Whoever is talking in the video needs to do more slam poetry because this is honestly beautiful and so much fun to listen to it almost sounds like a song tbh
This is why you don't internalize issues in a relationship, be open and talk about them. You might be surprised to see that the other person actually does care and is willing to work on fixing the issue. This is how some marriages last for 50+ years. Relationships are hard work because people aren't mind readers and nothing is ever perfect, but if you truly love and care for someone, the fight is worth it.
This made me start sobbing. I've never dated but me and my lifelong best friend drifted apart over disagreements and she wasn't being a good friend to me in lots of ways. It still hurts so much that I let go of something that was such a big piece of me and of my life. It's really hard for me to make close friends because I'm introverted and shy. She helped me be confident, she made me laugh, she got my obsurd humor. Even though our relarionshi
Hi, I’m sorry that happened to you. My heart goes out to you. I’m the same except a guy came between us. She didn’t want to hear what I had to say (I didn’t think he was good for her). & I hate to say this, but, forget them. Yes, it was a huge part of your life. Yes, they helped you become who you are. But if they can let go of what you had? Never worth it to give it a 2nd thought. It’s just not useful, holding on, thinking bout them (cause obviously they’re not about you). Know your worth & that it’s so much more. You were good w/them, but you’re honestly better without!
THIS IS THAT AMAZING SERIES WITH SHANE AND THE OTHER GUY (i forgot his name oh no). THIS SERIES WAS SO GOOD PLEASE THE SHIP WAS OTPOTP I'M CURRENTLY CRYING
I usually don't like these types of videos (the spoken word poem things) but this one really got to me. Something about the very-specific dialog mixed with a hazy melancholy i find really relatable. And sad, of course. Beautiful none the less though.
More like an emotional essay. With a sort of rhythm to it. I can see how he could maybe improve on this with some repitition or some varience in elements he couldve used.
The problem is that one person cares way more then the other. If he likes you then he wouldn't of made you feel this way. Guys don't want to be the bad guy and so they will wait until the other person breaks up with them. The fact that he said I think we should break up and the other guy showed no attempt to try to change his mind. He undersstand what he was doing yet did not say can we work on it? Can I fix it or make it up to you?? No he didn't want you in this relationship.
Honestly, this video gave me lots of hope.. I was in a toxic relationship, I was willing to give everything up for him.. He wasn't willing to do the same.. All I wanted was his attention, for him to love me, instead I received lies and cheats.. The waterfalls I cried because of him.. I'll never forget them. Despite all he had done to hurt me, I continued to love him, forgave him for everything, and pretended that I didn't know about the girl he was sleeping with. I'm ashamed to say.. I never had enough courage to leave him, parshly because I was in love with him. So, he left me for his ex. I'm don't plan to make the same mistakes with another man.
I guess Buzzfeed is trying to show us the reality of relationships: it doesn't last Think about it, they made Ashdrew but it never happened, they made Quintin but it broke out, and finally them... Deeper than I expected of you Buzzfeed
Panda Beat I want to go on their concert tomorrow too :ccc If yo uare a very nice guy, could you answer on this comment tomorrow after the concert and tell me how it was ? :D
Next time, schedule a talk about the possibility that a break-up may be coming, and talk about how things should change to keep the relationship going. That talk might result in a break-up, but if you love someone and they love you, if it is a relationship worth saving, work, work, work on it. My husband and I have been through some very rough spots, were even apart for five years, but because we worked and prayed, we have celebrated our 41st wedding anniversary and are more in love than we have ever been. It can be done, but you have to know going in that there are times it takes work and determination to keep things together.
I don't know what's sad, the video or realising I haven't dated anyone to experience a break up .. .. Video still makes me sad though .. Why am I watching this at 4am ..
Recently, I went through a break up. This brings me back memories all about it. We would always walk on a boardwalk in the woods nearby where we live (we're pretty close) and I went there all the time anyways. Now.. I get feelings I've never felt before just by thinking of the place. I'm not sure, but I think the feeling may be similar to anxiety. I've never experienced it before, so I wouldn't really now. Anyways, we fought through text and broke up there. Ever since, we had silence, then we fought in person, then we became friends again, then... I discovered that he lied to me. MULTIPLE TIMES. I still can't get over him. Maybe it's the memories or maybe it's the butterflies he gave me at the time. I still get butterflies. He told me he'd love me forever and I've always doubted him. Now I wish I didn't doubt him so much. Maybe we would've never fought, maybe we would still be together, maybe the feelings would continue to be mutual. Now, he likes another girl two years younger.
