The Menzingers - "After The Party"

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  • Опубликовано: 22 мар 2017
  • Listen to the full album: bit.ly/2jEw7TA
    "After the Party" by The Menzingers from the album 'After The Party,' available now
    Order here: lnk.to/TMaftertheparty
    Directed by Kyle Thrash
    Produced by W. Ian Ross
    Official Site: themenzingers.com
    Facebook: / themenzingers
    Twitter: / themenzingers
    Instagram: / themenzingers
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  • @Grahamster00
    @Grahamster00 8 месяцев назад +99

    I think about this music video a lot. There are just so many little moments that make it memorable. Whoever the actors and director are are outstanding; this is my idea of what a music video should be.

    • @akingtonone
      @akingtonone 6 месяцев назад +4

      Kyle Thrash is really talented. Check out his videos for Map Change by Everytime I Die and Your Graduation by Modern Baseball. Some really amazing cinematography and story telling.

    • @leonardjones6167
      @leonardjones6167 2 месяца назад

      @@akingtonone Also No Halo by Sorority Noise

    • @jackanderson6100
      @jackanderson6100 Месяц назад

      Yeah this music video is 10/10. Such a deep story with no dialogue. Makes me think about my ex. We would party way too much, fight constantly towards the end, but loved really hard.

    • @shottingham
      @shottingham 7 дней назад

      @@akingtonone He did Your Graduation? Damn. I guess there's a good reason why I love this video so much!
      Edit: Your Graduation is absolutely fucking amazing

  • @brookbennett9107
    @brookbennett9107 Год назад +121

    I played this song on repeat the last night my brother was alive because he loved you guys. I think this song is forever going to mean something to me

    • @JoshuaHenemyer-ku3fs
      @JoshuaHenemyer-ku3fs 9 месяцев назад +1

      I found out I had a brother I never knew about not long after I found this song

  • @alexanderheimer8885
    @alexanderheimer8885 8 часов назад

    im a music video freak. ive been obsessed with watching music video my whole life, and I watch them everyday.. this is my favorite one. its just so well done.

  • @lj_hepp
    @lj_hepp 2 года назад +46

    This night was great. They ended up playing a quick set after we finished up filming for the night. Menzingers in a living room is something I’ll never forget.

  • @danielmotamedi8048
    @danielmotamedi8048 4 года назад +119

    The acting/directing in this video is better than most high budget films.... damn that was an amazing music video

  • @metalgrootvader6832
    @metalgrootvader6832 6 лет назад +638

    Yet another band I discovered through my kid....damn good.

    • @lukatomas
      @lukatomas 5 лет назад +11

      That's beautiful man!

    • @maxwelld23
      @maxwelld23 5 лет назад +26

      If you like this check out Spanish love songs. You and your boy should dig them 🤘

    • @firstlast2499
      @firstlast2499 5 лет назад +11

      Your kid has a awesome taste in music

    • @freewillslosingnat
      @freewillslosingnat 4 года назад +2

      @@maxwelld23 dude.. thank you for the recommendation. Sick band 🤟

    • @maxwelld23
      @maxwelld23 4 года назад +1

      Nathemo just saw them live last weekend great show one of my recent favorites.

  • @waldenwonders
    @waldenwonders 13 дней назад +1

    This isn't a love song. This isn't love. It's warning you.

  • @kevinwilson5794
    @kevinwilson5794 4 года назад +188

    This song to me is about how important it is to be okay with being alone. Because if you can't be okay being alone with yourself, how will you be okay being alone with someone when everything else has stopped? During the silent moments, during the boring ones. When everyone else has left the party, and it's just the 2 of you, are you both strong enough individually and together that you have a great foundation? That you can sit through the silent or boring or still moments together and still feel just as happy. Or did you need the craziness and chaos of the party around you to keep you together? Because at the end of the day, when you're in a relationship, it comes down to just the 2 of you. Nothing else matters but how the 2 of you are together, separate from everything else.

    • @slyppery7923
      @slyppery7923 2 года назад +9

      That's a fucking beautiful interpretation of this song. Thank you for sharing in such detail. :)

    • @dantepilgrim
      @dantepilgrim Год назад +8

      Seems to me to be a straight love song, it's about how two people in love gravitate towards each other DESPITE the craziness of the party. The excitement (and ultimate shallowness) of the party is done, but he loves her beyond that.

    • @jimbobruno4257
      @jimbobruno4257 Год назад

      @@dantepilgrim They are in love, but he loves himself more than he loves her.

