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  • Опубликовано: 19 июн 2023
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    Luna Montana
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  • @ashleym7898
    @ashleym7898 Год назад +85

    Emotions are normal! I’m not sure what you’re going through, but as humans we are made to feel ALL the emotions. You will heal, you will conquer this!!! I hope you feel better soon! ❤

  • @hezz0
    @hezz0 Год назад +20

    I don’t think medication is the key to the problem .. it’s normal to feel deeply hurt and very vulnerable especially when you’re going through a breakup right now. If it is meant to be him you will find your way back together and if not it will not be the end of your happiness. I’m Muslim so we believe that life is already written and you should just accept circumstances and have trust that it will get better. Don’t be so frustrated about a trivial thing and come back to what is reality. You will ( If you search for it) find someone to spend your life with and who will love you unconditionally bc you are lovable Luna ❤️

  • @k213389
    @k213389 Год назад +7

    I've been in the same place, Luna, wishing I would hear from him and then the anxiety would go away. But it always came back because deep down I knew he would just let me down again. And the anxiety got worse the longer I let him be in my life. Eventually it just never went away. He was like a drug that my body needed for survival but that no longer relieved any pain. I think real love makes you feel safe and secure, not a roller coaster. Of course I've never known the safe and secure type of love but it's out there, because I know my friends have it. We gotta hold out and in the immortal words of Charlie Swan, "learn to love what's good for you."

  • @s0fiavict0ria04
    @s0fiavict0ria04 Год назад +22

    Thank you both for being vulnerable, I feel understood. Sending much love your way

  • @AydanJane
    @AydanJane Год назад +23

    I know you're getting a lot of unsolicited advice in the comments and I'm about to contribute to it, but I've had a lot of anxiety since I was little. My psychologist suggested that I just say "it's ok that I'm anxious" to myself when I'm anxious. Not necessarily to make it go away, but to remind myself that it is ok. Almost 99% of the time, the anxiety dissipates. Sometimes it takes a while, but that ALWAYS helps. And I say this as someone who has had anxiety to the point of barely functioning for days on end.

  • @gracefreeman1479
    @gracefreeman1479 Год назад +67

    I've rewatched Gilmore Girls and Gossip Girl so many times in my life it could maybe break a record. Totally get the highs and lows of this video with your emotions, you've made such progress and growth in your life and you should be proud of the steps you've made so far, and it's okay to still react to your feelings, even when you're frustrated for still feeling the same things resurface. I really recommend getting the book Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life by Stephen Hayes, I'm only on chapter 2, it's a really cool workbook style book that teaches you ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) and I've honestly felt it make such a difference for my mental health. Also if your medication isn't working for you you should totally go to your doctor and ask to go down a different route as there is help out there, and it's a pain to test through to find a medication that works for you but it will make such a difference in your life.

  • @adorosemarie
    @adorosemarie Год назад +14

    Sending you so much love 💓 thank you for always being so open about your feelings, it is helping so many people. When I feel anxious or panicky or doomed I literally go watch either your 'anxious day' or 'healing' video 💓

  • @rmyrick2451
    @rmyrick2451 Год назад +27

    Luna, people do feel this way. I feel this way. I’m medicated, also, and I spent part of yesterday and part of today in tears. I don’t want to cry, but more than likely I will cry tomorrow. I feel like you have some of the same general, overall issues as I do, but with very different backgrounds. The ‘doom’ you feel sounds more like the uncontrollable unpredictability of not knowing what’s going on is what makes you spiral. Maybe I’m wrong, maybe I misunderstood or missed something you’ve said recently.
    I truly, wholeheartedly hope you feel better soon! 💕

    • @rmyrick2451
      @rmyrick2451 Год назад

      By the way, I also would love, love to be watching Gilmore Girls for the first time! My fave!

  • @siricnilsen
    @siricnilsen Год назад +8

    hi luna !! i can’t describe how much i love you, you bring me so much joy and you’ve helped me a LOT💌 i hope you’re doing well and enjoying your life !! you deserve the best💗 love you

  • @amandala00
    @amandala00 Год назад +19

    I suffer from bipolar, depression, anxiety and BPD. It took me FOREVER to get on the right medication for me. Stick to it. Go to therapy. Do things you used to enjoy, even though it seems impossible. Exercise and self-care are also important. If being hard on yourself worked, it would've by now. Also not everyone you lose is a loss.
    I wish the best for you and anyone else who suffers from any mental illness. You got this, girl, even if ya don’t feel like it!

