Why don't schools teach boys to keep their hands to themselves then discriminating girls who look fine?? I cannot relate to any of this since my school has uniform but this is common knowledge.
My male teacher had me call home because the holes in my pants were too “high”. After our encounter he had a talk with the class. He said things like “Girls should NOT wear pants that have holes above the knees” “ it makes me and my male students uncomfortable” “No one wants to see your big thighs”. He began threatening suspension. He was to worried about our pants to focus on the fact that his punishments were taking time from our education.
man what is up with that!! boys wear shorter shots than girls are allowed to at me school! schools are literally saying the way a girl dresses is more important then her education. :/ messed up
like tf? Im sorry youre s*xually attracted to KNEECAPS, Ad I'm sorry that you pritoitizing my RIPPED JEANS over my education. Wait, I forgot! I don't need one of those because some day I will marry a BIG, STRONG MAN.
The thing that gets to me the most about adults telling minors how they should dress is that an ADULT should not be looking at a MINOR in a sexual way.
I have a story So this boy in my school asked the science teacher to send me to the office or dress code me or whatever because I wore a lot of things that broke the dress code. And then she told him to stop discriminating against women he looked horrified.
@@user-dz8lc3yf2k I remember i when i was in the elementary school, a second grader had dyed there hair hot pink. My school didn't care. That's way to young to dye your hair though.
I remember in 5th grade a boy said "oh my god i can see your bra strap" I stood up and loudly and with alot of drama said "oh yes nobody can know that me a GIRL wears a bra, somebody call Victoria because her secrets out" his face turned red and everyone laughed.
@@omega5393 Is it? I mean there millions upon millions of people in the world, I guess it shouldn't be too surprising. I don't think *teenagers* would develop that though, so I find dress codes pretty stupid.
Tea Spilt actually i think the reason were not allowed to wear spaghetti straps is because everyone will be thinking of spaghetti and not pay attention
Maximus some people at my school have had their pants sagging to their mid thigh or lower and you could see a good bit of their underwear. And idk if you’re gonna say this but just to clarify, I looking at them but turned my head and saw. Again just wanted I clarify
My entire life,I've always been told: "Here's the rules for school: •no fighting, even if they hit you first •never wear a shirt without tucking it into your jeans first •keep your head down, don't draw attention •dont put that rainbow pin on your backpack! It will ruin your reputation! •never interact with your gf in more than a platonic/best friends kind of way in public •cover up, boys don't know how to control themselves •dont shower at school, I don't care how much you stink, boys love sneaking into girls locker room But I have never,not once in my life, heard a boy being told this: •no means no People set expectations too high for girls, and then get angry when we fail to meet those impossible standards. For example: •we're always told makeup would make us look prettier, but when we wear it, we're "fake" and "trying to hard" •we get told how quiet we are,but when we start talking, we're apparently "talking too much" •we can't express ourselves through clothing, bc "looks are the reputation of the eyes" This is really not fair to us...
Honestly I don’t understand this In my skool they have this super strict dress code like we can’t even wear 6inch skirts and we have to have long sleeves or if we’re wearing short sleeves it needs to be till our elbows We can’t wear sweatpants or leggings bc they reveal our “behind” we can either wear the skool uniform (which is hella hot like we gotta wear the when it’s snowing crazy asf outside and the wether is freezing kinda like the poles) or we gotta wear like a full on formal thing they were to someone’s grave when they die.(no offence jus tryna like explain wut it looks like and feels like) Anyhow in our skool boys actually control themselves very well like they can control themeselves and they say we’re distracting the boys when all we’re distracting are old people working there giving us education. Bruh my friend literally went to our headmasters office for violating dress code and the MAN THE DUDE LITERALLY SEDUCES AND TRIES TO HAVE THE “THING” with my 15 yr old lesbian friend. Honestly Idk wut to say and since there was no evidence that this happened the skool didn’t rlly try to look into it and the police were like: “your jus a bunch of kids wut would u know” like in these cases the police should at least be there for u and help u isn’t that why they exist in the first place? And yea this was a kinda weird story or wutever but like honestly it’s rlly annoying me.
My school does this thing where ripped jeans can't show or be above the knee. Like, im sorry is my exposed knee turning u on or something? My school is wack🤓
"We have given them permission to read. Even when the only word printed is NO" I honestly loved that line. It might just be me. Please like or comment if you agree
my private school dress code: -absolutely -nothing -because -they -believe -that -clothes -are -a -form -of -self -expression that’s how it should be everywhere.
I go to private school too and you can wear anything as long as you're not showing up to school naked, just in a bra/underwear, without a shirt on, you get the point. And the boys? THEY'RE NEVER DISTRACTED BY MY ANKLES. WHO WOULD HAVE KNOWN??
Girls: (has a knee) Old man teacher: YOUR’E DISTRACTING THE BOYS. What boys are actually distracted by: Naming a salamander they found on the internet.
"Remember students. The boys will open your bodies like books. We have given them permisson to read, even if the only word printed is 'no' " leaving with a bang
So it was Halloween and I wore a off shoulder dress to school. 3rd period: went to the staffroom and heard "jama ta upore uthai ei shob ki karon chara eto niche rakhso keno" which meant "pull your dress up, what is this!? Why are you keeping it that low" from two teachers who later backbited about me. I live in an underdeveloped country and I hate it here, I wanna move out so bad... it needs 7 more years but looks like the school there are the same (just a bit better) 😔
that's the dumbest thing ive ever heard. if we dont wear a bra? our nipples show *dress coded* if we wear a bra and it ends up showing bc its not able to be hid? *dress coded*
A girl in my school got in trouble for wearing a shirt that showed her shoulders, while those boys are allowed to take their shirts off in P.E. Like DAMN that's a distraction, some of them got abs, and I have eyes.
Ok first people in a gym class without a shirt on gets practically suspended at my school and girls out here with shorts that have an inch between their hip and upper thigh and nothing???? Esplain please
“ Your shorts are too short” WELL IM SORRY DOES MY LOWER THIGH TURN YOU ON? I got called into the office for that and wearing white colored contacts. It was too “distracting”. So there’s no problem with having fluffy rainbow hair you cannot avoid looking at from all angles, but my soulless white eye contacts? Apparently I can’t wear those! But oddly enough my friends were more pissed about it than I was.
midnight magic they’re saying bright hair is easier to be distracting than eye contacts because hair can be seen from all angles, and it really pops out when it’s colored, but eye contacts can only be noticed if you’re holding eye contact with the person wearing said contacts
I like how she says she says she is trying to learn to stuff her bra without it being obvious while I am over here wearing a sports bra and baggy hoddie trying to make them smaller
Everyone is talking about the poem and their personal experiences, and that’s awesome! I love hearing about people’s opinions and feelings, and the poem was beautiful. But, can we take a minute to appreciate the boys sitting on the couch in the background, listening intently, not interrupting or trying to change her words or opinions? I just thing that is so respectful. The poem hit hard, as I myself have had some issues with dress codes, and I appreciate this person talking about it. I just think that this whole video was very nice.
teachers be more worried about if my shoulders are showing rather than actually doing their job. dress codes are literally built to objectify girls. maybe instead of telling girls to “cover up bc it’s distracting”, teach boys how to control themselves.
