I tried to HUSTLE a crochet VENDOR then THIS HAPPENED 🥺❤️

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  • Опубликовано: 25 май 2023

Комментарии • 7 тыс.

  • @jennaz.5276
    @jennaz.5276 Год назад +162553

    I'm proud of her because you could tell it made her uncomfortable to say no but she stuck to her guns anyway. She knows her worth and how long it can take to crochet some of the things she makes. Proud of her.

    • @katecreates7
      @katecreates7 Год назад +2139

      Me too. I crochet and I know how expensive yarn can be and how long these projects can take. And she’s very very good. Her projects are very neat and clean 👌🏼

    • @lulutoess
      @lulutoess Год назад +346

      @c 14 is close enough to 15

    • @Ptls68
      @Ptls68 Год назад +373

      Yarn actually are rather expensive so i doubt there are much profit as it is for 15$. I crochet myself in denmark and unless yarn are Way more expensive here its not something you Can earn much from its most for fun. She is doing fine work❤

    • @lulutoess
      @lulutoess Год назад +123

      @c why are you so persistent lol. it’s her pricing and products anyway, why are u criticizing her.

    • @Angelina_Swiftie
      @Angelina_Swiftie Год назад +21

      Same it's amazing how she knew her worth. Absolutely love that woman

  • @H1l_3ditz
    @H1l_3ditz 11 месяцев назад +36635

    As someone who crochets, 15 is already low for crochet, and the fact she lowered it to 14 for him shows how kind she is

    • @mongrel1308
      @mongrel1308 11 месяцев назад +282

      a dollar...

    • @virtuallyme2518
      @virtuallyme2518 11 месяцев назад +175

      @@mongrel1308 omg I laughed so hard ... well said! She should be embarrassed that he showed her REAL kindness!

    • @H1l_3ditz
      @H1l_3ditz 11 месяцев назад +979

      @@mongrel1308 I understand it’s a dollar, but that’s a dollar less she could’ve gotten for her hard work. It takes hours, days, weeks, to make that much stuff for a shop. A dollar is more than kind.

    • @Mayawamaq
      @Mayawamaq 11 месяцев назад +494

      @@virtuallyme2518 bro letting your self get expolted for your work that is already insanely underwork is not "kindness"
      no, she should not feel embarrassed for need to pay rent.

    • @kittyberrycreates
      @kittyberrycreates 11 месяцев назад +6

      Yeah❤

  • @sm1purplmurderedme583
    @sm1purplmurderedme583 7 месяцев назад +397

    as a crochet artist, she deserves every penny of her effort. this sht isn’t easy lol.

    • @florriewcue
      @florriewcue 3 месяца назад +3

      Frr it would take like 5 hours to make that octopus

    • @alexandralynn2795
      @alexandralynn2795 Месяц назад

      It really isn’t I can make a chain but going back I can’t get the double stich

    • @ninipaninix
      @ninipaninix Месяц назад

      Tbh when u get use to it it’s pretty easy at least for me

    • @Lola_x100
      @Lola_x100 Месяц назад +1

      @@florriewcue5 hours?! I’m impressed! It would take me ALLLL day 😃

    • @dogloveradoptme
      @dogloveradoptme 4 дня назад

      @@ninipaninix That feels kinda rude to me at least

  • @yuko6794
    @yuko6794 10 месяцев назад +2379

    those prices should be higher than 30.. I hope her business gets more recognition

    • @mariambolkvadze8141
      @mariambolkvadze8141 6 месяцев назад +4

      True

    • @Crackrocksteady
      @Crackrocksteady 6 месяцев назад

      ​@mariambolkvadze8141 for some maybe not the ghey little rainbow

    • @Noelledh
      @Noelledh Месяц назад +4

      You would buy them at that price?

    • @elizabethg2062
      @elizabethg2062 Месяц назад +19

      ⁠@@NoelledhWithout a doubt. Have you seen the cost of yarn like that? Or considered how long it takes to make those things? If you wanna be cheap, get a stuffed animal from the fair or Walmart that’ll fall apart

    • @elmaschimba963
      @elmaschimba963 Месяц назад +5

      ⁠​⁠​​⁠​​⁠​⁠​⁠Nah I’ve got stuffed animals of nice quality for a reasonable price that never fell apart for less than $20. Why do people apply to a costlier price instead of reasonable prices? I think 15$ for that stuffed animal is a reasonably good price because of that size and it’s just a stuffed animal without anything else..

  • @1.4.3.seattle
    @1.4.3.seattle Год назад +15540

    She’s a good business woman. And she knows her worth.

    • @Ahstreammm
      @Ahstreammm Год назад +35

      She is not at all. She is to kind and to much emotions (just a woman thing) she did not want to say no to him cause guilt/uncomfy

    • @thatfangirl2818
      @thatfangirl2818 Год назад +129

      @@Ahstreammmok...?

    • @rain1ngg
      @rain1ngg Год назад

      @@Ahstreammm LMAOOOOOOOOO "just a woman thing" pls stfu ☠️

    • @bobjeff1243
      @bobjeff1243 Год назад +174

      @@Ahstreammm just a women thing...really

    • @Sadie-rai
      @Sadie-rai Год назад +108

      ​@@Ahstreammm...yikes

  • @hafizatunnajiha6365
    @hafizatunnajiha6365 Год назад +9955

    You just can't ask for less for handmade stuff. It's their hardworking

    • @phoebewilcock411
      @phoebewilcock411 Год назад +127

      Did you even watch the video? He gave 30 bucks which he clearly had enough for he was basically just pretending to not have enough because thats what he does. Its hard to explain but yk 😅

    • @111cosmic
      @111cosmic Год назад +265

      @@phoebewilcock411they mean if he hadnt gave the $30. very obvious

    • @Bando-fx4mf
      @Bando-fx4mf Год назад

      There whole sale from China she pays 10 each and has to make 5 profit or her pimp well destroy her face. They are handmade but by child labor in China smfh.

    • @riba2219
      @riba2219 Год назад +62

      ​@@phoebewilcock411after he made her comfortable

    • @bluee5991
      @bluee5991 Год назад +55

      Maybe I'm on different culture or some, but as a seller, you should've raise your price higher than what it's worth of your hardwork, maybe 2-5 dollars depending on what are you selling. That way, if people want to negotiate the price down, you can accept the offer without losing yourself.

  • @GrettelS2602
    @GrettelS2602 8 месяцев назад +292

    She is the one spreading kindness, he is just giving money...

    • @towhidislam8221
      @towhidislam8221 2 месяца назад +1

      True

    • @nikkisigmon8090
      @nikkisigmon8090 2 месяца назад +9

      No, he was pushing the boundaries and she caved bc he was being pushy. He was rude to her at first and she was too nice to be rude back. She pushed back until he stepped too far over the line. Her plushies are worth more than what she is selling for.

