Being a nurse or a purse is often what older men may be looking for in a marriage. A healthy relationship is developing a friendship that enriches both parties, in my opinion.
I don’t think this way. My job was to teach my son how to navigate this world as an adult and to keep him safe until he could do it for himself. I did this, he is a strong, successful family man. I only “visit” his life he controls his life. He is NOT my responsibility any longer. This does not mean if something happens and he needed a place to sleep for a couple of days that he is not welcome to my home, he is but so is my siblings and friends.
@jeniejones3275 right even my kids doing good but Mother keep thinking n pampering them even tough they r parents today but for Mother they r alwalway kids dear.
I don’t think the video is referring to kids but having a partner later in life. Even so I understand what is being said for some it may pertain to Others not so much. I stayed independent my entire life so I never felt burdened by a relationship. I’m in my 70’s and have been single for 12 years. I personally enjoy the company of being with someone special. It doesn’t take long after meeting to find out the man is needy. I don’t relish doing things such as travel alone. I like to be with someone to share the experiences and build Memories. Also there is the safety factor. I lost my home in the hurricane. It was a massive undertaking that I could have never gotten thru it without the help of the special guy in my life. We as women need to admit there are things we cannot physically do that they can. And trust me the scammers come out After a tragedy. They are more apt to go after me than him. So instead of being selfish like this article felt like, I,I, I it can go both ways. They can drain you or add to your Life. It’s about Choice.
Having your hopes and dreams ignored by a man who expects you to pander to his every need or whim is soul destroying. Who instigates stupid petty arguments and childish rages over nothing. There is nothing to miss. Freedom and peace. To just be is priceless. If I had my time over again knowing what I know now, I would never Marry or seek any relationship that encroached on my peace.Remain free young ones, and live a truly authentic life of your choosing.
This is all true. And the best reason to be single i have ever heard is that “Many Widows don’t remarry because they do not want to raise another man”
I say I don't want to help someone die.
Being a nurse or a purse is often what older men may be looking for in a marriage. A healthy relationship is developing a friendship that enriches both parties, in my opinion.
I disagree
Right but kids responsibility never over
I don’t think this way. My job was to teach my son how to navigate this world as an adult and to keep him safe until he could do it for himself. I did this, he is a strong, successful family man. I only “visit” his life he controls his life. He is NOT my responsibility any longer. This does not mean if something happens and he needed a place to sleep for a couple of days that he is not welcome to my home, he is but so is my siblings and friends.
@jeniejones3275 right even my kids doing good but Mother keep thinking n pampering them even tough they r parents today but for Mother they r alwalway kids dear.
I don’t think the video is referring to kids but having a partner later in life. Even so I understand what is being said for some it may pertain to Others not so much. I stayed independent my entire life so I never felt burdened by a relationship. I’m in my 70’s and have been single for 12 years. I personally enjoy the company of being with someone special. It doesn’t take long after meeting to find out the man is needy. I don’t relish doing things such as travel alone. I like to be with someone to share the experiences and build
Memories. Also there is the safety factor. I lost my home in the hurricane. It was a massive undertaking that I could have never gotten thru it without the help of the special guy in my life. We as women need to admit there are things we cannot physically do that they can. And trust me the scammers come out
After a tragedy. They are more apt to go after me than him. So instead of being selfish like this article felt like, I,I, I it can go both ways. They can drain you or add to your
Life. It’s about
Choice.
That would be all well and fine,as long as you can trust your children,,,and your health is good...
Having your hopes and dreams ignored by a man who expects you to pander to his every need or whim is soul destroying. Who instigates stupid petty arguments and childish rages over nothing. There is nothing to miss. Freedom and peace. To just be is priceless. If I had my time over again knowing what I know now, I would never Marry or seek any relationship that encroached on my peace.Remain free young ones, and live a truly authentic life of your choosing.