I'm going to spit some facts: It is true that the society takes advantage of nice people, it's not that only woman takes advantage, men's also take advantage. If a woman is mature and intelligent she will definitely chose a nice guy, (not the wannabe nice guy). Only immature and fool people go after assholes and consider them as cool. Thank you for reading this 🙏
The truth is boys (nice boy) are innocent Aur ladkio ko ese ladko ka faida utha ne mai maza ata hai...... Its a fact and Truth This video have no logic.. Khud ki aur apni jesi soch rakhne walo ka logic derah hai yeh Ladkia nie soch te ak bar v ki innocent boy jisko soch reh hain na wese ladke hie jindegi bhar real sath dete hai Ladkia bas temporary khusi ke poche bhagte hai.... Aur (Asshole) ladke ke piche jate hain...... Agar duniya mai survey kroge na toh 100% ladkia bolenge they regretting q ki unone fuclboys (Asshoe) le chakar mai ache bande ko chodiya....... Reality bro Apni logic /apni soch apne pas rah brother
@@coral8551 be nice to people those are nice to you. Don't be nice to toxic women and people in general those are taking advantage of you. Just ignore them. When you find a good girl to respect your true nature love her. Being nice to toxic people is not stupidity
Don't stop being a nice guy. Just know your self worth and when you're being used. If you aren't getting respected, ghost them. Build yourself, achieve financial freedom, level up yourself. You'll find the woman of everyone's dreams.
Bro muje nahi lagta ladkio ko nice guy Pasand NAHI ye log content bane ke Liye kuchh bhi dikhaye Matlab ladkio ko puchho unhe to nice ladke hi chahiye wo NAHI Jo Kisi bhi ladki ke Sath frenk ho jaye ya ego leke ghume
@@bluexwave5930 bro, mere whatsapp message ak ladki ignore kar rahi thi, and I was really depressed about it.. Later I realised, the problem was with me and I was being too needy.. Boom I changed myself, now she's really close to me
well, most girls are intrigued by what you define as "asshole" as both of the parties crave for attention, validation, and they are in the same boat, ready to drown anytime. Some people just want solitude and someone with values, loyalty, and genuine attraction which is and always will be maturity.
agree. They (Assholes and the girls who like them instead of nice guys) wont understand the value of relationship, honesty, loyalty. They end up Alone with mental illness.
let go of the girls who hates nice guy; its their loss; not of the nice guy ones; they later on will regret their decisions in life; but sorry, im never stop being a nice guy; and that doesnt mean being innocent n dumb;
Man I'm too nice guy. My father is a nice guy who genuinely love my mother and my mother is very mature good girl. They all love each other and never fight. So I'm also not going to stop being nice guy but now with boundaries. I will be nice to only my Loved ones. Being nice to toxic people is idiotic. First search a good girl and then be nice to her. Enjoy with her. Dont behave like dick to her becoz I can't live happily after putting my family in sadness. All these immature women dont deserve a good husband they are like use and throw for bad boys. I wish body counts can be visible on head of women so we can easily identify good people.
@@SumitKumar-pv6wg yes, i know friend; but i love a girl ; who has been used by bad boys; she is from a very nice family background; despite knowing that i love her too much; maybe she now knows what true love is; but at one point i feel she will use me too; for her own benefit; to get ahead in her career; jst not able to decide; havent talked and met her; but i know some things abt her; she's a local tv actress; and you know how life of an actress is; what you suggest?
@@sarveshm6779 That's victim mentality. Some people loves to suffer. Dude you have only 1 life don't waste it on any hoe. Not everyone deserves kindness.
Brothers going on a date with someone doesn't make you socially strong. Date is not a destination, it is the by-product of the respect that you have given to yourself over a period of time. You are waking up early, achieving your daily tasks, dressing well, going out socializing, travelling etc. These things increase the masculine energy which reflects beautifully when you are around women. You feel more confident because you have practiced respecting yourself. Women respect the guys who respect themselves.
Broh You just helped me change my thoughts about my life and relationship. It's time to break that nice guy mentality. My girlfriend just broke up with me this Evening. I never found the reason why she doesn't like me . Now I got the actual reason. Because iam too nice and everyone is taking advantage of that .Time for a change. No more Mr. Nice Guy. Time for a change. Thank you man 🖤
The truth is boys (nice boy) are innocent Aur ladkio ko ese ladko ka faida utha ne mai maza ata hai...... Its a fact and Truth This video have no logic.. Khud ki aur apni jesi soch rakhne walo ka logic derah hai yeh Ladkia nie soch te ak bar v ki innocent boy jisko soch reh hain na wese ladke hie jindegi bhar real sath dete hai Ladkia bas temporary khusi ke poche bhagte hai.... Aur (Asshole) ladke ke piche jate hain...... Agar duniya mai survey kroge na toh 100% ladkia bolenge they regretting q ki unone fuclboys (Asshoe) le chakar mai ache bande ko chodiya....... Reality bro Apni logic /apni soch apne pas rah brother
@@MohitMaheswari It's complicated broh 🙂 GIRLS are the most complicated species on earth 🌎. Nobody ever understood what they really want actually. They are interested in fun things fun boys cause they don't think long term like boys . Tell me your opinion??