    • @lyukm.
      @lyukm. 2 месяца назад +1

      Real

  • @sakurastrwbrry6001
    @sakurastrwbrry6001 9 месяцев назад +4585

    PLEASE don’t make people uncomfortable like that. I know it’s for a second that your trying to negotiate to sound bad but that probably broke her heart because HOURS of work and practice goes into those pieces. That’s art, don’t pretend to disrespect it

    • @user-fz8ww4ks6n
      @user-fz8ww4ks6n 6 месяцев назад +74

      Yes and I agree again I understand that it was only for a few seconds but might as well just get the 7 dollar one than the 15

    • @AKUMA_RY
      @AKUMA_RY 6 месяцев назад +22

      He wasn’t pretending to disrespect it he was also joking around by the tone of his voice. I crochet aswell and if someone was saying that I would stand my ground and joke around with him too

    • @Ivy_Dog
      @Ivy_Dog 5 месяцев назад +8

      It's ok bc she was still so happy to work with him and even more great greatful at the end. I think it should only be offensive to sensible ppl

    • @Kozycz
      @Kozycz 5 месяцев назад +6

      It’s negotiating, u should do it any time you’re buying from anything other than a big box store. Basic business, the other persons comfort is not my concern, not even slightly

    • @ebasconp
      @ebasconp 5 месяцев назад +47

      @@Kozycz Your carence of money should not be the seller's concern either. They have their prices, respect them or buy something cheaper. Why a big box store deserves more respect than a small vendor?

  • @limnaee1812
    @limnaee1812 Год назад +18192

    Dont lower your prices as an artist! Your work has value

    • @ArchieTheMoose
      @ArchieTheMoose Год назад +224

      she was obviously thinking hes broke or something mate

    • @DarkDomain0001
      @DarkDomain0001 Год назад

      DONT READ MY NAME!!!!
      😶‍🌫️

    • @marciaeasterly3062
      @marciaeasterly3062 Год назад +116

      And yarn is expensive

    • @possiblyrei
      @possiblyrei Год назад +199

      @@marciaeasterly3062and chrochet takes hours so they are making less than minimum wage

    • @iwatchyoutube9037
      @iwatchyoutube9037 Год назад +6

      @@ArchieTheMoosenga its 1 dollar he not buying dat if he brokie😢😢 cry 😱🤣🤣🤣😃😀😀👍😎

  • @Unknownmissy
    @Unknownmissy Год назад +16196

    A lot of people don’t understand the time it takes to crochet things and how long it can take to get good at it as well as the yarn that needs to be bough

    • @ritakenny1887
      @ritakenny1887 Год назад +27

      The yarn is available in thrift stores very reasonable. If you chose this to make money it won’t work. If you want to make use of your time volunteer for seniors . Shopping for them get them to doctors apts visit in hospitals or nursing homes. The pay is in helping others and the gratitude they have for your help. Not all rewards are financial some are priceless !

    • @rearoses52
      @rearoses52 Год назад +46

      Time is money!

    • @polafran
      @polafran Год назад +154

      Not to mention the time and work in knitting/crocheting, and the muscular exhaustion that exists. I have many friends who have undergone surgery after injuring themselves crocheting quickly and exhaustively to deliver an order on time. But people think that this is "just a hobby" and what we ask for as payment is "too expensive".

    • @polafran
      @polafran Год назад +7

      @@jesuslovesyou8734 No, thanks but no

    • @hashslingingslasher760
      @hashslingingslasher760 Год назад +74

      @@ritakenny1887 thrifted yarn? are u ok?

  • @veganmocha
    @veganmocha 6 месяцев назад +737

    I hate people like this. If someone is clearly uncomfortable and doesn’t wanna negotiate, drop it. God damn

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 2 месяца назад +6

      It's due to people like this that two of my closest friends were ready to pay $$$ for some items I had offered. They didn't want to be like the dude in this video, but I also assured them that yes it was indeed a free gift. 100% of anyone is a different matter, 35 years of disappointment made me that way.

    • @va.n1ll4
      @va.n1ll4 Месяц назад +14

      He wasn’t actually gonna pay the discounted price, i think it was to make her think he was so the extra money would be even more surprising

    • @saiyansatan
      @saiyansatan Месяц назад +9

      Chill bro. He gave her more than what she was asking for anyway, it's called a social experiment. If she was rude, he would've moved on to find someone who is grateful

    • @gamergirl6215
      @gamergirl6215 24 дня назад +1

      He was literally just trying to see what she would do like a social experiment,plus she was kind enough to lower it down for him,as $15 is already low for a piece of crochet, that's shows that she is kind enough to lower something already low to make it even lower to make someone's day,so please shut up with the mean comments and stop being negative,it's only a social experiment

    • @Bridget466
      @Bridget466 21 день назад +5

      @@gamergirl6215was she informed that it was a social experiment before or after he filmed this? Did she give her consent to be a part of this? Would you be okay being put in that position for somebody else to get money at your expense?

  • @Librababyyyy
    @Librababyyyy 10 месяцев назад +565

    You didn’t have to negotiate the price before doing this. All it did was make her feel guilty and bad probably . It was a nice gesture but she works hard & puts a lot of time in her work.

    • @elmaschimba963
      @elmaschimba963 Месяц назад +1

      Bruh how come people be this soft jeez

    • @sigh6550
      @sigh6550 29 дней назад

      @@elmaschimba963cry. It called empathy try it sometime!!

    • @harleyjo4875
      @harleyjo4875 17 дней назад

      @@elmaschimba963they aren’t soft, this asshole content creator is the soft one trying to monetize some other people’s hard work, all so he can come out of it looking like the bigger person.

  • @CottonMilkOwl
    @CottonMilkOwl Год назад +1569

    Bro crocheting takes a LOT of time and energy. Those prices are reasonable.

    • @SilverCoffee_16
      @SilverCoffee_16 Год назад +9

      He legit fucking gave her 30 dude

    • @Meenaaa13
      @Meenaaa13 Год назад +14

      @@SilverCoffee_16 chill out 💀

    • @noobish...
      @noobish... Год назад +3

      ​@@SilverCoffee_16chill

    • @konekomicio
      @konekomicio Год назад +26

      ​​​@@SilverCoffee_16yeah he gave her 30 but revenue for this video is way way bigger than 30.

    • @GilliDar
      @GilliDar Год назад +23

      @@konekomiciothis^^^🙌 haggled her and made her uncomfortable and still only gave her 30 out of the who knows how many dollars he’s going to get from this short video

  • @fur1375
    @fur1375 Год назад +13608

    As a crocheter , we get everyone wanting everything for free and half the price. I’ve tried selling my things because it’s my hobby. But, I always end up losing out. Even on the days it would’ve been nice to have extra cash… but oh well. That’s why I just gave up.

