Coko Talks About Her Bipolar Depression | SWV & XSCAPE: The Queens of R&B Sneak Peek S1 E3 | Bravo

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  • @whitneyfan9019
    @whitneyfan9019 Год назад +1795

    Something is wrong with Tocha. She’s extremely narcissistic and can’t stop lying. Tocha and her husband are shady. I really believe Tamika.

    • @nadzl118wilson9
      @nadzl118wilson9 Год назад +162

      Every time Latoca comes on the camera I feel this dark energy she has a dark cloud over her

    • @MB87659
      @MB87659 Год назад

      It's her now because that's what she has learn from Rocky. I believe it's him. I feel Latocha has Stockholm syndrome. I said this for years. He tells her what to say and do. She don't make no moves/decisions without him. I guarantee the longer the show goes on. You will see his true colors. To her it's love. All we can do is pray for her.

    • @none8726
      @none8726 Год назад +30

      Maybe she’s also just really reserved and on tv if comes off as dark… I felt this on rnb divas. Just trying to think of alternatives…

    • @kashking2276
      @kashking2276 Год назад +53

      Tocha bout to fall hard… again. Y’all better pray it don’t be worse this time.

    • @aiconic10
      @aiconic10 Год назад +58

      @@none8726 You're not making any sense. LaTocha has an attitude problem and a narcissist problem. Simple as that.

  • @CheHolloway90
    @CheHolloway90 Год назад +1278

    I love how positive and nurturing Taj is

    • @stacyr4768
      @stacyr4768 Год назад +31

      I really like that she doesn’t throw her marriage in others face .

    • @CozyAmbientAscent
      @CozyAmbientAscent Год назад +25

      You can be that for others, genuinely when you love and put yourself first. That's what Tamika needs and deserves.

    • @Godslight1970s
      @Godslight1970s Год назад +5

      100%!

    • @C-Lyfe85
      @C-Lyfe85 Год назад +3

      ​@@briana3792
      Exactly they're not combative, which is why they ended up marrying high-profile multi-millionaire men

    • @Alexandria.Washington
      @Alexandria.Washington Год назад +1

      @@C-Lyfe85 I’m very combative and still married a high value multimillionaire husband! He loves my combative and competitive spirit and not intimidated by a strong woman! I’m a high value multimillionaire woman as well.

  • @lynwilson9259
    @lynwilson9259 Год назад +1420

    I love Taj's personality and the maturity she brings to every environment. S/o to Coko for keeping it real too!

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls Год назад

      Coko need to stop grabbing females booties when hugging them. Not a good look at all

    • @PrinceRacQuan
      @PrinceRacQuan Год назад +5

      She's too nice. It's almost annoying

    • @brettsfav4
      @brettsfav4 Год назад +66

      @@PrinceRacQuan Yep because being mean and nasty is the way to go...😒

    • @toshizzle2004
      @toshizzle2004 Год назад +37

      @@brettsfav4 lol right being a good person and nice is annoying? Wow

    • @lynwilson9259
      @lynwilson9259 Год назад +43

      @@PrinceRacQuanShe brings balance. It's refreshing to act your age and carry it well. I would add her to my friend group ANY DAY! Lol. Typically, the opposite behavior is expected of us.

  • @Rdevereaux718
    @Rdevereaux718 Год назад +590

    The fact that Tocha never brought up the money just only the “disrespect toward her mother”, let’s me further know that she stole that money.😂😂😂

    • @RP.123
      @RP.123 Год назад +100

      Ok!! Tocha talks in circles while Tamika and Kandi gives actual details and timelines

    • @lumedeon8471
      @lumedeon8471 Год назад +58

      Exactly! You lying about me stealing your money is the problem!😂 But Tamika ain’t lying so the problem is that you spilled those beans when mama told you to STFU about it.

    • @chysel4860
      @chysel4860 Год назад +8

      She don't want to discuss it with anyone but her family. What's wrong with that?

    • @fridaythe13thgame57
      @fridaythe13thgame57 Год назад +9

      😂😂😂 exactly...I searching for this comment

    • @fridaythe13thgame57
      @fridaythe13thgame57 Год назад +7

      ​​@@chysel4860 because why is that topic? When evening else is? Plus it happened to Tamika and she doesn't want to discuss it off cameras... She wants to discuss it with family so it can stay hidden.. Don't be naive

  • @toomuchfourU
    @toomuchfourU Год назад +688

    SWV needs a show again

  • @mschocolitdiva
    @mschocolitdiva Год назад +342

    BRAVO!!! We need more than 6 episodes. THIS is what we mean when we say REALITY TV!

    • @tarodman
      @tarodman Год назад +33

      Especially on the heels of that terrible Potomac season. I’m HOOKED to this Queens of R&B!

    • @atashajordan
      @atashajordan Год назад +9

      Facts!!!