Guys there's nothing like Nice guys. It's just about having self esteem and respecting others. Give respect Take respect..!! Simple Giving is the Best Virtue but only for those who value it.. Now a days there are 1000's of people who are waiting to take advantage of people with low self esteem..!! Don't be the one..
Yes, i think defining clear values and principal like health, career and family over other bulshit and fake social media thing will keep balance in life and will not cause regret later in in terms of health and career. Be truthful to own self and others make life alot easy.
Dude, You changed my thinking process completely in this 26 min videos, I can say with bet this is one of the finest content I watched. Thank you so much
People should learn to say No to others... Because everytime we are agree with them, if it's not true and making you fool then disagree with them and your relationship get harm then it's okay, it is better than for made joke of your to them..
Be a nice guy but don't be too much that other people will take advantage of you. Help others, be kind, earn lots of money, have vacations, also have badass bike & cars but above all this make your parents proud, be with them for lifetime they are the only people who truly loves you. It doesn't matter if you get a girl or not, perhaps you can live your life alone.🙌
"Mistakes and experiences makes you a human better person"☺️ Life mein ek insan ekdum se mature ni banta,,,dheere dheere hi chinjen samjh aati hein... Har insaan ke life toxic log aate hein and tough phase....yeh humpe depend krta h ki humein unhein kaise handle karte hein
Their are many mistakes of Indian Men in their approach to women and one of their famous ones is being nice to a women. Well this is what Kshitij is saying to not be nice for no reason. We Indian Men are learning the hard way ha ha.
The video's topic is true but it's also true that if you're truly NICE , then STAY NICE. Changing yourself for anyone even for women won't give you peace in life. you have to find someone who's going to be ok with how your temperament is.....
The fact is a woman with values and self respect prefers a nice guy but the one who's arrogant, wants attention, prefers toxic relationship want bad boy. I always had problems in relationship because i was way too nice but one day i realised women don't want me because i am too nice so i lost the hope but one day i met a beautiful girl online, we started talking and i really liked her and i told her i am into her and she said yes. She's beautiful, talented, kind and peaceful, she is involved in my life completely. She cares about my family, takes news always, remembers every small thing about me like she's my mother, her character is pure, no male friends, not so many ex boyfriends and whatever i do to her as a man she's putting the same efforts to keep this relationship going in the direction. One day she told me that i am so nice to her that no man will ever treat her the way i do. It's been more then 1 and half year we are still together and planning our future together. Many times came when i felt she will go away because of my situations but she stayed and stayed, when i could not talk to my mom i talked to her and she listened to me very carefully and motivated me. The point is being nice is always good you just need right woman to appreciate that, bad boys works too but that relationship won't last long. Nice man with bad women - you'll get dumped Nice woman but bad man - one day she'll give up on that relationship Bad man with bad women - no hope but toxic relationship Nice woman and nice man - great future and blessings. Some people in comment down here saying i am lying, well to be honest i understand that knowledge and wisdom is not for a fool. My only intention was to let guys know the reality, i don't watch porn so obviously i don't live in world of fantasy..
A true man doesn't stop being a nice guy because his self respect is more important than a girl's attention towards him. In this world there are also women who love nice guy because not everyone is made my the same viewpoint.
Trauma is a big factor, I still very careful while talking to anyone,so that I might not offend that person, or I just avoid talking to anyone most of the time. Picking up phone is still like an impossible task for me, I mostly stick to messages.
Be nice. If she goes away, then let her go, she wasn't worth your time. Only be with people who deserve to be around you. And also, there are no nice guys. Stop seeing in Black and White.
I really needed this video when I was 14 years old. But I'll make sure I will teach these things when my child will be of 14 years of age. Thanks for the video !
Can anyone describe me with few habits ? 1. I'm the man with attitude 2. i hate girls even look at them 3. I'm feeling less person with no expectation 4. Love is a joke to me 5. i love to live alone specially apart from girls. Who would be the most expert to understand me
Bro your literally me. I cant be arsed to even talk to them now, just gave up. I thought some one will be different, but believe me they are all the same. They all want the same shit like, funny guy, great instagram, bike, body building and all. Im not a loser, i am a country level hackathon winner. Even this is not attractive to them.. They have always liked and will like garbage.
Bro...your words are amazing! This video is around 27 minutes, but believe me, I've watched it for 40 minutes 😂 No, seriously, just to hear some particular lines again. Hats off. 🙌🏻
The part about being the clown of teh group is interesting but I have a different take from Kshitij. One can successfully get one self to be treated better...for that you wil have to stop meeting that group for a short while (1 -2 months) so all the memories around you being a pushover are gone for you (and also for your friends). then reintroduce yourself into that group and it wil be easier to quell down any signs of the bullying starting again...if it still doesnt work , please take the advice that Kshitij gave and leave
I am a nice guy, and I have friends who are nice too. After a certain time and marriage, women say that, it was a mistake to not to marry you. Don't change yourself nice guys. Have the fun later.
