VALENTINE'S DAY PEP TALK: How to Find Love and Be Happy Single! | Shallon Lester
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CELEB GOSSIP AND LOVE LESSONS!
Got a love, dating or friendship question? You've come to the right place! I'm Shallon Lester, a two-time published author, NYC magazine editor and star of Howcast's viral kissing videos. I spill the tea on celebs like Kylie Jenner, the Kardashians, Beyonce, Shawn Mendes, Justin Bieber, Hailey Baldwin, Rihanna and more, breaking down their relationships, scandals and psychology to see what lessons WE can learn, and give you no-nonsense advice and real-world tips on everything from dating apps and players, to family and friends!
People always tell me “your standards are too high” and I always retort with, “no, because I have those same standards for myself. And if I’m fulfilling them just fine, I’m either fine on my own, or a guy can do what I do too. It’s not that hard.”
This is too good 👏👏🙏
What? like it’s hard?? 😄👌🏻👏🏻 My mom always says: “If the woman can do one,…the man can do two”.
Precisely. If you can have those standards for your own behaviour it's hardly a stretch to expect that from your partner. It would be hypocritical otherwise.
THIS.
True! But it was hard for me to reach that level of standards for myself and now I am struggling with finding the same success story in men 😭
There is a crisis among men with addictions, mental illness, lack of ambition, and lack of masculinity. I know it’s hard ladies, but stay strong. Being single and peaceful are better than being trapped with the wrong man.
Heavy on the lack of masculinity & ambition, it’s so unbelievably disappointing. I never once dated someone where I got to be the woman in the relationship and I won’t date ever again unless I get to.
@@AFFTFOMSICHTSSame. They basically want a pretty, hairless guy they can date. They have a notion that male is default and we are this weird other with irrational wants and needs. They don't even feel bad for what they do to us - they avoid feeling that by immediately climbing on another woman.
agree.
I was about to be friends with someone and they literally just smoke everyday. Crazy some people are so low. Like I’m amazing! I dodged a bullet. They lost out and regret. I’m out here living the best life! Level up y’all❣️🙏🏼
They're all poor 😔
Shallon, who can hate you? You are every girl’s best friend, always there for us.
She says a lot of controversial stuff
@@raygin6581Saying normal things is controversial nowadays 😂 men can’t get pregnant, there’s two genders, mandating vaccines is wrong, etc etc.
Because shes a complete sociopath
“he was a clown…. Why were you at the circus tho “ -- straight up ego gut punch I love it
i think one of my favorite parts of shallons videos is when she says something, pauses, resets, and doesn't cut it out. I mean this with love and admiration LOL
Me too! I love it. You get to see her human side while simultaneously seeing how brilliant she really is.
Omg this is exactly what I’m going through, and it feels great to feel understood.
I’m about to be 34 in two weeks and people tell me to “love myself” and not ache for a partner and love, meanwhile they have love every day of their lives (even if it is bad it is still there).
Love is my last puzzle piece. Everything else is there.
Thank you for being the first person to tell me it is okay to want things.
Actually, very few couples are really happy and in love. They pretend really well, though. I work in a courthouse in Europe and today I will see a few divorces and splitting of assets (ugh) on Valentines, so romantic (sarcasm)... So, build yourself up and learn to be happy on your own, because your partner might die unexpectedly (like mine) or leave you for someone new ( the majority) or act so badly that you will have to leave (many, unfortunately). Love can also be found for pets, kids, hobbies, friends, etc.
Girl I am in the SAME boat. I’m turning 31 in May and in October I found out my bf of 3.5 years was cheating on me (I went through his phone to discover this/I’m not proud of it but he was acting weird and I had to know). It was devastating. And yeah here we are 4 months later and I’m alone on Valentine’s Day and there’s not a single man on my radar I’m remotely attracted to or interested in. I have a great job, wonderful family, amazing friends but WHeRE is my GD soulmate and it is so frustrating. They say it happens when you aren’t looking but I’ve always wanted to get married and have children and on holidays the tick tock of my biological clock sounds extra loud when I’m alone. It’s 100% possible to love yourself but feel lonely in the intimate partner department… Shallon put it kind of bluntly by saying it matters what my puss is doing but like IT DOES and she is lonely and I want love lmfaoooo
@@alainabrowning1450
It does matter what your kitty kat does as it definitely will determine the quality of the life you will have with your partner! Successful men know this all too well!!!
