Day In The Life Of A Super Clingy Boss Baby
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High maintenance babies are really hard. I’m not a mom but I work at a daycare and work with 8 to 13 month old babies. It can be so hard when there’s 10 other kids to attend to. Yet our most high maintenance baby is still my favorite and I love him so much. It’s so worth it to get those smiles and giggles.
What is high maintenance baby ?
@@devjani3975 I just think of them as a baby that doesn’t like when nobody is paying attention. They always wanna be held or talked to and there’s nothing wrong with that it’s just hard in a daycare environment. That being said the baby I talked about is doing so much better with playing by himself and with the other kids and it’s been so rewarding to see. He’s also still my favorite lol.
They are not "hard", they are normal.
In their age is perfectly normal to need the adult protection and contact for their phisical and mental grown.
I would be more worry about that babies who never cry or ask for cares...
And Ps. Daycares system sometimes are really bad. A single person shouldn't works so hard and so worried for so much babies.
It's a delicate job and you should be proctected at first, but who spent money in this type of commerce doesn't care.
@@LuckeyWlasit’s perfectly normal for her to describe them as hard if thats how she feels . Do you police everyones choice of words? If so why and are you aware that you do that?
That is called baby's love towards "Momma"❤️
No it's called separation anxiety
@@tazergraphicsexactly, they need to let her cry for sometime to know that it's ok
My first born son was that way. They obviously need you at this time. It won't last forever. One day they won't need you at all. Enjoy!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Boss baby is so cute ❤❤❤❤love y'all!
I am pregnant and love to watch isla everyday❤ i pray I'll have super cute baby like her real soon❤
Congratulations sister❤❤ hope you get a healthy baby😊
First i want to say you are a great mother. It's not easy to raise three little beautiful children at all, but don't forget you are still young and have to enjoy your life.
I can see how tired you look and I strongly believe parenthood should not be something stressful.
We can understand it's really hard to deal with a clingy baby and her being so cute and little won't help at all.
I know to a mother it's really hard to ignore when your child is crying, but for you, for your mental health and also for the baby, to understand that her mother also need sometime for her self, you need to let her cry for long her to understand the fact with her ways.
it will be really hard since she is still little but don't give up, she is surely going to adjust to the situation. I am sure you exactly know how to do it as her mother.
I am telling you to be strong and your doing amazing. Just keep going.
It is entirely okay to simply walk away and let her cry sometimes. Not everyday, but to take a handful of minutes to yourself when you’re feeling so overworked and stressed to simply breathe in a quiet environment may help even a little bit.
Overworking yourself can lead to some HORRIBLE consequences for both you, and baby, you need to remember that you can’t take care of baby unless you take care of yourself!!
She will be okay for the time you take to breathe :) as long as she is in a safe environment, please try to take care of your mental health. There’s been far too many tragedies of stressed out mothers turning to the worst possible answers.
I know it’s hard but it’s ok to step away it’s good for both of you to be more independent. Just remind yourself she’s always perfectly safe and healthy and you can take your me time.
This must be soo annoying
Yes agreed plus when they go to the doctors for milestone checks you have to confirm something’s without them being held
My baby was exactly this, but she grew out of it eventually. We had the luxury of having her grandparents home from that moment onwards and it took a couple of months but then it wore off and completely better once she started her day care.. but she still greets me like she saw me after ages when I leave the room and come back 😊😊😍
Strap her to your back and go about your day😂❤❤❤
My baby is exactly the same. She's 2 now. I'm so exhausted every day and even night she need my arm to sleep. It's hard but seeing how much she love me it melts my heart and I would keep doing this for a thousand years if i could.
