This spiritual growth coming early in your marriage and before you both bring babies into this world (if you plan to) is so beautiful!! We’ve seen what those seasons of life can look like without our Lord guiding us through them. I love this for y’all!!♥️ May the Lord continuously expand your understanding.
I don't see growth. They have college degrees but want people to pay into Patreon to watch their content to pay their bills instead of them getting career jobs. Social media influencers use their viewers to pay their bills. As a husband Josh really needs to go get a REAL JOB.
@@user-eb5wq3vi2jI think a lot of people dont understand that it typically takes more than 8 hours a day of time and energy to create content. Honestly more time consuming than a 9-5, plus the vulnerability of letting people see into your life. Let people pursue their passions, and everyone should focus on their own grind, respectfully🤍
THIS is why God trusted you BOTH with this marriage and with this platform. The combo of Your humbleness, realness and thirst to chase after God’s heart.
Isi, it would be really nice for you to speak more on what the transition to being under Josh’s leadership was like! It’s essentially a shift in the power dynamic and I’m sure it wasn’t easy. I’m a headstrong type and want to embrace the other side You guys are amazing and it’s so beautiful to witness yalls growth, many blessings to you
Yes! This is such a great idea since she is a Virgo AND started off as the breadwinner. I’d love to hear her talk about that path to submission as a wife
I think it is so funny that Josh mentions wanting to take down the video because I used to really take you all’s advice and run with it, but recently I listened to a video about not idolizing content creators and making your daily bread my daily bread. Reading the Bible for myself and building intimacy with God. I love and appreciate you guys and I am so glad that you all are back posting somewhat consistently. You are leading people on the right path. I even thanked God the other day that I stumbled across ISI’s channel years ago because even though you two are not perfect you always made God apart of your content and therefore led me to him as well.
I am LOVING this direction and the overall growth of your channel and marriage! Praying the two of you continue on with this task and with the God giving influence you two have been blessed with🙏🏽❤️
Come with the part two. Be encouraged because you are here now. Someone needs to see this growth. Love yall. This is a call to ministry. Stand on that!
Catch what Josh said in the spirit: when you’re not married, you submit to God to show order. HELLO!!! And I just want to say that I’m 35, single and happy I get to watch good content to help shape me before I enter a divine Union I watch them, Only One Jess and her husband, Dr. Dharius Daniels and Tony Gaskins (married men of God) on life, relationships and everything between. The pattern is CHRIST. there’s no age or demographic limitation when the principles are biblical and when the wisdom is Godly. It’s amazing watching these two evaluate themselves. I’ve NEVER seen it done, especially not publicly. Finally seeing someone being able to be REAL REAL with themselves is sooooo refreshing…. Now that I know I’m not crazy and it should be routine, im not settling in ANY type of relationship
The Bible does say submit to each other. That’s the verse right before the one you guys are talking about. Ephesians 5:21 submit yourselves one to another.
But not in a relationship sense aka the way they were discussing it in the old video (as a boyfriend and girlfriend). This verse is referring to the body of Christ; submitting to your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ is essentially being a team player and acknowledging that you are no better than your fellow brothers and sisters. Then verse 22 then expands on what that looks like in the context of marriage. What Josh and Isi were saying is that the submission referred to from verse 22 onwards about how the man is the head etc is only applicable to the covenant of marriage, which they were not under when they were discussing submission in that sense in the old video. God bless you!
@@nyi2110I actually just went back and read the chapter and maybe it’s my translation that I’m reading but the instruction to submit to one another is under the section header “Instructions for Christian households” it’s not implied (from my understanding) to the body of Christ but to the household of believers. And the instruction is to submit out of reverence or deep respect to Christ. And then he goes on to say that wives should submit the way they submit to Christ because the husband is charged to love his wife the way Christ loves the church which is to lay down his life and give himself up to her. It seems like the instruction is clear that both submit but the practice looks different because their roles and actions are different.
@@zariahrose254 You've actually explained it SO well! It is indeed meant for Christian households, which is why most of the time it's taken out of context.
It's so wonderful to see the growth in development of you both in your walk with Christ. My husband and I have been married for 16 years. And this subject definitely took a while to understand. Since it's not always explained properly. But you are exactly right I submit to my husband because I know that he is submitted to Christ. And He loves me like Christ loves the church. and will lead this family in the right direction. That does not mean that I don't get to have opinions or speak my mind if is something that I might not agree with. But it does mean at the end of it all when we come together as one I trust the decisions that my husband makes for our family. Because I know it is led by Christ direction. I'm someone in my late 30's who has been watching your channel since way before you guys were married. And your growth is everything!! Love to see both of you guys win ❤
from being someone who used to watch you both back then and still does now ....im proud of you both for not chopping and screwing your revelations and such out of this and for continuing to watch back and corrrect with your present knowledge and understanding because its a testimony of Gods grace in action. well done =) and thank you
Im so sorry if you address this later in the video because im at 29:06 but the verse right above “wives submit to your own husbands” does say “submit yourselves one to another” (Eph 5:21) so the concept of mutual submission is not foreign or unbiblical.
I think the submitting of the husband is the dying to himself and laying his life down. Submission looks different for men and women in these scriptures i believe.
Something about what Josh said about him being the first to go down if someone knocked down the door of the house really resonated with me. It really puts a husband's position into perspective and how it relates to the position Jesus was in when he chose to die for the church. Men really choose to die for their wives and families both metaphorically and potentially literally. That statement triggered a true revelation about the position Jesus was in as well as husbands in the household. Thank y'all for this video. God bless y'all ❤
I’m not religious nor will I ever be, and as a queer person I don’t view relationship dynamics the same way, but I respect you guys for finding your own spiritual footing and it seems to be helping you all grow. Love you guys Both and are happy for you!
