The age gap is less of a big deal the older you both are but I just can’t imagine being 20 years old and with a 65 year old man. Anything more than 10 years (maybe 15 years of older) is like another generation, especially when younger.
Would it be ok if it were a 20 year boy with 65 year old lady? You seem to demonize old men ya know. All of them aren't creepy. These ladies willingly chose to date these men how is that their fault?
@@nathanvelotta he mentioned 20 year old with a 65 year old "man". He specified that part mate. That is still besides the point, what really matters is that they all are consenting adults.
@@out_of_orbit1968 yes it would still be weird if it was a 20 year old guy and 65 year old woman. it might not be illegal but that doesn’t mean it isn’t strange and possibly predatory.
Really unfair to the child, his father is gonna die before hes 20 or even 15. It would be a miracle if he made it longer than that. Even then, hes gonna be having to take care of an elderly man at age 12 and up. A child shouldnt have to do that.
And? He should be able to have a child when he feels ready. I don't want a child before I'm in my fifties, either, I'd feel immature and frankly I'd feel like I'd be throwing away my life. Just my personal opinion about my own life! And if I'm allowed to have a personal opinion about my own life - so should he!
Old men creeping on young girls is such a big thing tbh. When I was working as a teenager I had so many old men try to hit on me (I started working at 14) and when I was 17 I had a man ask “where were you between my two marriages?” And he was like 60. I was thinking “probably not even born”.
24 with a 69 year old, that's almost 3x her age, get a child with him, does she not understand the effects of old age and more so the risks for the child? Even her own dad is probably younger than him.
I've gotta say I was in a large age gap relationship when I was 18 I was dating a 32 year old woman and I didn't have an issue with the age gap at the time but once we separated and I reflected the big issue was that she used her age and "life experience" to manipulate and control me you may legally be an adult but you can still very easily be manipulated by older people when you're that age
What if the older person turns you down multiple times bc you’re too young for them and you don’t stop hitting on them until they give in and agree to go on a movie friend date and the younger female kisses the older man and from then on they dated moved in and got married? Bc that’s my life and I’m happy asf. Sorry others haven’t experienced unconditional true love & can’t understand how someone could love someone who was born in a different generation than them.
@@VerzPWakaRelentless I feel like it might have something to do with money but very little because they are still together 4 years after this episode aired
Regarding the first one, looks are often given too much importance in our society but they do play a major role in physical attraction which of course plays a major role in whether or not you have a healthy physical relationship. I've dated people that I didn't necessarily think were great looking but they were such a cool people that it mattered less. That said in a long-term relationship it definitely does matter even if we don't base looks on value it matters with physical attraction, you can't help it if you're not attracted to someone physically. So either she really does love him deeply or there's something we aren't aware of. I will say though I'm leaning towards love I mean look at the way she looks at him
I mean he did say she hasn’t asked for a single penny and she does her own work still. So even if we can’t necessarily understand it, they seems so happy and genuine together.
I think that man does look like an adorable guy and he seems pretty cool as well. I don't know if I would have fallen so hard for him, but I can see why she likes him in a way. I would like him as a wacky neighbor or an uncle that I saw a lot.
These girls are either in love, or smart af playing the long game. Most of these older dudes seem like they're fairly well off. Where's that real-estate and financial stability going after old man kicks the bucket?... I'm banking on option two, but if they're genuine?! Kudos! We all deserve some sort of happiness in life.
Age gaps really aren't that big of a deal when talking about adults. However, I believe that really young and attractive ones going for really old ones, they have ulterior motives.
I've got no problems with age gap, but it really depends on what the power dynamics are. It could get problematic if there is one of them doing it for bad reasons.
@@ByAzuraByAzuraByAzura true, depends how big of a gap we’re talking though and how young the younger one is. For instance, I’ve met plenty 18-19 years old women with the same emotional maturity as a mid to late twenties year old man. At the end of the day it boils down to individual maturity, experiences and self awareness. Ive met some young men who are more aware than some of the older women I’ve met and visa versa. You’d sort of need to examine each different relationship separately as there are all sorts of different people at different ages at different levels of maturity.n
I said this in another comment, but I agree. Before judging a relationship with an age gap, we should take into account how old both of them are and the context. For example, say a couple had a 20 year age gap? I would view it as none of my business if it was between a 30 and 50 year old couple because they would be mature enough. However, if the couple was a 20 year old and a 40 year old it would feel off.
I was just dumped from a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend who was 16 years older, and the age difference matters. It’s like a fever dream and can feel right and in my opinion it ‘could’ work, but not likely.
@@scienceman1837 Because I think all guys love younger girls, and dream to date younger girls. And they would put up with a lot of stuffs in order to keep their young girlfriends. So I am just shocked that he dumped her. That's all.
