A thousand times yes. It’s impossible to miss when a guy likes you, and if he’s giving mixed signals then he simply doesn’t like you enough to even consider him.
She told no lies. I met the one at 20.. literally 10 days after my 20th birthday. I met him and wasn't interested, and he showed no interest, but we were polite because ppl were trying to hook us up, lol. Over 18 years later, he still shows his love every single damn day. He's the only person who never left my side through the worst sickness ever, the deepest depressions, and times I just wanted to be alone. I met him at a time when I didn't want to love nor believe in it. He is my husband today and yes I am an old 38 year old! Ladies, a man will ALWAYS show if he really likes you. No games. That never changes.
Love this, but girl you aren't old ❤ You're probably not even at 50% of your life right now. I really hate how women are told they are old as soon as they enter their 30's
Facts. All of these landed for me and I've been in my longest relationship with a wonderful man for 7 + years and he still shows me how much he loves me as I am.
Best advice I’ve heard, as someone who is about to turn 30 and finally found someone who doesn’t make me feel like I need to beg for him to love me. Listen to her girlies 💜
I liked him 6 months… 6 full months and put effort into all of our conversations, even just our overall friendship. It was always me starting our chats and me checking in on him- but now? He’s with my ex best friend and he “misses his friend” AKA ME, guys Sahar is being so fr like we cannot stress this enough guys that like you will LIKE YOU and make SURE yall know!
I agree with all of these except the “he should be more into you than you’re into him” one. That might work in the beginning but once you actually establish a relationship it’s much healthier and satisfying for you if both people are equally invested.
GIRLS!!!! Also know, that when your dating someone, your not dating who they “could” be, your dating who they are currently. It’s not your job to change a man, and no one can for that matter, cause he’s gotta change for himself. Hope this helps ❤
i feel like i really needed this 😭😭 I love when you make this type of videos “girl talk” I absolutely love them so much, I always loved girl talk and i love it when ppl be REALLY transparent and don’t make it feel like your question is too much, so thank you thank you sooooo much ❤️❤️
As a guy ye this is pretty accurate. I’ve not met many guys who are into subtle flirting, they’ll either ask you out or use you depending on how interested they are. It’s not great
Yes i learned the hard way, one day we where on a date and and next day he had a new girlfriend on instagram like WHAT! he blocked me cause she was jealous of me lol so he could keep me in secret also. But i think he already dumped her too. But my heart was broken for almost a year. Im on my healing journey ❤
i just got out of my first relationship (i’m 14) he pressured me into doing so much stuff i didn’t wanna do and now that i finally ended things with him he’s spreading rumors about me at school and even to my teachers!! i knew he used to be a player but i thought he changed lol. i learned the hard way for sure
I was about to say: I made all the first moves in our relationship. I said I like you first, I told him I was ready for a relationship first, and I said I love you first. HOWEVER, there’s a difference between initiating in your relationship vs chasing a man that doesn’t give back. Don’t be afraid to initiate if the guy you’re after seems a little shy or scared to express those feelings. I knew from day 1 he liked me but was just too nervous to say so. Since then, I’ve been with a bf who genuinely gives me the world 🩷 I’m all for a girl initiating bc a lot of guys get pressured to do so unnecessarily, but make sure you’re giving that to someone who’s gonna give that energy right back when you throw it at them ;)
Nah the man having to love you more is so wrong. Who tf wants to be with someone who doesn’t love them the same way they love you. It’s essentially saying women should keep their options open and men should be fully committed because they won’t find anyone else
Yea one of my friend needs to hear the first one cause she’s constantly going through hot and cold phases with him and I’m just so done with her questioning every single thing everytime 😭😭
This makes me feel so much better. The guy I'm with left his girlfriend because his mom didn't like her at all, but she lowk loves me so I feel a little more confident now😭
WHEN BOYS GIVE U *MIXED SIGNALS IT COULD MEAN THEY LIKE U!!* it’s not 100% that the only way they show they like u is in a way you’ll understand, and although mixed signals rarely means they like u, it’s very possible it does mean they do!
Here’s the thing tho when ppl say id know if he likes me. Im basically in love with him but i do everything in my power to make sure he doesn’t know so how can i make sure it’s not the same thing. Im prolly just delusional
As a guy who’s been played several times, if he shows you that he’s interested in you and that he cares then please reciprocate that or at least don’t ghost him :)
dude he has told me so many times he likes me and so many people tell me all the time that he likes me but I have so much trauma so all the time I always keep thinking "oh what if he doesn't like me" 😭😭
I’m 99% sure the guy I’ve liked for 3 years likes me back, and the only reason I’m not sure is because my brain just can’t accept it😭 But idk what to do because I feel like I definitely need some self improvement before I ever even think about getting into a relationship because I don’t think I’m the best version of myself rn.
Only one thing i dont agree with is having a man like you more. Thats some nonsense bull game. If you both are mature enough neither party is going be moving in that type of motive or even think in that sense. Just both of you be yourself, no games and it will grow if its meant to be.