I don't want to be that nice guy who has no self confidence, no self respect willing to sacrifice his money , his peace for any girl .. ♥️de na nice 🙂🙂🙂
bro i dont think you have realised that this is not just teaching how not to be a nice guy, its also kinda of a therapy knowledge you went so much in detail shows your clarity towards the topic wonderful stuff dude🔥
What I will say is In search of becoming a - Chad guy - good guy - bad guy - neutral guy Don't lose yourself you don't knew . While you are becoming you have to understand what it is costing from you .. Hope you get it...🤞
MR Bean Deka hai bhai, Kitna Kush rayta hai. Focus on yourself and life. Aaj kal kon sab apnay baray Mai e Soch Tay hai. Its about keeping myself first then others.
You know what, I am not gonna stop being nice because some girls used me. I will treat a girl as nice as I am. If she has not cheated me, I wont be rude to her. I can't punish someone for my pain who never cut me. I am not changing myself. Thanks😊
Don't fear of anything. Put your goal on priority, & run for it like a beast. And don't care about what others think. U don't need to take advise from others. Anyway... This man is telling truth very well. 👍
Dame i recently had an breakup and it makes much more sense now..😊 I'm of those one so-called nice guy..i guess soo .. trying to improve myself i will now invest my time and power in me rather than someone else
Bro I swear this is one of the best video of my life, my teenage would have been different if I'd come across this earlier, hatts off please keep doing honest work, it buys you loyalty which no money can buy. Thank you
Bro that's the main problem.. if i leave my friends group i would be more lonely because i'm too much introvert and shy person. Doesn't have a confidence to talk to new people and because of my introvert behavior and low voice pitch they bully me with spontaneous words and things
Brother take some time. Sit alone and think carefully. That you're really a introvert or you're just shy. People often misunderstood introvert and shyness. I myself thought that i am introvert but I was just shy, had low confidence. By reading your comment i assume that you want to talk to new people. But you can't. And if you want to make new friends , talk to new people. Then you are not introvert , mate. You're just shy. Like i was. In my opinion i think you should start by talking to atleast one new person daily. No matter one minute talk or long talk. Or just hi , hello. My friend you need to get rid of your shyness. I was also a shy person. And i misunderstood myself as a introvert. But now I can talk to any new person. I know what i have told you to do is not easy. It was not easy for me either. But if you do the same, you will definitely see the difference in yourself. I hope that helps you. Good luck Mate 👍 And the meaning of introvert :- a person who enjoys to spend time alone or with him/herself. Or A person who gains energy in other words a person who feels amazing by spending time with himself.
Man, just go out and start giving genuine compliments to people walking on streets. Kshitij has a separate video for it, you can scroll the channel but don’t just watch content, apply. Within a week you’ll feel great energy and high confidence inside. And you can join some networking groups or maybe a team sport, class, event if you wanna get over your previous friend circle which is hard to avoid. Let’s make happen man, awaiting your positive reply on this thread as soon as you start working on it! Cheers.
Man this is the same problem I am facing. Basically I am very shy and a very low voice. I have suffer from past traumas. And I have done some mistakes. All these things are holding me back. I want to grow,meet new people , make connections but my mindset and past experiences are stopping me.
Apart from the amazing explanation I must say I am really happy listing to an Indian coach (I usually listin to foreign coach) having a High energy Vibes 😁 , and cool explanation. Now come back to the topic I shall surely apply this teaching in life . Thank you sir 😊❤️
No need to be nice, no need to be badass. Be real what you are. Never change yourself for anyone until you're sure that, that person is permanent in your life
I don't think it's bad to be good. I have always been a nice guy since my childhood. And it's very interesting that, I didn't have any girlfriend till the age of 21. But finally a mature and beautiful lady chose me as her lifepartner forever. One thing I came to know about girls (thanks to her who told me the secret) is that, "Girls like 'the so-called alpha/sigma/bad guys' only as their boyfriends, but they don't want them to be their husbands or lifepartners, because those assholes are quite immature and impractical about their lives and it's very unsafe for the future of their relationship." Soooo, Be good... it's not so bad
The thing is here that girls always have that sense of excitement for those assholes always. Its just that they have tasted them and now they fear about their future so they settle with a comparatively balanced guy
I experienced that trauma bonding in college and made cool friends as I was academically focused and had friends in school who had the same mindset ....all those college friends had very influential parents and well connected to top people and had achieved whatever they had by their parents help ...I wanted to learn so called coolness by being with them...ultimately time came where as you mentioned I couldn't control and had to beat the shit out of one of them ..it was the best feeling in the world ...bc kisi ka baap mere age kuch nai bola
Many people are confusing being a people-pleaser with being nice. Being nice is never bad thing, if you are genuinely "nice", then it's a positive thing. "Genuinely nice" guys are naturally nice whose actions are not to impress someone. They are nice because it's natural for them to be nice. On the other hand, people-pleasers are afraid of rejection and afraid of being abandoned by their partner. So they pretend to be nice, they are putting themselves down and raising their girls on a pedestal. They don't love themselves, because they think their partner will not accept their genuine self.
when i was in 10th standard i spent 2000 rs on a gift for my girl.(she had both mercedes and audi in my tier 4 city). At that time my pocket money was 300rs(My parents Were Strict). And she Cheated me On day Of her birthday.
