Can we just appreciate how you are married, a mom now and putting out this quality content in rows. I am totally loving it. You are really this older sister having our backs and dropping gems aligned with faith. May Allah (swt) ease your life, ease your marriage, easse your motherhood, being afiyah into your life, give you Jannah al Firadaus and bless you. May you be an intercessor for others and bless you for all your work. Me alone, I have benefited from your content tremendously and need these pieces of advices🩵🩵🩵
Aww, Masha’Allah May Allah bless you for your kind words and prayers. I am grateful to Allah who enables me to do this dispute my new lifestyle. May Allah bless you all for watching and supporting this channel. May it always be a means of goodness for us all. 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
" we are the carriers of human life" i love that ❤️ i think this is the perfect answer to those gender obsessed toxic / abnormal thinking ( you know who) people that we are not just "birth givers" or "baby feeders".
Perhaps one thing to add would be to smile. It’s sunnah and such a beautiful trait. Like they shine and therefore come of as more attracting so I think it’s a good feminine trait✨
Thank you for sharing. I think of course it’s an excellent sunnah to incorporate however since the prophet pbuh encouraged this for all, I wouldn’t say it leans more as a feminine trait as women aren’t always looking to attract the opposite sex. More so just an overall great thing to do on a day to day life. But I do see where you are coming from from and I’m sure others will agree with you ❤
@@NafisasPearlz Absolutely right. In social settings, smiling is a universal Sunnah for all genders Masha'Allah. Also a flirty smile that a woman flashes towards her husband, a man can't copy that even if he tried lol. It's something women naturally possess when their husband treats them like the princess they're. So I agree with you, and @darkskinnedhijabi ❤️
alhamdulillah very wise advise sister. Thank you for mentioning boundaries! I agree, being sweet and kind should never turn into allowing bad treatment. Healthy feminine energy always includes integrity and self-respect and I love how you said, 'be kind to yourself too' 💖 I also love your inclusion of assertive compared to aggressive. as a mother, 'assertive' is a very real thing for me lol. Balance is so important! Strong yet gentle 🌱🌻
With the boundaries point: someone once said „boundaries mark the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously“. So actually it is oit of love for the OTHER person as well that we build boundaries!🤯 just wanted to add that
@@Ragna038 let‘s say for example I have a really nosy, controlling and aggressive aunt. I would need really strong boundaries with her to the point of keeping her at a bigger distance from me. Because that far distance is far enough for me to love and respect myself (bc I‘m protecting myself from her harm), but still close enough to be able to love her at the same time. On the other hand, some people are easy to love while loving yourself because they are kind to you and respect your personal space. These people are easy to keep close, bc you can keep them close while loving and respecting yourself and them at the same time. I hope that helps 🥰
Thank you Ma for sharing this beautiful 😍😍 piece. I was able to list out 7 qualities but you said 8. She's Nurturing, Having a Kind nature, Co-operativeness, Be Agreeable, being unaggressive, being a good listener and dress modestly/stylishly. 😊😊😊
Subhan Allah Love all your videos this one I can share with my four daughters and daughter-in-law. And another person. So very easy to understand. You always do an excellent job sharing the information. Such a beautiful video.
wa’alaykumsalam waRahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Jazak’ALLAH khair. May Allah keep your heart sincere and give you and your progeny the highest of jannah ameen.