If these are the same guys from the "When Your Relationship Makes You Better" videos and etc. I will seriously cry because I love those videos, and I don't want them to end.
My girlfriend sent me a text "Ex" and she trashed my apartment,stole my money and packed her clothes after 2 months of looking for her I finally decided to give up when the next day I got her Bank Statment that said she had bought a sofa in Atlanta then I remembered her great aunt lived there.So I got my stuff back and she went to jail
this reminds me when me and my ex broke up. we broke up in the porch of his house sitting on the stairs and he just watched me cry even though we broke up mutually. It's been almost 3 months since we broke up and I can't even handle being in his neighborhood.
I saw this video a couple of years ago and it was one of the saddest videos I have ever seen. And then I didn’t even felt this. But is was heartbreaking. But I remembered this video these days and it’s more heartbreaking. And not because I feel their story, but because I feel the break up. And I guess the feelings are kinda the same. Nothing special in this message but if you see it, just like it.
"Maybe you cared more than I thought" is deep af.
lolipopscandy62 ikr
so hurtful im crying
crying hard
Teenage love
I felt like i was at a poetry slam at one point
OMG SAMEEEEE
ikr
its in their Poetry playlist so maybe it was
It is one
same
That awkward moment when you care more about the uneaten food than the break up...
yep
Yup
I didn't care more about it than the break up but it definitely threw me off lol
Yes
yeasssssss
Whoever is talking in the video needs to do more slam poetry because this is honestly beautiful and so much fun to listen to it almost sounds like a song tbh
This is why you don't internalize issues in a relationship, be open and talk about them. You might be surprised to see that the other person actually does care and is willing to work on fixing the issue. This is how some marriages last for 50+ years. Relationships are hard work because people aren't mind readers and nothing is ever perfect, but if you truly love and care for someone, the fight is worth it.
Damn, that was well made. The mood, the music, the words on the screen, and the just the pure feelings in it.
The food
Agreed!!
+Ecat2152 phandom 💕
+Ecat2152 phandom 💕
Phan Hello :)
PLEASE MAKE ANOTHER VIDEO FOR THE OTHER GUYS POINT OF VIEW
YES!
YOU GENIUS
come on buzzfeed! pleeeeaaaaseeeeeeee
yesssss
THIS. YES. PLEASE.
Buzzfeels...
dead.
+Andrea Johnson RIP
that should be there name
HoodedGargoyle dead
I wish they'll make another video, but this time, on the other guy's perspective..
Yes please!!
That would be so cool!!
i need it for living ;-;
Mee too❤😪🔥
Who's crying you're crying
nah
Ur right
Nyla Bunsee yeah girl
yeah man, this one hit me hard
Yep
I like this because it shows that even if you are the one to break up with someone, it doesn't mean you don't feel sad about it too.
I had warned you against doing this, Buzzfeed...
Edgy
Wellllll Buzzfeed always has a way to make you depressed
Yup
true that
Yep :(
Especially, when you just broke up with the person you love and you can relate
I could tell that it was shane the minute he stepped into view.
Same
same, thats how we know we watch buzzfeed too much
but the story doesn't rlly fit in with the one in this video
But is it about him though?
i thought it was joey graceffa before he dyed his hair.
I love how you can't see their faces idk why but I feel like it's even more personal
Being single AF, the only thing that broke my heart is that they didn't eat their food. :( poor thing it just wanted to be eaten
😂 lol
that's exactly what went through my mind
lmfaooo
Things like these don't always have to remind you of a break up. This reminds me of when my best friend left me...... Sad
same.
yeah..you cry cause it's damn sad!
yeah this reminds me of my previous best friend and one of my good friends now, one of which i said these things to, the other i wish i could
True, i was bff with this person for 6 years! untill she turned on me to go with someone else that she hardly knew :(
Slowly refreshing to see a "This is why we got back together" video
This made me start sobbing. I've never dated but me and my lifelong best friend drifted apart over disagreements and she wasn't being a good friend to me in lots of ways. It still hurts so much that I let go of something that was such a big piece of me and of my life. It's really hard for me to make close friends because I'm introverted and shy. She helped me be confident, she made me laugh, she got my obsurd humor. Even though our relarionshi
Hi, I’m sorry that happened to you. My heart goes out to you. I’m the same except a guy came between us. She didn’t want to hear what I had to say (I didn’t think he was good for her). & I hate to say this, but, forget them. Yes, it was a huge part of your life. Yes, they helped you become who you are. But if they can let go of what you had? Never worth it to give it a 2nd thought. It’s just not useful, holding on, thinking bout them (cause obviously they’re not about you). Know your worth & that it’s so much more. You were good w/them, but you’re honestly better without!