Women you don't have to lower your standards, you just need to accept there is no perfect man. Real love is not butterfluys every day. Like every real relationship goes through phases and it is your choice to work togerher on it.
@@alainabrowning1450you already know the answer. It will happen when you stop seeking and start having fun. I’m 33 and just got engaged after dating for a lil over two years. And when you meet the right person, it will click. Just stay open to possibilities and start having fun. Thats the most attractive and you will actually get a good guy. Don’t stay in your negativity and sadness, shake that shit off and have fun. And it will happen.
Don’t ask the 🤡why he is one, ask yourself why you are front row at the 🎪 - literally a gem of a quote Shallon! You kill it every time ❤
I think a huge problem is that people who are constantly working on themselves on the external or in a goal based/achievement based manner are trying to find love by being better in themselves. But that individualism only goes so far! Love comes from being able to work with another person, and selecting someone of the same caliber so that we’re not just bossing someone around or being bossed around. It allows us to relax and truly be in feminine energy (accepting/receiving) when we know someone can actually deliver on what they say!
yes I think it forgets that love is 'other' focussed too and you need to give to them, like kindness/ gifts/ compliments etc
This is so true. It’s important to enjoy individualism and solitude, but when you meet a person you have to meet them halfway.
Married woman here:
The problem with my single friends is that they stayed single for so long it takes a lot to convince them they need anyone. Then any little thing becomes a deal breaker- very trivial little things.
You want a perfect package but most all of us are messy af ourselves. The truth of relationships is there will be compromise. You have to expect a certain amount of it.
Having standards is important but be realistic. In life if you strive for perfection you are in for a world of pain and heartbreak and this applies to everything not just love life. But particularly love life.
Also in order to meet quality men you have to go to quality places.
Happily married with a newborn here. I agree with everything above.
Also early on in our relationship I took a coaching consultation. Bottom line - you cannot expect the other person to guess your desires. At least not in the beginning but you can learn each other’s desires.
Agree!
My life's motto is aim for a B+ in all areas.
Realizations you get only once you get married!! 😂 happened to me too. Glad it only took us 1 year to get used to living together and solving our silly problems!
If they need convincing they need a man, then they don't need a man.
I'm also married, but because I don't need nor ever felt emotional need to look for a relationship (romantic one) I also have multiple easy to happen deal breakers.
It's like buying an expensive car I don't actually need. Why on earth would I buy one that has something wrong with running?
I think there is a lot of pressure on single people today to pick someone perfect. I'm quite closed off about sharing who I date early on because some people act like you should ditch the other person the minute they do something 'wrong'.
Single people are often subjected to conversations by partnered people that ignore the fact that the people we date are also messy. We've all had to sit through a 'would you date a guy who claps when the plane lands' conversation, from friends in less-than-perfect relationships.
Sometimes friends think they are being supported by being all 'dump him' or 'girl, run' but what we often need is just a sounding board. (You sound like you are that person for your friends, though, which is great.)
I agree though, I'm over people acting like 'icks' are actually dealbreakers. Girls will get the ick over the way a man runs or holds his fork but put up with him only texting after 10pm.
i broke up w the guy I was dating for 4 months bc whenever I was with him I desperately wanted to be alone, hangin in my little apartment, with my cats, my bed, my nintendo switch, my big TV and my OWN schedule. it always sucks hurting someones feelings (he was a good enough dude) but I trust my decision whole-heartedly. everything you said about indulgence is so on point. I love doing whatever the hell I want!!
I relate to this soo hard.