Always on your account looking what's new you have posted, I pray that you stay healthy every single day Bi-idhnllah habibty! Jazakallah khayr uhkty post new videos everyday if possible! I am so obsessed with your words very kind☺Nakupenda Mnoo🥰
Yes,it is so true.Don’t be too hard and also don’t be too soft.Some selfish people become your enemies when you starts your selfcare.they always pressure you help them no matter what,but you will damage yourself physically and emotionally. Stop being too soft.Just keep a distance from them.Be kind to yourself.🫶
love the knowledge you are spreading 👌,,, would like u to make a video on how to be confident Islamic woman career wise and any other aspect . thank you
Walakum Salam Warukmatillahi, wabarakatuhu Nafisa ❤️. Eid mubarak to you, and your loved ones! Before researching Islam as an agnostic-Thiest in my early teens, I was really into masculine/feminine energy that is pushed onto us from Western media and books. But as I found Islam I grew further and further away from this "masculine-feminine" belief system. I thought to myself, when we look at lionesses...We see her as powerful and feminine simultaneously when she fights predators off her cubs. I just Googled masculine/feminine energy just now (I'm 29 years old), and this concept started in Buddhism. Buddhists practice a lot of Peganism. When us women are powerful, we indirectly give credit to males by calling that "masculine energy". This habit, has caused many young girls across the board to call themselves "tomboys". Because they've been taught by society, that strength is only associated with boys 💁🏽♀️. We all know Islam vouches for genders, to act like the gender they're born as. Women in Islamic history went onto the battlefield, as their fiesty womanly selves Masha'Allah. RUclips search guys wearing period cramp machines VS girls. The girls are chill, because the real thing hurts much worse. However the guys..Its better if you watch for yourselves 🙈.
SubhanAllah. I feel like there is always something that resonates with me with your videos. I have been feeling stressed lately and blunt or short tempered with people around me, but the lesson about being kind is something I need to work on InshaAllah. Thank you sister 💙
You are welcome my dear. Alhamdulilah that you realise what you need to work on. That in it of itself is a gift. Keep being mindful of it and working on it and insha’Allah it will improve. Stay blessed
Jazak Allah Khayr sis Make a video how to excel in career and still not hurt the ego of hb that u r more smarter/sharper (GROWTH ASPECT) and making more money than him. And how to figure out such trait in a man before u jump in an official relationship.
May Allah swt bless you with everything you heart desire Ameen. I really enjoy all your videos they are very beneficial and reliable. I’m in the journey of learn more about Islam and it’s so beautiful to me . May Allah swt bless us and keep us guild the right path Ameen 😊
Femininity also comes with balanced hormones. When hormone imbalance, the testosterone over powers the oestrogen sadly making 1 masculine like also in menopause etc when oestrogen goes low.
@@seiji99 Maybe work worh a Naturopath for balancing hormones. I'm aware women have HRT however there maybe more better healthier options out there like chemical free oestrogen creams/lotions/gels etc or having healthy fats like ghee/makaana/coconut oil or water or gmo free soya like Korean women have tofu
Another thing is logic . Thinking logically won't make you masculine because there are female shahabi who were warriors.They would go to war so obviously that had to use logic and rational .
AsSalam Alaykum dear sister, I have a question that bothers me more and more and I have no one to talk to; i grew up in a very strict muslim household which pushed me away a lot. Alhamdullilah I came back to Islam out of love, I discovered the more spiritual way of life and found peace and love in Allah. I have a muslim friend, she is really strict and I noticed every time after seeing her my impulses to do bad things go up. I see her, see how everything I do is “compromissed” in her eyes and it causes me loosing hope and disliking the strictness. I love her and I know she is right but to now that pushes me more and more away from Islam. I am not a perfect muslim, I have flaws but seeing how strict ahe is and how strict “islam” is, just makes me lose it all because I cant handle strictness. I was happier living Islam out of love and not out of fear, fear and rules were tge things that pushed me away one time and I cant handle myself right now
Salam alaikum sis Keep going and dont feel intimidated. All of us are at different stages in our lifelong spiritual journey. Remember Allah loves small consistent deeds better than big temporary ones. Maybe your friend has good intentions and is trying to "enjoin good and forbid evil" which is mentioned in the Quran. Avoid actively exposing your religious shortcomings in front of her if her comments are bothering you. One of Allah's names is الستير - the one who conceals. He doesn't like to expose his servants, so we should not actively expose ourselves because it is a sign that we've lost hope in Allah forgiving our sins (except to someone you trust if you need advice e.g. scholar, trusted friend etc.) Whenever I feel shaky in my religion, I tear down all the building blocks and start from the basics again to build a stronger foundation. The purity of a believer is related to their belief. Our deeds are far from perfect but we need to make sure our core belief in Allah and his messenger is sound. E.g. The prophet Muhammad peace be upon him would firstly teach new converts how to pray....this is our foundational RELATIONSHIP with Allah....he didn't overwhelm them with all the smaller rules May Allah make it easy for everyone 🙏❤❤
Nice content. ماشاء اللہ. I have a question about how can a women set a boundary or show that she dislikes this, when a man try to stand very close to her, especially if the man is someone who is in a higher position than her??