    • @b2bgood870
      @b2bgood870 Год назад +3

      All reality shows should be shorter with no fillers lol

    • @mschocolitdiva
      @mschocolitdiva Год назад +6

      @@b2bgood870 I totally get that, but it seems to be significant stories to follow here. I agree with “no fluff” though🤣

    • @rayshawnellis4281
      @rayshawnellis4281 Год назад +11

      they only got 6 episodes they need atleast 15

  • @jasminecaldwell6118
    @jasminecaldwell6118 Год назад +486

    I don’t think Tocha realizes how crazy she sounds. Talking about going solo after the group JUST got back together. And I’m so glad Taj said “I know y’all ain’t fighting over no little booty” cause she sound crazy with that rationale too!

    • @SW-ry3ni
      @SW-ry3ni Год назад +32

      I think tocha likes being described as little so she keeps pushing the narrative as negative to get the attention of being described as little.

    • @stacyr4768
      @stacyr4768 Год назад +48

      Tocha’s husband have her delusional

    • @Unbought
      @Unbought Год назад +18

      @@SW-ry3ni she hasn’t been fat in almost 30 years though.

    • @dfoxxy
      @dfoxxy Год назад +38

      TAJ WAS ON IT, because Tocha lying. Its some deep rooted issues there.

    • @hydrangeas_lover
      @hydrangeas_lover Год назад +1

      Her husband is her puppet master. She does not have an original thought. She tried to go solo back in the day and all her was crickets. She not getting her blessings behaving the way she does.

  • @blackheartbev3098
    @blackheartbev3098 Год назад +544

    I had no idea Coco was dealing with this. She's amazing for talking about it so candidly

    • @Cloudetower
      @Cloudetower Год назад +13

      its Coko with a k boo

    • @tonnymitch4016
      @tonnymitch4016 Год назад +12

      @@Cloudetower well boo let ppl spell it how they want to spell it … tf

    • @Cloudetower
      @Cloudetower Год назад +14

      @@tonnymitch4016 ok toni pitch

    • @dantefreely5850
      @dantefreely5850 Год назад +23

      She has a YT channel "The Coko Cure" where she talks about it and a lot of other stuff

    • @tonnymitch4016
      @tonnymitch4016 Год назад +5

      @@Cloudetower ok Nicole Lame

  • @Forever20young
    @Forever20young Год назад +624

    5:15 Shout out to Coko for breaking down the barriers and taboos surrounding MENTAL HEALTH❕As a person who also grew up in a black Christian household, many black religious parents feel like you can just go to church ⛪️ and pray about your problems and that’s it, which is both impractical and deeply problematic. 🤦🏽‍♂️
    Ahhh… actually God gave us doctors 👨🏽‍⚕️🩺 and medicine to use for our benefit, and we seem to feel comfortable using doctors for everything else except for mental health, which is sometimes sadly, what keeps us from functioning and peaking at our fullest potential. 🤷🏽‍♂️😐

    • @obibraxton2232
      @obibraxton2232 Год назад +26

      Right on !!

    • @Bobfrommarketing_
      @Bobfrommarketing_ Год назад +15

      I thought it was just me and my crazy family 🥹

    • @Forever20young
      @Forever20young Год назад +15

      @@Bobfrommarketing_
      Nah girl, I’m right there
      with ya. 😩🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @vetocrown
      @vetocrown Год назад +8

      Preach!!!!!!

    • @brettsfav4
      @brettsfav4 Год назад +7

      💯💯💯💯

  • @benleung6331
    @benleung6331 Год назад +128

    I grew very fond of Taj when I found out she went back to school and earned a college degree after SWV disbanded, which is highly unusual for someone who had reached so much success in the music industry. It showed a lot of maturity and dedication. The fact that she tried to be the mediator between LaTocha and Tamika is entirely consistent with my impression of her and she took LaTocha to see a picture of Xscape in the museum to remind her what it was like at the beginning is very thoughtful of her

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 Год назад +3

      💥💥💥Real talk, love it all too ... that Latocha mmm mm mm miserable to say the least now strategically using the Bravo Platform to expand her supposed dream to go solo career as the groups are on this reality show and about kick off a collaborative show... speak volumes about her and her overtly involved husband living vicariously thru his wife musical abilities...

    • @buddhafortune6166
      @buddhafortune6166 Год назад +1

      Taj is the best

  • @aniqueg2
    @aniqueg2 Год назад +261

    Taj seems like a beautiful person. I loved watching her when she was on survivor.