    • @prestonwhite3966
      @prestonwhite3966 Год назад +587

      I don't think people realize how expensive yarn is

    • @theabrooks621
      @theabrooks621 Год назад +311

      The price of yarn can be crazy and the time that is put in to make something

    • @Momoolein
      @Momoolein Год назад +204

      ​@@prestonwhite3966 i know right!? My coworkers keep asking me go sell my crochet but they don't realise how cheap ppl are ..also work hours are also a thing :(

    • @bluebelle9572
      @bluebelle9572 Год назад +74

      Not many people appreciate the hard work that goes into hand crafted items, whether it’s sewing, crochet, carpentry, etc. 💜

    • @Zzz3331
      @Zzz3331 Год назад +51

      Running a business is not easy. One of the number one rules to running a business is don’t become a charity. ❤

  • @anastasias.9666
    @anastasias.9666 7 месяцев назад +76

    She was the only one showing kindness. A person who filmed was just showing off.

  • @jimrylander9143
    @jimrylander9143 8 месяцев назад +29

    A lot of people don’t understand people that crochet are making far below minimum wage of any kind. Don’t try to screw them over

  • @nofacenofacetrinity
    @nofacenofacetrinity Год назад +9458

    He stressed her the hell out and then gave her a lil tip afterwards hell no 😂😂😂 what a kind guy! 🙄

    • @banaa9463
      @banaa9463 Год назад +365

      More like manipulative

    • @sarahhenning5484
      @sarahhenning5484 Год назад +400

      And films it all and posts it on RUclips for the views and likes to show off how kind he is

    • @roachdope
      @roachdope Год назад +339

      You can clearly tell how uncomfortable she was the entire time. Regardless of the intent he had for the end, it’s still messed up - & most definitely just for views so ppl know how ‘nice’ of a guy he is

    • @nofacenofacetrinity
      @nofacenofacetrinity Год назад +143

      @@roachdope exactly. I felt so gross watching her from his POV… like idk how he can keep a straight face or keep going seeing her be so visibly disturbed and uncomfortable. And then barely compensate her afterwards 😂😂

    • @roachdope
      @roachdope Год назад +98

      @@nofacenofacetrinity exaaactlyyyy😭 that’s what a loooot of men don’t understand, just because women are smiling and nodding does not mean that they are comfortable. a lot of the times, you have to nod along and just go with it as a regard to your own safety because of men/towards men. It’s a fucked up reality

  • @NaCl_Salt
    @NaCl_Salt Год назад +1958

    Crochet makers should never compromise. They deserve every penny.

    • @stardustmelody5938
      @stardustmelody5938 Год назад +19

      Truly! I love to crochet myself and have been selling a few things and as much as I wish I could sell things for a much cheaper price the cost of materials is more than you’d think plus it takes a good deal of time. I’m very grateful you understand that 😊

    • @KatB2455
      @KatB2455 Год назад +1

      Thank you!

    • @fyysha
      @fyysha Год назад +4

      Right?? I dont crochet but just imagining the time and effort it takes to make even a small plush gives me a headache already. Not only are crochet pieces very nice, but the people who make them are also insanely hardworking

  • @blufox7760
    @blufox7760 10 месяцев назад +244

    Trying to haggle down the price of someone’s artwork to their face is not kindness.

  • @GhostBravo385
    @GhostBravo385 9 месяцев назад +724

    Don't try to negotiate prices with vendors bro ,they are just trying to make ends meet so stay kind and everything will be worth it in the end 🤘

    • @arunabhallamudi
      @arunabhallamudi 8 месяцев назад +4

      I think they were doing it for the vid plus he gv a lot more

    • @theBestElliephant
      @theBestElliephant 7 месяцев назад +11

      ​@@arunabhallamudi But why do something unkind in the name of kindness? He didn't have to devalue her work to give her a tip.

    • @arunabhallamudi
      @arunabhallamudi 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@theBestElliephant alright alright fair enough

    • @moonsolpurpose8221
      @moonsolpurpose8221 7 месяцев назад

      A smart vendor will over price and then negotiate to its price since ppl wanna negotiate all the time.

  • @fin8612
    @fin8612 Год назад +4785

    if you really wanted to spread kindness, you shouldn't have haggled her to try to undersell her work in the first place.

    • @vickiwaatti1076
      @vickiwaatti1076 Год назад +330

      EXACTLY! As a crocheter (aka hooker lol) I was a bit appalled because crocheting is hard and takes time. There are no machines that can do a crochet stitch (as there are for knitting.) so offering less is offensive.

    • @xAstroverse_
      @xAstroverse_ Год назад +132

      Or recorded her

    • @SilverCoffee_16
      @SilverCoffee_16 Год назад +28

      This is why people make videos to teach kindness not to just make it for money and views they just wanna spread kindess

    • @SilverCoffee_16
      @SilverCoffee_16 Год назад

      @@vickiwaatti1076and not everybody has the same feelings as you just because you do the same hobby as her it doesn’t mean she’s also gonna feel offended geez you stupid ppl…

    • @kikidatgirl
      @kikidatgirl Год назад +5

      He does not really mean u see he has the money in his hand to but two! But he is doing that to see how kind she is to see if she wojld nagociate with somone who does not hsve money ..

  • @StevieMcKenna10
    @StevieMcKenna10 Год назад +170

    Bro should have quit trying to hustle when she kept saying it was 15 and VISIBLY getting uncomfortable, he should have been respectful and proud she stood her ground and still given her money for even being so polite about it and realizing she puts so much effort into it. Hustling for this shit is just plain rude and basically saying your work isn't worth that much right to their face.

    • @miss_bhello7925
      @miss_bhello7925 Год назад +2

      The last thing you said is a good point I'm not sure I thought about.

    • @jootpepet
      @jootpepet 3 дня назад

      Imagine complaining about a completely harmless and even productive/wholesome interaction.
      Get a life dud you're a sad man

  • @holycrap8367
    @holycrap8367 23 дня назад +2

    Eight years man, im so proud of her. She is a real strong woman. God bless her

  • @Shamrock_queen98
    @Shamrock_queen98 8 месяцев назад +8

    Haggling is the most disrespectful move to sellers especially to their face 😅

  • @iloveapples2428
    @iloveapples2428 Год назад +221

    Daily reminder that there is NO machine that can crochet. Respect the artists and all the hard work that goes into every stitch 💕

    • @vickiwaatti1076
      @vickiwaatti1076 Год назад +9

      I keep saying this and people just do not seem to understand! There are ones that can knit but, not crochet.

    • @eily_b
      @eily_b Год назад +1

      Exactly. There is also no machine that can weave baskets. They are all handmade. Somewhere. Mostly by women and we know how "much" they get paid...

    • @nedraleggett6837
      @nedraleggett6837 8 месяцев назад +2

      And all yarn really costs. I crochet. My thing used to be afghans and matching pillows. Shawls. Purses. Baby blankets. Labor and cost. You won't recupe your cost. Know anything you buy is made with love.

  • @CB-sr8ee
    @CB-sr8ee Год назад +2799

    Could also spread kindness by giving her the extra money without making her uncomfortable with the negotiation stuff first. Not sure I understand why we gotta knock her down first before we build her up.

    • @mno7493
      @mno7493 Год назад +164

      Thats what I'm saying! It really bothered me that you have to haggle to prove is someone is "nice" or not

    • @nimeryaspawnbrd1049
      @nimeryaspawnbrd1049 Год назад +90

      I agree.
      that behavior was gross and tacky, and having been in her shoes I'd have probably turned down the "gift".
      I make a personal principle to keep my prices fair, therefore I don't need neither haggling nor charity, especially from someone who just tried to mug me, thank you very much.

