Talking To My Dad About His Three LGBTQ+ Kids

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
  • I did it, friends. I finally did it. I got my dad on QUEAR. BOOOM. Honestly, it didn't take much convincing as he always wants to be on camera.
    In this episode, I put dads in the hot seat. Just kidding. We chat about his experiences of having three LGBTQ kids, some of the things he had to overcome, and his journey to acceptance. If you don't know already, I have four siblings, and three of us are Queer AF. I love you, sam. And my queer siblings.
    Check out our Spotify and Patreon Page- flow.page/quear
    Don’t forget to leave some love- Like Subscribe, comment hit that bell notification, and share. I know it’s a lot to ask but I truly appreciate it.
    Also, check out the other LGBTQ+ organizations from Barbados we are working with this season:
    She Barbados
    Instagram: / she.barbados
    Website: shebarbados.org
    Butterfly Barbados
    Instagram: / butterflybarbados
    Website: www.butterflyb...
    Equals Barbados
    Instagram: / equals246
    Website: equalsbarbados...
    If you are not in barbados- Below are some links of organizations that I found helpful
    LGBTQ+ Drug and Alcohol Treatment Resources
    www.therecover....
    Sexual assault and LGBTQ+ Community
    www.hrc.org/re....
    Mental Health Resources for LGBTQ+
    www.nami.org/Y...
    Come and say hi on social
    Quear- www.instagram.....
    #QUEAR #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQparents
    Special shout out to some friends that aided with the creative
    Music & Sound effects- Braydon Germain- / braydongerm. .
    Logo & Branding- Kristi Hemingson- / west.emeral. .
    Intro clip animation- M'c Kenneth Licon- / lilfashioni. .

Комментарии • 84

  • @shonalashley6737
    @shonalashley6737 3 года назад +10

    "There's not enough shepherds, there's too many sheep" - LOVE this!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад

      Thanks Shona. I really appreciate your input. Blessings.

  • @victoriagoddard4617
    @victoriagoddard4617 3 года назад +9

    David has always been so accepting of all people and I think that’s why children have always gravitated towards him, loving him as a coach throughout the years! You guys are all lucky to have such great parents.

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад +1

      Absolutely! We are so privileged. thank you for all the love and support!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад

      Thanks Victoria. I really appreciate your kind words. Blessings on your journey.

  • @aintthatab-tch
    @aintthatab-tch 3 года назад +7

    I’m your #1 fan PAPA P!!! Such a beautiful video, so excited to see quear forging paths with stories of not only queer people and their journey, but the various journeys of parents and loved ones! Keep it up Finlay, killin it!!!

  • @rosiehartmann1747
    @rosiehartmann1747 3 года назад +4

    Beautiful interview. Much, much love here. Well done, Dave and Kerry Porter!

  • @deborahmarshall2576
    @deborahmarshall2576 3 года назад +3

    You all have a super dad - but you all already know that. Now the world knows it! Fantastic episode!

  • @Sundancer8
    @Sundancer8 3 года назад +6

    It's really good that you are doing this much needed effort...far too many still exist in boxes filled with old habits formed from ignorance and unreasoned fear.
    I appreciate you.

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад +2

      Appreciate you too! Thank you for the support!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад +2

      Thanks Derek I really appreciate your input. Blessings my friend

  • @MalouMorgan
    @MalouMorgan 3 года назад +6

    This is so beautiful. Thank you for being so open and honest about your journeys. There were so many nuggets of wisdom in this episode. I hope everyone continues to share this message of love far and wide ❤️

  • @ethanshutt
    @ethanshutt 3 года назад +4

    Hey there! I don’t know you personally, but wanted to say that your dad had a HUGE impact on me growing up. I moved to Barbados with my family when I was 3, and definitely was the American who felt out of place, even as a little kid. I was blessed to have your dad as a coach and I can’t express how amazing that was. He was like a dad to me, and helped me find an incredible family there during some of the most important years of my life. Good luck with everything, and hope the whole family’s doing well!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад

      Thank you, Ethan, he really is an incredible man. Thank you for sharing! I will make sure my dad sees this. Appreciate you.

