Lose Weight or Lose Me | Ricki Lake
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- Опубликовано: 29 авг 2023
- Does a woman have the obligation to stay slim and attractive for the man in her life? Men tell the women in their lives to either "lose weight or lose me!"
Season 02, Episode 2080 - LOSE WEIGHT OR LOSE ME!
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Ricki Lake was a daytime tabloid talk show hosted by American actress Ricki Lake. The series debuted in syndication on September 13, 1993, and ended first-run episodes on May 21, 2004, continuing in reruns through the summer until August 27, 2004.
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Him blaming her for her weight gain was just an excuse to leave her to be with someone else he just said that to make himself feel better at the end
She's crazy for sitting around waiting for him to want her.
Women in the 90’s & 2000’s were socialized to feel worthy in a family unit. She was brainwashed to accept that crap to being a respectable wife.
She looks fine to me
Says Ivan Ooze 😂. I love that profile pic. I agree tho.
The man is a fool 😡 he doesn't see the inner beauty this Woman is cute
90s standards were different, bro.
That’s to you though, you’re not him.
@@videogameguy101 yea fat back then was seen as unattractive and a sign of health problems.
I'm SO disgusted by this...why did he get her pregnant, if he wanted her to stay 97 pounds???
Yes men are disgusting like that sometimes, they impregnate women and don't take any responsibility for it making a woman fat. Just dumb and blame the poor woman😢
Apparently, he’s not very bright
Twice & that's just locking in the reset of her body.
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She aint even fat she looks great to me
Remember this was da 90s/ 80s so obese was a different typa size bak den bein fat now is normal to mtfs💯
97lbs is the size of a child, I’m 180 currently on a weight loss journey but I actually look better with meet from when I was 130
No it is not. 97 pounds is a normal size for someone 4'11.
@@SparkleInYourEyes2024 Mas majority of women aren’t 4’11 that isn’t average height for an adult woman sir
We need more full Ricki Lake episodes, I’ve been searching for more on your channel
She look good to me. 97 pounds was way to small.
No, she's 4'11. 97 pounds is normal for her height
@@kisha4040 I know people whos shorter than that and 97 pounds is too small to me
@@kisha4040yeah I would say 90-110lbs (speaking as an ex personal trainer)
@@naenae5279Nah. 97 pounds is the correct body weight for a 4'11 person. It's just that Americans are so obese now they don't know what a healthy weight is anymore
@@itooflemmaExactly. They expect a 4'11 person to be 200 pounds. 😅😅😅
Forget him! What’s going to happen if she gets sick and can’t take care of herself! And the way he’s talking to her! He can kick rocks!
I find this weird. The same woman who said “a guy can’t help what he’s attracted to” tried to make “gold diggers” look bad.
Thank you for calling out the patriarchy and hypocrisy of these shows and our society in the 90s - we look over/minimize men and their beauty digging all through time.
@@cowaybo 💯
He’s got nerve with those ears that would set him on a flight in the slightest breeze … I wonder what kind of influence he’ll be on his daughter too ??
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Nice try but his ears are quite small... you know damn well he is a handsome man
Cauliflower ears 🥦🤣
He's creepy she's adorable. Hope she left him in the dust.
She’s beautiful and doesn’t even look heavy. I hope she’s not with him anymore.
Can you upload the episode "I'm sick of kids treating me like dirt just because I'm fat?". It's a special episode with Richard Simmons and Ricki gets emotional about a young girl who gets bullied.
Dude is DL, he doesn’t really want her and will never want her! He wants Usher.
Where Usher come from? 😂😂😂
@@ashleywatkins1380the same place you came from girl 😂😂😂
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Well is someone would give me this kind of ultimatum, I would lose the weight and leave you lol
What if she has a baby? I know women who gained weight after childbirth that they never lost. Women will not stay thin forever . Your love for her has to be greater than your preference.
They do
The first lady kathy is beautiful, im not attracted to women, but if I was or was a man in a second life i would definitely appreciate her and cherish her more than her husband does 😊 I would love her the way she deserves.
