I had to come and say something about that one. Being a mother myself … I could NEVER. That’s how the one child gets singled out and ends up getting abused. I can’t even … my heart is breaking …
DLS: everytime i see people having a lavish and prosperous life, I feel like I am way behind and underachieved in everything i want to achieve. so i try to alienate myself with the world several times.
DLS: My parents are 65 and since we don't all live forever, I play scenarios in my head of when they're no longer here and I cry so that when they actually are gone, I won't take it as hard.
1. You can't change your past 2. That is life sometimes, most also don't have much money at this age. 3. The people in the video grew up in different times, without social media to stay indoor all day.
Who said your 20’s is the only times u can have fun? You have the rest of your life to live and go on so many more experiences. Don’t limit yourself. Have fun doing anything :)
It's based off a website (postsecret) where people mail in their anonymous secrets on postcards. The site still exists. Think it is still updated weekly. Been going on close to 20yrs now.
DLS: I absolutely adore being alone. Once I finish up college, get a steady, full-time job, and get my own place, I'll be in paradise. I feel like I can go months without speaking to people or having any humans interactions (besides getting through a job) and pay no mind to it. I like the people that I'm close with, but it bothers me with having to talk to people. Most times, I try to come off as an asshole with my jokes so I can't hope they'll keep their distance. All I want to be able to do is be surrounded by music. Whether it's listening to music, practicing guitar (which gets derails by others), or the desire to learn new instruments, that's what I ultimately want to do with every moment that I have to myself.
I have to thank my sister for showing me these guys, we had our ups and downs but i charish those moments forever. this song reminds me of those times. Love you Trinity.
compliment someone, make somebody’s day. go out of your way to tell someone you care about them. You don’t have to love them romantically. Just tell somebody that you value them. You will be happy to make another person happy, and with that kind of mentality, people will love you more, and you will get more out of life.
Growing up in the 2000s as a teen was just amazing, the music we had and overall the culture. Played this in the way to freshman of high school, MTV then was iconic, the movies then, our outfits and flip phones - 2000s youth culture was something else, kids now missed it. I can see why the generation now also is bringing back 2000s trends and wants to be like teens then, the 2000s music is still going strong even more than now
The Internet Culture in the 2000s was so sweet. I miss that era. everything felt so fresh and awesome. I would love to be a teen in the 2000s all over again. :')
DLS: Im tired of being lonely, mentally scared, and depressed. I go in public pretending like theres nothing wrong even though there is. I just wanna run away from all my problems.
Was single for 12 years. It ate at me. I have someone now, been dating for 9 months and it has been the best 9 months of my life. I hated the wait but it was so worth it. I try to show her everyday hoe much I appreciate her but here is the twist. She has been single het whole life so she appreciates me too. It is worth it, that is all I can say. Oh and I am 32 btw.
@@sebastianarnold7565 I've been working on an album as the main (and only) guitarist in a 3 piece pop punk band, our frontman is on bass. It's an online band but we've been making a lot of progress, the album is pretty much completely written, we're mainly just waiting on our drummer to get his pieces recorded so we can add our parts lol I've played in online bands before and typically they just don't work because you end up with a bunch of lazy people that don't put any effort into it, most people expect everyone to write the music for them and they can just come in and play a few chords and claim they're in a band. But with this band that I've been playing in it's actually working out really well, we've made a lot of progress, We have one song completely recorded, I just have to rerecord a few parts where my timing was off and we're pretty much finished with the first song. We're called Typical Weekend
@@IanTheGreatYT nice you wanna play live tho pop punk is kinda making a come back now and if the shits online you really wanna jam/play live chemistry is everything.
@@sebastianarnold7565 True, but between work and my senior year of highschool I don't have time or the privilege of just going out and jamming all the time. We do have really good chemistry as a band though, our styles really compliment each other in our music and we surprisingly agree on almost everything.
I've never watched the video, just listened and danced. it takes a lot of time and those bitter hearts never disappear. I hope the girl has found happiness
Fuck I'm 35 and I just found the greatest woman I've ever met for anyone that's feeling alone and feels like they will never find someone be patient fam the one is out there 😊
Try being nearly 40. Then you KNOW the "good 'ole days" are definately gone. The 90s were the last time life in this country was halfway sane. We now live in a combination of Orwell and Huxley's nightmares.
+Cora G (CrimsonTigris) How old are you? I used to feel exactly the same way. I was so so severely anxious my whole life, I remember being about 8/9 years old and physically not being able to talk to anyone outside my family. It was a long, difficult process, but it got better as I got older. Now i'm 18, and i'm basically 'normal' when it comes to social things! I still struggle a bit, but i'm so so much different to how i used to be! Just don't ever give up trying, you're not going to be like this forever.
Abi Zoey I'm 14 and I've recently been diagnosed with anxiety. General and social. I get panic attacks quite often and I get highly embarrassed whenever I'm around people, for no reason. Yesterday, I went up to my maths teacher so he could sign my book, and immediately got self conscious as I could feel the eyes of the whole class on me. My heart was beating a mile a minute and my palms were slick with sweat. I went home later that day, as I was ill, but had a panic attack in the medical room. Anxiety will always be with me, even if I do break out of if, but thanks so much for the help and support. It's highly appreciated. ☺
I was glad to get a pic of my oldest son. Things happen in life that prevent a parent from seeing their child. Judgemental much? And it is a horrible thing for both child and parent. Imagine the pain and guilt the parent goes through and the pain the child feels from the absence of his/her parent?
DLS: Whenever I'm sad or feel lost I leave post-it notes that contains motivational messages in the restroom of the college that I attend to just in case someone is feeling down or going through the same thing as me. I also leave blank post-it notes just in case someone wants to speak their mind out or motivate other people. I feel bad about this because the lady who cleans the restroom hates it since she's always throwing them to the trash.
That is such a nice idea! I'm diagnosed with anxiety and depression, and if I find one of those, it really would lift my mood. Even if it's only for a little while! Please, don't stop. :)
DLS: I'm 32 years old and still have lucid dreams about a highschool girlfriend that's living her best life without me. The insecurity never stops being apparent for dating in the future. Good luck in 2020!
You're not alone. I'm 28 and I still miss my highschool gf from time to time. The rough breakup really killed my confidence and now I have a lot of insecurities because of it. Stay strong! This song was actually "our" song.
I’m 22 and i do this and i don’t know why my subconscious does it to me i think it’s just a deep connection that when you know it’s the one or was at the time it you’re like forever entangled in a way i got cheated on and was in a toxic relationship and know it but in my dreams i’m happy with her and i don’t understand why when she has done so much bad shit to me
@@daltong6694 don't feel alone but just remember girls like that think in their minds that they aren't worthy of good men so they show your that they're trash so don't feel bad feel good knowing that she knows she's trash and is taking herself out
DLS: I act like I don't care about people's opinions of me but I actually have mild anxiety about if people like me that it sometimes takes over my mind and I can't stop stressing about if I'm being talked about behind my back
DLS: I tell people I have dreams and ambitions but in reality, I feel like I am slowly pushing a boulder up a hill and just randomly choose a direction to go in
DLS: i feel like no one ever listens to me. i have to listen to everyone else and they never do the same back. i feel unappreciated so often. i need to just scream and get all of this out.
DLS: I come across as happy and cheerful, but in reality in scared. I scared for the future, of being who I truly am, and I feel pressured by everyone, including my own family.
Don't be scared! It's life, everyone goes through tough times and times where they feel like no one accepts them. When you are feeling this way, remind yourself how lucky you are compared to a lot of people around the world who don't have food, shelter, water, etc.
blxck pxrxde. I feel that way too I try to say the right things and try to wear nice clothes and if I say the wrong thing or something weird I can’t go to bed cause I think about it constantly
Don't worry, I feel kind of similar to you. I feel bad for my friends because they're constantly trying to be nice and I feel like its only because I'm just too weak and sensitive, and that I'm only with them because of that.
