Why High Value Men Love Golddiggers
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Well..rich and successful men mostly don't even try to find average looking, loyal women. They want women for their ego. They don't need a cook..they hire it. They don't need a nursing woman, they hire a nanny, they don't need housewife, they pay somebody else to clean and maintain their property. So, the only thing they "need" is somebody for pumping up their ego. No victims in that game. Both sides know very well what they do and what they want. I also think that neither between average women and males the victim side exists, in general. We can talk only about individual cases. Men are triggered with s3x and physical look. Yes, they talk about wanting only great personality, loyal woman who will clean, cook and be great mother. They say that that's the ideal woman. Yet, I've never seen a poster of that "ideal woman", a lovely mother, in long skirt,standing near the cooker in men's garages or in their lockers. Women just give to men what they dream about and use it for own benefits. Right or wrong, that's the game in which everybody know very well what they do, but both sides pretend being victims.
That implies that women aren't superficial or shallow, but most of them are. I have yet to see a victoria secret model marrying a guy who is not a billionaire or a celebrity or a male model. When I see one really hot woman ending up with an average looking joe who makes 50k/day and is a good person, I might reconsider. But I haven't seen one yet.
This is so true . I’ve been saying this for years !
@@mrdouche9172 there are definitely beautiful women picking less attractive or heavier guys! Handsome guys picking less attractive girls are rare..
@@mrdouche9172and she literally wrote that beautiful womem use these guys for their own benefit. So you have to work on your reading skills.
@@mrdouche9172So in fact human are Not good
She hit the mark on so many until she said any 32 year old man can hop on tinder and have a woman. She has clearly never experienced Tinder as a man.
nah it's true you can have success on tinder if you are in a big city and your profile is not the worst you are tall and in shape you can have action all the time.
Yeah go for the big ones, their easy targets and always willing to give ahahahaha@@TheBlackManMythLegend
@@TheBlackManMythLegendkey word here: ANY.
Surely she meant any SUCCESSFUL 32 year old man.
When you have your own money, you can say no anytime and leave, and they do not like it. My friend is very wealthy and what did he do? Has chosen impoverished and disfranchised women from Ukraine and Russia to date, because they literally had no money and could not leave him, also for visa purposes, he told me that in my face, same with passport bros going through oceans to find a poor girl. They just wanna exploit you in the end.
you will realise what is happeniung to men once your son starts dating . there is nothing for men modern day western marriage . its always loose loose situation for men . rich man get any woman they want . average man cannot even get 1 guy
Wow
@@andjelabozic2317 his romantic choices are no one of my business, we know each other for a decade and have similar hobbies and interests, he told me I was too independent for him but I was never interested romantically in him anyway haha
Because man want loyal woman that he can trust to build long time marriage. Not independent woman who will drop him , take kids and so on just because of her being unhappy, or because she became bored or some other minor issue. And make herself a victim. 80% divorce is initiated by women in America. Most good Men don’t want to exploit a women . They want stability and good long marriage.
It’s not that simple. I’m sure the Ukraine women are more than happy to have a rich guy take care of them. If they’re pretty enough for one rich guy then they’re pretty enough for all of them, and can leave him for another man very easily.
Omg Sadia, you are the first first woman who ever exposed this truth.....yes woman pays for man they desire. I've done it multiple times and I had no idea why I was doing it. It did give me kind of control and sadly- higher my self esteem. It is so weird and tricky but its really this way. Thank you for this content
Yes…we pay for Men (WE) Desire…I’ve also done it…it’s the same Power Men have over women….
Pay what? I’ve never paid for a man I desired.
this woman does not miss with her takes on anything she talks about 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Agree!
Sadia: I've never seen you stumped by ANY question. So valuable.
She is wrong about quite a bit though
@@CRose9205 Obviously, opinions may vary in her profession. But nevertheless, she has the ability to quickly think on her feet and that skill is impressive, regardless of who possesses it.
@@Gowalkaboutagreed with her ability to think on the spot
@@Gowalkabout She does not have professional training as a counselor or psychologist. She is a teacher by training.
@@franziskani Even so, I’d prefer an hour talking to her over any chat with a licensed counselor. But thanks for the info, nevertheless.
“You are paying for violation.” DEEP!!!
But men violate woman anyways. They lie about wanting to be in a long term relationship in order to exploite her body. It's sickening and disgustingly disrespectful. In this sense I think men who visit a sex worker is more respectful, he pays to emotionally abuse the woman but at least he doesn't waste a woman's time and lie and make her think there is a future together.
Omg this is horrible logic! Why don’t we hold men accountable to BE better men and not violate women??!! This is what happens when you take God out of the equation you try to solve wrong with even more wrong.