I understand how some people lose attraction with their husbands or wife over time but she’s not even fat they just lost the spark 🔥 sometimes a woman or man have to put on a new outfit and get a haircut or a new hairstyle
The fact that hes so rude to her is a definite red flag. It shows what kind of person he is .
She looks beautiful
Kathy looks beautiful inside & out.
97 lbs? That was his "preference"? 🤢The last time I was 97 lbs, I was in 4th grade. He's giving heavy pedo-I'm-only-attracted-to-barely-legal-girls vibe.
You do know women under 5'0 exist... right?
@@AmyLeeAngelLoveNot to mention, this was the 90s when people were generally smaller.
Thank you someone said it
@@Admin-qy4ziPlenty of petite women weigh 97 lbs.
Yeah it’s called anorexic women
I want to see how they both look now!!!
If she was 97 lbs, does that mean she was a teen or child? 97 lbs is very small for any grown black woman. What’s wrong 140 lbs?
Huh? Plenty of Black women weight 97 lbs. She is a petite woman. She appears to be half Asian as well. They're known for being small.
She doesn't weigh 140. She said she gained 30 pounds. She weighs 127, do the math right. I wish I weighed 127 pounds, I'm lucky if I can stay at 100. Not because of my own doing, a doctor intentionally caused the problem. She looks great and shouldn't lose weight for anybody but herself.
She’s probably mad short.
Ost adult women of any race do not weight 97 pounds.
@@vatricegeorgeYes they do. Adult women can weigh 97 lbs
His eyes are mesmerizing…
You are just as simple as his wife is😂
@@teehee83 Im just being real. Just like when the D is amazing…
What is wrong with you women? This is why men can get away with nonsense. I don’t see it.
@@teehee83exactly. These foolish women only see eyes not his bad demeanor. He looks like a homosexual
@@teehee83nah cause he is handsome.. can’t lie s about that and they look good together tbh
He wasn’t even all that! Toooo cocky arrogant into himself. If you don’t like my body leave because if you really loved me you would love me big and small. But I get it looks are more the issue rather than connection.
She doesn’t look that fat.
Drop him!
Is no one going to say it?
Or everyone pretending they don't see it
I'll do the same, he just probably in touch with Hus feminine side
I wonder if their still together should be an update
2:53 You can see how in love she still is with him.
He’s giving me 🌈 vibes
He can get a man if that's what he wants. What's it to you ?
Bro ia mean as hell.
Good for him!
Wow most women were dressed decent and modest! Amazing!
she isn’t big but love and attraction are separate things.. sometimes people are more accepting others just aren’t but he’s not wrong if he made it clear before marriage.. He is wrong for disrespecting her simply because of the weight gain.. he in general isn’t a good person who never genuinely loved her
If that is what he wanted from the start it’s ok cause he was clear I. What he wanted however people change and he would expect to be loved regardless how he might look after the marriage
His eyes are gorgeous.
Wow that’s what you noticed? All l see is a emotional abuser.
If that is what you got from this sadly you are probably going to be a victim of someone like him.
@@kalimbaayinde25 people are shallow like that. Especially bw.
I want to know an UPDATE... Where are they NOW? 😅
@TalkShowRewind Oh man. Where's the rest of the episode? My brother in law went on there for this one with his gf & made up a whole skit to get on Ricki
Would you post the part of this episode with Bill and Karen? Bill is my cousin and his kids would love to see it. Karen talks about the doughnut being a car tire and Bill told her not to eat it.
Some men don’t understand that women can gain weight after having a child.
She was adorable exactly as she was. The guy was a clown, & she deserved better. 😢
97 pounds is NOT healthy. It’s scarily thin. Unless she is 4’11 or something. Having a kid changes your body. He is way too shallow. Why doesn’t he invite her to walk around the park with the kid or take her for fitness lessons and make it fun. He seems shallow
97 pounds can be healthy if it's proportionate to your height. Kathy is 4'11 so 97 pounds is normal.