my baby boss is almost 8 now) and she still needs my hand to fall asleep😌 so idk maybe that’ll really last a thousand years though😅
@@The_Ingvar lol I love the way you said 'baby boss'. They are our bosses indeed ☺️
I know how it is ...that is how mine was. I bought a strapper and had her on me for the first 2 years of her life. Now she is nearly 8. She is the only one in her whole class that can understand and regulate her emotions and speak them accordingly. I completely agree it is hard and sweet...it will be worthwhile for her and you. Well done momma
It's hard but you've got this. I know it's hard but please make sure you are taking care of YOU. You can't be a good mama to three littles if you're not taking care of you💕 such a hard life stage to navigate through, I appreciate you being transparent and showing that it's not all rainbows and unicorns 💕
My daughter was just like that. And noone else could hold her either, except daddy....for a bit but then she wanted me again lol. It feels so hard during that time, but then again you yearn for them too. I would wish for a minute and then want my baby a few minutes later as much as ahe wanted me. Today, we have a good bond and she doesnt "need" me in that way as much anymore ( which is js great! I want my kids to feel good alone too! But im here always when they want or need me for life) and I am so happy, I got that time with my her. Her smell, her cuddles, i will never forget any of it, she gave me that gift. So happy to see another mommy and daughter duo. Its beautiful ❤
I know it's hard Kaylie but Cherish those moments they won't last forever ❤
I’ve had 3 clingers 😂 it’s very exhausting in the thick of it, but once they get older the memories are fantastic 😂 my oldest is 10…i miss the clinging
Separation anxiety, she’ll get over it eventually
My son was like this and I learn one thing if you don't allow her to be down for a moment you will get overwhelmed when you can't do the simplest thing as use the washroom... allow her to cry once you feel she is properly fed and cleaned and I know boss baby is well taken care of for sure😂❤... let the drama out
My baby is the same way. It’s hard but I know one day it will be something I miss. Hang in there.
Until a certain age babies think that they are the same person as their mama so when you leave them they feel as if they've lost something that something's missing. Know that you're doing amazing with all u do. Try leaving her a few times throughout the day for a few minutes, letting her cry. know it's okay to let her cry like that, Try finding someone to talk to to help with you and your needs. I had a friend that had a very colicky baby and I would just call her and tell her bring him over for her to go home for some quiet time. I wish I could be there for you to help you. be strong you've got this I'm supporting you all the way fr my home in BC Canada. I'm sending you nothing but positive vibes and lots of love 💕💕
Sometimes mommas need a minute whether that's going to the bathroom, checking on their other kids, and doing other tasks. The baby is SAFE and WELL CARED FOR and that's what's important. It's perfectly okay to take a break
Don’t cry my little angle sister boss baby, love you 😘
And new babies that been at home with their moms are the hardest babies to watch in a nursery
You got this momma I’m praying for you
Dad is just cameraman.. 😂😂😂😂
It’s okay to have a break and just let her cry she will understand you can’t hold her 24/7 and just get used to it soon
My daughter, now 21, was demanding but also independent. She wanted to feed herself, but she was unhappy if we put her down. She did understand that when i took a shower she had to be in a baby seat, 2ft away instead of being held. But she wanted me to stick my hand out and wave at least 2x. Got the shower down ro 5 min. Saves on water at least!
You train clinginess.
My first born, my son, was the same way, they do adjust & get better, hang in there Lil Moma. I was thinking if Y'all could go outside & after a few minutes, you could quietly hand her off to her Daddy and while he distracts her you could go back inside for some me time. Nearly all babies this age love goin outside. Y'all are a beautiful family ❤
Babys worst fear is mom not being there......poor mom doesnt get a break, its so tough.😊
Boss baby: how dare you leave me unattended?
The days are long…but the years are short. I’d give just about anything to go back and do it all over again exactly the same💙💙💙
That's why she is boss baby..😅😮😂
She is super cute and funny..❤😅
I feel she is scared of being left out. Let other members of your family, especially dad, sincerely spend more time with her.
I have seen one video where her dad has to use your photo to be with her.. and to feed her.. this can be funny for the moment but for the young infant it's confusing. She will be scared to leave you.. if she feels that you could be replaced by a photograph...
Understand child psychology.. trauma inflicted at this age.. becomes attachment issues in later adulthood..
Choose camera less... pay her less attention.. let her cry at times and let her independently play on her own... without cameras in her surrounding.. kids understand very well what is going on... she is displaying severe anxiety.. we will miss her videos... N u all...but it will be good for her future..
Understand every child is different... not every child can face so much constant attention... This is making her super anxious.. way too early in life..
-a doc here 💕
Wisdom❤️
So true 👍🏻... 100%
Don't get me started,agree 100 percent.
They make money with this. They aren’t going to just put the camera down over one comment.
