Will you be a winner or a loser in the Philippines,? Leave your negatively at home

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
    @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 6 месяцев назад +14

    You come here for a change, don't complain because you got what you came for, roll with it and enjoy the ride

    • @peterjacobus7578
      @peterjacobus7578 6 месяцев назад +1

      Good common sense Paul.

    • @jerrymarshall2728
      @jerrymarshall2728 6 месяцев назад

      You say this all of the time, Paul. Good advice! In fact, I’m going to work harder to say less negative things, and accentuate the positives.
      Being away from my Wife and HOME, really brings out how much I miss the Philippines! 😢🇵🇭🌴
      Hopefully, within 6 weeks I’ll be on my final flight back HOME? 🤞🇵🇭🌴❤️

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines 6 месяцев назад

      Well said, Paul

  • @jimmyB52
    @jimmyB52 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hey Monty, “No Worries Just, Be Happy”

  • @Rusty1972
    @Rusty1972 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great advice Monty. Always some good advice here. Please take care.

  • @Neal-1958
    @Neal-1958 6 месяцев назад +4

    Great to hear from you Monty! I totally agree with what you said. We are guests there. Act right and be thankful for the life you have there. Keep up the great work. Look forward to hearing from you soon.

  • @jamesdunn922
    @jamesdunn922 6 месяцев назад +7

    I 100% agree with you leave the politics alone, it never ends well.

  • @tedrobertson1344
    @tedrobertson1344 6 месяцев назад +2

    Monty, good advice and more than one
    I agree, going by this mantra I feel free and relaxed.
    Greetings to you All ❤🎉

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you very much for watching Ted. I hope all is well in your world, brother.

  • @davidkight244
    @davidkight244 6 месяцев назад +3

    Hello Monte,Glad to see you back at giving us vlogs.Thats great advice.Hope l get to meet you soon.Take care of yourself.

  • @davidevans474
    @davidevans474 6 месяцев назад +2

    Patients is the key here and be happy or go back . Good video Monty 😊

  • @nt6719
    @nt6719 6 месяцев назад +6

    I'm glad to see you doing another video so soon. Have a great day!

  • @donwutzlakesideadventures
    @donwutzlakesideadventures 6 месяцев назад +8

    Hi Mr Crew i spent the month of February in the Philippines i didn't know if i could get used to the Traffic when I rented a scooter it was the most fun i ever had driving. You are so correct about the political b.s. i want to here about peoples lives not their opinions

  • @joejamison8876
    @joejamison8876 6 месяцев назад +1

    I tell you Monty-great to see how much healthier you are now-You are a good man, I relate to so many of your thoughts of life and there is no easy solution to this human condition but cool that you have a beautiful daughter in your life and you are showing and telling what is important in this life!

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад +1

      I appreciate that Joe. I’m a very happy man. That’s for sure. 💛

  • @noahcount7132
    @noahcount7132 6 месяцев назад +3

    Let's hope that those who would benefit most from this advice, will hear it and heed it. Thanks, Monty. 👍

  • @kimojames808
    @kimojames808 6 месяцев назад +5

    Patience is a virtue. Not everyone has it and it has to be learned, sometimes in a hard way.

  • @castiodette
    @castiodette 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for choosing Philippines as your home. God bless you sir and your family.

  • @anthonylopez-hr6dw
    @anthonylopez-hr6dw 6 месяцев назад +3

    Good advice. I tell everyone think positive, don’t associate with Negative people , it will take u down. When I joined military first thing told Don’t talk politics an Religion lose friends. Happy for u Take care.

  • @norlynbello492
    @norlynbello492 2 месяца назад +1

    good wisdom and love watching your vlog, no apprehensions all with 100% honesty, this is the reason why people are watching you Monty... More blessings on your way 🙏

  • @Billy_B_Goat
    @Billy_B_Goat 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Monty, glad to see you doing so good. You gave plenty of good advice.... we should all embrace moving to the Philippines as an "opportunity" to not give a poop about all the non-sense left behind. Keep up the good work, and enjoy your time best you can. Peace and Love, B Goat

  • @nottelling620
    @nottelling620 6 месяцев назад +2

    HI MONTY . So glad to see you in another video.
    You give good solid advice and hope you keep at these videos.
    I make comments , dumb or otherwise to hope me and others help support your channel.
    BTW , To see your daughter and wife when she does these videos , brings back memories of my first marriage and our child.
    The JOY of a child saying I LOVE YOU DADDY is a gft from GOD .
    GOD BLESS CIAO

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much 😊 and yes having a child say I love you daddy can melt your heart ❤️

  • @liquidationkingla5706
    @liquidationkingla5706 6 месяцев назад +3

    Sir, you are talking a whole lot of Wisdom!!!

