The girl was happy with her prize, her brother and father were telling “good job”, but her mom was acting like a child. A cold bucket of water on the little girls happiness...
That poor little girl breaking down in fear that she wasn’t going to make her mother happy is just so horrible. What in the world is wrong with these parents? This is legitimate emotional abuse.
Yeah, at least Mia won 'something' during her time on the stage; most kids were forced to accept that they didn't even get anything in the first place, and that's how she decides to react?
I don't think automatically assuming you daughter is gonna WIN is a good way to set her up for success either. And sitting in a corner pouting because it's "not what I came here for" is not going to help your daughter have realistic expectations of life. Just because mommy says I am supposed to win does not make it so.
@@tinydancer7426 Both I think are harmful. If you say a kid is never going to win then they won't try or think what they do is important. But they can get delusional if you tell them they will win. The best message is you can win but you have to work your butt off to do it. Toni Nadal said he would tell his nephew when playing Federer in their early days- Federer is way better than you, but you can win if you fight for it like there's no tomorrow.
I couldn’t agree less it’s ugly she didn’t wanted to see her daughter win something and then she said she has 500$ like no Mia has 500$ cause ima worked for it
I agree. If I remember correctly, her daughter won third place in this pageant. She's a beautiful little girl. Her costumes were gorgeous. And unlike a lot of the younger children I see on this show, she actually seemed to be enjoying the pageant. And even though she didn't win the top prize, she was proud and happy with what she DID win. I see a lot of little girls (some even older than Mia) who win SECOND place and still have a meltdown. Meanwhile, her mother just sat in the corner sulking like a brat with that ugly scowl on her face the whole time. The other lady was right.....a lot of those girls left with NOTHING. No trophy. No crown. No money. NOTHING. Her daughter gets a high title and $500 and rather than being PROUD of her, Mom is pouting like a 2 yr old because she didn't win a stupid, plastic trophy and a crown that was bigger. Shame on her.
I feel so bad for the kid. She kept saying “forget it im not gonna win”. And when she won her first instinct was to go to her mom who was being a brat and not even congratulating her.
It’s really telling that she gets treated like shit when she doesn’t win. She’s 4, she doesn’t know the value of money, it’s all for her mom. Makes me wanna cry
@@erzsebethracz1495 Mom is a true narcissist. Not all Russian moms are awful, I disagree. The real thing mama wants is not the money, its the illusion of being "the best"-- Narcissists only care about how they think they appear to the world. It's ALWAYS all about them, and other people are just THings they use, and then discard by their put-downs and complaints. Then, when they've alienated the people who finally see through through their heartlessness, they look desperately around them for more people to fool, and to get attention from. Like a very self-centered 2 year old, except, they're adults.
@@janebaker4912 Sadly my mum was a narcissistic person and an emotional bully. So been there, seen that, and tried to strangle a 15 year old 'classmate' because he made a nasty comment about my younger, severely disabled, sister. I was barely 5', and 100lbs soaking wet, but it took at least three other kids to hold me back from wanting to tear into him, right before a physics class took place. Funny thing was, after that, _no-one_ dare say a nasty thing about my sister ever again ... at least, not with me around ... Even at age 8, or 9, it felt like I was more of a parent to my sister, than both our parents combined ... and I have an awful amount of regret for not doing more, given the sheer scale of abuse that was happening that affected us both, especially the literal criminal behaviour of our dad, and our mum, instead of doing the decent thing, and divorce his arse the moment he was jailed for nine years, instead not only buried it ... she visited him in prison ... So, yes, I can imagine her older brothers being more fiercely protective of their younger sister than their own mum ... I would be ...
@@nigelft oh you poor thing. I’m talking about being made to feel responsible for their care. A huge burden and not the child’s job. Did you have that with your sister?
I feel so sorry for Mia. She quite obviously only wants her mother's love and attention. How she immediately ran to her mother and was all "look, money!" She knows that's the only thing her mother cares about. How fucked up is that.
Yeah but that's not the point ... they know what they are getting into. Your not guaranteed a win.. . But the least you can do is love your child win or lose. And be there for her. These moms on these shows are literally terrible. I could never imagine being anything but supportive of my child. I have a two year old and ANYTIME she does anything her daddy and I are right there to yell her name and clap and cheer. I want my daughter to feel love 100 percent of the time Not just when she does well and brings money home. These pageants are SUPPoSED to benefit the children... but I honestly dont see how when their self esteem is shot down by their moms when they dont get prize money and win number 1. Like that mom said Your child won money. Some kids there walked away with LITERaLLY NoTHING. No titles. No money. Her child got a high crown. And got a second place prize money. Celebrate your daughter 1st place or last.
“I have $500. But I don’t have anything”. You have a child who was on stage beaming, so proud of herself. A beautiful moment you missed. I don’t even know this child and k was watching with a smile, honored I got to see her experience such a happy moment. She’s a winner, always. You also had the opportunity to witness your son comfort your daughter, another beautiful moment most parents cherish. You had the opportunity to just..enjoy this day.
Right. And I hope it’s not her money. I hope she’s saving it for her daughters future. But “I have 500” etc. implies that she sees it has her own money
The moment she was complaining about how some of the other contestants was not "sticking by the rules", I knew she was thinking her daughter was cheated of the top prize.
Never underestimate the power of a older brother to become fiercely protective of a younger sister, irrespective of their parents. He strikes me as the kind of brother to read her a bedtime story, to help her sleep, willingly ... but God help any older kids that bully her, because he is likely to try and punch their lights out ...
I feel like this show shouldn't have been made at all. It should be cancelled and forgotten. No little kid deserves to be treated like crap in reality shows like these.