Hell yea! You should exactly like me! I’d rather be at home with my cats, my switch, my iPad and TV and being able to do whatever I want to w/nobody bugging me 😅
Oof, I had that exact experience this year. Very hard breaking up they’re nice enough, but somethings just missing
I don’t enjoy working… but when I used to date to the wrong guys I would stay at work longer or would rather work than spend time with them. Now I’m with my person and it feels right
Maybe you dont like him that much
Oh girl i was about to go to bed (i live in Europe and it's 2 AM here) because I have SO MUCH to do tomorrow, but here I am watching the video!!
*highfive*
Me too! Germany here, 2AM watching Shallon 💅🏻
Me tooo😄
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
We stay up to watch Shallon!
i dont just want any love- i want a love who goes and gets me coffee and flowers when i wake up on random mornings, i want a love who pulls the car up for me when its raining, who carries me inside when im tired- is that too much to ask? i’m not settling until i find this and neither should yall 💗
Yes! Same
And what are you ready to do for/offer that partner ?
@@frectiedmenthos1stop being annoying and just let me comment in peace
They're so poor 😢
This sounds like a fairytale to me. Hope you find it.
Actually, very few couples are really happy and in love. They pretend really well, though. I work in a courthouse in Europe and today I will see a few divorces and splitting of assets (ugh) on Valentines, so romantic (sarcasm)... So, build yourself up and learn to be happy on your own, because your partner might die unexpectedly (like mine) or leave you for someone new ( the majority) or act so badly that you will have to leave (many, unfortunately). Love can also be found for pets, kids, hobbies, friends, etc.
Cats and dogs are the best people.
I chat online in chatrooms often to married men. They are not happy in their relationships. They cheat. Their friends dont know. Interestingly, they say they are comfortable in the marriage. IE, they are okay with a pretense. Which is why probably women are the ones to leave.
Working in courthouse will give you specific sample of people. So it's not a logical assesment to say that in reality very few are happy or in love. This is something like availability heuristic.
How bleak! I am genuinely happy in my relationship and we’ve been together a decade.
I agree that not all relationships are happy, many are toxic and unhappy. But many are happy and fulfilling. I’m truly happy with my husband every day
16:00 it‘s literally the same in Europe🙄 the difference between a big city and a small rural town can be like between universes. Being judged for every step you take plus not being let into the „inner circles“ (if not at least your grandparents already have grown up there) plus all the gossiping. Doesn‘t matter wheather you‘re minding you‘re own business or not. In the city though, be whoever you‘d like to be and do whatever you please to do😊👏🏻
Smaller areas can be like cults
Shallon, I’ve been watching your videos ever since you were on howcast! Your advice has shaped me into the confident woman I am today and I just wanted to give a huge THANK YOU! 🥰 This topic really hit home since being single for a long time definitely comes with its fair share of loneliness. But I know that I’d rather wait for the man who can treat me just as well as I treat myself than settle for less. ❤
The pain vs suffering part was 🤯 you are honestly a philosopher, big sister
Shallon - Can you bring back retro romance/throwback couples videos again? Miss those! Thank you.
Shallon, I started talking to a 25-year-old (I'm 34), and I thought of you and said fuck it, I'll give him a chance. lol
Im 31 and have a 23 year old victim lol idc either anymore
We deserve to have fun. Its been too long! @@amarjotsingh8455
My colleague (you're age) has been happily dating a younger guy for two years, I wish you the best
I’m a 28 year old dating a 22 year old guy and it’s the best relationship I ever had! Not saying that every younger guy it’s worth it, but when they are they tend to treat you way better. Wishing you the best! ✨
Ill never forget, I was on safari in Kenya staring at an elephant moseying along and I couldnt stop thinking about my ex. Thats when I knew I needed a mindset change lmao
A group of pigeons is called a flock. Pigeons are known for nesting and congregating in large numbers, often in urban areas with abundant food. Pigeons are sociable animals and are often seen in flocks of 20-30 birds lol yeah I looked it up
Pigeons are absolute sweethearts and they are not stupid (their incredible war efforts for example) The hatred against them is one of the reasons why I became a trustee at a charity dedicated to them.