Teacher: you can’t show shoulders it’s too distracting for the boys Me: WHAT IN THE WORLD. What boy is gonna come up and say “ hey.. I really like dem shoulders” LIKE FOR REAL theses teacher don’t understand anything do they 😅😂🙄
Teacher: Well ur gonna where it because I’m the teacher :its_brii : ok . Rights this comment: Teacher :..... detention! Fuck you i won’t give you a reason and say you know what you did! Haha fuck you . :its_brii : shows the comment; class screams:
Exactly! I came back from school a year ago from a small vacation and I always hang out with the same group, sometimes the people who play football/watch them (boys and girls). And course, since us females have to have so many dress codes, I got in trouble because I was breaking like three dress codes? Shoulders, legs (jeans had holes in them) and then some other one that I can't remember. I swear to the all spark. None of the boys stared at mw like the teachers said they would- It was a normal day. I watched them play football, and the girls won (because it wad the first game they started and thw boys always say they go easy on the girl's) then my group came over, convinced me to go join tag with another group of football players which forgot their football, and so I did. Near the end of the break we were walking back to go get ready to go inside and one of the boys, I'ma call him N, says "Oooh *;-;;-;* is breaking the dress codes.". And I just laughed it off. "N, how?" Then he nodded to my shoulders but then went straight back to walking his ex walk off.
When my peer asked why our teachers say revealing our shoulders is a distraction to boys, my teacher said it was an attractive nuisance. For those of you who don’t know; an attractive nuisance is when you have something in your yard, like a pool, and if someone trespasses and gets injured in the pool, you’re liable. The comparison is pretty much saying that if you are sexually harassed or raped, you’re liable because of your outfit choice.
Preach! If A boy rapes or touches a girl IT IS THE BOYS FAULT!!!!! He has his own mind set and self-control! He can STOP IF HE WANTED TO! If I wore a tank top and shorts and a guy raped me and they told me it was my fault because I was wearing shorts and a tank top I would be ferrous!!!! If I fought back they would say that I had a bad temper or that I am emotionally unstable!!!!! I have one thing to say...... ARE CLOTHES ARE NOT AN INVITATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That makes a lot of sense on why the teachers would say that but they still shouldn't go too far on dress coding (calling a girl out because of her bra strap, showing collarbones, ankles.. etc)
I was in class and the teacher mentioned something about our clothes being dress code. Two boys in our class stood up and gave an entire speech on why woman should have a right to dress how they want, how no one is obsessed over shoulders, how it doesn’t increases our chances of getting r@ped, and how the teacher needs to Stfu because the only creeper their is the teacher. It was incredible and it was the talk of the school that week. They were legendary 😂😂😂😂😂
Y'know what distracts me? The stupidity of a thing called "dress code". I run for most of my sports and like the guys I like to take off my shirt when I run, but I am told to put my shirt back on by the male principle because he and all the "other boys" can keep their eyes off the sport bra that I am wearing, even though a sports bra is considered an outer garment.
@@VanessaLopez-gm3sz omg same! I'm the only girl apart of our wrestling team and the boys don't have a problem but like every other adult that walks by when we're out on the mat gives me weird stares and it makes me feel weird
Yeah my school dresscoded this nice girl who wore leggings and a nice shirt (blouse thing) but she got dresscoded for being a distraction. But this popular girl wore the shortest shorts ever and the longest shirt ever and nobody said anything. :/
My school is actually the complete opposite if you’re outgoing and confident teachers will dress code you but if you’re one of the quiet kids who doesn’t do shit then they won’t say a thing
“I still remember when I was first cat called I was 12.” What’s up with boys having the self conscious roach. When I was first cat called it was on my bike riding home and a guy and his friend had yelled for me to come back so they can look at my ass. His friend joined, and of course I freaked out and road home. I then tell my friend and she then answered with, “get used to it.” She had apparently been harassed multiple times, as she was hating on her body while the guys wanted to hit it......
Yes this is an issue and it’s honestly because some guys are just not mature. Im a guy and see guys lookin at a girls ass or saying how big it was to me. Although these comments never go outside guys. I’ve never seen a guy just say come here so I can stare at your ass, where I’m from
This girl is speaking facts! I always hated being told “Cover yourself!” And “We can see your shoulders sweetie” “Do you have a cardigan?” When literally a boy came to school wearing guess what? *_No shirt_*
@@heavenlystar292 Exactly. Some guys literally have their asses out and no one says a word about it at my school. I don't really care but it's just... Yeah.
This one boy basically pulled off his shirt because he was “hot” but when I go to school with a tank top on I get judged and dress coded??? 2) Sure I have thicc thighs and it was summer so I wore some short overalls so I get dress coded and told “don’t let me catch you in that again or you will get ISS (in school suspension).” But then this girl who’s legs were as skinny as twig walked up with shorts were you could basically see her underwear didn’t get anything! 3) At my school we are not allowed to wear leggings without some sort of shirt or jacket to cover it up. Boo puh leezz!! 4) sorry for the rant
You ranted, here's mine. I worked around the dress code that I had because I struggled with my looks and self esteem. All the other girls wore tight fitting polos and pants that looked like they were painted on, they didn't need the belts that were required because everything fit perfectly. I was hiking up my pants at least three times a day, even with a belt. I drowning in my oversized polos, screaming silently as I tried to claw my way to the top, past the girls who were nothing more than makeup, gossip, and lies. I drowned in the school system, because no one questioned the girl who wore baggy clothes. It was assumed I was trying to get attention from the boys, when in reality I was faced with the brutal reality where to be popular you need to be mean, to be pretty you have to be skinny, to be perfect you had to be stupid. I look back at those years, and I want to change something, anything. But I can't. So I sit and remember the girl who was ignored because she wasn't pretty or popular. I pray that none of you will suffer in silence like I did.
Indian Princess so true I wore a tank top one day and when everyone else was flat I wasn’t and they yelled at me and said you can’t wear that but a girl that was right behind me wore the same style tank top and also chunky girl can’t wear tank tops when skinny girl can school don’t just have strict dress code they also fat shame some kids that I know and when you see it happen it really makes you sad but you look at some of the teachers and question!🤦🏽♀️
@@astarothosullivan3099 Yess!!! Exactly!! Like i feel the same way, we're not trying to attract boys, more like girls are trying to show off to other girls
Booty shorts are 100% “sexy.” We shouldn’t wear burqas, but both men and women should dress modestly and well. Coming to school half naked is wrong. Coming to school in just undergarments (which is what a crop top and “booty shorts” is, at the end of the day) is wrong. It goes both ways.
In my elementary (jk - grade 8) the boys had a "dress code" but I don't count it since they didn't even know that it existed. It was so insignificant that they didn't realize it was there, I doubt they would've gotten in trouble if they broke it. Unlike us girls, I never got dress coded, but that's cuz I was paranoid about breaking the dress code. But I had a friend who got dress coded when she was following the dress code
When I was sexually harassed on school grounds twice and raped once, the cops asked what I was wearin and then told me I was asking for it because I was wearing tight leggings.... on top I was wearing a sweatshirt
I was dress coded once because my shorts were bright pink and in the front the design was to be shorter than the back. There was a girl that was in the office showing WAY more skin than I was and they didn’t say anything to her. I asked for the dress code list and I found 11 targeted at girls, 5 targeted for both genders, and 2 that could’ve been under both but I decided were more so for the boys.....
if you think that boys will be distracted by girls showing an inch of shoulder or thigh, maybe instead of punishing the girls for expressing themselves, teach the boys properly. thank you for listening to my TED talk.
If schools only care about dress codes Then why am I not sitting in a room all day (without learning) While a person says what I’m wearing doesn’t fall into the dress code Don’t be butthurt cause you didn’t get to wear you emo gore shirt or some shit...
Pure quality Vids and Maximus! You two need to chill! It’s called an opinion! You can’t get mad at them for having one. Also, I understand that you don’t like her opinion but seriously... DON’T BE SO RUDE ABOUT IT! DISAGREE AND SHARE TOUR OPINION! BUT DO NOT BE RUDE JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS AN OPINION YOU DON’T LIKE! Seriously... you two just need to chill.