DLS: My family wants me to be successful on their own definition by tomorrow but- honestly I think I’m happy right now being a humble retail worker and barista while working hard at art.
Just do what you want. Youth isn't wasted if it's enjoyed. Or life for that matter. Stay strong, stay healthy. Don't let anyone tell you what you can't do. Be who you want to be. lol Sorry. I'm just trying to be positive and encourage you. I'm just talking shit, though. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, either. Everything seems so pointless, meaningless. I'm going nowhere. Lmfao.
DLS: I'm always afraid my girlfriend will think I don't love her. I'm autistic and she isn't, and sometimes that gets in the way of communication. I overcompensate by spilling my heart for her every month or so, but deep down, I feel like I'm just repeating myself over and over because I have nothing new to say. My reasons for loving her never change, and there's only so much writing finesse I have.
I believe meeting someone opposite of you and having them as your partner can help. But they must be like minded and like same things as you but are more outgoing and stuff.
Yeah. I’ve had situationships where someone would show up just to trauma dump, then they pull away and leave me wondering what’s it all supposed to mean.
DLS Im 69 I love this song and have been grieving over my wife for 18 years and have other issues but wont tell my children for fear of them putting me in a nursing home
to both of you guys, im sure you'll find someone who's able to show you how much they care about you, it'll happen, you just need to be extremely patient
DLS: I'm afraid of my own future after university... Edit: Thanks for all the likes ! Edit2: I finished Uni and I'm about to graduate in November. Edit3: I got my first job in an IT company Edit4: I got promoted this month Edit5: I'm very appreciative of all the concern people have shown me over years, than you and I'm doing pretty great
Love yourself first then someone will too. You know how one girl falls for a guy another one joins her? It’s called abundance, to get abundance you gotta start somewhere which is yourself then you can go and get everyone else after that
thank god i'm not the only one. everyone's all upset about it, and i'm the type of person that prefers to be on my own anyway, doing my own thing with my books and my cat, by myself. So my life hasn't changed AT ALL, except for i'm unemployed, but since I live in MA, the gov't gives me the same amount i was making anyway. so i basically get to live my same life without having to work. I"m not mad at this at all. (I guess it helps that i'm a wildly antisocial introvert, and that when i am lonely, my best friend is my roomie, so i'm not TRULY alone. plus, normally, i bartend, and pretend to be all extroverted, so i actually kind of hate spending time with other people outside of work. this quarantine is like a vacation for me. my only real thing i wanna change is opening up bookstores so my book buying isn't as interrupted.)
bottomofastairwell The same. My life hasn't changed much except for the few days per week I had to go out to attend people. Now I dread for the time this will end and the world will celebrate a comeback to normal with loud parties everywhere. I prefer 1000 times the chirp of the birds that now can be clearly heard from my window.
It's like some crazy fucked up real life monopoly game.. I was broke and sleeping on a friends couch, I was told to stay home from work since feb , now I've got over 9000 in the bank from the government +2.1k tax return..... Bro I spent 3+ months smoking weed and I'm somehow up almost $10,000 ?! LOL this shits hilarious. How did this happen
DLS: I hate myself so much, I feel the only time that I feel any happines is when I can make others happy. I hold all of this back from the people around me because I'm afraid that I might drag them down with me, and I HATE that. If it were to happen and I let someone in, I would end up pushing them away because I don't want their pity. If you read this all the way through then thanks for listening to my problems, it means a lot.
Hey, I'm just a rando on the internet, but to be honest, finding happiness in making others happy is fine. Chase that feeling. We're not supposed to be isolated, standalone units, we're designed to be in community together. Often people get so caught up in their own sadness that they don't realise helping others can be an amazing way to get out of that spiral. It lets you focus on more than just yourself, it gives you a better perspective, lets you see that you and your own problems aren't the sum total of existence. It sounds like you've half realised this but you're not willing to fully embrace it. You need to learn to love yourself as well, but loving others is no bad thing! Remember, you're never going to be able to hate yourself into being someone that you love. Take some of that joy you find in helping others and apply it to your own life, treat yourself like someone else you're trying to help! And you've gotta share this with people around you. Not everyone, but if you can find a couple of people that genuinely care about you then you should open up. It's scary, but it's also how we deepen and strengthen relationships, by being vulnerable and by sharing not just the good and easy but the hard too. If it's someone who truly cares for you, maybe a close friend or family member, don't write off their empathy for you as pity. It's much more likely genuine heartfelt shared pain and a desire to help/be there for someone they love. We shouldn't try to bear our burdens alone. Let them be there for you, and be there for them. "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." I hope you can keep moving forward friend.
@@Jesterofthesky Thank you. Even the we don't know each other you just made my day this year has been really hard and someone to say something so nice makes me believe in humanity.
my fellow peers, my generation! I hope all of you are doing well and are happy in life! Wishing you fellas only the best. Time really flew by didnt it? its already 2024 and im turning 33 this year....
I think it’s so cool how All American Rejects unintentionally created a space where a lot of people anonymously share their secrets, some very personal. It’s kind of a safe space for them to just shout their secrets into the void. I like to think they would think so too.
They didn't create it. They just made the song about it. There was a project called Post Secret. It was started by a guy named Frank Warren. He got people from all over the world to mail in post cards with their dirtiest secrets on them. He did a series of traveling museum exhibits and a book out of it. Somehow, All American Rejects heard about it and decided to write a song about it.
Been there. Trick is to not care about the future, and help others using your intelligence. If you are good at something, teach others that struggle with it. I do it with math, feels very nice to be able to explain concepts to people that struggle. If you truly are as intelligent as people think, the world doesn't need intelligence, but people who aren't gifted do. Perhaps work as a teacher, or a tutor. I understand what you feel entirely. If you are like me and experience constant thoughts, including multiple trains of thought at once, try meditation.
DLS: I don't know who I am anymore. I don't feel like me, I can't find the energy to do the things I used to love. I don't understand how I feel. I just want to restart everything.
Im sure that's not just random emotions your speaking right now, there must be something happened. Anyway I hope you can make it out of this life. Carry on.
@@Nouuuuranlovesadam Better music, people were less antisocial, people didn't get offended at everything you said, windows XP, music videos on TV, the old youtube, waking up to George Lopez in the middle of the night, BEYBLADE, HEYYYEYEYEYEA, the Ultimate Showdown, XBOX, the old cartoon network and nick, guitar hero, man the 2000's were a time to remember! Here in 2019, everyone is on their cellphones, antisocial as hell, trash music (well, some is ok) everyone is a whiny snowflake, NO BEYBLADE, NO WINDOWS XP, does George Lopez even air anymore, fake news everywhere, there are people actually trying to limit free speech. The 2000's was a pretty gnarly time, especially when you were a kid. Also my experience might have been different than other peoples because I was pretty young in the 2000's, I'm 16 now and it seems like everyone my age is on their phone or social media 24/7, and yeah, people in the 2000's also used the internet a lot, but it's wasn't nearly as bad as today, after 2013 people were so addicted, they couldn't survive without it. I would give my left kidney to go back in time!
@@juliuscastillo2190 you said everything like you just described what I'm feeling nowadays I'm about to turn 19 this month but I'll would rather go back to the good old days (sorry for my English it's not my first language)
DLS: I'm terrified of getting married or even being in a relationship because I can't imagine having to spend the rest of my life with one person or having to talk to that person every day. At the same time I'm also scared of never finding anyone and dying alone and forgotten without anyone caring.
