they way you wish the adults in your life would have spoken to you as a child. Great message!

    • @EdMylettShow
      @EdMylettShow  5 лет назад

      BOOM! I couldn't have said it better myself.
      What's some more stuff you'd like me to talk about?

    • @21taneone
      @21taneone 5 лет назад

      @@EdMylettShow I think your delivery is epic. When I hear you speak I sense a strong passion on how to raise kids positively. "They were not your original thoughts" "you weren't born doubting ". I would love to get your clarity and wisdom on how to strike at the root of this issue. How we can raise powerful and confident children instead of all the focus on repairing the broken adults?

  • @taffy-sophiashahbozian7327
    @taffy-sophiashahbozian7327 5 лет назад

    Ed Mylett for President! I totally agree with you. This is so right on. Do all things as unto the Lord!!!!
    I'm looking for the final piece of the puzzle
    I'm challengaged with a life threateng disease, but that's not stopping me. I can outlive the healthest of people
    We only have so many Mondays and summers and Christmas's left.. Live life to the fullest.
    We have all come to this planet for a purpose. Fulfill it Make this place a better place
    share the love, The Spirit of God will lead you.
    When the door appears I will walk through....... Whether I'm Ready or Not!!!!

  • @Yastee
    @Yastee 5 лет назад +5

    have a great day! :D

  • @Naznur
    @Naznur 5 лет назад +15

    Annie Jaffrey brought me here, great video
    👍👍

  • @user-wh8ko2il4p
    @user-wh8ko2il4p 5 месяцев назад

    So appreciate Ed Mylett! Totally in congruency with my passion to lift women to love themselves and be beautiful accept the gift they are! My 2 boys who are in college- Garrett wrestles U of M ..has book “One More”… I am so happy as a mom he’s feeding his mind/spirit with nutritious info from Ed. My other son Trett listening to Ed’s Podcasts. So so thankful of Ed Mylett! 💪🏻❤️🦋

  • @adriaellen
    @adriaellen 4 года назад

    Wow. I just found this. I'm an older mother of three and, my parents divorced 4 years ago, and now I've been suffering from major anxiety and panic attacks, the real ones... scary ones, where I fly out of my bed at night feeling like I hadn't been breathing and close to death, not the kind that are just joked about. I think you hit my problem spot on. I will work on it, and pray for me that they will go away. Blessings to you, THANK YOU!

  • @SarrosLandscaping
    @SarrosLandscaping 5 лет назад +3

    Ed, your messages are awesome. You speak from a very genuine place and your authenticity is clear. That is well received and much appreciated in this business of helping others be their best self. I wish you weren’t doing anything with Grant Cardone. No judgement on you. My personal opinion is that your more aligned with Tony Robbins. Keep up the great content.

  • @BoldMindHQ
    @BoldMindHQ 5 лет назад +7

    Your timings are so great ed
    My exams are starting next month so this is what i wanted as my self confidence goes down during these months
    Thanks ed :)

  • @paulinekhamou3199
    @paulinekhamou3199 3 года назад

    Declaring ... My God shall supply for ALL my needs over lack and limitations. Phil 4:19 ♥️ Thank You Ed for operating & sharing your gifts.

  • @ireneserafin2896
    @ireneserafin2896 3 года назад +2

    Ed! I’m so grateful to have been introduced to what you know and who you are! I can’t wait to listen to more and apply this to my day to day! God bless you and your family!!!

  • @spacestorm8525
    @spacestorm8525 5 лет назад +5

    You' re my best mentor! Now let's get to the business, could you make video basic on self-improvement where you would put your top books to read?

  • @TheTerrypcurtin
    @TheTerrypcurtin 5 лет назад +3

    I burned the boats. I cant live my goals and dreams with one foot in someone else's.
    Dispenza had a man who quit using the handicapped parking while healing himself.
    He was so right.
    All in Ed. We will meet one day. My plane at Signature next to yours. I feel it. I did it before. I can do it again.

  • @annettefluit3496
    @annettefluit3496 5 лет назад

    This message is for me today. Giving myself more credit is what I haven't done. It's been a real journey so far. As a person of faith, yes I am favored.
    I've been believing the lies too long. And I'm on a journey to change that.
    My coach says exactly what you are saying.
    My thoughts change like a swinging baseball bat.
    My favorite part is keeping the promises to ourselves.