Clothing Reviews With Chrystal According to your logic You shouldn’t tell me that I’m being rude I was only giving my opinion You can’t get mad at me for having one Bitch
We actually have a whole inside joke about the dress code at our school. Anytime we talk about the dress code there is always a girl who shrugs her shoulders and goes "Shoulders...SCANDALOUS!" Every single time and we all laugh even though really kind of frustrating.
averyowebster this really means a lot to me. I wrote this poem as a coping mechanism & if it helps anything or anyone beyond me than it has served its purpose.
My dress code: •fingertip length shorts •no tank top •can't wear any tight pants like leggings,jeggings, yoga pants etc. without a shirt that's long enough to cover your back and front parts •no bra straps Guy dress code at my school: •wear a shirt •your pants can't show your boxers
karissa edwards we have to wear a uniform? you're lucky you get to express yourself even slightly. luckily, we can wear makeup and sometimes dyed hair, depends on your teachers. (this wasn't meant to be rude it's just the way i type that makes it sound rude)
karissa edwards true i hate how schools do that. It doesn't matter what we wear unless its obviously not appropriate at all. We should be able to wear whatever we want without any criticism or harrassment. I thino boys should learn to control themselves. Im 12 and not all but a lot of boys at my school are disrespectful to girls so we have to change but they are still allowed to be disrespectful, disgusting, and they are allowed to not keep their hands to themselves but we have to change we have to change ourselves so we can be respected. Its completely idiotic and backwords and its not just school is society in general.
karissa edwards I'm in high school btw and they said we can wear anything we want but when I was in Jr high if we wanted to wear shorts it had to be fingertip length, for shirts it had to be appropriate and we couldn't wear tank tops, we couldn't wear tight pants like leggings if we wore something we weren't supposed to we had to change into our PE clothes we also couldn't wear all red or blue and the weird thing is that the vice principal kept dress cutting people he didn't like so if someone that was African American they can walk by him and not get in trouble but if it was a white person then he would get them in trouble
Hannah Lewis girls gotta stick up for other girls!! What a girl wears has nothing to do with her self-worth. I'm glad this poem could make you see things in another light (:
Hannah Lewis in seventh grade: i stopped wearing a bra. since then i have received no hate, or judgement from anyone... except my mom. the worst part is that not wearing a bra made me feel like myself, and comfortable, and everything a girl deserves to feel in her clothing. she still says, "i just don't want people to judge you." it hurts so much more coming from someone you love. i used to judge other girls, too, but stopped in 7th grade when i realized just how disgusting it was.
I find dress code kinda funny because the guys at my school dont even care. I mean they say "wow look at those really /distracting/ shoulders" (as a joke of course) when they see you first period, then they trail off and dont give a shit.
i joke with my friend whenever she wear the shirt that shows her shoulders. I would be like, "OMG Miranda! Your shoulders are too distracting!" I would then fake tripping and the both of us would laugh hard. I also think dress code is kinda funny because a lot of boys dont care. They just glance and go on with their day.
Why are girls told to cover themselves? “It’s to distracting” is getting old, instead of girls needing to cover up every inch of their body boys should be told what is right and wrong, what is appropriate and inappropriate, how to act and how not to act. ‘Surprisingly’ boys *CAN* control themselves, and not all of them are constantly thinking about girls and our bodies.
So true, I have arms down to the top of my knee and every day in P.E I wear BASKETBALL shorts and I get dress coded because they’re too short. Little does my gym teacher know that they are the longest shorts I have. I’m sorry that I have knees just like everyone else. Oh, they’re distracting the boys? Well teach them how the hell to behave!!!!!!!
Most boys do know how to controll themselves its just teaches SAYING that they don't. If every homeroom teacher took a survey in my grade almost 90% of the boys would gladly say the school dress code is terrible you kneecaps don't turn me on I don't care that your stomach is showing.
@@lilyhamel1069 True, bc we are growing up in this era, where showing most of the legs, and arms etc. IS NORMAL... IF girls wore idk Shorts, even just a bit above their knew in the older OLDER times prob. get killed...
This is so sad today my friend sat in the office all day because she wore shorts and I can't believe that we have to be the ones that have to do things like change because some guys can't help themselves and have to act the way they do but I love this
Laura De Sousa I know it makes me very sad that our body's can suddenly turn into our fault and we have to cover it up no matter what happens in my school you can't have a shoulder showing or a skirt or shorts higher than a credit card above your knee
+Laura De Sousa Huh, I thought it was to get the poet more angry/powerful? I went to a slam poem thing for my sister (I plan going when I can, Slam Poetry is beautiful!) and we snapped our fingers if they had a powerful part in their slam poem. Also, if they got nervous, then we would rub our hands together. Last thing: This was beautiful! Thank you for showing it to the world!
When girls are told to cover up, it may make them feel self conscious. The outfits aren’t the problem, it’s the people who can’t control themselves who are. We should be allowed to wear whatever the hell we want and not be judged or harassed for it. Same goes with boys as well.
There are boys who walk around shirtless at my school because they spilled water on themselves but if my bra strap shows it’s a problem? I call Bull shit.
I love this because it doesn't make men out to be the bad guys in the situation either. It's the social ideology that's put in the spotlight, because guys aren't getting distracted by this until they're taught that it's distracting. Objectifying women isn't something people are born doing, it's something they're taught to do, and this poem does a really, REALLY good job of stating that.
Maximus not as bad the teachers and staff are more likely to get girls in trouble than boys.When boys wear tank tops nothing happens but when girls ,everyone is freaking out because you can see their shoulders.
Maximus no they don’t. They really don’t, have you ever read the dress codes? We can’t show our fucking midriff, collarbone, OR FUCKING SHOULDERS, because the teachers blame the boys for being distracted when in reality, it’s the teachers and sexist assholes who are distracted.
@@venuspensus actually good madam or mister. The same rules do apply I do not happen to see any male person egar to show any portion of their body. Same with a female person. If you truly believe this please send me proof so I may understand.
Person: your bra strap is showing. Me: OMG REALLY?! SO EMBARRASSING!! PEOPLE CANT KNOW THAT I AM A WOMAN AND WOMEN HAVE BREASTS!! SOMEONE CALL VICTORIA HER SECRET IS OUT!!
I have a lot of guys friends right? So I was in Psych and my teacher said “so Um Autumn I’m going to have to send you to the office because your rips are too high on the leg and your shirt lifts up when you raise your hand it may be distracting” So my first guy friend Chris was like “ oh yea guys I couldn’t focus when I saw a tiny bit of her skin. It was just sooo distracting” and then another guy I’m kind of close with was like “I know no wonder I’m failing this class. God women’s skin the most distracting thing ever” then Chris started talking again and was like “Honestly teach none of us get distracted. If guys are creeps they’re creeps they’ll hit on girls who are in the baggiest clothing so if anyone’s getting distracted it’s you” we all got sent to the office but it was pretty funny
also the fact that i have asked my male friends multiple times if they are distracted by shoulders and none of them has ever been distracted by a shoulder in their life,like it should be.
"Remember students, boy will open your bodies like books. We have given them permission to read, even when the only word printed is NO." Even though it was the end of the video, I still teared up at this part.
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“If something happens You’d be asking for it”
“I found out later; nobody told the boys to keep their hands to themself “
That hit hard.
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Aye a nialler
Honesty though like why
Why don't schools teach boys to keep their hands to themselves then discriminating girls who look fine?? I cannot relate to any of this since my school has uniform but this is common knowledge.
“They keep reading, even when the only word printed is NO”
I just have to say that hit differently...
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That’s not what she said lol
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@@rocky_pugs162 then what’d she say?
Girls: *Have bodies*
School dress codes: We don't do that here.