  • @devontafranklin5068
    @devontafranklin5068 Год назад +566

    I loveeee this show. I love how authentic and real it is. The only one who is acting out for the cameras is Tocha 😒🙄

    • @talibmoore1417
      @talibmoore1417 Год назад +19

      I'm obsessed with it . I'm gon need a season 2

    • @b2bgood870
      @b2bgood870 Год назад +12

      Tamika did say she said she going to act out on this show

    • @devontafranklin5068
      @devontafranklin5068 Год назад +8

      @@talibmoore1417 yesssss, even add another group like 702. I heard there was a lot of drama in that group too

    • @devontafranklin5068
      @devontafranklin5068 Год назад +6

      @@b2bgood870 after seeing what she has been dealing with all her life, I can see why. A person can only take so much

    • @talibmoore1417
      @talibmoore1417 Год назад

      @@devontafranklin5068 love them I would be here for it

  • @TelliVision87
    @TelliVision87 Год назад +207

    Taj can even see through Tocha's mess it's crazy. Shout out to CoKo for speaking on mental health. This show is the perfect balance of drama and funny, good hearted moments

  • @obibraxton2232
    @obibraxton2232 Год назад +486

    Coko having bi-polar makes soo much sense especially as someone with a personality disorder myself. Loved the scene with coko and her friends very relatable 🙌🏾

    • @trent_king
      @trent_king Год назад +13

      I hate when people identify themselves as having a personality disorder. Social instincts and conduct are not supposed to be universally indistinct. My biggest obstacles in life came from me self identifying as having a personality disorder. Luckily i learned that people will use that humility against you! We all emote differently period

    • @lanishajackson2677
      @lanishajackson2677 Год назад +15

      It's good to relate. Stay strong brother were are not alone 🕊

    • @aladynamedSusan
      @aladynamedSusan Год назад +9

      ​@@trent_king yup once ppl know you'll always be the crazy one. Sad but true

    • @naysgaming
      @naysgaming Год назад +16

      @@aladynamedSusan so, who cares what people think. i’m fine being the crazy person.:))

    • @angiebenedek7039
      @angiebenedek7039 Год назад +1

      Omg. No Coco.. you are calling all the crazy people to you.. should have kept it to yourself

  • @MsMoneyonMyMind
    @MsMoneyonMyMind Год назад +257

    I just love Cokos transparency about her diagnosis. I used to look up to her so much, like she was a big cousin when I was a kid bc of her style and singing ability. I coulda done w/o hearing abt her 🐱 but she’s having fun w her friends so it’s all good lol

    • @simonsez1787
      @simonsez1787 Год назад +5

      On the 🐱 Ikr?! 🥴🫣

    • @jaredlhulum
      @jaredlhulum Год назад +1

      Speak for yourself!

    • @MsMoneyonMyMind
      @MsMoneyonMyMind Год назад

      @@jaredlhulum uhhh that’s what that was … clue #1 I lead with *I*

  • @princessbc9791
    @princessbc9791 Год назад +81

    I just love Taj, she is so sweet and positive. I love how she tries to bring people together.

  • @toshizzle2004
    @toshizzle2004 Год назад +245

    Swv should have their own show again I love them and their personalities.

    • @princessamani
      @princessamani Год назад +18

      Nah the producers will force them into drama for a storyline I like seeing them get a long

    • @toshizzle2004
      @toshizzle2004 Год назад +4

      @@princessamani that's what I'm worried about! Smh but they are awesome for tv

    • @re_re_cee
      @re_re_cee Год назад +1

      They had their own show in WE and Coko talked about this years ago

    • @brendaspringfield
      @brendaspringfield Год назад +1

      @@princessamani Exactly

    • @A_Real_CA_Final_Expense_Agent
      @A_Real_CA_Final_Expense_Agent Год назад +1

      And they've accepted each other for who they are . And have gone through / going through their healing. ❤❤

  • @Gods1andonly
    @Gods1andonly Год назад +268

    We get so tired of Tocha and her LIES! Their Mom is problematic as well. Siblings should never be fighting for a parents love. Nor should a parent show favoritism among their children! Tamika put your boundaries in place. Behaviors such as your Mom and Tocha will never change. They're NARRCISITIC!

    • @toomuchfourU
      @toomuchfourU Год назад +1

      You talking about something you don't know

    • @deans9459
      @deans9459 Год назад +11

      It’s their opinion, just like your statement!

    • @lirrajae12
      @lirrajae12 Год назад +21

      MAAM!!!! did you see how quickly she does it tho... She knows her lil antics are ridiculous that is why she switched up the lie with Taj so fast. Tocha is a hard pass for me.

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 Год назад +3

      Here here her mom's verbal abuse is vicious and displaced

    • @Gods1andonly
      @Gods1andonly Год назад +2

      @@janjishakes85
      Agreed - I can't wait to see the interview with their Dad. Tamikia looks just like him.

  • @Bribrig4l
    @Bribrig4l Год назад +92

    I truly believe that Tocha's husband is the one who has held her career back since 1998 and will continue to hold her back. He tells her what to do and what not to do!

    • @greatvaluechoppedonions8130
      @greatvaluechoppedonions8130 Год назад +8

      A narcissist will sabotage your career on purpose.

    • @aaroncohoon5603
      @aaroncohoon5603 Год назад +2

      He’s the common denominator;he is always behind these sneaky solo deals 🤦🏽‍♂️ 😅

    • @cocoteeeie
      @cocoteeeie Год назад +4

      He is, he’s hyping her up to go solo when she should be focusing on doing group shows first. She can fund her solo career with the money she gets from touring. They act like it’s one or the other.

