Smacc is probably the most Genuine person on the internet 📌 He's not a character he's Smacc 📌 Don't take him for granted because you'll miss him when he's not around . He's annoying as hell but he comes in peace 🙏🏽an he can never be replaced 📌
@@GoChiefs1288that part of him speaking felt this same way since he was a child and never got the chance to resolve it or let go. Its probably got even worse as hes grown up and made it on his own seeing so much of what he never had with his success. I feel him heavy. No matter how old you get some things you go through as a kid NEVER go away, you can just become really good and blocking it all out untill you cant anymore.
@@Somethingsomethingmorbid0 That’s the problem he probably grew up and was told to always block that shit in or “man up” when he should have came to an acceptance a long ass time ago
It’s heartbreaking when you realize that’s probably the reason he bought the motorcycle and joined a club, to see if his dad would acknowledge him 💔 damn that sucks man..
Now that make all the sense in the world because I’m thinking if he knew the danger Trell was warning him about why did he want to do it so badly ? And this make all the sense
🙏🙏Blessings forever GOD loves y'all too forever tell everyone you know and don't know. Jesus loves y'all too forever. Teach everyone how to see and enjoy their blessings too foreverm
That’s a real man. We don’t acknowledge our own feelings but God forbid one of our boys/homies start crying. We finna be there for them. Welcome to Men’s Mental health month
Appreciate what you have y'all. Smacc was shot 9 times. Coma for 2 months. Father never claimed him and he still holding strong and winning. MackWop said some good points. "Your pops is a fucken kid" us men are too numb
The fact thousands of us cried with smac speaks volumes. Smac we support you and I’m so proud of you for not being afraid to speak on real life situations. Let this be a sign for any father lacking, it’s never too late to start over.
“I didn’t ask to be here “ damn smacc I love you Loco … I’m a young father I got two daughters , my dad was always there after he got out of jail he changed his life and was there for my and my siblings .. but ima be there for my kids everyday till I’m dead ! Break the cycle foos . Love to my black folks and my raza .
Damn I love what MackWop said about Smacc being a great man even without his dad. Letting him know he doesn’t need dude for validation, and that he also understands his pain. 💯✊🏾
Damn y’all I needed this as a man. So crazy how many of us dealing with this shxt even as grown men. I’m speechless y’all. This was powerful. Love y’all, thank y’all! All the way from philly 💪🏽
So many of our young boys and men are dealing with this type of trauma from absence of our fathers in our lives. Of course, we can carry on but we all need each other for so many reasons that can all build us up positively most times when we receive the love and affirmations to be great people. Thanks SMAC for being vulnerable for us and the BOF Family moderating and uplifting
Smacc don't even know how to be fake. He's truly himself and this shit hurts to see, my cousin doesn't have his father and this shit got to me. Hope smacc is okay fr. It's okay to cry , life isn't easy but thank you for being yourself. 🙏🏽❤️
Smac made me cry!! 😢😢😢 Smac pls dont ever change.. Trell, Mackwop, and Heather thank u for being honest, uplifting and more importantly listening to him.. all of u are truly amazing ❤❤❤❤❤🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🦵🦵🦵🦵🦵🦵🦵
This shit was super deep!!! Trell was trying to give smac the push on the shoulder to get him past his issue. Yet as Smac said you don’t understand my narrative and had to process his feelings real time. This brought me to tears myself. Shout out to Smac you are more than enough my brother!!! We love your heart!!! Can’t make this type of stuff up. ❤
I know TRell dont like all the extra emotional shit...but i hope he trully understands and appreciates what Smac brings to the show being this vulnerable in front of everybody. These are the things people relate wit,what sets yall apart from "dude" channel and others. That REAL shit! That heart! Protect SMac at all cost!
Smacc showing his growth as a man. You can’t hold pain in forever. Eventually you have to acknowledge it and heal from it. If you don’t you’ll never find peace.