And that’s on facts
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My male teacher had me call home because the holes in my pants were too “high”. After our encounter he had a talk with the class. He said things like “Girls should NOT wear pants that have holes above the knees” “ it makes me and my male students uncomfortable” “No one wants to see your big thighs”. He began threatening suspension. He was to worried about our pants to focus on the fact that his punishments were taking time from our education.
I'm sorry that happened to you, fellow Ravenclaw.
That happened to me too! Our teachers won’t let us wear ripped jeans, but will let the “popular girls” wear short shorts 😑
man what is up with that!! boys wear shorter shots than girls are allowed to at me school! schools are literally saying the way a girl dresses is more important then her education. :/ messed up
like tf? Im sorry youre s*xually attracted to KNEECAPS, Ad I'm sorry that you pritoitizing my RIPPED JEANS over my education. Wait, I forgot! I don't need one of those because some day I will marry a BIG, STRONG MAN.
The thing that gets to me the most about adults telling minors how they should dress is that an ADULT should not be looking at a MINOR in a sexual way.
"her ripped jeans are a distraction i can't handle seeing her knees"😭😭😭
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Girl: has pretty face
School dress code: NOPE you gotta cover that up too sweetie
Cant relate ahaha
I can realate...
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Like we dont already with a shit ton of makeup to feel better about our selves cuz anxiety:/
Jaiden Block makeup ?! What? Why?!
@@slightlyweird.. nvr mind lol
Teacher: Put a jacket on! Your shoulder is showing!
Me: Damn I guess people like my greasy and pimply shoulder
haha me 100%
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I have a story
So this boy in my school asked the science teacher to send me to the office or dress code me or whatever because I wore a lot of things that broke the dress code. And then she told him to stop discriminating against women he looked horrified.
Can we get a round of applause please? 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Finally a good teacher
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Bravo! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Seriously lol serves him right
The funny thing is, is that I've seen more people be catcalled when they're wearing some sort of uniform than in their normal clothes.
same!
Seen? Why didn't you speak up?
@@tomheather123 i did report it to my local police department :)
Yeah I wore my ffa uniform to school and got catcalled
@@aleenarowland4525 oh my god. i hope you're doing alright now.
Girl: has hair
School Dreas code: excuse me ur distracting my life
Actually at my school you can't have any dye you have to keep it natural they say it's distracting
@@user-dz8lc3yf2k that's so ridiculous I've never dyed my hair so I don't know if my school likes it
Hijab duh
@@user-dz8lc3yf2k I remember i when i was in the elementary school, a second grader had dyed there hair hot pink. My school didn't care. That's way to young to dye your hair though.
@@cayleeistired yeah 😊
Me: *shows shoulders*
Boys: *don't care at all*
School: OH MY GOD THE BOYS ARE TOO DISTRACTED BY YOUR SHOULDERS.
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They do.
Its how life works
A woman bodies always absorb men
@@loanthebank9820 ...are you stupid or are you stupid?
I remember in 5th grade a boy said "oh my god i can see your bra strap"
I stood up and loudly and with alot of drama said "oh yes nobody can know that me a GIRL wears a bra, somebody call Victoria because her secrets out" his face turned red and everyone laughed.
You are a badass, I love that
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@@malkshayke agreed
the classic middle school come back
Savage fifth grader
Teacher: “you can’t show your shoulders.”
Me: “wow the kinks are getting weirder everyday”
LOLLL
I didn't know shoulder fetish was a thing.
@@omega5393 Is it? I mean there millions upon millions of people in the world, I guess it shouldn't be too surprising.
I don't think *teenagers* would develop that though, so I find dress codes pretty stupid.
IKR me and my friends always joke if we see one of our shoulders and say
“ OoooOoo look at those shoulders”
But I honestly think it’s pretty stupid
xXNugget_QueenXx 😂
Teachers think guys are like: “Hey bros look at that girls shoulders 😍”
Ikr
Out of all the shoulder comments this one made me laugh
Or"dammmmnnn look at those shoulders"
Tea Spilt actually i think the reason were not allowed to wear spaghetti straps is because everyone will be thinking of spaghetti and not pay attention
what teachers think: bRo HeR kNeEs ArE sO hOt
We dont have a dress code, A girl walked with a laced bodysuit with short jeans shorts. nobody even noticed. i love that
Ummm
@@3lectricsh4rpin64 i agree that's a little sus
WHERE IS THIS SCHOOL??? THERE IS NO WAY IT EXISTS
I want to go there
how old was she again😭 i hope this was in hs
“Remember we have given boys permission to open are bodies like books even when the only word printed is no” QUEEN
*_“We have given them permission to read when the only word printed is NO”_*
guys can sag their pants down to their knees but god forbid you see my ankle!!!
No, when has that ever happend like what
No body just walks around like that
Maximus yeah some people
Maximus most boys do it in public schools in the city
Katelyn Annabella well i mean ive never heard of someone
Sagging their pants down to their knees
Thats just called not knowing how to wear pants
Maximus some people at my school have had their pants sagging to their mid thigh or lower and you could see a good bit of their underwear. And idk if you’re gonna say this but just to clarify, I looking at them but turned my head and saw. Again just wanted I clarify
My entire life,I've always been told:
"Here's the rules for school:
•no fighting, even if they hit you first
•never wear a shirt without tucking it into your jeans first
•keep your head down, don't draw attention
•dont put that rainbow pin on your backpack! It will ruin your reputation!
•never interact with your gf in more than a platonic/best friends kind of way in public
•cover up, boys don't know how to control themselves
•dont shower at school, I don't care how much you stink, boys love sneaking into girls locker room
But I have never,not once in my life, heard a boy being told this:
•no means no
People set expectations too high for girls, and then get angry when we fail to meet those impossible standards. For example:
•we're always told makeup would make us look prettier, but when we wear it, we're "fake" and "trying to hard"
•we get told how quiet we are,but when we start talking, we're apparently "talking too much"
•we can't express ourselves through clothing, bc "looks are the reputation of the eyes"
This is really not fair to us...
This is beautiful.
You honestly killed this preach❤
AND THATS ON PERIODT
Honestly I don’t understand this
In my skool they have this super strict dress code like we can’t even wear 6inch skirts and we have to have long sleeves or if we’re wearing short sleeves it needs to be till our elbows
We can’t wear sweatpants or leggings bc they reveal our “behind” we can either wear the skool uniform (which is hella hot like we gotta wear the when it’s snowing crazy asf outside and the wether is freezing kinda like the poles) or we gotta wear like a full on formal thing they were to someone’s grave when they die.(no offence jus tryna like explain wut it looks like and feels like)
Anyhow in our skool boys actually control themselves very well like they can control themeselves and they say we’re distracting the boys when all we’re distracting are old people working there giving us education.
Bruh my friend literally went to our headmasters office for violating dress code and the MAN THE DUDE LITERALLY SEDUCES AND TRIES TO HAVE THE “THING” with my 15 yr old lesbian friend.
Honestly Idk wut to say and since there was no evidence that this happened the skool didn’t rlly try to look into it and the police were like: “your jus a bunch of kids wut would u know” like in these cases the police should at least be there for u and help u isn’t that why they exist in the first place?
And yea this was a kinda weird story or wutever but like honestly it’s rlly annoying me.
PREACH
Teachers: “ You shoulders are distracting the boys”
Me: “damn theses boys got some weird kinks these days”
Ello comment stealing exposer here, i came to expose you for stealing a comment
LMFAOOOO
*boy has encountered a female kneecap*
*kneecap used distraction*
same with shoulders lol
My school does this thing where ripped jeans can't show or be above the knee. Like, im sorry is my exposed knee turning u on or something? My school is wack🤓
Ur pfp is fake oop-
Alli Noodle
*It wasn’t very effective*
Angel_ Animates I cant even wear ripped jeans
Dress codes assume that every teenage boy has no control over his hormones.