Liked ricky show
Wow he wrong to leave her
Ok so I have a question he's all about attraction what if they suddenly wake up in there 60s she's aged would he not be attracted?
Hes separated from her because he's gay (or bisexual) i could be wrong tho....
You right!
You hating on him. I'm sick of women honestly.
U can't win with a man like that. He wants a trophy but as soon as you lose weight IF YOU WANT TO...ul be a threat n hel question you when u feel better about urself n more men notice you glowing not coz of weightless but how u shine when u take control of your life.ive had men say they'd feel the same if I gained weight.yet when I lost any it was an issue.he wants to control her by using this against her..he's not being proactive or supportive.but critical.this is the kind of man that God forbid u become ill etc hel be out the door
For some women that didn't lose weight and their ex's broke up with them then forget them it's their lost I mean every woman that's had the weight like that is still beautiful and gorgeous just the way they are and ex-boyfriend send Force ex-girlfriend to lose weight it's her body and her choice and they should have accept them for who they are not to give her the ultimatum to make them choose to lose weight or lose relationships
Gay.
He has a point
No he doesn't sexual attraction and love are not the same thing if you truly love someone looks won't matter and you will be attracted to them on a love basis by itself.
So What’s wrong in having a preference. What if she gets fatter and dies?
Adult women used to weight 97 lbs ??? She looks perfectly normal to me and if 97 lbs is a safe weight for your personal body then that is ok too. Other ppls bodies are none of our business
Yes you can have a successful marriage even if a person change because you would never want to have hurt a person it you love them from the heart. My husbands older and gotten older and put on a little weight and hire a alcoholic but, I sill can’t turn my heart off from him❗️I don’t believe he truly loves her I’m not convinced at all. 😢💔
That girl is hurt because down deep inside she knows it’s over with.
It’s crazy how that in the 21st century men what women with an hour glass figure.
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damn dude is fine
These men aren’t worth anybody’s time. Superficial and immature. Move on.
Kathy is beautiful
Why stay with someone who does not accept who you are. Divorce him and find someone who love who you are. Men did this when they meet someone else.
She’s gorgeous
He's crazy. You're extremely gorgeous there's nothing wrong with you.
I’d say if she divorced him she’d be losing about 160ish pounds of ugly weight right there, problem solved!
She looks lovely just the way she is if you ask me- I was about 98 pounds at one point and it was miserable being so hungry all the time.
She is beautiful
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To be fair, some ppl will marry you and then get lazy. Some ppl feel like "i get em now, i dont have to do nothing" im not staying married to a man that gains alot of weight because its unattractive to me. F that..
This guy is toxic
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She's beautiful love her for her I hve put on weight and my husband still loves me
That's not fair you are overweight bu you have a husband that loves you but I don't have a husband that does?
She does need to lose weight: Her husband. She’ll feel a whole lot better.
On a purely sexual level, I find obese or fat people repulsive. So if my partner started out fit, lean and healthy and then gained weight my sexual desire would be lost. I don’t have sex with fat people because I find it sexually unappealing. If you don’t like the truth then either grow up, don’t be so sensitive or just deal with it.
Having your preference is completely understandable but being disrespectful about it is completely unnecessary. If you are so unhappy with the person's weight just leave. You don't need to tell them to deal with it.
Preferences are conditioned and controllable, I've done it. We have them because we keep telling ourselves we have them and there's nothing we can do about them which is a lie. What you find attractive can change and does change but the truth is you don't want it to. So in reality, you should grow up because only a child denies the reality that people can and do gain weight their whole lives and if you can't deal with that, then keep bouncing around from woman to woman. It is not fair for any woman or man to live in fear of gaining weight. Not just that, but are you attracted to cancer patients?? Bald women? What if your wife got sick and had to cut off all hair? Obviously most of you love in ideal circumstances because you have no depth of emotion or mind but when love is true, their weight gain doesn't change anything. It's all about what you focus on. If you lost your sight, you would have to depend on your other senses to excite yourself and we focus too much on the visual, lips to kiss are still lips and a body to touch is still a body.
