Anjum Coffland on Growing Through the Trauma of Losing Her Daughters
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- Опубликовано: 22 мар 2022
- Anjum Coffland describes going through a divorce and her husband killing her two teenage daughters Tiffany and Brittany before shooting her in the legs and then killing himself. After the murders, Anjum went into survival mode and gets through it day by day. She pushes herself in hopes that she will be with her girls again one day. She advocates for changing gun laws so that it is not as easy for someone to get a gun when they are going through a divorce and in an upset state of mind. She believes that one phone call could have saved her family. She acknowledges that it takes time to heal and encourages anyone going through something similar to keep going, keep pushing. "Don't give up on yourself," she says.
This tragedy couldn't have happened to a sweeter woman. I couldn't even fathom losing my 2 girls. I give her SO much credit and praise! She's one amazing woman!!
anjum, you are such an amazing and strong woman
Thank you for that. I’m from Massachusetts and just learning about your story. Hang in there and don’t give up. You keep the rest of us going! I lost my whole family in one day and 32 years later I’m still struggling. “It’s one day at a time.” Thank you and keep up the encouragement. “It means a lot for many people.” XO
Keith, thank you your encouraging comment. It sounds like you have your own experience to share. If you would you would consider telling your Grow Through It story, please contact us at gti@growthroughit.org. Thank you.
You are an INCREDIBLE strong woman that deserves the world. Please consider EMDR or trauma therapy by a psychologists if you haven’t already.
It’s ok Anjum you do have the right to complain! What you went through is horrible. Your ex is evil. I know your daughters are very proud of you and waiting till you meet again👼👼🌹♥️
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May Allah bless you dear sister ❤️ your children will surely be in paradise and that asshole will be rotting in hell
So He is a narcissist, right?
My husband is a narcissist. If I try to leave him, he would probably dot he same.
I have to wait until HE finds a poor new girl to trick.
Then, he will be too distracted by her. And maybe he won't try to get half custody.
He cabt have ANY custody.
He's evil and he cabt and won't ever take care of the children if they're by themselves with him.
I'm trapped.
Yes,and plan escape ,dont telll him nothing ,,call family friend ,lawer,social,anybody to help you,dont tell him till you move away ....good luck
@snezanavasilevska3586 I don't have any friends, and my family didn't believe me.
Now they believe me, but they won't help. They say I just need a marriage counselor!!!?
Nobody understands. They're too stup*d and naive to get what a narcissist is.
I only had guy friends, and they def won't be able to help me and FOUR whole kids. When I started having kids, I didn't have time to do anything other than work and take care of them (especially since I'm doing it on my own. "Married single mother," they call it. When you do everything and the man does nothing.