I’m always so frustrated how elegance, grace & sophistication is associated with whiteness. What about Tamera says she acts like a white woman? She’s half white!!!! Are we saying black people are ratchet? Tamera is an elegant woman with grace.
@@Sweetness_g Edited Thank you all, but my original question wasn't about physical closeness. From posted pictures, isn't Tia emotionally closer to her mother?
Tia is the one putting it out on social media while Tamera is minding her own business and tbh ya all love the drama otherwise you wouldnt be watching the video's about their drama lol
Tia is a pain. Remember when they were working on a joint project and Tia was secretly working on another project with someone else? When Tamera found out, Tia told her that they could proceed with their joint project if the other thing didn’t work out? Tia always seems desperate for attention. Tamera is happy with her life and putting her young family first, and Adam made good money which allowed Tamera to be more selective about her projects.
@@darlinnicky3302 I’m black but this of black ppl mostly judging these sisters. Since we in end times & God is persecuting Christians, they too will be judged. Trust I’m not just one of the 144,000 but the leader
In my opinion it seems like Tia could be jealous of Tamera because for 1 Tamera knows exactly who she is,a real class act,she is rooted and grounded in her beliefs. Sometimes when people can't sway you into being who they think you should be then its a problem. I pray that they will be able to find the silver lining and be close again. God speed🙏
No Tamera is jealous of Tia's success careers. Tia won't be tell Tamera abt her plans and her ideas. TAMERA need find her own ideas and plans on her own but she is copy what Tia got . Tamera should do clothes line or go back do decorations somebody house do some projects not copy Tia ideas.
@@motherof278Two truths can co-exist. It's possible that they are both jealous of each other for different reasons. It doesn't help that the public has always compared the two.
the streets are saying, the streets, the streets...but the title says "Tia opens open up..." folks are SHAMELESS with the click-baiting. Also...there was NOTHING strange w/ Tamera's response to the question about Tia's divorce. She was just avoiding saying anything. y'all be REACHING
I don't think they hate each other,their just in different places in life,Siblings have disagreements or differences all the time,I hope whatever the issues is between them gets resolved and they are united again as sisters!
Family can be toxic too. You love them but sometimes you have to distance yourself from them. I use to find it hardcm to believe that family members could be envious of their loved ones but It's unfortunate and it happens.
I feel she mourning her parents divorce too when she said she always wanted the dynamic of a mother and father in one household 😢I wish Tia and Cory all the best, it can’t be easy dealing with such a private moment publicly and when there are children involved. ❤
@@CocoChanelle-1 she’s still human, people go through these things everyday, she don’t deserve the backlash for what she’s going through in her marriage. Her job makes her public not her private business. But it is what it is people have their opinions
They are BIRACIAL- White/Black. If Tamera is more comfortable in her White world, she has the right to flourish in it. If Tia wants to embrace her Blackness, she has the right, as well. Tia has ALWAYS been dismissal of Tamera and her feelings.
@@latrinaEvettParker-y8p how about you pray for them and stop tagging everyone saying the same thing, like a BOT.... I said what I said Tia has always had the more arrogant attitude and tamera is more laid back. Now you take it however and go play with someone else
Lmao, i mean the language is kinda wild I'm not gonna lie, but her putting it that way says to me she really thought her marriage to Corey was" elementary" or "basic" ....😬 and that she ready for something more stimulating/advanced.
Well It's not actually the case..... Tia seems to display narcissistic tendencies...and Her twin empathetic tendencies......if both are left u checked it could be not a good thing they both need to learn to respect other people's boundaries
I don’t think anyone is “the problem”. Every relationship goes through seasons. Tamera is still married and a full time mom. Tia is on a self healing journey after divorce. I’m sure they’ll be close again..they’re just in different phases in life..and that’s OKAY! This is why we need to take care of our OWN mental health instead of expecting our loved ones to do it ALL for us. These are the times we should be going to therapy, joining support groups and seeking guidance from our pastors instead of, UNINTENTIONALLY, overwhelming the ones closest to us.
I think Tamera did all she could do but her sister is very prideful and has a lot of growth to do especially when it comes to communication. I totally get it because that’s what I’m going through with my family now and it’s like at some point I can’t keep holding your hand and begging for you to listen to how I feel. We grown now so I’m just going to make the decision to limit contact or be cool with you and I chose to limit contact. I’m not about to keep fighting with you at my grown age.
@@IyaT-c5e Because Tamera doesn't want Tia's toxicity into her family. Tamera has her own family and doing well unlike Miserable Tia with her loneliness.
It’s sad but twins are like that a lot of times.I grew up with a family that had four sets of twins and I was close to two sets of the twins and I also had a set of twin brothers in my family, and in each case one twin was sweet and loving to people and always tried to please the their twin, while the other twin was mean, self centered and was always trying to hurt their twin brother or sister. And that was the case three out of three of the twins that I knew.
Very true and it’s more when they are of thesame sex. When they are different sexes most times the male plays a more protective role and there is less competition
Why do people enjoy tearing Tamera down? Truly one of the few child stars to never mess herself up for fame, has been a standup lady from teen hood fame to adulthood. Has a great family, wonderful personality and isn’t walking around trying to be 25 at 45. Tamera is wonderful in my opinion. A classy woman of God and it shows. I pray the Lord heals Tia because coming after her twin isn’t it.
That comment about being manipulative is spot on. If she really respected her sister and their relationship then there was no reason to put it out there especially like that. Just say yeah after being with somebody for over 20 years it’s challenging to be by yourself and leave Tamera out of it. Trying to make it sound like yeah even my sister isn’t there for me now is manipulative
'Acts like a white woman’ wasn't something uttered by either sister in this video. To be direct..... I really don't appreciate you injecting race in a topic where there simply isn't any reason to do so. This kind of thing is literally tearing apart our country. Please don't in the future. There's plenty of other clickbait options.