@@claritycrystal8742 I don't think it should be cancelled, but you can really take it either way. All it's doing is filming what happens behind the scenes at these pageants. It's not helping the abuse in any way, but it is shedding light on the abusive nature of these relationships between children and parents.
@@jimmybobbyjoe behinds the scenes of these pageants which shows abuse and overly sexualizing their underaged daughters because they lack the self awareness to do the world a favor and blow their brains out already or give their child away to someone literally anyone else with better parenting skills instead they live like leeches through their underaged daughters so they can be proud with their useless lives, instead of exposing this the show glorifies fat women acting like 6 year olds, and makes the children look like the problem. Like we get it Haley or Brenda or Karen you got pregnant at 20 and want to prove your not a failure.
@@katie3092 No, it’s not in poor taste. Just because Mia had/has cancer doesn’t make her mother a decent mother whom deserves such a great little girl. She’s a terrible mother still. It doesn’t change what she’s done, how she’s behaved, how she treated her before she was diagnosed or anything similar
It is so sad that the mother thinks that the pagent is about her. She is probably never satisfied with anything. The darling little girl won some money and a crown. Let her enjoy it. Be happy for her.
The look on the little Russian girls face so when she got her name called up was so wonderful she doesn’t care that she win the title as long as she won some thing and got her mothers approval that’s all she cared about… And her horrible mother didn’t even give her a congratulations or anything.. wow mother of the year!!! NOT
Unfortunately, from what I've seen on many of these shows, it's the case with too many mother/daughters. And the mother's trying to live, pagent wise thru their daughters.
I love the lady yelling at Mia's mom. I know she's a pageant mom so she's probably crazy too, but she's proud of the kids. And mias mom wouldn't even go see her kid be crowned.
@@emilywaugh2761 You're right, there is that one lady with healthy boundaries who refused to go insane with her kid's makeup and isn't competitive at all. But by and large, including moms not in the show, they are. My aunt is a pageant/dance mom and yeah, that shit ain't healthy.
@ Dog Traning Tips She probably doesn't trust dad that much because like everyone else in the family, he has to please mommy dearest, to get along with the bitch, so mommy holds all the power in the family, BECAUSE DAD HAS NO BACKBONE!
@@JessyingAround Yes, and sadly, you really only get a chance to hug your children, and show how much you love them, (by your actions/words)when they're young-- after they're on their own, its almost too late--
I dislike this type of contest so much. Mothers just put unnecessary stress on their kids. Besides it seems like they're teaching their kids that looks is the only thing that matters in life.
Mia ended up getting cancer a couple years later. Luckily she won her fight but sadly no longer has hair. She is one of the most humble and kind children that has ever been on Toddlers and Tiara's. She deserves the world. ❤
Thank God she won against her cancer! I just loved her and I can tell she deserves the world just by seeing her happiness when she won the $500 dollars. She is so sweet, humble and kind ♡
Thank god she defeated cancer. I hope the mother learned that there is more inportant things in this world that putting a kid in a dress and making her win shit
The girl that won 10.000 dollars LITERALLY SHE DOESNT HAVE 11 YEARS, just look at her, she looks like 14 or 15, thats unfair, but i found the brother of Mia so sweet and nice to her.
Ultimate grand supreme is competition within all the age groups, hence “ultimate grand supreme” if you don’t get something in your age group it means you have a chance to beat older girls too. That’s why the start with every single age group first and then move on to the ultimate prize.
I thought the same thing. Even if she is 11 how is fair to put 5-7 year olds in the same supreme division of 11 year olds? That’s just robbing those little girls at that point. What was the point of them competing in age divisions if they’re not even judged in their age division??
@@moniqualove4882 I'd say make-up, high heels and genetics make her look far more mature for sure. My Sister is 6 years younger but 2 heads taller XD Everyone thinks I'm the youngest which i will take as a compliment lol.
Growth really varies from person to person... I was 1,69m at age 11 and I looked just as, and I’d say more mature than this girl - keep in mind she’s wearing makeup too (that’s very aging).
Looking at Mia almost in tears over NOT winning $10,000 was appalling. No child that age should be so pressured to win ANYTHING that she's ready to cry over losing a monetary prize!
The poor girl is emotionally abused and just wants her mother's love and attention. He's allowing his daughter to endure that, to suffer psychologically. I don't pity him, he's responsible as well. He shouldn't allow his wife to abuse his daughter.
@@chieve5516 Dad has shown that he's just trying to get along with mommy dearest-- he does nothing to stop the bullying behavior, to protect his daughter from mommy's horrible criticism.
Mia is now battling cancer.. she is such a sweet young lady and it breaks my hearts to see such a happy, goofy teenager in pain. Prayers for your family!!
“I have $500” seriously! You weren’t even around while your daughter was crying thinking she wasn’t getting anything. Be proud and supportive of your child for goodness sake! Shame...
This is so sad. The mother has already instilled in this little girl that she has no value unless she brings home a big prize for external beauty rather than brains and internal integrity. Pathetic.
My heart broke when Mia ran with the 500 to show her mom. It wasn't mommy I won, it was mommy I won money. You can see how she immediately wanted to go in for a hug and her mom with her stupid bitter sour face. 🥺 Poor baby. She has such a good brother tho. Mad respect for the boy.
I'm so annoyed that everyone is talking about Mia and her mother and not talking about the wholesome family like the other mom and daughter when she was tearing up my heart broke but when took it like a trooper just like her mom said she was beautiful too🥲 I'm so glad that pageant mom was loving 🥰
Her brother was so sweet to her - ‘don’t cry, please’ - he’s more of a role model than her mum is and the fact that she says ‘forget about it’ to her dad just shows how much it’s been drummed into her that she needs to win. And her mum screwing up her face at her child winning something is disgusting to me :(
Meaghan, Age... 11?! I think they mean 21. I'm not familiar with the whole pageant thing, but isn't it a bit weird that they have 6 foot tall pre teens competeing against toddlers who can barely walk?