That's a pretty common terror. There's nothing wrong with how you feel. It might change when you find a special person you become obsessed with, lol. I'm obsessed with my husband and it's been 17yrs together, love is scary funny
Stay strong buddy and never let anyone take away your happiness! You are great the way you are and you never have to go out of your way to please anyone. Always stay true to yourself and continue to leap over the hardships in life. In case you are not told this in your life let me just tell you that "your happiness matters a lot to me!" You are not alone and you'll always have me by your side wishing you the best in everything that you do. You can always reach out to me if you ever need someone to talk to. Everything will be okay! Hold your head up high and know that you are awesome! Life doesn't always give us what we want but it does give us who we are. Don't ever change who you are unless it is to improve on yourself!
DLS: I am completely unable to live in the present. My entire life is spent wishing I could go back in time and not focused on right now. Its why I can't keep a job and why I can't seem to do anything productive, and also why I don't have any friends. The worst part is, I don't like the world as it currently exists and have no motivation to change.
DLS: I always lift up others and encourage them to talk about mental health but none of my friends know that I have depression and anxiety bc I'm too much of a coward to talk about it.
Olivia Engelhardt That’s a pretty amazing thing to do, and it’s hard to find someone like that to help you out. It’s too bad you don’t have that, but you shouldn’t let that be the reason you don’t get help. You just have to reach out and let people know you could use some help, and I’m sure your friends and family would be glad to help
@@kristine6153 Thank you a lot for your kind words ❤️My parents are the only ones that know. I've been going to therapy once a month since march now. But my friends know nothing at all about this stuff. I'm now at a point where I start to understand that friends deserve to know about feelings. But how am I supposed to tell them that I've been lying to them since basically the day I met them. I never trusted them to be strong enough to deal with the stuff I was feeling. I'm scared that they'll be hurt by my actions. Sorry for the rant. Thank you again!! I admire that you care about this. We need more people like you ❤️
Yes... My best Friend was at a holiday camp for a week and when she came back she told me about her new friends which she has found there and how funny and nice they were.... I hate this feeling because I'm so fucking scared that one day she find a replacement for me... I'm sorry for my english, I'm from germany and I'm still going to school 😅
@Emma Rae Toren no don't Do it. I think there a friends in life which come and go someday. You didn't did something wrong It wasn't your fault. Don't worry you are good the way you are and I think one day you'll finde some true loyal friends💗
Many people don't know what they want to become many people struggle to find the meaning in life.... I would suggest to you to find what you Love and then study for that😊i liked computers studied software development. Now i find out i love working with computers not so much development
I kind of have the same thing, but its not really hallucinations. i don't know if its just me but it feels like I'm never alone in my head, even if I'm not a school. there is someone always in the room with me. I'm not sure if that's just a way of me coping with being alone or if that's normal. sometimes I catch myself talking to my imaginary friends. I don't actually see them, but it feels like I'm talking right to them
That Person I don't talk to them, I just know they're there. Even at school, if I'm alone in the Bathroom, I will feel somebody behind me, but I'll be too scared to look, like I'll turn to stone if I see them. I run like hell after I wash my hands, and in extreme situations, I just use hand sanitizer down the hall. I feel the same in my house, like I shouldn't say what I'm doing next, or they'll know to go there to hurt me, or worse. My mind stresses over so many things I start to wonder if I can handle it all...
+Savannah Mcabee I know exactly how you feel.. I'm alone yet I'm not alone. At night I don't ever sleep because I feel as if there's someone watching me or is under my bed.. I do that thing you talk about in the bathroom.. where someone's right next to you and you can't look or they will hurt you. I never say where I'm going or what I can do next because I'm scared they will go there before me and get me..
MUNCHKIN KAWAII I never know who might be there, I have no way to check if they even ARE there, or who they are. When I'm about to fall asleep, I feel somebody in my room, and tell myself they aren't there, yet I can't work up the nerves to turn my head to the corner of the room. I have never had the guts to just turn my head. The man who lived here before we did, in my house, died here. We never knew him. I don't know if the things I feel are him, or previous owners that have died here, or people who weren't meant to die here. People who have unfinished business come back as ghosts. If you have felt somebody staring at you, like I have, you know how hard it is to just glance over. To just see if they're there, watching you, or if you're imagining it.
Savannah Mcabee I feel you, I can't turn my head either when someone or something is there. I moved into a house where I boy committed suicide last year, I moved recently and think his spirit followed me. I'm pretty sure that he is the one following me around all the time so he can feed off the things I do in my life, because he never got a chance to live his full life. I use to think it was my imagination but now I'm not so sure, the other day I saw what looked like a man zoom past me in the hall way, when this happened the room temp dropped I felt like I was freezing. Sometimes my brother the age of 5 says he is afraid of the "bad man". My parents say its the "boogey-man" and so does he. Honestly, I think he uses those words to describe the figure or figure(s) that keep taunting me.
SAME. I'm 21, and have no social life. I could, but I don't have anything to talk about to anyone, other than work and my dogs. Both are a few sentences max. Edit: I removed the ridiculous way I wrote "same."
If it makes you feel any better there are a lot of friendless people in the world. It's like you know a lot of people but you don't know them well enough to hangout or spill your heart out to them.
This is the first video to make me cry. The postcard secrets are heartbreaking. I became an All American Rejects fan for life because of this and I still blast it
"I only love two of my children"
That one's so devastating, I can't even think about it without getting emotional.
Let me guess, the middle child is left out.
I can understand not liking your kid but not loving them? That’s some postpartum depression and they should really see a doctor about it.
I had to come and say something about that one. Being a mother myself … I could NEVER. That’s how the one child gets singled out and ends up getting abused. I can’t even … my heart is breaking …
Thats why so many people stop talking to their families, that kind of bullshit
Emotional Damage!
Are we just not gonna talk about how intense this dude’s stare is? It feels like he already knows my dirty little secret.
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Lol hahaha 🥺🤔😘😁🤭🤫😬
true... i'm terrified
Reminds me of jasper from twilight
Bro hahahaaa oh he knows
DLS: everytime i see people having a lavish and prosperous life, I feel like I am way behind and underachieved in everything i want to achieve. so i try to alienate myself with the world several times.
Damn
Twin
Damn same
Me too. I'm 27 and feel like I'm still stuck in teen years
The same 😢
I Miss these type of songs.
Same! The music these days sucks.
We'll never have these type of music ever again 😢
then make ur own lol
@@geno5592 rock music is becoming alive among young people like myself again
Tired of Antiwhteism yet?
DLS: My parents are 65 and since we don't all live forever, I play scenarios in my head of when they're no longer here and I cry so that when they actually are gone, I won't take it as hard.
Omg same here !!!!
I've done the same my entire life. Mine are 83 and 86. :/
I use to do that and when it happened it honestly helped because you already mourned for them
Fack, I do this 🤦♀️
I did that with my Dad who had cancer
Doesn't make their inevitable death hurt any less
DLS: I’m 25 and I feel like I’ve wasted my 20’s so far, I wish I did more with my life and it was more exciting
So far but you still have 5 years left. That’s a long time man. Don’t waste it thinking that you’re wasting it
I just turned 24 and I feel like half of my life is gone now.
smoke ouid, makes life fun tbh man u got this
1. You can't change your past 2. That is life sometimes, most also don't have much money at this age. 3. The people in the video grew up in different times, without social media to stay indoor all day.
Who said your 20’s is the only times u can have fun? You have the rest of your life to live and go on so many more experiences. Don’t limit yourself. Have fun doing anything :)
DLS: I am that kind of person who is always there for everyone when they need me but sometimes I want someone to be there for me too. I feel so lonely
+kathy mae The same...