I was about to respond with something similar also. I was just thinking about my girlfriend and who submits to who since we're both women haha. Also not being religious I don't follow these but I find it entertaining to watch.
As someone who has been watching your channel for years, I’m so blessed and privileged to witness the growth. It’s so humbling for you to go back and admit where you may have interpreted something wrong. May God continue to bless you both as you seek to know him deeply in your marriage and as individuals! Still here for the QUALITTYYYYY videos! ❤️❤️
It was interesting to me how Josh said “were in a weird position of being a leader but also submitting to Christ” because all my life I’ve heard that what makes a good leader is their ability to serve others. It has nothing to do with being “right all the time” or being “commanding”. The way I look at it, leadership traits reflect a lot of gods traits. Being kind, serving their community, being loving, etc. I hope I explained that well. Being someone who leads by example … and you need God to show you how to do that. The teacher was once a student. I’ve also heard, “you never stop learning”. So it makes sense that you’d submit to God bc you need that guidance in order to guide others.
Yaaaaalllllll. I used to watch y’all back in the day day and never commented but let me tell y’all. GOD IS GOOD. Praise Him!!! It’s been a minute since I seen y’all but y’all popped on my page and I was like wait I remember them and was soooo surprised and glad to see y’all’s new content! I am so grateful to God for not just y’all’s beautiful transformation and salvation, but also mine! I was soooo different and today I look back like whattt did I really say some of the things I used to? Glory be to God. Thank y’all for the transparency and may God continue to Bless you all in your beautiful marriage, my brother and sister in Christ. If I don’t ever meet y’all on this side, see y’all when we get to Heaven! Much love!!
I’m so grateful this message! As a Christian young woman who is dating with the mindset of marriage I did wrestle with the idea of submission for so long. Not only does this encourage me to get deeper in my word and have a God-like understanding of marriage it also gives me so much faith that although I don’t know everything and although my partner may still be learning for himself God can open our eyes and clean us up so when we are married we can submit to God first and then to each other. Love to hear more about y’all journey
I love the growth I’m seeing in your both. I know you are thinking about taking down your old videos but I don’t think you should. It’s good for the journey and growth to be evident and I think your kids and the future generation would benefit from it cuz you’ll be able to show them that you were once in error but growth is possible. If I can make a suggestion. Just go to your old videos and link this video to it as a response so if people come accross it, they’ll be able to refer to your updated thoughts. You can do this for other videos you react to as well. God bless you guys
This video was sooo good and needed!! Thank you Josh & Isi for sharing your growth journey with God and being so honest, open, and transparent. Please keep these type of videos coming!! Thank God for His, great love, mercy, and grace. 👏🏽❤🙌🏽🙏🏽
Ive loved your channels for years! Now that im on my journey with God, content like this is so helpful and entertaining! Its refreshing seeing you alls transformation while going through my own❤
I am so proud of yall as an avid SILENT watcher for YEARS in MKE! As a Christian I am even more proud and happy to see so much revelation in this video! So much growth has been happening! Keep moving yall. From one midwesterner to another - hopefully I run into yall in Chicago!
Yes part 2 please!! Truly God’s grace and kindness bringing this back up for y’all so you can see that you both are truly new creatures in Christ! Really appreciated y’all sharing what you’ve experienced in the biblical construct of marriage & standing on business about it!
I caught myself saying “ohhh yessss” many times throughout this video. The growth🤌🏽 that I get to see from yall from a young age is very impressive and encouraging. I’ve been watching yall since early teens, I’m 22 now. Appreciate you guys❤
I have not fully followed your channel in the way that many have, but I can acknowledge, respect, and appreciate the growth of you all together🤍 I didn’t realize you all had these conversations together in the earlier parts of your relationship. It’s dope to see. Thank God for wisdom!
I’m 20 mins in, please do a submission revamp and give us examples of what it even looks like to be submitted practically and also what it practically looks like for a man to be the leader? Also please do more reaction videos! 🫶🏽
I'm ngl I was watching your old content recently and felt like y'all were gonna archive some of your old stuff soon loll😂 we really thank God for grace and a chance for redemption! y'all should definitely continue this series!! I remember watching this video back in 2019 and praying that y'all would study the Word more and come to a more biblical conclusion in the future. So yea this video (and hopefully series) is definitely an answered prayer🙏🏿💞
It’s the growth for me!! 🥹 Witnessing this growth in front and behind scenes let me just say there is a God and He is sooo so GOOD!! We thank God for his abundant love, mercy, and GRACE!
I’m watching on the big screen but had to pause and come comment because I’m just so GODLY proud of you two!! It is so refreshing to see a couple get it right as it relates to biblical truth and be unashamed! Especially to be young, black, married and under CHRIST!! Me and my hubby are in year 3 and was so naive when we got married and it was so hard being a headstrong woman understanding that shift but praise God we got through. Love you guys, keep growing!!
So thankful for your growth. This video was convicting and inspiring and I’m glad that you continue to be vulnerable. The sacrifice in this action is wild because I remember waiting for the original video and not seeing how misguided it was either. I definitely understand archiving these old videos, especially once your child/children enter this world. However, only you know what God desires with your content. As a single, I’m trying to balance my consumption of relationship content but this video right here has gems for even the single women. I have work to do.