Yes, in dating men abuse women even more than prostitutes. Prostitutes get at least money but in dating just broken heart and used for free. While a man lied that he wants a serious relationship, he just wanted woman as a free sex worker.
101% right
Totally agree. It’s sad!
Sadia khan, you're the most intelligent woman I have ever seen. Love your content, love you so much. ❤
The comparison with fast fashion makes it easier to understand. People that buy fast fashion also don't "vet" and do no research about how the fashion was produced.
So high value means "highly busy" or "hyper busy" 🤔 Good to know.
Plus hyper finances
Keep doing a great job! Your insights are on point and you have a very sophisticated beauty.
"You're taking advantage of their bad financial decisions, of their low self-esteem to pleasure yourself."
By that account, you should imprison every sales person.
Lol
Sadia is coping hard on this. If they were in a bad situation, well, mcdonalds is hiring. But mcdonalds doesn't pay hundreds or thousands of dollars per hour lmao.
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I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING THIS WOMAN SAID! SHE’S SO RIGHT.
I think this really depends on the definition of high value man. A high value man in my opinion is not someone who has height, money, and muscles but nothing else. He is someone who might have those things but character and integrity is what truly makes him high value. And a man like that does not love or choose a golddigger.
No you need to perform. Go.
Same ways for high value woman too.
Pay attention guys! Don't be so stupid as to think that you can buy real love. For real love and loyalty you have to be willing to work on it with your heart. No short cuts.
So must be really handsome, instead.
@@ryantucker2166 No, with your HEART!!
If love and kindness are too hard for you to understand then you're lost.
@@Xianne027 A kind guy will be played like a fiddle.
@@Xianne027 It seems someone broke your heart one too many times.
You can’t buy real love because love you can’t buy👍
So paying with your time, energy, and attention is not considered paying for sex? Time is more valuable than money.
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Whose time?
@@tarkgundogdu8940 Exactly. As people get older, yeah. But to young, attractive chicks...no way time is more valuable than money. They feel like they'll be 22 forever.
When it’s mutual and out of happiness for both then that’s how happy relationships suppose to be. To give from happiness and pure heart. If you are not happy or don’t want to give then don’t. Relationships are for those who want to give mutually and happily.
From my own experience... everything she said makes sense and is true... Very good analysis Sadia...
Class is in session 📝👂🏽👂🏽
Could listen to you for hours. This is really interesting, clear, insightful. Thank you!
Beautiful message❤️ TY
All learning about relationships has benefits no matter who you are
Average men can be successful to in their own way....
@@Cocoisagordonsetter lol sadest copium comment ever seen. The guitar, yikes, imagine all the multimillionaires dropping whatever they are doing for "the guitar" bahahaha. Comedian level shit.
@@Cocoisagordonsetter my condolences
@@Cocoisagordonsetter The only thing that is better than money is dashing looks. And maybe fame can come close as well. But guitar? Yeah bro, I've never seen a single really attractive girl who went for the average joe because he was good at playing the guitar. Only happens if he is actually in a popular band.
But seriously, what exactly is a HVM?
Is it just a man with lots of money or does integrity and character play any part in a man’s value???
If integrity and character play a part, then no. A HVM would not entertain a mere gold digger.
@@SonyaOutThere high value man....
She is so smart and gorgeous and confident. I love listening to her speak
Nr.1tip! If someone gives your a compliment..NEVER trust it. It can be truly ment, but most of the times its ment for a reason!!
3:48 "Tell them what they want and leave them alone." That's what immature men want. Mature men value genuine connection and actively showing true love.
Pre-nuptials don't mean you don't love her, it just means she can't ruin you.
You have a pre-nup automatically by law in the jurisdiction that will hear your divorce case, in the US it is state law. All a pre-nup does is define YOUR personal pre-nup so you are not straddled with state law intended for the masses. With the chance of a divorce over 50% people are foolish not to have their own. My partner and I decided to not get married for these reasons. She has her assets and I have mine and the two do not mix.
and can still be thrown out.
Great conversation. Social media has messed up a lot. The entire video I was reminding myself to stay close to Allah.
This was fantastic advice about the high caliber man not seeing the women over time and they can’t really vet them enough. Cause they are too busy.
So true. I’d hate my man to be away all the time. I like proximity
Beautiful woman that she is
She is stunning ❤
Protect this woman by all means necessary. ❤️ #love you Sadia
Whew ! Sadia has a lot of insight........
9:20 reminds me of "sally brown" and whys she in every other sea shantie
I love you Sadia
You speak so much sense
A high value man will never love a golddigger. The suitable title should have been why high earning men love golddiggers maybe...