I was about to look it up! 😂
I looked it up.
A group of pigeons can be called:
A band of pigeons
A dropping
A kitte
A loft
A passel
A plague
A school or
A stool of pigeons
There’s a bunch of different names. One of them is a dropping one of them is a mess flock is one, but there’s like six different technical names.
I love pigeons, so sweet and beautiful.
2 videos of Shallon in less than 24 hrs 🥰😍 I love it 🩷
Your most real talk yet. I am an alpha female in a healthy happy relationship and yet I found your words were inspiring and spot on. It's wise words for any kind of woman, in any phase of (non) relationship, really.
Been watching since I was 17 and now I’m 21 and you’ve helped me grow so much thank you Shallon
I think men fantasize about being the savior for women. My ex always wanted to place me as the weak one (he was the one who needed help 🙄). Women are getting too good at living life, men don’t know where to fit in. We have to fake our weaknesses to make them feel needed at this point.
💯♥️
All little boys grow up admiring and wanting to become a hero. If “alpha” women were really so smart, they would be secure enough to play into that dynamic when it serves them.
There´s some truth in that; they need to feel needed. However not if it requires toooo much effort on their part, either 🙄Just look at the men who cheat once their partner becomes ill, has a baby etc.
Yes. They want rewards and applause but for doing something simple and easy, love the flowers without having to get their hands dirty 😂 Narcissistic boost for doing bare minimum 😅
It doesn’t matter, just pretend weakness and get everything done for you 😂 🎉
It’s much better to act as the hopeless lady and get all your needs catered
It's not beneath me to want love, but it hurts to want something that doesn't feel possible right now. :( i suffered a stroke last year, and i was in the hospital for 2 months, then in day rehab for 8-9 months. I also had to break up with my boyfriend of 6 years because he changed and stopped paying attention to me after he visited me when i got out of the hospital. I almost died twice. He didn't care about me. This man wanted to marry me, and he was my everything for many years, and he started to shift when this happened. It hurts to watch someone fall slowly out of love with you while you're trying to recover from a near death experience. It takes a certain kind of evil to essentially all but abandon someone when they are at their worst. He joined a religious cult (allegedly) and began to ignore me. He even tried to recruit me into it after the fact. I had to dump him. Now, i can't even leave the house without my parents, and i live with them.
My life isn't all bad, but THIS makes romance really hard. I can't leave the house without them due to the fall risk. Things are looking up, though. I've graduated from day rehab therapy and moved onto physical outpatient. I still need to walk with a cane for now.
I´m so sorry for what you´ve been through :( I hope you can keep recovering well and get stronger and stronger! The behaviour of your ex boyfriend is (sadly) happens extremely often. My friend shared an article with me recently about women who were diagnosed with advanced cancer. A huge percentage of men leave. If you do some research about it, you´ll see this is a universal trend (men leaving women who become ill, had an accident, or a heavy diagnosis). Meanwhile, women in general will nurture and support their partner. There are exceptions of course, but the statistics are very clear on this pattern and it says A LOT about the entitlement of men and their view that women are there to (essentially) serve them and not the other way around. I´m so sorry, but you´re not alone and you might find it helpful to see just how common this is :( x
@claire1254 Thank you. This really makes me feel better and not alone. You're very kind, and I know it's common. A
I’m so sorry for everything you have been through, and for how your ex-boyfriend responded. You seem like a strong, incredible woman, and I wish you all the best ❤️
You’ll get to the point where it is possible. You’re in your hibernation era, resting up to emerge from your castle like the queen you are, and then ready to decide who’s right for you. ❤
40 mins video. I love you Shallon. Thanks for the valentines treat ❤️
29:23 damn, at first I was not following how the first part was connected with the second half but now I’m like 😮 this hit homeeeee girl
Happy Shallontine's Day.