They’re all preoccupied with Minecraft, quite frankly who isn’t?
Well.....
not always true
Harold Dlorah Nice comment.
•Emmaree • ikr
"We have given them permission to read. Even when the only word printed is NO"
I honestly loved that line. It might just be me.
Please like or comment if you agree
Omgggg yes I was trying to find a comment talking about this line it’s so powerful
@@dailynza lol same
@@Anna-lr7ur *yes*
YES
@@dailynza Sameeeee
Boys:
"DAMMMMMMMMM dem are som nice shoulder." Literally what the teachers think
Reality: Bro- Look at this bug! What should we name it?
@@MrMr-oj7hl Honestly, that is literally something that sounds like it'd be cool to do in science class.
*Or for when your hiding the body.*
NOT THE PFP😭✋🏾
my private school dress code:
-absolutely
-nothing
-because
-they
-believe
-that
-clothes
-are
-a
-form
-of
-self
-expression
that’s how it should be everywhere.
I go to private school too and you can wear anything as long as you're not showing up to school naked, just in a bra/underwear, without a shirt on, you get the point. And the boys? THEY'RE NEVER DISTRACTED BY MY ANKLES. WHO WOULD HAVE KNOWN??
Alice Tan Montgomery i wear uniforms
I mean.Dont be letting people run around with bikinis and naked.But I’m sure that’s not what you meant.
@@bluebelleix8479 same so I can't relate to this cuz I match the boys exactly every day
Saymee
Girls: (has a knee)
Old man teacher: YOUR’E DISTRACTING THE BOYS.
What boys are actually distracted by: Naming a salamander they found on the internet.
I was inappropriately touched by my mums female friend who had 4 children When I was a teenager
It is called geico DUHH
Vote Eed for the weed we need!
Eed the plastic frog for school president!
me and the boys definently would have called it lebron james 👀👀 jkjk lmao
Everyone: WHOO *claps*
Me: sitting in the office for dress code
Fuck that school
"Omg did you see Becky?! She's wearing ripped jeans!"
*GASP* "Exposing her knees?? OMFG! What if she gets assaulted!?!"
"Remember students. The boys will open your bodies like books. We have given them permisson to read, even if the only word printed is 'no' " leaving with a bang
True
🖕
Girl: *shows shoulder*
Teacher: *so you have chosen, death*
dont laugh dont laugh dont laugh dont lau- BAHAHAHAH
So it was Halloween and I wore a off shoulder dress to school. 3rd period: went to the staffroom and heard "jama ta upore uthai ei shob ki karon chara eto niche rakhso keno" which meant "pull your dress up, what is this!? Why are you keeping it that low" from two teachers who later backbited about me. I live in an underdeveloped country and I hate it here, I wanna move out so bad... it needs 7 more years but looks like the school there are the same (just a bit better) 😔
Shotabdi Barua BTS ARMY I’m so sorry :(
Quinn Pikzell heck yes
Your profile picture describes everything
Girl dress code: no shoulders no stomach no thighs
Boys dress code: where clothes
THIS NEEDS CHANGED
OMG I wEAR A bRA?
iM a WOmaN?
honestly shook to the core
that's the dumbest thing ive ever heard. if we dont wear a bra? our nipples show *dress coded* if we wear a bra and it ends up showing bc its not able to be hid? *dress coded*
Alli Noodle ya ya YA
Joshua Hong ikr what am I supposed to do
Go off sis
@@dailydose359 exactly like what the fuck do you want me to do? Take them off and put my “school” breasts on?
Schools be like:
‘Boys dress code has left the chat’
Damn is this what they call women humor
Prism Reaper yeah❤️😀
@@ihatemathreadaboutsectionb4907 you females proud
What's dress code
Joleen Winkelbauer. Bcuz y’all r so weak y’all r pussies teachers can’t come at da bois 💪
A girl in my school got in trouble for wearing a shirt that showed her shoulders, while those boys are allowed to take their shirts off in P.E. Like DAMN that's a distraction, some of them got abs, and I have eyes.
Teacher: You can't show your shoulder.
Me: Like showing my shoulder gives more or less of a chance of being raped every day? They don't care.
What I don’t understand is a guy in PE can walk out with his shirt off but I can’t show a bit of my shoulder too much without getting in trouble?
Dylon and Kylee right
IKR my sister got in trouble for showing her legs because guys were talking about her body it’s so unfair for us
Ok first people in a gym class without a shirt on gets practically suspended at my school and girls out here with shorts that have an inch between their hip and upper thigh and nothing???? Esplain please
Right!
I know that not right cause “your shoulders are a distraction for boys”😒
“ Your shorts are too short”
WELL IM SORRY DOES MY LOWER THIGH TURN YOU ON?
I got called into the office for that and wearing white colored contacts. It was too “distracting”. So there’s no problem with having fluffy rainbow hair you cannot avoid looking at from all angles, but my soulless white eye contacts? Apparently I can’t wear those! But oddly enough my friends were more pissed about it than I was.
What!!?? What do contacts have anything to do with dress code wtf!!?
@ginoxio2004 agreed
I just want to dye my hair is that not normal???
@ginoxio2004 yep..
midnight magic they’re saying bright hair is easier to be distracting than eye contacts because hair can be seen from all angles, and it really pops out when it’s colored, but eye contacts can only be noticed if you’re holding eye contact with the person wearing said contacts
I like how she says she says she is trying to learn to stuff her bra without it being obvious while I am over here wearing a sports bra and baggy hoddie trying to make them smaller
thats me :/ trying to find a super thin bra that still works and tried to wear hoodies everyday.
Oo try Bali brand! They are super thin and it barely feels like your even wearing a bra!
Weird flex but ok
Everyone is talking about the poem and their personal experiences, and that’s awesome! I love hearing about people’s opinions and feelings, and the poem was beautiful. But, can we take a minute to appreciate the boys sitting on the couch in the background, listening intently, not interrupting or trying to change her words or opinions? I just thing that is so respectful. The poem hit hard, as I myself have had some issues with dress codes, and I appreciate this person talking about it. I just think that this whole video was very nice.
We shouldn't be celebrating people for doing the bare minimum regardless of gender 💅
All of the dislikes are all of the teachers in the world who think showing your shoulders is bad
Perhaps they were abused or knew someone who has been. Peace from England UK
My Secret Sketchbook and that’s why people should be taught to control themselves
teachers be more worried about if my shoulders are showing rather than actually doing their job. dress codes are literally built to objectify girls. maybe instead of telling girls to “cover up bc it’s distracting”, teach boys how to control themselves.
Thats so true
And I oop...sksksk
True it's trueee
EXACTLY!
Racquel McKay that is the real truth if they can’t control them self it’s there fault
Girl: wears jeans
Teacher: DISTRACTION!!!
Teacher: you can’t show shoulders it’s too distracting for the boys
Me: WHAT IN THE WORLD. What boy is gonna come up and say “ hey.. I really like dem shoulders” LIKE FOR REAL theses teacher don’t understand anything do they
😅😂🙄
Miri Nannestad Lol
@Miri Nannestad call the police
Teacher: Well ur gonna where it because I’m the teacher :its_brii : ok . Rights this comment: Teacher :..... detention! Fuck you i won’t give you a reason and say you know what you did! Haha fuck you . :its_brii : shows the comment; class screams:
Iamaduck Quack lmao 🤣
Exactly! I came back from school a year ago from a small vacation and I always hang out with the same group, sometimes the people who play football/watch them (boys and girls). And course, since us females have to have so many dress codes, I got in trouble because I was breaking like three dress codes? Shoulders, legs (jeans had holes in them) and then some other one that I can't remember.