Exactly, they actually don’t want a goldigger at all. They usually just use the them anyway
@@finnessejets4231 Why should they love a woman? As long as he gets what he wants, it is ok for him!
@@tarkgundogdu8940because not everyone wants to be degenerate or enticed my instant gratification, just because they have money.
Yes. I feel there's a lot of confusion when it comes to the terminology "high value" whether it applies to men or women. I think dialogues and discussions such as this one need to be prefaced by an explanation of what "high value" would entail in the context of such discussion/conversation/dialogue. "High value" is such an ambiguous term that means different things to different people.
I love this so much it’s so true!
Love her! She has the best insight on relationships.
a 32 year old man can jump on tinder... um unless he's a Chad
Yeah.. I don't think she knows what Tinder is like for 80% of men. The data is pretty clear on how difficult online dating is for your average guy. I can understand this gap is knowledge as her clients are usually wealthy men. But still, she should know better. I did find the interview interesting and liked her perspective on other topics, but this was a clear misser.
HVM love goldiggers because they can rule them, and use them like a toy.
Yes. Gold diggers are consistent. We know what they want exactly and we have all she wants. It makes things extremely easy for us. Why bother with women's inconsistent behavior?
High value men doesn't mean rich men. Men who respect women are high value.
@@Baheieujlsksnen👏, louder for the peорle in the back
@@Baheieujlsksnen This is the definition from a man's perspective. Women do not think so. The definition of high value man is different for women and men. Successful men are high value men according to the women. Whether they fake their behavior and emotions, or not, does not change it (for the women).
@@tarkgundogdu8940seems like such a sad and empty life to live
Love you momma, ❤love you Sadia. I love the blue but green is my beautiful on you.❤
She is so on point 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️ love you Sadia
I agree with most of this! I don't agree with what Mark said about these girls only respecting their pimps. Honestly, SWs either (1) respects any man who treats them well or (2) have a jaded viewpoint on men as a whole. But truly, it's not even about the man. Deep down, it's how she feels about herself.
If a woman consensually gives a man money, especially if it's a pimp or an unfaithful man, she doesn't actually respect him, but it is a sign of low self-worth. A lot of "heaux" deep down feel that they are unworthy of love because of their actions (very few of them truly don't care), and so she would rather stay with a man who mistreats her. He is familiar and she has convinced herself that she can't have it all, both money and love. It is NOT true, but sadly the scarity mindset has many men and women believing this lie. Gold diggers who believe they CAN have it all are treated the best and gain and retain the most money, hence the popularization of the "levelled up" woman which is legions ahead in confidence, self worth, self esteem, and mindset than the average gold digger. HVM like the average gold digger, but ADORE and only respect the "leveled up" woman. However, this is the rarest type of women. When people think about the million dollar sugar babe, the ruthless gold digger, the spoiled wife, the $ex worker turned wife, the maneater, they are thinking about ths type of gold digger--i.e. the rarest one. She is extremely seductive to men and women which is why level up coaches are super popular. However, despite the popularity of these coaches, only few women will ever reach this status. But it IS possible, and honestly, you don't even have to be a SW, although that's the easier path to take.
You laid it out so well.The woman that is confident in who she is and physically appealing to the beauty standard of any society is always placed on a pedestal.By both men and women.Everybody wants to get the best,but not everyone believes deep down they deserve it.
what is the difference between paying the waiter/boutique or paying her directly?
Is that Mark from soft white underbelly youre speaking with? I liked the conversation. Bless.
It is...toxic Mark.
😂😂 I was wondering. I like his itw but deep inside know something quite not right with him
High value man love women like Sadia. You only attract what you are!
As Chris Rock says, at least gold-diggers have goals....
I kinda WAS against what you were saying but I am starting to see the truth in what you are saying. 😮
"Rapists with loopholes."
She spoke pure truth. Hope men wake up and face reality what they really do to women. Men lived in their fantasies too long until she said how it really is. Hope men listen and change for the better.
@@kitty1256x men don't know how to be loving so that's their solution... very sad
This “high value” dialogue is getting really boring and it doesn’t exist. To me, You’re either a nice person, or you’re not.
Very true. My ex fits 90% of theses red flags. Two weeks after we broke up she found an older, rich, less attractive and naive man. Plus, she's got two kids, bipolar disorder, borderline disorder, huge debts and abandonment issues. How do you people think this is gonna end?
Amazing Video!