    • @nourishwithmili
      @nourishwithmili Год назад +1

      im bipolar and currently trying to find meds that work for me !! It's so hard but trying is our best option! I hope she's able to find something that works for her !!

  • @_bebeboudeur_
    @_bebeboudeur_ Год назад +1

    comfort youtuber just in time for my before bed video ! thanks, luv you and hugs for those mental breakdowns

  • @denarendall
    @denarendall Год назад +3

    New York is truly the most special place and I feel like a big chunk of my heart resides there. I was lucky enough to go for the first time last May, then I spent all my savings on going back in September because I couldn’t stay away! The yearning I have to return this summer is so overbearing, but it’s just not realistic for me right now😢 so I’m living vicariously through your content instead (and loving it)!
    I hate to see you so sad and anxious! You are not crazy. I’m so grateful to you for always being transparent with us because I relate to you on such a profoundly deep level despite never having met you. You make me feel understood and comforted. I hope you start to feel better super soon. You’re the sunshine in human form! I love you!

  • @millabrauer2435
    @millabrauer2435 Год назад +1

    just watched the video - we love you so much luna🤍 you are one of a kind and you are so so strong ! it doesn‘t matter what will happen, we have your back ! you are so brave - you CAN push through !! i mean look at you going out there still !❣️

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Год назад +3

    I am so glad your back missed you so much Luna and amazing so smart and incredible women ❤

  • @vmc626
    @vmc626 Год назад +61

    It does go away when u hear from him but it only lasts for a while. Then everything comes back and hits harder cause damn love is actually painful atound him and it shouldn't be. I am feeling what you feel, every now and then I get curious about your life and watch ur videos maybe every two months. Tonight I was feeling so anxious and depriving myself of sleep cause of that and casually ended here, feeling exactly what u feel. It gets better, then worse and i'm sure sooner than later it will get better, for me and you

  • @annaskywalker9328
    @annaskywalker9328 Год назад +10

    Luna your videos are seriously therapy THANK YOU and I won’t ever get over the Luna x NY vibes❤

  • @isaiah15683
    @isaiah15683 Год назад +3

    Yass New York Luna. So cute.

  • @Susyyasmin
    @Susyyasmin Год назад +3

    Girl I have also been thru the worst breakup and it blows how the same person that hurt you is also your source of happiness.
    But if they wanted you, they wouldn’t hurt you - so that’s what I tell myself to get past this horrid time

  • @christenknight726
    @christenknight726 Год назад +6

    Things do get better, it just takes a lot of time, but please don't say that "there is no way that people feel this feeling that I am feeling right now" there are thousands of people out there feeling the same way and going through the same thing, who don't need to hear that. Everything will work out in the end.

  • @smokhei
    @smokhei Год назад +1

    LUNA ILY u got this!!!!

  • @milenahamalainen9649
    @milenahamalainen9649 Год назад +1

    ahh I’m going through it too mentally. Im going to be moving in with my mom, its out of state and i hope the newness helps me. I wish you healing ❤️‍🩹 and strength Luna 🙏🏻✨ Love your videos always helps me feel not alone of lonely.

  • @rossfamily1184
    @rossfamily1184 Год назад +3

    Oh bless you. I hate to see you so sad. You are a really beautiful person both side and out and you have wonderful friends surrounding you. As someone who doesn’t suffer with depression, anxiety etc it’s hard to truly understand and know what you are going through however I have watched mental health issues literally destroy my teenage sons life throughout his secondary school years. It got so bad that he wouldn’t leave his bedroom and he had no interest or motivation to do anything whatsoever. Fortunately with the help of medication he is now doing a lot better and he has just taken a couple of GCSE exams at college as he was too sick to even attempt to do these in school like all of his friends and the other children his age did. Life is short and too precious to struggle through so I really hope you find a way to get through this rough period and come out of the other side a much stronger and even more beautiful young lady with so much going for her. Stay strong. ❤xx

  • @arianaflanagan2577
    @arianaflanagan2577 Год назад +1

    Also SAME i would do anything to watch Gilmore Girls for the first time again. I am watching Gossip Girl for the first time and it's addicting, I love it so much! I'm on season 3 where they are all college age

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Год назад +1

    Have a amazing time in NYC be safe and careful ❤

  • @tilda8990
    @tilda8990 Год назад +11

    Hey Luna things do get better. I’m going through a pretty tough time now as well but I know my life does and has to get better and the universe has my back. Also Gilmore girls and gossip girl is the best lol. Sending love always ❤

    • @lauramcclain8651
      @lauramcclain8651 Год назад

      The universe is not a living entity and therefore can not have “anyone’s back”. Try God.

