The Path of the Loner - Jordan Peterson (Best Motivational Speech)

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @jordanpetersonrulesforlife
    @jordanpetersonrulesforlife  5 месяцев назад +48

    Hey! Please only use this if you found something useful in my videos that you want to buy me a coffee for, and if you can afford to - this isn't necessary but can help me to keep creating some hopefully useful videos! www.buymeacoffee.com/jordan.peterson

    • @shaunstemp7024
      @shaunstemp7024 5 месяцев назад

      Tu8

    • @philleahey5031
      @philleahey5031 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you

    • @USOTPC
      @USOTPC 5 месяцев назад

      Indecision is a decision to avoid decision.... JP gets in your head

    • @StNemo
      @StNemo 4 месяца назад +5

      This seems generated though, can you link to the original sources?

    • @rjshannon777
      @rjshannon777 4 месяца назад +4

      How about you buy me a coffee?

  • @TexasTimeLord
    @TexasTimeLord 4 месяца назад +67

    Humans need 3 things. Something to do, someone to love, and something to look forward to.

    • @M.Sforza
      @M.Sforza 4 месяца назад +1

      I have done of those. Well I have a 35 year old daughter who abuses me, depression is overwhelming and you look forward to nothing…it’s all bullshit

    • @rodneymoore7270
      @rodneymoore7270 3 месяца назад

      got that ...

    • @tbobtbob330
      @tbobtbob330 3 месяца назад

      Agree with 2/3 of it. I'm happier and more content now as a mgtow than I ever was in any of my my relationships.

    • @elultimo102
      @elultimo102 3 месяца назад +1

      Now I have "none of the above." I'm a straight guy who never married. My Mother and I lived for each other. With her gone last year, life is pointless. Nobody within 500 miles will know if I live or die, nor will anyone care. I go through the motions of living, but in reality, I'm just running out the clock on the game of life.

    • @PreferredMethods
      @PreferredMethods 2 месяца назад

      @@elultimo102 It’s time to leave the place and life you had with her. You can’t ever receive new things if you’re still full up on old ones.

  • @youngprick95
    @youngprick95 4 месяца назад +17

    My Uncle died in his hotel room the other day, he had been a loner/recluse his entire life. He reminded me a lot of myself as I like doing things alone, I also used to spend nights in hotels alone and i can see why he couldnt be bothered with other humans. It hurts knowing he died alone, but I know he is with God now and I'll see him again soon.

  • @BuffaloBilly69
    @BuffaloBilly69 4 месяца назад +32

    I’m a loner. I believe it’s the result of growing up in an abusive environment. Trust issues, lack of confidence, low self esteem, feeling of not fitting in

    • @joaquimioakim229
      @joaquimioakim229 3 месяца назад +2

      Same here, but I’m confident and don’t have low self esteem, being part of the crowd is overrated, loners are usually deep thinkers, I am.
      I don’t care about anything either, it’s a life lesson

  • @shadowsbruther
    @shadowsbruther 4 месяца назад +27

    JBP is an angel on this earth. The articulation, the passion, the empathy. You are needed sir. Thank you for all that you do.

  • @DawayneBuffin-rd4ci
    @DawayneBuffin-rd4ci 4 месяца назад +115

    I’ve been a loner all of my life and I’m completely at peace with the fact that I’ll be like this until god sends me someone and yes it’s gets tough at times I’d rather be this way then to deal with people negatively

    • @1Jason
      @1Jason 4 месяца назад +10

      I was afraid to click on this video when it mentioned loner. I thought that it would point out some very negative things about myself. It didn't though. Good luck to you. You are not the only one alone.

    • @user-or1ye3iz6d
      @user-or1ye3iz6d 4 месяца назад +4

      Same

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 4 месяца назад +6

      "Sends you someone". To your door? Jumping on your car? No. You have to actually make effort to meet people. God helps those who make honest effort.

    • @kellynugent7380
      @kellynugent7380 4 месяца назад +6

      Feel you on that one. I've been single since I was 27. I'm 45 now, still single, but living a happier more full life

    • @AngeloDelavinias
      @AngeloDelavinias 4 месяца назад

      Why would you want to live like this

  • @ChristnThms
    @ChristnThms 4 месяца назад +39

    I've been alone most of my life, especially when around family and when I was married.
    It dawned on me at some point, while I was striving to be better, that people will always want something FROM me but not me on my own.
    I think that was the beginning of walking away.
    It wouldn't matter how much skill I mastered, how much I gave, or how many goals I achieved. It would never be enough.
    Now I do enough to get by, and no more. Anyone who doesn't bring peace into my life is thrown away.
    I'll never have a lot, but I do have peace.

    • @NonCompliantDefiant
      @NonCompliantDefiant 4 месяца назад

      Alone? You don't know the meaning of the word.

    • @paulking9479
      @paulking9479 4 месяца назад

      Peace is worth more than gold.

    • @ChristnThms
      @ChristnThms 4 месяца назад +2

      @@NonCompliantDefiant awful presumptuous. You sure you do?

    • @boxelder9147
      @boxelder9147 3 месяца назад

      ​@@NonCompliantDefianttell us about it

  • @derekwhite2929
    @derekwhite2929 5 месяцев назад +67

    Having been one for most of my life, I am able to tell you very clearly that the path of the loner is a difficult one!

    • @JoshuaIgwemadu
      @JoshuaIgwemadu 5 месяцев назад +5

      I'm the only child of my parents and I'm basically everything they need me to be : a house help , driver , biker , worker , friend , brother ,son e.t.c it's tough and most times it's lonely .