    • @stinky243
      @stinky243 Год назад +23

      you’re right. this is disgusting i hate this man.

    • @amishupe7302
      @amishupe7302 Год назад +27

      Agreed...this was ridiculous

    • @ginat.8064
      @ginat.8064 Год назад +42

      Comepletely agree.. he’s not spreading happiness he’s just being plain rude and then expects her to feel grateful after. Probably didn’t even ask if he could film her either.

  • @justabbie3419
    @justabbie3419 10 месяцев назад +265

    I’m a vendor at festivals and $15 for her product is crazy low. I know people who sell this kind of stuff for $30 and up. I made friendship bracelets that take 5-8 hours to make and sell them for $10 to $40 depending on how much effort it took

    • @abso-LUTELY
      @abso-LUTELY 8 месяцев назад

      Oh wow dude I sell my octopuses that kinda look like that for 15 and I honestly have never seen one for much more than that

    • @edennegxx
      @edennegxx 7 месяцев назад

      I was about to say I bought mine for $35, then again I was at a tourist beach town 😂 I never bought one so I’m not familiar w pricing

  • @Rose-yj9oe
    @Rose-yj9oe 10 месяцев назад +19

    She does beautiful work and should charge double because she’s worth it and so is her work ❤

  • @sadgecat588
    @sadgecat588 Год назад +247

    Her sticking to her prices is not being unkind, it's having respect for herself and her work.

  • @beckylemm3smash44
    @beckylemm3smash44 Год назад +2452

    I want to bless a vendor today by making them feel extremely uncomfortable before hand

    • @AxisDens
      @AxisDens Год назад +65

      i really dont understand why he needed to hustle first. why he felt the need to make a person uncomfortable before hitting them with "it was a joke! here have money", its childish and unnecessary. she vas very sweet and polite, definitely didn't deserve to have someone underestimate her hard work even as a "joke"

    • @m.gifford781
      @m.gifford781 Год назад +3

      Lol 😅❤

    • @jprobles4152
      @jprobles4152 Год назад +4

      well atleast he gave someone money while you are here probably just scrolling whining and complaining about what you want to see in a public video platform.

    • @jprobles4152
      @jprobles4152 Год назад

      snowflake

    • @AnthropomorphicCat
      @AnthropomorphicCat Год назад +10

      ​@@jprobles4152 why are you using the same comment over and over again. Also the guy is on the wrong. No matter how much money he gives her that doesn't mean he didn't make her uncomfortable

  • @RoseOlney-Dethal
    @RoseOlney-Dethal 7 месяцев назад +7

    You could have just given her the money instead of trying to haggle she looked rly awkward but still sweet ig . So glad someone is out there doing things like this still

  • @bellarosewood3862
    @bellarosewood3862 10 месяцев назад +7

    Hand crafts are actually really hard this price is lower than average. It's ok to bargain on other stuff but i feel like bargaining on someone's hand work breaks their heart a little. It's like you're saying "that's worth less than the price you have"

  • @cecethebignerd
    @cecethebignerd Год назад +6932

    Her smile made me smile omg 😭 this is heartwarming

    • @nuhaalobaidy1484
      @nuhaalobaidy1484 Год назад +4

      yea this is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo true

    • @Potatopie9
      @Potatopie9 Год назад +4

      shes so pretty and genuine!

    • @nuhaalobaidy1484
      @nuhaalobaidy1484 Год назад +3

      @@Potatopie9 she is the prettiest women after my mom

    • @jakeleo4518
      @jakeleo4518 11 месяцев назад

      *the camera aimed at her face* *and that annoying ass song*

    • @zubairahmad2832
      @zubairahmad2832 11 месяцев назад

      Same.♥

  • @Mitreme
    @Mitreme Год назад +5412

    i’m actually really glad she didn’t back down. As artists, you’re always faced with people saying your labor should be free or they get mad when you list your pricing. She was nervous, but knew the worth of her work!

    • @MatSmithLondon
      @MatSmithLondon Год назад +6

      She literally did back down though, she lowered her price.

    • @yati_xox
      @yati_xox Год назад +82

      ​@@MatSmithLondonby one dollar, not five. And that's probably because she was uncomfortable by him pushing.

    • @Kiertiana
      @Kiertiana Год назад +21

      I am forever explaining to people that you're paying for more than just the supplies it took to make the item. Once it's broken down for people- all the years of experience, high quality materials (plush yarns aren't cheap man), time to make the item, wear and tear on someone's body/eyesight, tools or learning materials/patterns, etc, they usually are more understanding of what they consider to be a "high" price.

    • @tara6637
      @tara6637 Год назад +2

      same! I miss the old times of being a traveling merchant and haggling and bargaining, knowing the worth of your work and products is key to a wonderful business! If only we brought back that old cultureeee 😭 it seriously is so much better than these corporations blegh🙄🙄

    • @Sparta1993
      @Sparta1993 Год назад

      That’s not artists that’s called life. I’m an electrician, no one ever agrees to pay they always haggle. Get out of your bubble

  • @Kayla_WolfTherian
    @Kayla_WolfTherian 8 месяцев назад +3

    One time I gave my Applebee's waiter a 100$ tip and she started crying and hugging me and my parents. It's so exciting to make people's day.

  • @Leamhsi1982
    @Leamhsi1982 10 месяцев назад +4

    She knew her products worth, I love that ❤👌🏿

  • @sirtorchington
    @sirtorchington Год назад +4867

    despite her being the sweetest ever, when boy got to "wha bout $14?" she was literally brutally murdering him in her mind by that point

    • @iamyourmaster2565
      @iamyourmaster2565 11 месяцев назад +6

      I wish I could do it 🤤

    • @Antwandasinger
      @Antwandasinger 11 месяцев назад

      no she just didnt want to say no bc she wanted to be nice

    • @bluecrow234
      @bluecrow234 11 месяцев назад

      Yeah she was curing

  • @ArmednotTriggered
    @ArmednotTriggered Год назад +11280

    "I'm spreading kindness, but I'm going to harass you and film it first making you uncomfortable." 🤡

  • @zahrakader2964
    @zahrakader2964 3 месяца назад +1

    People who crochet are so frikken cute and wholesome. What an adorable Hobbie, I love it 😭

  • @ninkastefinova4351
    @ninkastefinova4351 20 дней назад +1

    You are the kindest person on the world

  • @urfav_kav
    @urfav_kav Год назад +14543

    i saw the guilt in her eyes when you offered to pay less. you put her in a extremely awkward situation. even if you gave her more afterwards, it’s still rlly messed up. please don’t do this.

    • @myouniverse0613
      @myouniverse0613 Год назад +611

      Bargaining the price isn't a new thing and it isn't rude. People do it all the time and if the vendor doesn't want to bargain they can refuse.