Sadia is like an oracle, beautiful and streaming wisdom out boundlessly. How much more attraction, can you withstand? She's at the risk of being a proverbial Goddess. Can I make make these comments, hope its not made inapproriate
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Asians use a lot of Natural oils, but It doesn't work for everyone if you have greasy hair...Also I'm sure She uses Dyson hairdryer...pakistani and indians have beautiful hair quite naturally tbf
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I'm under 30 seconds in and my thought it, "Men love gold diggers because they think they know her 'addiction' and when you know what drives someone you can control them." So, these men think they have a tiger under control, basically. The man is choosing an addict , (a person incapable of uplifiting them, and only takes, pushes and pulls, ) who doesn't love them but loves the feed of their addiction which the successful man can do.
It's opposite, Gold digger love rich men...
They love the money...the both
Its transactional, and tbh most modern women, western women, and those who are educated and have a career rather have a love marriage. The high divorce rate was based on transactional, he loses his job or can no longer afford the lifestyle he gave then she can easily divorce him as there was no real attraction (as most traditional marriages are, women marry for "stability" while men can marry for attraction). Im slowly seeing where women are finally going after real attraction.
@@Hello0x0 For better or worse
@lushhclub819 for better? At least in my opinion, a marriage should be based on mutal attraction for ultimate happiness and overall satisfaction. It's not transactional agreement, as we are just human
@@Hello0x0 Used to be...But a rich woman wants something better than a poor guy
I love to hear you talk, one talk or comments on the Kim Kardashian/Kanye West marriage, where both individuals were hyper successful
The bigger question is "What does she bring to the table?". A high value man wants a high quality woman
A high value man will SEE what a woman brings to the table without asking her. That question is a meant to make the other person feel less than. I would never ask a man “What do you bring to the table?” Rather I would let him talk about his life and naturally I would pick those things up. People became so rude these days!
A high value man wants a high quality woman => this is what the media lies to you about. All men want polygamy. High value men are the ones that can achieve that.
High value men want high value women. "High value" in a woman means the best looks, sex appeal and youth. Understandably, some of the women that posess those will want to capitalize and they become "golddiggers". Nothing strange in the whole dynamic. The only problem that I see is if the HV man marries her.
You got it wrong. You're talking about schemers that can manipulate men. HV women won't manipulate HV men. They talk straight. They love the company of each other.
brilliant and outstanding elaboration of this topic with valuable insights about the way sexworkers think. Thank you very much.
brilliant aspects on this issue
Someone need to send this video to Myron
Omg this woman is a gift from god full of wisdom I wish I could marry her
When being so authentic about being inauthentic is a seen as a positive is where I take a long break from dealing with attractive women. What a headache.
Terrible way to cut the video at the end
There is a very successful youtuber man in the entrepreneurial circle, he is from Spain in China who got married years ago, and in recent days his wife died. He was very sad, wondering what was the purpose of all his hard work and all that money saving.
He made all his videos private, except for a goodbye video. He did not need the toxicity of the web.
He said he would need to decide what to do with his life. He left China, probably it was too painful for him to remain there with all those memories. He went to take care of his mother, probably spend more time with her.
The problem is the definition of a "high value man." What makes a man valuable? Is it his money? Or is it his character? Oftentimes, these two don't go together.
She is truly amazing
I think they deserve each other
Could we clone you Sadia across the globe?😂❤ 🧚♀️🔥🕊️
I disagree with her completely,there are still women who stay loyal to husbands, if there upbringing is right,
like us.
I love this woman’s energy and thoughts! She is very intelligent and valuable
She always makes me ponder my moves and thoughts!
Even men that have lost it all can create deep relationships with highly successful women. This can happen many times over.
please give 3 examples where this happened.
@@orangewarm1lol... in his or her mind.
highly successful women? what is that? men are after beautiful women.
@@tarkgundogdu8940unsuccessful men are after successful women. This is specially true of older men - divorced and in their late 40s, 50s and beyond. This cohort’s dream is for “a nurse with a purse” 😅
I was dating a successful business man and I couldn’t do it. My family and love ones still don’t understand. I got to a place where I started thinking well I can just create a whole life outside of the relationship if we were married and then was like no I just can’t do this.
He was too busy and I needed consistency, time and attention.
I have seen this to be true: the more atracted the woman the less the man has to invest. It then makes me wonder on the cultures with dowries where a man needs to come up with a large sum to make the wedding happen. In those cultures there is strong insistence on the dowery or it gets skipped depending on the couple. Knowing this already tells you alot about the couple.
We live in really sad times. True love does not exist anymore. We're all messed up.😢
Are porn addicted men emotionally unavailable (and maybe have avoidant attachment)? I think thats the case and therefore they have problems with feedback after sex with a woman that does not work in the sex industry. A childhood where they have been emotionally neglected or abused, and learned to self-sooth through masterbation at a young age. they don’t learn to open up to others emotionally and intimately, give and receive emotional support or nourishment.