Just be real and don’t change yourself for a girl( a human with opposite sex) You can be comfortable in your own personality rather than being someone and the right person will find you for sure. This person is just gathering audience for selling his course because he knows very well these days boys are very insecure.
The main thing is Self respect barao...Dont be a slave and agree to do anything to take her on bed or OYO..Dont Grant her wishes...Be Selfish..or Diplomatic...Ye sab Bollywood ne sikhaya hai...toxic love
When I was in my school days I used to be a nice guy, I was just a clown for everyone, then before starting my college days I analysed the things and make sure the same thing isn't starting in my college time. Then things change people starting respect me, now things are going well 😊
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Always be a nice guy at any situation.
“Be nice for your goal,
Not for a H0le 🕳️”
-Master Oogway 😂
exactly, don't spoil your goal for a hole
Bro kyaa tum khud ise follow karte ho kya
@@Rohansingh18-208 I follow the moral of the quote, Don't distract and achieve the goal.
@@Rohansingh18-208 bhai chut ka chakkar maut se takkar
@@Rohansingh18-208 i also follow there is nothing hard in that
I'm going to spit some facts:
It is true that the society takes advantage of nice people, it's not that only woman takes advantage, men's also take advantage.
If a woman is mature and intelligent she will definitely chose a nice guy, (not the wannabe nice guy).
Only immature and fool people go after assholes and consider them as cool.
Thank you for reading this 🙏
Agree bro💗
This is real truth
Yeah there's nothing wrong with being nice but don't be a pushover and clingy
That's 💯 correct. Thats why I am single.
@@meghnabaruahbaruah7518 me too. Don't wanna get into relationship with who just craves attention. 😊
Simple Thing Bro :- Respect Yourself . Don't Be A Good Guy Or a Bad Guy.✅
Be a nice guy and let women hate. Dont chase them, chase your goals.🌻
Iska circle wahi logo ke sath hai jo attention seek karti hai😅
Bhai sexual feelings zinda hai ke mar gayi.
True ..☀️🌻
This is the type of content i paid my internet bill for. Haha! Great video Kshitij
Hii bro are you from Mumbai
@@ankitjadhav6641 kyun bhai krage hse
Need a wing to go with for daygame
Chtya ho fir bhai
The truth is boys (nice boy) are innocent
Aur ladkio ko ese ladko ka faida utha ne mai maza ata hai...... Its a fact and Truth
This video have no logic.. Khud ki aur apni jesi soch rakhne walo ka logic derah hai yeh
Ladkia nie soch te ak bar v ki innocent boy jisko soch reh hain na wese ladke hie jindegi bhar real sath dete hai
Ladkia bas temporary khusi ke poche bhagte hai.... Aur (Asshole) ladke ke piche jate hain......
Agar duniya mai survey kroge na toh 100% ladkia bolenge they regretting q ki unone fuclboys (Asshoe) le chakar mai ache bande ko chodiya....... Reality bro
Apni logic /apni soch apne pas rah brother
Summary:- Treat any girl as you treat others. Don't change yourself for girls.
Women's brain wired and design is not suitable nice guy. Don't be nice guy to women. See this video twice. He is talking truth.
but my real nature is nice guy !
@@coral8551 just treat everyone like he is your small brother or sister
@@Notsad69 noted !
@@coral8551 be nice to people those are nice to you. Don't be nice to toxic women and people in general those are taking advantage of you. Just ignore them. When you find a good girl to respect your true nature love her. Being nice to toxic people is not stupidity
Don't stop being a nice guy. Just know your self worth and when you're being used. If you aren't getting respected, ghost them.
Build yourself, achieve financial freedom, level up yourself. You'll find the woman of everyone's dreams.
Bhai ye phonecall reject ho gya tumhara hota hai kya btana jraa
Bro muje nahi lagta ladkio ko nice guy Pasand NAHI ye log content bane ke Liye kuchh bhi dikhaye Matlab ladkio ko puchho unhe to nice ladke hi chahiye wo NAHI Jo Kisi bhi ladki ke Sath frenk ho jaye ya ego leke ghume
@@hirenahir76200 sahi kaha bhai...ladki ho ya ladka dono ko nice partner hi chahiye hota hai 😂 ye kuch bhi bakwas karte hai
@@tejas6323 issiliye muje ye social media influencers Pasand NAHI ye Kuch bhi afwa ko Sach bana sakte hai which is scary
@@bluexwave5930 bro, mere whatsapp message ak ladki ignore kar rahi thi, and I was really depressed about it.. Later I realised, the problem was with me and I was being too needy.. Boom I changed myself, now she's really close to me
Actually I like people who have wisdom and are in control of their emotions but still share happiness and are playful but still impactful!
@Angaraj Boruah at least I have control on my emotions can't tell for other human beings.
well, most girls are intrigued by what you define as "asshole" as both of the parties crave for attention, validation, and they are in the same boat, ready to drown anytime.
Some people just want solitude and someone with values, loyalty, and genuine attraction which is and always will be maturity.
bhai pura video toh dekh le thik se
Samajh nahi aaya lekin, sun ke achha laga👍🤓😂
agree. They (Assholes and the girls who like them instead of nice guys) wont understand the value of relationship, honesty, loyalty. They end up Alone with mental illness.