  • @VinayRamji
    @VinayRamji 7 лет назад +2194

    This makes me miss something I was never a part of

    • @JackBlack-wi8pz
      @JackBlack-wi8pz 7 лет назад +159

      I know what you mean. It's perhaps something we always thought would happen, but never did. Being young and in love, and going on adventures. But life didn't turn out that way. But at least we have music and videos like this, to bring back those feelings we had when we were young.

    • @Lucifye
      @Lucifye 7 лет назад +59

      lol. Ive never experienced love before.So fuck

    • @nathan_557
      @nathan_557 6 лет назад +15

      yeak ik, we are nothing like them but we feel like we belong-*ed*

    • @marcusmayhew8649
      @marcusmayhew8649 6 лет назад +17

      I’ve never experienced having a gf, let alone love. Lol

    • @TheJunJoke
      @TheJunJoke 6 лет назад +6

      Vinay I couldn't find better words to describe it

  • @geowhite7475
    @geowhite7475 4 года назад +135

    I have lived this experience, and let me tell you: the bliss and ecstasy does not compare to the level of heart-destruction that occurs after it's all over. Be careful guys n gals.

    • @hunterdeaton236
      @hunterdeaton236 3 года назад +12

      Probably should have read this 9 months ago

    • @d0d7k64
      @d0d7k64 2 года назад +5

      ahh man where were you 2 years ago

    • @irvingrico6483
      @irvingrico6483 2 года назад +2

      Man its so hard to get trought it out alive! ):

    • @Tara-dn4tz
      @Tara-dn4tz 7 месяцев назад

      Fuck

    • @christophergongora7885
      @christophergongora7885 17 дней назад

      Especially when it goes on for 10 years and just ends abruptly without closure

  • @thelivingoneaz
    @thelivingoneaz 7 лет назад +1423

    It's been a long time since I've felt something watching a music video. That was awesome.

    • @SSUVOCAL
      @SSUVOCAL 7 лет назад +8

      thelivingoneaz straight up man. very well done

    • @lorditch91
      @lorditch91 7 лет назад +15

      thelivingoneaz, Agreed. I never had a video hit home like this one does

    • @srsucioguapodelsur8845
      @srsucioguapodelsur8845 7 лет назад +18

      Ever seen that one PUP vid? Talk about a heartbreaker

    • @VasiLynch
      @VasiLynch 7 лет назад +4

      Chisum Burnett came here after PUP :D

    • @Bparish47
      @Bparish47 7 лет назад

      Feel the exact same way .

  • @brownpunk1794
    @brownpunk1794 5 лет назад +312

    Guy who directed this vid needs a goddamn oscar..

    • @amccoy6055
      @amccoy6055 3 года назад +9

      Kyle Thrash has directed a lot of great music videos. Check out Sorority Noise - No Halo. That song and video are perfect.

    • @mammontustado9680
      @mammontustado9680 2 года назад +2

      @@amccoy6055 fxck yes! The video got me into that song.

    • @Lampshadeattack
      @Lampshadeattack 2 года назад

      like hell he does it’s garbage.

    • @lucasledesma4684
      @lucasledesma4684 Месяц назад

      ​@@Lampshadeattack false

  • @TrinityRourke
    @TrinityRourke 6 лет назад +322

    Idk how but they just perfectly deciphered how "You don't care if anyone is watching" can mean two completely different things, 1:29 and 2:35 . Man. Thats crazy

  • @xDPx-zh7vr
    @xDPx-zh7vr Год назад +7

    This band, God this band, just puts their finger on the pulse of a moment, a feeling, a time in our lives when things were there worst and the best all at the same time. More than likely we've all moved on from that moment where responsibility and life didn't get in the way and we were free to be whoever the fuck we wanted to be. But then a song like this hits the speakers and it all comes back. There's something special when music that can do that.

  • @ericfoster8411
    @ericfoster8411 Год назад +9

    That guitar tone in the intro lets you know everything you need to know about how this song is gonna make you feel.

  • @KillSchwill
    @KillSchwill 3 года назад +111

    Man I partied with these guys over a decade ago at my singers house after they played a show with us in my town before they became huge. It's nice to see how far they've come since then.