I swear to the all spark. None of the boys stared at mw like the teachers said they would- It was a normal day. I watched them play football, and the girls won (because it wad the first game they started and thw boys always say they go easy on the girl's) then my group came over, convinced me to go join tag with another group of football players which forgot their football, and so I did.
Near the end of the break we were walking back to go get ready to go inside and one of the boys, I'ma call him N, says "Oooh *;-;;-;* is breaking the dress codes.".
And I just laughed it off. "N, how?"
Then he nodded to my shoulders but then went straight back to walking his ex walk off.
Me: Neck is showing
Boy: Has no shirt on
Principal: Ma’am you need to cover up!
It do be like that doe-
When my peer asked why our teachers say revealing our shoulders is a distraction to boys, my teacher said it was an attractive nuisance. For those of you who don’t know; an attractive nuisance is when you have something in your yard, like a pool, and if someone trespasses and gets injured in the pool, you’re liable. The comparison is pretty much saying that if you are sexually harassed or raped, you’re liable because of your outfit choice.
Jaya Elizabeth stupidest shit i’ve seen all day thank you
Preach! If A boy rapes or touches a girl IT IS THE BOYS FAULT!!!!! He has his own mind set and self-control! He can STOP IF HE WANTED TO! If I wore a tank top and shorts and a guy raped me and they told me it was my fault because I was wearing shorts and a tank top I would be ferrous!!!! If I fought back they would say that I had a bad temper or that I am emotionally unstable!!!!! I have one thing to say......
ARE CLOTHES ARE NOT AN INVITATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That makes a lot of sense on why the teachers would say that but they still shouldn't go too far on dress coding (calling a girl out because of her bra strap, showing collarbones, ankles.. etc)
Well your teacher is a dumbass, because its ILLEGAL to trespass
Some people are just.... uuugghh
I was in class and the teacher mentioned something about our clothes being dress code. Two boys in our class stood up and gave an entire speech on why woman should have a right to dress how they want, how no one is obsessed over shoulders, how it doesn’t increases our chances of getting r@ped, and how the teacher needs to Stfu because the only creeper their is the teacher. It was incredible and it was the talk of the school that week. They were legendary 😂😂😂😂😂
Y'know what distracts me?
The stupidity of a thing called "dress code".
I run for most of my sports and like the guys I like to take off my shirt when I run, but I am told to put my shirt back on by the male principle because he and all the "other boys" can keep their eyes off the sport bra that I am wearing, even though a sports bra is considered an outer garment.
Bruh that’s so annoying, they say it’s cuz they don’t have “lady parts”, yet the bra is for coving the lady parts so what’s the problem like wtf
Um 😶 why exactly is the principal distracted das illegal 🗿✌🏾✨
The sad thing is I’ve never even seen a girl in just a sports bra in school
Ik I feel this I was one of the only girls in wrestling and I constantly felt like a outcast
@@VanessaLopez-gm3sz omg same! I'm the only girl apart of our wrestling team and the boys don't have a problem but like every other adult that walks by when we're out on the mat gives me weird stares and it makes me feel weird
Yeah my school dresscoded this nice girl who wore leggings and a nice shirt (blouse thing) but she got dresscoded for being a distraction. But this popular girl wore the shortest shorts ever and the longest shirt ever and nobody said anything. :/
TheBubblyBear probably because her shirt was long enough to be a dress
My school is actually the complete opposite if you’re outgoing and confident teachers will dress code you but if you’re one of the quiet kids who doesn’t do shit then they won’t say a thing
Sarah Weldon My school does that too, that’s why I’ve never been dress coded
Sarah Weldon I mean that’s probably cause their not noticeable considering how quiet they are it seems
Both the nice girl and the popular have the right to express themselves how they want
“I still remember when I was first cat called I was 12.” What’s up with boys having the self conscious roach. When I was first cat called it was on my bike riding home and a guy and his friend had yelled for me to come back so they can look at my ass. His friend joined, and of course I freaked out and road home. I then tell my friend and she then answered with, “get used to it.” She had apparently been harassed multiple times, as she was hating on her body while the guys wanted to hit it......
sksksk
oh god i hope u and ur friend is doing better now :(
Yes this is an issue and it’s honestly because some guys are just not mature. Im a guy and see guys lookin at a girls ass or saying how big it was to me. Although these comments never go outside guys. I’ve never seen a guy just say come here so I can stare at your ass, where I’m from
@@dikoledo7985 Thx :,)
i love how all the guys are hyping her up. she’s awesome and those guys are so sweet and supportive
This girl is speaking facts! I always hated being told “Cover yourself!” And “We can see your shoulders sweetie” “Do you have a cardigan?” When literally a boy came to school wearing guess what?
*_No shirt_*
Those dress codes are too extra, as a male i say idc if a girl has her shoulders or ankles out.
Oml finally ONE boy who really cares about women's dress code!
U r gr8.
We stan this comment. We shouldnt have to cover every inch of our body because some boys cant control their eyes.
@@heavenlystar292 Exactly. Some guys literally have their asses out and no one says a word about it at my school. I don't really care but it's just... Yeah.
@@animegraveyard776 If you're talking about plumbers crack, no one does that deliberately.
This one boy basically pulled off his shirt because he was “hot” but when I go to school with a tank top on I get judged and dress coded???
2) Sure I have thicc thighs and it was summer so I wore some short overalls so I get dress coded and told “don’t let me catch you in that again or you will get ISS (in school suspension).” But then this girl who’s legs were as skinny as twig walked up with shorts were you could basically see her underwear didn’t get anything!
3) At my school we are not allowed to wear leggings without some sort of shirt or jacket to cover it up. Boo puh leezz!!
4) sorry for the rant
You ranted, here's mine.
I worked around the dress code that I had because I struggled with my looks and self esteem. All the other girls wore tight fitting polos and pants that looked like they were painted on, they didn't need the belts that were required because everything fit perfectly. I was hiking up my pants at least three times a day, even with a belt. I drowning in my oversized polos, screaming silently as I tried to claw my way to the top, past the girls who were nothing more than makeup, gossip, and lies. I drowned in the school system, because no one questioned the girl who wore baggy clothes. It was assumed I was trying to get attention from the boys, when in reality I was faced with the brutal reality where to be popular you need to be mean, to be pretty you have to be skinny, to be perfect you had to be stupid. I look back at those years, and I want to change something, anything. But I can't. So I sit and remember the girl who was ignored because she wasn't pretty or popular. I pray that none of you will suffer in silence like I did.
Indian Princess so true I wore a tank top one day and when everyone else was flat I wasn’t and they yelled at me and said you can’t wear that but a girl that was right behind me wore the same style tank top and also chunky girl can’t wear tank tops when skinny girl can school don’t just have strict dress code they also fat shame some kids that I know and when you see it happen it really makes you sad but you look at some of the teachers and question!🤦🏽♀️
That's honestly so unfair and terrible. I'm sorry you had to go through that. 😞
@@astarothosullivan3099 Yess!!! Exactly!! Like i feel the same way, we're not trying to attract boys, more like girls are trying to show off to other girls
I sorry but it's hot outside and I don't wanna have a heat stroke I DON'T FRICKEN CARE old BALD guy
a girl's shoulder: *exists*
teacher: and i took that personally
Stomachs are not sexy
shoulders aren’t distracting
Knees are not distracting
Booty shorts are not sexy
be nice it’s called your own body
Booty shorts are 100% “sexy.”
We shouldn’t wear burqas, but both men and women should dress modestly and well. Coming to school half naked is wrong. Coming to school in just undergarments (which is what a crop top and “booty shorts” is, at the end of the day) is wrong.
It goes both ways.