    • @tilda8990
      @tilda8990 Год назад

      @@lauramcclain8651 so you’re saying god is a living entity. If God does exist, then that is not God. All existing things are relative to one another in various degrees. It is actually impossible to imagine a universe in which there is, say, only one hydrogen atom. That unique thing has to have someone else imagining it. Existence requires existing among other existents, a fundamental dependency of relation. If God also exists, then God would be just another fact of the universe, relative to other existents and included in that fundamental dependency of relation

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Год назад +1

    You are more important right now you come first and always so amazing blessing and gifted and special Luna LUV U ❤

  • @BoazsCrown222
    @BoazsCrown222 Год назад +2

    I love you, Luna. I’ve been watching you for a long time now. I acknowledge that Depression is a real thing, speaking from personal experience. My deeper question is (and I’m not asking you to answer me; more to ponder to yourself) what is your spiritual life like? Spiritual oppression is real. You are beautiful inside and out. Praying for total wellness for you dear 🙏🏻🥹💖

  • @claudiaespinosanchez2321
    @claudiaespinosanchez2321 Год назад +1

    Your life WILL get better❤you have this babe❤

  • @BoolilyT
    @BoolilyT Год назад +2

    You have such a gorgeous energy:P

  • @nayehzouhon332
    @nayehzouhon332 Год назад +9

    YOU BRIGHTEN MY DAYYY!!!!!

  • @vampirebl4des
    @vampirebl4des Год назад +1

    gossip girl and gilmore girls are my two favourite shows too

  • @sharlene.nascimento
    @sharlene.nascimento Год назад +1

    luna you are loved and you are so cool and awesome. I'm 23 but I wanna be you when I grow up! Really manifesting for you to be able to get high on life, you deserve it!

  • @jennyesperanza
    @jennyesperanza Год назад +13

    Honestly??? Wish him well and stop caring. I know it's hard especially since you were together and stuff but trust me it really does not matter. Feel your feels do stuff you love and it'll go away when the time is right. Don't force yourself to get over it now.❤🎉

  • @evelina-zoe
    @evelina-zoe Год назад +3

    You and Avrey are my favorite people ❤️

  • @nadiabarmasse5294
    @nadiabarmasse5294 Год назад +1

    When you will find the right medication , it will helps so much...But I know how hard it is at first, when your brain is a mess, your emotions are all over the place and you think you will never get better...You will Luna, you will heal , it takes time and it's painful but you will heal 💖

  • @cassidydavis1447
    @cassidydavis1447 Год назад +1

    I love when you include zolita in the vlogs

  • @teabird6968
    @teabird6968 Год назад +1

    NEW YORK LUNAAAA

  • @kristinchong629
    @kristinchong629 Год назад +1

    It’s Luna world and we’re just living in it.

  • @olearyciara64
    @olearyciara64 Год назад +10

    legit me spiraling bc of a boy for the past 2 months but like i broke up w him? felt so seen

  • @katiesophie517
    @katiesophie517 10 месяцев назад

    So cuute to see your sis and her girlfirend!

  • @elenabianchi1800
    @elenabianchi1800 Год назад +1

    YEIIIII LOV UUUUU

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Год назад +2

    Nice girls weekend in NYC vlog! ❤

  • @arianaflanagan2577
    @arianaflanagan2577 Год назад +3

    "If I heard from him it would all go away...that's the problem".....FELT

  • @kenedy6411
    @kenedy6411 Год назад +3

    It’s crazy that I’ve been obsessed with your videos since I was twelve bc you danced and I’ve danced my whole life.. (fast forward a few years) I get a Danish boyfriend and find out I’m moving to Denmark soon and I find out you’re danish as well. Forever my favorite RUclipsr

  • @monicaalexandrova927
    @monicaalexandrova927 Год назад +5

    Why don't you sleep in the same apartment? Generally, curious is this an American practice? in Europe when you go somewhere with your friend you rent a mutual place and stay together. This si not the first video I see where both friends sleep separately that's why im asking :)

  • @mov.cierra
    @mov.cierra Год назад

    This shirt 😍

  • @soilgrasswaterair
    @soilgrasswaterair Год назад +18

    If your mom would speak Danish, I would understand all of it due to being Scandinavian myself (not Danish though). Does your mom ever speak Danish with you and your siblings, Luna?