Depends. I think some women just naturally prefer older men. My mum's friend used to mainly date older men and her husband in the end turned out to be 20 years older, but sadly he passed away a while ago
This all gives me Hugh Hefner vibes... These guys are probably having the time of their lives, but I would feel guilty being in their shoes, leaving a young wife and child behind... I'm 37 myself, and can't imagine dating someone below 30 because of that, I want to be there to support and care for them... Not that they can't support or care for themselves, but it's a matter of responsibility... The heart and the mind don't always agree, I suppose...
@@chaseknestrick1286 35 going on 36 and I'm also an oompa enjoyer . Most of our peers were shitposting online in the 2000's so being a fan of his humor isn't that crazy .
@@chaseknestrick1286 why wouldn't I be? I'm still a millenial, just like Oompa, doesn't mean I suddenly have to start watching the History Channel or something... Do you consider youtube to be a child channel or something? ;) (Also, have you watched any TV lately? It's not that there's any quality entertainment on there...)
the couple where they had a child was extremely weird for me as the baby was called 'Lochlan' . That is the first time I've ever see someone with the same name as me , and for it to be a massive age gap couple isn't very motivating for me . so uh , yeah
When he was 60, she was 15. So there's that. The 2 serious relationships I've been in were considered age gap relationships but both were around a 15 year gap. 45 years is.... Definitely extreme.
As someone who dated someone 19 years older than myself, once you're in a relationship you care about the other no matter the age, the big problem is life phases. as I just got into what adult life really is about, she was already hoping to settle down and was way more dependant on me than i was on her, if you can plan and communicate your wishes well and make compromises if needed, it can work, both parties will just have to put in more effort
Old man looks like a foreign country import of a garden gnome you'd find at the dollar store, but he seems like a nice lad and I wish nothing against him as a person
I just looked him up and apparently they broke up after a video where he wasn’t as wholesome and was kinda rude to her on camera. Unfortunate, because it seemed like a genuine relationship but you never know when it comes to video personalities.
The delusions of thinking a "Sugar baby" is in love with you, a literal professional "girl friend", who literally admits to being with 20 other guys as well that pay her, is pretty unreal.
Reminds me of when I was at a car event last year with my dad (my dad was 50, I was 19) and someone who knew my dad came up to us and he looked at me up and down and stated to my dad "You got yourself an even younger wifey?" and dad and I just looked at each other awkwardly and my dad just quietly said "... She's my eldest daughter..." It was so awkward I can't--
7:55 I have never been bothered by a kiss, not in person, by family members and their lovers kissing, or in movies even when I was younger but this sent a literal shiver down my spine. I don’t know if it was just because it was unexpected or what
When I was 25 I dated a 43 year old. I’m mature for my age so we got along really well. There were differences due to the gap like political ideas and music taste, and life lessons yet to be learned. We eventually split because of this and just knew it wouldnt work out long term. I don’t think it’s impossible for it to work out, and there was nothing creepy about him. just comes down to preference. It can work, but statistically they are much less likely to last. But that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with it. I can see it being creepy in certain situations sure, especially if the younger person is 18-23, but that doesn’t mean every age gap relationship Is creepy or doomed to fail, or that the girl is a gold digger. We just got along really well, like how anyone meets.
I dated 43 year old at 25 too...he was biggest guilt-tripper ever. "Why won't you hold my hand more in public? Are you ashamed of meee?" But he sure was shocked when I left him.
Hes 70 - then- and they had a baby. I mean...my heart genuinely breaks a little inside for the entire thing of you know, the child...the mom...and him even. To spend your life loving someone to loose them that much sooner....IDK...its really hard to imagine and Im pretty empathetic, I don't even want to let myself feel that. It's intense.
I'm currently dating someone who is 16 years older that I am and its the most fulfilling and supportive relationship I've ever had. The way he lets me knows he genuinely cares, supports my dreams and goals, and takes care of me when I'm hurting is nothing short of amazing. His patience with me too is something I really needed because of my horrid anxiety and depression for a time. I don't even notice the age thing really, we make jokes about it sometimes, and have a lot in common that it doesn't matter to me. While I also think certain age gaps are strange to a degree (like 30+ years difference is a bit eh to me- but again I can't judge) my rule has always been: as long as it's consensual, genuinely beneficial, and not toxic I don't care if there is a gap. People like to make a lot of assumptions about relationships like this, and some are justified, but if the two are adults and are happy then just let them be.
You know what, 16-20 years is just fine to me. In my preferrence, I don't want it to be like 20+ years gap coz yeah. I really don't know what to say, I have daddy issues HAHAHAHAHA
@@LEN2000 Yeah I still think some gaps are a bit questionable, but I do think true love can happen and it be genuine without any issues. I don't think I have daddy issues I just happened to fall for a dude whose goal was to make me smile when I was flustered at work.