Tamara doesn't act like a white woman. She acts like the married woman that she is. Stop pretending that single and married women somehow behave, act, or routine daily lives are in any way similar or the same. And its not acting white. Its called married vs single.
I distinctly remember on their show, when Tamera was planning her wedding, Tia made tanera feel guilty to the point of tears because tia said being a maid of honor was too much on her plate being pregnant. That's conpletely understandable but then she turns around and gets mad because shes left out of the planning of the Bridal shower. Like girl...get a grip Edit: oh she talked about it in the video
Amen, your dad is white. Tamera married someone who reminds her of her dad. She is very private and grounded leave her be .🙄 She is not trying to be messy or let her family get messed up by someone selfish. I’m sure that their mom is heartbroken over Tia’s behavior towards probably all of them. She is a manipulator.
I lost two brothers within less than six months of each other! Please don't let anything keep you from your siblimg. It's not worth it. You don't want regrets. Don't waste time that could quickly be taken away from you! 🙏🏾
Just because Tamera is married to a white man doesn’t mean she acts white! I mean wtf does acting a color mean! Tia should be ashamed of herself because she herself is mixed with a white father! Tia needs to sit back and truly worry about herself and really do a deep dive on herself! She’s not happy at all, no matter how fun and happy she plays to be! Let your sister/twin live her life with her family the way she chooses to! They are twins and will always love each other but for the time being it should be apart! Tia be getting on my nerves
I ain't gone lie I think Tamera did lean towards the white side more. That's why she married that white man. Tia chose to lean towards her blk side. I always found it cringey seeing that in Tamera.Married that weird looking yt man. Let's be honest here yt and blk ppl are different. There is a way that blk ppl act and way yt ppl act. You've been walking around in shades all your life if you believe there's not lol.
The reality show Tia & Tamera had years ago showed the dynamic in their relationship wasn't the best. I think that Tamera got tired of how Tia treated her and has distanced herself
If you watch the show back from season one, you will see how Tia did anything for Tamera. Even when she did not want to. Tamera Gas lighted all of y’all . 😂 Tamera even admitted to being controlling from episode one 🤦🏾♀️ . Why does no one listen 🤦🏾♀️
Watch their series . Tamera was controlling . And wanted her way or the highway with Tia 🤦🏾♀️ . Why can’t y’all read the situation. Actions speak louder than words. Tamera would always say “She feels Tia is being selfish”. But being emotionally mature would tell you , Tamera was just projecting .
I understand divorce is hard so I’m not minimizing it at all HOWEVER Tia keeps making it seem like Divorce happened to her when SHE CHOSE Divorce or should I say she “graduated” from it!! She then wanted to talk about how hard dating is 🙄🙄🙄 I’m like gurlllllll men are watching how much you shaded bashed and eluded to things about your husband…. They don’t want that‼️ she found out the hard way the streets ain’t what she thought it was🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ I don’t think she made the wrong choice because only she knows what’s best for her. I just hope she really finds what she’s looking for. May her journey continue to find peace and happiness. Tia isn’t dumb she knows exactly what she is doing marketing wise and it seems to be working…..
Why is Tia being messy and talking about her relationship with her sister. Tamera is allowed to make a path in her life just like Tia did. There was nothing strange her about her response. Divorce is very hard… none of this is Tamera’s fault.
I'm sorry but why is it a trend now to use "women" when you should use "woman" in a sentence? The thumbnail bothers me and I've been seeing it everywhere. I need proper subject noun agreement.
Tamara is right sticking with her husband before anyone. If you want the house to run right and the relationship runs right you have to put your husband first then your kids then your family as you see fit but usually it's mom and dad then siblings. She has put her husband and his career first and everything fell in place after . Y Tia messed up by getting divorced from a good man. He has a new girl and she is a baby momma with kids . Her value in the dating pool . Good for Tamara. Tia is selfish.
It's not fair to want to put that pressure on her sister. Sometimes people grow apart, they are very different and are in different places in life. I just hope she finds herself at least for the children's sake.
People want Tia to be the villain so bad. Siblings don’t have to be best friends. Plus they have always been very different. They aren’t in the same place in life and that 100% okay.
I’m glad i actually wait until the person of topic speaks for themselves because people will say anything. I already watched Tia say out her own mouth that they’re fine, they just aren’t kids anymore & have different focuses in life right now that monopolizes their time. It doesn’t change how they feel about each other or change them being twins. It’s sad how many folks instantly believe anything.
They are half white so it is highly unlikely because of race. If they are having a temporary estrangement, that is because of growing apart and or something else’s and etc. as such is life with siblings sometimes. By the way, both are very close to their white father. Tia did a cooking episode on her channel with her white father where they are very close. It has nothing to do with race.
Tamera always came off as the selfless and mature one. She moves with class and grace. She remains professional and more so private which is respectable.
Is there a show before the Tia and Tamera series , that I am missing ? Because… the first episode from that series showed Tia Pregnant … which explains Tia wanting to put her pregnancy first to protect her health and her babies. Even though she put Tamera first Everytime. I think I am missing something.
They are grown woman that have separate lives now they will navigate through this chapter of their lives and hopefully they will find some solace in the nearing future. 😊
Time for family therapy in private, ladies. Every family has its problems. No need to expose everything on social media. Best of luck to you both! ❤️❤️
Tia has always been a bully to her sister..wild, ratchet, selfish. Tamera is graceful, traditional & over considering others before her. Its good that Tamera is staying focused on herself & family. Kudos to her.