  • @CoreyMFR
    @CoreyMFR 3 года назад

    Ed, Lions Den Live was FIRE. My wife wrote down one thing. "The quality of your emotions equals the quality of your life". THANK YOU for "Showing Up".

  • @mattytommy6460
    @mattytommy6460 5 лет назад +4

    Ed! I just want to acknowledge your presence, energy, mission and just darn right belief! I know this was built over the years and stacking it upon decades and decades. I love the fact that you have this presence built through your dedication and work ethic. Let me ask you a Q: what type of incantations and other self-image/concept strategies you utilize to magnify your (self confidence)? and to add on to that, I am just curious what type of things do you eliminate (e.g. tv advertisements, a extension that blocks RUclips (recommendations), any further resources to help all these wonderful people build self confidence and also eliminate any triggers or stimulus that would destroy self-confidence. I appreciate everyone, much love! Let's go people. You are all fucking great at what you do. I hope you all genuinely feel me sending you love and gratitude and go get after it!

  • @Xscapeplan01
    @Xscapeplan01 5 лет назад +40

    Self doubt has ruined my Life!!!

    • @RafaelRodriguez-vh5ld
      @RafaelRodriguez-vh5ld 5 лет назад +9

      You can always make a decision to change that. Start By having positive affirmations EX: "I believe i n myself"

    • @ryanackert1536
      @ryanackert1536 4 года назад +3

      You can totally build it back James. You've got this

    • @ryanackert1536
      @ryanackert1536 4 года назад +1

      You can totally build it back James. You've got this

    • @natasharebecca7713
      @natasharebecca7713 3 года назад +1

      Self doubt had done the same to me until I decided to say put a stop

  • @bertgoedeme1737
    @bertgoedeme1737 3 года назад

    I've been in therapy for 6 months overcoming addiction-related depression, this sums it all up... Made me cry! I need to watch this every day

  • @catherinecates2425
    @catherinecates2425 5 лет назад

    My son and I have a very tough relationship with extremely poor communication.
    I’m not sure how this came to be but I am determined that it will change. Last night I told him I wanted him to be ready to go in the morning 15 minutes prior to his usual time so that we could go over the leadership qualities.
    We accomplished this, this morning and he actually came to my room about 22 minutes early. We then talked about what we are grateful for,what we wanted to leave behind, and how we will accomplish that.
    Then we still had time to listen to 10 minutes of this video. I have already listen to it and was encouraged by your stating that even parenting requires confidence, I intend to build on this confidence!
    He left the house with both of us in good spirits, better than the vast majority of mornings from the past. Welcome to new beginnings.

  • @jayong1977
    @jayong1977 5 лет назад +4

    Very motivating thank you for this moving message!

  • @attentiverealtypropertyman9550
    @attentiverealtypropertyman9550 5 лет назад +3

    You are a great speaker with a good heart.

  • @alisonmacomber6171
    @alisonmacomber6171 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Ed! I have struggled with negative self talk my whole life. I feel empowered to break this habit in my life as I begin keeping the promises I make to myself. Good stuff! Thank you again!

  • @jamiemarkel6654
    @jamiemarkel6654 5 лет назад +2

    My promise is to not let my illness define me!

  • @failforwardfast8609
    @failforwardfast8609 5 лет назад +4

    "In old by the way" love you brother, love your humility and humor. I'm old too😀💥.

  • @attentionlabel
    @attentionlabel 5 лет назад +16

    Outstanding video. I learned a lot. Thank you for making this powerful content. 💪

  • @sukottoshinobe7360
    @sukottoshinobe7360 3 года назад

    Ed I have been in the business for 6 years now and have always seen you as a great leader in the company and a great teacher. Thanks for helping me get through the journey you went through all those years. I saw what you built and know I can too😎 I’ll be a 3 million earner in no time

  • @mayakatzgolan8914
    @mayakatzgolan8914 4 года назад

    Hi Ed! This is so true and powerful, thank you. My name is Maya and I am from Israel. I teach people how to overcome cancer, from my own personal experience with a stage 4 cancer to total remission and regaining full health. Positive thoughts and overcoming fear and desperation are absolutely critical to producing success with your health. Thank you, and I will keep on following you! :)
    Maya Katz Golan / Basic Challenge