    • @juber0411
      @juber0411 Год назад +4

      He is using her and it's soo obvious. He acts like he loves and supports her because she's the cash cow. He contributes to the sisters dysfunction and their mom contributes to their family's dysfunction and it's sad. Tocha is vulnerable and used to abuse and manipulation which is why she the way she is.

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 Год назад +1

      ​@@juber0411 wow sad...he's such a manipulator and she's sooo in love him... who has eyes can see str8 through him... no doubt Tamika's telling the truth

  • @ruffinboijrp
    @ruffinboijrp Год назад +224

    SWV Some Real Grown Women They’re So Real & Mature Black Queens Those The Kinda Women We Need To See More Of ❤💪🏾👑

    • @natep461
      @natep461 Год назад +10

      They are now.. it didn’t used to be that way lol. They used to get down!!

    • @rlhendrix09
      @rlhendrix09 Год назад +10

      ​@Nate P I was thinking the same thing... SWV had their drama on their reality show. Taj and Coko use to bump heads and Lelee use to be in her own little world just doing and saying whatever

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 Год назад +1

      💖💖💖💖💥💥💥💫💫💫 yes indeed ...disgusted seeing those other reality shows with women of color always, always with the negativty at continous discord and 'fighting' ...
      More episodes plz yepiee❤

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 Год назад +1

      ​​​@@natep461 true they'd mention it a few times as well and said now they just do what needs to be done get the show on the road...that's why this is so on time and powerful setting examples; showing growth; how they've evolved...that others can strive to do... tnx Nate much luv

    • @ruffinboijrp
      @ruffinboijrp Год назад +1

      @@janjishakes85 💯💯

  • @Ms.Opinionated
    @Ms.Opinionated Год назад +103

    Coko keeping it real.....things are flowing!

  • @gi-gijay4114
    @gi-gijay4114 Год назад +116

    I so appreciate her honesty about her illness!!!

  • @sw5547
    @sw5547 Год назад +121

    Why does it seem like Tocha is trying to change the narrative?? She keeps bringing up “oh tamika disrespected my mom, and because I’m the oldest I can say that’s not right”… that would be a fair excuse if it were true. Tamika didn’t disrespect your mom, you and your mom have disrespected Tamika her whole life… that was pent up anger being manifest from years of manipulation and being looked at as less than.

    • @QiyasDenae
      @QiyasDenae Год назад +9

      Right. They were beefing long before that.

    • @SirDave
      @SirDave Год назад +5

      Cause she is.

    • @Bloooooooooooppp
      @Bloooooooooooppp Год назад +10

      Classic deflection.

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 Год назад +1

      Boom spot on ... Andy and few Housewives have said you can't fool the audience...the cameras capture it all and we see thru the bull Latocha and her mom ought to be embarrassed and ashamed...glad this reality show enabled Tamika to speak her truth and get the facts out in the open... you can feel her tears and see the deep hurt in her eyes...hard to think she'd be lying when she said she has receipts and stopped her friend from arresting her sister...watching how her mom quickly explod and wanted the camera off; going outside to continue her verbal abuse then continuing it at Tamika's to manipulate her is sickening mann those hurt xyz mothers don't understand the damaged they do to their children sigh

    • @BAKERY_CLOSED
      @BAKERY_CLOSED Год назад +2

      That's what happens when people are lying. They dig for any petty thing to be mad about to try to justify holding a grudge.

  • @RP.123
    @RP.123 Год назад +72

    Kudos to SWV bringing the positive vibes. And I love Coko’s transparency

  • @Luvlysis4u
    @Luvlysis4u Год назад +32

    Coko made me laugh😂 I'm so happy for her and her getting her mental health in check. She is a beautiful woman and deserves to feel true happiness. Taj is always the cool vibe. Lotocha seems so guarded and difficult.

  • @kunglaoshat1250
    @kunglaoshat1250 Год назад +62

    Love Coco’s transparency about her diagnosis. Bipolar has such a negative stigma around it, but she’s showing that with proper treatment it’s possible to still live a full life.

  • @shericebsperspective
    @shericebsperspective Год назад +88

    i KNOW THAT BIPOLAR STORY ALL TOO WELL. If you know you know. I'm happy she went to get help! 💛

  • @tash_tash711cr6
    @tash_tash711cr6 Год назад +242

    I know y'all ain't fighting over no little booty - Taj 😂

    • @ntrock22
      @ntrock22 Год назад +17

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 Год назад +40

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 right!! Taj was like what in the 8th grade is going on here ?!??! 😜😜😜

    • @quadrailindsay7904
      @quadrailindsay7904 Год назад +10

      I feel like kandi and tocha have the best bodies in group bc they look the most natural tamika and tiny got a bbl

    • @classylady107
      @classylady107 Год назад +11

      Taj put things into perspective. Plus you gotta have a thick skin in this business

    • @LadyT06
      @LadyT06 Год назад +2

      😅😂😂😂

  • @Misstaryn
    @Misstaryn Год назад +76

    Definitely identify with CoKo's story. I'm so glad she went and got help.

