you can tell shemara has centered men in her life ; her mindset is completely different regarding men as compared to the group. she’s different since she got in a relationship even madison mentioned it an episode ago🥴🥴
13:11 Shemara's face after Jade’s "I DO"... lmaoooo. That whole section was indirects thrown at her. I cannot lol. The shade was HEAVY. Love them all but I think this talk was needed!
Would have loved to hear everyone’s first impressions of each other. Madison is so quiet but I love when she puts her input. Can’t wait for new episodes
LOOOOL 10:52 Madison and Zoe turning around after she asked the question...Shemara was mad quiet... I agree with Balia 100% when your man is gone, you need a support system.
i like how authentic and real you guys are. i feel like it’s so important to be raw n acknowledge that all types of relationships can have flaws but it is about how you navigate it which is something I learnt throughout this year. what a beautiful female friendship group.
My red flags are friends who are male centred, constant criticism (constructive criticism is not bad but when it becomes too constant it becomes annoying, like constantly criticising every little thing you do), violating boundaries and just making you feel bad about yourself… Getting into the friends that centre their lives around men, it becomes very toxic when every little thing they do, even life changing decisions because they want to please a man, is just centred around men… Friendship breakups imo are worse than relationship breakups idk why but it just hurts more, for me it takes time to get over a friend than a man, or maybe it’s because I’m not really into dating, relationships and stuff… but with friendship breakups, it hurts so much because I basically viewed that person as a sister/brother… I never imagined my life without them…
We are in 2024. We cant keep having these conversations really and truly . Teach us how to stack up our money. Teach black girls how to tap into their creativity and femininity. Use your platform to amplify and empower, all while having fun with it.
So when you are asked are you emotionally available to hear my sad story you can say no I’m not available ? I’m not sure about that, because what if the person is having some serious issues?
Can you guys next time please speak nearly to the microphone i couldn’t hear u guys clearly. I love this episode keep going is actually a very necessary topic to speak about it 💕
you can tell shemara has centered men in her life ; her mindset is completely different regarding men as compared to the group. she’s different since she got in a relationship even madison mentioned it an episode ago🥴🥴
If you watch their live streams shemara can not go a sentence without mentioning her man
@ a man clown 🥴🤡
That part, if her man don’t enter the conversation….I can imagine off camera.
13:11 Shemara's face after Jade’s "I DO"... lmaoooo. That whole section was indirects thrown at her. I cannot lol. The shade was HEAVY. Love them all but I think this talk was needed!
Would have loved to hear everyone’s first impressions of each other. Madison is so quiet but I love when she puts her input. Can’t wait for new episodes
LOOOOL 10:52 Madison and Zoe turning around after she asked the question...Shemara was mad quiet...
I agree with Balia 100% when your man is gone, you need a support system.
i like how authentic and real you guys are. i feel like it’s so important to be raw n acknowledge that all types of relationships can have flaws but it is about how you navigate it which is something I learnt throughout this year. what a beautiful female friendship group.
“Friendships are relationships as well” 🎯🎯🎯
Balia is right about low maintenance friendships, especially since we are grown now!
11:00 when jade says she hates it why did everyone look at shemara 😭
Some friendship are draining, had to cut off some friends this year and I have no regret
It is well needed, sometimes x
I definetely suggest posting these bonnet diary episodes on spotify! Im pretty sure you can post it as a video podcast
All of you should do daily vlogs and combine it altogether in one video x
Yea this is a really nice idea
My red flags are friends who are male centred, constant criticism (constructive criticism is not bad but when it becomes too constant it becomes annoying, like constantly criticising every little thing you do), violating boundaries and just making you feel bad about yourself…
Getting into the friends that centre their lives around men, it becomes very toxic when every little thing they do, even life changing decisions because they want to please a man, is just centred around men…
Friendship breakups imo are worse than relationship breakups idk why but it just hurts more, for me it takes time to get over a friend than a man, or maybe it’s because I’m not really into dating, relationships and stuff… but with friendship breakups, it hurts so much because I basically viewed that person as a sister/brother… I never imagined my life without them…
Maddison is the most mature speaker in the room ....❤
We are in 2024. We cant keep having these conversations really and truly . Teach us how to stack up our money. Teach black girls how to tap into their creativity and femininity. Use your platform to amplify and empower, all while having fun with it.
Make a podcast then 😂
But all jokes aside ur not wrong
Literally how can “can boys and girls be friends” still be a topic in their mid 20s. YES. Let’s move on and talk bigger things 😭
Your parents should do that
We need episodes more often 🥹
Sorry Shemara takes 💀💀💀
So when you are asked are you emotionally available to hear my sad story you can say no I’m not available ? I’m not sure about that, because what if the person is having some serious issues?
I'm new here ,,l just subscribe greatly impressed.
Loving watching you guys
with the mistake question, why do i have to choose? they’re both cut off 😭😭😭
Period slay
Can you guys next time please speak nearly to the microphone i couldn’t hear u guys clearly.
I love this episode keep going is actually a very necessary topic to speak about it 💕
The dog living his best life
All ya people blaming shemara get a life god damn it. It’s ok to have your opinion💯also I knew Balia was the mediator she is very mature and humble💕
Hold on where’s part 2?? Zoe dropped a bomb and the new episode didn’t even address it???
Love this channel
Loved this one!
Shemara does not like Jade at all… the way she looks at her is so… oof 😭
I noticed that too
Fav girl group 4lyf
How can you call it bonnet diaries and I’m not seeing one bonnet? And in the last ep not everyone was wearing a bonnet 👀
they explained it in the beginning
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YES, if you dig & see sumn plz step. Otherwise…it’s silly lol
Pls what is jade using on her body I need or WE NEED TO KNOW 😍😍😍😍😍
New subscriber 🎉 you girls are so beautiful ❤
Favourite girl group 4lyf
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@vlogwithchoux4753 when u dropping vlogs