What a wonderful and supportive big brother. He was the only one to comfort her when she started to cry, AND tried to cheer up his mom when she was having a tantrum. Id say hes the most mature one in the family.
the father is just as guilty as the terrible mother... he let his 4 year old daughter go through huge psychological damage just to appease his wife.. that’s just as horrid:(
Just goes to show that she does this for herself not because her daughter wants to. I’m glad she didn’t win cause that little girl would not have seen one penny of that $10,000.
The tiny child ripping something off her head and stomping away? Give her ALL! OF! THE! TITLES! The brother deserves the biggest title of all. That Mom needs to check herself.
@@tyramcpherson6308 That is awful. I’ve lost a few family members to cancer and I would not wish it on my worst enemy. I’m glad to hear she’s in remission.
Ultimate grand supreme is competition within all the age groups, hence “ultimate grand supreme” if you don’t get something in your age group it means you have a chance to beat older girls too. That’s why the start with every single age group first and then move on to the ultimate prize.
@@kadyk9870 What you’re saying has nothing to do with the original comment . Everybody knows that award is between all age divisions , but they’re saying that she looks older to be 11 , not that she’s too old to win the title .
Mia has the best brother anyone can have, he is so supportive and really sweet, he comforted her and told her she’ll be up to get a big title. I also saw she was diagnosed with cancer and won her battle, I wonder how she is doing now. I hope they all are doing good and hope that the mom has had a change of attitude.
stressing this poor little baby girl out making her feel like she isn’t good enough ugh i had enough of that with my family without them putting me on the spot with pageants like this this is so gross to me. if you do this with your child please stress the importance of this being for fun and your value isn’t based on how you look..
Saliz and her mother were so mature and sweet, she was upset about not winning but she didn’t throw a lil fit or get mad at her mom, and her mom was still happy with what she got
Well. It very likely cost a lot more to prep for this whole thing. Those dresses unless they make it themselves are very pricey. What breaks my heart however is the kids focus on money. Unless a kid is a spoiled demanding brat they should not think about or yearn for money. They have 40+ years waiting for them where they have to do that. Adding years of childhood into that is just cruel.
Her brother is so sweet, that mother is so embarrassing to be acting like that and not supporting her daughter especially when she's sitting there crying!
I'm pretty sure dogs --- and cats --- are treated better ... ... but just don't fall down the rabbit hole of pedigree breeding in/for 'show pets', including, yes, rabbits ... that shit is insane ...
actually a lot of the girls that compete in pageants enjoy them. most parents give their child to choice to compete or not, my own included. it has always been my choice and i think that all parents should let their child choose what they want to do.
I absolutely agree - child pageants sexualise these children and the parents are okay with that. They should be illegal. Disgusting excuses for parents!!
I hate how the mother is treating this as "I lost! I'm angy!" no. Your daughter won and she was happy. I hate when mothers/fathers act as if they won but it's actually the daughter/son who won. This show should be cancelled.
This made me tear up a little. She was so proud of winning and her mother didn’t care about her feelings at all. I’m so insanely proud of my 2 year old daughter just when she puts her shoes on herself, I can’t imagine ever making her feel that small. Some parents make me so angry.
“You know how long I have been working for this? Three long years.” Bruh you might have bought the stuff and took time to help ur daughter but to be honest it’s your daughter up on stage doing the work, NOT THE MOTHER! The mother wants to win when she’s not even the one competing. Her attitude is horrible especially when other girls did great too. She disgusts me.
The brother is actually so sweet 10x better than the mother she just made the girl feel horrible
he really is - such a good brother
She's a narcissistic, horrible mother. Who makes their kid feel like they didn't win enough?? She made the whole event about herself.
You could see the disappointment in mias mothers face when she won 500 instead of 10k
At least the dad was a bit more supportive than the mom was
Ikr😃😀
Seeing that big brother telling his sister not to cry was the single most wholesome moment on the entire show
Probably the entire SERIES! LOL
@@kannethamartin859 yes like they act like the parent better than the mom
The $9 dress girl and mom were wholesome too :)
I know right, warmed my heart right up
My brother used to do that. And still does! Not for paegents, for hockey.
The girl was happy with her prize, her brother and father were telling “good job”, but her mom was acting like a child. A cold bucket of water on the little girls happiness...
She’s in Russian mail order bride
@@mawmawmakeup3602 She is okay now Mia beated the cancer
That poor little girl breaking down in fear that she wasn’t going to make her mother happy is just so horrible. What in the world is wrong with these parents? This is legitimate emotional abuse.
@@AnnieBrackett88 It's totally normal my mother is Russian to and if I wasn't on the top better not to get home
That mother is a selfish person she can ruin her daughter doing things like this her confidence can take a huge blow with a mother like her
Props to the other mom who gave her a reality check. "Many kids walked out of here with nothing". Too bad she didn't listen
She was Mia's hair and make-up artist too
Damnnnn I didn’t even know that! I thought she was just another mom!! Im grateful for people who are not afraid to put ppl in their place!
Yeah, at least Mia won 'something' during her time on the stage; most kids were forced to accept that they didn't even get anything in the first place, and that's how she decides to react?
That mom’s daughter was in another episode… I really liked her
Had the nerve to say she didn't get anything! She is not supposed to it is her daughters $500! I hate parents like that!
I don’t think automatically assuming your daughters gonna lose is a good way to set her up for success
I don't think automatically assuming you daughter is gonna WIN is a good way to set her up for success either. And sitting in a corner pouting because it's "not what I came here for" is not going to help your daughter have realistic expectations of life. Just because mommy says I am supposed to win does not make it so.