I find it kind of interesting that appearance wise he’s really not changed much since he was a child actor. He looks exactly the same, but with wrinkles. I don’t think I’ve ever seen that before, and adult looks like their child self but old
Them having a kid makes me a bit sad. He’s not going to be able to watch that child grow up and that kid is going to deal with parent loss at such a young age. My parents died when I was 2 and my grandparents raised me. Loved them to bits and they were my favorite people ever but because of their age, I didn’t get much time with them and I still kinda resent that? I don’t know if that’s the right word. Just feel for the kid and what he will have to go through.
First guy seems like a super sweet guy. Being 40 and my husband 28, we have a slight age gap. Nothing like this though. But let's be honest - it takes all kinds, right? Not every human on this planet functions the conventional way. If they did, we all wouldn't be sitting here judging them in one way or another.
Bro you are totally correct and anyone who disagrees probably isn't even out of school yet! It's usually the kids who have the biggest misconceptions and expectations for the real world..
Imagine being 45, and your future wife isn't even born and when youre 50 she starts kindergarten, and when your child turns 15 you're like 84 and in a nursing home
Depending on the age gap-Idc, I like older men myself, so I don’t like to judge based off the age alone. I think the relationship dynamics speak volumes on whether or not the relationship is healthy or volatile. Sometimes there’s an obvious power imbalance or moral discrepancy that makes it hard to not be concerned or at the very least disgusted. I think that so long as two consenting adults are in functioning and healthy relationships it shouldn’t matter.
My parents were 22 years apart. My youngest half-brother is older than my mom by 6-7 years. My half-siblings from my dad's previous marriage have kids that are older than me, so I grew up with people 10y my senior calling me "auntie." Over the course of my life I found out my dad was friends with my mom's first husband, they all used to party together and do coke. Mom's first husband left her with my sister as a toddler, she hooked up with my dad, I happened so they got married, absolute shitshow for nearly 20 years. They had a slew of other problems, but I'm thankful I'm technically an 'only child.'
Oompaville always cheers me up. Even now, when I’m pretty much homeless staying at a friends house to get away from my dad, oompa still manages to make me laugh and smile. Thank you oompaville
This is nothing compared to the relationship my daughter is in. My kid is 26 and lives with her married 48 year old GF. Her GF is older than me! But she is very happy and well taken care of. It has taken me around a year to get over the shock. There's nothing my kids can do, that would make me love them less.
@@misxrsidv6978 im pretty sure they're joking, but its unfunny cause its worded to sound like like that pedoish relationship(also they need to word it differently so it doesn't get misconstrued)
I'm gonna judge because I can. Those 20 dudes who were giving her 300 for dinner more than likely didn't have 2 million sitting in the bank like Mason does. So, sorry but you can't renounce your gold digging by "settling" down with a dude that has a lot of money.
The worst part is that I went to high school with a lot of people who thought that the age gap didn't matter as much as the fact that the guy was older. To them, the man HAD to be older in any relationship. So a 21 year old woman dating a 20 year old man was wrong / illegal, but a 21 year old woman dating a 60 year old man was okay.
Honestly... if they're happy, she's not gold digging him and she seems to genuinely know what she wants and it's not " Oh, I'm doing this because I was abused in a very awful way by my dad, or my step-dad, or my brother. " - so on? It's honestly nice to see that people truly do love on a deeper level than physical. It's RARE in the modern age.
Dude its straight up grooming. Dating somone as old as your ancestors is straight up wrong. Which is why there needs to be a limit on the age gap. Uou cannot just justify it by saying their "happy".
This is reminding me of a video I saw on an unofficial Yu-Gi-Oh page where a dude blasted rope all over a card named "Sky Striker Ace - Raye" I bring this up because it was recently revealed that Raye is, canonically, 13 years old.
Anything over 10-15 years is weird and creepy. And if one person is younger than 22 anything younger than 3 years it’s just wrong. A 14 year old and 17 year old are in different stages of their life and that would’ve wrong for them to be together. ie: freshmen and senior relationships. I’d just like everyone to remember the half your age plus 7 rule 😞
After seeing a 20 year age gap between my 30-ish yo sister and her 53yo fiance (three months younger than our mother) I can't see anything wrong with an age gap. They're happy and I'm happy for them
The age gap is less of a big deal the older you both are but I just can’t imagine being 20 years old and with a 65 year old man. Anything more than 10 years (maybe 15 years of older) is like another generation, especially when younger.
Would it be ok if it were a 20 year boy with 65 year old lady? You seem to demonize old men ya know. All of them aren't creepy. These ladies willingly chose to date these men how is that their fault?
@@out_of_orbit1968 he never mentioned the other gender being any different.
@@nathanvelotta he mentioned 20 year old with a 65 year old "man". He specified that part mate. That is still besides the point, what really matters is that they all are consenting adults.
@@out_of_orbit1968 yes it would still be weird if it was a 20 year old guy and 65 year old woman. it might not be illegal but that doesn’t mean it isn’t strange and possibly predatory.