    • @hahayes5861
      @hahayes5861 3 года назад +2

      Hell yeah, it must be cool to have known guys and a band like this. I can’t wait to see them come to my town in October

    • @punklyrics1
      @punklyrics1 2 года назад +2

      I still remember going to their shows in high school when they were just a local band. Its one the highlights of the year when they play their yearly show

    • @Lampshadeattack
      @Lampshadeattack 2 года назад

      all undeserved

    • @applepieclub5012
      @applepieclub5012 Год назад

      But the real question is, did they stay to clean up…after the party? 😜

  • @killjeff2
    @killjeff2 7 лет назад +274

    When a music video looks as the song sounds. And this is amazing

    • @Laenielyna01
      @Laenielyna01 6 лет назад +2

      Jeffacake100 yes it really is

    • @ViniciosHC2010
      @ViniciosHC2010 5 лет назад

      Two years later, on a specific day when I was listening to this song again and again, I just discovered that there is this video. And I could not agree more with you!

    • @evildonut1089
      @evildonut1089 3 года назад

      Your comment gave me a Seizure

  • @MeTakingAStand
    @MeTakingAStand 6 лет назад +535

    Nothing like this music video late at night while drinking a beer to remind you of a dysfunctionally manic relationship. The lows were frequent and the reason I ended things, but god dammmit the highs almost feel worth it on nights like this.
    I hate her; I miss her.

    • @joebudden2232
      @joebudden2232 5 лет назад +7

      I miss the highs and lows

    • @shierfruitsalad
      @shierfruitsalad 5 лет назад +5

      MeTakingAStand ain’t that the fucking truth man.

    • @joebudden2232
      @joebudden2232 5 лет назад

      MeTakingAStand my life in a nutshell

    • @Naturally3m0
      @Naturally3m0 5 лет назад +10

      Whoa, I've never read something so relatable in my whole life. Shit dude.

    • @blackmarketpharmacy
      @blackmarketpharmacy 5 лет назад +1

      I feel this with every ounce of my being. 💔

  • @wackedoutofmyway
    @wackedoutofmyway 3 месяца назад +2

    Yeah this video is pretty amazing. It shows every emotion felt throughout a relationship - the fun, excitement, laughter, are all here. Then onto the fighting, crying, hating. Such a rollercoaster of emotions captured so well in this song and video. A+

  • @ejparas7764
    @ejparas7764 7 лет назад +259

    It won't happen, but I want every song from this album to have a music video. Greg & Tom's storytelling is unmatched right now in punk rock. This video was everything I originally wanted and more. Props to these guys and Kyle Thrash!

    • @josephwmiller2
      @josephwmiller2 7 лет назад +20

      Narratively, this could lead directly into a "Midwestern States" video and that would be just fine with me

    • @TheMeanMongoose
      @TheMeanMongoose 7 лет назад +4

      "Bad Catholics" is also a fun song. Fuck it, just do one for each on the whole album.

    • @ryanhowe4668
      @ryanhowe4668 6 лет назад +2

      Kyle Thrash is an excellent director

    • @jamesphillips3135
      @jamesphillips3135 6 лет назад

      You obviously haven't heard of la dispute or defeater. These guys are good but ld and defeater are master's of the concept album

    • @kevintrant5791
      @kevintrant5791 5 лет назад

      This video is on after a few hours of auto play and i came back to it. This is punk? Do they have more punk songs? Cause this sounds like it has a punk influence but nothing punk to me. Not saying it's bad, but punk?

  • @sriezankoirala9889
    @sriezankoirala9889 7 лет назад +22

    This is literally the 5000th time I've seen this song since its upload. Singing along to this song feels surreal.

  • @travisf5935
    @travisf5935 6 лет назад +26

    Videos like this (and Kyle Thrash videos especially) always remind me that there are a million versions of a million stories happening everywhere around us. Mind blowing.

  • @Brianmelso
    @Brianmelso 4 года назад +4

    I'm an 'old' punk rocker from NJ. Played in bands and with bands my entire high school and college years. This band reminds me of those days. Fantastic nostalgia and a fantastic band.

  • @xVR30TTx
    @xVR30TTx 7 лет назад +148

    I've watched this over 30 times and well I can't get over the song and music video, best music video I've seen in years.

  • @jesperlust
    @jesperlust 7 лет назад +32

    kyle thrash music videos are always the fucking best. especially when they're for amazing bands like the menzingers, holy shit!

    • @_ethanmc
      @_ethanmc 7 лет назад +2

      Wouldn't be surprised if he ended up like Spike Jonze and was successful in feature films, his sense of narrative is incredible without dialogue and his visual style is really unique.

    • @UndercoverRat
      @UndercoverRat 7 лет назад

      Hey buddy, I just posted a new song on my channel. It would be great if you reviewed it!