They are the worst
@@sadiapsychologyhow are they the worst? Could you kindly elaborate please.
Ypu want to end all these problems, you need to accept islam or view it from that perspective additionally to classic western psychology
The thing I'd say about men and cheating with prostitutes is that it comes with no strings attached and is unlikely to affect his relationship. However, she was on the money when she said a has no problem with cheating down when the woman is grateful.
Well, if he’s not making time for a woman he’s interested in. 9 times out of 10 he’s just not into her. You’re not busy 24-7 lol. You will find a way if you really want the woman.
If he really loves golddiggers, then it's not a high value man...That's simple af 🤷♀
Yes, this term is misused often. High-value men or women implies a well rounded personality with emotional maturity not just financies. Money is 1 thing out of 20
This, exactly what I thought.
Men like women who make them FEEL successful and discaplined ... rather than having to BE That ..a crazy unsuccessful woman makes a guy FEEL much more successful than he is .. his insecurities and failures are hidden by her much bigger ones ...he falls into the delusion of comparing himself to her failures ...its a dangerous thing to do ..because you are a big fish ..but in a very small pond or you set he bar low for success .. in a way ..but if it works it works ..but deep down you should know the reality and not be a fool... you are rich TO HER ..that doesnt mean you are really rich.
Goldddiggers give you the ultimate gf experience. You get your money worth.
By high value she means a man who has a lot of money. Not high value in morals and values.
It's easier to work and gain money than to work on yourself.
where can i find the rest of the video please?
soft white underbelly channel
@@galiapetrova45 thank you !
You need a smoother bra. Just helping another woman. I like your wisdom!
The Mt Rushmore look is all the rage
thats not her bra, its the device for the microphone...
😂😂😂😂😂
Lumpy on both sides 😎 but then again, she could wear a gunny sack and rock it!! I love Sadia. Out of this world beautiful, with an intelligence to match!
they know where they stand
Its what high value meant?
High value in the meaning of morality or in money & property!
Women see high value in money & property. Teach them that first!
@@tarkgundogdu8940 If they were honest they called high class, or wannabe callgirl
Dudes call this a hooker / prostitute!
A real Hooker gifs a lot less problems, if i forget legal ones!
The last guy I was with bought me. After one date he bought me a Christian Dior saddle bag and all my bills. He would give me money all the time I never had to ask at the start. He locked me in and that he finically abused me. It sounds and looks so great on the outside but I would never do that again. It’s not worth the mental toll it takes!
Jesus, you have perfectly described my ex-whife, no she wasn't a sex worker, but she was a golddigger, because any good feeling i could obtain out of her was available only after some gifts made by me to her. In other situations her state was like she is a bit upset or even angry about smth. Discussions or disputes didn't work, but after the gift, jeez, she changed in a blink of an eye. Gladly i decided to file to divorce in a week after our marriage. It wasn't the only reason to do that. She and even her parents were involved in her lies. She lied about her parents, even about their surnames for some reason, about her education, about her activity (she told me that she studied at university, but actually she had been expelled, she told me that she worked as a cosmetologist, but even this was a lie).
God she's ingenious
Interesting, thank you
I like smart and confident, successful men with a purpose and go after it. Ambitious I think that is attractive in a man.
Never heard of this. That means he is not a High Value Man deep inside. He is rich or workaholic.
I love her outlook amazing
I disagree! A man who loves a golddigger cannot even be called a high-value man! Plus, she is generalizing things when in reality she is talking about extremities! High-value men do not necessarily mean hyper-successful men! You can still be average-successful and be a high-value man! I think it's a matter of choice. If the choice of a man is to focus on money and career, he should be aware that he is sacrificing other aspects of his life! Even if we are talking about hyper-successful ones; are we really talking about love or just deep affection??? Even if we call it love, I think it's because they are vulnerable, and tend to be affected quickly just because they have been depriving themselves of those feelings for way too long focusing on their success.
This happened with Destiny. Melina was living with another man paid for by him
Well said ❤
Be better than the past you.
For women, a man with money is what a sexy woman is for men.
Bad men would take advantage of a sexy woman as a trophy or just use her body. A similar problem happens to men with money.
This is why modesty for women may work better, because beauty does not get in the way when trying to establish a relationship. In the same sense, money should not get in the way of a man who needs to be modest regarding his wealth to find a woman who does not look for his wealth.
13;55 love it. I'm gonna visit my regular place next week again and keep this in mind. Toilets will remain toilets.