Assalamou anleykoum sister Nafisa Thank you so much for coming out with such great content that explains what true femininity is. Most content out there put more emphasis on the "superficial" side of femininity and dismiss sometimes what the core and essence of femininity is really about
السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ I notice sister that you refer to feminine women in the 3rd person. Do you think of yourself as one? There are times where you refer to yourself and say “we” when referencing women in general but not often when mentioning the highlighted traits of femininity. It was just an observation, I hope not to offend anyone by it. بارك الله فيك
someone wanna tell me what the verse at the beginning of the vidoe is trying to say? I’m just a teenager so I struggle interpreting verses from the Quran, sadly.
The verse at the beginning of the video says: Allah created everything. He made the sky and the earth so He can create them again if he wants to. (This is the general meaning of the verse)
I disagree. Agreeableness does not mean she ALWAYS has to agree with a man. She is a person with all faculties in tact so at times she may be right whilst the man is wrong therefore she is absolutely within her right to state that as long as it is not with intent to attack. It actually is a toxic trait to expect that others should always agree with ones views. That is an unreasonable expectation to hold.
First quality
1. Nurturing, caring for people
2. Having a kind nature
3. Cooperativeness, getting along with people
4. Unaggressive
Can we just appreciate how you are married, a mom now and putting out this quality content in rows. I am totally loving it. You are really this older sister having our backs and dropping gems aligned with faith. May Allah (swt) ease your life, ease your marriage, easse your motherhood, being afiyah into your life, give you Jannah al Firadaus and bless you. May you be an intercessor for others and bless you for all your work. Me alone, I have benefited from your content tremendously and need these pieces of advices🩵🩵🩵
Aww, Masha’Allah May Allah bless you for your kind words and prayers.
I am grateful to Allah who enables me to do this dispute my new lifestyle. May Allah bless you all for watching and supporting this channel. May it always be a means of goodness for us all. 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
Sincerely, she has inspired me a lot. Sharing her wisdom and knowledge with the world is really amazing.
Ameen
Ameen❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This sister is a Gem. May Allah bless you and your family. AMEEN YAA RABB.
Ameen and May Allah bless you and your family too ❤
i am learning a lot from u b4 getting married.Jus turned 22 may Allah bless you
" we are the carriers of human life" i love that ❤️ i think this is the perfect answer to those gender obsessed toxic / abnormal thinking ( you know who) people that we are not just "birth givers" or "baby feeders".
I'm 16 and it's really helpful. Thank u Sister and please make videos on feminity and staying on our Deen love u ❤❤❤❤
30 seconds into the video and I see this bright Noor on your face. May Allah shower you with His mercy and His light.
I'll enjoy the video♥️♥️♥️
Dear Nafisa pleas more videos on femininity !! Pleas pleas pleas! we barely have muslim women talking about this topic ❤️🥹!!
SubhanaAllah!!!!!! Sis this was a beautiful topic Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah excellent 🤲🏾❤️🌹
Alhamdulilah. Jazaka’Allahu khairan for watching
Perhaps one thing to add would be to smile. It’s sunnah and such a beautiful trait. Like they shine and therefore come of as more attracting so I think it’s a good feminine trait✨
Thank you for sharing.