At my school we had to have clear or mesh backpacks. One day everyone wore a clear backpack filled with women's products. The school changed that rule
Sarah grace iconic
At least they changed that rule😂😂😂
Sarah grace xDd
Haha that's amazing
How are girls are a distracting and when the boys have no dresscode. Love this 💗
@VEINERSCHNITZEL Wusbsh this is very true.
In my elementary (jk - grade 8) the boys had a "dress code" but I don't count it since they didn't even know that it existed. It was so insignificant that they didn't realize it was there, I doubt they would've gotten in trouble if they broke it. Unlike us girls, I never got dress coded, but that's cuz I was paranoid about breaking the dress code. But I had a friend who got dress coded when she was following the dress code
When I was sexually harassed on school grounds twice and raped once, the cops asked what I was wearin and then told me I was asking for it because I was wearing tight leggings.... on top I was wearing a sweatshirt
I was dress coded once because my shorts were bright pink and in the front the design was to be shorter than the back. There was a girl that was in the office showing WAY more skin than I was and they didn’t say anything to her. I asked for the dress code list and I found 11 targeted at girls, 5 targeted for both genders, and 2 that could’ve been under both but I decided were more so for the boys.....
@@jacoblavallee8539 yes that’s true but we can keep it in our pants and under control
Girl: “Hi... *walks in showing there shoulder
Boy: “ayyy” *walks in with no shirt on”
Teacher: Hello, “HEY are you showing a shoulder?” OUT!
Dress code: Boys will be distracted by girls clothing
Me: *a gay boy* uhhh no.
100% That Kid Everyday
me: *bi boy* also no it’s a fucking shoulder if I’m looking for arousle I’ll watch porn not come to school
Lesbian and NO SHOULDERS ARE NOT DISTRACTINGGGG! Like, what do teachers think about these days? Getting off to s H o U l D E r S!?
Dress code:boys can take their shirts off but girls cant Me a pansexual:SO WE REALLY GETTIN INTO THIS FREAKY SHIT WITH THE BOYS ALRIGHT I SEE YOU
My school always says dress for “success” but the we all dressing to go back to sleep
Mainly for work and stuff. Especially for interviews. Sometimes dress code for adults is more strict. Preparing us for future.. still a but absurd
lol my school says the same thing
SLYTHERCLAW SQUAD
Yassssss
girl: *shows finger tips from fingerless gloves*
teacher: OMG THAT'S AGAINST THE DRESS CODE CHANGE NOW YOUNG LADY
Oh god no
@@mishkaparashar3170 xD
“damn nice shoulders”
who and why
if you think that boys will be distracted by girls showing an inch of shoulder or thigh, maybe instead of punishing the girls for expressing themselves, teach the boys properly.
thank you for listening to my TED talk.
"Sorry, you have to change." "Oh shit, take me away in cuffs, my shoulders are showing."
Sofia Newman actually we joke about that stuff in Australia now days because American’s dresscode is so outdated.
Sofia Newman EXACTLY
schools don't care about education they only care about dress codes but this girl is right and smart
Fuck you
Pure quality Vids | Damn, why you gotta be rude like that? All they were saying was the truth
If schools only care about dress codes
Then why am I not sitting in a room all day (without learning)
While a person says what I’m wearing doesn’t fall into the dress code
Don’t be butthurt cause you didn’t get to wear you emo gore shirt or some shit...
Pure quality Vids and Maximus! You two need to chill! It’s called an opinion! You can’t get mad at them for having one. Also, I understand that you don’t like her opinion but seriously... DON’T BE SO RUDE ABOUT IT! DISAGREE AND SHARE TOUR OPINION! BUT DO NOT BE RUDE JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS AN OPINION YOU DON’T LIKE! Seriously... you two just need to chill.
Clothing Reviews With Chrystal
According to your logic
You shouldn’t tell me that I’m being rude
I was only giving my opinion
You can’t get mad at me for having one
Bitch
it's so simple. If a girl is wearing some sort of "distracting" clothes and a teacher gets "distracted", that teacher shouldn't be near schools
We actually have a whole inside joke about the dress code at our school. Anytime we talk about the dress code there is always a girl who shrugs her shoulders and goes "Shoulders...SCANDALOUS!"
Every single time and we all laugh even though really kind of frustrating.
waiting for the school faculty to hear this. waiting for some change and this is what's going to help the change. this is amazing
averyowebster this really means a lot to me. I wrote this poem as a coping mechanism & if it helps anything or anyone beyond me than it has served its purpose.
Payam al-Abid what? That isn't relevant with the situation
Laura De Sousa I just can't believe you had the guts to say this in public, props to you. You're awesome!
averyowebster c
Give up your hopes.
My dress code:
•fingertip length shorts
•no tank top
•can't wear any tight pants like leggings,jeggings, yoga pants etc. without a shirt that's long enough to cover your back and front parts
•no bra straps
Guy dress code at my school:
•wear a shirt
•your pants can't show your boxers
karissa edwards we have to wear a uniform? you're lucky you get to express yourself even slightly. luckily, we can wear makeup and sometimes dyed hair, depends on your teachers. (this wasn't meant to be rude it's just the way i type that makes it sound rude)
karissa edwards true i hate how schools do that. It doesn't matter what we wear unless its obviously not appropriate at all. We should be able to wear whatever we want without any criticism or harrassment. I thino boys should learn to control themselves. Im 12 and not all but a lot of boys at my school are disrespectful to girls so we have to change but they are still allowed to be disrespectful, disgusting, and they are allowed to not keep their hands to themselves but we have to change we have to change ourselves so we can be respected. Its completely idiotic and backwords and its not just school is society in general.
Tbh I kinda like it, idk how girls can be so revealing because I sure can’t..
karissa edwards I'm in high school btw and they said we can wear anything we want but when I was in Jr high if we wanted to wear shorts it had to be fingertip length, for shirts it had to be appropriate and we couldn't wear tank tops, we couldn't wear tight pants like leggings if we wore something we weren't supposed to we had to change into our PE clothes we also couldn't wear all red or blue and the weird thing is that the vice principal kept dress cutting people he didn't like so if someone that was African American they can walk by him and not get in trouble but if it was a white person then he would get them in trouble
karissa edwards that's about regular for girls, but the only rule for boys is don't come shirtless
I LOVE how the boys are the loudest ones cheering
This made me cry. My high school daughters are currently fighting their dress code. I am so proud of this young lady!
I've always been taught to judge other girls who wear "revealing" clothes at school, but this really made me realize how shitty it is to do that.
Hannah Lewis girls gotta stick up for other girls!! What a girl wears has nothing to do with her self-worth. I'm glad this poem could make you see things in another light (:
Hannah Lewis in seventh grade: i stopped wearing a bra. since then i have received no hate, or judgement from anyone... except my mom. the worst part is that not wearing a bra made me feel like myself, and comfortable, and everything a girl deserves to feel in her clothing. she still says, "i just don't want people to judge you." it hurts so much more coming from someone you love. i used to judge other girls, too, but stopped in 7th grade when i realized just how disgusting it was.
Laura De Sousa ok what about guys sticking up for girls
Laura De Sousa or guys sticking up for other guys no offense but that is sorta sexist
Pineapple Apple In this case it was about girls and girls tho
I find dress code kinda funny because the guys at my school dont even care. I mean they say "wow look at those really /distracting/ shoulders" (as a joke of course) when they see you first period, then they trail off and dont give a shit.
i joke with my friend whenever she wear the shirt that shows her shoulders. I would be like, "OMG Miranda! Your shoulders are too distracting!" I would then fake tripping and the both of us would laugh hard.
I also think dress code is kinda funny because a lot of boys dont care. They just glance and go on with their day.
I agree
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This was amazing! 3 years later and your words and still hitting hard! Respects girl
"Even when the only word printed is no" I love this line. Girls shouldn't change their outfit, boys have to change their mindset.
