I spend five years believing my best friend tried to SA me, the truth is much more disgusting

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024

Комментарии • 37

  • @lolmanv
    @lolmanv 3 месяца назад +7

    i do like the fact how she didnt blow his life up back then by telling everyone that he sa'd her. he kept his job and all his friends (except her ofc) so compared to other blamed for sa stories, this ended on an overall good note

  • @user-rg8rm7rj3n
    @user-rg8rm7rj3n 6 месяцев назад +22

    If you reading this you are good and i hope you have a good day

    • @FlameHead5
      @FlameHead5 6 месяцев назад +1

      You too 😊

  • @_junedays_1614
    @_junedays_1614 6 месяцев назад +37

    OP was not the person who was supposed to be blamed, she was SA’d on her birthday by her boyfriend. Then that same person gaslighted her to think he saved her, and the person who SA’d her was her friend. So who in their right mind other than someone one Reddit would blame the op for this situation.

  • @ultraboy2669
    @ultraboy2669 6 месяцев назад +33

    I don't think op deserves that much hate, she was lied to and manipulated, yes she should have listened to mark's side of the story and she should be held accountable for that but i can understand why she believed paul because she was in shock of the entire situation and had no real reason to not believe him at that time, also i feel like when SOME people are told something then told a completely different story they automatically have bias for the first thing they're told, now if marks life was destroyed then i get it if you hate her but he was fine (aside from the beating paul gave him) and had a very happy life. does that excuse her not hearing mark out, no but im still empathetic towards her and cut her a idy little bit of slack because the entire situation was of owens doing and he is the true villain here, Im glad mark is happy and they reconciled.

    • @jackchop1576
      @jackchop1576 6 месяцев назад +2

      All you women with fake male usernames are all over every video with this story on it and praising her. Not sure what "hate" you people keep referring to when this is literally every comment.

    • @kidflaxh5130
      @kidflaxh5130 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@jackchop1576 yup

    • @ultraboy2669
      @ultraboy2669 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@jackchop1576 the hate is in the reddit comments and im a male

    • @user-es2vf4qn3h
      @user-es2vf4qn3h 5 месяцев назад

      @@jackchop1576 if and I’m saying this with a giant IF those messages saying to F off existed she kinda deserves that a bit not right but I can’t get mad at those ppl IF they did do that

  • @Devilinabag
    @Devilinabag 4 дня назад

    Sounds like Mark lost the fight, paul realized this and was successful in his threats against mark to stay quiet.

  • @Meggaronni
    @Meggaronni 6 месяцев назад +12

    yeah i think the comments are harsh towards op.

  • @Shelby_YT_Army
    @Shelby_YT_Army 6 месяцев назад +2

    These stories somehow help me relax

  • @Lkadow_dela
    @Lkadow_dela Месяц назад +2

    Wowww

  • @empi4106
    @empi4106 Месяц назад

    Does anyone know the name of the background music?

  • @TheyCallMeJay
    @TheyCallMeJay 6 месяцев назад +8

    She was a victim yes, but mark was a victim and she was the attacker in marks life, why she acting like she deserves any sumpathy

    • @ununhexium
      @ununhexium 5 месяцев назад +9

      How is she an attacker

    • @amoghlad9792
      @amoghlad9792 5 месяцев назад +8

      How is she an attacker. She was getting gaslit

    • @SinNombreYQueWea
      @SinNombreYQueWea 2 месяца назад +4

      She had no way of knowing, given the way she described how blurry everything was. All she did wrong was not catch a couple of red flags from her boyfriend, but considering it was him that came back to untie her, it made perfect sense to her and it would've made sense to you in this situation too.

  • @MtnDewWarrior
    @MtnDewWarrior 4 месяца назад +1

    Well he got out of the friendzone, just not the way he had hoped

    • @SinNombreYQueWea
      @SinNombreYQueWea 2 месяца назад +1

      I am not sure why you think he was in the friendzone in the first place.

    • @MtnDewWarrior
      @MtnDewWarrior 2 месяца назад

      ​@@SinNombreYQueWea men becomes women's best friend when they don't have the courage to tell the girl they want to be with them or the women makes it clear they are not interested in being more then friends. Then they spend years in the friend zone hoping some day she might realize he's always been the one

    • @SinNombreYQueWea
      @SinNombreYQueWea 2 месяца назад

      @@MtnDewWarrior Sounds like you've never had a female friend. For the record I think what you're saying is really common, and it is normal for people to develop feelings for friends, be it men or women. The problem is that you think this happens 100% of the time.
      That's just not true, honestly I've had and still have plenty of female friends and I'd be lying to you if I told you I didn't want to shag several of them voer the years, but a little physical attraction is as deep as it goes. After I got a partner, then all my friends stayed as friends and that's just it. I think there's gotta be something wrong with people who are unable to have a friend of the opposite sex because they are so desperate for some sort of romantic connection.

    • @natchotzo8843
      @natchotzo8843 10 дней назад +1

      Please, go outside and talk to humans

  • @Brodyb510
    @Brodyb510 6 месяцев назад +3

    I’m a dog 🐶

  • @kidflaxh5130
    @kidflaxh5130 6 месяцев назад +4

    people siding with op in comments we all know if op was a guy you wouldn't

    • @ultraboy2669
      @ultraboy2669 6 месяцев назад +7

      i would

    • @scarletassassin523
      @scarletassassin523 6 месяцев назад +7

      I would

    • @ununhexium
      @ununhexium 5 месяцев назад +9

      So you’re saying if a man was almost SA’d by his girlfriend but his girlfriend convinced him it was his friend and he stopped talking to her we would blame him for… what exactly?

    • @MikeTyson-Easy
      @MikeTyson-Easy 5 месяцев назад

      ⁠​⁠@@ununhexium it's just the less people would take it seriously and its the truth tbh the woman would get hate but not as much as the man for SA imagine this a man goes to a shop and he sexually assault a woman and a women also goes to the shop and also sexually assaults a man who do you think you're gonna get more trouble?

    • @MikeTyson-Easy
      @MikeTyson-Easy 5 месяцев назад

      @@ununhexium it's not that people would not support the guy I'm the same less people would care

  • @hauldencottenfield869
    @hauldencottenfield869 Месяц назад

    I love how she’s trying to make herself a victim when she ruined the life of her savior. Let this be a lesson for every man in this situation. Mind your business and never help a woman being assaulted. They are vile

    • @Samuel.Strange.Supreme
      @Samuel.Strange.Supreme 18 дней назад +3

      Bad attempt of rage bait. But if this isn’t rage bait and you actually believe what you just typed then you didn’t listen to the video and have deep mental is. I mean who TF thinks like this?

    • @natchotzo8843
      @natchotzo8843 10 дней назад +1

      Wtf ???
      She has been SA
      She IS a victim
      And she did not ruin his life, she just never talked to him again .
      "Never a woman being assaulted"
      Wtf is wrong with you