Why does your picture say "Acts like a White Woman"? She's literally half White so... so what if she acts White. That's like if someone was half Jamaican, and you complained that they're acting Jamaican. So what?
I just saw her on tv yesterday about there distance,that's just what it is distance...sisters argue and fight but they are not estranged..they live in different cities and are living different lives,i heard that out of Tias mouth...she said theybwill always have the love and bond of beig twins
How I feel about this, it serves her right. Just because she jumped out of her life in pursuit of nothingness, doesn’t mean that her sister has to do the same. She probably calls the other sister and get to talking that Gynocentric stuff that causes a lot of women to end up single and alone. It is not fun if they cannot pull other women into the abyss of dark void with them, and trust me….it is definitely a sinking place.
Well they're half white, that's a stupid thing to hold against someone with those genetic backgrounds.... How dare you act more or less like part of your genetic ethnicity o.0 Who cares either way, leave people alone.
Many people think that Tamara is the problem when it's actually Tía. And the black people just takes Tía's side because Tía is darker skinned than Tamara. I remember watching that reality show they were in and Tía most of the time wanted to control Tamara's decisions and would try to shade her. I can understand why Tamara doesn't want to be with Tía cause Tía is not the good twin sister that people think.
Please re watch it . Because Tia would literally tell Tamera , that she didn’t want to do something… and Tamera would literally cry to manipulate her sister to do anything. Or tell Tia she was “selfish” , just to make Tia feel bad . Y’all have to learn more about manipulation. Because Tamera Gas lighted y’all boo 😂 what Tamera would say , compared to what Tia would do , was totally opposite. Tamera would cut Tia off when she spoke , and didn’t consider Tia’s feelings . Look up projection . Look up Hypocrisy. Tia and Tamera literally are the same shade of tan in my eyes …. Idk what’s going on y’all … y’all are brainwashed.
@@LynnTanner-ls9kx she still celebrates White culture and not black, that’s what I mean by acting white and I’m sure you understand what I mean. Yes she is both, but when will she ever be able to pass or be accepted as just a white woman?
@@Carolina_girl86 No I didn't understand you..She's mixed of course she should celebrate her other side and she does celebrate Martin Luther King Day.Just because she doesn't celebrate Juneteenth doesn't mean she doesn't celebrate her black side either and respect that part of her culture.I have never seen or heard her try to be white or even pass as a white woman and NO she never would be able to as you mentioned.I feel black women in particular are extremely judgemental (not all but some) towards biracial women and watch what they do towards their black side and immediately nit pick when it's not to their liking and that's wrong in my opinion..I can't imagine being mixed and being ridiculed for every single move They're literally never black enough for the blacks and not white enough for the whites (yet seem to be more embraced by the white side)..Tia is very private so I really don't know what she does or doesn't celebrate and wonder how you know?! I just wish we'd all unite,stop worrying what others do,focus on what WE do and keep it moving!We all come from the same maker and yes I do feel we should all embrace and learn our culture and where we come from and I hope she's teaching her children that They are biracial so do need to know BOTH sides and both cultures,or they'll grow up extremely confused.My children are mixed and my husband is black but they were raised to celebrate and acknowledge BOTH and they don't have issues like some biracial people do because they were raised acknowledging both and celebrating both (Spaniard and black).I do now understand what you were saying (it went over my head at first).
No relationship is perfect. They are different people and they will have a difference of opinion. They are twins but do not have the same brain. I wish them both happiness.
@@catcoffee7958💯 That's what it probably is. On the other hand her sister chose a much better man. You can't simply undo a bad marriage especially if children are involved.
They may look a like due to being twins but they have their own unique talents and identity. The main thing is for them to show love towards each other.
Tamera….is very influenced by her husband who is very Conservative…he used to be a reporter at FOX…it seems like Tia picked the black side and Tamera picked the white side 😂😂😂 I hope they get back to their sisterhood ❤
I think Tamera just got tired of of her sister trying to tell her who to be. Tia doesn’t know who she is . Tamera knows who she is and followed in her mother foot steps. I don’t think she cared about race she just married her father, which a lot of women do when they are raised with their father in their life. Tia acts as though she has something to prove to everyone about her blackness, yet she destroyed her black family because she wanted to FIND herself. She can’t on the path she is on . She doesn’t see where it’s going………
Being she is lonely. She is too comfortable. She needs to allow new relationships. Like the new guy on her series . He was sweet. They should just be friends for a while until she heals . She misses the quality time and touch from people she was used to I am guessing.
Other sisters who were close have fallen apart. My sister didn’t tell me our brother was dying and I found out from the streets. So I feel there is no resuscitation for a dead situation. I would have NEVER done her like that- I stood by her when she was being beaten breakfast, lunch, dinner by a man she refused to leave even though she was working for the police department 😖 She is a functioning alcoholic and it is well with my soul- bless her heart
I know that people don't think about it and that's a shame, but you can go to family therapy and it's not just for romantic couples. You can go to family therapy for parent/child issues, even sister/sister. Fight for each other! It's really worth it!
I'm only struggling with figuring out WHY she got divorced? If there wasn't some kind of abuse or infidelity, what was so horrible that she decided that tearing her family apart was the best option? I don't get it.
She said in an interview that she was extremely unhappy and felt like she had been giving and giving of herself but not receiving anything in return. She said she felt completely drained like there was no life left in her. I still don’t think divorce is the right thing to do, but living with a difficult person will do that easily.
I’m always so frustrated how elegance, grace & sophistication is associated with whiteness. What about Tamera says she acts like a white woman? She’s half white!!!! Are we saying black people are ratchet? Tamera is an elegant woman with grace.