Been told everyone he is worth more than he thinks. Smacc is the one man I know that will do what he has to do to make someone else happy and help others when they need. He is genuine and he has a blessed life because of it ! He deserves this! He chose the best path. Im proud of you SMACC
TRell runs from emotions everytime. He will either crack a joke or move on. Let it out. You don’t have to be tough or the jokester all the time. Loved this clip though 👏🏽
Naw smac just got to grow up your parents are just two people who fucked not super hero. Trell talking like a grow man with his own kids, Which Mack or smac don’t have
I swear I love their friendship! This entire room is so full of love and supportive of eachother and its beautiful. Chosen family helps people deal with real family issues.
I shed a tear when Smacc cried. My Dad died when I was 11 but was barely in my life when he was alive. It’s an unexplainable feeling because the TRUTH is we all have to keep going. But it’s an emptiness inside that makes me become cold-hearted like Trell who doesn’t think about his dad as a way to cope. Trell is a leader, hope he realizes that he has great control over his emotions and pain, but most people aren’t as strong as him. Smacc needed to cry and Trell did the right thing by coaching him up after. Classic moment.
This made a grown man cry. I felt the same way. I knew my dad loved me but it hurt me i saw him acknowledge all my other siblings more cus they moms werent the best. Then when i finally got the courage to ask him about it at 16 he died and i never got my answer. 26 now and still miss that nigga today. Probably why i tried to raise those same simblings myself when i got older. Shout out to BOF for keeping this shit real.
Now this what you call having people around you that understand you and will be there for you and give you the love that you missed as a kid ❤ We love you smacc
Name a brother so raw and abstract like Smac I'll wait.... Shout out to Smac for keeping 1000% Nothing but love man and that's why its BOF or nothing! THAT PART!!!!
Madd Love Smac ❤️ I had Daddy issues as well.When I became a father I learned from my childhood and did things differently with my kids. In my 30s I finally put my pride aside and started calling pops so he can talk to his 3 grandkids.He even got emotional and apologized for his mistakes after me reaching out 🖤
My dad came in to my life when I was 26. Amy Mom came into my life when I was 17.. I hated them.. I’m 36 now. They my best friends now. All love Smacc! Uncle D will always be your real Father figure.
Smac the pain you feel is out of this world and It’s hard because it’s a love an anger situation. You handling it the only way you can and it’s okay. GodBless you young man✨
Feel that shit dawg my dad been locked up most my life came home when I was 17, he went back in when I was 19 for 20 more years. Shit Is really crazy what we gotta go through in life as grown men and never get to express correctly or even know how to express that shit man it’s just how shit be sometimes but God got us at the end of day 💯
shout out to SMAC he seems like a real genuine and strong dude, it takes a lot to be this open and vulnerable in front of the world. Keep your head held high bro
7:20 - 9:10 I felt that TRell me and my lil bro grew up the same way as y’all. Our mom never spoke bad about our dad but we learned fast he didn’t give a damn about us. He didn’t show up to a extracurricular activity, wish us a happy birthday, holiday or send a buffalo nickel for me, my brother and one of our sisters. For a lil bit me and my brother had to move out of state and during that time he didn’t claim us and tried to act like we didn’t exist and he only had 2 kids instead of 4. Our youngest sister is the only one with a good relationship with him because she spent most of her childhood growing up with him because her mother relationship with our father lasted a while. But us other 3 just stay cool from a distance he makes up lies to this day and don’t wanna take accountability for his past actions. Plus after he quit multiple jobs to prevent his checks from being garnished he gave up his parental rights for all 3 of us when we was young kids. Even though he somehow got the documents filed to give up his rights the judge kept him on child support cause both of our moms was under the poverty line. Rather than be involved in our lives and support us he tried every scheme he could to not be our dad and I’ll always think that’s crazy. I’m 27, brother 26 and my sisters are 24 and 20. Idk how old dude is but I’m pretty sure he graduated hs the year I was born.