Trust Shallon to say a funny sassy statement that would make me totally LOL-“You know what you don’t have any experience with?? A threadmill!” 😂
What did that girl do to Shallon? Seems like she really did something horrible, Shallon has roasted her in several videos
There is a philosophy behind music theory that perfectly shows this, and that is to play the rests (the silences). You should play the notes, of course, but you should ALSO play the rests, because they are there for a reason, they are a moment of peace, they are intentional, and they allow the notes and the melody to shine. The rests or silences in music, the space of time where you have an absence of something, is equally important for the music itself as everything else is. And it's the same in real life. The fact that you are single right now (or between jobs, or living in your parents house while your apartment is ready, or studying) also gives you a time to focus on yourself, it doesn't mean it will be that way forever, the melody will come again, but it's also not something to just skip over until you get to the next part. You should enjoy it too for what it is.
I absolutely love this
Yes!!! It’s the last piece of the puzzle. Im happy…career, family, health all flourishing! But it still feels like something is missing.
Been watching all your vids since 2009 🫶🏻
I don't need 365 days to know you're right 😭 you are100% right, was talking to my therapist about this literally yesterday!
Happy Valentine’s Day, girls!!
You hit it on the nail again Shallon!!! ❤
I've been watching your channel since it started but generally don't comment. I wanted to tell you how much this video inspired and resonated with me. I've never felt like an "alpha woman" because I tend to be very sensitive and cry easily, but I live alone, travel abroad solo, am pursuing a career in opera, have a wonderful group of friends, and don't date just to have someone (anyone!) any more🤣. I love the way you look at this, and I totally feel as though I've grown up right alongside you!
I am such a good partner, I’m solid and I know it. But I’ve had to have so much masculine energy my whole life and that mixed with my pride-relationships are HARD for me. I’m going through a breakup right now and it’s brutal because he’s an ass that I’m so in love with but I don’t make it any better with my own ways. I just cannot stand “love” and I think I should be alone for life.
Thank you for scratching the itch in me, this is a place I can have my feminine ideals validated even though to everyone else I am masked with alpha masculinity, for survival of course.
Love you so much Shalley!! Thanks for the pep talk, you always help course correct me. Happy Galentines to you!
Relationships no longer interest me, I'm trying to understand what other things provide a feeling of real fulfillment. Relationships are too risky, there has to be something else. Even if the relationship was in place, there has to be more.
Shallon… thank you so much. Literally just had a therapy session about trust. Didn’t realize until today with the help of you and my therapist that my trust issues were about the fact that I need to trust myself.
Your message is so timely. Spot on!! 👏🏻👏🏻 I really needed this. Thank you Shallon ❤
I am so happy being single this year. No complaints.
Same! Better Off ❤❤
Shallon I left my man 2 weeks ago and this video couldn’t have come at a better time 😢 thank you so much
This is my first Valentine's day in some years with a bf, I can say I haven't been this excited for a long time, he picked out the place the time to pick me up and more. Me being 30 and he is 24 :)
Don’t have to be in a relationship to celebrate Valentine’s Day. How about just celebrating how great and love you are with yourself and your life.
I think God has given me an out this Valentine's Day and is guiding me to enjoy my single season for a bit longer!
As it so happens, Valentine's Day falls on Ash Wednesday this year which begins a 40 day season of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving for us Christians. So even though I wished I was in a relationship in order to celebrate the holiday, I can't because I have to prioritize my spiritual health! Happy Valentine's Day
Don’t hate pigeons 😂 they are cute and fat and look so cute going round and round 🐦⬛
You are looking so gorgeous Shall. You get better and better. Love the variety of styles too!
Just found your channel and your videos are fantastic! This video in particular resonates with me in multiple facets of my life. From a dating perspective, I don't allow guys to get close to me based on my own insecurities and doubt in relationships. But in my content creation job, I'm almost the opposite and try to grow relationships with other creators who clearly aren't feeling it and are disrespectful, just because they could potentially help me grow. Love the "Once Upon a Dream" background song too.