I totally agree. I don’t know why if you have proper manners and talk well and elegantly they say “You sound like a White Girl”. WTF”
Well she is her twin she would know.
@@taliagrisham3010 what is so wrong about being white? Their dad is white. Tia is closer to her dad.
exactly. its annoying people want to associate graceful qualilties with non-blackness. that makes no sense.
@@Sweetness_g
Edited
Thank you all, but my original question wasn't about physical closeness. From posted pictures, isn't Tia emotionally closer to her mother?
They’ve grown apart as adults but they will always be sisters.
And as you grow as adults, responsibilities changes and life changes hey
sisters only in flesh but not in spirit .
@@Gamer-sv2mzperfect way to put it.
Blood don’t mean nothing, this is far beyond growing apart
Lol. My siblings and I are like oil and water. We will never be close again.
They need to keep their business in the family and off social media
Tia is the one putting it out on social media while Tamera is minding her own business and tbh ya all love the drama otherwise you wouldnt be watching the video's about their drama lol
Don't act as if you don't enjoy the drama hun why else are you here lol
@TaheishaLake right lol
Tia ain’t going to let that happen she likes drama
Must do what’s pleasing to them because family keep business private and let pedophiles get away
Tia is a pain.
Remember when they were working on a joint project and Tia was secretly working on another project with someone else? When Tamera found out, Tia told her that they could proceed with their joint project if the other thing didn’t work out?
Tia always seems desperate for attention. Tamera is happy with her life and putting her young family first, and Adam made good money which allowed Tamera to be more selective about her projects.
Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
@@latrinaEvettParker-y8p🚨🧢
@@latrinaEvettParker-y8p
Exactly 💯💯💯
@@darlinnicky3302 I’m black but this of black ppl mostly judging these sisters. Since we in end times & God is persecuting Christians, they too will be judged. Trust I’m not just one of the 144,000 but the leader
Adam's family owns a vineyard on top of him being a anchorman.
In my opinion it seems like Tia could be jealous of Tamera because for 1 Tamera knows exactly who she is,a real class act,she is rooted and grounded in her beliefs. Sometimes when people can't sway you into being who they think you should be then its a problem. I pray that they will be able to find the silver lining and be close again. God speed🙏
Always have been.
No Tamera is jealous of Tia's success careers. Tia won't be tell Tamera abt her plans and her ideas. TAMERA need find her own ideas and plans on her own but she is copy what Tia got . Tamera should do clothes line or go back do decorations somebody house do some projects not copy Tia ideas.
@@motherof278 that why I said in my opinion
@@motherof278Two truths can co-exist. It's possible that they are both jealous of each other for different reasons. It doesn't help that the public has always compared the two.
Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
She doesn't want her toxicity in her marriage 😂🎉 good job Tamara
💯!!!!
Exactly
She got mad because her sister, didn't want to run the streets with her. Tamara said she's not fkng her marriage up, because Tia did..
Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
@@mindingmybusiness8696 Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
Sounds like Tamera didn't want to tell Tias business is all i got from that
Me too
the streets are saying, the streets, the streets...but the title says "Tia opens open up..." folks are SHAMELESS with the click-baiting. Also...there was NOTHING strange w/ Tamera's response to the question about Tia's divorce. She was just avoiding saying anything. y'all be REACHING
That's part!!!!! 😂
Seriously!
👏👏 Thank you for this comment!!
I don't think they hate each other,their just in different places in life,Siblings have disagreements or differences all the time,I hope whatever the issues is between them gets resolved and they are united again as sisters!
I know they will!❤❤
Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
@@rachelr375 Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
Family can be toxic too. You love them but sometimes you have to distance yourself from them. I use to find it hardcm to believe that family members could be envious of their loved ones but It's unfortunate and it happens.
Some of them are very evil
THIS!
Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
@@mlo9797 Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
@@rachelr375 Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
They are NOT black alone, they are both white and black, they are biracial, period! This is not difficult to understand.
Someone is finally smart enough to see that.
Thank you
You are what your father is…so they are class as melanated
@@lloydgeorge8799 ……No! Only negro men will say some shit like that. You are of BOTH of your parents….. NOT just your dad.
@@lloydgeorge8799 and the twins fathers is WHITE, they’re mother is BLACK…..so they’re WHITE according to your stance. 😂
Tia exhibits narcissistic behavior
She sure does and it's very sad!
THANK YOU!!!! I’ve always been saying that!!!
True
@@SSssss-iy3vlomg can you elaborate pls???
How?
At the end of the day, none of us know these women personally.
Exactly
OMG someone on the internet with as much sense as me! Look i need a REAL friend..... Email please 😂
Tamara is more family oriented and a Christian. It’s hard to connect when you have different values 🙏🏽
@@CocoChanelle-1Tia fell away from Christianity.
I feel she mourning her parents divorce too when she said she always wanted the dynamic of a mother and father in one household 😢I wish Tia and Cory all the best, it can’t be easy dealing with such a private moment publicly and when there are children involved. ❤
@@CocoChanelle-1 she’s still human, people go through these things everyday, she don’t deserve the backlash for what she’s going through in her marriage. Her job makes her public not her private business. But it is what it is people have their opinions
What religion does Tamera associate with?
@@CocoChanelle-1 Her actions say it. Plus in another video, she referenced the use of crystals 🔮 which has nothing to do with Christianity.
They are BIRACIAL- White/Black. If Tamera is more comfortable in her White world, she has the right to flourish in it. If Tia wants to embrace her Blackness, she has the right, as well. Tia has ALWAYS been dismissal of Tamera and her feelings.