Y'all so brainwashed with feminisms it's sad. Who tf said he didn't care then. Oh because he didnt show up? Really...last time I tried to show up to see my kids my baby momma wanted to scream at me about how much of a POS I was for daring to try to have a relationship with my son and showing up at her house like that on a date and time she didn't approve of Lol the fuck y'all think we can stop by and see the kids ? Wrong
Alternatively, let it be a time and date your baby momma plans on doing something without the kids and grandma is sick of watching them You got no choice but to say yes or here they go with the never see your kids again bullshit
You clearly don't have kids because they don't give you a choice in signing over your rights my guy So I don't know what schemes youre talking about but the government and women concocted them, not a man. And until y'all figure this out the cycle continues. Certainly, you'll figure all of this out when you have kids though . But by then it'll be too late 🤷♂️
Heather's reaction stood out to me the most & thats why I love women & them being on podcasts. They always good at being empathetic to deep traumas like this.
Hey man. I feel you deeply. The things that give me joy is being the best available father to my four. 3 grown now , 2 in college. 🙋🏾♂️ Smack, you ain't alone fam💙
Hit deep, Smacc’s speakin for a whole lot of other ppl feelin the same way. Whole lot of hugs for him 🫂 he still did it without him but that pain still gon be there. I feel it
Smac I can relate my dad never liked me either he always love my sister more and so did his family but hey man sometimes you have to make your own family with friends and people that love you for you keep your head up G.
Smacc is super genuine and always keeps it down to earth never afraid to be himself / show his emotions which alot of people don't have the guts to be that vulnerable on a public platform. It only makes the people fuck with you more and relate, especially to the ones that FEEL what he's saying. Deserves all the blessings that's been coming.
MacWop is a real one for the way he spoke LIFE into his boy. T Rell has taken on the role as a big brother in life in general and him sharing his story with Smac explains why, he’s been in a fatherly role since he was young.
Y'all got me teary eyed. I always salute vulnerability because it's so much power in Smacc speaking his truth. & Have that conversation if he's receptive great, if he's not that's closure as well. While sometimes we have to give ourselves that closure because a person can only meet u where their at. Hope it all works out for u Smacc & Happy Father's Day to ALL the Daddy's who would go to the end of this earth for their child(ren)🧡🧡🧡
I share this same pain Smacc but I’ll never get closure because I’ve never seen who my biological father is or even know where to look. Shit made me cry but the best thing I did was to let it go and try to move on. I’m still going to need to talk to someone about it because it’s trauma but I’m letting it go.
Fatherless/Motherless homes are the #1 issue for young men/woman that have made bad choices in life. All you have to do is live life long enough, look at your friends, and then figure it out. It don’t take a college education to see how much that affects a young child. Let it out love one - OG Cuicide
The way my heart hurts for Smac. I feel that shit so deeply, pops stays in the same city and I only see him 3 times a year. I could never force that connection.
The age stuff don’t mean much. His pops probably holding on to so much shame and fear that he don’t wanna initiate the conversation. He probably scared of Smaccs response. He really just waiting on Smacc to come to him when he’s ready.
Lost my Pops 2019 our relationship always been trash, I was a angry lil dude for a min but now im grown I wish I coulda did more so this hit hard , get your closure nd make peace if you can smacc
Trell responding to Smacc’s expressions by comparing himself was a prime example of why it’s important to find professional therapy opposed to trauma bonding with friends. A professional therapist won’t steal your moment or be eager to relate with you.
Smacc running on 1,000,000 % gold heart mode We all feel pain And my man’s pouring himself out is real gangsta shit Snack was on the porch, on the street, on the block , on the ave, in the county Respect it Gold heart
Smacc is probably the most Genuine person on the internet 📌 He's not a character he's Smacc 📌 Don't take him for granted because you'll miss him when he's not around . He's annoying as hell but he comes in peace 🙏🏽an he can never be replaced 📌
Most genuine bro😢
💯💯💯
I agree
Smacc my favorite ❤❤❤❤❤
This the perfect time he can get some from Heather. Let’s get to that
Nothing more painful in this world than hearing a child cry out for a father who dont want him. Hold your head Smac
That shit hit a chord.