    • @DwightStJohn-t7y
      @DwightStJohn-t7y 5 месяцев назад +7

      @@JoshuaIgwemadu my friend, a lone child, told me in summation: "my dad was my best friend". sometimes, that's all you need.

    • @DwightStJohn-t7y
      @DwightStJohn-t7y 5 месяцев назад +1

      Musashi

    • @neillcann1609
      @neillcann1609 5 месяцев назад +4

      I have Asperger's so I have no choice

    • @russellbarton7565
      @russellbarton7565 4 месяца назад

      Yep

  • @stephenmeinhold5452
    @stephenmeinhold5452 4 месяца назад +29

    Being alone has its highs and lows just like a realtionship but the highs are much more enjoyable, and the lows less intense.
    the fear of being alone is what motivates people to do stupid things and have toxic realtionships.
    its wounderfull to find someone you love and loves you but if thats not working out its no biggy to be alone, but try to reach out, go for long walks, have a hobby etc but what ever you do dont sit at home feelling sorry for yourself.
    i would even go so far as to say being alone at some point is essential for our mental wellbeing.

  • @PamelaStewart-r2m
    @PamelaStewart-r2m 5 месяцев назад +105

    Yes I'm 66 , I had many different jobs ..my fist job was working at a deli. I was 18 I did my very best at that job and all the others now I own a very large cattle ranch! I didn't know I was going to end up here with a great husband.. it was my work ethic and personal drive to do a good job and honesty that attracted him ro me 30 years we worked ...hard its the journey that is the,joy going through hard times ..and good ones. That as you look back and in this moment that you realize how strong and happy you really are. I'm still here helping my grandchildren... I have lost ground and gained it in life . Great joy and great loss is life .

    • @mcmorrowm
      @mcmorrowm 5 месяцев назад +4

      Yay, You!

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 5 месяцев назад +5

      Well done you this is the journey, making the best out of the deck we are dealt and do the work. 😊

    • @teriliebmann3491
      @teriliebmann3491 5 месяцев назад

    • @scottclute-e3g
      @scottclute-e3g 5 месяцев назад

      Could you recommend someone female to me???

    • @danielbrown3461
      @danielbrown3461 5 месяцев назад

      But you can't fault the growing number of woman....especially in Italy, Japan, South Korea, and elsewhere who have made the decision to never marry and never have children....and to avoid dating more or less. You can see interviews with these woman on RUclips that have decided this path. And they give good reasons for doing so. The number of Deaths in Japan, Italy, and South Korea now outnumber births.....and some Liberal Activists say this is a good thing because the Carbon Footprint is lessening.

  • @wangcheng3940
    @wangcheng3940 4 месяца назад +149

    Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @michael-gg2rh
      @michael-gg2rh 4 месяца назад

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @wangcheng3940
      @wangcheng3940 4 месяца назад

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @michael-gg2rh
      @michael-gg2rh 4 месяца назад +1

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex

    • @wangcheng3940
      @wangcheng3940 4 месяца назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @whoto3830
      @whoto3830 4 месяца назад

      When a man has to "beg" for his girlfriend or wife to come back to him, he no longer is a man. He has self-demeaned himself to a Beta male status. He may get results but only temporal. It will happen again and again with that female. The reason is she has not accepted you, for better or for worse and does not want to work with you or herself together to be a better person or persons.

  • @thephilosopherstoner
    @thephilosopherstoner 3 месяца назад +2

    Perks of being a loner at heart is that you don't always have someone to rely on so you are more experienced in solving problems yourself and less afraid to face them.

  • @troym33
    @troym33 4 месяца назад +22

    JP is full of wisdom. He’s a modern day scholar and stoic.

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 4 месяца назад

      It's incredibly subjective. No right or wrong, here. Can't be proved or disproved. That is JP all the way.

    • @Wayinsworld
      @Wayinsworld 4 месяца назад

      You left out inspired FOP. (Fashion Obsessed Person)

    • @thomasblock1164
      @thomasblock1164 4 месяца назад

      ​@Campingwilder "A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds..." (Emerson, of course) I don't quote that as a gotchya. However, what Peterson deals with are philosophical, these things aren't black and white and can never be. There are no scientific laws in sociology. Still useful for us to be exposed to a framework of ideas that we can apply our self appraisals against for comparison. Not necessary for everyone to do so. Mostly for the contemplative.

  • @NishaSlaughter
    @NishaSlaughter 2 месяца назад +1

    As an only child to an emotional detached mother... My greatest fears are being alone and yet here I am

    • @jakesmith-bs4jd
      @jakesmith-bs4jd 15 дней назад +1

      I’m also an only child to a single mother. It’s hell

  • @gerardvanetten2567
    @gerardvanetten2567 5 месяцев назад +10

    Want to see Jordan, walking and always waving arms and hands. Grate full to you sir.

  • @EmpathicRise
    @EmpathicRise 5 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you! Jordan Peterson has changed so many lives... and he appreciates that.

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 4 месяца назад

      Can you imagine being one of his old patients and then hear him going on and thinking. That's ME!

  • @kellycuckoo3143
    @kellycuckoo3143 5 месяцев назад +17

    I consider it a great honor, and privilege to have witnessed Jordan Peterson’s legacy.

    • @TactDB
      @TactDB 4 месяца назад +1

      The psychologist who saw the writing on the wall (replication crisis) and became a motivational speaker? Really? That's quite a low bar.... no different than the guys in the 80s pushing EST.