+kathy mae know that feeling aswell :/
I know how you feel sweetie and I'm here if you want to talk about anything anytime +kathy mae
+kathy mae Same here, and even worse i'm an introvert.
+kathy mae huhu. im here kathy
This song/video was ahead of it's time, but was also perfect for it's time.
I’d say that makes it timeless, wouldn’t it not?
Idk, the video is very cliche 2000s lol
Yes indeed 👍🏾 Perfectly Said 👍🏾
It's based off a website (postsecret) where people mail in their anonymous secrets on postcards. The site still exists. Think it is still updated weekly. Been going on close to 20yrs now.
DLS: I wounder if I'll ever fall in love. I'm 21 and it's never happened.
+Revaline Isle Trust me, you dont want that...
Sometimes it doesn't happen quickly or really just in general. Hasnt happened to me ethier
+Revaline Isle I'm 22
+Revaline Isle 27 here not happened yet
same
DLS: I always prefer being alone because I find myself trying hard to please others when I'm surrounded.
I feel ya
Me too
Its like am not myself when surrounded with many people ..im also not at ease
Babe I am the same. Wish I was brave and could tell you why.
Same
likewise and i dont know why
DLS: I absolutely adore being alone. Once I finish up college, get a steady, full-time job, and get my own place, I'll be in paradise. I feel like I can go months without speaking to people or having any humans interactions (besides getting through a job) and pay no mind to it.
I like the people that I'm close with, but it bothers me with having to talk to people. Most times, I try to come off as an asshole with my jokes so I can't hope they'll keep their distance. All I want to be able to do is be surrounded by music. Whether it's listening to music, practicing guitar (which gets derails by others), or the desire to learn new instruments, that's what I ultimately want to do with every moment that I have to myself.
I could say "AMEN" to this post over a thousand times. Bravo.
I Couldnt agree more best job would be stocks or something so then you dont have to leave :P
Introvert FTW!
I have dreams like you, no really! Just not so... touchy feely!
Preach!! So true ive just got one more year of school then university
I have to thank my sister for showing me these guys, we had our ups and downs but i charish those moments forever. this song reminds me of those times.
Love you Trinity.
DLS: I don't know how to comfort people when they're down because when I was at my worst, I only had myself.
I feel the same way because no matter how hard I try I cant feel empathy
Me too🤫
Pro tip
Just listen most people just need to vent even if you dont respond
Honestly just listening is enough, most people won't expect you to offer a solution for all their problems.
Then say whatever you did to yourself.
DLS: I don’t want to live but I don’t want to die, I just want to fade into non-existence or for life to be more than it is
Me too
same
Yes
compliment someone, make somebody’s day. go out of your way to tell someone you care about them. You don’t have to love them romantically. Just tell somebody that you value them. You will be happy to make another person happy, and with that kind of mentality, people will love you more, and you will get more out of life.
hi
DLS: I am afraid of being in relationships because I feel like I'm just never enough
Ditto
Same here :(
Felt
You're all enough. Just be there for them.
@@nitrodriftin3949 I try but no one likes me like that anymore..
I love that the description for this is Vanessa Carlton a thousand miles
Same lol
It is🤣
Growing up in the 2000s as a teen was just amazing, the music we had and overall the culture. Played this in the way to freshman of high school, MTV then was iconic, the movies then, our outfits and flip phones - 2000s youth culture was something else, kids now missed it. I can see why the generation now also is bringing back 2000s trends and wants to be like teens then, the 2000s music is still going strong even more than now
you are not mentioning the amazing cartoons we watched
@@exampaperplanes yes ofcourse, that's given but slipped my mind haha
Today there we have Justin Bieber and Music for Drugs...No real Rebels or just less musicans with good lyrics that comes to remember.
The Internet Culture in the 2000s was so sweet. I miss that era. everything felt so fresh and awesome. I would love to be a teen in the 2000s all over again. :')
The 1980's teens have just entered the chat...🤣
DLS: Im tired of being lonely, mentally scared, and depressed. I go in public pretending like theres nothing wrong even though there is. I just wanna run away from all my problems.
What's seems to be troubling you, besides the feeling lonely? I'm not an expert on depression.
Me too, me too
dont watch porn and dont masturbate😉
too real my dude
Was single for 12 years. It ate at me. I have someone now, been dating for 9 months and it has been the best 9 months of my life. I hated the wait but it was so worth it. I try to show her everyday hoe much I appreciate her but here is the twist. She has been single het whole life so she appreciates me too. It is worth it, that is all I can say. Oh and I am 32 btw.
This was such a golden age for music, I'd kill to be in a band like this
move to a city and look for people to jam with good luck!!!!
@@sebastianarnold7565 I've been working on an album as the main (and only) guitarist in a 3 piece pop punk band, our frontman is on bass. It's an online band but we've been making a lot of progress, the album is pretty much completely written, we're mainly just waiting on our drummer to get his pieces recorded so we can add our parts lol I've played in online bands before and typically they just don't work because you end up with a bunch of lazy people that don't put any effort into it, most people expect everyone to write the music for them and they can just come in and play a few chords and claim they're in a band. But with this band that I've been playing in it's actually working out really well, we've made a lot of progress, We have one song completely recorded, I just have to rerecord a few parts where my timing was off and we're pretty much finished with the first song. We're called Typical Weekend
@@IanTheGreatYT nice you wanna play live tho pop punk is kinda making a come back now and if the shits online you really wanna jam/play live chemistry is everything.
@@sebastianarnold7565 True, but between work and my senior year of highschool I don't have time or the privilege of just going out and jamming all the time. We do have really good chemistry as a band though, our styles really compliment each other in our music and we surprisingly agree on almost everything.
The most underrated band ever
I've never watched the video, just listened and danced.
it takes a lot of time and those bitter hearts never disappear.
I hope the girl has found happiness
DLS: i'm afraid i will be alone forever and i will never find true love. this makes it hard to open up to people as well
It's been a bearable fate so far, one day at a time.
Theres someone for everyone, we"ll both find ours oneday
Just live one day at a time man, we all feel like that sometimes
@@iillusion2517 not really, some die before finding someone.
Fuck I'm 35 and I just found the greatest woman I've ever met for anyone that's feeling alone and feels like they will never find someone be patient fam the one is out there 😊
I really love how people are still sharing their dls in comments after 10 years
Therapy is expensive my dude
Just as much of a great song as it was when it came out 😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥
Secrets never die. 😂
😁👍
it feels good to just have it out there even though no one i know will read it but none the less
I miss this music. Can we please turn back to the early 2000’s?
Mitchell Wagoner ikr
What kind of DLS is that? Everyone says that
OniLordMiki DLS = Dirty Little Secret
It's an abbreviation if you dont get it,
@@juwanbantug5465 What I think he asked is how that was a secret? Since he said everyone says that.
The music still exists, you can still listen to it even tho it's 2019
Only two days left for this masterpiece to turn 15 years old🎵, wow time flies
This song is 19 years old.
DLS: I’m not even 30 yet, but I keep feeling like the good ol days are done and gone.
I’m on the younger side (15) but the good ol days aren’t done until you choose to stop doing things you won’t forget.
same, and I'm 20
Try being nearly 40. Then you KNOW the "good 'ole days" are definately gone. The 90s were the last time life in this country was halfway sane. We now live in a combination of Orwell and Huxley's nightmares.
46 here .. 90s were by far the last good decade... Id even say 2000-2001.. after 9/11 ... This country and society as a whole.. went down hill
You must be joking ?
DLS: I'm scared I'll never break out of my shell and will always be the shy and anxious girl for my whole entire life.