    • @socorrespecial
      @socorrespecial Год назад +957

      ​@@myouniverse0613the thing is she rejected it the first time and he kept pushing it despite her being clearly uncomfortable.

    • @myouniverse0613
      @myouniverse0613 Год назад +378

      @@socorrespecial That's literally what haggling is. You ask for a lower price, and if they refuse, you ask for a slightly higher than you previously requested. Any vendor should expect a customer would eventually do that. You people need to realize that there will always be situations in life that could make you uncomfortable, but that doesn't necessarily mean you should avoid it. Learn to cope with it.

    • @desertrose3511
      @desertrose3511 Год назад +117

      Bargaining has been around for bargaining or thousands of years . And remember that at one point EVERYTHING was handmade

    • @desertrose3511
      @desertrose3511 Год назад +127

      @@socorrespecialbeing uncomfortable is being human. If you life a life where your never uncomfortable you aren’t living in the real world

  • @pterocardio
    @pterocardio Год назад +6198

    Please don't do this. Please. Artists already have a hard time getting paid fairly for their work. She was so uncomfortable with you haggling with her. Even if you had given her money afterwards, it still sets a bad example towards other people that if you push artists hard enough they will give you discounts against their own volition. Please dont put people in uncomfortable positions just for content. People deserve kindness regardless of whether or not they give into your attempts to haggle.
    Edit: it seems people think this comment is against haggling. It's not. I live in asia and I haggle a ton. I have nothing against it as long as it's done in a space where haggling is accepted and the person I'm haggling with is okay with it. But this person is obviously not okay with it. She said no the first few times and even said there's no negotiating so he just blatantly ignored her wishes for content and that's what I have a problem with, especially as other people already tend to undervalue artists so watching this video could make them feel like it's okay to do this with other artists as well.

    • @-Snape-
      @-Snape- Год назад +13

      rue

    • @-Snape-
      @-Snape- Год назад +53

      true*

    • @Etoot
      @Etoot Год назад +4

      ​@@-Snape-37 seconds ago

    • @marxllo123
      @marxllo123 Год назад +158

      Yes what this guy is doing makes her feel uncomfortable and he shouldn't be making videos about this ik he's trying to be kind but personally I wouldn't like this to happen to me

    • @ObvyJennae
      @ObvyJennae Год назад +23

      Ok? He did it so get over it

  • @meowjakx3
    @meowjakx3 9 месяцев назад +8

    These take so long to make, her prices were extremely reasonable!!!

  • @theanimefan00
    @theanimefan00 Месяц назад +1

    All crocheters will immediately understand why no negotiation in those prices. ❤ Nice message from the crocheter lady. ❤

  • @Sonns7900
    @Sonns7900 Год назад +729

    As someone who crochets I can promise her prices are fair. I have to order my yarn online and it's not cheap. I see people selling themselves short online and it's put me off trying to sell my toys. I've been crocheting since I was 18 and I'm 43 now. Good on her and thank you for recognising the value of her work ❤❤❤

    • @tuliptown9058
      @tuliptown9058 Год назад +9

      Yeah, she honestly could sell them for more.

    • @Eric-xh9ee
      @Eric-xh9ee Год назад +5

      Yeah my girlfriend crochets and it takes so long to make stuffed animals and various things. I can't believe he doesn't want to pay $15. It's really not that expensive. She's making like $0.10 per hour at that rate 🙄

    • @sarahtreviso4781
      @sarahtreviso4781 Год назад

      Proud of her for taking a lower price than she wanted because she gave in to the man’s constant nagging?

    • @millennialodyssey5956
      @millennialodyssey5956 Год назад +1

      Actually you find better prices online instead of in shops. They have more selection also.

    • @millennialodyssey5956
      @millennialodyssey5956 Год назад +1

      ​@@Eric-xh9eepretty sure he was doing that just to bless her on purpose.

  • @nishatjamil4097
    @nishatjamil4097 11 месяцев назад +647

    "I wanna spread kindness and give extra." So maybe pay the $15 and then tip? Why hassle such a kind and hardworking person?

    • @themonsterunderyourbed5567
      @themonsterunderyourbed5567 3 месяца назад +11

      I think the first part was a prank? Cause idk if you watched the video until the end he gives her 30

    • @Skypuppy-rk2cn
      @Skypuppy-rk2cn 3 месяца назад +24

      ​@@themonsterunderyourbed5567
      They know. They just said to pay The normal price and then tip instead of making her uncomfy first and annoying her. There was no need for that "prank" part

    • @randyestrada6224
      @randyestrada6224 2 месяца назад +8

      @@themonsterunderyourbed5567ya but it seems wrong in a way like trying to test them to see if they are good or not almost feels like temptation and forcing in a way😬

    • @alexsdiary6410
      @alexsdiary6410 2 месяца назад +5

      I also think like that, its like testing, if you give in and accept less then i give you more. Why would someone do that? Pay the woman and thats it.

    • @MissesMarble
      @MissesMarble 2 месяца назад +1

      Exactly my thoughts

  • @daisylazy9824
    @daisylazy9824 11 месяцев назад +8

    Her smile is precious shes obviously such an awesome soul.

  • @ron5260
    @ron5260 27 дней назад

    Her smile is amazing, great to see a younger generation continue a tradition. You go girl

  • @Afro237
    @Afro237 Год назад +568

    This one feels really off to me bc he is basically guilt tripping her into lowering the prices and crocheting takes a lot of time and effort so the price is ok

    • @oliviamizzi33
      @oliviamizzi33 Год назад +6

      Your young and have no idea what real guilt tripping this generation is screwed.

    • @ginat.8064
      @ginat.8064 Год назад

      @@oliviamizzi33 no more screwed than you, considering you don’t know the difference between your and you’re.
      OP is right, he was being very rude.

    • @kpopsolos
      @kpopsolos Год назад

      @@leomarlinv and you are too

    • @RicosCoutureX
      @RicosCoutureX Год назад

      Did y'all not watch the rest of the video? Dumb asf

    • @natalie-tw23
      @natalie-tw23 Год назад +6

      Yea her prices are so reasonable too. I’ve been to places where they cost even more. That’s a nice deal for $15

  • @Zellenia
    @Zellenia 11 месяцев назад +1277

    'Juat spreading kindness today' while also making her uncomfortable. She deserved more than $30 for the exploitation.

    • @mandiehuns1602
      @mandiehuns1602 9 месяцев назад +85

      No kidding. Those pieces of art are very personal to her and he stressed her out over them.

    • @hearts_for_the_swifties
      @hearts_for_the_swifties 9 месяцев назад +3

      Not really tbh there overpriced

    • @aubrey5763
      @aubrey5763 9 месяцев назад

      @@hearts_for_the_swiftieshow r they overpriced if anything there underpriced with all the effort and time and the money for the yarn 🧶 it’s not overpriced 😒😒

    • @aspenco4782
      @aspenco4782 9 месяцев назад +83

      @@hearts_for_the_swifties Its not. Crocheting is very long and tiring, And yarn is sometimes very expensive. And its also based on how much time you spent on crocheting and types of yarns.