You didnt see the whole episode. I believe that Mia was the only girl that got cut of during beauty too.
@@tinydancer7426 Both I think are harmful. If you say a kid is never going to win then they won't try or think what they do is important. But they can get delusional if you tell them they will win. The best message is you can win but you have to work your butt off to do it. Toni Nadal said he would tell his nephew when playing Federer in their early days- Federer is way better than you, but you can win if you fight for it like there's no tomorrow.
I know right?!
The mum's attitude is disgusting the poor girl even her brother is better figure than her parents.
I couldn’t agree less it’s ugly she didn’t wanted to see her daughter win something and then she said she has 500$ like no Mia has 500$ cause ima worked for it
@Mary Patton Meyer hes probably better off though becasue at least he has some freedom not that its any good
I agree. If I remember correctly, her daughter won third place in this pageant. She's a beautiful little girl. Her costumes were gorgeous. And unlike a lot of the younger children I see on this show, she actually seemed to be enjoying the pageant. And even though she didn't win the top prize, she was proud and happy with what she DID win. I see a lot of little girls (some even older than Mia) who win SECOND place and still have a meltdown. Meanwhile, her mother just sat in the corner sulking like a brat with that ugly scowl on her face the whole time. The other lady was right.....a lot of those girls left with NOTHING. No trophy. No crown. No money. NOTHING. Her daughter gets a high title and $500 and rather than being PROUD of her, Mom is pouting like a 2 yr old because she didn't win a stupid, plastic trophy and a crown that was bigger. Shame on her.
@@CeltycSparrow Not to mention destroying her daughters self esteem
I agree, the brother seems more supportive....the mother is terrible.
the brother is more of a dependable figure to mia than her parents
The mother treats her like some kind of damn dress-up doll 😠
@@therealbingus978 the mother is using her to show off,money, etc.
These PARENTS NEED TO GROW UP NOT THE KIDS OMG POUTING BECAUSE YOU DIDNT WIN OH EXCUSE ME MIA DIDNT WIN 10GRAND JESUES CHRIST
Both of her brothers!:)
I love how her brothers are supportive
When the brother was was explaining how crowning works, I got tears in my eyes. What a good brother!!!
I feel so bad for the kid. She kept saying “forget it im not gonna win”. And when she won her first instinct was to go to her mom who was being a brat and not even congratulating her.
It’s really telling that she gets treated like shit when she doesn’t win. She’s 4, she doesn’t know the value of money, it’s all for her mom. Makes me wanna cry
The mom is a real Russin woman the have to win no matter what,shame on you mom ,so sad for Mia.
@@erzsebethracz1495 Mom is a true narcissist. Not all Russian moms are awful, I disagree. The real thing mama wants is not the money, its the illusion of being "the best"-- Narcissists only care about how they think they appear to the world. It's ALWAYS all about them, and other people are just THings they use, and then discard by their put-downs and complaints. Then, when they've alienated the people who finally see through through their heartlessness, they look desperately around them for more people to fool, and to get attention from. Like a very self-centered 2 year old, except, they're adults.
It's really sad
Oof. Imagine your young son comforting your daughter while you pout in a corner like a brat 😂🤦🏻♀️
That’s what happens with narcissists. The children became the parents
"she won 500$,but it's.....nothing ☹"
what a monster
Appalling behavour!!! Shame on her.
@@janebaker4912
Sadly my mum was a narcissistic person and an emotional bully. So been there, seen that, and tried to strangle a 15 year old 'classmate' because he made a nasty comment about my younger, severely disabled, sister. I was barely 5', and 100lbs soaking wet, but it took at least three other kids to hold me back from wanting to tear into him, right before a physics class took place. Funny thing was, after that, _no-one_ dare say a nasty thing about my sister ever again ... at least, not with me around ...
Even at age 8, or 9, it felt like I was more of a parent to my sister, than both our parents combined ... and I have an awful amount of regret for not doing more, given the sheer scale of abuse that was happening that affected us both, especially the literal criminal behaviour of our dad, and our mum, instead of doing the decent thing, and divorce his arse the moment he was jailed for nine years, instead not only buried it ... she visited him in prison ...
So, yes, I can imagine her older brothers being more fiercely protective of their younger sister than their own mum ... I would be ...
@@nigelft oh you poor thing.
I’m talking about being made to feel responsible for their care. A huge burden and not the child’s job.
Did you have that with your sister?
I feel so sorry for Mia. She quite obviously only wants her mother's love and attention. How she immediately ran to her mother and was all "look, money!" She knows that's the only thing her mother cares about. How fucked up is that.
The outfits, makeup and hair probably cost quadruple the second place prize money.
I thought the same thing. And her mom didn't even have the heart to sit with her daughter while awards were given out. That is awful. It's all awful 😢
Yeah but that's not the point ... they know what they are getting into. Your not guaranteed a win..
. But the least you can do is love your child win or lose. And be there for her. These moms on these shows are literally terrible. I could never imagine being anything but supportive of my child. I have a two year old and ANYTIME she does anything her daddy and I are right there to yell her name and clap and cheer. I want my daughter to feel love 100 percent of the time
Not just when she does well and brings money home. These pageants are SUPPoSED to benefit the children... but I honestly dont see how when their self esteem is shot down by their moms when they dont get prize money and win number 1. Like that mom said
Your child won money. Some kids there walked away with LITERaLLY NoTHING. No titles. No money. Her child got a high crown. And got a second place prize money. Celebrate your daughter 1st place or last.
@@mawmawmakeup3602 I totally agree with you. My heart aches for that little girl and all of the kids on this show 😢
@@laurebourgeois7256 omg that's terrible I had NO iDEA . I hope the little girl will beat it. Poor thing.