@@out_of_orbit1968 if you really think about it, it could be a straight female who is saying if I was 20 I couldn't imagine being with an old man.
Really unfair to the child, his father is gonna die before hes 20 or even 15. It would be a miracle if he made it longer than that. Even then, hes gonna be having to take care of an elderly man at age 12 and up. A child shouldnt have to do that.
He is in his 60s, not 100, and he isn't a land whale. He will probably pass when the kid is in their twenties. It's fine.
Better then being fatherless
And? He should be able to have a child when he feels ready. I don't want a child before I'm in my fifties, either, I'd feel immature and frankly I'd feel like I'd be throwing away my life. Just my personal opinion about my own life! And if I'm allowed to have a personal opinion about my own life - so should he!
@@Departure-yz7ok great take, but unfortunately your kneecaps are mine
I'm a child, I took care of my dad, now he's dead, I'm also 12 btw
That whole section of Caleb trying to calculate the age gap made me laugh way harder than it should have. Great edits, Tara
i cant imagine having a step bro thats almost or the same age as me lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Master Cheif: "No."
@@KxLLxR_beats "ohh stepbrother! I seem to have gotten stuck in the dryer, can you help pull me out?!?"
he did that math the same way I do.
Tara just made it even better
Like 666
Old men creeping on young girls is such a big thing tbh. When I was working as a teenager I had so many old men try to hit on me (I started working at 14) and when I was 17 I had a man ask “where were you between my two marriages?” And he was like 60. I was thinking “probably not even born”.
I would’ve replied “At school, where I usually am”
24 with a 69 year old, that's almost 3x her age, get a child with him, does she not understand the effects of old age and more so the risks for the child?
Even her own dad is probably younger than him.
No you're really not
I was okay with everything until having the baby. Kinda a selfish think to do tbh.
Yeah…I don’t think she’s thinking about how she might have to be raising her son alone at some point.
And they got together 4 years ago.....when she was 20....
That child’s gonna grow up without a dad at age 12
The first guy had the personality of winnie the pooh. He was so wholesome
Oh bother.
He looked like winne the Pooh to
@@tord5363 Pooh if he was a man lol
@@SuperSteve180 you beat me to it
I'm happy to know my Oblivion character from 2007 is finally doing well with his life
Goat comment
@@brandonroxanis6046 Goat
😭😂
Father? Is it really you after all this time?
what does ur oc or whatever have to do with this video?
I've gotta say I was in a large age gap relationship when I was 18 I was dating a 32 year old woman and I didn't have an issue with the age gap at the time but once we separated and I reflected the big issue was that she used her age and "life experience" to manipulate and control me you may legally be an adult but you can still very easily be manipulated by older people when you're that age
What if the older person turns you down multiple times bc you’re too young for them and you don’t stop hitting on them until they give in and agree to go on a movie friend date and the younger female kisses the older man and from then on they dated moved in and got married? Bc that’s my life and I’m happy asf. Sorry others haven’t experienced unconditional true love & can’t understand how someone could love someone who was born in a different generation than them.
You can be manipulated and controlled AT any age BY anyone of any age.
@@baconlove25bro got defensive
@@crystalbugboy sweet you think ima bro, that makes my day ❤️ love you have a great day sir!
@@baconlove25 bro is unisex 😔🫶
You can tell the first girl really loves him, and, albeit how strange it is, I can't help but feel happy for them :)
Your profile name reminds me of Drew Barrymore from Donnie Darko saying Cellar door is the most beautiful combinations of words....
nah its definitely money
@@VerzPWakaRelentless I feel like it might have something to do with money but very little because they are still together 4 years after this episode aired
@@justarandompanda7568 shes waiting for him to die to get all of his money
@@VerzPWakaRelentless even if it's that , they're both still happy.
my 40 year old dad started dating a 17 year old girl and yeah i told him off. i havent spoken to him in two years and they moved to texas together.
Of course they went to Texas 💀
My condolences
🤢🤢🤢
😂😂😂 she should have atleast water until she turned 18..why do these young girls want these old men for anyway? Most men won't turn them down
My Dad Is 45 and my mom is 43 they're been divorced like very long time ago when me and my brothers were Young.
Regarding the first one, looks are often given too much importance in our society but they do play a major role in physical attraction which of course plays a major role in whether or not you have a healthy physical relationship. I've dated people that I didn't necessarily think were great looking but they were such a cool people that it mattered less. That said in a long-term relationship it definitely does matter even if we don't base looks on value it matters with physical attraction, you can't help it if you're not attracted to someone physically. So either she really does love him deeply or there's something we aren't aware of. I will say though I'm leaning towards love I mean look at the way she looks at him
Made the likes 69 😎
I mean he did say she hasn’t asked for a single penny and she does her own work still. So even if we can’t necessarily understand it, they seems so happy and genuine together.