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад +1

      Ethan. Wow great to hear form you. I appreciate your kind words. How is your Mum? She "IS" Wonder Woman. Please keep in touch. Love and Blessings to your family

    • @ethanshutt
      @ethanshutt 3 года назад

      @@davidporter5120 Love you coach Piggy! I’ll tell mom hi for you. She’s being an absolute champion, like always. Cancer can’t stop her haha Hope to make a visit soon!

  • @zaltan0
    @zaltan0 3 года назад +4

    Good to see piggy speak, man's been like a father figure to me.. Hope you guys are staying safe out there.
    Shub

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад +1

      Thank you, I am humbled by your words. Take care my friend. Blessings

  • @deadtermites
    @deadtermites 3 года назад +2

    Papa P! A second dad to alot of us out there. An absolute legend and a great watch!
    Finally got to see his side of the journey!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад

      Appreciate you.

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад +1

      Pappa P misses BBQ Boy. Thanks for your kind words

  • @georgiaporter642
    @georgiaporter642 3 года назад +4

    LOVE YOU DAD!! thank you for sharing, and can't wait to see you.

  • @tasherzable
    @tasherzable 3 года назад +5

    Such a special episode! Love what you’re doing!

  • @kayliemiller3501
    @kayliemiller3501 3 года назад +3

    Such an incredible episode! So brave and so great to hear from Papa P - Simply the best ❤️

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад

      Thank you boo!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад

      Thanks you Kaylie. Love and Blessings to you.

  • @keithmiller6843
    @keithmiller6843 3 года назад +4

    Congratulations Finlay and Dave for creating such a very powerful and easy-to-understand teaching tool that could help improve the lives and mental well-being of so many people in all walks of life. This is education in its purest form. Kudos and Blessings!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад

      Thanks young man. I appreciate you mate.

  • @uearep1
    @uearep1 3 года назад +4

    I loved every second of this. Had me tearing up! Thank you to you both for sharing so much. Love Ya!

  • @bgolding20
    @bgolding20 3 года назад +4

    This was so so so special

  • @LeilaniOfBarbados
    @LeilaniOfBarbados 3 года назад +1

    Sorry to keep commenting but this was so moving! As a RUclips creator myself, this is amazing content! Well done you. Subbed and liked x

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад

      Thank you for watching and all the love!!! I watch your videos also, couldn't believe I wasn't subscribed maybe it was my personal account. Keep killing it on YT!

  • @hazelduthie8778
    @hazelduthie8778 3 года назад +3

    Loved it, especially the tartan! So fabulous to see you both sharing with everyone. ❤

  • @nkellybarbados
    @nkellybarbados 3 года назад +2

    Wow thank you for sharing this @Keith Miller!! Had me in tears. There's no love greater than the love for your children!! Rock on Fin! Love the name of the show btw. Very clevear!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад +1

      Thank you Nicholas! Appreciate the support. Glad you got the name, took me a while to come up with but I love it.

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад +1

      Thanks. I really appreciate your words. Love and Blessings

  • @bethany780
    @bethany780 3 года назад +4

    This was so inspiring!! LOVED THIS EP AND YOU BOTH.

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад +1

      Hi Bethany. Thanks for your input. I hope love is taking care of you

  • @Loretoduffy
    @Loretoduffy 3 года назад +2

    Well done guys. Absolutely fabulous!! As Dave says there's always someone out there who will listen!! Congrats!!