“I have $500. But I don’t have anything”. You have a child who was on stage beaming, so proud of herself. A beautiful moment you missed. I don’t even know this child and k was watching with a smile, honored I got to see her experience such a happy moment. She’s a winner, always. You also had the opportunity to witness your son comfort your daughter, another beautiful moment most parents cherish. You had the opportunity to just..enjoy this day.
Right. And I hope it’s not her money. I hope she’s saving it for her daughters future. But “I have 500” etc. implies that she sees it has her own money
It was really ALL about Mom - "me,me,me!"😢
Glass 1/2 empty kinda mom.
The moment she was complaining about how some of the other contestants was not "sticking by the rules", I knew she was thinking her daughter was cheated of the top prize.
The brother is an ANGEL
LITTERALLY!
Never underestimate the power of a older brother to become fiercely protective of a younger sister, irrespective of their parents.
He strikes me as the kind of brother to read her a bedtime story, to help her sleep, willingly ... but God help any older kids that bully her, because he is likely to try and punch their lights out ...
I know
Ikr
I felt like the show really tried to portray the children as spoiled, when they should’ve been portrayed as abused.
I feel like this show shouldn't have been made at all. It should be cancelled and forgotten. No little kid deserves to be treated like crap in reality shows like these.
@@claritycrystal8742 I don't think it should be cancelled, but you can really take it either way. All it's doing is filming what happens behind the scenes at these pageants. It's not helping the abuse in any way, but it is shedding light on the abusive nature of these relationships between children and parents.
@@jimmybobbyjoe behinds the scenes of these pageants which shows abuse and overly sexualizing their underaged daughters because they lack the self awareness to do the world a favor and blow their brains out already or give their child away to someone literally anyone else with better parenting skills instead they live like leeches through their underaged daughters so they can be proud with their useless lives, instead of exposing this the show glorifies fat women acting like 6 year olds, and makes the children look like the problem. Like we get it Haley or Brenda or Karen you got pregnant at 20 and want to prove your not a failure.
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All these children are abused. They only act spoiled because their parents allow and encourage it.
“I have $500.” That statement right there made my heart drop. That is Mia’s money not her’s.
They should have not given cash but a grant that could be used for college/university
@@melrobertson2743 completely agree!!!
@@melrobertson2743 FACTS!
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They should make it where the parents can’t take the money and it’s put in an account for the kids
Her brother has the maturity and empathy that her mother lacks
Every child deserves a parent.
Not every parent deserves a child.
this comment would’ve been in poor taste if you knew she was later diagnosed with a brain tumour at six
Well that kinds deep
@@katie3092 awww :(
@@katie3092 No, it’s not in poor taste. Just because Mia had/has cancer doesn’t make her mother a decent mother whom deserves such a great little girl. She’s a terrible mother still. It doesn’t change what she’s done, how she’s behaved, how she treated her before she was diagnosed or anything similar
@@katie3092 Um no... the comment still stands.
It is so sad that the mother thinks that the pagent is about her. She is probably never satisfied with anything. The darling little girl won some money and a crown. Let her enjoy it. Be happy for her.
Exactly this
Her mother seems to be a narcissist in my opinion.
That kid literally did everything for her mother and yet she still didn’t even get a congratulation from her
I know! She couldn't even say, "That's wonderful, sweetheart" or "Good job, Mia!" Good grief. Sulking like SHE'S the toddler. Reprehensible behavior.
@@lizettewanzer8650 exactly
Her mother is discusting- she’s a baby and her mom is treating her like trash
The look on the little Russian girls face so when she got her name called up was so wonderful she doesn’t care that she win the title as long as she won some thing and got her mothers approval that’s all she cared about… And her horrible mother didn’t even give her a congratulations or anything.. wow mother of the year!!! NOT
Unfortunately, from what I've seen on many of these shows, it's the case with too many mother/daughters. And the mother's trying to live, pagent wise thru their daughters.
Sexualizing kids should be illegal
The whole concept of a kids beauty pageant is disgusting and to then have pedophiles as judges is even worse
Right like what is that second little girl wearing
@loonie2195YEA LIKE WHAT?!?
That is all this is too! Makes ya wonder about the folks who put this on and the ones who force their daughters and son to do this!
Sexualizing kids is illegal and abuse
I love the lady yelling at Mia's mom. I know she's a pageant mom so she's probably crazy too, but she's proud of the kids. And mias mom wouldn't even go see her kid be crowned.
She is the mom who had her daughter's eyebrows shaved 😂 but I knew she was a good mother, Idk why people hate on her
@@enjie3061 probably has something to do with her waxing her daughters eyebrows and negatively affecting her self-esteem
@@blueturtle3623 but the kid was happy and very passionate about pageants
pretty bold of you to assume that all pageant moms are crazy
@@emilywaugh2761 You're right, there is that one lady with healthy boundaries who refused to go insane with her kid's makeup and isn't competitive at all. But by and large, including moms not in the show, they are. My aunt is a pageant/dance mom and yeah, that shit ain't healthy.
it was sad how her dad was so happy for her but she just completely ignored his hug to run to her mum who was sat sulking in the corner :(
she’s so afraid of disappointing her mom 😭😩
@ Dog Traning Tips She probably doesn't trust dad that much because like everyone else in the family, he has to please mommy dearest, to get along with the bitch, so mommy holds all the power in the family, BECAUSE DAD HAS NO BACKBONE!
Her father always hugs her, what she misses is her mama's hugs 💔🙁
@@JessyingAround Yes, and sadly, you really only get a chance to hug your children, and show how much you love them, (by your actions/words)when they're young-- after they're on their own, its almost too late--
@@lindadee34 Yh, you're right. Really sad....😞
I dislike this type of contest so much. Mothers just put unnecessary stress on their kids. Besides it seems like they're teaching their kids that looks is the only thing that matters in life.