I think that man does look like an adorable guy and he seems pretty cool as well. I don't know if I would have fallen so hard for him, but I can see why she likes him in a way. I would like him as a wacky neighbor or an uncle that I saw a lot.
He’s got that schmeat Davidson
Lol I don't think physical attraction means anything. But I'm asexual so I might just be the odd one out
These girls are either in love, or smart af playing the long game. Most of these older dudes seem like they're fairly well off. Where's that real-estate and financial stability going after old man kicks the bucket?... I'm banking on option two, but if they're genuine?! Kudos! We all deserve some sort of happiness in life.
Imagine being 45 years old and your current girlfriend was just born
Imagine caring what two consenting adults do in their lives?
@@out_of_orbit1968 I don't care about the consenting adults I was making an age difference joke calm down buddy
@@out_of_orbit1968 I’m guessing you enjoy cancelling people on Twitter
@@MurkyDizZ u calm down buddy. I was also just "joking"
@@out_of_orbit1968 And clearly u weren’t joking u are pressed and u can tell
Age gaps really aren't that big of a deal when talking about adults. However, I believe that really young and attractive ones going for really old ones, they have ulterior motives.
Really old ones going after really young ones have ulterior motives too. Really creepy ones most of the time
@@starstorm1267 money
The problem isn’t as much a age gap it’s more about maturity
This is nothing like I expected it to be. Dude is actually pretty chill
*Who?*
@@cujo7600 who do you think they're talking about
@@magixxz5430 I don't know, that's why I'm asking.
@@cujo7600 😵💫
@@cujo7600 i also don't know who they're talking about. How could we?
Age gap is weird enough, but marrying the father of an old classmate, and then being your classmate’s step-mom is incredibly uncomfortable to me
Yeah I could not comprehend that
Remember all those nasty things you would say to me in school? I'm your mom now BOYYY😈
“He’s 54”
*The audience was too stunned to speak.*
@@Instabruh.User.. dude doesn’t even have any videos
I've got no problems with age gap, but it really depends on what the power dynamics are. It could get problematic if there is one of them doing it for bad reasons.
That’s an issue in any relationship lol
@@monimoobag246 But age is tricky and unique with its power dynamics.
@@ByAzuraByAzuraByAzura true, depends how big of a gap we’re talking though and how young the younger one is. For instance, I’ve met plenty 18-19 years old women with the same emotional maturity as a mid to late twenties year old man. At the end of the day it boils down to individual maturity, experiences and self awareness. Ive met some young men who are more aware than some of the older women I’ve met and visa versa. You’d sort of need to examine each different relationship separately as there are all sorts of different people at different ages at different levels of maturity.n
I'm guessing your not including age gaps like 15 and 30+ and basing this of people older than 18? I hops so
I said this in another comment, but I agree. Before judging a relationship with an age gap, we should take into account how old both of them are and the context. For example, say a couple had a 20 year age gap? I would view it as none of my business if it was between a 30 and 50 year old couple because they would be mature enough. However, if the couple was a 20 year old and a 40 year old it would feel off.
I always look forward to watching oompaville daily, it’s like a routine
Same man
Yeah
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“It’s like a reward.” 🤠
For sure
I was just dumped from a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend who was 16 years older, and the age difference matters. It’s like a fever dream and can feel right and in my opinion it ‘could’ work, but not likely.
He is 16 years older, and he dumped you?!?! Wow.
@@yolenda_loves_to_sing dude, why does that matter?
@@scienceman1837 Because I think all guys love younger girls, and dream to date younger girls. And they would put up with a lot of stuffs in order to keep their young girlfriends. So I am just shocked that he dumped her. That's all.
@@yolenda_loves_to_singall guys? ...🤨
Depends. I think some women just naturally prefer older men. My mum's friend used to mainly date older men and her husband in the end turned out to be 20 years older, but sadly he passed away a while ago
This all gives me Hugh Hefner vibes... These guys are probably having the time of their lives, but I would feel guilty being in their shoes, leaving a young wife and child behind... I'm 37 myself, and can't imagine dating someone below 30 because of that, I want to be there to support and care for them... Not that they can't support or care for themselves, but it's a matter of responsibility... The heart and the mind don't always agree, I suppose...
theres no way you’re thirty seven watching oompa
@@chaseknestrick1286
35 going on 36 and I'm also an oompa enjoyer .
Most of our peers were shitposting online in the 2000's so being a fan of his humor isn't that crazy .
@@chaseknestrick1286 why wouldn't I be? I'm still a millenial, just like Oompa, doesn't mean I suddenly have to start watching the History Channel or something... Do you consider youtube to be a child channel or something? ;) (Also, have you watched any TV lately? It's not that there's any quality entertainment on there...)