He’s a grown man though
@@GoChiefs1288that part of him speaking felt this same way since he was a child and never got the chance to resolve it or let go. Its probably got even worse as hes grown up and made it on his own seeing so much of what he never had with his success. I feel him heavy. No matter how old you get some things you go through as a kid NEVER go away, you can just become really good and blocking it all out untill you cant anymore.
@@Somethingsomethingmorbid0 That’s the problem he probably grew up and was told to always block that shit in or “man up” when he should have came to an acceptance a long ass time ago
He didn’t want him he didn’t want I would cry over nobody that didn’t want me
Trell and MacWop really showed support and told him the real at the same time. Trell respond just like my big bro. this moment was so pure.
I feel ya pain smack it took me having cancer at 36 for me and my dad to have the relationship I always wanted I BEAT CANCER BY THE WAY
🎉🎉🎉 congratulatiions on beating cancer!!❤❤
That is a blessing indeed 🤟🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Good shit !!
god bless you 🤍🤍
Big ups to y’all !!
It’s heartbreaking when you realize that’s probably the reason he bought the motorcycle and joined a club, to see if his dad would acknowledge him 💔 damn that sucks man..
That’s what I said too. He joined the club to be around his dad.
Now that make all the sense in the world because I’m thinking if he knew the danger Trell was warning him about why did he want to do it so badly ? And this make all the sense
Wooooo this hit the spot. This is real shit bro. We love you Smacc!!!!
nah he said he joined the club cause his uncle was in it
🙏🙏Blessings forever GOD loves y'all too forever tell everyone you know and don't know. Jesus loves y'all too forever. Teach everyone how to see and enjoy their blessings too foreverm
Damn smac made me cry 😢😢.. pain is universal and u can feel it . Even thru the clips .. big up smacc
💯
Yea I stopped crying when Heather made it about HERSELF . Once again
Mackwop really felt his boy. The way he was looking at Smac and the way he spoke. He wanted to cry for his boy. He spoke with power✊🏾
That’s a real man. We don’t acknowledge our own feelings but God forbid one of our boys/homies start crying. We finna be there for them. Welcome to Men’s Mental health month
Smacc been holding that far to long can’t even judge him for keeping it real 💯
Agreed!!
This the perfect time he can get some from Heather. Let’s get to that
@@dhgateshoes7397lol everyone ain't lustful like u
Appreciate what you have y'all. Smacc was shot 9 times. Coma for 2 months. Father never claimed him and he still holding strong and winning. MackWop said some good points. "Your pops is a fucken kid" us men are too numb
Smacc let it out foo !!
THIS RIGHT HERE THE #1 REASON THIS PODCAST IS GOING TO BE LEGENDARY. THEY COVER AAAALLL ASPECTS OF LIFE 💯
Shout smacc real shit
Right I was just thinking this, it's not scripted at alllll
💯!
💯
Hundred
The fact thousands of us cried with smac speaks volumes. Smac we support you and I’m so proud of you for not being afraid to speak on real life situations. Let this be a sign for any father lacking, it’s never too late to start over.
Facts cause the water works is coming down most def a trigger
Boy I sure do miss my dad…y’all sure do know how to make a grown man cry. RIP POPS 😢
I miss mine too bro. Mine died in my arms when i was 18 and im 40 now and the shit still breaks me down homie.........damn
@@cuhproperlyke9552 I’m sorry to hear that. I’ll be visiting mine at the cemetery this weekend. God bless you all ❤
@@HomieGSD respect. Stay up fam
God bless fam keep yo head up
RIP to your pop
“I didn’t ask to be here “ damn smacc I love you
Loco … I’m a young father I got two daughters , my dad was always there after he got out of jail he changed his life and was there for my and my siblings .. but ima be there for my kids everyday till I’m dead ! Break the cycle foos . Love to my black folks and my raza .