I am sure these children grow up to be mentally unstable!
I hated seeing the little girl cry 😢 like she wasn’t good enough. I don’t get these contests
Not all of them, but a lot do sadly.
It's not only moms? Even if the only one participating is the mother, any father who stands by & allows this is complicit.
These competitions put way too much pressure on these girls!
That big brother was so supportive he would of been proud of her no matter what, more supportive than her parents by a long shot
Her dad seemed supportive too
The judge saying how the Russian doll was over the top and weirded out seems to be lacking culture in her life.
We’ll said 👍
Yet a four year old crunking in a midriff outfit earned a standing ovation... disgusting
Also, “a little over the top with all of the props”? There was literally one box on the stage 😂
exactly like is she even russian
@@zaria100 The little girl's mother is Russian.
Mia ended up getting cancer a couple years later. Luckily she won her fight but sadly no longer has hair. She is one of the most humble and kind children that has ever been on Toddlers and Tiara's. She deserves the world. ❤
No! Breaks my heart she had to go through that. Glad to hear she won her fight!
😥
Thank God she won against her cancer! I just loved her and I can tell she deserves the world just by seeing her happiness when she won the $500 dollars. She is so sweet, humble and kind ♡
Thank god she defeated cancer. I hope the mother learned that there is more inportant things in this world that putting a kid in a dress and making her win shit
sadly i believe that the brain tumour had to be a turning point in that mothers values
The girl that won 10.000 dollars LITERALLY SHE DOESNT HAVE 11 YEARS, just look at her, she looks like 14 or 15, thats unfair, but i found the brother of Mia so sweet and nice to her.
Ultimate grand supreme is competition within all the age groups, hence “ultimate grand supreme” if you don’t get something in your age group it means you have a chance to beat older girls too. That’s why the start with every single age group first and then move on to the ultimate prize.
@@kadyk9870 on the screen it said she was 11
I thought the same thing. Even if she is 11 how is fair to put 5-7 year olds in the same supreme division of 11 year olds? That’s just robbing those little girls at that point. What was the point of them competing in age divisions if they’re not even judged in their age division??
@@moniqualove4882 I'd say make-up, high heels and genetics make her look far more mature for sure. My Sister is 6 years younger but 2 heads taller XD Everyone thinks I'm the youngest which i will take as a compliment lol.
Growth really varies from person to person... I was 1,69m at age 11 and I looked just as, and I’d say more mature than this girl - keep in mind she’s wearing makeup too (that’s very aging).
Looking at Mia almost in tears over NOT winning $10,000 was appalling. No child that age should be so pressured to win ANYTHING that she's ready to cry over losing a monetary prize!
The dad opened his arms to the daughter twice wanting to hug her, but she just ran past... Poor dad!
Coz the baby girl wanted her mom's validation. She wants her mom to be proud, but ended up seeing a disappointed face 😔
The poor girl is emotionally abused and just wants her mother's love and attention. He's allowing his daughter to endure that, to suffer psychologically. I don't pity him, he's responsible as well. He shouldn't allow his wife to abuse his daughter.
He’s enabling the mother in her abuse of their daughter which makes him just as bad
@@chieve5516 Dad has shown that he's just trying to get along with mommy dearest-- he does nothing to stop the bullying behavior, to protect his daughter from mommy's horrible criticism.
Mia is now battling cancer.. she is such a sweet young lady and it breaks my hearts to see such a happy, goofy teenager in pain. Prayers for your family!!
poor baby :[ I hope she is okay !!
I had no idea… I hope her Mom learns now more than ever to cherish her daughter. Mia deserves to be loved.
Source?
@@kayarose922 Google it, it’s true.
yeah, and i bet its all the chronic stress that mother put on her little baby that caused it. stress = cancer.
“I have $500” seriously! You weren’t even around while your daughter was crying thinking she wasn’t getting anything. Be proud and supportive of your child for goodness sake! Shame...
The big brother cheering her up is so heart warming
is that an 11 year old??? She looks like a grown up
Yeah.... I dont know man why is she in the pageant?
Thats so weird...
I was like she’s 25 what the 😅
@glowinqhaiilee ꨄ woah! Thats a very high, high heels!
I thought nobody is gonna talk about it.
The dynamic in this family has changed as Mia was diagnosed with cancer shortly after the show. Now they are all about her health and care.
Child abuse
Bc of tan fake and that makeup never in my life I have did that and the first time I wore eyeliner was when I was 9
Does Mia have Instagram?
@@michellez7245 I think Facebook. I can’t remember.
@@xii024 fake tan does not give you cancer
WHY DID THE ULTIMATE GRAND SUPREME WINNER LITERALLY LOOK 19 YEARS OLD
especially when it said she was only 11 years old.
She kinda looks like 17!?
@@michelle-7566 true
She looks older than me, I’m 20
Somebody lyin
The brother was so kind and went straight to her and explained
This is so sad. The mother has already instilled in this little girl that she has no value unless she brings home a big prize for external beauty rather than brains and internal integrity. Pathetic.
That little girl was excited about the $500 but I bet the mom took it from her. That little girl at the end broke my heart.
How she said "I won $500" umm no bitch. You didn't, your kid did. We all know she took the money from the kid as soon as they got it.
My heart broke when Mia ran with the 500 to show her mom. It wasn't mommy I won, it was mommy I won money. You can see how she immediately wanted to go in for a hug and her mom with her stupid bitter sour face. 🥺 Poor baby. She has such a good brother tho. Mad respect for the boy.