I'm hoping this is followed up by "Part II: This Is Where We Got Back Together"
Me too
That's stupid
Diego rangel you're stupid
Me too...😭
Not all stories have lovely endings, that's how life is.. And we have to understand it. I learned it the wrong way
I haven't even gotten halfway yet but I keep yelling NO NO NO NO because if this is the couple I think it is, then *damn you, buzzfeed*
#Dustane 😭😭😭
Dustin and Shane.....
😭😭
+Andy Zhu who ?
GOOD DAMMIT!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
THIS IS THAT AMAZING SERIES WITH SHANE AND THE OTHER GUY (i forgot his name oh no). THIS SERIES WAS SO GOOD PLEASE THE SHIP WAS OTPOTP I'M CURRENTLY CRYING
IT WAS DUSTIN! I SHIPPED DUSTANE SO MUCH! WHY DID THEY HAVE TO BREAK UP!!!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOO
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OMG, PEOPLE! That's not Dustin!
Omg. I was sobbing after this. Someone please tell me all this is fake. I loved seeing Shane and Dustin together. Please get back ❤❤
It's not Dustin though
It's Shane, but without Dustin it's not Dustane
So it doesn't matter
I'm literally in tears rn omg
sameeeee
me too ;/ That poor uneaten fooood
+Alice x Hahahaha
I usually don't like these types of videos (the spoken word poem things) but this one really got to me. Something about the very-specific dialog mixed with a hazy melancholy i find really relatable. And sad, of course. Beautiful none the less though.
Ah yes. Was it the line "...and you didn't ask about my day...as per usual." (and many more)?
this would make a very good and also extremely psychologically destroying story on wattpad.
Truth
yes
I KNOW!!!
YESYESYES
SOMEBODY MAKE THIS HAPPEN
I LOVED THEM SO MUCH WHY DO MY SHIPS ALWAYS BREAK UP
WHO IS IT?!?!?!
Is this the couple from the 'so we hooked up vids' or whatever the name was (XD) ?????
who is it?
YES IT IS
SAME UGGHH :((
Hit me right in the feels ....
Well. Then. I feel sad.
same
Same
Ahaa, so glad this was the top comment. It was nice to have someone so accurately describe what I was feeling :')
Same :/
I IS LIKING THIS POEM-Y MUSICAL-Y THING GOING ON WITH BUZZFEED!!
ArtistVai *am
More like an emotional essay. With a sort of rhythm to it. I can see how he could maybe improve on this with some repitition or some varience in elements he couldve used.
@@bertogonzalez2396 Slam?
This is a really true story, before you found regret in the end find some way to fixed it and you should work on it for the better.
is this a real breakup in reality like were they actually together
The problem is that one person cares way more then the other. If he likes you then he wouldn't of made you feel this way.
Guys don't want to be the bad guy and so they will wait until the other person breaks up with them.
The fact that he said I think we should break up and the other guy showed no attempt to try to change his mind.
He undersstand what he was doing yet did not say can we work on it?
Can I fix it or make it up to you??
No he didn't want you in this relationship.
totally not crying . what. my eyes are sweating
same
your profile pic... Solid. |-/
Bro. |-/
EWWWW GAYYYY
+slicedpineapple199 aww, a 13 year old
This video is so well done, but sooooo sad! I feel like I just broke up with someone I loved so much!
Did anyone else almost cry
since i just broke up with my gf, yes, I cried. a lot. :'(
I did cry :(
ikr
+VictorTheLegend awww...
:( I'm sorry
+VictorTheLegend awhh
NO NO NO I LOVED THIS SHIP
ME TOO
SAME
WHO WAS IT
Dustin and shane
its not them, its shane, but not dustin, you can also tell by the fact of there not being a #Dustane in the description
"ANYTHING HURTS LESS THAN THE QUIET..."
TwentyØnePhantasticPotatoHeads IntheBlueBadlands dONT DO THIS TO ME
SCREECH TROYE
IM CRYING
MY BOYE
I'm not crying...
I jus caught something in my eye.
What did I catch in my eye?
TEARS (papyrus starts crying)
HUGGLES 😭 -(T~T)-
YOU DONT KNOW HOW MUCH I WANTED SOMEONE TO SAY THAT
MY SADNESS!
+tinyhumanchild I know but I wanted a way to say it all in one :) I'm an undertale nerd also hehe
This was so beautiful Shane! Made me think so hard about the unspoken things we leave trapped inside us when we leave someone.
Honestly, this video gave me lots of hope..
I was in a toxic relationship, I was willing to give everything up for him.. He wasn't willing to do the same..