  • @rublo1
    @rublo1 Год назад +17

    who's him?? did she break up with her bf? :(

    • @NiaPalmer
      @NiaPalmer Год назад +1

      I also want to know this, I get the feeling they did break up but not sure 🥺

  • @BoazsCrown222
    @BoazsCrown222 Год назад +1

    I just got back from New York!

  • @BoolilyT
    @BoolilyT Год назад +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @ivcrsm
    @ivcrsm Год назад +1

    omg luna avery looks like florence pudge 😭 about right here 8:19

  • @all_things_adhd
    @all_things_adhd 3 месяца назад

    I have adhd and I struggle all the time with my emotions I do have a tenancy to mask my emotions due to years of being called over sensitive and dramatic xx

  • @brad3901
    @brad3901 Год назад +1

  • @fairies-kill
    @fairies-kill Год назад +1

    WOAH WTH what is that kind of workout called?? ive been meaning to start working out to keep in shape but i despise running and average weight lifting and that looks super fun

  • @ianaster1104
    @ianaster1104 Год назад +1

    5:58-6:04 same, girl….same🫡🥲

  • @tabbeyah5351
    @tabbeyah5351 Год назад +1

    Wanted to like the video a 2nd time😅❤

  • @akshay3693
    @akshay3693 Год назад +2

    Hi Luna. :)

  • @MrNewJB
    @MrNewJB Год назад +1

    luna, what’s your friend’s name? the one that you and her moms are friends…did you say Dara?

  • @darrylphipps2221
    @darrylphipps2221 3 месяца назад

    Hello From Tennessee ❤, ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mov.cierra
    @mov.cierra Год назад +2

    Hey Luna have you ever looked up pmdd, I feel like we may be going through the same thing. 6:38

  • @frederikkeschleppegrell301
    @frederikkeschleppegrell301 Год назад

    Hej from Denmark

  • @delrey874
    @delrey874 Год назад

    Ur so cute.

  • @holly9464
    @holly9464 Год назад +1

    Hi, could you please add a warning for the flashing in this video for people with photosensitivity please? Thank you in advance!

  • @hezz0
    @hezz0 Год назад +5

    Just a comment regardless of the video. I feel like all artists are low-key really though to have relationships with bc most of the time their source of creativity comes from pain and I feel like they actively don’t want to be happy so they can put out good and emotional art. Like they don’t fight for a healthy relationship and want to stay loner’s or get their heart broken. Idk just thoughts I have.

  • @anonymouse0123
    @anonymouse0123 Год назад +1

    sounds like it could be BPD

  • @lynnbjrn5457
    @lynnbjrn5457 Год назад +3

    I don’t wanna be rude but you seem so often just sad without a certain reason. Like you always say how depressed and unhappy you feel but it doesn’t really seem “legitimate”. You could’ve just said once “oh people you know I’m sad about my dog but I don’t wanna talk about it” without any details. Seah okay ex bf, but still, like everyone’s going through shit. But it really seems like you are living a wonderful life - own home, eras concert, nyc, la, dancing, vlogging, like what more do you want?

    • @julie_stjames
      @julie_stjames Год назад +5

      it’s almost as if anyone can suffer from mental health struggles regardless of who they are, how much money they have, the things they experience, or what their life looks like from the outside.

    • @whitneyvise7911
      @whitneyvise7911 Год назад +1

      Depression/anxiety/ocd, etc., don't need a reason.

  • @lornatw
    @lornatw Год назад

    Some shows I love: Dawsons Creek, Degrassi (the first and second ones), Firefly Lane💗, Queen Charlotte. All of these give me nostalgic comfort and genral romantic/friendship comfort and also make me cry. Esp Dawsons and Fireflylane 🩷🌷

  • @teen4ge
    @teen4ge 8 месяцев назад

    What’s the song @ 9:45

  • @audreyb4907
    @audreyb4907 Год назад

    luna i understand what you are feeling so deeply. that intense doom and the feeling that someone else's contact or validation could take it all away and replace it with euphoria in a mere moment. it's the most painful cycle in the world. reading about borderline personality disorder & bpd tendencies made me feel really deeply understood and directed me towards some ways to heal and manage the intensity of the emotions. i obviously have no idea if that's what you're experiencing but i can promise you people have felt the way you're feeling, and they do heal, or learn strategies to make it a little less hard. 🤍