    • @tito1049
      @tito1049 7 лет назад +1

      He has directed all video of modern baseball, he is amazing. Great music videos.

  • @sarahsatan123
    @sarahsatan123 2 года назад +47

    It's the little things my mind commits
    To etch behind my eyelids
    Like getting stoned when we wake up
    Coffee grounds and coffee cups
    Your silhouette in high top sneakers
    And hardcore from laptop speakers
    The classics to the more obscure
    From Minor Threat to your old roommate's band
    Like a kaleidoscope in vibrant hues
    I navigate around your tattoos
    Said you got that one on a whim when you were breaking up with him
    And that Matryoshka Russian doll
    That lines your shelf from big to small
    What a way to start anew
    To shed your skin and find the old you
    Everybody wants to get famous
    But you just want to dance in a basement
    You don't care if anyone is watching
    Just as long as you stay in motion
    We put miles on these old jean jackets
    Got caught up in the drunk conversations
    But after the party, it's me and you
    After the party, it's me and you
    With a new outlook on everything we see
    From high upon this rooftop over South Philly
    To the nights we lose our self control
    From the sex, from the drugs, from the rock and roll
    Everybody wants to get famous
    But you just want to dance in a basement
    You don't care if anyone is watching
    Just as long as you stay in motion
    We put miles on these old jean jackets
    Got caught up in the drunk conversations
    But after the party, it's me and you
    After the party, it's me and you
    After the party, it's me and you
    After the party, it's me and you

    • @franklinjedquantious1008
      @franklinjedquantious1008 Год назад

      By you reciting the lyrics you make me feel as though you were the inspiration behind this song however music is art, and art is a reflection of society at the current time it's created so, why did you put all of the lyrics on here?

    • @shottingham
      @shottingham Год назад +1

      fuck. just seeing the lyrics after seeing them, still hits just as hard. thank you.

    • @sarahsatan123
      @sarahsatan123 Год назад

      @@shottingham yeah!

  • @blinkMATIC
    @blinkMATIC 7 лет назад +90

    first time in years a music video has made me feel something. This one touched my soul, it was a throwback to everything my current relationship has gone through in these 4 years I've been in it. Beautiful, and it adds extra meaning to the song, which is not an easy thing to do. Congrats, guys.

    • @mrsd8401
      @mrsd8401 7 лет назад +1

      blinkMATIC same here. Astonishingly touching video

  • @trentthomas9306
    @trentthomas9306 6 лет назад +499

    The scenes 1:29 and 2:35 Both describe how "You don't care if anyone is watching" can blatantly mean two different things. You don't care if anyone watches us have sex, or fight.
    Whoever directed this, you're a god damn talented dude

    • @BenDover-vl8xp
      @BenDover-vl8xp 4 года назад +12

      Trent Thomas Kyle Thrash, he's the man. Check out his video Vomit for Microwave

    • @robjgolde3221
      @robjgolde3221 3 года назад +3

      Check out his video for Every Time I Die’s song “Map Change”. Absolutely amazing

    • @leonardjones6167
      @leonardjones6167 3 года назад

      @@robjgolde3221 Not surprising it's the Map Change dude. Same vibe.

    • @amccoy6055
      @amccoy6055 2 года назад +3

      Sorority Noise - No Halo, another Kyle Thrash masterpiece.
      I’m pretty sure that he did “I don’t wanna be an asshole anymore” as well.
      Modern Baseball - Your Graduation is another good one from him.

    • @leonardjones6167
      @leonardjones6167 2 года назад +1

      @@amccoy6055 Fuck what a resume, No Halo is amazing too.

  • @arthuroliveira4326
    @arthuroliveira4326 3 года назад +7

    This is the first music video in years that made me feel something special. Not good, not bad, but something different. What a masterpiece.

  • @tazmon122
    @tazmon122 6 лет назад +8

    at one point in my life, this was so exact. i don't feel nostalgia, i feel dread that i won't go back...not from lack of trying, but from the bridges that faded away as everyone else grew up.

  • @niccal319
    @niccal319 7 лет назад +68

    Hands down best song off the album, maybe simply just their best song.

    • @VanemanaAMVs
      @VanemanaAMVs 7 лет назад +2

      Nic Calvaresi On the album, probably, I do love Your Wild Years. Ever... Sunday Morning or Mexican Guitars in my opinion. But thats just me.

    • @idkofany
      @idkofany 2 года назад

      I agree. Best song by the band

    • @Lampshadeattack
      @Lampshadeattack 2 года назад

      what is so good about it???