  • @saaypark
    @saaypark Год назад +96

    You can see Tocha has left Xscape in her past based on how she was looking at that mural of the group. Her “yeahs” were very telling of how she feels

    • @tonnymitch4016
      @tonnymitch4016 Год назад +22

      Exactly.. she was acting as if it wasn’t her and her group up there on such a monumental mural with other greats smh

    • @Sharon247
      @Sharon247 Год назад +10

      Yeah it does seem like she's checked out there. And if she is she is. She seems to really want to do her own solo thing singing the kinds of songs she wants etc, as she's expressed. I hope she works it out the right way with the group, and go head on. 😊

    • @MissBeeMarie
      @MissBeeMarie Год назад

      It’s because her face is at the back of the picture. Tamika was upfront.

    • @tonnymitch4016
      @tonnymitch4016 Год назад +1

      @@MissBeeMarie her face was not in the back.. Tocha was right there in the front..Kandi is the one who was barely seen on the pic

    • @MissBeeMarie
      @MissBeeMarie Год назад

      @@tonnymitch4016 Thanks for clarifying. 🙂

  • @samk_beautytap2020
    @samk_beautytap2020 Год назад +19

    I'm so happy that Coko is speaking about her mental health journey! Prayers to Coko...I love me some SWV!❤

  • @lakeshaclarkrealtor3062
    @lakeshaclarkrealtor3062 Год назад +16

    Love the scene with Taj and LaTosha, “I wanted You to See Yourself “!

  • @mickeyallen92
    @mickeyallen92 Год назад +33

    Im glad Coko got help when she needed it. Ppl always said she was “mean” or “stuck up” but I always felt like she was battling something. I also think her divorce helped her grow.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Год назад +6

      All could be true.

  • @montaeharris3464
    @montaeharris3464 Год назад +29

    Coco said I'm 52 but this kat is 21 let me know sis thank you for opening up about mental health it's still taboo in our families and communities

  • @jacquelinemartin7966
    @jacquelinemartin7966 Год назад +31

    I so appreciate and love Coko's openess and transparency. I also deal with bipolar depression so its refreshing and comforting to hear her be so candid about it!

  • @XavierSmithXcellence
    @XavierSmithXcellence Год назад +4

    Coko: Enlightening other black folk on mental illness and how treatment is available.
    Taj: Showing positive, constructive dialog that's meant to problem-solve and focus on the end goal.
    Tocha: No comment.

  • @dentdays
    @dentdays Год назад +50

    Coko is going to be the standout star from this show by the end. I can tell! 🙌🏽

  • @Jamilah1117
    @Jamilah1117 Год назад +88

    The bipolar totally makes sense with Coko

  • @niaholder9168
    @niaholder9168 Год назад +8

    why we absolutely love Taj
    she has such a beautiful spirit ❤

  • @loubabycoles5957
    @loubabycoles5957 Год назад +10

    I love this scene with Coko. It’s so “normal” to be so enraged enough to wanna harm somebody that we don’t realize that it’s actually NOT “normal” at all and absolutely harmful to our own mental health to feel and think so negatively. I hope that people can become more comfortable seeking help or with talking about these feelings because it’s easier to keep it to oneself or to let things pile up but it actually feels better to address it and free yourself of it.

  • @bbsteele671
    @bbsteele671 Год назад +14

    CoCo talking about her mental health is huge. We all have our things! It's nice to know someone I've admired for so long decided to get help too!!😊

  • @skyyhyy77
    @skyyhyy77 Год назад +6

    Makes sense now. Coko was a Rollercoaster in the group. I'm glad she was diagnosed and taking meds to manage because she's much more leveled out and pleasant now. Seems to be more agreeable in alot of ways

  • @smilebigiloveyou
    @smilebigiloveyou Год назад +181

    Tocha is a liar. Smh watching this is so cringe worthy. She’s not answering questions about her and her sister’s relationship because she knows she is wrong and can not lie about the stolen money. There are receipts…smdh this is sad.

    • @angiebenedek7039
      @angiebenedek7039 Год назад +3

      Where are the receipts then? Paperwork please?!

    • @chysel4860
      @chysel4860 Год назад +1

      ​@@angiebenedek7039 Ikr. Prove what you say or shut up about it.

    • @GoddessV_
      @GoddessV_ Год назад +4

      ​@@chysel4860 or sue for defamation if you're being lied on

    • @chriscooks5437
      @chriscooks5437 Год назад +2

      @@GoddessV_ Say that!!! Wacky & Bullwinkle won't sue, even if they could afford it.

    • @chriscooks5437
      @chriscooks5437 Год назад

      @@angiebenedek7039 Your name is traitorous.