    • @hearts_for_the_swifties
      @hearts_for_the_swifties 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@aspenco4782 nah I'm right

  • @mettamaurilla1263
    @mettamaurilla1263 8 месяцев назад

    Why it's kind of heart warming. She is so genuine

  • @Ryanpullin8852
    @Ryanpullin8852 16 дней назад +1

    I'm proud of her because you could tell it made her uncomfortable to say no but she struck to her guns anyway. She knows her worth and how long it can take to crochet some of the things she makes. Proud of her.

  • @ElainefromPenguinPlaceCrafts
    @ElainefromPenguinPlaceCrafts Год назад +2598

    I like that she stood her ground. At one of my recent shows, I was so desperate for a sale that I took a customer's low-ball offer, and felt bad about it for the rest of the show.

    • @ryguy794
      @ryguy794 Год назад +80

      Don’t feel bad!! It’s tough out there. Do you have an online shop of any kind? I’m always looking to support small businesses/artists!

    • @eggowaffle4555
      @eggowaffle4555 Год назад +8

      U made a sale anything was enough

    • @SilverSaviourA911
      @SilverSaviourA911 Год назад +10

      Link your art shop.

    • @ElainefromPenguinPlaceCrafts
      @ElainefromPenguinPlaceCrafts Год назад +21

      @@SilverSaviourA911 I put in a link earlier, but it seems to have been removed. My Etsy shop name is in my profile pic.

    • @johnbaldwell3395
      @johnbaldwell3395 Год назад +18

      People don’t understand the work that goes into art. They see something that looks mass produced and don’t understand the artistry that does into hand making something that is so over saturated and uninspired in our society.

  • @Ai-zd7fr
    @Ai-zd7fr Год назад +1967

    She would have felt more blessed with kindness if you had just bought two of the $15 plushies versus harassing her over one just to give her a “tip”. This is not kindness… it’s harassment. You clearly stressed her out and made her feel bad the whole time. Just buy two and let her have her day of having sold those two without stress.

    • @_kikizaman_
      @_kikizaman_ Год назад +82

      Exactly

    • @kalyani1379
      @kalyani1379 Год назад +106

      You are absolutely right. however if the creator did exactly what you said he wouldn't recieve the amount of views he's getting now :) just the nature of 'kindness' content

    • @nanawordie7967
      @nanawordie7967 Год назад +38

      I agree. This was messed up

    • @sierrab5904
      @sierrab5904 Год назад +71

      Yup. This approach at “kindness” was very weird and forced

    • @thirddddd
      @thirddddd Год назад +12

      This

  • @Gettingbetter28
    @Gettingbetter28 8 месяцев назад +1

    I know there are people being awesome without the camera - that’s what matters.

  • @wxstednxghts
    @wxstednxghts Год назад +935

    I'm sorry but I would've been like "why did you ask for a lower price then.." 😂😭💀

    • @jalynisawesome
      @jalynisawesome Год назад

      One thing I want to say to the world? Don't f*king low ball artists! We work our asses off and most of us don't even ask as much as we should for our hard work because we know people also work hard for their money and then there's people like you! Ugh

    • @scottiegirl8290
      @scottiegirl8290 Год назад +10

      Idk probably just to troll her then give her a tip idk tbh

    • @Mrtrigrhappy
      @Mrtrigrhappy Год назад +10

      To see if she was willing to be kind because that's what he was about to do by blessing her... My god you people are blind.

    • @aleclorian7329
      @aleclorian7329 Год назад +50

      @@Mrtrigrhappy it’s not unkind to not lower your prices?… yarn is expensive and this takes hours of labor. You’re not being mean by losing money!

    • @shedoesntlikepicture
      @shedoesntlikepicture Год назад +3

      And he's like " I'm just spreading kindness"

  • @Xandrr333
    @Xandrr333 11 месяцев назад +531

    Bro put music for a 15 dollar tip💀

    • @nhucb1
      @nhucb1 6 месяцев назад +83

      And he makes so much money off these videos it’s crazy

    • @user-ec7gt9zr8j
      @user-ec7gt9zr8j 4 месяца назад +1

      he makes people doing good things to others

    • @aptokro3005
      @aptokro3005 Месяц назад +1

      Oh my god 35 million views for 15 dollars is insane, I never checked the view count

    • @Lola_x100
      @Lola_x100 Месяц назад +4

      Pftttt yeahh it’s so pathetic💀Her work should already be worth what he paid her anyway! It’s hard to make these kind of things 🫤

    • @JosephMathew-vf7kz
      @JosephMathew-vf7kz 23 дня назад

      Ugh.. i don't know buti think they are feeling Lil uncomfortable and awkward

  • @user-og7zu4km6s
    @user-og7zu4km6s 10 месяцев назад +8

    She is so kind 💗

    • @zyrusdeleon120
      @zyrusdeleon120 9 месяцев назад

      She? She means girl he is boy

    • @kdalessandro9895
      @kdalessandro9895 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@zyrusdeleon120I think they mean the vendor.

  • @jennamakesbugs
    @jennamakesbugs Год назад +3023

    $15 minus materials means she is paying herself less than $5/hr. Even less if she had to pay to set up her table there. If you cannot pay that, move along.

    • @catgash
      @catgash Год назад +305

      yeah like obviously at the end of a video he seems like a great guy for giving her $30 but it gave me the ick that the bit was he was hustling her 🫠 like why couldnt u just buy one of the plushies and paid her $30… o wait i know why its for The Content and for the comments like mine that complain about it lmao

    • @jennamakesbugs
      @jennamakesbugs Год назад +106

      @@catgash Unfortunately not every viewer will make the connection that the unnecessary drama is for views and may emulate this behavior themselves. I wish people realized, if they are going to produce content that builds a large following, they need to be more responsible about how others see them treat people. This video is just a mild example of disrespect. There are many much worse.

    • @delilahgillis5287
      @delilahgillis5287 Год назад +19

      USUALLY COST $40 TO SET UP YOUR BOOTH IF YOU DON'T SELL ANYTHING YOU ARE OUT $40

    • @Wesjag03
      @Wesjag03 Год назад +5

      Crappy people willing to do this for real wouldn’t get the idea of a short clip…they would do it regardless.

    • @shawnariggs2485
      @shawnariggs2485 Год назад +7

      Seriously!!!!! People really drive me nuts I know some people that will go to places just to haggle as a sport for fun because they enjoy it. I want to vomit when people do that especially if they have the money and don’t need to be doing it. i’m so sorry I didn’t end up working out. People suck sometimes and ruin a good thing😞 I hope you at least still enjoy doing it for fun. Great gifts for family and friends.❤

  • @cassidope
    @cassidope Год назад +556

    Maybe don’t act like a jerk and try to force her to sell it cheaper. Just be a decent person outright.

    • @paulap4546
      @paulap4546 Год назад +35

      Right? He made me feel so uncomfortable gosh

    • @katiem4539
      @katiem4539 Год назад +4

      He was gonna give more anyway. It was weird but I think he definitely didn’t mean her any harm.