LIKE YIN AND ☯️ YANG ONE DAY THEY WILL SEE THAT HAVING EACH OTHER IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN HAVING DIFFERENCES ❤
Tamera is a true Christian. She reflects it in her words and choices.
Being Christian don't mean you have to cut off your family though like .... religion is wild
I used to like Tia because of their hit show sister sister, but I can see Tia’s narcissism, Tamera focus more on family and Tia still need to grow.
Tia can't concentrate on family ,,,cause she chose the wrong man ,,she had to bring mooney in
I so agree, its always been her attitude or narcissist behavior for me. Tamera is more laid back and focused on her family❤
@@catcoffee7958 Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
@@tamarajohnson5614 Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
@@latrinaEvettParker-y8p how about you pray for them and stop tagging everyone saying the same thing, like a BOT.... I said what I said Tia has always had the more arrogant attitude and tamera is more laid back. Now you take it however and go play with someone else
So who wants to date someone who can graduate from a marriage?
@@georgebunny1910 people are taking it the wrong way if she was bashing him people would understand.
Lmao, i mean the language is kinda wild I'm not gonna lie, but her putting it that way says to me she really thought her marriage to Corey was" elementary" or "basic" ....😬 and that she ready for something more stimulating/advanced.
@@CrystalM1917 Got her bachelor's. Now working on Master degree.
🤣🤣🤣
This!
First, how does she act like a WW? She acts like herself. Also, They are biracial. How are they supposed to act? Please explain 🙄
EXACTLY
It’s crazy they want black women to act loud and ghetto
Tamera always seems humble and true to her self while Tia always tried to fit in and being something she aren’t
Why you say that,, what makes Tamera true to herself and Tia not? Genuine question
Exactly@@darksparkle6174
Girl go get another Black man and call it a day. Quit crying when it was you that wanted out.
You know them personally or is this an assessment from afar?
You make it sound like TAMERA doesn’t work, that sister is employed by LIFETIME and is doing well.
Plus she has a RUclips channel
What's her project on Lifetime? ...so I can support. Tamera is #goals for me! Love a Christian woman of God who embodies the Proverbs 31 woman ❤👸
I know she did something last holiday season but I haven’t kept up with her and she’s also has an executive role there as well.
@@erekacraig4812 got it. Thanks for the info.
They also own a wine vineyard.
“Best friends” was part of their marketing. Not all twins are close, but their “friendship” was part of the fantasy for twin obsessed fans.
Tia seems to be the problem.
Well It's not actually the case..... Tia seems to display narcissistic tendencies...and Her twin empathetic tendencies......if both are left u checked it could be not a good thing they both need to learn to respect other people's boundaries
Usually the quiet ones are the problem 🙄
Not at all
I don’t think anyone is “the problem”. Every relationship goes through seasons. Tamera is still married and a full time mom. Tia is on a self healing journey after divorce. I’m sure they’ll be close again..they’re just in different phases in life..and that’s OKAY! This is why we need to take care of our OWN mental health instead of expecting our loved ones to do it ALL for us. These are the times we should be going to therapy, joining support groups and seeking guidance from our pastors instead of, UNINTENTIONALLY, overwhelming the ones closest to us.
I agree with you 100%. Tia is always about Tia
I think Tamera did all she could do but her sister is very prideful and has a lot of growth to do especially when it comes to communication. I totally get it because that’s what I’m going through with my family now and it’s like at some point I can’t keep holding your hand and begging for you to listen to how I feel. We grown now so I’m just going to make the decision to limit contact or be cool with you and I chose to limit contact. I’m not about to keep fighting with you at my grown age.
I felt that 100%. 🙌🙌🙏🙏
Tamara is happy Tia is miserable
How do you know Tamera is happy?
@@IyaT-c5eexactly
@@IyaT-c5e Because Tamera doesn't want Tia's toxicity into her family. Tamera has her own family and doing well unlike Miserable Tia with her loneliness.
Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
@@IyaT-c5e Pray for both u don’t know them but choosing to judge which one is right disgusting
It’s sad but twins are like that a lot of times.I grew up with a family that had four sets of twins and I was close to two sets of the twins and I also had a set of twin brothers in my family, and in each case one twin was sweet and loving to people and always tried to please the their twin, while the other twin was mean, self centered and was always trying to hurt their twin brother or sister. And that was the case three out of three of the twins that I knew.
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Fascinating... I wish this could be documented
Right. There's always the individual twin that DOESN'T WANT to be a twin.
Very true and it’s more when they are of thesame sex.
When they are different sexes most times the male plays a more protective role and there is less competition
Twins are just like normal siblings, the only difference is we share a birthday, that’s very weird you’re trying to push some narrative.
Why do people enjoy tearing Tamera down? Truly one of the few child stars to never mess herself up for fame, has been a standup lady from teen hood fame to adulthood. Has a great family, wonderful personality and isn’t walking around trying to be 25 at 45. Tamera is wonderful in my opinion. A classy woman of God and it shows. I pray the Lord heals Tia because coming after her twin isn’t it.
Blood is thicker than water but bs is the thickest..
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I LOVE THIS THIS IS SO TRUE
Actually the saying goes: the blood of the covenant is stronger than the water of the womb
That saying always misunderstood
I sure hope Tia isn't jealous of Tamera because of her family life.
That comment about being manipulative is spot on. If she really respected her sister and their relationship then there was no reason to put it out there especially like that. Just say yeah after being with somebody for over 20 years it’s challenging to be by yourself and leave Tamera out of it. Trying to make it sound like yeah even my sister isn’t there for me now is manipulative
So true! What does Tamera even have to do with it and WHY make it public? So petty and messy.