I'm so annoyed that everyone is talking about Mia and her mother and not talking about the wholesome family like the other mom and daughter when she was tearing up my heart broke but when took it like a trooper just like her mom said she was beautiful too🥲 I'm so glad that pageant mom was loving 🥰
y’all talking ab the mom but can we talk ab the fact that the girl that won 10k was clearly not 11😂
Yeah she looked like 14/15 lol 🤣
shes just tall
She could just look mature for her age. I had a friend who was 12 but looked 20 because of how early she developed.
IKR I was so confused...
She literly looks 20 in my opinion😂
Her brother was so sweet to her - ‘don’t cry, please’ - he’s more of a role model than her mum is and the fact that she says ‘forget about it’ to her dad just shows how much it’s been drummed into her that she needs to win. And her mum screwing up her face at her child winning something is disgusting to me :(
Meaghan, Age... 11?! I think they mean 21.
I'm not familiar with the whole pageant thing, but isn't it a bit weird that they have 6 foot tall pre teens competeing against toddlers who can barely walk?
Well pageants have different age groups like 5 to 6 9 to 10 and 11 to 12
They aren't competing for the same prizes.
In her defense I had a huge growth spurt when I was 11 and got real tall
I take that back I just saw her and…yeah she aint 11.
No way in hell she’s 11
What a wonderful and supportive big brother. He was the only one to comfort her when she started to cry, AND tried to cheer up his mom when she was having a tantrum. Id say hes the most mature one in the family.
Children shouldn’t be exposed to heavy makeup at their young age all in the name of winning a pageant and money
Feeling bad for all these children. Winning just the crown wasn't good enough.
@@zzizahacallar ya...
As well as how one of those parents actually taught their TODDLER to twerk.
Anyone that thinks that it’s okay should get help
The ultimate winner is 11? More like 20
Ya she look. Much older
It happens, puberty can hit girls as young as 10 and they can hit sudden growth spurts
I thought I was the only one that noticed
Yeah I literally thought that she was 17 or something
Unbelieveble...
Judging kids because of looks instead of whom they are as a person...
Sick,sick,sick world those people live in...
Someone give that brother an award
He deserves best universal big brother award
Agreed
3:00 It’s so disturbing to see a girl that young act that way. How do some parents find that appealing? 😳
It personally made me laugh 😂
Agree. I cringed so hard. Like, just stop. Let these little kids be little kids for Gods sake.
Lol
and all of them in the audience laughing like it's some sort of joke..
@@wiezyczkowata Exactly. The moms seem proud of their daughters for acting like cheap street walkers
Let me correct mia’s mom. It’s not YOUR 500 it’s YOUR DAUGHTER’S 500!
When I received money at my first communion a savings account was made for me so it can be put in there
Fr it just sounds like she’s exploiting Mia for money
@@20PINKluvr that’s the right way, but sadly some parents take all of it :(
@@20PINKluvr omg reading this brought me back to 3rd grade. I'm 26 now so that was forever ago. But yeah I miss being a child at times.
This Mother is awful. Honestly one of the most immature I’ve ever seen.
"3 YEARS, *I've* been working for this!"
*sits in a corner scowling while her 4 year old child runs to her with $500*
My heart fucking broke for Mia. She actually won something & the first thing she wanted to do was show her momma.... fucking heart breaking
The father and the bro, especially the bro deserves a prize
the father is just as guilty as the terrible mother... he let his 4 year old daughter go through huge psychological damage just to appease his wife.. that’s just as horrid:(
The father sucks for allowing his daughter to be entered in this in the first place. The children are the only real innocents.
Just goes to show that she does this for herself not because her daughter wants to. I’m glad she didn’t win cause that little girl would not have seen one penny of that $10,000.
The tiny child ripping something off her head and stomping away? Give her ALL! OF! THE! TITLES!
The brother deserves the biggest title of all.
That Mom needs to check herself.
I loved that part lmao
@@tyramcpherson6308 That is awful. I’ve lost a few family members to cancer and I would not wish it on my worst enemy. I’m glad to hear she’s in remission.
Everything you should never do to your daughter.
the winner looks older & taller than 11 yrs old
Yeah she looks like an adult
@@StarKidDreams true
Ultimate grand supreme is competition within all the age groups, hence “ultimate grand supreme” if you don’t get something in your age group it means you have a chance to beat older girls too. That’s why the start with every single age group first and then move on to the ultimate prize.
@@kadyk9870 What you’re saying has nothing to do with the original comment . Everybody knows that award is between all age divisions , but they’re saying that she looks older to be 11 , not that she’s too old to win the title .
You people are off!
This is Child Abuse pain and simple and should be taken off air
Right they are teaching kids that they can’t be kids and they are going to be messed up when they grow up
That baby twerking bothered me so much.
Even with the show canceled unfortunately this kind of behavior goes on with the many competitive mothers and pageants
@Ivy Nelson yep or BANNED completely
I'm waiting for the kids to about: We are not plastic dollies for you to dress us up as so that you can win big prizes
The mother or father not comforting that little girl is breaking my heart
Unfortunately, some kids are born to utterly shitty parents, but the older siblings tend to become fiercely protective of their younger ones ...
That girl who won ultimate there’s no way she’s 11
I think they meant 21 hahahahhaa
Mia has the best brother anyone can have, he is so supportive and really sweet, he comforted her and told her she’ll be up to get a big title. I also saw she was diagnosed with cancer and won her battle, I wonder how she is doing now. I hope they all are doing good and hope that the mom has had a change of attitude.
stressing this poor little baby girl out making her feel like she isn’t good enough ugh i had enough of that with my family without them putting me on the spot with pageants like this this is so gross to me. if you do this with your child please stress the importance of this being for fun and your value isn’t based on how you look..