For real for real!
Damn I love what MackWop said about Smacc being a great man even without his dad. Letting him know he doesn’t need dude for validation, and that he also understands his pain. 💯✊🏾
Damn y’all I needed this as a man. So crazy how many of us dealing with this shxt even as grown men. I’m speechless y’all. This was powerful. Love y’all, thank y’all! All the way from philly 💪🏽
Same thoughts all the way from South London UK 🇬🇧
Made me tear up . This shit hit home
Praying for healing for you bro 🙏🏾
All these dads were simps back then smh
Nah he don't need it that Convo go fuk em up
So many of our young boys and men are dealing with this type of trauma from absence of our fathers in our lives. Of course, we can carry on but we all need each other for so many reasons that can all build us up positively most times when we receive the love and affirmations to be great people. Thanks SMAC for being vulnerable for us and the BOF Family moderating and uplifting
Your not a man if you have too much pride to approach your own son to settle and squash fatherhood issues. We love you SMAC !
Ain't no fatherhood issues how do y'all keep attributing shit to fathers just bc there is a lack of them
@@Davanillaguerrilla What? No fatherhood issues?
@@Davanillaguerrillayour drunk
@@dfjr1990you mean you're
Haven't drank in years
@@Davanillaguerrilla then wtf are u saying with ‘no fatherhood issues’?
This is some heartbreaking shit. The fact Smac joined the same MC his pops is in tells you all you need to know. We with you Smac. We come in peace.
smacc pops treat him like he knows thats not his son 😢
Smacc don't even know how to be fake. He's truly himself and this shit hurts to see, my cousin doesn't have his father and this shit got to me. Hope smacc is okay fr. It's okay to cry , life isn't easy but thank you for being yourself. 🙏🏽❤️
Man!!... hurt my heart
We love smacc NOBODY can replace him as the co host Trell so protect him at all cost we love him 💘🙏🏼
No lie I love smacc
@@lashanticlark8286 me too girl ! 🫶🏼🍊
Smac made me cry!! 😢😢😢 Smac pls dont ever change.. Trell, Mackwop, and Heather thank u for being honest, uplifting and more importantly listening to him.. all of u are truly amazing ❤❤❤❤❤🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🦵🦵🦵🦵🦵🦵🦵
This shit was super deep!!! Trell was trying to give smac the push on the shoulder to get him past his issue. Yet as Smac said you don’t understand my narrative and had to process his feelings real time. This brought me to tears myself. Shout out to Smac you are more than enough my brother!!! We love your heart!!! Can’t make this type of stuff up. ❤
I’m going through the same shit man this episode hit different. S/o to all the real fathers out there.
This is why is so clear a fathers presence effects our inner child … it’s unfortunate sorry to see you in pain smacc 🙏🏾
That’s some real pain right there. God bless you Smacc
Growing up w no dad man I felt this on a whole different level
I love how y’all keep it real with no cut on it. One of the realest podcasts out today fr, keep your head up Smac. 💯💯💯
This a universal pain man felt by alot of us. God love smac!!!😢
8:00 to 8:27 hits home.. keep your head up smacc u got alot of people rockin with ya
I know TRell dont like all the extra emotional shit...but i hope he trully understands and appreciates what Smac brings to the show being this vulnerable in front of everybody. These are the things people relate wit,what sets yall apart from "dude" channel and others. That REAL shit! That heart! Protect SMac at all cost!
Heather is genuinely the sweetest mom ever… the way she got up and hugged smack and handed him a napkin was what he really needed
Shout out to Mac Wop, those were some great words of encouragement. As black men we need more support and understanding like this.
This brought me to tears😢 healing is a long process ❤ but don’t give him the power - you’ve done so well for yourself, without him!
Smacc got me tearing up.. hope he gets that closure his spirit needs 🙏🏽
There is very very few real ones like smacc ... love the transparency the honesty and the fact he is always himself
This shit hit me hard dawg, I ain’t even gonna lie. Shoutout to y’all, I feel like y’all my homies.