    • @r.gbogle2511
      @r.gbogle2511 2 года назад

      Amazing song
      The obituaries is thier best, however.
      At least imho.
      Still groovy af tho

  • @mikehoben7341
    @mikehoben7341 Год назад +6

    This is my favorite song in the last 10 years

  • @turbo2763
    @turbo2763 2 года назад +5

    To my old friend Mac, I hope you still get to dance in a basement here and there. Thanks for being a friend and an example. Love you man.

  • @mikegreen3057
    @mikegreen3057 7 лет назад +20

    This looks like a season recap for Shameless. I dig it.

  • @godlesscommie1154
    @godlesscommie1154 5 лет назад +42

    I love and relate so much to the story this song/video tells. Ive been in a couple of these amazingly disfunctional/codependent relationships. They are paradoxical in that from my experience the passion and companionship experienced compared to that of which most would call a "healthy" relationship is greatly unsurpassed. The inseperable attraction, the sex, comradery, usually drugs, reckless devotion, and what i call the "Bonnie and Clyde" or "Sid and Nancy" mentality are what make these relationships so intensely devoted yet highly destructive. For me memories of this type of relationship comprise equally the best and worst memories of my life. I think what happens is a rare phenomena when two rebel kindred spirits discover, come to understand and identify each others true nature. While this sounds ideal for any relationship the issue is the "rebel" side of their nature (for lack of a better word, character flaw would be innacurate of what im describing). These are characteristics and behaviors that when paired with another spirit with its own unique characteristic/behaviors tend to ideally balance each other out.
    When the two aforementioned "kindred rebel spirits" meet these potentially damaging characteristics are embraced, brought to the forefront and exacerbated. Again, from my experience these two souls form a perfect storm of unflinching loyalty, unhealthy infatuation, lovedrunkeness, the melting of each of their individual needs and identities and more often than not at the very least borderline substance abuse tendencies. The merger described above often devolves from an intense unparalleled bond/romance to a codependent, drug riddled embodiment of chaos and debauchery. The end of which usually for me signaled a trip to rehab, a requisite changing of phone number/address and emotional scars which usually take me a couple years to move past. Dont get me wrong. Im not entirely denouncing this type of relationship. As i said before the love and connection i felt in these relationships is still to this very day incomparable and unmatched. I wouldnt trade that experience of having felt so intensely about and forging an unbreakable bond with another person for anything. Was it highly unhealthy behavior that ultimately ended in an equally intensive chaotic heartbroken dischord? Absolutely but experiencing this vast, complex range of feelings/emotions concurrently with someone else is what comprises the best parts of being human. Of course the destructive nature and woes that follow would comprise the other nature of being human. You either get burned by the fiery passion, learn from it and move on/heal or it consumes you and a departure in a fiery blaze of debauched, codependent glory is inevitable. I have personally experienced two such relationships. One sent me down a dark path where once passion and burning love reigned but were replaced by vengeful anger and spiteful indignation. I didnt understand what the saying "a thin line between love and hate" really meant until embarking on that darkest of journeys. The second aforedescribed scenario culminated in a trip to rehab followed by a still to this day ongoing process of self rediscovery and emotional healing. Sorry for the longwinded sappy verbal diarrhea, but seeing this video dredged up intentionally buried feelings. I felt it necessary for cathartic ends to tell my story of life,love,sex,violence and heroin as I relate it to this song/video.
    I would love to hear similar stories from others. When im feeling robotic from the work/eat/playiflucky/sleep cycle i watch this video and take a stroll down debauched memory lane to remind me im still human and was fortunate to know the absolute best and the infernally worse the human experience has to offer. #noregrets #theanarchyandtheecstacy # lovemolotovsandrevolution

    • @Nishinga.
      @Nishinga. 4 года назад +4

      Dude.....thank you so much for this, it was beautifully written and I could relate to every single part of it. I hope you're still sober and doing well! (former opiate addict myself)

    • @secretaryofoffense7118
      @secretaryofoffense7118 Год назад

      Man you described my world from 2015-2021 like nothing ive heard another person say before. It was every extreme of the human experience and i wouldnt ever undo it. Im thankful for these feelings, the experience, the pain even. These relationships are only comparable to addiction. The highs are an ecstasy, someone who sees you wholeheartedly as if it were written in the stars for you to join. The lows are hell, crushing and suffocating, and desperate for the high to return. The highs have left me with this void craving, and the darkest times have fucked me up like nothing ever could. Such a paradox of love and hate, trust and deception, compassion and cruelty. Its something years later i struggle to make sense out of. I focus on healthy bonds and stability, and attempt to ignore and bury the visceral memory of the emotions. But as it turns out, i come back to songs like this and the little devil in my brain likes to drag the waters and surface them. Wish you continued healing man.