Dont be a nice guy, instead be a Good Man. This is all I try explaining my people.
let go of the girls who hates nice guy; its their loss; not of the nice guy ones; they later on will regret their decisions in life; but sorry, im never stop being a nice guy; and that doesnt mean being innocent n dumb;
Man I'm too nice guy. My father is a nice guy who genuinely love my mother and my mother is very mature good girl. They all love each other and never fight. So I'm also not going to stop being nice guy but now with boundaries. I will be nice to only my Loved ones. Being nice to toxic people is idiotic. First search a good girl and then be nice to her. Enjoy with her. Dont behave like dick to her becoz I can't live happily after putting my family in sadness. All these immature women dont deserve a good husband they are like use and throw for bad boys. I wish body counts can be visible on head of women so we can easily identify good people.
@@SumitKumar-pv6wg yes, i know friend; but i love a girl ; who has been used by bad boys; she is from a very nice family background; despite knowing that i love her too much; maybe she now knows what true love is; but at one point i feel she will use me too; for her own benefit; to get ahead in her career; jst not able to decide; havent talked and met her; but i know some things abt her; she's a local tv actress; and you know how life of an actress is; what you suggest?
@@sarveshm6779 That's victim mentality. Some people loves to suffer. Dude you have only 1 life don't waste it on any hoe. Not everyone deserves kindness.
@@SumitKumar-pv6wg bro, she's not a hoe.dont call her that;her father is wll known businessman in her town;
Girls hate nice guys BUT MATURE WOMEN DON'T AS THEY WILL REPLACE YOU IF YOU IGNORE THEM
Brothers going on a date with someone doesn't make you socially strong.
Date is not a destination, it is the by-product of the respect that you have given to yourself over a period of time.
You are waking up early, achieving your daily tasks, dressing well, going out socializing, travelling etc.
These things increase the masculine energy which reflects beautifully when you are around women.
You feel more confident because you have practiced respecting yourself.
Women respect the guys who respect themselves.
so true man
Broh You just helped me change my thoughts about my life and relationship. It's time to break that nice guy mentality. My girlfriend just broke up with me this Evening. I never found the reason why she doesn't like me . Now I got the actual reason. Because iam too nice and everyone is taking advantage of that .Time for a change. No more Mr. Nice Guy. Time for a change. Thank you man 🖤
The truth is boys (nice boy) are innocent
Aur ladkio ko ese ladko ka faida utha ne mai maza ata hai...... Its a fact and Truth
This video have no logic.. Khud ki aur apni jesi soch rakhne walo ka logic derah hai yeh
Ladkia nie soch te ak bar v ki innocent boy jisko soch reh hain na wese ladke hie jindegi bhar real sath dete hai
Ladkia bas temporary khusi ke poche bhagte hai.... Aur (Asshole) ladke ke piche jate hain......
Agar duniya mai survey kroge na toh 100% ladkia bolenge they regretting q ki unone fuclboys (Asshoe) le chakar mai ache bande ko chodiya....... Reality bro
Apni logic /apni soch apne pas rah brother
@@MohitMaheswari It's complicated broh 🙂
GIRLS are the most complicated species on earth 🌎. Nobody ever understood what they really want actually. They are interested in fun things fun boys cause they don't think long term like boys . Tell me your opinion??
@@aksourov4632 yes
Us bruhhh
@@hopestar5287 hm 🖤
Guys there's nothing like Nice guys.
It's just about having self esteem and respecting others.
Give respect Take respect..!!
Simple
Giving is the Best Virtue but only for those who value it..
Now a days there are 1000's of people who are waiting to take advantage of people with low self esteem..!!
Don't be the one..
Yes, i think defining clear values and principal like health, career and family over other bulshit and fake social media thing will keep balance in life and will not cause regret later in in terms of health and career.
Be truthful to own self and others make life alot easy.
being nice is good unless one becomes a despo
💯💯
So true
Yes it works on immature women only who seek attention
Thanks God I'm in a committed relationship with someone who's childish like me❤️
We need more people like Kshitij out there .
Thanks man for speaking truth
Dude, You changed my thinking process completely in this 26 min videos, I can say with bet this is one of the finest content I watched. Thank you so much
Exactly 😊
always be a nice guy, always be a genuine one not a fake one
People should learn to say No to others... Because everytime we are agree with them, if it's not true and making you fool then disagree with them and your relationship get harm then it's okay, it is better than for made joke of your to them..
I think that's clear difference of a husband material and boyfriend material 😂😂
May be ❤
Be a nice guy but don't be too much that other people will take advantage of you. Help others, be kind, earn lots of money, have vacations, also have badass bike & cars but above all this make your parents proud, be with them for lifetime they are the only people who truly loves you. It doesn't matter if you get a girl or not, perhaps you can live your life alone.🙌
This video is not limited to get a girl, Dude you made the whole psychological trauma handling being a NICE GUY. Thank you very much!
Hearing everything happening to me from someone other. It's painful realising all this but enlightening too. Thank you brother ❤ for this counselling.
I m like you may be more than you
"Mistakes and experiences makes you a human better person"☺️
Life mein ek insan ekdum se mature ni banta,,,dheere dheere hi chinjen samjh aati hein...