I’m 34 me and husband have been married for 14 years and the growth of us accepting and respecting our roles in this sense has been a journey but yall hit that on the head with a big hammer!!
Im not Christian but im curious about it and I have a question about submission. Since women must submit to their husbands, do women have a say in what direction their marriage should go in, do they have opinions, are they able to state their opinions or is that wrong? Can woman give suggestions to their husbands? Can women make their own decisions in their marriage? Can they choose to do things on their own. I’m confused, Like what does submission look like literally in a marriage.
Yes. Except with making our own decisions. Own decisions on what? What to eat for breakfast? Sure. Whether or not to move across the world? No. And big decisions should always be a joint decision with each spouse making consideration for each other. In fact, the scripture actually tells wives and husbands to submit to one another. The full scripture for context is Ephesians chapter 5 verses 21 to 33.
Yes to all of those things. A lot of the time woman can and is more spiritually open (discerning) than the husbands. It’s why God created the wife as a “helpmate.”
Guysss! This is such a gem. I’ve grown with you and seen you as an older brother and sister. I think even though you weren’t completely aware of God’s authority you still had so much wisdom you both were blessed with back then. However, it’s funny how in my lukewarmness I liked you guys so much (cause that’s what I could handle then cause “super Christian” couple channels intimidated me), and now as I’ve grown in submission to Christ you guys come with this reflection on your opinions. It’s definitely a gift. So much clarity on myself and past relationships has come from this ❤ God’s work in your lives is so specific and beautiful, thank Him even for the iffy stages 😅
For some reason I always believed you both would get to this point even in the old days. Your foundation had seeds of Christ and now has fully developed and spring forth. So praise be God that he is finishing the works he started in you both. Keep running your race and I’m happy to see such beautiful growth. ❤️❤️
This is so good! Thank you for being vulnerable and working this out and then sharing it with the world. I don’t think you know how much of an impression you all are making on so many men and women moving into this season. ❤
Growth is good!!!! Love it I remember watching that 2019 video and thinking “that ain't right” for the most part but still had some few similar views 😂 and watching this video and just happy for the growth and takeways😊 I like that Isi commented on the parts she did. I took alor from this video yall Proud of you guys fr fr
Praise God for the growth! You could definitely archive the old one and keep this new one up, especially if you have the conviction to - some people may only come across that old video and take what you’re saying there. People can still see the old view but also see the correction with this recent video, so it’s not necessarily lost!
This is so beautiful to see the spiritual growth in both of you. I had to stop watching your videos for a while because some years ago there was mention of angel numbers and angel number are not are God. Praying for you both, much love. 💕
I loved every bit of this😅☺. It's truly amazing to see how far God has brought you both. I'm an OG supporter and man! the transformation is so beautiful to see. Thank you for sharing your journey and walk with God.
Wowwww this is such a full circle moment! I remember being 16 years old watching your videos agreeing with everything you guys said and that’s when I first started learning about feminism and gender roles and not subscribing to them but now I’m trying to get stronger in my faith and I made my way back to your videos and wowwww I’m actually in shock rn because I feel like I’ve always looked up to y’all. You guys are such positive influences!
You have made significant growth. Don't beat yourself up for your pass. I love how you take ownership of your mistakes and teach others how to look at your past and do BETTER.
I really love this, I’m so happy that the Lord is using you both in this way, I’ve grown up watching you all and I’m like I’m pretty sure I watched this but don’t remember 😂, it’s so beautiful how everyone is beginning to walk with God and express that. God used this for you all to react to the once spiritual immaturity but also depiction show God’s grace and growth in Christ🥰 God Bless you all💕💕💕
Yall should definitely do a revamp of this kind of video, cause my thoughts align more with 2019 Josh and Isi, but I think its because I don't fully understand yall's thoughts now. Love yall keep doing everything yall doing
Great video, guys! I thoroughly enjoyed watching this! It was a funny and interesting video. It’s amazing that you guys have grown over the years, glory to God. And it’s beautiful that you guys have yielded to God’s word and now know the truth! ❤
I know this was hard for y’all to look back on but I would just like to say THANK YOU for showing us the growth. It’s such a blessing to see how you can start small (no Bible, no plan), be wrong, and simply imperfect on this walk. Not enough believers are doing what y’all are here. Literally repenting in front of the world. Amazing! Thank you for being a blessing 🤍🤍
I’ve been here since the beginning, and guys, your growth is incredible-God is so great! I hope you’ll continue doing this because I’d love to see your reactions to other videos that I think could bless us all in amazing ways. I’ve been following y’all since I was 15, and now I’m 22. I’ll admit, back then there were some things y’all said that I didn’t agree with from a Christian point of view. But now, seeing the people you’ve become, if you revisited some of those topics, I believe it would bless us all and help us grow together
I've been watching you guys since 2016, even this channel was not even formed yet and Isimeme's channel was Halfrican Beaute. The growth is wonderful to see😍😍. I am so proud. As a Christian myself, I thank the Lord for grace and mercy. I also knew that 1 day, yall would come to this point of living a life for Christ as I would hear Joshua speak about growing up in the church and being a PK, the teachings from his parents would eventually come back and there would be conviction. Thank you guys for this video. And do not condemn yourselves. You are fully loved by God. ❤❤
Pause ....Its funny how this topic can make for a biblical case study topic today .... God was setting yall up for success from day one (He Was always There) To Be Cont'd...Gonna Watch The Rest Of The Video
Been here since 2016, am sure I watched that eat and chill and can say I completely view/interpret what you guys were saying in 2019 differently as well. Thank God for growth😭❤️
Please do a submission revamp with the knowledge and wisdom you and right now!! As a fan this reaction is literally everythinggggg and would love a stand alone vid to watch with future hubby
JOSH AND ISI, THIS IS THE POWER OF YALLS TESTIMONY! THIS WILL AND HAS HELPED SOO MANY FOLKS! THIS IS GOD TURNING OUR MISTAKES INTO BLESSINGS, AND TURNING OUR MISTAKES INTO LESSONS FOR OTHERS! GOD BLESS YALL! .. WE ALL LIVE AND LEARN! THANK YOU SOO MUCH FOR CREATING AND SHARING THESE BIBLICAL BASED VIDEOS! I PROMISE YALL THAT GOD IS WORKING THRU YALL, AND REACHING SOO MANY OF HIS CHILDREN! I AM PROOF OF THAT! ..