  • @schmidt897
    @schmidt897 7 лет назад +22

    I'm sure half the people watching this video had already imagined most of it while listening to the song. So good. Gave me chills!

  • @raythesports1
    @raythesports1 5 лет назад +235

    My marriage has been falling apart for a long time and every scene of this video feels like a biography. It hurts but it’s beautiful

  • @Grindtesque
    @Grindtesque 7 лет назад +235

    I wish all music videos were made by Kyle Thrash.

    • @Caleffi
      @Caleffi 6 лет назад +2

      I was about to write this! This guy is fucking awesome!

    • @spencercowan8862
      @spencercowan8862 5 лет назад

      Grindtesque AND Michael Parks Randa.

    • @Meg-Jagger
      @Meg-Jagger 3 года назад

      Who is Kyle thrash

    • @uriel.campoya
      @uriel.campoya 3 года назад +1

      @@Meg-Jagger The director of this video. He has also directed videos for Modern Baseball, Sorority Noise, Neck Deep, and other great bands.

  • @ItsOKtobeNormal
    @ItsOKtobeNormal 3 месяца назад +2

    This is my song for my husband, we had a lot of parties back in the day but it was always just us the morning after. This music video was my late teens/early twenties, honestly didn't know if we'd make it out alive..

  • @pushon10
    @pushon10 4 месяца назад +3

    What a beautiful love song.

  • @martincamprubi7179
    @martincamprubi7179 6 лет назад +6

    Saw them with PUP and Cayetana on their European Tour! I just wanted to see PUP but was suprised by how good this band is. One of the best concerts iv'e been to and amazing line up

  • @daxsheepard9344
    @daxsheepard9344 Год назад +2

    Like peering into the last 7 years of my life. Goodbye, old kid.
    Time for lots of growth, alone.
    And sober.

  • @miniboy14
    @miniboy14 6 лет назад +33

    This video reminds me of the series Skins. The parties, drugs, alcohol, romance, struggle,... I love it

    • @AnonURnot
      @AnonURnot 5 лет назад +5

      London Bullet Official I fucking love skins (the uk version)

  • @nick42085
    @nick42085 5 лет назад +4

    This song is so amazing. Theres an undoubtable melancholy yet a sense of happiness in chaos. Beyond happy I was introduced to this.

  • @robjgolde3221
    @robjgolde3221 7 лет назад +14

    Incredible video all around, but imo the best shot is when the 2nd chorus comes in when the lead actress leans down to scream into the camera then it jumps to her lifting her head up off of the bar. Amazing stuff.

  • @danielhall4340
    @danielhall4340 4 месяца назад +5

    I think this is my favorite music video.

  • @samandaaguinaga3084
    @samandaaguinaga3084 Год назад +2

    GONNA SEE THESE GUYS AGAIN!!!! WOOOOOO!!!

  • @allendzedzy8565
    @allendzedzy8565 4 года назад +16

    This band is New Found Glory for 90's kids that are almost 30 now.

    • @harrygoldsmith6792
      @harrygoldsmith6792 3 года назад

      Well said, I’ve always described them as if Bruce Springsteen grew up listening to The Clash.

    • @kranix5244
      @kranix5244 3 года назад

      Both the comment and the reply are spot fucking on

    • @ianckoerner
      @ianckoerner 2 года назад

      Damn that is exactly what I thought when I heard this song haha.

  • @GaryEmmetteChandlerPlus
    @GaryEmmetteChandlerPlus 3 года назад +6

    I don't think any pair of music and video will ever surpass this.

  • @phillandwehr4140
    @phillandwehr4140 4 года назад +3

    Man. This song fucking jams. The second I watch the video, it completely changes the vibe. Fine line between head banging and crying.

  • @stanisluaskatzcinski9956
    @stanisluaskatzcinski9956 7 лет назад +6

    This video used to make me miss my ex; I recently realized how nice stability and comfort are.

  • @neilmontenegro2752
    @neilmontenegro2752 4 года назад +2

    To the guy who directed this MV, you should be proud man. We're proud of you.