Har insaan ke life toxic log aate hein and tough phase....yeh humpe depend krta h ki humein unhein kaise handle karte hein
Mistake nhi vo jrurte hoti h jo puri kre
Vhi premi
Na koi acha psand krte na koi bura.
Their are many mistakes of Indian Men in their approach to women and one of their famous ones is being nice to a women. Well this is what Kshitij is saying to not be nice for no reason. We Indian Men are learning the hard way ha ha.
Don't ever leave making videos , love your content , improving India's confidence
I will never change my self unless I feel it's bad for me.
The video's topic is true but it's also true that if you're truly NICE , then STAY NICE. Changing yourself for anyone even for women won't give you peace in life. you have to find someone who's going to be ok with how your temperament is.....
The fact is a woman with values and self respect prefers a nice guy but the one who's arrogant, wants attention, prefers toxic relationship want bad boy. I always had problems in relationship because i was way too nice but one day i realised women don't want me because i am too nice so i lost the hope but one day i met a beautiful girl online, we started talking and i really liked her and i told her i am into her and she said yes. She's beautiful, talented, kind and peaceful, she is involved in my life completely. She cares about my family, takes news always, remembers every small thing about me like she's my mother, her character is pure, no male friends, not so many ex boyfriends and whatever i do to her as a man she's putting the same efforts to keep this relationship going in the direction.
One day she told me that i am so nice to her that no man will ever treat her the way i do. It's been more then 1 and half year we are still together and planning our future together. Many times came when i felt she will go away because of my situations but she stayed and stayed, when i could not talk to my mom i talked to her and she listened to me very carefully and motivated me.
The point is being nice is always good you just need right woman to appreciate that, bad boys works too but that relationship won't last long.
Nice man with bad women - you'll get dumped
Nice woman but bad man - one day she'll give up on that relationship
Bad man with bad women - no hope but toxic relationship
Nice woman and nice man - great future and blessings.
Some people in comment down here saying i am lying, well to be honest i understand that knowledge and wisdom is not for a fool. My only intention was to let guys know the reality, i don't watch porn so obviously i don't live in world of fantasy..
Well said!
Hat's 📴
dude literally wrote a whole essay 😂
@@inf783 Bhai jhoot bol Raha hai je reality me aisa nhi hota 🤣🤣 ye sala fantasy story likh ke self satisfy kr rha hai
@@NeerajKumar-tr5jr you also have a fantasy like that guy?? bro wtf happened to you guys?? 😂
Being nice is always good for me but if you be tooo nice you will find problem 🌝
The big brother advice we always wanted but never had.
A true man doesn't stop being a nice guy because his self respect is more important than a girl's attention towards him. In this world there are also women who love nice guy because not everyone is made my the same viewpoint.
Value yourself ,value your time , value your money , value your hardwork this will only make you a man 🔥🔥🔥
Trauma is a big factor, I still very careful while talking to anyone,so that I might not offend that person, or I just avoid talking to anyone most of the time. Picking up phone is still like an impossible task for me, I mostly stick to messages.
Be nice. If she goes away, then let her go, she wasn't worth your time. Only be with people who deserve to be around you. And also, there are no nice guys. Stop seeing in Black and White.
I really needed this video when I was 14 years old. But I'll make sure I will teach these things when my child will be of 14 years of age. Thanks for the video !
Boundaries
Not simp
No special favours
Do not visualise someone as superior
Don't try to escape your now
Take risks and do not fear to tease
Can anyone describe me with few habits ?
1. I'm the man with attitude
2. i hate girls even look at them
3. I'm feeling less person with no expectation
4. Love is a joke to me
5. i love to live alone specially apart from girls.
Who would be the most expert to understand me
Incel energy
Bro your literally me. I cant be arsed to even talk to them now, just gave up. I thought some one will be different, but believe me they are all the same. They all want the same shit like, funny guy, great instagram, bike, body building and all. Im not a loser, i am a country level hackathon winner. Even this is not attractive to them..
They have always liked and will like garbage.
Fake account with anonymous name 🤣
@@rohitnayak9952 lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
your pronouns?? 😂😂😂😂
Bro...your words are amazing! This video is around 27 minutes, but believe me, I've watched it for 40 minutes 😂
No, seriously, just to hear some particular lines again. Hats off. 🙌🏻
this channel is so so underrated and this man is also so underrated....more Men should reach out to his content and his value
The part about being the clown of teh group is interesting but I have a different take from Kshitij. One can successfully get one self to be treated better...for that you wil have to stop meeting that group for a short while (1 -2 months) so all the memories around you being a pushover are gone for you (and also for your friends). then reintroduce yourself into that group and it wil be easier to quell down any signs of the bullying starting again...if it still doesnt work , please take the advice that Kshitij gave and leave
I am a nice guy, and I have friends who are nice too. After a certain time and marriage, women say that, it was a mistake to not to marry you. Don't change yourself nice guys. Have the fun later.