Why are girls told to cover themselves? “It’s to distracting” is getting old, instead of girls needing to cover up every inch of their body boys should be told what is right and wrong, what is appropriate and inappropriate, how to act and how not to act. ‘Surprisingly’ boys *CAN* control themselves, and not all of them are constantly thinking about girls and our bodies.
So true, I have arms down to the top of my knee and every day in P.E I wear BASKETBALL shorts and I get dress coded because they’re too short. Little does my gym teacher know that they are the longest shorts I have.
I’m sorry that I have knees just like everyone else. Oh, they’re distracting the boys? Well teach them how the hell to behave!!!!!!!
Most boys do know how to controll themselves its just teaches SAYING that they don't. If every homeroom teacher took a survey in my grade almost 90% of the boys would gladly say the school dress code is terrible you kneecaps don't turn me on I don't care that your stomach is showing.
I don't think it's the boys I think the adults are making excuses
@@lilyhamel1069 True, bc we are growing up in this era, where showing most of the legs, and arms etc. IS NORMAL... IF girls wore idk Shorts, even just a bit above their knew in the older OLDER times prob. get killed...
My school is just built up of perverts and the school doesn’t care so girls are left to defend themselves
This is so sad today my friend sat in the office all day because she wore shorts and I can't believe that we have to be the ones that have to do things like change because some guys can't help themselves and have to act the way they do but I love this
Brooklynn Alison I appreciate this comment. It happens all the time unfortunately.
Laura De Sousa I know it makes me very sad that our body's can suddenly turn into our fault and we have to cover it up no matter what happens in my school you can't have a shoulder showing or a skirt or shorts higher than a credit card above your knee
Laura De Sousa Hol up... why do they replace clapping with finger snapping??😂
Pesi Kimoana they clap at the end of the poem! They don't clap during the poem bc it would be too loud & throw off the poet on stage (:
+Laura De Sousa Huh, I thought it was to get the poet more angry/powerful? I went to a slam poem thing for my sister (I plan going when I can, Slam Poetry is beautiful!) and we snapped our fingers if they had a powerful part in their slam poem. Also, if they got nervous, then we would rub our hands together. Last thing: This was beautiful! Thank you for showing it to the world!
“We have given them permission to read even when the only word printed is no” omfg that is a brilliant line. She is amazing
When girls are told to cover up, it may make them feel self conscious. The outfits aren’t the problem, it’s the people who can’t control themselves who are. We should be allowed to wear whatever the hell we want and not be judged or harassed for it. Same goes with boys as well.
Girl: shows shoulders*
Every Boy in School: OHHH SHE HAS SHOULDERS!!!!
There are boys who walk around shirtless at my school because they spilled water on themselves but if my bra strap shows it’s a problem? I call Bull shit.
You may call bullshit but I call boy shit.
The boys hyping her up: respect👑
I love this because it doesn't make men out to be the bad guys in the situation either. It's the social ideology that's put in the spotlight, because guys aren't getting distracted by this until they're taught that it's distracting. Objectifying women isn't something people are born doing, it's something they're taught to do, and this poem does a really, REALLY good job of stating that.
I can relate to ALL these comments. Like.. dress coding is 👏UNFAIR👏.
unfair? Why is it unfair?
The same rules apply to boys soooooo
Maximus not as bad the teachers and staff are more likely to get girls in trouble than boys.When boys wear tank tops nothing happens but when girls ,everyone is freaking out because you can see their shoulders.
Maximus no they don’t. They really don’t, have you ever read the dress codes? We can’t show our fucking midriff, collarbone, OR FUCKING SHOULDERS, because the teachers blame the boys for being distracted when in reality, it’s the teachers and sexist assholes who are distracted.
@@venuspensus actually good madam or mister. The same rules do apply I do not happen to see any male person egar to show any portion of their body. Same with a female person. If you truly believe this please send me proof so I may understand.
Person: your bra strap is showing.
Me: OMG REALLY?! SO EMBARRASSING!! PEOPLE CANT KNOW THAT I AM A WOMAN AND WOMEN HAVE BREASTS!! SOMEONE CALL VICTORIA HER SECRET IS OUT!!
Good one
The sad thing is, I see millions of other people stealing your comment.
bettey123 and msp ! But she stole it from a video
@@hairohem Oh, my bad, let me rephrase that then.
*The sad thing is, I see millions of other people stealing that comment*
@@rosa_stars349 lol
I’ve asked all my male friends if they do actually get distracted and they all said
Yeah that’s a glitch in the matrix idk who said that was a thing
I have a lot of guys friends right? So I was in Psych and my teacher said “so Um Autumn I’m going to have to send you to the office because your rips are too high on the leg and your shirt lifts up when you raise your hand it may be distracting”
So my first guy friend Chris was like “ oh yea guys I couldn’t focus when I saw a tiny bit of her skin. It was just sooo distracting” and then another guy I’m kind of close with was like “I know no wonder I’m failing this class. God women’s skin the most distracting thing ever” then Chris started talking again and was like “Honestly teach none of us get distracted. If guys are creeps they’re creeps they’ll hit on girls who are in the baggiest clothing so if anyone’s getting distracted it’s you” we all got sent to the office but it was pretty funny
bro your friends are real ones ✊💗
I wish I had friends.... :'(
@@meerad508 bruh frrr
DAMMMMN. She killed this, she's amazing. And that last line was so damn golden.
BrittnyPace
Ikr, I loved it.
BrittnyPace I think this poem was a little sexist
why did she have to bring all that feminist shit that most of which isnt true into it other than that i loved it
hm...
The guys on the couch did not look impressed.
Lack of rhyme obviously
Because they couldn’t relate
They were mad they didn’t think of the poem XD
also the fact that i have asked my male friends multiple times if they are distracted by shoulders and none of them has ever been distracted by a shoulder in their life,like it should be.
"Remember students, boy will open your bodies like books. We have given them permission to read, even when the only word printed is NO."
Even though it was the end of the video, I still teared up at this part.
My school dress code:
• dont be cold during class
•thats it
irina k
I doubt that’s what our dress code is but that’s all the students in my classes seem to care about 🤣
We have some cold classrooms.
oH¡ I ShOuLdN’T bE sHoWiNG My cOlLarBoNE? ‘Cause it’s “ToO dIsTrAcTiNg”
Well, can the guys cover their face ‘cause it’s “ToO dIsTrAcTiNg”
Hahahahhahah, true
Or pull up their pants!!! (Not that its distracting)
Actually there are guys who has a kink for collar bones
For dress code like this to be a thing someone had to look at a girl and say:
*"Those are some sexy shoulders"*
*...Let that sink in*
I love how she walked off at the end like YES QUEEN
Girls can relate to this.
I like this girl.
She told people what I want to
Not me.
@@kaishapage2443 Why?
@@evelynlamptey9570 I'm a boy.
@@kaishapage2443 Thats not an argument you just stated your gender.
😂
Does my collar bone turn you on? do I have to cover that up to?
what about my super sexual kneecaps?
What about my sexy shoulders? You getting turned on? Well you should be ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
And my beautiful elbows!
Miss Ally I agree I am making my own rape poem
Miss Ally 😂
I’m just waiting for the boomers to comment on this video and be like: back in my day....
i watched this with all my friends and we were like all clapping and going “wooo!!!! amen!!!! preach it girl!!!”
The first time I was catcalled was when I was 9. (I was wearing my school uniform) I told my teacher about it and she told me to "cover up more"
Thats so stupid
2 people abused me and another 2 indecently touched me. Peace from England UK. 2/4 of them are dead. 1 of them is a lady.
That's dumb. Why would someone cat-call a 9 year old anyway lmao
Fuck that guy
@@mysecretsketchbook865 I'm really really sorry that happened. I hope you're doing well 💗