    • @kellycuckoo3143
      @kellycuckoo3143 4 месяца назад

      @@TactDB he is far more insightful than you could ever hope to be, and far more successful too.

    • @TactDB
      @TactDB 4 месяца назад

      @@kellycuckoo3143 No one denies his success but he's a charlatan just the same. Preached about divorce being bad only to have his daughter divorce. Preaches about sobering up but had to be put in a 2 week coma in Russia to detox. Just saying... no different than the guys in the 80s pushing EST. Those who worship false idols....

    • @TactDB
      @TactDB 4 месяца назад

      @@kellycuckoo3143 Odd my last message didn't send (or got deleted which happens by Peterson fanboys). Anyway just look up how his daughter divorced (being so anti-divorce as he is) or how he had to be put in a 2 week coma to get over his addiction (in Russia) while preaching to others to sober up. A pure hypocrite. Now he's saying the Mens Right movement isn't actually a bunch of weasels. Whoops another blunder I guess. Not to mention his overt support for human destruction (as we've seen 9 months ago). The weak need to worship false idols. It is what it is.

    • @idiotology5568
      @idiotology5568 4 месяца назад

      @@kellycuckoo3143 Watch your back, this guy has his own logo.

  • @philipbaity7083
    @philipbaity7083 5 месяцев назад +15

    The best sacrifice is done with no expectation or goal in mind..

  • @davidmiles-hanschell
    @davidmiles-hanschell 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank You Dr Jordan Petersen for putting into words what I knew and felt intuitively, when I was confronted with the Gospel of JESUS CHRIST more than fifty years ago and had to make a choice; the rest has been since that day, and continues to be my new story.

  • @rberliner6680
    @rberliner6680 3 месяца назад +2

    I thought sacrifice had been taken out of the dictionary. I thank you for this, this evening.

  • @Karl-us9pk
    @Karl-us9pk 5 месяцев назад +16

    I agree with you, good people (the salt of the earth) have been so down-trodden in a narcissistic world, believing belittling lies about themselves without taking them apart and searching for truth, living out the self-fulfilling prophecies of the effects of perverted thoughts, living a 2nd hand life in aftermath of the lie that they have accepted from themselves and others who were were not interested in their well-being and building the Kingdom in faith, and the spirit of humility that our Lord teaches us about in the Matt 5. Keep up the good work, Jordan, we live in a temporary world and the Lord never misses a thing we do. When we have the faith to believe the Lord and His written Word, He always stays true and supports us whole-heartedly on our journey. The proof is in the application alone.

    • @scottclute-e3g
      @scottclute-e3g 5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the speech on cultures.

    • @Karl-us9pk
      @Karl-us9pk 5 месяцев назад +1

      I not sure what you mean about cultures, as English is my second language, not my mother tongue, but thanks for thanking me. Peace be with you.

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 4 месяца назад +3

    Doesn’t matter is you are alone or together..Be Grateful! And all will be Well! 😊❤

  • @dalesabathier9641
    @dalesabathier9641 5 месяцев назад +10

    I’m so thankful 🙏 for you and I will support your work as long as we are lucky 🍀 enough to hear your voice. God Bless you and your family JP
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 4 месяца назад

      But why are you? You surely have a few points that you hear from him and then go out and do some critical research?

  • @lillievalentine8800
    @lillievalentine8800 3 месяца назад +1

    Project management for life. It's very true. The more you manage life, the more success you achieve, the braver you get. I was sent to Australia by my company to handle a very big issue that came up. I had no clue at all what I was going to do. I got Australia, reviewed the situation, came up with a tentative plan. I was scared I couldn't do it. Got up every day and before I put my feet on the ground I said "failure is not an option so find a way". I did find a way and ended up managing the entire international division. I look back now and cannot believe the things that I accomplished because I wasn't afraid to confront my lack of knowledge and did what I had to do anyway.

  • @Treblaholland
    @Treblaholland 4 месяца назад +14

    "If you choose not to decide you still have made a choice."

    • @patrickrobinson545
      @patrickrobinson545 4 месяца назад +1

      Yes sometime in decision is a choice too!

    • @Stolat79
      @Stolat79 4 месяца назад +3

      @@patrickrobinson545indecision is a choice, full stop. Not having a preference is a preference. Not having an opinion is an opinion. You default to external sources, your default becomes risk avoidance and the reliance on others to do the heavy lifting. I avoid these people like the plague now, they are refusing to radically accept who they are to know who they are.

    • @redtape2006
      @redtape2006 4 месяца назад +2

      Niel Peart - Free Will

    • @thegeneralist7527
      @thegeneralist7527 4 месяца назад +2

      Rush!

    • @thegeneralist7527
      @thegeneralist7527 4 месяца назад +2

      @@redtape2006 I saw Neil Peart's last concert in Vancouver. He was a pure genius.

  • @russellbarton7565
    @russellbarton7565 4 месяца назад +27

    I’m almost 53. I have been alone my entire life since I was born. I died 3 times after I was born. Died a 4th time after my mother took me home from the hospital at 3 months old. I was ignored as a child and passed around. My mother abandoned me and my brother a a church on her way to Vegas. Never came back. Got separated from my brother and got passed around in foster care. Finally got adopted at age 4 and my brother a year later. Watched my brother die at age 9. Then I was haunted by my dead brother and demons for 20 years. Got abandoned by my adoptive parents at age 15. Joined the army at age 17 just for a chance to go off to war and die. But ofcourse I died multiple times but God kept bringing me back for some reason. After all of this in my life I still don’t know why I’m here

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 4 месяца назад +5

      I'm sorry those things happened but I'm glad you're here.