'Acts like a white woman’ wasn't something uttered by either sister in this video.
To be direct..... I really don't appreciate you injecting race in a topic where there simply isn't any reason to do so. This kind of thing is literally tearing apart our country. Please don't in the future. There's plenty of other clickbait options.
Tamara doesn't act like a white woman. She acts like the married woman that she is. Stop pretending that single and married women somehow behave, act, or routine daily lives are in any way similar or the same. And its not acting white. Its called married vs single.
Thank you 💕❤
Tia is for her self 😅😅
I distinctly remember on their show, when Tamera was planning her wedding, Tia made tanera feel guilty to the point of tears because tia said being a maid of honor was too much on her plate being pregnant. That's conpletely understandable but then she turns around and gets mad because shes left out of the planning of the Bridal shower. Like girl...get a grip
Edit: oh she talked about it in the video
She is half white
Amen, your dad is white. Tamera married someone who reminds her of her dad. She is very private and grounded leave her be .🙄 She is not trying to be messy or let her family get messed up by someone selfish. I’m sure that their mom is heartbroken over Tia’s behavior towards probably all of them. She is a manipulator.
This is sad I wouldn’t even want this on the internet at all. Ppl put too much on the internet
Don't do this! She's her own person, and so are you. Live your life and let your sister live hers.
She's classy and class has zero to do with what shade of skin someone has...
I lost two brothers within less than six months of each other! Please don't let anything keep you from your siblimg. It's not worth it. You don't want regrets. Don't waste time that could quickly be taken away from you! 🙏🏾
Just because Tamera is married to a white man doesn’t mean she acts white! I mean wtf does acting a color mean! Tia should be ashamed of herself because she herself is mixed with a white father! Tia needs to sit back and truly worry about herself and really do a deep dive on herself! She’s not happy at all, no matter how fun and happy she plays to be! Let your sister/twin live her life with her family the way she chooses to! They are twins and will always love each other but for the time being it should be apart! Tia be getting on my nerves
Tia is trying to prove she is black,,,even if the sister activing "white" she is half white
She acts the same way
I ain't gone lie I think Tamera did lean towards the white side more. That's why she married that white man. Tia chose to lean towards her blk side. I always found it cringey seeing that in Tamera.Married that weird looking yt man. Let's be honest here yt and blk ppl are different. There is a way that blk ppl act and way yt ppl act. You've been walking around in shades all your life if you believe there's not lol.
@@chudneyhoward7436 I hear what you are saying, but the white side is apart of them so what’s the problem?
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The reality show Tia & Tamera had years ago showed the dynamic in their relationship wasn't the best. I think that Tamera got tired of how Tia treated her and has distanced herself
If you watch the show back from season one, you will see how Tia did anything for Tamera. Even when she did not want to. Tamera Gas lighted all of y’all . 😂 Tamera even admitted to being controlling from episode one 🤦🏾♀️ . Why does no one listen 🤦🏾♀️
Tia needs to grow the hell up. She's jealous of Tamera and she acts like she better than Tamera. Not to mention she bullies her sister!
A LOT OF PEOPLE SAYING THAT
Watch their series . Tamera was controlling . And wanted her way or the highway with Tia 🤦🏾♀️ . Why can’t y’all read the situation. Actions speak louder than words. Tamera would always say “She feels Tia is being selfish”. But being emotionally mature would tell you , Tamera was just projecting .
Ain’t she chose to get a divorce 🤷🏽♀️
Twins especially identically share deep bond even thoughts they never separated no matter what 😢
Best wishes to the sister's🙏🏽❤️
I understand divorce is hard so I’m not minimizing it at all HOWEVER Tia keeps making it seem like Divorce happened to her when SHE CHOSE Divorce or should I say she “graduated” from it!!
She then wanted to talk about how hard dating is 🙄🙄🙄 I’m like gurlllllll men are watching how much you shaded bashed and eluded to things about your husband…. They don’t want that‼️ she found out the hard way the streets ain’t what she thought it was🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I don’t think she made the wrong choice because only she knows what’s best for her. I just hope she really finds what she’s looking for. May her journey continue to find peace and happiness.
Tia isn’t dumb she knows exactly what she is doing marketing wise and it seems to be working…..
Blood makes you related, loyalty makes you family. I got a lot of relatives 😂😂😂
Why is Tia being messy and talking about her relationship with her sister. Tamera is allowed to make a path in her life just like Tia did. There was nothing strange her about her response. Divorce is very hard… none of this is Tamera’s fault.
Prolly to promote her reality 🤷🏾♀️
@@avwoman2010 likely… but sad.
Tia has dark energy.
She does......
She's the Blacksheep... No one will ever understand her!
@@mahoganyshanae6116 I would have thought "Tamara" was more of the black sheep...
Or could she possibly be free of keeping up with the Jones’s
Which one is the one on social media acting like a child
It is pretty obvious which one exudes light and which one exudes darkness, which one makes wise decisions and which one is...
Everyone doesn’t have to live the same life .. n that’s ok
And don't people like tia better because shes the black twin. Black ex husband all black friends sct black etc
And don't people like tia better because she's the black twin.
My dear thats a little dramatic 🙄 calm down
@@angieang26stop race baiting. It serves nothing. None of that is true.
Well she can claim white or black, because she’s both . So keep being sisters 😊
Twins are two separate people, soooooo
They're grown women, they have their own life
CLICK BAIT
The title says: “Tia opens up”…. But I didn’t hear it from her own mouth. Sounds like gossip to me.