Smacc showing his growth as a man. You can’t hold pain in forever. Eventually you have to acknowledge it and heal from it. If you don’t you’ll never find peace.
Been told everyone he is worth more than he thinks. Smacc is the one man I know that will do what he has to do to make someone else happy and help others when they need. He is genuine and he has a blessed life because of it ! He deserves this! He chose the best path. Im proud of you SMACC
TRell runs from emotions everytime. He will either crack a joke or move on. Let it out. You don’t have to be tough or the jokester all the time. Loved this clip though 👏🏽
That’s true. I felt like Mackwop have more emotional intellgenxe to actually empathize with bro
Naw smac just got to grow up your parents are just two people who fucked not super hero. Trell talking like a grow man with his own kids, Which Mack or smac don’t have
He just told u how he had to grow up ain’t no time for that he had to be tha man in his house as a lil boy
Everyone doesn’t cope the same. Some ppl are just emotionally stronger than others because of their upbringing
The way Trell started eating when he started crying more was hilarious!!
I swear I love their friendship! This entire room is so full of love and supportive of eachother and its beautiful. Chosen family helps people deal with real family issues.
I shed a tear when Smacc cried. My Dad died when I was 11 but was barely in my life when he was alive. It’s an unexplainable feeling because the TRUTH is we all have to keep going. But it’s an emptiness inside that makes me become cold-hearted like Trell who doesn’t think about his dad as a way to cope. Trell is a leader, hope he realizes that he has great control over his emotions and pain, but most people aren’t as strong as him. Smacc needed to cry and Trell did the right thing by coaching him up after. Classic moment.
Real shit bro I agree 1000%💯
My Dad died at 11 also...He raised me when he got out of jail with my my for 9 years....he still gone.😢
This was phenomenal, y’all the realest and touched my soul
With friends like Mackwop ya enemies gotta put in overtime. Dude is legit for his homies. Much respect.
Respect smacc it takes a real man to show his emotions much luv
This made a grown man cry. I felt the same way. I knew my dad loved me but it hurt me i saw him acknowledge all my other siblings more cus they moms werent the best. Then when i finally got the courage to ask him about it at 16 he died and i never got my answer. 26 now and still miss that nigga today. Probably why i tried to raise those same simblings myself when i got older. Shout out to BOF for keeping this shit real.
Now this what you call having people around you that understand you and will be there for you and give you the love that you missed as a kid ❤
We love you smacc
Name a brother so raw and abstract like Smac I'll wait.... Shout out to Smac for keeping 1000% Nothing but love man and that's why its BOF or nothing! THAT PART!!!!
Stay blessed homie 🥺🫂
Madd Love Smac ❤️ I had Daddy issues as well.When I became a father I learned from my childhood and did things differently with my kids.
In my 30s I finally put my pride aside and started calling pops so he can talk to his 3 grandkids.He even got emotional and apologized for his mistakes after me reaching out 🖤
I make sure I'm the father i always wanted... give my kids love support and advice and make sure they don't feel judged. We all make mistakes
Daaamn a lot of people out there probably needed to hear this. Including me. Mac wop, heather, Trell y’all real ones. 💯💯👌🏽
💯💯
this is heartbreaking seeing a man over 30 years old and his dad still alive but cold toward his own son
smacc you got the whole figgmunity world roccin wit you. keep your head up. blessings king
Damn yo , im holding back tears on my lunch break. Im Empathetic af hearing smack , i feel just like you smacc, our dads aint shit. Love you bro !
My dad came in to my life when I was 26. Amy Mom came into my life when I was 17.. I hated them.. I’m 36 now. They my best friends now. All love Smacc! Uncle D will always be your real Father figure.