    • @PaulRoehl-fi1iw
      @PaulRoehl-fi1iw 4 месяца назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your story. Your last statement especially rings a bell with me.

    • @karintraut8151
      @karintraut8151 4 месяца назад +2

      Most people don't. Prayers ❤

    • @Michael19283
      @Michael19283 4 месяца назад

      Wow bro, I think people need to connect with each other on a humanitarian level. It's so important. Each of us need to be loved and to love.

    • @jondouglas571
      @jondouglas571 4 месяца назад

      God has more for you to do. Redeem the time and know whats waiting for you after leaving this place is wonderful & indescribable.

  • @EjechiIfeakachukwu
    @EjechiIfeakachukwu 3 месяца назад +1

    Man cannot life a meaningful life without a purpose, Men are born to serve

  • @kare-n-hope1111
    @kare-n-hope1111 4 месяца назад +5

    I don't want heaven, riches, success, or anything. My goal is the absence of everything in my ending. I wish to not be in any place, in no time that ever existed or ever will exist. The void is my happy place, I want the silence and peace of nothing, forever and ever, amen. ❤🙏❤

  • @chrisdavies73
    @chrisdavies73 3 месяца назад

    Being totally alone is comforting to me, no idea why that is but i really enjoy the quietness that solitude can give you. It helps reset the mind when there is too much chaos going on around you.
    It can become overbearing as you age.

  • @isaac1572
    @isaac1572 3 месяца назад

    Life is a solo journey, but our best experiences are those we share with other people.

  • @jameskendrick573
    @jameskendrick573 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you brother Peterson

  • @Outlaw8908
    @Outlaw8908 4 месяца назад +5

    Given how I was treated by most people, women especially, and especially female family. I am perfectly fine with being alone. Keep hearing that there has to be someone for you… I tell them no there isn’t. I made a choice do I sacrifice for people that inherently hate or do not respect me, or I take the time left to me to actually achieve things important to me. I chose the latter in that moment at rock bottom.

  • @USOTPC
    @USOTPC 5 месяцев назад +8

    This mere man is s gift from God; just like all of us 😢😢😢😢

  • @lesawilkes5673
    @lesawilkes5673 4 месяца назад +3

    Humility = "you start progressing where YOU can start." Encouragement is a main component of Christianity, Jesus always encourages us to be humble, persevering and forgiving as we move through this life. He also enables us to win the race through Him. He says He will lead us, help us, and LOVE us...

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 4 месяца назад +1

      So when he popped upon a shore and sent (ENCOURAGED) 500 goats into the river because they were filled with evil. What compensation did the goatherder get? I mean, a goat herder would certainly not own the goats, that would be the big, wealthy owner. Don't you think that said herder would be skinned alive because JC thought that goats had demons in them?

  • @brucekellogg8288
    @brucekellogg8288 4 месяца назад

    Dr. Jordan,
    Your spirit of deep inquiry is commendable, and yet the burden of that level of thinking creates so much wear and tear on you. That is my impression anyway.
    The way of the heart, and I dont mean the organ, is what creates breakthrough, a breakthrough from the thinking function.
    The wholeheartedness of heart and mind is the balance we all need in this world for wholeness.

  • @eze8933
    @eze8933 4 месяца назад +1

    As a loner I get to spend my time how I like, doing what I please - the weekend is MINE. I'm more productive and use my energy wisely. I LOVE being lonely, life is much more fun and peaceful.

  • @anthonymurillo8886
    @anthonymurillo8886 4 месяца назад +3

    If you can be alone and at peace you have conquered this world.

  • @millyardopeacecraft9778
    @millyardopeacecraft9778 4 месяца назад +5

    The path of the loner is the honorable

  • @autoclearanceuk7191
    @autoclearanceuk7191 4 месяца назад +5

    The worst people are those who make children afraid.

  • @ABCoffell
    @ABCoffell 5 месяцев назад +4

    YES
    TRUTHS WILL SAVE THE WORLD

  • @mikethespike7579
    @mikethespike7579 3 месяца назад +1

    I have a lot of respect for Jordon Peterson. A lot of his advice about relationships and life are fascinating and well put forward. Especially his courage to take controversial views regardless of criticism impresses me. But he needs to keep to his field of expertise. Politics and religion are not his thing, giving advice on these topics will only damage him.

  • @motiveintentionsincerity
    @motiveintentionsincerity 5 месяцев назад +17

    After studying the words of Yeshua, Gautama, J Krishnamurti, Lao Tzu, Socrates, Currently now Krishna, the muddy water is settling. Is it totally clear yet, no. As a very wise man said when he was 87 years young; 'I'm still learning.'
    'Peace be with you' everyone, because if you don't truly have it within, you will never have 'true happiness.

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude 5 месяцев назад

      Do you do the actual work, i.e. meditate?

    • @wyattmccain5697
      @wyattmccain5697 5 месяцев назад

      “We GIVE What We NEED”
      - Wyatt McCain

    • @bunreachtde-jureConstitution.
      @bunreachtde-jureConstitution. 5 месяцев назад

      If ye can't go within you shalle go without.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤from éıRe.

  • @thomashussman3790
    @thomashussman3790 4 месяца назад +2

    It is true that people need a little encouragement to fight on. Without encouragement few people have the natural tenacity to fight on. Encouragement is a little bit like forgeiveness - everyone wants it, but not everyone has the ability to give it.