  • @domaswallace9243
    @domaswallace9243 Год назад +29

    All of these girls are so fun & talented .
    May I take the time to say
    On top of the ladies being pretty on the outside
    It’s a pleasure seeing Taj
    She has a pure spirit
    Bro bro

  • @tequilla-mc5ss
    @tequilla-mc5ss Год назад +1

    Coko the GOAT So proud of you❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @gracevictorious3922
    @gracevictorious3922 Год назад +20

    Drama aside, Tocha has an amazing voice ✨

    • @nubianecutie
      @nubianecutie Год назад +3

      That's probably her beef. Note for note, she may be a better singer than Kandi. But, Kandi has been able to go further on her own than her.

    • @MoiraPraline
      @MoiraPraline Год назад +1

      She was always my favorite singer of the group…now I’m disappointed because damn her attitude stinks!

  • @latyshal.2286
    @latyshal.2286 Год назад +9

    I appreciate Coko sharing her experience with having a mental illness. I'm so glad Coko realized she needed help and got the help she needed. We need more of these honest and transparent conversations about mental illness because it helps get rid of the stigma.

  • @joierichardson6029
    @joierichardson6029 Год назад +24

    I love coko! Lol and I’m glad she’s in a better mental health space!! 🎉

  • @iamyourgod.2490
    @iamyourgod.2490 Год назад +1

    Coko was always my fave💕

  • @ladymack1799
    @ladymack1799 Год назад +20

    It’s crazy that on the show from a few years ago “Still Kickin It”, Rocky was asking Latocha to get things right with Kandi, so they can start touring because they knew they couldn’t get far without Kandi. Now, that Tocha’s name is back out there .. she feels as if she doesn’t need them anymore. Just like she did back in the 90s. She uses people at her disposal.

    • @nubianecutie
      @nubianecutie Год назад +4

      Am I just being mean...this solo thing seems so dumb. Is anyone checking for a Latocha album?! It would never occur to me to buy it or listen. But, if she was in an Xscape album, I definitely would.

    • @patriciajones6155
      @patriciajones6155 Год назад +1

      her name is out there for the wrong reasons. she tanked her career again! envy jealousy will make u lose ur blessings every time

  • @ieshajacobs
    @ieshajacobs Год назад +4

    I can't believe coko said she thought about killing someone thank you God removing that from her she can open up and tell her story it takes a real woman with courage to do that and I love her god bless you girl💪🔥🙏🏾💯

  • @leighjohn6968
    @leighjohn6968 Год назад +4

    This made Tocha look some what better.Taj is a miracle worker, I just love her!

  • @chavonnefletcher6163
    @chavonnefletcher6163 Год назад +4

    These sneak peeks are giving me life, loving the series so far.

  • @MikaWood2470
    @MikaWood2470 Год назад +3

    CoKo! I love your openness and honesty. Taj is just caring and loving..

  • @thatgirlPAIGE94
    @thatgirlPAIGE94 Год назад +24

    Love love love Coko but I remember years ago on their WE TV reality show that I said I think she’s either depressed or bipolar 🙏🏾

  • @MsNisha023
    @MsNisha023 Год назад +4

    Latocha still going to be looking for a record deal at 70 , everyone is not meant to be a solo artist

  • @kenyattehavard6074
    @kenyattehavard6074 Год назад +3

    Thank you 💕 Coko for sharing your ordeal with bipolar depression. I too deal with it and it's an ongoing process. I'm doing good at the moment. I applaud you for sharing, it REALLY helps me when I hear how you're doing and how you get through. I love you more for opening up your story! ❤❤❤

  • @nicoleridgley5147
    @nicoleridgley5147 Год назад +11

    2017, omg she’s been suffering for so long, and I’m so proud that she stepped out and talked about it. Sadly, I’m still scared to step out

    • @fyecarmel2012
      @fyecarmel2012 Год назад +2

      Don't let that fear keep you from taking the steps needed to find your happiness and true life balance

    • @shymcg
      @shymcg Год назад

      @@fyecarmel2012 preach!!!
      That part 👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽

    • @louisianatexan9239
      @louisianatexan9239 Год назад +1

      Don't be afraid to step out. As a matter of fact: you just did!😇 There is so much support and resources to be found. Keep taking those steps. Good luck to you.

  • @politicaljunkie1967
    @politicaljunkie1967 Год назад +19

    We really need to make a focus on diagnosing folks early so we know what this "thing" is. I was diagnosed with ADHD AT 53. Think of all the tools that could have been used to make studying & concentration easier. ijs

    • @marissar.359
      @marissar.359 Год назад +1

      Early diagnosing is definitely needed. I unknowingly suffered from depression for 10 years before I got officially diagnosed.

  • @meganhood6928
    @meganhood6928 Год назад +95

    Tocha has always been the problem!!! I like Taj she see through the bull

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 Год назад +13

      Directly 😂… to damn grown and wise to be fooled by the clown itself

    • @michelleknight61
      @michelleknight61 Год назад +1

      Right and I always thought it was Kandi 🥴

    • @shanithasmith9973
      @shanithasmith9973 Год назад +1

      Tocha is the David Ruffin in the group😂😂😂 it's always one

    • @meganhood6928
      @meganhood6928 Год назад +1

      @@michelleknight61 right me too?