Smac the pain you feel is out of this world and It’s hard because it’s a love an anger situation. You handling it the only way you can and it’s okay. GodBless you young man✨
Smacc, YOU A REAL ONE BRO!!! If something hurts let it out... Much love and better living! 💯💯💯
Bless you Heather for keeping it all the way real!!! ❤
Smacc we with you. I hope you get the closure you wish for. Just know there’s a big community behind you that love and support you.
Feel that shit dawg my dad been locked up most my life came home when I was 17, he went back in when I was 19 for 20 more years. Shit Is really crazy what we gotta go through in life as grown men and never get to express correctly or even know how to express that shit man it’s just how shit be sometimes but God got us at the end of day 💯
This was definitely giving wil smith Why he don’t want me man. 😢 happy Father’s Day to all the fathers out there. RIP Apa’
Man I never finished this episode and I shed a tear with smaccy. We don’t know you but we love you to death
This is my 1st Fathers Day Without My Pop (R.I.H)
Right before my my BIG 30.
Y stay strong my brothers!
I went through this a few years ago. Decided to reach out to my dad and was disappointed
shout out to SMAC he seems like a real genuine and strong dude, it takes a lot to be this open and vulnerable in front of the world. Keep your head held high bro
7:20 - 9:10 I felt that TRell me and my lil bro grew up the same way as y’all. Our mom never spoke bad about our dad but we learned fast he didn’t give a damn about us. He didn’t show up to a extracurricular activity, wish us a happy birthday, holiday or send a buffalo nickel for me, my brother and one of our sisters. For a lil bit me and my brother had to move out of state and during that time he didn’t claim us and tried to act like we didn’t exist and he only had 2 kids instead of 4. Our youngest sister is the only one with a good relationship with him because she spent most of her childhood growing up with him because her mother relationship with our father lasted a while. But us other 3 just stay cool from a distance he makes up lies to this day and don’t wanna take accountability for his past actions. Plus after he quit multiple jobs to prevent his checks from being garnished he gave up his parental rights for all 3 of us when we was young kids. Even though he somehow got the documents filed to give up his rights the judge kept him on child support cause both of our moms was under the poverty line. Rather than be involved in our lives and support us he tried every scheme he could to not be our dad and I’ll always think that’s crazy. I’m 27, brother 26 and my sisters are 24 and 20. Idk how old dude is but I’m pretty sure he graduated hs the year I was born.
Y'all so brainwashed with feminisms it's sad. Who tf said he didn't care then. Oh because he didnt show up? Really...last time I tried to show up to see my kids my baby momma wanted to scream at me about how much of a POS I was for daring to try to have a relationship with my son and showing up at her house like that on a date and time she didn't approve of
Lol the fuck y'all think we can stop by and see the kids ?
Wrong
Alternatively, let it be a time and date your baby momma plans on doing something without the kids and grandma is sick of watching them
You got no choice but to say yes or here they go with the never see your kids again bullshit
You clearly don't have kids because they don't give you a choice in signing over your rights my guy
So I don't know what schemes youre talking about but the government and women concocted them, not a man.
And until y'all figure this out the cycle continues. Certainly, you'll figure all of this out when you have kids though . But by then it'll be too late 🤷♂️
@@Davanillaguerrilla you said a whole lotta nothing😂 no reason to be a deadbeat
@@Vngexl you understand that better ?
I feel smacc he a real one for even talking about it and breaking down and his dudes in the room are real one's
I love this! Black men showing their feelings in the safety of their own environment! Y’all are great friends allowing him to speak his peace
Heather's reaction stood out to me the most & thats why I love women & them being on podcasts. They always good at being empathetic to deep traumas like this.
Shit made me cry last night, hit up my fathers sister to try and speak to him for the first time in my 30 years.