This was so good!! I love the realness of it all! I know for me I am in the process of realizing my actions are not always from God. This video was even more eye opening for me with just that!❤
I actually teared up towards the end of the video. To see the growth you guys are going through. GOD ALONE gets the glory. This is a part of your TESTIMONY. Thank you for the humility, ability to repent openly, and allowing God to use you BOTH. God is calling you both to more!!! Im so happy for you all!! It won't be easy but I thank God for the grace and mercy over your lives. Its only UP!!
I remember commenting to this video when you guys released it originally. Nevertheless, I’m very appreciative of the growth that both of you have experienced individually and collectively. I’m also glad that you guys have taken time to correct yourselves and post a video of your reaction to your past self. What’s beautiful about this whole thing is that you’ve recognized where you were and who you were and not many people would do that & share. God bless the both of you!
I think its good that you are reflecting and correcting thats biblical. I dont think you should take it down but i would put a disclaimer and add a link to this video in the description of the old one
This video is everything😅 and yall did a great job in your growth. I've been following yall since those videos. To Isi's question yes both wife and husband should submit to each other. It says so in Ephesians 5:21"Submit yourselves one to another in the fear of the Lord." Then it's says... 22: "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husband's as unto the Lord." God Bless yall, He definitely is leading you guys into all Truth. Blessings!🎉🎉❤
It is great to see how you two have grown in the Lord and your relationship with God. That is what we need to continue to do in our walk with Jesus as we grow whether single or married! Hallelujah!
Hey hey, love the renewing that's taking place, just be careful of watching the old videos, the old man is dead, the trick of the enemy(slippery slope) can lead into condemnation, so just keep that in mind. Something I'm learning is to trust and learn to lean on the Holy Spirit more and more he is the one who transforms us, redeems us, and guides us and he will finish the work he has started in and through you. I remember looking at old videos of me at carnival with barely anything on and all it did was make me sad and I had to remember, I am a new creature in Christ. We thank God for his mercy and grace, love y'all
As someone who has been following ya'll since then, I am praising the Lord for the growth! You could probably find one of my comments under that video emphasizing what Josh said this time: WIVES submit to your Husbands. It was a big topic in that era, and too many people talking about submitting to their gf/bfs. But I've learned so much since then as well ❤❤❤
Preach!! We need a vision for the family unit. Without vision, it's the blind leading the blind or we are 2 people going in separate directions, it's bound to fall apart
This spiritual growth coming early in your marriage and before you both bring babies into this world (if you plan to) is so beautiful!! We’ve seen what those seasons of life can look like without our Lord guiding us through them. I love this for y’all!!♥️ May the Lord continuously expand your understanding.
Amen!
I miss the eat and chills😭😭 been here since college and seeing y’all’s growth is really inspiring
Yess, looked forward to those every week!
I don't see growth. They have college degrees but want people to pay into Patreon to watch their content to pay their bills instead of them getting career jobs. Social media influencers use their viewers to pay their bills. As a husband Josh really needs to go get a REAL JOB.
@@user-eb5wq3vi2jI think a lot of people dont understand that it typically takes more than 8 hours a day of time and energy to create content. Honestly more time consuming than a 9-5, plus the vulnerability of letting people see into your life. Let people pursue their passions, and everyone should focus on their own grind, respectfully🤍
THIS is why God trusted you BOTH with this marriage and with this platform.
The combo of Your humbleness, realness and thirst to chase after God’s heart.
Definitely a REAL view of how Christ truly transforms our mind. Renewed ! A new thing. A new thinggggg !
Isi, it would be really nice for you to speak more on what the transition to being under Josh’s leadership was like! It’s essentially a shift in the power dynamic and I’m sure it wasn’t easy. I’m a headstrong type and want to embrace the other side
You guys are amazing and it’s so beautiful to witness yalls growth, many blessings to you
Yes! This is such a great idea since she is a Virgo AND started off as the breadwinner. I’d love to hear her talk about that path to submission as a wife
@@kaylab100_ astrology is not of God
@@kaylab100_astrology is not of God tho.
@@kaylab100_ she's still the breadwinner 🥲
I feel like leadership should be shared, based on each others strengths, shouldn’t belong to one partner just bc they are a man/husband
I think it is so funny that Josh mentions wanting to take down the video because I used to really take you all’s advice and run with it, but recently I listened to a video about not idolizing content creators and making your daily bread my daily bread. Reading the Bible for myself and building intimacy with God.
I love and appreciate you guys and I am so glad that you all are back posting somewhat consistently. You are leading people on the right path. I even thanked God the other day that I stumbled across ISI’s channel years ago because even though you two are not perfect you always made God apart of your content and therefore led me to him as well.