My aunt used to call em "TaDay & TaMorrie" (today & tomorrow)😂😂😂
They went from Sister Sister to Perfect Strangers😄
They will make up
Sisters have disagreements, they will get over it…
Team TAMERA💃💃💃💃👑
What is wrong with white women? Why is there such prejudice for them. They are just people. There are many white women and some are sisters.
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She means Republican, Tamera became a Republican after marriage
I'm sorry but why is it a trend now to use "women" when you should use "woman" in a sentence? The thumbnail bothers me and I've been seeing it everywhere. I need proper subject noun agreement.
Tamara is right sticking with her husband before anyone. If you want the house to run right and the relationship runs right you have to put your husband first then your kids then your family as you see fit but usually it's mom and dad then siblings. She has put her husband and his career first and everything fell in place after . Y
Tia messed up by getting divorced from a good man. He has a new girl and she is a baby momma with kids . Her value in the dating pool . Good for Tamara. Tia is selfish.
Tia is not a baby mama. She is a divorcee with primary custody of their kids.
Yep Tamera & Coery are happy, Tia alone & sad her own doing.
It's not fair to want to put that pressure on her sister. Sometimes people grow apart, they are very different and are in different places in life. I just hope she finds herself at least for the children's sake.
People want Tia to be the villain so bad. Siblings don’t have to be best friends. Plus they have always been very different. They aren’t in the same place in life and that 100% okay.
Thank youuu ! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tia is not the villain. She’s a little delicate flower that deserves a hug . 🫂
I’m glad i actually wait until the person of topic speaks for themselves because people will say anything. I already watched Tia say out her own mouth that they’re fine, they just aren’t kids anymore & have different focuses in life right now that monopolizes their time. It doesn’t change how they feel about each other or change them being twins. It’s sad how many folks instantly believe anything.
Nobody who is recently divorced wants to be around married people 😂💯
I know your mom and dad don’t like this and they didn’t raise you guys this way patch it up and move forward
their parents divorced, so even them couldn't handle the bs between themselves🤣😂. So there"s no patching up to do .
@@mararenee8721I was about to say that too😂😂😂
Tell that to Tia please.
@@mararenee8721 🤣😅🤣😅🤣 kill me with laughter AGAIN!!!
@gladyseddington9502 yall holidays is around the corner just wait see what happens. They will come around.
They are half white so it is highly unlikely because of race. If they are having a temporary estrangement, that is because of growing apart and or something else’s and etc. as such is life with siblings sometimes. By the way, both are very close to their white father. Tia did a cooking episode on her channel with her white father where they are very close. It has nothing to do with race.
How can you say your marriage was a success but yet filed a divorce🤔
Because sometimes people outgrow each other and decide together to end the marriage.
Why did you have “acting like a white woman” in your thumbnail picture when you didn’t mention it at all???? I hate CLICK BAIT!
I knew it was fake lol. Tia and Tamera don’t care about race like that
Tamera always came off as the selfless and mature one. She moves with class and grace. She remains professional and more so private which is respectable.
Remember how Tia was married and treated single Tamera? The roles have reversed and now it’s happening to Tia.
Is there a show before the Tia and Tamera series , that I am missing ? Because… the first episode from that series showed Tia Pregnant … which explains Tia wanting to put her pregnancy first to protect her health and her babies. Even though she put Tamera first Everytime. I think I am missing something.
They are grown woman that have separate lives now they will navigate through this chapter of their lives and hopefully they will find some solace in the nearing future. 😊
Time for family therapy in private, ladies. Every family has its problems. No need to expose everything on social media. Best of luck to you both! ❤️❤️
Tia has always been a bully to her sister..wild, ratchet, selfish. Tamera is graceful, traditional & over considering others before her. Its good that Tamera is staying focused on herself & family. Kudos to her.
Why does your picture say "Acts like a White Woman"? She's literally half White so... so what if she acts White. That's like if someone was half Jamaican, and you complained that they're acting Jamaican. So what?
I love how Tamera looks at her husband....❤
Is Tia still talking??!
I love Tamera she’s classy girlie and authentic
I just saw her on tv yesterday about there distance,that's just what it is distance...sisters argue and fight but they are not estranged..they live in different cities and are living different lives,i heard that out of Tias mouth...she said theybwill always have the love and bond of beig twins
How I feel about this, it serves her right. Just because she jumped out of her life in pursuit of nothingness, doesn’t mean that her sister has to do the same. She probably calls the other sister and get to talking that Gynocentric stuff that causes a lot of women to end up single and alone. It is not fun if they cannot pull other women into the abyss of dark void with them, and trust me….it is definitely a sinking place.
Well they're half white, that's a stupid thing to hold against someone with those genetic backgrounds.... How dare you act more or less like part of your genetic ethnicity o.0 Who cares either way, leave people alone.
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Was "acts like a white woman" click bait? Cos I didn't see that referenced in the video AT ALL
Girl, make it work with your sister...life is too short to hold grudges
Many people think that Tamara is the problem when it's actually Tía. And the black people just takes Tía's side because Tía is darker skinned than Tamara.
I remember watching that reality show they were in and Tía most of the time wanted to control Tamara's decisions and would try to shade her. I can understand why Tamara doesn't want to be with Tía cause Tía is not the good twin sister that people think.
Please re watch it . Because Tia would literally tell Tamera , that she didn’t want to do something… and Tamera would literally cry to manipulate her sister to do anything. Or tell Tia she was “selfish” , just to make Tia feel bad . Y’all have to learn more about manipulation. Because Tamera Gas lighted y’all boo 😂 what Tamera would say , compared to what Tia would do , was totally opposite. Tamera would cut Tia off when she spoke , and didn’t consider Tia’s feelings . Look up projection . Look up Hypocrisy. Tia and Tamera literally are the same shade of tan in my eyes …. Idk what’s going on y’all … y’all are brainwashed.