Saliz and her mother were so mature and sweet, she was upset about not winning but she didn’t throw a lil fit or get mad at her mom, and her mom was still happy with what she got
her brother comforting her was so sweet🥺🥺
He genuinely is the best big bro
You will never convince me this is not child abuse.
''I have $500.00'' UH NO THAT'S YOUR KID'S MONEY !
That’s exactly what I was thinking
Lots of mothers doing this type of stuff are doing it to live through their children so they think they deserve the prize
@@dannyjack659 Yeah
sorry but them catcalling at a three year old while she's popping is just gross
Nah don't even apologize, it's disgusting.
she shouldn't even BE "popping"
That MOM was a spoiled brat lol. “$500 is nothing” like seriously?! I’d love $500 to be handed to me 😂
Well that’s most stupidest thing; it cost them thousands of dollars investment …
Well. It very likely cost a lot more to prep for this whole thing. Those dresses unless they make it themselves are very pricey.
What breaks my heart however is the kids focus on money. Unless a kid is a spoiled demanding brat they should not think about or yearn for money. They have 40+ years waiting for them where they have to do that. Adding years of childhood into that is just cruel.
Wow her brother is a better mother to her than her actual mother.
Her brother is so sweet, that mother is so embarrassing to be acting like that and not supporting her daughter especially when she's sitting there crying!
This is treating your child like a dog in a dog show
I'm pretty sure dogs --- and cats --- are treated better ...
... but just don't fall down the rabbit hole of pedigree breeding in/for 'show pets', including, yes, rabbits ... that shit is insane ...
what's sad is this little girl was diagnosed with cancer sometime after this episode.. this mom makes me rage
Mia- imma use this 10,0- wait how much is it?
Random person- 500
Mia- imma use my 500 dollars to go to sea world....
I hope she got to go ...
No one:
Mums putting 10kg of makeup on their child
When the brother said don’t cry please at 5:54 it absolutely made my heart melt and who’s cutting onions 🧅
It’s disgusting how much pressure the mums put on these literal babies!
the brother is such a wholesome kid. so genuine and positive, even with the mother as sour as she was..
The girl who won 10,000 dollars, an 11 year old? She looks taller and older for an 11 year old girl 😐
Same thoughts. I thought she was 14 to 16-ish
She’s definitely not 11 maybe just an accident in editing? Idk but she looks like 14 or older unless it’s just the makeup and high heels
@@olivia8oof possibly, I’m 11. I’m taller than most kids at the standing height of 5’7.
@@savannahohlsen8062 is that even possible?!
Idk it’s not the only the height more like all her friends were close to her height
The way she cried killed me because it wasn’t like a temper tantrum it was devastation because her mom wasn’t there for her
6:18 Omd your acting like a 4 year old while your son acts like the parent
She acts like winning is more important than being true to yourself.
Stuff like that should be illegal. Emotional abuse of children 🤯
Amen! I agree completely!
actually a lot of the girls that compete in pageants enjoy them. most parents give their child to choice to compete or not, my own included. it has always been my choice and i think that all parents should let their child choose what they want to do.
I absolutely agree - child pageants sexualise these children and the parents are okay with that. They should be illegal. Disgusting excuses for parents!!
The mother..."Three years I'VE been working for this!....I was working for the big title...Its nothing for ME"...says everything right there...
I hate how the mother is treating this as "I lost! I'm angy!" no. Your daughter won and she was happy. I hate when mothers/fathers act as if they won but it's actually the daughter/son who won. This show should be cancelled.
This made me tear up a little. She was so proud of winning and her mother didn’t care about her feelings at all. I’m so insanely proud of my 2 year old daughter just when she puts her shoes on herself, I can’t imagine ever making her feel that small. Some parents make me so angry.
The brother was so sweet. Mia is luck to have such a caring figure to replace the horrible mother
It was so sad that Mia had to run outside the room to look for her Mumma because she wasn't in the row with the family 💔
Her brother was so much more supportive then her mom 😔
“Don’t cry please “ that hit my heart different 😭💗
this video makes me so sad, this sweet baby was diagnosed with a brain tumour not long after this
Wtf prove it!!
@@meagen1342 there’s a Facebook page called miracles for Mia Spargo
@@bethrossiter8497 I just found it you’re right
@@meagen1342 google it her name is Mia Spargo but it was brain cancer not tumour
Aww :(
Awful! As the late Dominick Dunne said, only people of a lower class would permit their children to participate in these horrible pageants!
debutant balls are just as bad or even worse, dressing up rich young women to find a rich young husband.
@@dianna1976 yes, you are right, but at least those girls are grown. These little kids are going to be messed up mentally.
This is how jealousy is created amongst women, it starts here as children
It's so sad.
I like how the other moms gave her a lesson, because she did very well, just for her mom to try and take her down
3:05 this. This is everything wrong with toddlers and tiaras, and why pageants should never exist for children
That mom is horrid. Mia was so excited to get called and her mom could of cared less. That brother was so supportive
“You know how long I have been working for this? Three long years.” Bruh you might have bought the stuff and took time to help ur daughter but to be honest it’s your daughter up on stage doing the work, NOT THE MOTHER! The mother wants to win when she’s not even the one competing. Her attitude is horrible especially when other girls did great too. She disgusts me.
Why subject your child to this garbage....it definitely is a form of abuse and should be stopped.... nasty business!!!
I love how her brother was trying to calm her down So wholesome ❤️
Mia's big brother is such a gentle soul. Such a great boy!
Legitimately the mother should be a lot more supportive. THE GIRLS BROTHER’S WAS EVEN MORE SUPPORTIVE.
This mom needs to stop acting like a 2 year old she is grown enough and show support to her daughter