QUALITYYY CREEEW YALL SHOULD DEFINITELY REACT TO MORE OF YOUR OLD VIDEOS ESPECIALLY THE YEARLY ANNIVERSARY RELATIONSHIP VIDEOS
GIRL THANK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR SAYING THAT!! WIVES SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSSSBANNND. NOT women to men. PERIOD.
Only submit to God not human.
I am LOVING this direction and the overall growth of your channel and marriage! Praying the two of you continue on with this task and with the God giving influence you two have been blessed with🙏🏽❤️
Come with the part two. Be encouraged because you are here now. Someone needs to see this growth. Love yall. This is a call to ministry. Stand on that!
Catch what Josh said in the spirit: when you’re not married, you submit to God to show order.
HELLO!!!
And I just want to say that I’m 35, single and happy I get to watch good content to help shape me before I enter a divine Union
I watch them, Only One Jess and her husband, Dr. Dharius Daniels and Tony Gaskins (married men of God) on life, relationships and everything between.
The pattern is CHRIST. there’s no age or demographic limitation when the principles are biblical and when the wisdom is Godly.
It’s amazing watching these two evaluate themselves. I’ve NEVER seen it done, especially not publicly. Finally seeing someone being able to be REAL REAL with themselves is sooooo refreshing…. Now that I know I’m not crazy and it should be routine, im not settling in ANY type of relationship
The Bible does say submit to each other. That’s the verse right before the one you guys are talking about. Ephesians 5:21 submit yourselves one to another.
Exactly.
But not in a relationship sense aka the way they were discussing it in the old video (as a boyfriend and girlfriend). This verse is referring to the body of Christ; submitting to your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ is essentially being a team player and acknowledging that you are no better than your fellow brothers and sisters. Then verse 22 then expands on what that looks like in the context of marriage. What Josh and Isi were saying is that the submission referred to from verse 22 onwards about how the man is the head etc is only applicable to the covenant of marriage, which they were not under when they were discussing submission in that sense in the old video. God bless you!
@@nyi2110 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I was thinking of his too. Thanks for clarification
@@nyi2110I actually just went back and read the chapter and maybe it’s my translation that I’m reading but the instruction to submit to one another is under the section header “Instructions for Christian households” it’s not implied (from my understanding) to the body of Christ but to the household of believers. And the instruction is to submit out of reverence or deep respect to Christ. And then he goes on to say that wives should submit the way they submit to Christ because the husband is charged to love his wife the way Christ loves the church which is to lay down his life and give himself up to her. It seems like the instruction is clear that both submit but the practice looks different because their roles and actions are different.
@@zariahrose254 You've actually explained it SO well! It is indeed meant for Christian households, which is why most of the time it's taken out of context.
It's so wonderful to see the growth in development of you both in your walk with Christ. My husband and I have been married for 16 years. And this subject definitely took a while to understand. Since it's not always explained properly. But you are exactly right I submit to my husband because I know that he is submitted to Christ. And He loves me like Christ loves the church. and will lead this family in the right direction. That does not mean that I don't get to have opinions or speak my mind if is something that I might not agree with. But it does mean at the end of it all when we come together as one I trust the decisions that my husband makes for our family. Because I know it is led by Christ direction. I'm someone in my late 30's who has been watching your channel since way before you guys were married. And your growth is everything!! Love to see both of you guys win ❤
the growth is making me want to cry 🥹 i been watching you guys for years and to see you guys rooted in Christ now is a beautiful thing i love it man
from being someone who used to watch you both back then and still does now ....im proud of you both for not chopping and screwing your revelations and such out of this and for continuing to watch back and corrrect with your present knowledge and understanding because its a testimony of Gods grace in action. well done =) and thank you
Im so sorry if you address this later in the video because im at 29:06 but the verse right above “wives submit to your own husbands” does say “submit yourselves one to another” (Eph 5:21) so the concept of mutual submission is not foreign or unbiblical.
Ooo would like their opinions on this
I think the submitting of the husband is the dying to himself and laying his life down. Submission looks different for men and women in these scriptures i believe.
Something about what Josh said about him being the first to go down if someone knocked down the door of the house really resonated with me. It really puts a husband's position into perspective and how it relates to the position Jesus was in when he chose to die for the church. Men really choose to die for their wives and families both metaphorically and potentially literally. That statement triggered a true revelation about the position Jesus was in as well as husbands in the household. Thank y'all for this video. God bless y'all ❤
I’m not religious nor will I ever be, and as a queer person I don’t view relationship dynamics the same way, but I respect you guys for finding your own spiritual footing and it seems to be helping you all grow. Love you guys Both and are happy for you!
I was about to respond with something similar also. I was just thinking about my girlfriend and who submits to who since we're both women haha. Also not being religious I don't follow these but I find it entertaining to watch.
Its not about religion its about having a true relationship with God❤❤
As someone who has been watching your channel for years, I’m so blessed and privileged to witness the growth. It’s so humbling for you to go back and admit where you may have interpreted something wrong. May God continue to bless you both as you seek to know him deeply in your marriage and as individuals! Still here for the QUALITTYYYYY videos! ❤️❤️
It was interesting to me how Josh said “were in a weird position of being a leader but also submitting to Christ” because all my life I’ve heard that what makes a good leader is their ability to serve others. It has nothing to do with being “right all the time” or being “commanding”. The way I look at it, leadership traits reflect a lot of gods traits. Being kind, serving their community, being loving, etc. I hope I explained that well. Being someone who leads by example … and you need God to show you how to do that. The teacher was once a student. I’ve also heard, “you never stop learning”. So it makes sense that you’d submit to God bc you need that guidance in order to guide others.