+Cora G (CrimsonTigris) How old are you? I used to feel exactly the same way. I was so so severely anxious my whole life, I remember being about 8/9 years old and physically not being able to talk to anyone outside my family. It was a long, difficult process, but it got better as I got older. Now i'm 18, and i'm basically 'normal' when it comes to social things! I still struggle a bit, but i'm so so much different to how i used to be! Just don't ever give up trying, you're not going to be like this forever.
Me too u got to get out there good luck x
Abi Zoey I'm 14 and I've recently been diagnosed with anxiety. General and social. I get panic attacks quite often and I get highly embarrassed whenever I'm around people, for no reason. Yesterday, I went up to my maths teacher so he could sign my book, and immediately got self conscious as I could feel the eyes of the whole class on me. My heart was beating a mile a minute and my palms were slick with sweat. I went home later that day, as I was ill, but had a panic attack in the medical room. Anxiety will always be with me, even if I do break out of if, but thanks so much for the help and support. It's highly appreciated. ☺
+Cora G (CrimsonTigris) I have bad panic attacks too I have severe anxiety as well stay strong x
Ami Olivia You too ☺
The "I only love 2 of my children" has me really shaken. I feel horrible for that one kid, they must feel horrible everyday.
Ikr?
I was glad to get a pic of my oldest son. Things happen in life that prevent a parent from seeing their child. Judgemental much? And it is a horrible thing for both child and parent. Imagine the pain and guilt the parent goes through and the pain the child feels from the absence of his/her parent?
You can totally see the guy too. F-ed up.
How do u know its not more kids
@@cherrybombcoffeewe can see you as well all F-ed up. Lmao.
DLS: anxiety is eating me alive but pop punk makes me feel better
Sorry to ask but what are all these DLS comments?
@@RealLifeLucaDirty little Secret= DLS
@@RealLifeLucapeople are sharing their dirty little secrets. That’s what dls means.
@@ryanmitchell6913 yeah I know, someone answered already. Thank you anyways tho ^^
pop punk loves u
This guy is multi-talented. He can sing, play the guitar, and act. Props to him getting the lead part in Dune.
Do you think hes Timothy chatmen what ever his name is
@@ZoeySaunders-zw2ev Just let them have this one, it's probably easier that way. Full disclosure, I'm equally offended.
@@2Sor2Figretty sure they're joking. Was Dune kid even born when this came out lol?
for me,,he is way prettier than timothy
I dont know whether you are joking, but either way it is hilarious.
DLS: I sometimes act like I’m happy so people won’t get annoyed with my sadness
Me too
Me too
It's similar for me: Sometimes, I pretend to be happy, because I don't want to bring down the people I care about.
Aga beee
Same
DLS: Whenever I'm sad or feel lost I leave post-it notes that contains motivational messages in the restroom of the college that I attend to just in case someone is feeling down or going through the same thing as me. I also leave blank post-it notes just in case someone wants to speak their mind out or motivate other people. I feel bad about this because the lady who cleans the restroom hates it since she's always throwing them to the trash.
I like doin that
Aud1ee that's very nice don't stop doing it you've probably made a lot of people happy!
I'm going to start doing that
Aud1ee
Actually she likes and keeps them...
not all, but some.
Please don't stop.
That is such a nice idea! I'm diagnosed with anxiety and depression, and if I find one of those, it really would lift my mood. Even if it's only for a little while! Please, don't stop. :)
2008-2012 was such a good time for music
yeah but this song was from 2005
Dirty Little Secret is come out in 2005 assh*le
@@Mirau361calm down
@@Mirau361ain’t that deep lil bro 💀
Musics from 2000-2007 were good also tho. Linkin park and the likes so it should be 2000-2012 🤜🤛
This is my first time watching the music video but I've been listening to the audio for years, and yep. This mv is so friggin' cool and wholesome
ikr, i cried when i first watched the video lol.
Same
DLS: I'm not the person I used to be, sometimes I wish I were.
I feel you, you aren't alone.
i felt that
True
Yes.
Same. My mind has deteriorated since I was 16. I’ve halted it, but I’m afraid I’ve lost a huge part of me I’ll never get back.
DLS: I never outgrew my emo phase
Sebastian Elytron Nothing wrong with that!!
thats our dirty little secret
"ITS NOT A PHASE, MOM!"
You never will I’m 30 and stuck in 2006
sameee
To this day this music video is still one of the greatest.
TRUE
DLS: I'm 32 years old and still have lucid dreams about a highschool girlfriend that's living her best life without me. The insecurity never stops being apparent for dating in the future. Good luck in 2020!
You're not alone. I'm 28 and I still miss my highschool gf from time to time. The rough breakup really killed my confidence and now I have a lot of insecurities because of it. Stay strong!
This song was actually "our" song.
. Trust me there will be someone even better and spending time thinking abt her is just stopping u. Forget abt her. You’ll find someone better :)
Joseph Roberts her best life is fake, trust me!
I’m 22 and i do this and i don’t know why my subconscious does it to me i think it’s just a deep connection that when you know it’s the one or was at the time it you’re like forever entangled in a way i got cheated on and was in a toxic relationship and know it but in my dreams i’m happy with her and i don’t understand why when she has done so much bad shit to me
@@daltong6694 don't feel alone but just remember girls like that think in their minds that they aren't worthy of good men so they show your that they're trash so don't feel bad feel good knowing that she knows she's trash and is taking herself out
DLS: I act like I don't care about people's opinions of me but I actually have mild anxiety about if people like me that it sometimes takes over my mind and I can't stop stressing about if I'm being talked about behind my back
crescenstar You're definitely not alone there
that me
SAME
crescenstar me too man😂
you know why its called "little" dirty secret?
DLS: Everytime i see this video i feel happy to know that are other people out there with problems, and fears, and insecurities just like me...
Black yeah it does help
Same
This type of songs bring me back to an era where I wasn't even alive xD
DLS: I tell people I have dreams and ambitions but in reality, I feel like I am slowly pushing a boulder up a hill and just randomly choose a direction to go in
This is a great analogy
Sounds like this analogy was based on a certain greek myth...
This song is 18 years old. How time flies.
Came back here today too … crazy
I was in High School when this came out! I graduated in 2006!
Shut up don't say that!
Holy fuck we where still getting shit for smoking weed
I know this band for burnout revenge
I love how the cards go from “I pee in the sink! Ha ha!” To “I think I have an undiagnosed mental illness” XD
Fear
“I only love two of my children”
Who hasn't peed in in the sink?
"There's 12 bodies hidden on my basement"
“I sold the nuclear launch codes to terrorists.”
What an absolute banger. 35 year old me Loves hearing songs from my youth. ❤🎶🎵😎
DLS: i feel like no one ever listens to me. i have to listen to everyone else and they never do the same back. i feel unappreciated so often. i need to just scream and get all of this out.
I'm just like you
That's how I feel too...
Don’t worry ur not the only one
I’m down to listen
You're not alone on that one.
DLS: I come across as happy and cheerful, but in reality in scared. I scared for the future, of being who I truly am, and I feel pressured by everyone, including my own family.
Same here:,(
You're not alone
Don't be scared! It's life, everyone goes through tough times and times where they feel like no one accepts them. When you are feeling this way, remind yourself how lucky you are compared to a lot of people around the world who don't have food, shelter, water, etc.
I am literally the samd
I'm pretty sure we're the same person .-.
DLS: I imagine situations with myself in it because I know I'll never get what I dream of
It's true, our dreams are always different from reality, it's just fantasy. But, sometimes reality can be even better, more intensive. :)
Always remember u have something that someone else is probably dreaming of. U are very lucky too
You never know keep a positive mindset and attitude and u might just make ur dreams reality when u least expect it blessings
This is my dls too sadly
Same, reality is just so shit for me right now so I just pretend like I’m in a movie and pretend out scenes
This song and this band is getting me through high school right now and i couldn’t be happier!