  • @MelvynRutter-q7s
    @MelvynRutter-q7s 4 месяца назад +3

    life is also about the journey, and not only about the destination. Working out everyday life, in a partnership, that leads to mutual benefits, is a good plan for the journey. Where we end up relies on the future anyway

  • @duelde-consulting6403
    @duelde-consulting6403 4 месяца назад

    As above, so below. Because of this truth, this world will never tell the truth.....

  • @seanchan4478
    @seanchan4478 3 месяца назад

    I love Peterson's speeches. Not crazy about his politics, but I think it's a huge disservice to the self to deny the points he makes for some ideological differences. I really see him ad a force for good. In rehab we had to give eachother advice, one addict to another, some dudes had beef with eachother from the streets, but the best advice I heard was to look at the message not the messenger. If the advice is good, it can make you a better person without hurting yourself or others, than just take the damn advice

  • @sallyanne883
    @sallyanne883 4 месяца назад +3

    I am tired of sacrifice....this world sucks and people are mean...I have been hurt by more Christians than I can count...They're no better than those that don't believe...

    • @1Jason
      @1Jason 4 месяца назад +3

      Do good, and don't expect anything in return. That way you can't be disappointed. Nobody owes you anything. The joy should be found in what you are doing, not in what you expect to get as a result of your actions.

  • @rhengst22
    @rhengst22 5 месяцев назад +14

    If we take away money, our species will do MORE. Money driven empires will always fall. Statistics have shown that human would strive to do more if we were not driven by money.

    • @christopherclayton417
      @christopherclayton417 5 месяцев назад

      Money is the only other when it is said you can't worship both God and Mammon. Mammon translates to money and goods I believe. But something deeper there. I don't know that we can survive or provide without. So one is a tool. Truly I don't know how much money you needed then. I will hazard a guess that you at least needed enough for taxes. But we have been discouraged from barter. And in some ways I feel less encouraged to pray. Not that a feeling should stop you praying. But that your prayers are somehow harmful to others. I likely haven't had the best prayers. I don't see how that translates though. If you are into it any. You know that you shouldn't pray evil over someone. I suppose I might have felt different praying next to someone that believes something else. If you were offering prayer to demons with that intention I admit that I would be less comfortable. Still I don't see that becoming the norm. Our own hostility even just imagined and turned against us. Something likely to be said of separation of powers. I was told to do it in private for best effect anyway. Have you never felt the power of us coming together to ask God for what we need. It is powerful to even be on the same page. When we accomplish big things people turn their time and effort towards it. Another thing is that we had some ideas that it could be accomplished. Frustrating, time consuming, conflicting ideas, Nothing really stood in the way mostly. Still this is just ongoing. I am thankful that people can recognize it. I wouldn't have, and didn't even see how much it was affecting me.

    • @KyOte13
      @KyOte13 5 месяцев назад

      It’s garbage 🗑️ and it takes people away from their true purpose. You leave people to their own devices without the need to sacrifice all their time just to survive… and you have a renaissance. We are due for that.

  • @theseeingeye454
    @theseeingeye454 5 месяцев назад +7

    Success is relative...... The more sucess the more relatives.... Confucius

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 4 месяца назад

      And truth is subjective...

    • @ibelieveitcauseiseentit9630
      @ibelieveitcauseiseentit9630 4 месяца назад

      ​@@Campingwilderno truth is definitely not subjective, it's objective.

    • @tinas2857
      @tinas2857 4 месяца назад

      @@Campingwilderone’s opinion is subjective; truth is objective.

  • @albertshinskiy
    @albertshinskiy 5 месяцев назад +7

    Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @deboralaw-on9od
      @deboralaw-on9od 5 месяцев назад +1

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy 5 месяцев назад +1

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?

    • @deboralaw-on9od
      @deboralaw-on9od 5 месяцев назад

      Her name is Suzanne ann walters , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy 5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @pmeehan_3
      @pmeehan_3 5 месяцев назад +1

      As a woman we don't just wake up one day and decide to leave. Most times she has been unhappy for months or even years telling you. People just don't listen.

  • @travgiants24
    @travgiants24 4 месяца назад +6

    MORE PEOPLE MORE PROBLEMS.

  • @stevethompson8504
    @stevethompson8504 4 месяца назад +1

    Belief is faith in things not yet seen.

  • @Wayinsworld
    @Wayinsworld 4 месяца назад +1

    One of the things I admire most about Jordan Peterson is his snarky temperament. Quite capable of answering a long question with a single NO, Peterson utilizes his snarky attitude to keep others in their place. Statements like, "Instead of simply insulting me, why don't you see if you can formulate a reasonable question?" come to mind. Snarky attitudes are also common among chirpy Canadian pro hockey players.

  • @tamelashafer8852
    @tamelashafer8852 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Mr. Jordan Peterson… Om Shanti Shanti Shanti 💜♾️🙏🏼🕉️

  • @thomaswarner8884
    @thomaswarner8884 3 месяца назад +1

    fascinating and gracefull.

  • @suzannahjames5264
    @suzannahjames5264 5 месяцев назад +15

    Christian definition: don’t judge, but pray.

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 4 месяца назад

      You, like me, are an Atheist. Only you believe in just one more god than me...

    • @Marc-kw4tk
      @Marc-kw4tk 4 месяца назад

      @@Campingwilder You mean agnostic.

  • @krishnantampi5665
    @krishnantampi5665 5 месяцев назад +5

    Do something for someone then some one will do anything for you that's compassion and kindness❤

  • @gastropodahimsa
    @gastropodahimsa 4 месяца назад

    Strangely, I have never have the sense of myself extending in time as you describe. And I would say, from my 76 years of this, that my lack of this sense has been a crippling handicap.