Im curious how one acts "white" ? Shes proper,she focuses on her family? That doesn't make her "white" .Tia is bitter and it's sad.
Probably because she married a white man and she never takes part in Juneteenth celebrations unlike Tia, but always celebrates the 4th of July.
They are a case study in my head
@@444anglee Same!
@@LynnTanner-ls9kx she still celebrates White culture and not black, that’s what I mean by acting white and I’m sure you understand what I mean. Yes she is both, but when will she ever be able to pass or be accepted as just a white woman?
@@Carolina_girl86 No I didn't understand you..She's mixed of course she should celebrate her other side and she does celebrate Martin Luther King Day.Just because she doesn't celebrate Juneteenth doesn't mean she doesn't celebrate her black side either and respect that part of her culture.I have never seen or heard her try to be white or even pass as a white woman and NO she never would be able to as you mentioned.I feel black women in particular are extremely judgemental (not all but some) towards biracial women and watch what they do towards their black side and immediately nit pick when it's not to their liking and that's wrong in my opinion..I can't imagine being mixed and being ridiculed for every single move They're literally never black enough for the blacks and not white enough for the whites (yet seem to be more embraced by the white side)..Tia is very private so I really don't know what she does or doesn't celebrate and wonder how you know?! I just wish we'd all unite,stop worrying what others do,focus on what WE do and keep it moving!We all come from the same maker and yes I do feel we should all embrace and learn our culture and where we come from and I hope she's teaching her children that They are biracial so do need to know BOTH sides and both cultures,or they'll grow up extremely confused.My children are mixed and my husband is black but they were raised to celebrate and acknowledge BOTH and they don't have issues like some biracial people do because they were raised acknowledging both and celebrating both (Spaniard and black).I do now understand what you were saying (it went over my head at first).
It's not Sister Sister rather "Stranger Stranger" LOL!🤔🤨🤯🤷
No relationship is perfect. They are different people and they will have a difference of opinion. They are twins but do not have the same brain. I wish them both happiness.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 how can she act like she's white when she's biracial. That means she could choose what she wants to be. Plus she's grown😂😂😂😂
Why is she going thru a tough time with a divorce she initiated. If the marriage was that bad, she should feel relieved
Because the divorce wasn’t quick took a few years it becomes tiresome the world doesn’t stop ❤
She just figured out she chose the wrong man ,,,leading a messy life compared to her sister
Maybe she wanted more and realised the grass isn't greener
@@catcoffee7958💯 That's what it probably is. On the other hand her sister chose a much better man. You can't simply undo a bad marriage especially if children are involved.
@@EyeSpyBlackAmorGreener grass is found where God is in the centre of. Not all marriages are blessed by God, sadly 😢
I like Tamara. Tia just seems so......well, opposite of Tamara who seems like she is sweeter and kinder.
They may look a like due to being twins but they have their own unique talents and identity. The main thing is for them to show love towards each other.
Tamera….is very influenced by her husband who is very Conservative…he used to be a reporter at FOX…it seems like Tia picked the black side and Tamera picked the white side 😂😂😂 I hope they get back to their sisterhood ❤
I think Tamera just got tired of of her sister trying to tell her who to be. Tia doesn’t know who she is . Tamera knows who she is and followed in her mother foot steps. I don’t think she cared about race she just married her father, which a lot of women do when they are raised with their father in their life. Tia acts as though she has something to prove to everyone about her blackness, yet she destroyed her black family because she wanted to FIND herself. She can’t on the path she is on . She doesn’t see where it’s going………
@@mysaviorlives2308thank you .....someone who told it like it is 👌👌
I remember when black folks were conservative.....seems we are the ones easily influenced
True well said ,,@@mysaviorlives2308
No
How in the hell do you cut off your marriage and then complain and cry about it wow
Exactly! Pls tell me because Idk. I’m greatly confused about that.
Being she is lonely. She is too comfortable. She needs to allow new relationships. Like the new guy on her series . He was sweet. They should just be friends for a while until she heals . She misses the quality time and touch from people she was used to I am guessing.
Because she is scared of change . You should watch her new series
@Samanta-Li omg she did it and now she's afraid because she doesn't know anyone but him relationship wise and she thought
it would be easy and fun
Other sisters who were close have fallen apart. My sister didn’t tell me our brother was dying and I found out from the streets. So I feel there is no resuscitation for a dead situation. I would have NEVER done her like that- I stood by her when she was being beaten breakfast, lunch, dinner by a man she refused to leave even though she was working for the police department 😖 She is a functioning alcoholic and it is well with my soul- bless her heart
They will reconnect. That bond is like no other.
They are White and Black I don’t see why there has to be a choice. They sisters. Twins they grown this is a normal thing
Where shes acting white at? The way she shut them down on that interview with the un hunnn thats aint yt folk
Thank you, 🤦🏾♀️ ppl say the darnest things
I know that people don't think about it and that's a shame, but you can go to family therapy and it's not just for romantic couples. You can go to family therapy for parent/child issues, even sister/sister. Fight for each other! It's really worth it!
Keep Protecting your marriage Tamera
I'm only struggling with figuring out WHY she got divorced? If there wasn't some kind of abuse or infidelity, what was so horrible that she decided that tearing her family apart was the best option? I don't get it.
She said in an interview that she was extremely unhappy and felt like she had been giving and giving of herself but not receiving anything in return. She said she felt completely drained like there was no life left in her. I still don’t think divorce is the right thing to do, but living with a difficult person will do that easily.
They are half white...... Its not like its an identity crisis..... Tia needs some consuling. 🤷