  • @GlennHiggins
    @GlennHiggins 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Monty.
    Mate it's with great pleasure to listen to your thoughts on this topic, couldnt agree more.
    I think as a lonely person coming to the PI, they should just take a few months break there, get the feel for the country, see if you like and or can't cope.
    Go home, recess, then my the big decision.
    I believe going all in, especially if you never been there, certain things may get on your nerves.
    My opinion Monty, appreciate the vid, cheers

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад +1

      That’s very good advice, Glenn. thank you very much for watching brother

    • @GlennHiggins
      @GlennHiggins 6 месяцев назад

      @@crewfamilyphilippines welcome

  • @loneranger668
    @loneranger668 6 месяцев назад +2

    I feel you hit the nail on the head as far as visiting another country. You are a guest of said country so act like one!

  • @Davirdcarrol
    @Davirdcarrol 6 месяцев назад +5

    I agree with you are in a another man country Monty you cnt complain about traffic the brown outs the smells basically anything you have to have patience one thing I learn from the Philippines is that they are family orientated and if you get a good flipina keep her I have learned so much from a lot of RUclipsrs in Philippines again Monty I so are in agreement with you

  • @SophiaLim-tt8we
    @SophiaLim-tt8we 6 месяцев назад +2

    I totally agreed with what you said. Life is short so enjoy whenever you can. We have to live our life to the fullest. Be happy.

  • @carlosrabassa2229
    @carlosrabassa2229 6 месяцев назад +3

    Just go with the flow don't stress about it just be happy enjoy your life 😊

  • @ragjamrock
    @ragjamrock 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm in Florida for 38 yrs now and it would be hard to give up this great weather and move north. I wish we had mountains like the Philippines. I'm glad you're at peace moving to the Philippines and starting a new life. I hope to one day get there and shake your hand.👍🌴

  • @Gospel-of-Geoff
    @Gospel-of-Geoff 6 месяцев назад +1

    Monty.... Just can't reconcile myself to the age difference. But I must say that you have done it with your heart. Always relevant information, not condescending teaching, and then you don't have to wear a hat to get more views. I tip my Panama hat to you. My bad Monty....

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah, I definitely don’t need a Panama hat to do it 🤣 I used to like to wear them but recently because of a certain person I no longer care for them. Thank you so much for always watching and commenting It’s very much appreciated.

  • @ciprianbolah5999
    @ciprianbolah5999 6 месяцев назад +2

    I do the same thing Monty, when I am in the Philippines I learned let my wife do the talking. I remember on my first visit when we took a taxi from the hotel to the airport in Manila and the taxi broke down half-way but the driver was insisting that he be given 200 pesos which my wife calmly gave to him. When I asked why did she give him money seeing that he did not get us to our destination she said to me, 200 pesos is a small price to pay to avoid an argument in this place which we are not familiar with. I recognized her wisdom and commended her.

  • @walkerskii
    @walkerskii 6 месяцев назад +2

    Women want Financial Security, whether they are Filipina or American, the difference is, does she truly love you, will she be loyal to stick with you, even when times get tough? From my personal experience & observations of girls in the USA, sadly most would be more likely to upgrade to a wealthier man, while Filipinas are more likely to be loyal to their man. The people of Philippines have better family values than people from the USA. I'm glad you found a quality lady Monty!

  • @paulducharme4237
    @paulducharme4237 6 месяцев назад

    It's hard to be humble when you're perfect in every way 😂😂😂😂

  • @emilywilliams5362
    @emilywilliams5362 6 месяцев назад

    More power to you and your marriage Monty!! God bless you.

  • @user-sh8nz5sm5j
    @user-sh8nz5sm5j 6 месяцев назад +1

    What a wonderful video!! ❤ Take care my friend

  • @bhilbert11
    @bhilbert11 6 месяцев назад +1

    It all starts with faith that the Lord wants good for you. In 2012 I went through a terrible divorce which left me broken and deep in debt. Today I have a wonderful wife from the Philippines , great career, and solid finances. So many guys let the setback be the defining aspect of their lives. A wise preacher told me FIDO. Forget It and Drive On!