"Your chores don't dismiss you, I do" -Boss Baby, probably
Boss baby is so cute you are amazing strong mom❤
She is adorable❤
Awe a little cutie pie so cute
boss baby is so cute!❤️ also i have the same sweater
My son was this way...they grow out if it. For me it was important to give him the security that he needed, and I believe that gave him a good base in live.
I cried Cuz she was so dam cute 😢❤
I know you want your own time.. and you deserve it 100% . You keep on trying if some day these wrk for you. But if not then remember , one day she will start walking, will get older and from that day onwards you will have to run after her to catch her. One day she will become wise enough to sleep by her own. These days will definetly come to an end. All your choise but I think for the time being let her b with you. Bless her, love her, cuddle her as much as you can. Coz these days wont come again. One day you will have all your time and your girls would get bzy with their lives.
True words!
Yes. What you are telling is really true. But it's not easy to handle everything just because time is running. We have to live present happily before thinking about future.
Raising a child is really hard, and it's a lots of responsibility, but parenthood shouldn't be stressful at all.
She have 3 children not one so it's 3 times harder. She is also a human and there is also a limit she can handle. Even though she is a mother, still she is a seperate person. She also needs some time for herself, every one needs that personal time for their life. That doesn't mean they don't love their children. They are the one who loves their children more than anyone in this world and it's really important to her and her husband to be happy and healthy to be their children to be happy.
My baby was the same way, I had to put him in a carrier to get anything done, but it made us both less stressed out so that’s a plus
That's boss baby .
😅❤😘
She is so cute 🥰,
Okay you really want to know why she’s crying so much is because she knows that all she has to go is cry and her momma will automatically pick her up it’s called separate anxiety it’s when a baby is super clingy to his/her one’s parent and in order to break that us to reassure your baby that you will be back for them
But it's so cute. ❤
I like your family
Have you all talked to her pediatrician about it
She has. Apparently the doctor thinks the baby is abnormally clingy.
my heart breaks when she cry.❤️
Choking hazard on the tray
I was her before I turned 1. My parents told me I won't leave my mom for even a single sec and won't go near anyone else...they make fun of me for this!
Maybe turn the high chair to face dad instead.. so she doesn’t see mom going upstairs. ❤🎉
What a beautiful baby❤❤❤
@VarneyFamily hi there. You're doing fantastic. Let little boss stay where she is for longer, she's not got the vocal variation to express " hi there" so is using " I need" instead. Over time the understanding grows then the ease.
She's not just a girl, SHE'S A BOSS BABY😩🥹❤️❤️
I can see how that is really stressful. Hopefully independent exploration kicks in at toddler stage.
You got this Mamma❤
I feel you ... !!! I have a clingy one year old
I know it must be really hard , mine is just the same, but try to think that is love coming from her and she never will be this way ever again, enjoy her love and closeness
Do not worry about it because your being the best mum you can.
Aww Don’t cry baby momma always hold our boss baby please 🤨😊❤️
Shez Boss baby ... There should always be an assistant next to her 😂
I was like this
I am still extremely affectionate and feel, deeply. I feel energy of others very strongly. I imagine all babies who are like this, likely tend to be extremely intuitive as adults and are empaths
I feel that forcing separation when the babt isnt ready, sets them up for a feeling of abandonment and later, depression, regardless of who is around. This may also be signs of a baby who is neurodivergent, and the forced separation even tho the mom is obviously still there, can be extremely detrimental to them psychologically and emotionally (hence the crying)
If someone hugs me even now, and pulls away abruptly, i can feel the heart energy feeling like it is being yanked away and it is harsh, abrasive... it feels like being violated - is the only way i can describe the feeling really. Like something is being forcefully taken from you, and your heart.
As an adult, we can cognitively understand, but as a baby, they cannot. Hence the crying. Deeper issues will likely occur in the child, and it will carry on and deepen as an adult. Because most people have been trained away from their natural intuition and abilities to feel and understand energy. Our whole society is built to numb, supress and shatter our natural gifts, abilities and strengths. It starts from how we are treated and cared for, or not, as babies and children. We then often are switched off to a high degree, even as a mother. And the pattern continues.
There is no reason to be doing as the mom in this video is doing tho, now that we can wear the baby and still do things with our arms/hands free.
Someone commented that it doesnt last forever and to enjoy it etc, and it is true, it wont last forever, but can be such a massive help in their feeling safe and psychologically well, and held through life, as a kid, teen, adult etc and help them make better and healthier life choices tbh.