  • @timothy8466
    @timothy8466 4 месяца назад +1

    Jordan. U r brilliant brother 😊

  • @RussArusell-y3n
    @RussArusell-y3n 5 месяцев назад +8

    The world is brutal and has torqued perceptions and in Christ I can move forward and forget about my useless efforts that was my conceited and deceitful selfish self.

    • @annsmithwick264
      @annsmithwick264 5 месяцев назад +3

      You can not only " forget* about yourself, you can bask in the gift of the forgiveness of God himself, in the GIFT of Christ Jesus as an atonement for ALL our sins.

  • @junevandermark952
    @junevandermark952 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for honoring freedom of speech.
    Jordan is a preacher of Christianity ... so he should believe that because Jesus is his friend and his salvation that those who believe in Jesus are NEVER loners.
    To think that one "could" be a loner and be a Christian at the same time ... would be a major sin ... wouldn't it?
    As a small child, I was inundated with hymns such as the following. That part about "None other has ever known" seemed so egotistical to me that it turned me right off. And I figured that if Jesus was only a savior to Catholics or Protestants ... while even disregarding his own family of religious Jews ... he wasn't even worth "his salt" ... much less my complete faith ... and my worship.
    In the Garden
    I come to the garden alone,
    While the dew is still on the roses,
    And the voice I hear falling on my ear
    The Son of God discloses.
    Refrain:
    And He walks with me, and He talks with me,
    And He tells me I am His own;
    And the joy we share as we tarry there,
    None other has ever known.
    He speaks, and the sound of His voice
    Is so sweet the birds hush their singing,
    And the melody that He gave to me
    Within my heart is ringing.
    I’d stay in the garden with Him,
    Though the night around me be falling,
    But He bids me go; through the voice of woe
    His voice to me is calling.

  • @jimmysanders4813
    @jimmysanders4813 4 месяца назад

    Next to physical survival,food,water and shelter human beings need psychological survival, to have something to do,to be loved and to have something to dream about.

  • @DreamingGhost
    @DreamingGhost 3 месяца назад

    Geniuses will save the World.

  • @frankberry6220
    @frankberry6220 5 месяцев назад +6

    Dear Prof,
    What does that have to do with being alone?
    Frank.

  • @AntiWokeXyCitizen
    @AntiWokeXyCitizen 4 месяца назад

    I'm a loner since childhood, never had friends. Was married however due to my gift, I consider it one, it wasn't compatible with her and her alcoholism and poor parental skills. So I'm back to being a loner, I've accepted I'm going to be alone all my life so I've made peace with it.

  • @thomasstuart6861
    @thomasstuart6861 5 месяцев назад +2

    Not knowing "the self" can lead to an incorrect temporial covenant. However, there is an inexcapable twist in the simulated universe that does not respond to hurling demands at the world for justice.

  • @ИлиянМинев-щ5й
    @ИлиянМинев-щ5й 3 месяца назад

    Not only that this is one the greatest movies ever made, but the sequel is perhaps even better! And I think you will absolutley love it! Especially for De Niro's character in the movie :}

  • @uckBayNguyen
    @uckBayNguyen 4 месяца назад

    I'm a loner and by choice. I seek more than what this physical realm have to offer. I hunger for knowledge and made sacrifices of the superficial pretense for underlining meanings. I have a keen sense of discernment of people's motives and agenda and would call out the hypocrisy thus leaving me with no friends. Strangely, I never feel alone for the path of the loner is too keep your eye on destination than on yourself. I don't pity myself but rather empathize with other's struggles and learn from them. The loner is resourceful and resilient and independent of influence. You can call me a creeper or a weirdo or any form of verbal judgement would only teach me not to be like you

    • @michaellounsbery8755
      @michaellounsbery8755 4 месяца назад

      If you truly hunger for knowledge and truth, I have no doubt you have, or will find, Jesus Christ.
      As all truth leads back to Him.

  • @junetaylor8396
    @junetaylor8396 4 месяца назад

    I was always as loner because I had asthma as a youngster and lived with chain-smoking parents. When ppl are trying to kill you, you gladly become a loner. I love my air, as crazy as it sounds. Since I became an adult, I always lived alone and it has been wonderful each and every day.

  • @meganmclaughlin9056
    @meganmclaughlin9056 5 месяцев назад

    I faced and overcame every obstacle that came upon me.i have a freedom that 99 percent of people can not imagine. Know fear and you are invincible

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 4 месяца назад

      Grammar, overcome that...

    • @meganmclaughlin9056
      @meganmclaughlin9056 4 месяца назад

      @@Campingwilder your weak.get a life.

    • @meganmclaughlin9056
      @meganmclaughlin9056 4 месяца назад

      Just cause you can not overcome anything, you critique others.your a child.

  • @leonnekrotiuk3607
    @leonnekrotiuk3607 4 месяца назад

    One believability to another belief is that the answer to everything in life . I’m an absurdist show me the absolute truth.

  • @wyattyetman4915
    @wyattyetman4915 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Jordan.

    • @DonDealio
      @DonDealio 5 месяцев назад

      It is not Jordan posting this. But some guy ripping off his material.

    • @danielbrown3461
      @danielbrown3461 5 месяцев назад

      They will soon impose a Tax on men if they have never married and have no children by the age of 30. And the tax will increase by 1-2% every year after.