  • @rodneyharris7618
    @rodneyharris7618 Год назад +46

    I'm so happy you got help .We as Black people's really need to deal with are mental health period.

  • @BRANDNEW715
    @BRANDNEW715 Год назад +4

    I know that's right!!!! Coko!!!❤❤❤

  • @meganmyers7826
    @meganmyers7826 Год назад +2

    Coco thank you for sharing. People seem to frown on the subject, when instead the subject needs to be seen with love and understanding .

  • @clynnjohnson418
    @clynnjohnson418 Год назад +6

    SWV really shines on this show!!

  • @obibraxton2232
    @obibraxton2232 Год назад +106

    Tocha and this flipping record deal. I just feel like the project will flop. She just does not have the right energy and I’m inclined to believe Tamika over her.

    • @aaroncohoon5603
      @aaroncohoon5603 Год назад +27

      I just question why does she use “getting the group back” to sneak in a solo deal like every time the group comes together

    • @Karabo_Mash
      @Karabo_Mash Год назад +17

      Right there with you. There is something about her energy that tells me those girls aren't lying.

    • @KaraBaheir
      @KaraBaheir Год назад +21

      It’s def gonna flop! You never win when you play dirty and you never win when you sow seeds of evil and lies! That lady is unhappy and will NEVER see success or happiness bc of how her and Rocky are!

    • @dayum_mi
      @dayum_mi Год назад +12

      Then sits going to be Kandi’s fault

    • @AllthingsBaaba
      @AllthingsBaaba Год назад +2

      I Agreee

  • @MariWhitaker
    @MariWhitaker Год назад +6

    Taj speaks the real & I love her ❤ she was right it’s more to the story

  • @troyluv9089
    @troyluv9089 Год назад +4

    love me some CoCo!!! And damn.
    . dont she look flippin amazing!!

  • @KingMaxMcqueen
    @KingMaxMcqueen Год назад +4

    LOVE, Love, Love to Coko for keeping it 💯 in ALL-ways! And kudos to Taj for TRYING to find some peace in all that Xscape vs. Tocha mess, but chiiiile! 👀 - MORE SWV please! ✨💜

  • @joberry877
    @joberry877 Год назад +1

    Taj❤ such a sweetheart

  • @nathanbrooks89
    @nathanbrooks89 Год назад +36

    Tosha , that thing with “your” mom was a reaction on what YOU allegedly did. Don’t play victim

  • @buhuniki
    @buhuniki Год назад +3

    Thank you for sharing Coko!!! I love seeing destigmatization of seeking mental health help in our community 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @assatanoir86
    @assatanoir86 Год назад +13

    I am so glad that Coko is open about Bipolar Depression and it definitely needs to be more awareness. I was diagnosed back in 2021

  • @adaada073
    @adaada073 Год назад +17

    Damn Toscha put a run on everything ..chillle sing regular 😂😂 and there is a conflict of 30,000 give back her money meatball I ❤ Coko ‘s realness 💯

    • @Virgogirl45
      @Virgogirl45 Год назад +7

      They call her Runtocha on another page,. We can do without the overdone vocals, chile we over it at this point
      😂

    • @adaada073
      @adaada073 Год назад +3

      @@Virgogirl45 exactly 💯💯 she should be running her sister her 30,000 😂😂

    • @keimonemoore6565
      @keimonemoore6565 Год назад

      she sings exactly the same as Humin Comin at Ya👀

  • @carolchristiansen635
    @carolchristiansen635 Год назад +10

    I am so happy for you. And I’m so glad you saw help and got the right kind of help because it doesn’t always happen either one of them.❤🙏💯

  • @caramelapple4053
    @caramelapple4053 Год назад +13

    Taj is beautiful inside and out. Love her personality ❤

  • @lifebyjasmine6977
    @lifebyjasmine6977 Год назад +1

    I love how Taj communicates❤

  • @kenyattehavard6074
    @kenyattehavard6074 Год назад +3

    To the sisters, I pray you two as well as y'all Mom get resolution and can move on as the family you are. I love you both

  • @bigchannelenergy
    @bigchannelenergy Год назад +2

    I appreciate her transparency!

  • @OneLoveRSR
    @OneLoveRSR Год назад +56

    Everyone on this show is fun to watch... except. 😒Anyway, I love Taj's energy. No wonder her practically grown son was loving up on her in the last episode. She just gives off such a comforting, positive energy. But it's also real. She was not here for that "lil booty" nonsense! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @nadiak7382
    @nadiak7382 Год назад +2

    SWV Periodt they from my City NYC & my Era♥️

  • @stephenchristian3636
    @stephenchristian3636 Год назад +11

    I Love Taj’s & Coko’s personality. Really admire her strength & vulnerability being vocal about her Mental health. Mental health/Mental illness is very taboo especially in the Black community. We can’t heal what we don’t reveal. I’m a Sexual abuse survivor & I battle with Clinical Depression/Anxiety so trust me when. I tell you my heart goes out to anyone that’s battling Bi-Polar or any other illness. It’s okay to not be okay & you aren’t your illness.