I think of course it’s an excellent sunnah to incorporate however since the prophet pbuh encouraged this for all, I wouldn’t say it leans more as a feminine trait as women aren’t always looking to attract the opposite sex. More so just an overall great thing to do on a day to day life. But I do see where you are coming from from and I’m sure others will agree with you ❤
@@NafisasPearlz
Absolutely right. In social settings, smiling is a universal Sunnah for all genders Masha'Allah.
Also a flirty smile that a woman flashes towards her husband, a man can't copy that even if he tried lol.
It's something women naturally possess when their husband treats them like the princess they're.
So I agree with you, and @darkskinnedhijabi ❤️
alhamdulillah very wise advise sister. Thank you for mentioning boundaries! I agree, being sweet and kind should never turn into allowing bad treatment. Healthy feminine energy always includes integrity and self-respect and I love how you said, 'be kind to yourself too' 💖 I also love your inclusion of assertive compared to aggressive. as a mother, 'assertive' is a very real thing for me lol. Balance is so important! Strong yet gentle 🌱🌻
So blessed to have this lady’s teachings ❤❤❤
With the boundaries point: someone once said „boundaries mark the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously“. So actually it is oit of love for the OTHER person as well that we build boundaries!🤯 just wanted to add that
I don’t get it help
@@Ragna038 let‘s say for example I have a really nosy, controlling and aggressive aunt. I would need really strong boundaries with her to the point of keeping her at a bigger distance from me. Because that far distance is far enough for me to love and respect myself (bc I‘m protecting myself from her harm), but still close enough to be able to love her at the same time.
On the other hand, some people are easy to love while loving yourself because they are kind to you and respect your personal space. These people are easy to keep close, bc you can keep them close while loving and respecting yourself and them at the same time. I hope that helps 🥰
Sincerely, she has inspired me a lot. Sharing her wisdom and knowledge with the world is really amazing.
'Walking around wearing pink all day' LOL you're so jokes ma sha Allah hahah. Loving the recent and frequent uploads sis
LOL thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you Ma for sharing this beautiful 😍😍 piece. I was able to list out 7 qualities but you said 8. She's Nurturing, Having a Kind nature, Co-operativeness, Be Agreeable, being unaggressive, being a good listener and dress modestly/stylishly. 😊😊😊
Honestly my fave youtuber
1- nurturing 2- kindness 3- cooperative 4- unaggressive 5- good listener 6- the way she dress, takes care of herself, skincare..etc.
Wow!
This is a unique take on femininity
I needed the reminder
Jazakum Allah Khayran!
Waiyakum. Jazaka’Allahu khairan for watching
Subhan Allah
Love all your videos this one I can share with my four daughters and daughter-in-law. And another person. So very easy to understand. You always do an excellent job sharing the information. Such a beautiful video.
Thank you. May Allah make it a means of goodness for them .
💖🌹
Salam Nafisa, I hope you continue doing what you are doing because you have no idea how much you have helped me . Jazakallah ♥️
wa’alaykumsalam waRahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Jazak’ALLAH khair. May Allah keep your heart sincere and give you and your progeny the highest of jannah ameen.
Ameen and for you the same. Jazaka’Allahu khairan
Have a million abayas to wash and this is perfect to distract me from my suffering😵💫😵💫Your voice is so soothing MashaAllah🎉🎉🎉
Lol. Get back to duties after watching insha’Allah. May Allah ease your burden.
Ameen
Always on your account looking what's new you have posted, I pray that you stay healthy every single day Bi-idhnllah habibty! Jazakallah khayr uhkty post new videos everyday if possible! I am so obsessed with your words very kind☺Nakupenda Mnoo🥰
thank you for this type of content its so refreshing you deserve more views!!
Glad you enjoyed it.
MaashaAllah Nafisa was tops before but NOW she's on another level, my soul sista. Allah bless you sister ❤ love from South Africa
Allahuma barik lak...🙏🏽...