Yaaaaalllllll. I used to watch y’all back in the day day and never commented but let me tell y’all. GOD IS GOOD. Praise Him!!! It’s been a minute since I seen y’all but y’all popped on my page and I was like wait I remember them and was soooo surprised and glad to see y’all’s new content! I am so grateful to God for not just y’all’s beautiful transformation and salvation, but also mine! I was soooo different and today I look back like whattt did I really say some of the things I used to? Glory be to God. Thank y’all for the transparency and may God continue to Bless you all in your beautiful marriage, my brother and sister in Christ. If I don’t ever meet y’all on this side, see y’all when we get to Heaven! Much love!!
The maturity and understanding is truly beautiful thing to see with y’all!❤❤❤of course we want part 2!
I’m so grateful this message! As a Christian young woman who is dating with the mindset of marriage I did wrestle with the idea of submission for so long. Not only does this encourage me to get deeper in my word and have a God-like understanding of marriage it also gives me so much faith that although I don’t know everything and although my partner may still be learning for himself God can open our eyes and clean us up so when we are married we can submit to God first and then to each other. Love to hear more about y’all journey
"Love gives a choice." All right now, Josh! let me grab a snack
These two have grown into wisdom beautifully.
I love the growth I’m seeing in your both. I know you are thinking about taking down your old videos but I don’t think you should. It’s good for the journey and growth to be evident and I think your kids and the future generation would benefit from it cuz you’ll be able to show them that you were once in error but growth is possible.
If I can make a suggestion. Just go to your old videos and link this video to it as a response so if people come accross it, they’ll be able to refer to your updated thoughts. You can do this for other videos you react to as well.
God bless you guys
This video was sooo good and needed!! Thank you Josh & Isi for sharing your growth journey with God and being so honest, open, and transparent. Please keep these type of videos coming!! Thank God for His, great love, mercy, and grace. 👏🏽❤🙌🏽🙏🏽
Ive loved your channels for years! Now that im on my journey with God, content like this is so helpful and entertaining! Its refreshing seeing you alls transformation while going through my own❤
I am so proud of yall as an avid SILENT watcher for YEARS in MKE! As a Christian I am even more proud and happy to see so much revelation in this video! So much growth has been happening! Keep moving yall. From one midwesterner to another - hopefully I run into yall in Chicago!
Yes part 2 please!!
Truly God’s grace and kindness bringing this back up for y’all so you can see that you both are truly new creatures in Christ! Really appreciated y’all sharing what you’ve experienced in the biblical construct of marriage & standing on business about it!
Yes Isi thank you! Women lead in our own regard as well. Our children and our community. Even our elders.
I caught myself saying “ohhh yessss” many times throughout this video. The growth🤌🏽 that I get to see from yall from a young age is very impressive and encouraging. I’ve been watching yall since early teens, I’m 22 now. Appreciate you guys❤
I haven't watched you all in about 4-5 years. The Lord definitely led me to watch this video. The growth is beautiful. Thank you Josh and Isi ❤
This is so crazy cause I remember watching that video.. y’all’s growth is so beautiful to witness
I have not fully followed your channel in the way that many have, but I can acknowledge, respect, and appreciate the growth of you all together🤍 I didn’t realize you all had these conversations together in the earlier parts of your relationship. It’s dope to see. Thank God for wisdom!
I’m 20 mins in, please do a submission revamp and give us examples of what it even looks like to be submitted practically and also what it practically looks like for a man to be the leader? Also please do more reaction videos! 🫶🏽
Like tips and examples would be so helpful
Please finish this video but please so other ones too make this a serious 😭
I'm ngl I was watching your old content recently and felt like y'all were gonna archive some of your old stuff soon loll😂 we really thank God for grace and a chance for redemption! y'all should definitely continue this series!! I remember watching this video back in 2019 and praying that y'all would study the Word more and come to a more biblical conclusion in the future. So yea this video (and hopefully series) is definitely an answered prayer🙏🏿💞
Omg I was binge watching too.
It’s the growth for me!! 🥹 Witnessing this growth in front and behind scenes let me just say there is a God and He is sooo so GOOD!! We thank God for his abundant love, mercy, and GRACE!
I’m watching on the big screen but had to pause and come comment because I’m just so GODLY proud of you two!! It is so refreshing to see a couple get it right as it relates to biblical truth and be unashamed! Especially to be young, black, married and under CHRIST!! Me and my hubby are in year 3 and was so naive when we got married and it was so hard being a headstrong woman understanding that shift but praise God we got through. Love you guys, keep growing!!
That whole part at 28:11 I feel is what’s going on in today’s households and our society. Would love to hear more of that
So thankful for your growth. This video was convicting and inspiring and I’m glad that you continue to be vulnerable. The sacrifice in this action is wild because I remember waiting for the original video and not seeing how misguided it was either. I definitely understand archiving these old videos, especially once your child/children enter this world. However, only you know what God desires with your content. As a single, I’m trying to balance my consumption of relationship content but this video right here has gems for even the single women. I have work to do.
This gold jersey fit is eatin! With the lil silk matching ribbon cmon!
I’m loving the growth!
The growth is refreshing. The maturity in Biblio-/Christocentric perspective is even more wonderful!! Keep pressing in to Jesus, y’all! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I’m 34 me and husband have been married for 14 years and the growth of us accepting and respecting our roles in this sense has been a journey but yall hit that on the head with a big hammer!!