    • @shymcg
      @shymcg Год назад +2

      Blessing to you 💜🙏🏽💜

  • @angelangel4476
    @angelangel4476 Год назад +8

    Love Coko...love all the ladies. Check out Coko gospel album one of the best gospel albums!

  • @janeenhobbs6900
    @janeenhobbs6900 Год назад +3

    My girl Coko she is not lying about the bipolar thing it is a struggle her and her son has a great youtube channel

  • @michellestaton7620
    @michellestaton7620 Год назад +15

    This show is so good!!

  • @segil123
    @segil123 Год назад +22

    Leaving an established music group to go solo in todays music industry is crazy.

    • @missvida6251
      @missvida6251 Год назад +1

      Especially at 50 years old😂

  • @shaylawashington7700
    @shaylawashington7700 Год назад +13

    Tocha dodged that question Taj asked - are you leaving the group? That solo career gonna flop

    • @simonsez1787
      @simonsez1787 Год назад +1

      Big flop. Call it a personal improvement project and getchu some Jesus if it’ll help lol

  • @lonerVixen
    @lonerVixen Год назад +3

    I love coco 🤣🤣 cause PERIODDD

  • @candicelodree5055
    @candicelodree5055 Год назад +48

    Now LaTocha….How you want to step out and find some freedom and you been free this whole time 😂😂😂
    Nobody was stopping her from getting a deal before they got back together so why now?

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls Год назад +5

      Exactly

    • @nSimone9
      @nSimone9 Год назад +7

      If you don’t stop asking the right questions.. 🤣 Kandi said it then and now. She’s using them to promote her solo project. She’s playing in their faces and with their money if ask me. If she doesn’t want to be part of the group, she should say that and create her own lane. But, naw.. she needs that Xscape energy and she ain’t fooling me. 😂
      She had nothing but time on her hands to launch this project.

    • @candicelodree5055
      @candicelodree5055 Год назад +2

      @@nSimone9 😂 listen it’s clear as day at this point.

    • @brendaspringfield
      @brendaspringfield Год назад +1

      @@nSimone9 Well if that’s the case her sister doing the same thing, she just finished filming her movie. And she just got through producing her first video of her husband singing a gospel song and she did a wonderful job to, she said she will be producing more now.

    • @nSimone9
      @nSimone9 Год назад +1

      ​@@brendaspringfield I'm not sure if you're agreeing or disagreeing here. My point is, they have all been doing their own thing in the wake of their breakup WITHOUT blaming the other members and without using the group's current exposure for personal exposure.

  • @Queenalika85
    @Queenalika85 Год назад +31

    Coko is hilarious

  • @Jose-ke4qr
    @Jose-ke4qr Год назад +2

    I need to join Coko and her friends!🤣🤣😍😍🙏🏽 What a beautiful, loving trio 🙂

  • @apriljoy425
    @apriljoy425 Год назад +5

    This was awesome. Thanks for sharing Coco! Such a jewel.

  • @jsexplosion
    @jsexplosion Год назад +28

    every time I see Tocha... I see lies

  • @rowlaanbennett7296
    @rowlaanbennett7296 Год назад +21

    Not Pastor Coko talking about what still get wet 😮😂😂, I remember back on their reality show she didn’t wanna do shows where they had to curse

    • @ladybugbrack2834
      @ladybugbrack2834 Год назад +5

      Exactly

    • @shanteg7939
      @shanteg7939 Год назад +6

      It's because of her ex husband... There's a whole story and drama behind that, that I didn't know and it was so upsetting 😢Coko has come out the mud and fire! I'm so beyond proud of her it's unreal!

  • @SaraSmile70
    @SaraSmile70 Год назад +2

    2:29 I’m so glad Taj seen through Tocha narcsplaining!🙌

  • @Bnizzofashizzo
    @Bnizzofashizzo Год назад +12

    Coko will emerge from this better than she arrived. She’s easy to love

  • @ayannajones9292
    @ayannajones9292 Год назад +2

    I love Taj and her spirit! She is so humble and beautiful!! 💙💙🙌🏽

  • @lamoskgr
    @lamoskgr Год назад +17

    Cocko is so brave for admitting to her condition on camera. That's real

  • @Farfar3881
    @Farfar3881 Год назад +1

    I really appreciate this clip. I’m going to have to get dishnet back just to watch because I’m hooked.

  • @CassieJazz96
    @CassieJazz96 Год назад +6

    Thank you Coko for your transparency and vulnerability about your diagnosis ❤

  • @rayshawnellis4281
    @rayshawnellis4281 Год назад +2

    this show is very refreshing