  • @fallingsky219
    @fallingsky219 2 года назад +9

    One of the most underrated bands in the history of everything

  • @aliciamaciel205
    @aliciamaciel205 7 лет назад +14

    One of the most relatable, heart wrenching songs AND videos I've listened to and have seen in forever. Thanks guys!

    • @Lampshadeattack
      @Lampshadeattack 2 года назад

      you have awful taste. i’m embarrassed for you.

  • @cool_mule
    @cool_mule Год назад +9

    The quick part at 2:15 where she looks at the food being made, instead of her boyfriend, felt so real. Looking at anything else to avoid what's in front of you, is such a big part of destructive relationships. The direction for this video was amazing.

  • @zacman37
    @zacman37 Месяц назад +1

    The more I listen to this song the more it hits home to life

  • @redridinghood871
    @redridinghood871 7 лет назад +19

    Boyfriend sent this to me one day while we were fighting. Probably one of my favorite songs now, reminded me that in the grand scheme there are more important things to worry about then the little stuff. (More music videos for this album pls!)

  • @Curtis.Carpenter
    @Curtis.Carpenter 6 лет назад +47

    99% of people watching this are thinking of someone’s they miss more then they’d like to admit.

    • @mattneff7420
      @mattneff7420 3 года назад +1

      Hey
      Shut
      Up
      You
      Right

    • @jasonsenior5601
      @jasonsenior5601 2 года назад +1

      Nail on the head, man.

    • @LowlifeC10
      @LowlifeC10 2 года назад +1

      Id appreciate it if you didn't call me out like that

  • @mati.vilchez
    @mati.vilchez 4 года назад +3

    My favourite "love song". And "Strangers Forever" is my favourite "break-up song".

  • @tazmon122
    @tazmon122 5 лет назад +76

    i don't think i can ever hear this song without crying. what i've lost. what is gone.
    it's ok she didn't stay. she just left a lot of scars that will never heal.
    it's ok my friends moved back home. the cops still barge into our old haunts on noise complaints no one made.
    the only regret is that i let it all go to my head.

  • @anthonyowen8800
    @anthonyowen8800 3 года назад +3

    Why have I only just found these guys on my pop punk travels... rocking 🤘

  • @paddiecorley1108
    @paddiecorley1108 7 лет назад +4

    This is like a trailer for a Netflix series with a dope soundtrack. Man I'd watch the fuck out of that

  • @tobyr5627
    @tobyr5627 4 года назад +53

    I get it. We were young. I was 21, she was 19. It was absolute CHAOS. But within that chaos, was something absolutely fucking beautiful.

  • @renesanchez53
    @renesanchez53 Год назад +13

    saw them last week, this song hit so hard live!

    • @Maggles69
      @Maggles69 Год назад

      Thats so awesome! I am going to see them in Cinci on the 6th next month. Im glad to see they are feeling better again. They got sick and had to reschedule the Cincinatti show

  • @yairfarias7489
    @yairfarias7489 7 лет назад +50

    Well. shit.
    I was right, the whole album is fucking amazing.

  • @AlwaysBubblin
    @AlwaysBubblin 6 лет назад +3

    These guys are both amazing actors.

  • @charlieashman9560
    @charlieashman9560 3 года назад +1

    Always keep coming back to this song..moving on sux wish the party was over already.

  • @xLazarusEnvy
    @xLazarusEnvy 5 лет назад +2

    Never watched such a fitting and absolutely beautiful video to go with hearing the song for the first time.

  • @killerstaplegun
    @killerstaplegun Год назад +4

    This song has been hitting me tough recently...
    I've been with my partner for 14 years, and we both have separate lives and other relationships. We've been through so much together, and no matter what happens, we are still ride or die for each other. Its such a special feeling.
    After the party, it's me and you....

  • @claytonhenson7332
    @claytonhenson7332 4 года назад +30

    Late 2019? Anyone else on this masterpiece?

    • @vanstrife5803
      @vanstrife5803 4 года назад +4

      2020 here and i can never get enough

  • @bleachcheeks4837
    @bleachcheeks4837 3 года назад +2

    Went thru a break up 2 years ago with my longest relationship. Made me start playing music and skating again. Hearing it now reminds me why i started again

  • @coryrediron3608
    @coryrediron3608 2 года назад +2

    I lost my best friend this summer. This was our favourite song. Cherish your loved ones.

  • @julienlacrosse7898
    @julienlacrosse7898 4 года назад +3

    Its so shitty that the loves like this we experience usually end up backfiring on us in the worst way. Thanks Menzingers for writing this song

  • @plaidchuck
    @plaidchuck 4 года назад +3

    Lived this when we had a shitty one bedroom apartment. Nothing matters when you have each other.