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад

      Amen Bryan. Great advice.. I’m glad you found a wonderful lady. 😊

  • @mikesimpson9997
    @mikesimpson9997 6 месяцев назад +2

    Good topic good to see you well too

  • @FilAmSerlCoupleVlog
    @FilAmSerlCoupleVlog 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great video sharing the story experienced.

  • @Zachb93
    @Zachb93 6 месяцев назад +1

    I think this is the best video I've seen on RUclips

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад

      That’s very kind of you, Zachary. Thank you very much for watching 💛

  • @jerrymarshall2728
    @jerrymarshall2728 6 месяцев назад +1

    Spot on, Monty! I’ve done my best to not discuss U.S. OR Philippine politics! It won’t do any good, and might just alienate a potential good friend 😢
    I’ve whined about Metro Manila traffic, too much on my videos. But I’ve turned a new leaf, and plan to say more about the positives of the Philippines! 🌴
    It took leaving there 10 days ago (liquidation going on in the States!) to realize just how good things were, overall, to forget about some of the inconveniences of living there. Hopefully, within 6-8 weeks I’ll get everything sold, and get back HOME! 🙏🇵🇭🌴

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад

      Yeah, Jerry, I did the same thing I was able to go back and sell everything within a month and head back to the Philippines 😊

  • @papawsplace
    @papawsplace 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice Mr. Monty.

  • @KevinVanRooyen-ik1pr
    @KevinVanRooyen-ik1pr 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice Monty, thanks again and very much appreciated 😊

  • @rickbold9337
    @rickbold9337 6 месяцев назад +2

    It is hard to not be effected by the changes and frustrations of living in the Philippines when you’re used to having things work a certain way but you are 100% right that you have to get over it. Politics in the USA are so toxic and divide people too much. The reason I’m retiring to the Philippines is to get away from talking about all that crap that you can’t do anything about anyways.

  • @jspice-kl2wc
    @jspice-kl2wc 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great video and a lot of great advice, thank you.

  • @bayoumanbryan
    @bayoumanbryan 6 месяцев назад +1

    Good to have another vlog so soon. i see that youre back in the tampo house. oh well ive had to do that many, many times. i used to work offshore on the oil platforms. i was out for at least 15 days at a time and i got home and my wife said why did you even come home? i hate you. i wish you were back at work. so i disappeared lol. about 3 or 4 days she finally found me back at work. it was sad to rather be on a small steel island in the Louisiana marsh instead of at home but i had respect there and had good food, could go fishing and boat riding and made real good money. we divorced eventually and i went thru 2 more in short order but now i have a Filipina for 13+ years and a much better wife and peace in my home.

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад

      That’s completely awesome. I am very much enjoying my new chapter of life.

  • @Ken-pl3xu
    @Ken-pl3xu 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for the video Monty, very thought provoking.

  • @michaelcrews2229
    @michaelcrews2229 5 месяцев назад +1

    You truly are well experienced and well traveled big brother I enjoy your stories

  • @geoffdevore6321
    @geoffdevore6321 6 месяцев назад +2

    Monty, great video!!
    Your right about a lot of women in America. They want to know how much you make, how much money is your bank, etc.....
    You hit the jackpot with your Filipino wife!
    Take care!!

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you Geoff I have to agree that I found a good one 💛

    • @garrylafferty100
      @garrylafferty100 6 месяцев назад

      Many filipina are about money no money no honey like u.s

    • @walkerskii
      @walkerskii 6 месяцев назад

      But Geoff, what is the difference, Monty's talking about his $ support of his wife (& daughter) giving her the ability to travel? How is that any different from $ support & travel for a western woman? (Other than she wouldn't be 25 & thin, she'd be 55 & chunky in the West!)

    • @geoffdevore6321
      @geoffdevore6321 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@walkerskii
      That's funny, 55 and chunky!😅😅
      I see your point!
      I've been to Japan, South Korea and Panama. It just seems like the people I met there were more down to earth than many Americans are today. They were more interested in the person themselves, than how much money was in their bank account or how much money you earn.
      Anyways, that just my perception.

  • @lukelucas68
    @lukelucas68 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you, Monty! Great stuff!