    • @AnthropomorphicCat
      @AnthropomorphicCat Год назад +1

      ​@@jprobles4152 omg stop repeating your reply.

    • @annelisasdogmomadventures6753
      @annelisasdogmomadventures6753 Год назад

      It’s the way he does videos don’t like it move on ….
      He always gives way more after , lord than I’m sure you will ever give anyone !
      He sees if ur worth giving you the $$$..
      Even if she hadn’t dropped it 1$ IM SURE BECAUSE HES DONE IT BEFORE HE WOULD HABE BOUGHT IT AND GABE THE 30 anyway !
      Something you’d never do in ur life !
      Stop being so mean , or learn to watch his videos

    • @annelisasdogmomadventures6753
      @annelisasdogmomadventures6753 Год назад

      @@paulap4546 why?
      Do you not follow this guy or your new and just comm eating off 1 video , seems like it …. Smh!
      Be nice as this lady said .
      Even if they aren’t able to drop the price he always ends up buying and giving more. Somthing I’m sure you and most wouldn’t do

  • @Ghost-nq2wi
    @Ghost-nq2wi 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love that some much it's so kind that he did that 🥹

  • @yanelagonzalez7373
    @yanelagonzalez7373 9 месяцев назад

    He gives so much small money and such big happiness!

  • @christinasolaris4722
    @christinasolaris4722 Год назад +19

    Taking her time and energy by negotiating her boundaries, then tipping her a tiny amount, and then posting and monetizing it on RUclips has nothing to do with spreading kindness. It's thinly veiled extraction.

  • @goldie4289
    @goldie4289 Год назад +236

    As someone who crochets I would be so damn offended. Haggling with ANY crafter is just a no-no… I can’t even IMAGINE being this disrespectful.

  • @charmainealex7978
    @charmainealex7978 2 месяца назад

    I agree 💯% what you said. Spreading a little kindness because you never know what someone is going through. Thank you so much for sharing your story beautiful crochet work. 🙏🥰

  • @chrisdorrell1
    @chrisdorrell1 4 месяца назад

    She has a lovely smile too.

  • @Karina-jm2oe
    @Karina-jm2oe Год назад +32

    I prefer that people pay the prices i have instead of negotiating much more than getting a tip.

  • @katrielisrael7262
    @katrielisrael7262 Год назад +67

    Poor girl, this video was way below the belt.

  • @wlfsprt9125
    @wlfsprt9125 7 месяцев назад +1

    Message....
    Love and compassion

  • @miavalentine9855
    @miavalentine9855 10 месяцев назад

    I FUDGING LOVE THAT THIS HAPPENED TO THIS PERSON!X SHE SOOOO DESERVED IT!X I ABSOLUTELY LOVE AND ADORE HER CREATIONS,...!!

  • @-Secret
    @-Secret Год назад +66

    I honestly understand her process. Crochet its that simple, and to make cute little figures out of them takes a lot of skill and talent, her prices are quite reasonable

  • @lynnealuebben1967
    @lynnealuebben1967 11 месяцев назад +1125

    Very proud of her for not selling herself short. It is so hard when you know you want to make a sale, but you made those things, directly. They came from you--and that time is precious too. That was lovely what he did for her at the end.

  • @samanthamarzahn
    @samanthamarzahn 10 месяцев назад

    She's so sweet I love her attitude!❤

  • @Vlogs_fiona
    @Vlogs_fiona 10 месяцев назад +1

    You could tell it pained her to say no. But she still stuck with it. Love her sm

  • @InfiniteFur
    @InfiniteFur Год назад +28

    As an artist, haggling over something I’ve spent hours on makes me very upset 😅

  • @nasinnarcotics
    @nasinnarcotics 11 месяцев назад +65

    I don’t know how kind of a gesture this actually was
    He made her extremely uncomfortable, then gave her $30 and a self-congratulatory “just spreading kindness”

  • @knitbynhoa
    @knitbynhoa 9 месяцев назад +1

    Learn to knit and then talk 😅 she is so kind 💕

  • @jphears17
    @jphears17 9 месяцев назад

    She smiled the entire time he was there

  • @backwoodsbaby9729
    @backwoodsbaby9729 Год назад +17

    Devaluing the work she has done and then giving more is rude
    Those things probably cost her the amount she is selling them in yarn, she probably is getting no money for her skills or work/time.

    • @pickleluvrs
      @pickleluvrs Год назад +5

      yeah I thought this was weird. it was rude, no one should be expected to take low ball offers on their work. and rewarding her with an extra $15? that’s probably closer to what she actually should have charged

  • @AmareloLouro
    @AmareloLouro Год назад +950

    She has a pure soul. I don’t know why my eyes got wet. We need more of this kindness

    • @mikeericabynum9584
      @mikeericabynum9584 11 месяцев назад +2

      Absolutely I agree i am glad that JESUS christ died for me he paid a debt that he didn't owe and I owed a debt I couldn't pay....she must know him personally because she has fruit of the spirit...this made my eye water up also.....thank you for your comment you have love for humanity and your neighbor..let me bless you now with the benediction of Aaron....may the lord bless you and keep you and may his face shine with favor upon you and may he be gracious unto you and give you his peace in JESUS NAME amen and amen....from WASHINGTON INDIANA thank you for your comment touched my spirit

    • @jakeleo4518
      @jakeleo4518 11 месяцев назад

      *the camera aimed at her face* *and that annoying ass song*

    • @offtheshtz
      @offtheshtz 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@mikeericabynum9584wtf

  • @Cardio_gram
    @Cardio_gram 5 месяцев назад

    I love the kindness you spread around the world ❤so cute the little blue animal

  • @EB-tr2ly
    @EB-tr2ly 19 дней назад

    She has positive vibes that attracted the camera guy to bless her

  • @jazzyroly
    @jazzyroly Год назад +2668

    So you guilt tripped her into lowering her prices for an awkward ass video with sad music in the background

    • @kaylee9456
      @kaylee9456 Год назад +59

      No? He acted like he was gonna get it lower but then gave her £30 as a surprise

    • @ghaidaisbored
      @ghaidaisbored Год назад +26

      As long theres some money no one gaf

    • @SilverCoffee_16
      @SilverCoffee_16 Год назад +29

      Someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed today lol

    • @georgechanturiawithmontigu8796
      @georgechanturiawithmontigu8796 Год назад +72

      @@kaylee9456Making somebody uncomfortable just for a $15 tip is kindness? I mean it would be if he didn’t film this and upload it on RUclips just so he can get more money.

    • @sk83r59
      @sk83r59 Год назад +3

      Fr

  • @handmadebyhira827
    @handmadebyhira827 Месяц назад

    I wish we had people. Like you supporting crafter and hardworkers in our country. We hardly meet anyone someone this nice around anymore.

  • @Sight4SoreEyes039
    @Sight4SoreEyes039 Год назад +1186

    If you were really spreading kindness you should've just tipped extra from the beginning without haggling and without videoing it. Do you want her to learn that if she relents and lowers her price she will be rewarded? Only people with a weird god-complex would do that.