Haters and pigeons will try to take from the Queens who stand for their Truth...Good Queens will make history...those pigeons will not ...Wear that crown 👑 Queen ! We shine with You !!!
I'm sorry you're sad,I am as well,but for the record, your thumbnail looks absolutely gorgeous! I am going to seriously talk to my doctor about ozempic. And it is all because of you. I am a type 2 diabetic anyway, so the struggle is real. Anyway, I heard so much negative about ozempic,.. until you. And the proof is undeniable. I want to look, AND feel better, and you have really inspired me. So thank you, and love you lots. ❤️🌹🥰
I am also going through a break up right now, Shallon. Will you be my Valentine? ❤️❤️
It’s you and me against the world baby!
Shallow you just made me realize something--- I was married, have been divorced and in and out of relationships and guys stressed me out everytime I dated. Finally one didn't. I ran late, he didn't yell, he was patient, he planned dates and I was different- I opened up and didn't feel like I had to be alpha and in my head all the time. I think as women we put too much pressure on ourselves. Sometimes it's about meeting a laid back, patient man that is into us and naturally we go into our feminine and it works. Thank you. Good vid. Xo
Shallon*** Not shallow omg 😅 freaking auto correct!!! And ps sorry people are Aholes, my old boss said it best, some people will always just be jealous 🤗 big hugs sis!
Love ❤️ this vid!!!
This video is exactly what I needed perfect timing especially since I am personally trying to build myself up. Being raised with no father in the home, we often have those negative suffering thoughts on things mentioned here and especially the asking for help part that hit home! The struggle is real much appreciated video 🙏
not only that I don't have a man in my life , all my friends have moved away and I'm really all alone at home trying to lose weight and get it together for once and for all , ughhhhh 😥😥😥😥
Sis same
@@lenaambiyo5476 sorry to hear that , wish you the best in life !
the background music!!! Love it!!!!!!
Shallon, I just had a break up in an LDR. I use to watch your videos a lot when I met him, but I was already committed and at that point, trying to be able to guide my relationship because there was a lot I didn't like instead of doing what I know I should've done- break up with him. Now it's over and I realized how much effort I was putting in the relationship while he just tagged along with whatever I said. I got tired of trying to change him and realized I can't rely on him to take his fair share of mental load. So here I am again. I knew exactly who to go to 😂 this time, I'm leveling up myself and leveling up my thinking BEFORE I get into the relationship. I have my second chance. I'm not even in a rush to be in one. Right now, I'm on my mind, not other people. I'm saving myself. Thanks for all your wisdom.❤️
What I've noticed lately is when you work on yourself, dress elegantly/feminine, and at the same time you have your morals and barriers - guys admire that a lot, they do, they know it's something else and not "common" but they never approach... and here I see, next to me a messy girl looking like Billie Eliesh on Grammys having 3 years with her third boyfriend... C'mon now. I know it's college and I have time, but for someone who never had a boyfriend... it's getting old.
Shallon you are saving my life AGAIN! God bless you ❤
I also had a "foul-whether" man-friend. I once called him and he picked up the phone asking me if I was in some kind of trouble. The only way I could be with him was by playing "damsel in distress", but it quickly got exhausting.
Where was this video in my early 20’s 😭
What I’ve figured through the years is that you should never strive to become better because you think you’re owed or guaranteed something in life. You should simply be doing it to better yourself and circumstances and therefore your life overall. It’s a game you are going to lose if you think that going to the gym everyday will eventually get you your dream guy, or that working hard to have a successful career will have the same result, that’s not how it works at all.
I haven’t watched your videos in a while but HOLY SHIT you’ve have a blow up 😍 You look stunning! 🩷
Wow I love your energy! 💜💜💜
Shallon, you're the embodiment of what countrypeople are afraid of. Women fear, you might steal their men, because single, pretty, full of energy and good vibes. Men fear you because you're smart and independent and might teach their codependent female partners, that they can not only survive, but live better without their douchebags on their side. The big city is theplace where single women can truly be theirselves.