All I wanted was his attention, for him to love me, instead I received lies and cheats.. The waterfalls I cried because of him.. I'll never forget them. Despite all he had done to hurt me, I continued to love him, forgave him for everything, and pretended that I didn't know about the girl he was sleeping with.
I'm ashamed to say.. I never had enough courage to leave him, parshly because I was in love with him. So, he left me for his ex.
I'm don't plan to make the same mistakes with another man.
stay strong.
WAIT. PEOPLE KEEP SAYING THIS IS A SERIES. WHERE ARE THE OTHER VIDEOS
^^
ruclips.net/video/Sw1OS59X_OU/видео.html it started here I think. You can look for the other 3 they made in the yellow buzzfeed videos section
in order: "when it becomes more than a hookup" "when it becomes official" "when it becomes long distance" and then this one....
wait what? Its that couple? From that series? OMG I love them!! Why Buzzfeed? They were like my #lifegoals. Now Im sad
But but....
This legitimately made me cry... I'm pouring my eyes out
The way he speaks reminds me of slam poetry.
yes omg, and it's beautiful
Yess I was thinking that too!
When you can't relate because you've never dated anyone
Same 😂 yay single peopke
I was all emotional and all and then I read your comment, laugh out loud and ... The moment disappears
That off centered candle though...
ikr
whyd you bring it up nOW THATS ALL I CAN SEE AGGJ
+FirstTateKit I'm sorry, I had to.
IKR 😹
It looks fine....I think? Lol
I wish I could have known what went through my ex's head when he broke up with me... I hope it was something like this... regret? Sadness? Reluctance?
give your friend a hug! buddy we all do hope the same but instead we are the one having these feelings
I wonder what went through mine's as well
Same
Depends
Rage
im not crying you're crying
anna lmao you are right I am crying
ectvpic ya
``You talk about nothing but work, as per usual and you don`t ask me about my day, as per usual`` Right in the feels.
"Now this is the loudest moment of silence."
Pretty deep.
PLEASE DO ANOTHER ONE WITH THE OTHER GUYS SIDE OF VIEW PLEASE OMG PLEASE OMFG PLEASE.
YASMPLS
YUUUUS
YES
YES
YESYESYES
BuzzFeed, more like BuzzFeel
*ba dum pst*
this sounds like a flashback that would be in a fanfiction.
I feel wrong for watching this whilst pooping
Same dude
Sameeee
I'm pooping as well 😂
Same
Yup. I feel guilty....
I guess Buzzfeed is trying to show us the reality of relationships: it doesn't last
Think about it, they made Ashdrew but it never happened, they made Quintin but it broke out, and finally them...
Deeper than I expected of you Buzzfeed
nonono my feels
But the food though...
Lol
right haha good can't break ya heart
YOU WATCHED THIS TOO
Priorities
me af
i cried. i can't even relate but it made me cry
Shane Whitaker's voice modulations , Damn it Man , you are something else..
MY MOM DID NOT SIGN THE PERMISSION SLIP FOR THIS FEELS TRIP!
Actually it sounds like the song " car radio "
Clique
Anyone of you going to the emotional roadshow ? :p
sit in silence
|-/
Panda Beat I want to go on their concert tomorrow too :ccc
If yo uare a very nice guy, could you answer on this comment tomorrow after the concert and tell me how it was ? :D
Why can I not write books the same as this guy talks!?
I love beautiful words and this video only full of them
Practice.
#GrowthMindset
They are only special in that they practiced more than you.
i cried because the food is just waste they did not eat it poor food it got cold tsk tsk tsk
meeee....
TRASHES LOVES KPOP fail at being humorous.
@@joeyvieira9618 not really, it wasn't joke u know
Next time, schedule a talk about the possibility that a break-up may be coming, and talk about how things should change to keep the relationship going. That talk might result in a break-up, but if you love someone and they love you, if it is a relationship worth saving, work, work, work on it. My husband and I have been through some very rough spots, were even apart for five years, but because we worked and prayed, we have celebrated our 41st wedding anniversary and are more in love than we have ever been. It can be done, but you have to know going in that there are times it takes work and determination to keep things together.
I just broke up with someone after half a year and I still loved him. This hit way too deep to home..
I'm so sorry about that :(
I hope that stuff gets easier for you
the fast way he talks, how well thought out and heartfelt his words are, and his voice. All reminds me of twenty øne piløts
idk, I mean they are both very articulate, but in much different ways
Welcome to the new genre of literature, the visual poem. Well done.
I like u'r comment..yup right now is all abt visual culture
Actually i think it's called spoken word poetry. I could be wrong but a lot of the times it's accompanied by a video.