Im not Christian but im curious about it and I have a question about submission. Since women must submit to their husbands, do women have a say in what direction their marriage should go in, do they have opinions, are they able to state their opinions or is that wrong? Can woman give suggestions to their husbands? Can women make their own decisions in their marriage? Can they choose to do things on their own. I’m confused, Like what does submission look like literally in a marriage.
Yes. Except with making our own decisions. Own decisions on what? What to eat for breakfast? Sure. Whether or not to move across the world? No. And big decisions should always be a joint decision with each spouse making consideration for each other. In fact, the scripture actually tells wives and husbands to submit to one another. The full scripture for context is Ephesians chapter 5 verses 21 to 33.
Yes to all of those things. A lot of the time woman can and is more spiritually open (discerning) than the husbands. It’s why God created the wife as a “helpmate.”
Submission doesn't eliminate free will. Just as submission to Christ.
Guysss! This is such a gem. I’ve grown with you and seen you as an older brother and sister. I think even though you weren’t completely aware of God’s authority you still had so much wisdom you both were blessed with back then. However, it’s funny how in my lukewarmness I liked you guys so much (cause that’s what I could handle then cause “super Christian” couple channels intimidated me), and now as I’ve grown in submission to Christ you guys come with this reflection on your opinions. It’s definitely a gift. So much clarity on myself and past relationships has come from this ❤ God’s work in your lives is so specific and beautiful, thank Him even for the iffy stages 😅
For some reason I always believed you both would get to this point even in the old days. Your foundation had seeds of Christ and now has fully developed and spring forth. So praise be God that he is finishing the works he started in you both. Keep running your race and I’m happy to see such beautiful growth.
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Yesssss same!
This is so good! Thank you for being vulnerable and working this out and then sharing it with the world. I don’t think you know how much of an impression you all are making on so many men and women moving into this season. ❤
This growth is everything. Please part 2
The ring light back than was ring lighting
Im very impressed by your growth. Im growing with you. Thank you for finding the words for my current mindset and beliefs
Growth is good!!!!
Love it
I remember watching that 2019 video and thinking “that ain't right” for the most part but still had some few similar views 😂 and watching this video and just happy for the growth and takeways😊
I like that Isi commented on the parts she did. I took alor from this video yall
Proud of you guys fr fr
Praise God for the growth! You could definitely archive the old one and keep this new one up, especially if you have the conviction to - some people may only come across that old video and take what you’re saying there. People can still see the old view but also see the correction with this recent video, so it’s not necessarily lost!
As someone who has watched you guys for yearssssssss this is really beautiful to see!!!! The spiritual growth is so amazing between you two!
This is so beautiful to see the spiritual growth in both of you. I had to stop watching your videos for a while because some years ago there was mention of angel numbers and angel number are not are God. Praying for you both, much love. 💕
The way Josh's face dropped 💀😭😭😭 5:22
This made my heart warm so much, great to see people realising the power of Christ and the passion for Christ! Keep going guys🩷🩷🥳🥳
I loved every bit of this😅☺. It's truly amazing to see how far God has brought you both. I'm an OG supporter and man! the transformation is so beautiful to see. Thank you for sharing your journey and walk with God.
The growth is astounding and absolutely beautiful to see. Love y’all 🫶🏽
Wowwww this is such a full circle moment! I remember being 16 years old watching your videos agreeing with everything you guys said and that’s when I first started learning about feminism and gender roles and not subscribing to them but now I’m trying to get stronger in my faith and I made my way back to your videos and wowwww I’m actually in shock rn because I feel like I’ve always looked up to y’all. You guys are such positive influences!
God moves. This was so good to hear you correct an unpack what you know now compared to then.
love how God is transforming our lives right now. to come back to this channel in my walk ...to see yall in yours is amazingggggg! GLORY!!!!!
I am watching with so much joy for y'all. Love to see the growth and I pray that you both will continue to grow in the Lord.
You have made significant growth. Don't beat yourself up for your pass. I love how you take ownership of your mistakes and teach others how to look at your past and do BETTER.
I really love this, I’m so happy that the Lord is using you both in this way, I’ve grown up watching you all and I’m like I’m pretty sure I watched this but don’t remember 😂, it’s so beautiful how everyone is beginning to walk with God and express that. God used this for you all to react to the once spiritual immaturity but also depiction show God’s grace and growth in Christ🥰 God Bless you all💕💕💕
Yall should definitely do a revamp of this kind of video, cause my thoughts align more with 2019 Josh and Isi, but I think its because I don't fully understand yall's thoughts now. Love yall keep doing everything yall doing
Great video, guys! I thoroughly enjoyed watching this! It was a funny and interesting video.
It’s amazing that you guys have grown over the years, glory to God. And it’s beautiful that you guys have yielded to God’s word and now know the truth! ❤
I know this was hard for y’all to look back on but I would just like to say THANK YOU for showing us the growth. It’s such a blessing to see how you can start small (no Bible, no plan), be wrong, and simply imperfect on this walk. Not enough believers are doing what y’all are here. Literally repenting in front of the world. Amazing!
Thank you for being a blessing 🤍🤍
The breakdowns are everythinggggg ‼️
Love where you guys are taking your content! 🔥🤎
I’m juste enamored with how this couple is now having BIBLE STUDY!!!