We also tend to manifest and recreate the same types of things subconsciously, throughout life.
The subconscious programmed mind dictates what we are capable of, what happens in our life (esp trending/reoccuring things), and so, if i can just have my baby attached to me for the first couple of years of their life, and it can mean they may not experience that feeling of deeply ingrained abandonment which likely will then cause them to recreate things on their life so they keep feeling those things (which is what subconscious programming does), it is worth it. 💜💜💜💜💜
Boss baby❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ok, happy now that my little one tolerate her dad and my parents too. 😅
My baby boy is same like her 😅 but now he is very humble with every with every one but in my presence 😢😂
Always happy in her mother's arms
I can't believe she keeps that on her head, my son would grab everything off his head immediately after we put it on lol
I feel what you going through ..I am going through the axact same thing with my 5 month baby girl 😅
Shes fine she knows u going to jump and u jump. Let Dad jump in and u keep going shes fine
Crying doesn’t kill them
You are a wonderful Mommy & Daddy🥰😍🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🕊😇😇😇😇😇 Beautiful Family❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼😇😇😇😇😇
I know all baby's go through separation anxiety but there are also the babies that do this because their parent held them 24/7 for the first few months of life.
My daughter is too😂
i’ll be praying for you❤.
Both of my babies were/are extremely clingy many days I spent it alone in my room crying my eyes out because I just wanted a little break , my youngest is now two years old and she is still pretty clingy but it’s okay one day they’ll leave me to build their own life so I’ll cherish it as much as I can
Don’t let her see you leave, my daughter was the same way.. have somebody distract her..
That’s why for the first year of my daughters life she was in a sling, on my back or front or side all day depending on what needed to get done🥰
My son was this way his first year. I can definitely relate to the stress and mental drain 😢😩 What worked best for us was to allow my husband to wake him up from his nap and me be out of sight for a couple of hours doing other things in another part of the house or outside.
😂😅🤣❤😊😅🤣👍🏻😍🤣🤣🤣👍🏻😍 it seems like Mommy's girl.
let her cry and self and i promise you she will learn also she needs to sleep in her own room in own bed
Exactly. All this boss baby isn’t the flex they think it is. 🙄🙄
your baby is so cute 😍 💕
This is called making a rod for your own back. She should never have started to go to her daughter each time she cried. Now that baby has all the power, and Mom will have no life except for serving her.
Same here, every second my baby wants me too
Need boss baby's reaction on this!!!
Thats every baby Girl in this world this clingy. But when they grew up they grew more than baby boys.
Boss baby: DONT PUT ME DOWN COW 😭
Don't spoil her!!!!
I know the struggle girl and my now 2 year old still wants me around but she doesn't scream every time i leave the room anymore. As a SAHM it can be difficult in ways i never thought of but i say that to say this, i miss her being that clingy and it does get better but sometimes i miss it. You got this momma❤ by 1 1/2 you'll miss it. It flies by way too fast. Have a beautiful day and remember you are doing amazing!!😊
Aww, I've never seen BB cry before!
I meannn you’re just reinforcing “I put you down, you cry, I’m gonna get you out” so she doesn’t hate being put down, you do. Just saying, mama ❤😮
Yes!!! Babies are super smart, lol.
Because the worst thing a child can learn is that they can rely on their parent and that their parent does not want them to be in distress. She will learn to be independent on her own time.
That was my youngest for his first 7 months, until he started to crawl! I know your pain! 😢
17 months...thats how long it took my baby to be ok when I left,she also nursed till 16m and dint walk till 18m 😂
maybe is not like only mom is going away but ´´bahoobie´´ are going away :D
She’s not clingy, she’s the one that will do everything with you in the end. People are all different, some will like things you give, others think you are the gift… the best thing to happen to them. I know it can be exhausting but enjoy her and the different “spice” she adds to your life.
Clingy is just another word for normal when it comes to babies.
She will stop crying.
Recommend you to try a course called circle of security! You might just need to teach her to build a healthy attachment to you
Hey lady, I think your baby thinks you're very special . She is very attached 2 U . Looks like you have a friend for life . 👍 😊 ❤😂
The baby thinks it's one with mom, it won't make sense to seperate for her.