Great comment!
cringe
@@kuroneko77716 🥱
Looking gorgeous Shallon omg ❤
I read some of these reddit comments about Shallon and it seems there is one thing that triggered all that: 1 million dollar house. That's it. They went ballistic.
what happened to cowboy?? Anyone has some infos on her dog?
The baddies always single lol 😢
Exactly what I needed today. Beautiful advice. Love you always queen!
About the asking for help thing... I just remembered the story of a friend, she was on the beach in Brazil with two other friends, they started swimming very far from the beach, further and further away and suddenly they almost drowned in the tide . They were almost drowning and my friend kept asking repeatedly "should I ask for help?" and her friends were meanwhile fighting for their lives and she was STILL asking if she needed to ask for help or not... she finally asked some surfers for help and everything was fine, they lived😅 my friend realized that even she STILL needed permission from her friends to ask for help. ...
I sat home on Valentines Day & watched Ths Notebook & telling myself my Noah is out there somewhere ❤
Shallon I love you and all of your videos so much! You have changed my life! I’ve been watching you for 5 years now!
Wow Shallon you look amazingggg the blush with this blonde hair is amazinggg
Whatttt what happened to Cowboy??
My Dad always said: if you’re not happy single you won’t be happy married. Find things you love, and love will find you
Love the makeup/color combinations here!! Really flattering!!!
You are my favorite person on RUclips ❤I see you as my big sister ❤❤❤
Not even three minutes in and I love this
A flock of pigeons is called a "kit," according to google.
Thank you Shallon - it feels like I am perpetually single but it's actually the opposite. I am so much more practiced in refining my own love that I am closer than ever to meeting someone with whom I can build a beautiful life
2:28 that's why you are forever alone
If you lower your standards enough, anyone can be coupled up. The achievement is being in the RIGHT relationship. Not A relationship.
I am so here for that outfit and milkshake with the choker!! Omg what a vibe
Shallon, just want to say I love and appreciate you! Happy Love!
I think you read my mind with every single thing you said in this video! ❤️🔥
Thank you for this treat Shallon...totally brilliant!❤
This video came to the perfect time for me. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us
Perfect as always! Especially since i am learning the alpha female lesson!
It’s a “flight” of pigeons
Shallon, such a useful video! Your words are PREACHINGS!! 🙏🏼
Hi Shallon. Responding to your story about the hateful people who live in your city. I think I know where the problem is. In reality they hate living in this small city and because you like it there, they now hate you. You remind them of all lost opportunities and lack of gratitude, therefore they need to hate you as much as they hate living in a small town. Moving there was your choice, but it was never their choice to stay there. You are a living reminder that their life sucks, so they want to get rid of you. It’s that simple.
Your comment reminded me of my aunt who started living in London like 10 years ago and she always complains how difficult it is, how she cannot get normal job etc. When I moved abroad to Austria I’m telling everyone how I love it here and how great my 9 to 5 job is. My aunt hates me now cause she cannot play victim card anymore 😂
This video was not for me but, as always, you made it entertaining.
love this video shallon you make me laugh
I LOVE YOU!!!! ❤️ This video was so relatable!!!
I've noticed a lot of single women this Valentine's Day. It's lovely they're buying themselves a treat, dinner, having a cozy night in... and sad as hell. 'Cos they don't want to be alone. We are all just so over the bullshit, and have these new, never-before-seen standards. And the divide with men will only grow, because we know how to pamper and celebrate ourselves. So any man comes along and doesn't even get us a V Day gift when last year we bought ourselves dumplings and chocolate? We are gonna get the ick quick. And they just aren't evolving, aren't adapting. They see how easy it is to make us happy and they are straight-up refusing.
We Love You Shallon ❤❤ Happy Valentine's Day 🎉🎉
Is cowboy okay ?
‘I’m done with doing the work too’, thanks queen 😍 I needed this today 😀🤍
It has to be an even exchange
Looking amazing as always ❤