This was so pure Smacc even made me cry. You not gonna always see a real nigga cry often
Damn man this shit made me drop a tear I felt his pain feeling unwanted by your father is terrible. I make sure my 3 daughters never feel like this
Hey man. I feel you deeply. The things that give me joy is being the best available father to my four. 3 grown now , 2 in college. 🙋🏾♂️ Smack, you ain't alone fam💙
Dis shit had me teary eyed ,much love smacccy u da realest!!! R.I.P UNCLE D
Smac is genuine and definitely vulnerable, his pain is real. No one can tell him how to feel
Got me tearing up over here. God bless you Smacc ❤
Hit deep, Smacc’s speakin for a whole lot of other ppl feelin the same way. Whole lot of hugs for him 🫂 he still did it without him but that pain still gon be there. I feel it
Smac I can relate my dad never liked me either he always love my sister more and so did his family but hey man sometimes you have to make your own family with friends and people that love you for you keep your head up G.
Smacc is super genuine and always keeps it down to earth never afraid to be himself / show his emotions which alot of people don't have the guts to be that vulnerable on a public platform. It only makes the people fuck with you more and relate, especially to the ones that FEEL what he's saying. Deserves all the blessings that's been coming.
Smacc needed that hug Heather gave him ❤️
Damn, utmost respect for smack. Never a bad thing to want to be more emotionally intelligent.
MacWop is a real one for the way he spoke LIFE into his boy. T Rell has taken on the role as a big brother in life in general and him sharing his story with Smac explains why, he’s been in a fatherly role since he was young.
I just really reconnected with my dad at 25 one of the best decisions ever in my life. Thank u pops I love you
Y'all got me teary eyed. I always salute vulnerability because it's so much power in Smacc speaking his truth. & Have that conversation if he's receptive great, if he's not that's closure as well. While sometimes we have to give ourselves that closure because a person can only meet u where their at. Hope it all works out for u Smacc & Happy Father's Day to ALL the Daddy's who would go to the end of this earth for their child(ren)🧡🧡🧡
I share this same pain Smacc but I’ll never get closure because I’ve never seen who my biological father is or even know where to look. Shit made me cry but the best thing I did was to let it go and try to move on. I’m still going to need to talk to someone about it because it’s trauma but I’m letting it go.
I've dealt with a similar situation, I feel you smack, this great to get out and confront, a great example for all of us
Fatherless/Motherless homes are the #1 issue for young men/woman that have made bad choices in life. All you have to do is live life long enough, look at your friends, and then figure it out. It don’t take a college education to see how much that affects a young child.
Let it out love one - OG Cuicide
Donye is a real one!! He helped me several times
The way my heart hurts for Smac. I feel that shit so deeply, pops stays in the same city and I only see him 3 times a year. I could never force that connection.
Macwop. Salute cuz. Thank u for the smacc support.. ✌🏾🔥
smacc made drop a couple tears.. bro i love my dad. you deserve better
The age stuff don’t mean much. His pops probably holding on to so much shame and fear that he don’t wanna initiate the conversation. He probably scared of Smaccs response. He really just waiting on Smacc to come to him when he’s ready.
This is beautiful!! Being able to be vulnerable & feel out loud s/o to y’all for giving him a safe space
Lost my Pops 2019 our relationship always been trash, I was a angry lil dude for a min but now im grown I wish I coulda did more so this hit hard , get your closure nd make peace if you can smacc
Dealt with that ish for decades, These are grown man tears right here. Your father's love is needed. No judgement here. 💙
All love to smac keep your head up king I was watching live and I’m not gonna lie I shed a tear shit is super sad 🙏❤️
We love Smac! Protect him at all cost! 🧡
Damn shit almost made me cry. Lot of men go thru this in the ghetto. Father’s are so important man
Trell responding to Smacc’s expressions by comparing himself was a prime example of why it’s important to find professional therapy opposed to trauma bonding with friends. A professional therapist won’t steal your moment or be eager to relate with you.
I was saying the exact same thing.
Smacc running on 1,000,000 % gold heart mode
We all feel pain
And my man’s pouring himself out is real gangsta shit
Snack was on the porch, on the street, on the block , on the ave, in the county
Respect it
Gold heart
We love and appreciate you Smac!
Heather is right on point at the end. Showing grace for having the experience