This is one of the songs you'd hear in like every 2000s movie 😂 and I love it
lol that she's the man movie always came to mind.
john tucker must die too other than she's the man :p
@@xlethal9031exactly what I was thinking of .. 🤘🏽🤘🏽🤘🏽
literally 😂😂
@@xlethal9031I LOVE THAT MOVIE
DLS: I feel like i've wasted my life overthingking, not trying to do things i want, not finding a purpose.
-Maksim Vidakovic
@@mihaelavukic3583 Istina
dls: I'm constantly afraid that I'll be replaced and everyone who says nice things to me is lying bc they feel bad for me
blxck pxrxde. I feel that way too I try to say the right things and try to wear nice clothes and if I say the wrong thing or something weird I can’t go to bed cause I think about it constantly
Don't worry, I feel kind of similar to you. I feel bad for my friends because they're constantly trying to be nice and I feel like its only because I'm just too weak and sensitive, and that I'm only with them because of that.
Similar to mine
Same
If you need to talk I'm here *hugs*
DLS: My family wants me to be successful on their own definition by tomorrow but- honestly I think I’m happy right now being a humble retail worker and barista while working hard at art.
DLS: I'm terrified im gonna be nothing when I grow up and that I wasted my youth. Thats one.
My other account broke same
Just do what you want. Youth isn't wasted if it's enjoyed. Or life for that matter. Stay strong, stay healthy. Don't let anyone tell you what you can't do. Be who you want to be.
lol Sorry. I'm just trying to be positive and encourage you. I'm just talking shit, though. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, either. Everything seems so pointless, meaningless. I'm going nowhere. Lmfao.
that actually helped me a lot, thank you
The first step to admit you wasted your youth. Now make your future. Learn from your mistakes
Been there, done that. You won't be, you'll be amazing.
PES 2010, nostaligia, memories, simply brilliant !!
It was life😅
Broo same ❤️
yeah 😍
Bro 🙏😭
dls. i graduated high school in 2009 but still feel like i’m a kid who hasn’t grown up
'14 here. I'm 23 and have no idea what the hell I'm doing.
I'm 27. Idk what I'm doing either
Growing up, to me, feels like giving up. Do things you love while you can. Regret is so much worst than following the crowd.
Same
I am 49, you are always going to feel a little bit like that. It is normal. And I graduated high school before you were born :)
DLS: I'm always afraid my girlfriend will think I don't love her. I'm autistic and she isn't, and sometimes that gets in the way of communication. I overcompensate by spilling my heart for her every month or so, but deep down, I feel like I'm just repeating myself over and over because I have nothing new to say. My reasons for loving her never change, and there's only so much writing finesse I have.
Chase your dreams bro. Get laid
she knows you're amazing dw brother :D she loves you for the way you are
DLS: I act confident and like I am okay with being alone, but I am insecure as hell and hate myself for it.
scold yo me too 😢😢
I am fat and antisocial and hate myself for it
same in fact I act over confident and i'm not ok with being alone at all but act like I am
@scold Same
DLS: It hurts that I'm only called when they need me. I'm only remembered when they want comfort
I am sorry for you💓
Jacks A same
Same
I believe meeting someone opposite of you and having them as your partner can help. But they must be like minded and like same things as you but are more outgoing and stuff.
Yeah. I’ve had situationships where someone would show up just to trauma dump, then they pull away and leave me wondering what’s it all supposed to mean.
"i hate people who remind me of myself" that shit hit me, hard.
Damn that secret hit home
DLS
Im 69 I love this song and have been grieving over my wife for 18 years and have other issues but wont tell my children for fear of them putting me in a nursing home
DLS: I wish I could express my emotions instead of hiding them
BMoney8600 i relate to this but there are always people that are willing to listen and help you even if you find it hard, i hope you’re okay x
Me too..
I wish I could do that to but instead of hiding my feelings I call the guy I love names. luckely he nows I love him
Felt.
Same
DLS: I mean nothing to anyone, I am the most unimportant but when I make someone smile it makes me happier than anything else.
Ulises Montalvo that makes too of us
to both of you guys, im sure you'll find someone who's able to show you how much they care about you, it'll happen, you just need to be extremely patient
BITCH ILY
Now I'm sad & want to hug you.♡
As long as you mean something to yourself and pay no attention to anyone or anything that makes you feel down
DLS: I'm afraid of my own future after university...
Edit: Thanks for all the likes !
Edit2: I finished Uni and I'm about to graduate in November.
Edit3: I got my first job in an IT company
Edit4: I got promoted this month
Edit5: I'm very appreciative of all the concern people have shown me over years, than you and I'm doing pretty great
Matthew Edwards I feel the same !😞
hardly a secret lmao, unless someone has daddy's trust fund, pretty much everyone is shitting themselves
Matthew Edwards Same
i totally feel you!
You should be. It sucks. 😂
@0:24 I haven't spoken to my dad in twenty something yrs. My son is now 21. His grandfather never wanted to meet him. His loss.
DLS: The longer I'm single, the more I feel like I'll never find anybody who'll love me.
Edit: Keep your heads up guys. You'll find somebody.
Becky C. Same 😢
Love yourself first then someone will too. You know how one girl falls for a guy another one joins her? It’s called abundance, to get abundance you gotta start somewhere which is yourself then you can go and get everyone else after that
Someone loves me I told them I don't love them but secretly I do
Becky C. I love you 🥺
@@SkyracergirlI'm curious how did that turn out for you?
DLS: I'm an impulsive liar. I've lied to probably everyone I know. I'm disappointed in myself, but I cant stop.
Me too
Me too
Same
i dont believe you
Me too.
DLS: i act like a careless free spirit all the time, but deep down I'm terrified of growing old and being alone
Time goes by fast
This song is my favorite from the past and today
DLS: I'm having a blast during quarantine due to isolation.
thank god i'm not the only one. everyone's all upset about it, and i'm the type of person that prefers to be on my own anyway, doing my own thing with my books and my cat, by myself. So my life hasn't changed AT ALL, except for i'm unemployed, but since I live in MA, the gov't gives me the same amount i was making anyway. so i basically get to live my same life without having to work. I"m not mad at this at all. (I guess it helps that i'm a wildly antisocial introvert, and that when i am lonely, my best friend is my roomie, so i'm not TRULY alone. plus, normally, i bartend, and pretend to be all extroverted, so i actually kind of hate spending time with other people outside of work. this quarantine is like a vacation for me. my only real thing i wanna change is opening up bookstores so my book buying isn't as interrupted.)
bottomofastairwell The same. My life hasn't changed much except for the few days per week I had to go out to attend people. Now I dread for the time this will end and the world will celebrate a comeback to normal with loud parties everywhere. I prefer 1000 times the chirp of the birds that now can be clearly heard from my window.
lol same m8
It's like some crazy fucked up real life monopoly game.. I was broke and sleeping on a friends couch, I was told to stay home from work since feb , now I've got over 9000 in the bank from the government +2.1k tax return..... Bro I spent 3+ months smoking weed and I'm somehow up almost $10,000 ?! LOL this shits hilarious. How did this happen
True
Everyone else: *sad, broken family, drama, secrets*
0:40: _I p e e i n t h e s i n k_
Kaity LOOL
Uh haha i pee in the sink as well but only when i cant hold it
😂😂😂😂
lol I remember this video as a kid and that one always stood out to me
Swear but did you see the one about the dude liking the smell of his poop🤣🤣🤣
DLS: I hate myself so much, I feel the only time that I feel any happines is when I can make others happy. I hold all of this back from the people around me because I'm afraid that I might drag them down with me, and I HATE that. If it were to happen and I let someone in, I would end up pushing them away because I don't want their pity. If you read this all the way through then thanks for listening to my problems, it means a lot.
talk to me if you need anyone to talk to :)
That is exactly how I feel
Hey, I'm just a rando on the internet, but to be honest, finding happiness in making others happy is fine. Chase that feeling. We're not supposed to be isolated, standalone units, we're designed to be in community together. Often people get so caught up in their own sadness that they don't realise helping others can be an amazing way to get out of that spiral. It lets you focus on more than just yourself, it gives you a better perspective, lets you see that you and your own problems aren't the sum total of existence. It sounds like you've half realised this but you're not willing to fully embrace it. You need to learn to love yourself as well, but loving others is no bad thing! Remember, you're never going to be able to hate yourself into being someone that you love. Take some of that joy you find in helping others and apply it to your own life, treat yourself like someone else you're trying to help!