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I don't want to be that nice guy who has no self confidence, no self respect willing to sacrifice his money , his peace for any girl .. ♥️de na nice 🙂🙂🙂
If your income will more than her husband then she definitely going to tell that..not marrying you was a mistake..other than that no way 😀
Ha pehle c@ck ride baad me tum financial help ke.liye baithe hi ho chutiya wali baate mat karo
@@dhirendrarath8001 bhai yeh chutiya hai women baad mai nice guy paiso ke liye chahti hai pehle fun baad me settle
bro i dont think you have realised that this is not just teaching how not to be a nice guy, its also kinda of a therapy knowledge
you went so much in detail
shows your clarity towards the topic
wonderful stuff dude🔥
I am 10 months late watching this GEM, Thanks alot bro, You cleared my doubts, You cleared that thin layer becoming a Nice guy & a fool.
Don't leave your niceness..just ignore them who ignores you..make people run towards you.
What I will say is
In search of becoming a
- Chad guy
- good guy
- bad guy
- neutral guy
Don't lose yourself you don't knew
.
While you are becoming you have to understand what it is costing from you ..
Hope you get it...🤞
Your self esteem is more important than anything.
But Sad Reality is..
Aghar Iss Tarah Ka Attitude Rakhenge To Koi Log Zindagi Me Sath Nahi Rahenga, Aakele Reh Jaoge..🙂
MR Bean Deka hai bhai, Kitna Kush rayta hai. Focus on yourself and life. Aaj kal kon sab apnay baray Mai e Soch Tay hai. Its about keeping myself first then others.
@@malcomnoronha4828 bhai wo fictional character h
@@anil6191 Pata Hai bhai, all I am saying is put yourself first and then others.
Bhai already akele hi hae aur kitna akele honge
Mutual respect and care both matters...not any single thing
Moral ye hai ki matlabi ho jao or ye cheej sahi bhi hai .. i agree
Adding values to the men....
Keep going brother👍
even the sense of good or bad which is hammered in our heads since childhood plays a crucial role in this. I can totally relate.
You open my eyes
I gotta stand up for myself
bhai this video lasted an hour for me. everytime i relate the things u say. and then pause the video and remember of myself being this type of guy.
This video in two words-- self respect
You know what, I am not gonna stop being nice because some girls used me. I will treat a girl as nice as I am. If she has not cheated me, I wont be rude to her. I can't punish someone for my pain who never cut me. I am not changing myself. Thanks😊
@Kartikey Pandey yes man
I am a woman, and l love your reply
@@MB-ux4bb thank you dear😊❤️🙏
@Kartikey Pandey yes man I am not rude to anyone, not just women. 😊
@@MB-ux4bbthis trick of video works on immature women only who seek attention 😊
thank you for literally helping me strike out of my shit nature.. the fact of we was raised doing things for other in childhood make literal sense...
Yes It's completely trueee , at point I was completely nice guy , this makes them difficult to be with u . U need to be strong mentally 🧠
Love is a wierd drug which makes you strong and weak at the same time.
Don't fear of anything.
Put your goal on priority, & run for it like a beast. And don't care about what others think.
U don't need to take advise from others.
Anyway... This man is telling truth very well. 👍
Dame i recently had an breakup and it makes much more sense now..😊 I'm of those one so-called nice guy..i guess soo .. trying to improve myself i will now invest my time and power in me rather than someone else
Bro I swear this is one of the best video of my life, my teenage would have been different if I'd come across this earlier, hatts off please keep doing honest work, it buys you loyalty which no money can buy. Thank you
Now I'm gonna say all of this in front of my friends when they tease me because i don't have a girlfriend 😂
Awesome kshitij bhaya❤
Focus on your goal after you reach it. Then you get many holes.
Don't change your character for any girls.
Bro that's the main problem.. if i leave my friends group i would be more lonely because i'm too much introvert and shy person. Doesn't have a confidence to talk to new people and because of my introvert behavior and low voice pitch they bully me with spontaneous words and things
Brother take some time. Sit alone and think carefully. That you're really a introvert or you're just shy. People often misunderstood introvert and shyness.
I myself thought that i am introvert but I was just shy, had low confidence.
By reading your comment i assume that you want to talk to new people. But you can't.
And if you want to make new friends , talk to new people. Then you are not introvert , mate.
You're just shy. Like i was.
In my opinion i think you should start by talking to atleast one new person daily. No matter one minute talk or long talk. Or just hi , hello.
My friend you need to get rid of your shyness.
I was also a shy person. And i misunderstood myself as a introvert. But now I can talk to any new person. I know what i have told you to do is not easy. It was not easy for me either. But if you do the same, you will definitely see the difference in yourself.
I hope that helps you. Good luck Mate 👍
And the meaning of introvert :- a person who enjoys to spend time alone or with him/herself.
Or A person who gains energy in other words a person who feels amazing by spending time with himself.
Hii bro
Man, just go out and start giving genuine compliments to people walking on streets. Kshitij has a separate video for it, you can scroll the channel but don’t just watch content, apply. Within a week you’ll feel great energy and high confidence inside. And you can join some networking groups or maybe a team sport, class, event if you wanna get over your previous friend circle which is hard to avoid. Let’s make happen man, awaiting your positive reply on this thread as soon as you start working on it! Cheers.
Man this is the same problem I am facing.
Basically I am very shy and a very low voice.