  • @darrenbolanos8432
    @darrenbolanos8432 3 года назад +2

    I listen to this song every time I miss her and I can't help crying inside, I light a cigarette and just look at the night sky knowing as the only consolation that the Lord at some point will let me be back in his arms and she in mine. ..
    It's so hard...

  • @arthurpereira5939
    @arthurpereira5939 3 года назад +2

    For those whos feelin so emotional about that incredible music vídeo, lifes just an adventure wich no one gets out alive. Keep that in your mind, do what you want to do, be kind to people, win money, be free, stop feeling guilty, listen to those songs, chill. I wish the BEST to ALL of you.

  • @chrisdoan1653
    @chrisdoan1653 3 года назад +3

    I wish I found The Menzingers early in my younger years !!!! You guys Rock , keep it up . Thanks for great tunes

  • @PunkRockZombie205
    @PunkRockZombie205 6 лет назад +3

    Just discovered this band, and I gotta say it's growing on me. It's got a hot water music kinda sound to it

  • @MatCo774
    @MatCo774 2 года назад +2

    This video is an ode for allworking class couples 🖤

  • @claytonhenson7332
    @claytonhenson7332 3 месяца назад +1

    Im growing up with this song. I have it tattoed on my leg. This song has been my everything for years. Why cant we all live in music videos?

  • @priscillam4392
    @priscillam4392 4 года назад +6

    this makes me miss not having a care in the world and just having reckless fun with friends

  • @xscarlet7
    @xscarlet7 7 лет назад +8

    Wow! They won me over. I'm a fan

  • @ogmc88
    @ogmc88 10 дней назад

    sitting in my room crying, how are y'all doing

  • @ADucksOpinion
    @ADucksOpinion 6 лет назад +1

    Album of the year. Song of the year. Video of the year. Band of the year

  • @arlynmaas4094
    @arlynmaas4094 5 лет назад +3

    This song makes my heart hurt in a good way. Perfect.

  • @aus-li
    @aus-li 7 лет назад +5

    This is amazing, gotta say. Also, the video/story reminds me of Shameless.

  • @nmpete3365
    @nmpete3365 4 года назад +1

    Kyle thrash is the king of making bad ass punk music videos

  • @mikeyfn-a6684
    @mikeyfn-a6684 4 года назад +2

    The partys long been over and we're STILL together..damn havin a soulmate is crazy! Seriously I shouldn't even be here but she helped bring me back three (3) times! I wouldn't change a thing..well maybe 1 er 2 things but thats it!

  • @brownpunk1794
    @brownpunk1794 5 лет назад +3

    cant begin to describe how amazing this song is,possibly this will go down as their best track (IMO) and for once its so nice to see a video that matches the song.I love how it tells a
    story of
    love,loss,hardship....ah I better stop now....too many teenage memories flooding back,cheers!

  • @seamuslynch7483
    @seamuslynch7483 7 лет назад +25

    I would be lying if i said this didn't make my day

  • @theo.g.441
    @theo.g.441 3 года назад +1

    This reminds me of the hundreds of rock shows I went to.... Vans warped tour was always insane!!!

  • @bryano52
    @bryano52 7 лет назад +3

    Kyle Thrash makes me believe in music videos again.

  • @sXewriter1
    @sXewriter1 7 лет назад +2

    Goddamn, Menzingers. I've definitely been there.

  • @Not_Sal
    @Not_Sal 9 месяцев назад +1

    One of my favorite songs and music videos of all time

  • @jammywalter0713
    @jammywalter0713 7 лет назад +2

    I had a lump in my throat watching this - so so good!

  • @truwarrior024
    @truwarrior024 7 лет назад +4

    dead on though with the picture painted in my head when i first heard this song....love it can't wait for vegas

  • @chaseallsup10
    @chaseallsup10 5 лет назад +58

    The fact that this song is not in the billboard top 10 proves the world knows nothing about quality music anymore

  • @theoneandonlynipnip
    @theoneandonlynipnip 25 дней назад

    This song is very much me n her. I hate myself half the time but with her I don’t hate myself alone

  • @davidmanetijr3925
    @davidmanetijr3925 3 года назад +2

    Hit me in the heart. I know how this feels and it sucks. Amazing song

  • @jacobhenry3759
    @jacobhenry3759 7 лет назад +5

    Kyle thrash is such a fucking legend