I love The Lord real bad. And I love seeing how He uses us. A1 assurance 👌🏾
I’ve been here since the beginning, and guys, your growth is incredible-God is so great! I hope you’ll continue doing this because I’d love to see your reactions to other videos that I think could bless us all in amazing ways. I’ve been following y’all since I was 15, and now I’m 22. I’ll admit, back then there were some things y’all said that I didn’t agree with from a Christian point of view. But now, seeing the people you’ve become, if you revisited some of those topics, I believe it would bless us all and help us grow together
Let’s go Josh 🎉 so relieved to see you back in your essence and confidence was worried for a moment there. Missed y’all both thanks for the free tings
I've been watching you guys since 2016, even this channel was not even formed yet and Isimeme's channel was Halfrican Beaute. The growth is wonderful to see😍😍. I am so proud. As a Christian myself, I thank the Lord for grace and mercy. I also knew that 1 day, yall would come to this point of living a life for Christ as I would hear Joshua speak about growing up in the church and being a PK, the teachings from his parents would eventually come back and there would be conviction. Thank you guys for this video. And do not condemn yourselves. You are fully loved by God. ❤❤
Pause ....Its funny how this topic can make for a biblical case study topic today .... God was setting yall up for success from day one (He Was always There)
To Be Cont'd...Gonna Watch The Rest Of The Video
Been here since 2016, am sure I watched that eat and chill and can say I completely view/interpret what you guys were saying in 2019 differently as well. Thank God for growth😭❤️
Please do a submission revamp with the knowledge and wisdom you and right now!! As a fan this reaction is literally everythinggggg and would love a stand alone vid to watch with future hubby
JOSH AND ISI,
THIS IS THE POWER OF YALLS TESTIMONY!
THIS WILL AND HAS HELPED SOO MANY FOLKS! THIS IS GOD TURNING OUR MISTAKES INTO BLESSINGS, AND TURNING OUR MISTAKES INTO LESSONS FOR OTHERS!
GOD BLESS YALL! ..
WE ALL LIVE AND LEARN!
THANK YOU SOO MUCH FOR CREATING AND SHARING THESE BIBLICAL BASED VIDEOS!
I PROMISE YALL THAT GOD IS WORKING THRU YALL, AND REACHING SOO MANY OF HIS CHILDREN!
I AM PROOF OF THAT! ..
This was so good!! I love the realness of it all! I know for me I am in the process of realizing my actions are not always from God. This video was even more eye opening for me with just that!❤
I actually teared up towards the end of the video. To see the growth you guys are going through. GOD ALONE gets the glory. This is a part of your TESTIMONY. Thank you for the humility, ability to repent openly, and allowing God to use you BOTH. God is calling you both to more!!! Im so happy for you all!! It won't be easy but I thank God for the grace and mercy over your lives. Its only UP!!
I remember commenting to this video when you guys released it originally. Nevertheless, I’m very appreciative of the growth that both of you have experienced individually and collectively. I’m also glad that you guys have taken time to correct yourselves and post a video of your reaction to your past self. What’s beautiful about this whole thing is that you’ve recognized where you were and who you were and not many people would do that & share. God bless the both of you!
I think its good that you are reflecting and correcting thats biblical. I dont think you should take it down but i would put a disclaimer and add a link to this video in the description of the old one
Such a great discussion! So cool to see yall react to this older video.
The GROWTH! 🌱🪴 This was a really good Holy Spirit led reaction & breakdown of your Eat & Chill video 💯🔥. Definitely want a Part 2 ya'll 👩🏿💻🫶🏿.
This was great. It just shows how it’s important to mature in Christ. Part 2 plz!
I’ve really have been watching yall since I was in middle school ❤
We need you guys to come back 😩 always look forward to a video from you two
I loved this video. Thank God for wisdom. 🙏🏽 🙌🏽 👏🏽 This shows your growth and thank God for His mercy, and grace.
This video is everything😅 and yall did a great job in your growth. I've been following yall since those videos.
To Isi's question yes both wife and husband should submit to each other. It says so in Ephesians 5:21"Submit yourselves one to another in the fear of the Lord."
Then it's says...
22: "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husband's as unto the Lord."
God Bless yall, He definitely is leading you guys into all Truth. Blessings!🎉🎉❤
I'm literally so happy for you guys!! The Lord really did a work in y'all!
It is great to see how you two have grown in the Lord and your relationship with God. That is what we need to continue to do in our walk with Jesus as we grow whether single or married! Hallelujah!
Hey hey, love the renewing that's taking place, just be careful of watching the old videos, the old man is dead, the trick of the enemy(slippery slope) can lead into condemnation, so just keep that in mind. Something I'm learning is to trust and learn to lean on the Holy Spirit more and more he is the one who transforms us, redeems us, and guides us and he will finish the work he has started in and through you. I remember looking at old videos of me at carnival with barely anything on and all it did was make me sad and I had to remember, I am a new creature in Christ. We thank God for his mercy and grace, love y'all
As someone who has been following ya'll since then, I am praising the Lord for the growth! You could probably find one of my comments under that video emphasizing what Josh said this time: WIVES submit to your Husbands. It was a big topic in that era, and too many people talking about submitting to their gf/bfs. But I've learned so much since then as well ❤❤❤
The growth 🤌🏾 Good video 😊
We do want part 2. I can see your perspectives on this. When you have grown in faith and trusting in God that what happens.
Preach!! We need a vision for the family unit. Without vision, it's the blind leading the blind or we are 2 people going in separate directions, it's bound to fall apart
Look at the growth 🫶🏽 we grew up with you❤
This was a great video it opened my eyes, would love a part 2.
I'm so happy for Josh and Isi. Finding Christ again is beautiful ❤️
I am so excited to watch this 💕 lol I love you guys content 🫶🏽 I can’t wait to hear y’all’s perspective on this topic too