@@antiquechodeshow2443 Kind of weird when we have to defend ourselves, while we were the generation starting these shenanigans... Right? ;)
@@oretho6406
30's feel like such an old age until you literally are in your 30's haha
the couple where they had a child was extremely weird for me as the baby was called 'Lochlan' . That is the first time I've ever see someone with the same name as me , and for it to be a massive age gap couple isn't very motivating for me . so uh , yeah
Your name means warrior from the land of the lochs. Fair trade
Well lets be honest, who would not want a 80 year old sweet granny
Yea
XD
Those gilfs 🥴
60 sure, if 80 unless we’re already in a relationship nah
@@hozic9929 😏 definetly gilfs
i’m 23 and dating anyone over 26 feels like too big of a gap personally
You are fake.
How so
When he was 60, she was 15. So there's that. The 2 serious relationships I've been in were considered age gap relationships but both were around a 15 year gap. 45 years is.... Definitely extreme.
As someone who dated someone 19 years older than myself, once you're in a relationship you care about the other no matter the age, the big problem is life phases. as I just got into what adult life really is about, she was already hoping to settle down and was way more dependant on me than i was on her, if you can plan and communicate your wishes well and make compromises if needed, it can work, both parties will just have to put in more effort
I'm with someone 18 years older than me. I'm lucky that our maturity and stage of life are pretty much both right in the middle.
@@fuzz668 kkkkk ook kkkl
Old man looks like a foreign country import of a garden gnome you'd find at the dollar store, but he seems like a nice lad and I wish nothing against him as a person
The first one just warms my heart. Maybe it’s because the guy is so likeable but something about it is just less creepy than the other ones to me
I just looked him up and apparently they broke up after a video where he wasn’t as wholesome and was kinda rude to her on camera. Unfortunate, because it seemed like a genuine relationship but you never know when it comes to video personalities.
Money, security, daddy issues, lack of a father figure in one's life is usually the case.
Cause of odd behavior: Fatherlessness
I had a great father (we marathon Firefly together almost every summer) and I’m _still_ attracted to older men. So… checkmate atheist
@@mattuwu9978 ur father could be great but didn't raise a great girl.
🤣
@@mattuwu9978 Atheist???? 💀
The first one was so wholesome like they actually seem like a nice happy couple😭
Until the videos he was being rude to her and she moved on to someone her age.
age gaps always amazed me...in a bad way
It shouldn't. It's pretty common.
Same
The delusions of thinking a "Sugar baby" is in love with you, a literal professional "girl friend", who literally admits to being with 20 other guys as well that pay her, is pretty unreal.
Reminds me of when I was at a car event last year with my dad (my dad was 50, I was 19) and someone who knew my dad came up to us and he looked at me up and down and stated to my dad "You got yourself an even younger wifey?" and dad and I just looked at each other awkwardly and my dad just quietly said "... She's my eldest daughter..."
It was so awkward I can't--
Why were you hanging on your dad like that? Dafuq?
7:55 I have never been bothered by a kiss, not in person, by family members and their lovers kissing, or in movies even when I was younger but this sent a literal shiver down my spine. I don’t know if it was just because it was unexpected or what
When I was 25 I dated a 43 year old. I’m mature for my age so we got along really well. There were differences due to the gap like political ideas and music taste, and life lessons yet to be learned. We eventually split because of this and just knew it wouldnt work out long term. I don’t think it’s impossible for it to work out, and there was nothing creepy about him. just comes down to preference. It can work, but statistically they are much less likely to last. But that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with it. I can see it being creepy in certain situations sure, especially if the younger person is 18-23, but that doesn’t mean every age gap relationship Is creepy or doomed to fail, or that the girl is a gold digger. We just got along really well, like how anyone meets.
Who?
@@M_u_t_e96024 bro
@@M_u_t_e96024 bro
@@M_u_t_e96024 bro
I dated 43 year old at 25 too...he was biggest guilt-tripper ever. "Why won't you hold my hand more in public? Are you ashamed of meee?" But he sure was shocked when I left him.
Honestly having kids when you're 55+ years old is so selfish, there's no way you're living long enough to help that child in life
Mason looks like he was drawn by Psychicpebbles or OneyNG. Got curious and the dude looks like a really nice kid grown up into a nice adult
Hes 70 - then- and they had a baby. I mean...my heart genuinely breaks a little inside for the entire thing of you know, the child...the mom...and him even. To spend your life loving someone to loose them that much sooner....IDK...its really hard to imagine and Im pretty empathetic, I don't even want to let myself feel that. It's intense.
He could live to be 100
@@sinistersweetyou got a lot of confidence in that guy
7:39 bruh, "cradle-robber" 💀💀
That's the best thing I've ever heard to describe a hellacious age gap 😂😂
my partner and I have a 10-year age gap and we both agreed on anything more than a 15-year gap is weird. Sometimes we can not relate on some things.