+Shivani Konda it is called a spoken word poetry
I don't know what's sad, the video or realising I haven't dated anyone to experience a break up ..
.. Video still makes me sad though .. Why am I watching this at 4am ..
The sad part is that I can really relate to this...
This is so accurate it hurts
This is beautiful, and personal, and so artistic. I love it so much, thank you for creating this.
god im crying...damnit buzzfeed, why do you do this to me?
this is why communication is super important in a relationship. Never be afraid to speak up.
please have a part 2: this is where we got back together
why does this remind me of a TØP song 😍
Sameee
Literally same that's all I could think
Reminds me of Car Radio XD
+Nikki Maciejewska sammeeee
i love you guys, we all think alike
if that weird that i am 18 and haven't date anyone and never broke up
No
Nope
yes
Join the club. I'm almost 20 and forever been single.
lol at list i am not the one
Recently, I went through a break up. This brings me back memories all about it. We would always walk on a boardwalk in the woods nearby where we live (we're pretty close) and I went there all the time anyways. Now.. I get feelings I've never felt before just by thinking of the place. I'm not sure, but I think the feeling may be similar to anxiety. I've never experienced it before, so I wouldn't really now. Anyways, we fought through text and broke up there. Ever since, we had silence, then we fought in person, then we became friends again, then... I discovered that he lied to me. MULTIPLE TIMES. I still can't get over him. Maybe it's the memories or maybe it's the butterflies he gave me at the time. I still get butterflies. He told me he'd love me forever and I've always doubted him. Now I wish I didn't doubt him so much. Maybe we would've never fought, maybe we would still be together, maybe the feelings would continue to be mutual. Now, he likes another girl two years younger.
This is, the best thing I have ever watched it's so emotional
Been almost 3 years and it still hurts
that was very poetic in a way
"dammit you're beautiful even when you're in shock" that hit me hard omg.
I thought this would be where ex couples talk out their past relationship and figure out what really went wrong for them but THIS WAS SO MUCH BETTER
If these are the same guys from the "When Your Relationship Makes You Better" videos and etc. I will seriously cry because I love those videos, and I don't want them to end.
goodbye eyeliner
yeah buzzfeed just break my heart fine
i love this series.. damn.. this was deep
I love this type of spoken word video.
I think this is your best video. The camera position, the text and the way you deliver it. Thank you.
I'm actually freaking crying. This has never happened before.
Dont Buzzfeed, just dont. I was too emotionally unstable to watch this. Its too heart wrenching.
omg that was beautiful and so sad and i teared up
please more
My girlfriend sent me a text "Ex" and she trashed my apartment,stole my money and packed her clothes after 2 months of looking for her I finally decided to give up when the next day I got her Bank Statment that said she had bought a sofa in Atlanta then I remembered her great aunt lived there.So I got my stuff back and she went to jail
lmao that's AWESOME
+tinyhumanchild Its funny because her family thought she was a saint until last year
This video made me cry, I've just gone through the same situation. Its hard when one get to that point ... I miss you Humberto, my love.
sounds like poetry in motion that was dope
this reminds me when me and my ex broke up. we broke up in the porch of his house sitting on the stairs and he just watched me cry even though we broke up mutually. It's been almost 3 months since we broke up and I can't even handle being in his neighborhood.
I love it when they done it with 2 boys and not a boy and a girl!
It's pretty much always 2 boys
That's buzzfeed for ya
Yeah but barely ever girl and girl
THAT WASNT DUSTIN.
I REFUSE TO BELIEVE THEY BROKE THAT SHIP UP
WHO PUT THESE ONIONS HERE
katherine i know! Those damn sneaky ninjas with the onions
If Buzzfeed makes a video on the other guy's point of wiew, it will kill me but I will love it, am I weird ?
WHAT!! We're is it??
+isabelle cushman It isn't, but if they do it will kill me
I think that is an awesome idea! they should totally do it though it would destroy me too .~.
BUZZFEED YOU LITTLE RASCAL... MESSING WITH MY EMOTIONS.. I LOVED THIS SPOKEN WORD PIECE!
NNNOOOO this couple was the best :C :C but also i can't complain this was such a beautiful video :'c
This made me cry
I saw this video a couple of years ago and it was one of the saddest videos I have ever seen. And then I didn’t even felt this. But is was heartbreaking.
But I remembered this video these days and it’s more heartbreaking. And not because I feel their story, but because I feel the break up. And I guess the feelings are kinda the same.
Nothing special in this message but if you see it, just like it.
PLEASE DO MORE with more voice actors and longer stories IM LOVING THIS im sharing this everywhere