I have suffer from past traumas.
And I have done some mistakes.
All these things are holding me back.
I want to grow,meet new people , make connections but my mindset and past experiences are stopping me.
Anyone in Mumbai wants to go out for daygame sometime???
This video has almost everything a man needs .. Great Content
Apart from the amazing explanation I must say I am really happy listing to an Indian coach (I usually listin to foreign coach) having a High energy Vibes 😁 , and cool explanation. Now come back to the topic I shall surely apply this teaching in life . Thank you sir 😊❤️
No need to be nice, no need to be badass.
Be real what you are. Never change yourself for anyone until you're sure that, that person is permanent in your life
This man is doing a lot for us hats off bruh
I don't think it's bad to be good. I have always been a nice guy since my childhood. And it's very interesting that, I didn't have any girlfriend till the age of 21. But finally a mature and beautiful lady chose me as her lifepartner forever. One thing I came to know about girls (thanks to her who told me the secret) is that, "Girls like 'the so-called alpha/sigma/bad guys' only as their boyfriends, but they don't want them to be their husbands or lifepartners, because those assholes are quite immature and impractical about their lives and it's very unsafe for the future of their relationship."
Soooo, Be good... it's not so bad
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The thing is here that girls always have that sense of excitement for those assholes always. Its just that they have tasted them and now they fear about their future so they settle with a comparatively balanced guy
@Fek Smile YT bhai yeh bhi chutiya hai women ne ise paiso ke liye chuna kyuki usne badboys ke sath fun kar liya uska man bhar gaya ab settle hona hai
I experienced that trauma bonding in college and made cool friends as I was academically focused and had friends in school who had the same mindset ....all those college friends had very influential parents and well connected to top people and had achieved whatever they had by their parents help ...I wanted to learn so called coolness by being with them...ultimately time came where as you mentioned I couldn't control and had to beat the shit out of one of them ..it was the best feeling in the world ...bc kisi ka baap mere age kuch nai bola
Bro, Any tip for me to attract girl
Thats the power of say no alomost every time to a girl and see what happens.
Friends ki koi jarurat rehti hi nahi hai jindagi mein
You r right bhai... Ye nice guy wala mere sath ho chuka hai... She kept on taking me as granted
There should be a mix version
Be 55%nice
Rest 45% that type
And achieve anything anyone
Many people are confusing being a people-pleaser with being nice. Being nice is never bad thing, if you are genuinely "nice", then it's a positive thing. "Genuinely nice" guys are naturally nice whose actions are not to impress someone. They are nice because it's natural for them to be nice.
On the other hand, people-pleasers are afraid of rejection and afraid of being abandoned by their partner. So they pretend to be nice, they are putting themselves down and raising their girls on a pedestal. They don't love themselves, because they think their partner will not accept their genuine self.
Bro 100% relatable content... Thanks bhai 🫂
I can totally relate to this and realised how much self esteem matters for oneself. 🙏✌
Worth my time watching this video!! Keep making such type of content broo ❤️ wish you good luck 🤞
अंत तक अच्छे बने रहना , अच्छा ही होता है..और मै ऐसा ही रहूँगा....
I am a nice guy and no matter womens likes me or not I will be a nice guy.😅
That's the first video which I have ever seen on RUclips, It really can change our lifestyle and thinking process .
I just broke up with her....due to being in my boundaries...
I will not share this with anyone. Because I don't want my friend to become a strong man from a nice guy 🙂
when i was in 10th standard i spent 2000 rs on a gift for my girl.(she had both mercedes and audi in my tier 4 city).
At that time my pocket money was 300rs(My parents Were Strict).
And she Cheated me On day Of her birthday.
He is reading from the book "No more Mr.Nice guy"...
Buddy...... 100% genuine content
I just realised what quality content is😮
women love nice guys when it comes to marriage.
Not as a boyfriend
This guy is so UNDERRATED!!!
Just be real and don’t change yourself for a girl( a human with opposite sex)
You can be comfortable in your own personality rather than being someone and the right person will find you for sure.
This person is just gathering audience for selling his course because he knows very well these days boys are very insecure.
I do help others but not beyond my habitable zone everyone is equal for me
bro, I think, be a "psudo nice guy"
because "act like a fool and think like a brillent"
ye concept muze achha lagta hai !!!!!!!
Beautiful video.Superlative.Never help beautiful girls instead help beggars,that will be fruitful.
The main thing is Self respect barao...Dont be a slave and agree to do anything to take her on bed or OYO..Dont Grant her wishes...Be Selfish..or Diplomatic...Ye sab Bollywood ne sikhaya hai...toxic love
In short, Strong alone...🔥💪🏻
What a great video i have watched today. Mad respect for you brother 🔥
Irrespective of gender
Give what you are getting
Simple.....
No need to Change
This is awsome this video helped me ov from my ex after 3 years of breakup thank you so much khitij sir you're my inspiration ❤️🔥
When I was in my school days I used to be a nice guy, I was just a clown for everyone, then before starting my college days I analysed the things and make sure the same thing isn't starting in my college time. Then things change people starting respect me, now things are going well 😊
Best explaination! TYSM for opening my eyes
Be Strong and real man💪