And you've gotta share this with people around you. Not everyone, but if you can find a couple of people that genuinely care about you then you should open up. It's scary, but it's also how we deepen and strengthen relationships, by being vulnerable and by sharing not just the good and easy but the hard too. If it's someone who truly cares for you, maybe a close friend or family member, don't write off their empathy for you as pity. It's much more likely genuine heartfelt shared pain and a desire to help/be there for someone they love. We shouldn't try to bear our burdens alone. Let them be there for you, and be there for them. "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."
I hope you can keep moving forward friend.
@@Jesterofthesky Thank you. Even the we don't know each other you just made my day this year has been really hard and someone to say something so nice makes me believe in humanity.
lol
my fellow peers, my generation! I hope all of you are doing well and are happy in life! Wishing you fellas only the best. Time really flew by didnt it? its already 2024 and im turning 33 this year....
Same here that was the best generation!
I think it’s so cool how All American Rejects unintentionally created a space where a lot of people anonymously share their secrets, some very personal. It’s kind of a safe space for them to just shout their secrets into the void. I like to think they would think so too.
Feels like the old internet where noone knew who you were
They didn't create it. They just made the song about it. There was a project called Post Secret. It was started by a guy named Frank Warren. He got people from all over the world to mail in post cards with their dirtiest secrets on them. He did a series of traveling museum exhibits and a book out of it. Somehow, All American Rejects heard about it and decided to write a song about it.
This is the first time I ever saw this video, but I respect the band and the individuals for making it.
They opened the void for us, it would be rude not to fill it with our secrets would it not my friend?
i eat my own poop
DLS: everyone always tells me I’m smart and intelligent but I feel like in the end I’ll up going nowhere and doing nothing
Same here 😞
This is how I feel as well....😔
Chyrie Prunty it’s rough
Same it’s a tough life
Been there. Trick is to not care about the future, and help others using your intelligence. If you are good at something, teach others that struggle with it. I do it with math, feels very nice to be able to explain concepts to people that struggle. If you truly are as intelligent as people think, the world doesn't need intelligence, but people who aren't gifted do. Perhaps work as a teacher, or a tutor. I understand what you feel entirely. If you are like me and experience constant thoughts, including multiple trains of thought at once, try meditation.
DLS: I don't know who I am anymore. I don't feel like me, I can't find the energy to do the things I used to love. I don't understand how I feel. I just want to restart everything.
Believe me, you are not alone. A lot of us feel like this❤ you're not broken
Agreed
Im sure that's not just random emotions your speaking right now, there must be something happened. Anyway I hope you can make it out of this life. Carry on.
Please go See a phychiatrist about this, it could be a Symptom of something that needs treatment and the earlier the easier.
@@williamingram4244 you should become a public speaker, I think a lot of people need to hear something like that
This music video introduced me to Post Secret back in the day. Used to read the blog with new postcards every Sunday.
Anyone one else in their late twenties missing their younger days ? :(
Meeee
Guilty, though mid going on late and I miss every second of being 19
Excuse me - what is this normal comment. Can't you see this is a confessional?
I'm 23 now, already starting to miss them. All we can do is remember them fondly and make new memories. Can't dwell in the past my friend
Yes but early*
Wow finally found a comment without "DLS" at the beginning
DLS : Sometimes, I want to die young because I'm too afraid of my future
Souite Reiiinbeau God Damn, That's mine too
Souite Reiiinbeau same here
Souite Reiiinbeau
Souite Reiiinbeau oh god me 2 fam
me too !!!
DLS: I think early 2000s was the peak of human evolution
dualwield DLS: I think ur right ;(
It’s interesting you say that. I have a theory about 2000 being the beginning of a new era. What makes you say that?
@@Nouuuuranlovesadam Better music, people were less antisocial, people didn't get offended at everything you said, windows XP, music videos on TV, the old youtube, waking up to George Lopez in the middle of the night, BEYBLADE, HEYYYEYEYEYEA, the Ultimate Showdown, XBOX, the old cartoon network and nick, guitar hero, man the 2000's were a time to remember! Here in 2019, everyone is on their cellphones, antisocial as hell, trash music (well, some is ok) everyone is a whiny snowflake, NO BEYBLADE, NO WINDOWS XP, does George Lopez even air anymore, fake news everywhere, there are people actually trying to limit free speech. The 2000's was a pretty gnarly time, especially when you were a kid. Also my experience might have been different than other peoples because I was pretty young in the 2000's, I'm 16 now and it seems like everyone my age is on their phone or social media 24/7, and yeah, people in the 2000's also used the internet a lot, but it's wasn't nearly as bad as today, after 2013 people were so addicted, they couldn't survive without it. I would give my left kidney to go back in time!
@@juliuscastillo2190 you said everything like you just described what I'm feeling nowadays I'm about to turn 19 this month but I'll would rather go back to the good old days (sorry for my English it's not my first language)
dualwield nope but were good times
My Older Brother William was 8 years old and I was 4 years old when The All-American Rejects released "Dirty Little Secret" on June the 6th of 2005.
DLS: I'm so insecure I can't even say my real DLS to people
Go away drunk Shrek. Fiona needs you.
@@FreddyJenkins Hahaha. You're making drunk Shrek more.imsecure.
Are you ok?
Aiden I know that feeling
Same dude
DLS: I talk to myself when no one is looking. Like full blown convos lol
GIRL YOU ARE NOT ALONE😂😂 BECAUSE SAME
I do that as well, like to different fictional characters tho
me too sometimes i complain about others to myself
@@DarthUnivers Samee
Everyone does that
DLS: I'm tired of being ALWAYS nice to people who won't give a damn in the end.
me too
It's difficult, but worthwhile. Let them spit in your eyes, they will regret some day.
you know same
There's a quote that I saw somewhere, I think it goes something like 'be kind but take no shit'
@Young Zen Right.
DLS: I'm terrified of getting married or even being in a relationship because I can't imagine having to spend the rest of my life with one person or having to talk to that person every day. At the same time I'm also scared of never finding anyone and dying alone and forgotten without anyone caring.
Not the only two options. You can date without ever planning to get married or commit for life!
That's a pretty common terror. There's nothing wrong with how you feel. It might change when you find a special person you become obsessed with, lol. I'm obsessed with my husband and it's been 17yrs together, love is scary funny
Would it be much better to die knowing that your loved ones will feel sad about it? Or feel bad for losing someone? I don't see how that is appealing.