  • @michaelcrews2229
    @michaelcrews2229 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @nevergiveup-db6fp
    @nevergiveup-db6fp 6 месяцев назад +1

    Dude, are you in the studio that you got with Paul? I’m wishing you guys good luck.

  • @emilywilliams5362
    @emilywilliams5362 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for your wisdom🤨

  • @ericsolkamans-kj2fd
    @ericsolkamans-kj2fd 6 месяцев назад +1

    You always get a thumbs up from me. 👍🏼
    🔻🙏

  • @paulmcpartland4601
    @paulmcpartland4601 6 месяцев назад +1

    👍🙏 Amen brother

  • @ragnartvedt5991
    @ragnartvedt5991 6 месяцев назад +1

    There is one thing I can't understand...The phillipines is interested in the money that foreigners can spend in the country but the foreigners isn't allowed to have a say in anything regarding the politics in the phillipines ...That is not fair in my opinion...I believe everyone has the right to have a opinion and to speak their opinion...Here in my country(Norway) foreigners have the right to say what they want politically...Of course they can't vote until they have become a citizen but no one is denying them to speak their mind ...

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад +1

      Yes same in America every one is free to express their opinions

    • @ragnartvedt5991
      @ragnartvedt5991 6 месяцев назад

      @@crewfamilyphilippines Great video by the way ☺️☺️

  • @patd4u2
    @patd4u2 6 месяцев назад +1

    A lot of the ex-pats will always bring their issues with them.
    Any update on the situation where the family and friends are coming to your house to eat every day?

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад +1

      Yes Pat we had a family meeting and everybody that is not an immediate family cannot eat here. A gentleman did send us enough to buy 150 kilos of rice and 300 eggs to feed the local kids breakfast

    • @patd4u2
      @patd4u2 6 месяцев назад

      @@crewfamilyphilippines that is wonderful news, a very kind gentleman to send you that money for rice and eggs.
      That would get on my nerves for sure people showing up eating all my food. One thing being generous, but then another being taken advantage of. Glad you sorted it out.
      One less thing to stress you out.

  • @dougsphilippinejourney1118
    @dougsphilippinejourney1118 6 месяцев назад +1

    When I was over in Leyte visiting my Filipina before I retire, the most uncomfortable I felt was around other foreigners. Why complain about the Philippines not being like your country. Go back I would think.

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад

      That’s what I always preach. It’s not for everybody over here.

    • @dougsphilippinejourney1118
      @dougsphilippinejourney1118 6 месяцев назад

      @@crewfamilyphilippines I was only there for a month, but by the end of that month I was calmer and happier than I have been for a LONG time.

  • @MitchC357
    @MitchC357 6 месяцев назад +1

    What if a person is not married or even married and dies in the Philippines. How does their body get back to the USA? I heard they bury you in Phil but dig you up several years later.

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад +1

      Mitch my uneducated guess is that they’re not bringing you back to the states unless somebody’s paying

  • @garrylafferty100
    @garrylafferty100 6 месяцев назад +1

    In immigration process you go threw required class CFO philippines government tell immigrant dont compare your country to u. s that will only cause fighting it the same living in philippines dont do that their no comparison i am moving to philippines because of cost of living happy wife happy life

  • @marriedtoafilipinachannel
    @marriedtoafilipinachannel 6 месяцев назад +2

    Happiness is a choice, why live in negativity? I unfollow every person whom needs to post political posts on Facebook. I had enough. People ruining family ties and friendships for a politician or a party? Fools I don't need to know.

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  6 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly Roy 💛

    • @garrylafferty100
      @garrylafferty100 6 месяцев назад

      Many expats dont talk politics but they drop hints which side their on in u.s politics

  • @BobbyRigdon-xt8yi
    @BobbyRigdon-xt8yi 6 месяцев назад +3

    Nothing good ever comes out of talking politics

  • @FlipElliott2
    @FlipElliott2 Месяц назад

    95/101

  • @johntoscano2342
    @johntoscano2342 6 месяцев назад +1

    👍👍👍👍👍🙈

  • @KB3TLE
    @KB3TLE 6 месяцев назад +2

    Good ideas ! -- -- "Live long and prosper." -- Enjoy the tranquility and the peaceful welcoming environment ! > Looking to enjoy the Philippines this fall - coming from the US and retired already. Alone..... but looking to enjoy my last years in warm weather with good food cheap rent & friendly people - both locals and expats ! Can't get that in the US ? -- Thanks Monty !!! 🤗