Once again an amazing video. Jazakallahu khair
Waiyakum
May Allah bring her many blessings for teaching us well. ❤🙏☪️🇺🇸🇸🇦
I love love this video❤❤ This should be a whole series 😍
Yes,it is so true.Don’t be too hard and also don’t be too soft.Some selfish people become your enemies when you starts your selfcare.they always pressure you help them no matter what,but you will damage yourself physically and emotionally. Stop being too soft.Just keep a distance from them.Be kind to yourself.🫶
love the knowledge you are spreading 👌,,, would like u to make a video on how to be confident Islamic woman career wise and any other aspect . thank you
As salaam alaiki Sis I have inspired by your lecture over the past few years. Alhamdulillah Can share some insights on masculine energy?
thank you nafisa you're the best advicer but I'm very muscline and kind and strong boundaries
O my God I just discovered your quality channel and I totally lo0oo0ve it .
Walakum Salam Warukmatillahi, wabarakatuhu Nafisa ❤️.
Eid mubarak to you, and your loved ones!
Before researching Islam as an agnostic-Thiest in my early teens, I was really into masculine/feminine energy that is pushed onto us from Western media and books.
But as I found Islam I grew further and further away from this "masculine-feminine" belief system.
I thought to myself, when we look at lionesses...We see her as powerful and feminine simultaneously when she fights predators off her cubs.
I just Googled masculine/feminine energy just now (I'm 29 years old), and this concept started in Buddhism. Buddhists practice a lot of Peganism.
When us women are powerful, we indirectly give credit to males by calling that "masculine energy".
This habit, has caused many young girls across the board to call themselves "tomboys". Because they've been taught by society, that strength is only associated with boys 💁🏽♀️.
We all know Islam vouches for genders, to act like the gender they're born as.
Women in Islamic history went onto the battlefield, as their fiesty womanly selves Masha'Allah.
RUclips search guys wearing period cramp machines VS girls.
The girls are chill, because the real thing hurts much worse.
However the guys..Its better if you watch for yourselves 🙈.
Thank you for your video. I enjoyed all your sharing.
SubhanAllah. I feel like there is always something that resonates with me with your videos. I have been feeling stressed lately and blunt or short tempered with people around me, but the lesson about being kind is something I need to work on InshaAllah. Thank you sister 💙
You are welcome my dear. Alhamdulilah that you realise what you need to work on. That in it of itself is a gift. Keep being mindful of it and working on it and insha’Allah it will improve. Stay blessed
May Allah reward you abundantly
Jazak Allah Khayr sis
Make a video how to excel in career and still not hurt the ego of hb that u r more smarter/sharper (GROWTH ASPECT) and making more money than him.
And how to figure out such trait in a man before u jump in an official relationship.
Lovely content MashAllah
Jazaka’Allahu khairan
Thanks yu for yur video
May Allah swt bless you with everything you heart desire Ameen. I really enjoy all your videos they are very beneficial and reliable. I’m in the journey of learn more about Islam and it’s so beautiful to me . May Allah swt bless us and keep us guild the right path Ameen 😊
Femininity also comes with balanced hormones. When hormone imbalance, the testosterone over powers the oestrogen sadly making 1 masculine like also in menopause etc when oestrogen goes low.
Is there something that one can do to not become masculine in their menopause?
@@seiji99 Maybe work worh a Naturopath for balancing hormones. I'm aware women have HRT however there maybe more better healthier options out there like chemical free oestrogen creams/lotions/gels etc or having healthy fats like ghee/makaana/coconut oil or water or gmo free soya like Korean women have tofu
@@FPT84 how will healthy fats balance oestrogen?
@@razamughal9095 It's the internal grease/mucous that's required
@@FPT84 oh. Ok.
Just be yourself as Allah has created you.
Thank you sister nafeesah❤
Salaam Nafisa 😊 can you make a video on changing the creation of Allah and how it impacts Muslims and non Muslims worldwide.
Assalamualaikum sister. Do you know when fasting starts for the Eid this month? Thanks ❤️
Love this woman allahumabarik
Another thing is logic . Thinking logically won't make you masculine because there are female shahabi who were warriors.They would go to war so obviously that had to use logic and rational .