Feel you doggy
I totally feel the same way
DLS: I act like I’m an introvert when in reality I’m socially awkward and too scared to put myself out there
Stay strong buddy and never let anyone take away your happiness! You are great the way you are and you never have to go out of your way to please anyone. Always stay true to yourself and continue to leap over the hardships in life. In case you are not told this in your life let me just tell you that "your happiness matters a lot to me!" You are not alone and you'll always have me by your side wishing you the best in everything that you do. You can always reach out to me if you ever need someone to talk to. Everything will be okay! Hold your head up high and know that you are awesome! Life doesn't always give us what we want but it does give us who we are. Don't ever change who you are unless it is to improve on yourself!
Same
Same to me
i now the feeling dude i got major depression and my ex put me thurth something major on the same day my nan died and i just wanted to end it
So...an introvert
DLS: I'm not hating life, I just feel like I'm wasting it. Theres so many things I could be doing but I'm just playing video games.
Do you still enjoy how you spend it?
@@mc3695 I do, but I know I could be doing greater things.
@@philwallsmith7037 if you enjoy what you do, then it's never a waste.
Same here, I feel you
Same bro
DLS: I am completely unable to live in the present. My entire life is spent wishing I could go back in time and not focused on right now. Its why I can't keep a job and why I can't seem to do anything productive, and also why I don't have any friends. The worst part is, I don't like the world as it currently exists and have no motivation to change.
Same here exactly the same as me. There needs to be a group online for people like us so we can meet up.
DLS: I always lift up others and encourage them to talk about mental health but none of my friends know that I have depression and anxiety bc I'm too much of a coward to talk about it.
Olivia Engelhardt That’s a pretty amazing thing to do, and it’s hard to find someone like that to help you out. It’s too bad you don’t have that, but you shouldn’t let that be the reason you don’t get help. You just have to reach out and let people know you could use some help, and I’m sure your friends and family would be glad to help
@@kristine6153 Thank you a lot for your kind words ❤️My parents are the only ones that know. I've been going to therapy once a month since march now. But my friends know nothing at all about this stuff. I'm now at a point where I start to understand that friends deserve to know about feelings. But how am I supposed to tell them that I've been lying to them since basically the day I met them. I never trusted them to be strong enough to deal with the stuff I was feeling. I'm scared that they'll be hurt by my actions. Sorry for the rant.
Thank you again!! I admire that you care about this. We need more people like you ❤️
@@oliviaengelhardt2064 if they are your friends then they should accept you no matter what
Don't worry, I've been through the same thing. Its even worse when you're generally scared of people irl so you can't open up. ._.
@@worstusernameintheworld9871 yup. It sucks ngl ;-;
DLS : I get jealous when my closest friends get to know other people because I fear being left behind.
Yes...
My best Friend was at a holiday camp for a week and when she came back she told me about her new friends which she has found there and how funny and nice they were....
I hate this feeling because I'm so fucking scared that one day she find a replacement for me...
I'm sorry for my english, I'm from germany and I'm still going to school 😅
@@emilyyyy340 kein Problem :) kannst auch auf Deutsch schreiben
@@TheLaylainlila Oke danke haha😅
me too
@Emma Rae Toren no don't Do it. I think there a friends in life which come and go someday. You didn't did something wrong It wasn't your fault. Don't worry you are good the way you are and I think one day you'll finde some true loyal friends💗
DLS: I only half listen to the song nowadays and instead scroll through the comments reading other people's DLS
Currently doing this hahahah
who tf would do that
I just woke up and randomly started singing this !!! Definitely a good 2000’s vibe !
DLS: I have no idea what I want to do or become and I'm scared I'll die lonely in a job I hate
Many people don't know what they want to become many people struggle to find the meaning in life.... I would suggest to you to find what you Love and then study for that😊i liked computers studied software development. Now i find out i love working with computers not so much development
Sidney Rogalsky I feel the same way
same here
Same here. You're not the only one...
Sidney Rogalsky same
DLS: I feel like no one really knows me, because they don't know about my problems and struggles. But I also would never tell them.
I understand where you come from
Amen to that.
I totally understand
You wouldn't tell them because those are your dirty little secrets
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Heard this song 13 years ago in PES 2010. Still in my playlist!
SAME
It's on our satellite feed at my work and I never get tired of hearing it
SAMEEE I loved that song soo much back then
Pes 2010 I having 10, and in my 24 remember this songs
Same ❤️
Middle school 2007 -2008 I'm 30 now and still here with them
DLS: Sometimes I think that I'm hallucinating my whole life. My friends, crushes, family, buildings, and I don't know why. I feel crazy.
I kind of have the same thing, but its not really hallucinations. i don't know if its just me but it feels like I'm never alone in my head, even if I'm not a school. there is someone always in the room with me. I'm not sure if that's just a way of me coping with being alone or if that's normal. sometimes I catch myself talking to my imaginary friends. I don't actually see them, but it feels like I'm talking right to them
That Person I don't talk to them, I just know they're there. Even at school, if I'm alone in the Bathroom, I will feel somebody behind me, but I'll be too scared to look, like I'll turn to stone if I see them. I run like hell after I wash my hands, and in extreme situations, I just use hand sanitizer down the hall. I feel the same in my house, like I shouldn't say what I'm doing next, or they'll know to go there to hurt me, or worse. My mind stresses over so many things I start to wonder if I can handle it all...
+Savannah Mcabee I know exactly how you feel.. I'm alone yet I'm not alone. At night I don't ever sleep because I feel as if there's someone watching me or is under my bed.. I do that thing you talk about in the bathroom.. where someone's right next to you and you can't look or they will hurt you. I never say where I'm going or what I can do next because I'm scared they will go there before me and get me..
MUNCHKIN KAWAII I never know who might be there, I have no way to check if they even ARE there, or who they are. When I'm about to fall asleep, I feel somebody in my room, and tell myself they aren't there, yet I can't work up the nerves to turn my head to the corner of the room. I have never had the guts to just turn my head. The man who lived here before we did, in my house, died here. We never knew him. I don't know if the things I feel are him, or previous owners that have died here, or people who weren't meant to die here. People who have unfinished business come back as ghosts. If you have felt somebody staring at you, like I have, you know how hard it is to just glance over. To just see if they're there, watching you, or if you're imagining it.
Savannah Mcabee I feel you, I can't turn my head either when someone or something is there. I moved into a house where I boy committed suicide last year, I moved recently and think his spirit followed me. I'm pretty sure that he is the one following me around all the time so he can feed off the things I do in my life, because he never got a chance to live his full life. I use to think it was my imagination but now I'm not so sure, the other day I saw what looked like a man zoom past me in the hall way, when this happened the room temp dropped I felt like I was freezing. Sometimes my brother the age of 5 says he is afraid of the "bad man". My parents say its the "boogey-man" and so does he. Honestly, I think he uses those words to describe the figure or figure(s) that keep taunting me.
DLS: I fake adulting everyday... I just wanna climb trees
Then climb trees bro! I'm 22 & still do.
@@car_go_vroom_vroom_vroom I feel it man I still do and I'm going on 30, gotta stay young
be one of the adults kids meet in books that are still youthful and climb trees and act like a kid and have fun.
You are not alone buddy
DLS: I fake treeing every day... I just wanna climb adults
DLS: I want to meet new people but I'm too shy to talk to strangers so I end up alone
SAME. I'm 21, and have no social life. I could, but I don't have anything to talk about to anyone, other than work and my dogs. Both are a few sentences max.
Edit: I removed the ridiculous way I wrote "same."
I'm also 21 and my social life is a wreck...I like talking about random stuff but the people I know find it weird
Truly hope you grow out of it and don't end up alone! :)
If it makes you feel any better there are a lot of friendless people in the world. It's like you know a lot of people but you don't know them well enough to hangout or spill your heart out to them.
same
Giving the vibe of 2000-10's western school life ❤️🔥
This is the first video to make me cry. The postcard secrets are heartbreaking. I became an All American Rejects fan for life because of this and I still blast it