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад

      Thank you for the love and support!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад

      Hi Loteto, Great to hear your input. Love and Blessing to you

  • @MagnoliaPantherWoman
    @MagnoliaPantherWoman 3 года назад +2

    Great episode. It warms my heart. Compassion, learning, love, family, life. 💗

  • @ashleighdeane9997
    @ashleighdeane9997 3 года назад +2

    Absolutely loved this episode! 🤍

  • @callumwright246
    @callumwright246 3 года назад +2

    This was absolutely amazing! Two of the most incredible, inspirational people I have the pleasure of knowing. Thank you both for sharing ♥️♥️♥️

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад +1

      Thanks Callum. Really appreciate your kind words. Blessing and Love to you

  • @Saradelys
    @Saradelys 3 года назад +1

    This is such a beautiful lesson for so many. Bravo! Keep it up!!!

  • @seamonetrotman294
    @seamonetrotman294 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful!! Thank you for this💖

  • @iamsimonpipe
    @iamsimonpipe 3 года назад

    this is really inspirational. fantastic interview. as a dad, i'm taking notes. very educational.

  • @sharonfairley3237
    @sharonfairley3237 3 года назад +2

    Fabulous ... loved it ...such a strong family....held together with love and respect xxx

  • @rebekahhynam4934
    @rebekahhynam4934 3 года назад

    Very touching video Finlay! ♥️ Again, amazing Channel. Keep it up! Love you!😘

  • @sharentuach2815
    @sharentuach2815 3 года назад +2

    Great episode!

  • @giadaguerin4162
    @giadaguerin4162 3 года назад

    Loved every single minute! I hope I can meet your dad one day. 💕

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад

      you will!!!! Thank my love!

  • @HelenTurner46
    @HelenTurner46 3 года назад

    Another great episode Finley good one having Piggy good honest interview look forward to the next one xx

  • @lynnewright1071
    @lynnewright1071 3 года назад +1

    Love this! So open and honest - love you boys lots xoxox

  • @ingridannquarless-rapson6207
    @ingridannquarless-rapson6207 3 года назад +1

    Love him! Love you guys! Love this! Spread the love!

    • @davidporter5120
      @davidporter5120 3 года назад

      Thanks Ingrid

    • @caketincaketin209
      @caketincaketin209 Год назад

      ⁠@@davidporter5120 Hello David & Kerry, We now live in Barbados and have our 22yr old gay daughter about to come and live with us post her degree. Your wonderful children are such an inspiration and give us hope that she might actually be able to create a life here with their support. How can we connect here with you all on the island?

  • @luvlindseyrae7689
    @luvlindseyrae7689 3 года назад

    Ahh Dad 🥺♥️ Great episode !

  • @karenporter7601
    @karenporter7601 3 года назад

    Just watched this WOW so proud of you two. Loved it!

  • @ogreen6274
    @ogreen6274 3 года назад +2

    Love this!!

  • @annemiekmackie7167
    @annemiekmackie7167 3 года назад +2

    Best episode EVER!!

  • @kaytashakbari3304
    @kaytashakbari3304 3 года назад

    Amazing dad you guys have. Very Inspiring.

  • @bellalewis8634
    @bellalewis8634 3 года назад +1

    Love you guys!!

  • @SeanChandler067
    @SeanChandler067 3 года назад

    Great episode - hi Piggy!

  • @CarolClarke-e5i
    @CarolClarke-e5i 8 месяцев назад

    Love you all❤

  • @joannewest6598
    @joannewest6598 3 года назад +2

    Great!

  • @kellymalloy3670
    @kellymalloy3670 3 года назад +1

    Yessss papa p!!!!!!

  • @emmaarmstrong1350
    @emmaarmstrong1350 3 года назад +1

    Love

  • @kahluaqueen
    @kahluaqueen 2 года назад

    Dad is right, live ur life and be your authentic self, gay or otherwise. Humans are interesting beings.

  • @LeilaniOfBarbados
    @LeilaniOfBarbados 3 года назад

    What?!?! You CANNOT be 46? Sign me up!

  • @LeilaniOfBarbados
    @LeilaniOfBarbados 3 года назад

    Oh wait you said you were the last kid so you are younger than your sister. I was gonna say…fountain of youth?

    • @QUEAR
      @QUEAR  3 года назад

      Haha no no I'm 27 and my sister is 21, she was the first one to come out, I was the last.