Depends on the people. For some 15-20 years is fine
idk why but "are we getting some lgbt... um...representation?" KILLED me 14:11
I'm currently dating someone who is 16 years older that I am and its the most fulfilling and supportive relationship I've ever had. The way he lets me knows he genuinely cares, supports my dreams and goals, and takes care of me when I'm hurting is nothing short of amazing. His patience with me too is something I really needed because of my horrid anxiety and depression for a time. I don't even notice the age thing really, we make jokes about it sometimes, and have a lot in common that it doesn't matter to me. While I also think certain age gaps are strange to a degree (like 30+ years difference is a bit eh to me- but again I can't judge) my rule has always been: as long as it's consensual, genuinely beneficial, and not toxic I don't care if there is a gap. People like to make a lot of assumptions about relationships like this, and some are justified, but if the two are adults and are happy then just let them be.
You know what, 16-20 years is just fine to me. In my preferrence, I don't want it to be like 20+ years gap coz yeah. I really don't know what to say, I have daddy issues HAHAHAHAHA
@@LEN2000 Yeah I still think some gaps are a bit questionable, but I do think true love can happen and it be genuine without any issues. I don't think I have daddy issues I just happened to fall for a dude whose goal was to make me smile when I was flustered at work.
I read that so wrong at first… 💀
I am very uncomfortable with the energy we created today.
You'll be okay
11:50 “looks just like his father” 😭💀
I find it kind of interesting that appearance wise he’s really not changed much since he was a child actor. He looks exactly the same, but with wrinkles. I don’t think I’ve ever seen that before, and adult looks like their child self but old
14:37 home alone scream
Tara makes these videos amazing. She takes every opportunity for a funny edit or joke. A true master of her craft.
Loved the highlighted comment
4:24 just ignore the chat 💀😭
I was not expecting that 😂
Them having a kid makes me a bit sad. He’s not going to be able to watch that child grow up and that kid is going to deal with parent loss at such a young age. My parents died when I was 2 and my grandparents raised me. Loved them to bits and they were my favorite people ever but because of their age, I didn’t get much time with them and I still kinda resent that? I don’t know if that’s the right word. Just feel for the kid and what he will have to go through.
First guy seems like a super sweet guy.
Being 40 and my husband 28, we have a slight age gap. Nothing like this though. But let's be honest - it takes all kinds, right? Not every human on this planet functions the conventional way. If they did, we all wouldn't be sitting here judging them in one way or another.
Old dude looks like a bumblebee decided halfway through its evolution it wanted to be a person instead
Yoooooooo! Ruthless 🤣🤣
U not wrong 💀
Mason's relationship is really cute tbh, theyre so genuine
for teens/young adults I think the biggest age gap should be 5-6 years. In Adults I think it’s acceptable to have a 10 year age gap
THATS SICK!
17 and 22🤨 nah dawg weird af
@@aliridho3513 that’s the maximum age gap before it gets weird. But yeah that’s kinda sus
Bro you are totally correct and anyone who disagrees probably isn't even out of school yet!
It's usually the kids who have the biggest misconceptions and expectations for the real world..
@@TairaEldritch Ah here we have an anime pfp trying to justify p,.,., 3,.,.,,d,.,.,0.,,.,.s,.,..,,.,.
2:12 is where you can tell Caleb was homeschooled
Imagine being 45, and your future wife isn't even born and when youre 50 she starts kindergarten, and when your child turns 15 you're like 84 and in a nursing home
The way he did that lil scream when He first saw the guy 😭😭I can't.
Depending on the age gap-Idc, I like older men myself, so I don’t like to judge based off the age alone. I think the relationship dynamics speak volumes on whether or not the relationship is healthy or volatile. Sometimes there’s an obvious power imbalance or moral discrepancy that makes it hard to not be concerned or at the very least disgusted. I think that so long as two consenting adults are in functioning and healthy relationships it shouldn’t matter.
I like older men but my guy...you never mentioned the limits so that make me question what you meant🧍♀️
6:00 his laugh cut into the ad break had me laughing out loud 😂
My mom was 19 when I was born and my dad was 50… I’ve always found it disgusting..
And he’s not even rich at all it makes no sense
“The opposite of a child actor… yaknnow?”
if i was drinkin any water i would’ve spat it out haha
Gabe would buy a child for clout and thats a fact. We all watched that video
14:01
The kid's face says it all
The problem with age gaps seem to be the power dynamic.
My parents were 22 years apart. My youngest half-brother is older than my mom by 6-7 years. My half-siblings from my dad's previous marriage have kids that are older than me, so I grew up with people 10y my senior calling me "auntie." Over the course of my life I found out my dad was friends with my mom's first husband, they all used to party together and do coke. Mom's first husband left her with my sister as a toddler, she hooked up with my dad, I happened so they got married, absolute shitshow for nearly 20 years. They had a slew of other problems, but I'm thankful I'm technically an 'only child.'