  • @waitwhat564
    @waitwhat564 4 месяца назад +1

    Love this man

  • @Sandra-vc3uw
    @Sandra-vc3uw 4 месяца назад +1

    I know what you are saying. I have to deal with very high blood pressure ( 200/98), irregular heart be,at, (was rushed to the hospital, given morphine, the paddles were
    charged), went into heart and kidney failure, Iost the ability to walk due to arthritis. I was in bed for a year (couldn't turn and in pain that made me scream).
    I am putting my best forward.
    I'm not being down on you. I'm
    just telling the truth. There is a whole lot more to people than just a quick judgement.

  • @spirg
    @spirg 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m 58, when I was 20, I’d meet someone and immediately I’d say ‘’ he’s a nice guy ‘’, Now, I assume you’re No Good, til you prove me otherwise,,, You can’t teach experience, alone now almost always, tired of bs and drama

  • @rudbeckia885
    @rudbeckia885 4 месяца назад +1

    Not that complicated.... work gives you purpose; hopefully you love your work

  • @abcaka1236
    @abcaka1236 5 месяцев назад +2

    @ Mr Peterson. 0:46 Quote: "I mean maybe someone can come up with a better definition of work than that but I don't think so"
    Work by definition is a default and therefore done for the means of survival.

    • @motiveintentionsincerity
      @motiveintentionsincerity 5 месяцев назад +1

      ... people then become a victim of themselves, complacent, content etc. Ceasing to evolve themselves, this is such the sadding aspect of many people in the world. I am an advocate that the subject of Philosophy must become a mandatory subject for children of the age of 6 or 7 years to leaving age of statutory education.
      Which begs the question, why has 'Philosophy' not been a mandatory subject throughout the statutory education system???

    • @DonDealio
      @DonDealio 5 месяцев назад

      It is not Jordan Peterson posting this. But some dude wanting to make money off of his material.

    • @christopherclayton417
      @christopherclayton417 5 месяцев назад

      It is measured in energy spent. But being efficient is more of a gift. With access to so much information look at how we will spend it. I have no doubt that it happens. How much waste would go a long way. I also have reason to believe that some time is considered more valuable. I would waste mine and your's out of misunderstanding.

    • @DwightStJohn-t7y
      @DwightStJohn-t7y 5 месяцев назад

      @@motiveintentionsincerity neither is Psychology. Both are a lot more complex and vague and very different directions can be many roads. Academic HS suggests kids are not mature enough. Well, lets make them mature by adding these subjects, along with money managment and "Reality Bites"!! They'll catch up fast.

    • @DwightStJohn-t7y
      @DwightStJohn-t7y 5 месяцев назад

      @@christopherclayton417 I've had three bosses in labour where I saved them my entire years salary by being innovative. asking, doing. One book I entered had people before me: I was doing DOUBLE productivity than the next nearest person. The only bosses that noticed were either German.....or Jewish. No one at all noticed. Then they'd hire their cousins who "needed a job" and you were either babysitting....or GONE!! so I went. !!

  • @debjudson4991
    @debjudson4991 5 месяцев назад +1

    Grateful for you ✨💖✨

  • @hammer48ful
    @hammer48ful 4 месяца назад +2

    At 76 I'm amazed at what my life has been because I wasn't afraid to do my own thing. My life went places I couldn't have dreamed. I climbed many mountains and after I climbed to the top of one, looked at the next mountain to climb.

  • @RobertWilcox-y5l
    @RobertWilcox-y5l 4 месяца назад

    I didn't realize that life was this complicated!!!!

  • @harryknutts8428
    @harryknutts8428 5 месяцев назад +1

    sometimes being alone is a solution but the problem is u stay alone because u cant or dont have time to find a better solution like u have to work alot because u pay for all your own shit, im a unintentional loner, people in my life have mostly either died or gone to prison or are too disfunctional to be around

  • @martind5565
    @martind5565 4 месяца назад

    I'm an atheist and fully understand this and think Dr Peterson is one of the best thinkers of our time!

  • @rosslambda9613
    @rosslambda9613 3 месяца назад

    i was a loner in college in high school and i spend all my energy on work a investment came to fruition and i have my peace and i dont look for meeting any new persons outside of work and hobby i see no benefit in it against the negate effect

  • @belindared3389
    @belindared3389 5 месяцев назад +2

    Excellent motivation ❤

  • @gandalf8216
    @gandalf8216 4 месяца назад

    Embrace work, but renounce and reject slavery at all times; slavery being work you do simply to have shelter and food for the days you work.

  • @MIKEMIKE-te2dt
    @MIKEMIKE-te2dt 5 месяцев назад +5

    None are so courageous as those who stand alone for justice, who will stand with the oppressed in the dark hour when all others have abandoned their cause.
    After ten months of the horrific antisemitic slaughter of a people whose courage is now the standard of that virtue, the good people around the world have the
    deepest gratitude for those who have stood up and protested for the Palestinian cause. Support for Palestine separates those who possess conscience and
    spine from those who have neither. Let the good people of all faiths (atheists welcome, too!) unite to stop the antisemitic slaughter in Gaza. Thank you!

    • @lucianz7636
      @lucianz7636 4 месяца назад

      Why do you need atheists for support? Where is your little god now?