Make a video on what’s a masculine woman video, this sounded too general
AsSalam Alaykum dear sister, I have a question that bothers me more and more and I have no one to talk to; i grew up in a very strict muslim household which pushed me away a lot. Alhamdullilah I came back to Islam out of love, I discovered the more spiritual way of life and found peace and love in Allah. I have a muslim friend, she is really strict and I noticed every time after seeing her my impulses to do bad things go up. I see her, see how everything I do is “compromissed” in her eyes and it causes me loosing hope and disliking the strictness. I love her and I know she is right but to now that pushes me more and more away from Islam. I am not a perfect muslim, I have flaws but seeing how strict ahe is and how strict “islam” is, just makes me lose it all because I cant handle strictness. I was happier living Islam out of love and not out of fear, fear and rules were tge things that pushed me away one time and I cant handle myself right now
Salam alaikum sis
Keep going and dont feel intimidated. All of us are at different stages in our lifelong spiritual journey.
Remember Allah loves small consistent deeds better than big temporary ones.
Maybe your friend has good intentions and is trying to "enjoin good and forbid evil" which is mentioned in the Quran.
Avoid actively exposing your religious shortcomings in front of her if her comments are bothering you. One of Allah's names is الستير - the one who conceals. He doesn't like to expose his servants, so we should not actively expose ourselves because it is a sign that we've lost hope in Allah forgiving our sins (except to someone you trust if you need advice e.g. scholar, trusted friend etc.)
Whenever I feel shaky in my religion, I tear down all the building blocks and start from the basics again to build a stronger foundation.
The purity of a believer is related to their belief. Our deeds are far from perfect but we need to make sure our core belief in Allah and his messenger is sound.
E.g. The prophet Muhammad peace be upon him would firstly teach new converts how to pray....this is our foundational RELATIONSHIP with Allah....he didn't overwhelm them with all the smaller rules
May Allah make it easy for everyone 🙏❤❤
jihad against your nafs( ego)
You are doing it for Allah not for her so don't care abut her that much
Nice content. ماشاء اللہ. I have a question about how can a women set a boundary or show that she dislikes this, when a man try to stand very close to her, especially if the man is someone who is in a higher position than her??
Assalamou anleykoum sister Nafisa
Thank you so much for coming out with such great content that explains what true femininity is.
Most content out there put more emphasis on the "superficial" side of femininity and dismiss sometimes what the core and essence of femininity is really about
السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
I notice sister that you refer to feminine women in the 3rd person. Do you think of yourself as one? There are times where you refer to yourself and say “we” when referencing women in general but not often when mentioning the highlighted traits of femininity. It was just an observation, I hope not to offend anyone by it.
بارك الله فيك
As-salam alaikum, please how can you help am always aggressive and hate people easily
Human qualities you mean
Wa Alaikum assalam
You lost me at "Good listeners". I need to work on that seriously bruh.
someone wanna tell me what the verse at the beginning of the vidoe is trying to say? I’m just a teenager so I struggle interpreting verses from the Quran, sadly.
If you could understand urdu mufti tariq masood would have been a gem for you
The verse at the beginning of the video says: Allah created everything. He made the sky and the earth so He can create them again if he wants to. (This is the general meaning of the verse)
My toxic trait is knowing your intro off head
😂 better fix that issue ASAP LOL
❤❤
what u think about hindu religion
?
No muslim thinks its a good religion.
@@razamughal9095 Lol
Let's agree to disagree that's masculine trait
Then what do you think famine traits are? Letting her head down under a mans feet?
I disagree. Agreeableness does not mean she ALWAYS has to agree with a man. She is a person with all faculties in tact so at times she may be right whilst the man is wrong therefore she is absolutely within her right to state that as long as it is not with intent to attack.
It actually is a toxic trait to expect that others should always agree with ones views. That is an unreasonable expectation to hold.
❤️❤️