Oompaville always cheers me up. Even now, when I’m pretty much homeless staying at a friends house to get away from my dad, oompa still manages to make me laugh and smile. Thank you oompaville
11:04 not to sound rude but
Kinda sounds like a non-intentional-succubus
This is nothing compared to the relationship my daughter is in. My kid is 26 and lives with her married 48 year old GF. Her GF is older than me! But she is very happy and well taken care of. It has taken me around a year to get over the shock. There's nothing my kids can do, that would make me love them less.
“They’re Canadian so It’s kind of cringe listening to them talk”💀
Your grandparents are celebrating there 50th anniversary: 😁
She’s 60 and he’s 70: *dies*
WAIT WAIT WAIT
Their
This actually warms my heart alot, it's nice to see there's still wholesome love like this out there
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@@misxrsidv6978 im pretty sure they're joking, but its unfunny cause its worded to sound like like that pedoish relationship(also they need to word it differently so it doesn't get misconstrued)
@@misxrsidv6978 also ur comment translates to "that one", felt like i needed to say that💀
Ew
To the one person in chat calling Oompa Daddy at 01:31….
Shoutout to you my friend-
I'm gonna judge because I can. Those 20 dudes who were giving her 300 for dinner more than likely didn't have 2 million sitting in the bank like Mason does. So, sorry but you can't renounce your gold digging by "settling" down with a dude that has a lot of money.
Lol
The first couple look wholesome and genuinely happy
The worst part is that I went to high school with a lot of people who thought that the age gap didn't matter as much as the fact that the guy was older. To them, the man HAD to be older in any relationship.
So a 21 year old woman dating a 20 year old man was wrong / illegal, but a 21 year old woman dating a 60 year old man was okay.
I’m in school but gotta make sure I watch when Oompsy uploads
👀↖️A creepy content is here my friends 😱😱😰...
@@R.MaxumOff shut up
If it’s consensual, it’s not really any of my business at that point.
2:47 his face before he heard the full sentence though-
Age gaps are totally fine but they fr need a limit like 10 years AT LEAST, after that it starts getting creepy(talking about adults obviously)💀💀
Honestly... if they're happy, she's not gold digging him and she seems to genuinely know what she wants and it's not " Oh, I'm doing this because I was abused in a very awful way by my dad, or my step-dad, or my brother. " - so on? It's honestly nice to see that people truly do love on a deeper level than physical. It's RARE in the modern age.
Dude its straight up grooming. Dating somone as old as your ancestors is straight up wrong. Which is why there needs to be a limit on the age gap. Uou cannot just justify it by saying their "happy".
"Honestly *dot dot dot* "
Disgusting
Bro, she's dating 20 dudes on the side... she's for the streets
imagine you’re 40, divorced, and your future girlfriend is still to be born
Both hashtags are just perfectly describing this TV show. Congrats on oompa on that one
9:36 someone's uncle probably
Did this Chad of a man just called an 'exotic creature' XD 6:32
“Guess it’s just the same as when you adopt an old dog tho” took me clear out pls I wasn’t ready 💀
The guy was late 20s to early 30s by the time she was born...
I'm scared
Second couple, the guy was 45 when she was born
"Love don't Judge" more like "Love don't budge" 😂
This is reminding me of a video I saw on an unofficial Yu-Gi-Oh page where a dude blasted rope all over a card named "Sky Striker Ace - Raye"
I bring this up because it was recently revealed that Raye is, canonically, 13 years old.
The "war never changes" part made me laugh so hard🤣🤣
Haven’t even watched it but I can already feel my face turning inside out from the cringe
Anything over 10-15 years is weird and creepy. And if one person is younger than 22 anything younger than 3 years it’s just wrong. A 14 year old and 17 year old are in different stages of their life and that would’ve wrong for them to be together. ie: freshmen and senior relationships. I’d just like everyone to remember the half your age plus 7 rule 😞
It’s all fun and games until they tell you how long they’ve been together
“….when you adopt an old dog…” omfg lolololololololololol
3:49 i- i need that
edit: I JUST REREAD THAT- NONONO THATS NOT WHAT I MEANT
"I can do anything a younger person can do"
Caleb: "Fall. Fall over"
After seeing a 20 year age gap between my 30-ish yo sister and her 53yo fiance (three months younger than our mother) I can't see anything wrong with an age gap. They're happy and I'm happy for them
It is no big deal at 30+. Everyones in the same stage of life really. Young adults are often still in school and lack a lot of experience.
They say girls go for guys like their dads. They’re not supposed to go for guys who could BE their dads
i'm glad you're getting so big oomps
All i could hear when she talked was Mr. Krabbs saying money.
I’d like to hear from these young girl’s parents!
Bet you'll have a difficult time finding even one father...
I like how Caleb has no idea what's happening and then just switch to the two women Sharing a bed and he just screamed and end the video ,😂