  • @balajib785
    @balajib785 3 месяца назад

    The high gift of creator light body it means this body observe light with out his body shadow ❤

  • @DonDealio
    @DonDealio 5 месяцев назад +2

    🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
    Sacrifice is essential for human progress, with work being a sacrificial gesture towards the future.
    The biblical narrative emphasizes living in a sacrificial relationship and making the right sacrifices for a paradisal future.
    Facing challenges and making sacrifices can lead to personal growth and mastery over obstacles.
    Dopaminergic reward drives engagement and focus towards goals, urging individuals to pursue the highest possible goal for optimal engagement.
    Establishing a relationship with a higher vision, like God, sets the upper bound to a person's vision and drives continuous improvement.
    Pursuing challenges, constantly transforming, and seeking deeper understanding can lead to becoming a force against tyranny and oppression.
    Encouragement, pursuing truth, and simplifying steps for those struggling can have a profound positive impact on people's lives.
    Starting with simple steps, like sitting up for 30 seconds, demonstrates humility and can lead to significant progress and transformation.
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    • @christopherclayton417
      @christopherclayton417 5 месяцев назад

      I can't lie, that AI. Was helpful if you really formatted with that. What is it picking up key phrases? You placed it there like a viper. Don't worry all internet wasn't a military invention or has no bearing on military anymore..? harpa, darpa, Watson who cares? I couldn't possibly be threatened. I actually feel that I would either be impressed or let down. Either way not in a huge hurry for the answer. I was worried about AI when it was fashionable and far off. Still doesn't matter. Unless they are doing what I think. Then I am not sure anyone would approve. Outside of those who have no respect for privacy. I figured that they are using data mining, to crowd source unconscious thoughts, that may be uncannily accurate. Or just using the camera and network that it is connected to. Old fashion surveillance brought in to let you know that you are not alone. Damn if it doesn't end up a slogan "surveillance you can trust" lol in all seriousness I will accept an answer. I am not sure what they do. Ease the tension.

    • @DonDealio
      @DonDealio 5 месяцев назад

      @@christopherclayton417 i don't know why they called it harpa. I doubt it was a reference to HAARPA.
      But yes, it extracts the RUclips transcript and summarizes or indexes based on that. It has a few variants. There is also one with time stamps interspersed. And it offers to share it as a comment like I did.

  • @christopherclayton417
    @christopherclayton417 5 месяцев назад +1

    The path of a loner. Is completely filled with necessary people. I like that you don't avoid the fact that no man is an island unto himself. It will definitely make things more interesting. I thought maybe there was a certain way through. Where you don't confront yourself and others. The path of someone that is winding clear back around to. That is exactly what you will have to do at all necessary times. Also I don't get to necessarily pick those times for my convenience. An inordinate amount of time spent looking for the only available path. I have said before that I think I realized how selfish I am when I envision it. Because it is just me and I am lost. But the path forward never really changed. How I view the path changes almost daily. I am sure that it is no mistake that even though it has felt lonely. I know that we are supposed to be here. Something is driving you forward. Or calling you. I have no real notion of being lonely. When it comes right down to it I will seek help. I just can't help but think I will always be at least a little selfish. While I don't have a team of sherpas to carry me. It is now more realistic that at some point I looked around and realized that the only way I would call out. Is if I thought someone had journeyed that far off the path to be able to hear me. More likely people can hear me. And most reassuring. I know someone is always looking for me. Still if anyone is this far out. What are the chances they are not lost? So divine guidance it is. Look around and it seems a sea of people have passed this way. Leaving notes and crumbs. Things more precious than they sound. Leaving things along the trail to burdensome to carry. And I never figured myself for a tracker. You would be surprised what you can learn. And things you can only guess at.

  • @610MARYAM
    @610MARYAM 4 месяца назад +1

    ALHUMDULILAH
    JUST ME
    MY SON
    AND MY LORD
    JUST LIKE I SAID WHEN I CAME ONLINE
    I WANA BE ALONE WHERE I CAN WRITE FOR HUMANITY
    BUT I WANT TO BE ALONE. UNTIL I GET TIRED OF BEING AT HOME. WHEN THE WORLD IS IN CHAOS.. THEN MY ENVIRONMENT WILL BE READY.

  • @StevenDykstra-u3b
    @StevenDykstra-u3b 4 месяца назад +2

    I don't get a reward here(just the opposite), And I don't believe in another world: a heaven to recieve a reward and/or compensation. I do what I do because that's just who I am. Rarely even a noticeable dopamine kick. Am I weird? Atypical?

  • @annsmithwick264
    @annsmithwick264 5 месяцев назад

    I was struck by his notion that humans can work to free the slaves and oppose the oppressors.

  • @NunyaBiznus-q4p
    @NunyaBiznus-q4p 4 месяца назад

    I had just been trying to share this idea. The fable of the Ant and the Grasshopper. You will suffer from fiddling your life away.

  • @EugeneCroswell-on4qj
    @EugeneCroswell-on4qj 4 месяца назад

    The definition of insert word is, ..... so that explains the idea exactly how often is any word used to its exact definition.

  • @markcarolan5356
    @markcarolan5356 3 месяца назад +1

    I never had a choice but to be a loner, no family, intoverted as hell, untrusting and intolerent to toxic people

  • @xxChacaronXX
    @xxChacaronXX 5 месяцев назад

    Keep expanding your vision. The next day… The next week, Month, 3 Months. 6 Months .. ect… don’t just live in the now.

  • @mossig
    @mossig 4 месяца назад

    It's only greed that motivates people to work or a wipp!

  • @Pault3788
    @Pault3788 3 месяца назад

    I pursue this Bourbon,and I Love it

  • @FragmentedMindZ
    @FragmentedMindZ 3 месяца назад

    How do you draw the distinction between doing for the betterment of others and being called a doormat for doing so.

  • @Doodlefisher
    @Doodlefisher 5 месяцев назад +2

    John 3:16

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 4 месяца назад +1

      Go to the toilet at just after 3:15?