For a man that fine she better take her ass to the gym
@@Resilient_BrillianceBeing disrespectful is me saying that I find the idea of having sex with fat people repulsive? It’s just the truth. Would it be more respectful if I said I find it somewhat off putting? Just a matter of what choice of words are acceptable to one or the other.
@@stacked7476 you are allowed to be repulsed by whatever repulses you.
Its disrespect when you blatantly are stating that you are not interested in overweight and obese people but you feel the need to go and tell them about your disinterest.
As of your lack of interest is going to make them become less obese and be what you want them to be.
I'm repulsed by someone who needs that much attention
He doesn't deserve her
He's out of her league.
With ears like his how can he complain
It happens. Let's say you fell in love with a man who was in shape.. then over the years started getting dangly boobs, a huge hairy beer belly, upper arms the size of thighs, a fatty neck, and 5 chins. That would be a turn off. How can you force yourself to become intimate with someone who morphed into a completely different person? It's not like aging which you can't prevent. This is something that you CAN prevent by taking care of yourself. She is still tiny and very beautiful though... but I can understand where he is coming from too. You want Janet... not Jane.
Thats a croc dude real love is deeper then psychical attraction if you love someone you will stay with them regardless of how they look.
I agree, I'm not staying with any man who has gained alot of weight.
You're completely exaggerating!!!
@@victoryvences No, I'm telling the truth. It looks like YOU don't like to hear it. Typical.
You’re comparing an extreme to her gaining 30lbs. And said 30lbs still has her into what looks to be a normal weight range. Yes, attraction is important, but your example is a far cry from this situation. This guy is being over the top and probably just wanted an out.
I mean he is wrong and should love her no matter what but he was cheating ;BUUUUT LETS GET REAL, how you meet someone you should maintain that , yes we will have children but after make sure you take care of yourself
I was getting Gay vibes from him 😂
I mean… Dana is fine. I’m not excusing his behavior. By any means. I’m saying that I see where the shallowness comes from
This dude is fine, she should want to lose weight and look attractive for him. He looks attractive for her
After the looks have faded, then what?
Fine? Lol no
97 pounds is tiny..even if he wants her to lose weight.. the fact that he's disrespectful to her because of weight gain says a lot about him..he's an ugly person..what if she got sick. Move on sis. And he's not all that
He’s gay tho
I can't blame him. You like what you like.
The thing about it is if u have that mindset don't get married because marriage is for better or worse
@msgates2596 Marriage is what you and your partner agree upon. I married my husband and understand his body will change. However, I'm not attracted to big men. So, if he gained 30 lbs, we'd have a conversation. Same for me. I stay in the gym 5 days a week and raise our daughter and work. I'm not having it.
@DTMyles I agree with what you are saying but most people are not going to have an extreme weight gain and if they do. You have to work with you're partner to get them on track not just get a divorce and give up
@msgates2596 I agree with you. Maybe this guy didn't try to understand why she gained weight. Though I think it's because she had a baby. Nonethe, I get your point.
@@DTMylesMost partners agree on for better or worse which is why the majority get married because they are in love. If you don't love the person then don't bother marrying them its not that hard. Sexual attraction is not the same as love.
He is narcissistic. That's a beautiful woman. I think she just likes his green eyes, because he has no moral substance.
He isnt straight
Dude is toxic for doing that.
30 pounds is a lot of weight. You can look like a completely different person. Love is not unconditional unless it comes from family and even that’s iffy. If he didn’t work for 2 years I guarantee you she would fall out of love. This guy looks like he could probably be a model so he probably had woman hitting on him who was his type. This is 97 so this is before social media. I think the main problem with him is that she let herself go and made NO effort to keep up with herself. I’m sure most women would hate if there husband stop taking her out on dates and doing things that made her attractive to him.
He's not perfect. He could fly away with those ears. No muscles to speak of, and he's picking on her appearance...