    • @loudale5701
      @loudale5701 Год назад +88

      I agree he put her out of her comfort zone . Handmade materials are the number one materials. She took a lot of time and investment to make those. She actually deserves more

    • @jaydenking7408
      @jaydenking7408 Год назад +12

      ​@@whitwat go google what a god conplex is. Also there are so many ideas of god so you're just straight up wrong

    • @eiosti
      @eiosti Год назад +8

      ​@@whitwat a god complex is when someone acts or thinks as if they themselves are god

    • @minorek8615
      @minorek8615 Год назад +10

      ​@@whitwat youre mistaking god with god-complex

    • @Sight4SoreEyes039
      @Sight4SoreEyes039 Год назад +12

      @@whitwat The "god-complex" I refer to is when one gets kicks out of controlling another person's life and death. Although, this is way smaller in scale and I could be wrong about the guy's intentions, it's the idea of "I can bring you to heaven or hell with just a few words" that makes his actions look like a god-complex.

  • @xAiriyo
    @xAiriyo Год назад +204

    As someone who crochets I’m VERY glad he gave her the extra money. That octopus(?) was 15 and was honestly priced low already. The labor and material cost is definitely worth more than that. I really hope her crochet business booms because her plushies are super cute ❤

  • @harmannnirbaan85funvideos73
    @harmannnirbaan85funvideos73 5 месяцев назад +1

    I started tearing up while watching this

  • @Montrovantis
    @Montrovantis 11 месяцев назад +3860

    "I'm just spreading kindness." When you try to turn your life into a platitude instead of simply being that.

    • @blackraven4721
      @blackraven4721 11 месяцев назад +116

      Yeah totally it gives the ick

    • @werethewilsons
      @werethewilsons 11 месяцев назад +72

      Couldnt agree nore he makes me cringe.

    • @GoldenWreck
      @GoldenWreck 11 месяцев назад +148

      Ikr, and the overused sad music on top just adds to the cringe. Just be kind, dude. No need to showcase it in order to feel validated by the rest of the internet.

    • @First-Mila-theday
      @First-Mila-theday 11 месяцев назад +14

      Thank you omg

    • @demmyb5619
      @demmyb5619 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@GoldenWreckpeople make video's like these to show others they (their viewers) can be kind aswell and inspire them to do the same. Influencers

  • @DanielleInTheWild
    @DanielleInTheWild Год назад +22

    Really wanted her to just be like 'yeah i don't do haggling or gaslighty manipulation to make you look like a saint. I'm not saying 'sorry' for my prices, have a day'.

  • @godisincontrol7407
    @godisincontrol7407 Месяц назад

    Her work is beautiful and so is her smile!

  • @user-sc6ie1zb6u
    @user-sc6ie1zb6u 5 месяцев назад

    So true you never know what other people go through and just being nice goes a long way

  • @yuriminako
    @yuriminako Год назад +1141

    If you wanna spread kindness then don't negotiate the price and pay what she deserves for her work -.-

    • @chilliblues
      @chilliblues Год назад +21

      He paid 30 dollars post negotiation

    • @Futu06
      @Futu06 Год назад +95

      @@chilliblues Yeah he could have tipped that anyway and not be a dick about it.

    • @chilliblues
      @chilliblues Год назад +12

      Probably just checking if the vendor would be kind enough to lessen a dollar or smth

    • @Futu06
      @Futu06 Год назад +64

      ​@@chilliblues Yeaah, no. Kindness is paying your local artisans and small businesses the price they ask and not being a dick about it. Most of these people already price their work way lower than they probably should, because it's not like crafts are a necessity, the prices are already set low so they have a chance to even sell anything. A lot of the time, haggling puts people in a position where they feel pressured to agree just to make A sale if they're desperate enough. Just don't do this. Pay the price they ask and tip extra if you want, to appreciate their work.

    • @laureshamoreau5388
      @laureshamoreau5388 Год назад +7

      He was probably just joking and that he was gonna give her the 30 anyway 😑

  • @ateiluj08
    @ateiluj08 Год назад +189

    Doing crochet is just a beautiful work of art, and you should never try to belittle their work by asking them to sell their work for less. It takes them time to make their work.
    My mom does crochet mostly for fun now because she got tired of people telling her work was overpriced , and trying to negotiate her prices. She has made me so many stuff over the years. Those are like treasures to me. I love every single thing she has made for me.

    • @destinkyle77
      @destinkyle77 Год назад

      do u get a good bit of crochet videos recommended to you by RUclips?

    • @mysticmusical
      @mysticmusical Год назад

      Ppl don't understand how expensive yarn is 😭

  • @ijanms
    @ijanms 10 месяцев назад +1

    She's so pretty - with a heart to match ❤

  • @MAIDAH635
    @MAIDAH635 4 месяца назад

    She is so sweet man. I can't

  • @GhostieToasterStrudel
    @GhostieToasterStrudel Год назад +503

    Hope that lady the best with her business. ❤️

  • @FoxyGames332
    @FoxyGames332 2 месяца назад

    This is the best message to send to someone else

  • @punkinpie2
    @punkinpie2 9 месяцев назад

    Like the doughnuts , muffins , and cookies . Love her smile !

  • @sabrinabee8039
    @sabrinabee8039 11 месяцев назад +490

    As an avid crocheter this felt gross, not kind. Filming yourself make someone super uncomfortable and then turning around and saying your spreading kindness is weird. I wouldn’t want someone posting my discomfort on the internet for views.

    • @redshift912
      @redshift912 7 месяцев назад +18

      Yeah , it’s a super weird video . I’m definitely hitting the do not recommend

    • @cessnacitation-x
      @cessnacitation-x 7 месяцев назад +3

      This comment has nothing to do with you crocheting, so I'm not sure why you shoehorned that in. Also, nobody cares, you can film whoever you want, if you don't like it, whatever. Deal with it.

    • @Dragon-wl5ic
      @Dragon-wl5ic 7 месяцев назад +7

      That's not spreading kindness at all, that is the epedemy of narcissism!!!

    • @lounahachmy7151
      @lounahachmy7151 7 месяцев назад +2

      I agree

    • @ginwang5426
      @ginwang5426 7 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, it seems like gaslighting.

  • @irenedelev3370
    @irenedelev3370 Год назад +636

    this man just shitting on an artist work and thinking he cool for giving an extra 15$ for ruining her day lmao
    [edit] this is MY opinion, dont give a damn if you think the opposite 😴

    • @yeet2856
      @yeet2856 Год назад +5

      fax lmaoo

    • @Enedinag5464
      @Enedinag5464 Год назад +3

      Right

    • @user-tv6zj3hu1x
      @user-tv6zj3hu1x Год назад +2

      He gave her thirty if you can’t see or hear it

    • @loon7181
      @loon7181 Год назад +4

      ​@@user-tv6zj3hu1x 30-15=15, you are welcome.

    • @Daisy.599
      @Daisy.599 Год назад +1

      ​@@saskiasofiaMaths? 😂