Girl I have liked this guy for like a long time, I mean like yeeears. I made myself known a couple years ago and he rejected me for my toxic ex best friend, I told him I was still interested this year. Got rejected again. I feel God always pulling me back to him and telling me to reach out, but it’s never happening. It’s really difficult on my mental health. He’s seriously a nice guy! But only likes me as a friend for now
lol thank you for the video😭😭 I am lesbian but thank you anyway, cause I'll know if a guy likes me so I can just subtly let him know I'm a lesbian without getting him to think that I know. Like a just in case type of thing
so glad I saw this rn cause storytime 🛑 in one of my classes, this guy (I’ll reveal his age at 2 replies) that I sit across from that I met earlier in the year, I’m about 90% sure that he likes me and I’ll tell you why ⬇️ he looks at me A LOT AND SMILES, last week when I walked into class he was already sitting down and he looks up at me and lowkey looks like he wants to ask me something but then he let out a quiet sigh then looks down..then a couple weeks before that the teacher told him to help me with an assignment, AND BRO PULLED OUT HIS CHAIR AND SAT LESS THAN 6 INCHES FROM ME, also I feel like I should note the fact that there were multiple open seats and guess where he chose to sit…right across from me 😭
honestly it depends on the guy. You can’t say the guy has to like her more, he just has to treat her right and in a good manner. They should have the same amount of love for each other cause that’s the only thing that’s gonna keep them together
I‘m always wondering if they like me or not, because they say they don‘t but they act like they do. 😂🤷🏻♀️ Like, I told my crush I was interested in him and he rejected me. I then just tried to get rid of my feelings while still being friendly with him but every time he saw me with my male best friend he would act like he was jealous and I just thought, „Bro, why the hell are you jealous?! I thought you didn’t want me!“. That guy confused the shit out of me. 😂🙈
My ex has mixed feelings about me and I like him a whole lot but I don’t know what to do bc when I asked if he wanted to date he said “not rn” and I really really miss him and I don’t know what I’d without him.
Im sorry if someone takes this the wrong way but if your in middle school these do not apply most of the time guys are more nervous and dont show crushes very well they also change mature and if they like you more or in a different way they will leave or break up with you differently
@ depending on the person they might show crushing a bit better but still might not do all these things so just go with you gut and do whatever you think
this was like perfect timing this one guy keeps giving me mixed signals and it’s been difficult to move on but this rlly helped :)
Yeahh, a guy who cant make up his mind about u to be completely invested and committed is someone u dont wanna waste your time on, hes not worth it💅
You deserve someone who’s down bad for you and doesn’t confuse you!! ❤
Same, glad I’ve been focusing on myself more
If he likes he would. Move on.
I'm sending love and hugs ❤
Prince Charming wouldn’t give u mixed signals and you deserve Prince Charming
AND. girlies, they don't change. Don't get caught up with the fake version in your head, when the real one isn't him
i needed this more than ever haha 😭😭 Thank you
@amazinghd_sister8017 that makes me so happy! I'm like a hopeless romantic, so I wrote this on my arm heh
@@CatsArtandChaos haha same 😭😭
i’m in high school and i have my first ever crush and it’s driving me crazy. thanks for bringing back down to earth lol ❤
Aww cute you should cherish these feelings lol you’ll miss them when you’re older 😂
Same! I wish I watched this video 4 weeks ago before I asked him out and he said no, because he was crushing on one of my friends 😭
@livswift13 omg i hope you didn’t take it to heart 😭💔
@@bunny_koo ❤️ Don't worry, i'm over him now (i hope)
@@livswift13It's not personal babe, don't take it to your heart
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A thousand times yes. It’s impossible to miss when a guy likes you, and if he’s giving mixed signals then he simply doesn’t like you enough to even consider him.
She told no lies. I met the one at 20.. literally 10 days after my 20th birthday. I met him and wasn't interested, and he showed no interest, but we were polite because ppl were trying to hook us up, lol. Over 18 years later, he still shows his love every single damn day. He's the only person who never left my side through the worst sickness ever, the deepest depressions, and times I just wanted to be alone. I met him at a time when I didn't want to love nor believe in it. He is my husband today and yes I am an old 38 year old!
Ladies, a man will ALWAYS show if he really likes you. No games. That never changes.
Love this, but girl you aren't old ❤ You're probably not even at 50% of your life right now. I really hate how women are told they are old as soon as they enter their 30's
38 is not old 😭 if it helps, my grandma is 88, you got a long way to go ❤
@kittyycatloverr Thank you❤️! I hate it too. It's like once you're past 25, the world can treat you very differently at times.
@@jenplayzofficial you're so sweet❤️!
@@missashley_xo awww, you to 💕
Facts. All of these landed for me and I've been in my longest relationship with a wonderful man for 7 + years and he still shows me how much he loves me as I am.
Best advice I’ve heard, as someone who is about to turn 30 and finally found someone who doesn’t make me feel like I need to beg for him to love me. Listen to her girlies 💜
I LOVE YOUR BP SHIRT SMMM 😍😍😍😍
Thank you!!!! I literally needed thissss
SPILL! Also Blackpink shirt ayyye 🖤🩷
OMGGGG SHE’S GOT A BLACKPINK SHIRT!!!!❤❤
I liked him 6 months… 6 full months and put effort into all of our conversations, even just our overall friendship. It was always me starting our chats and me checking in on him- but now? He’s with my ex best friend and he “misses his friend” AKA ME, guys Sahar is being so fr like we cannot stress this enough guys that like you will LIKE YOU and make SURE yall know!
I agree with all of these except the “he should be more into you than you’re into him” one. That might work in the beginning but once you actually establish a relationship it’s much healthier and satisfying for you if both people are equally invested.
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Out of context but love the shirt!!!You look so pretty
THE SHIRTTTTT PERIODTTT LOVE ITTT
love the blackpink shirt queen
GIRLS!!!! Also know, that when your dating someone, your not dating who they “could” be, your dating who they are currently. It’s not your job to change a man, and no one can for that matter, cause he’s gotta change for himself. Hope this helps ❤
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OMG TYSM FOR HEARTING🙈🙈🙈
i feel like i really needed this 😭😭 I love when you make this type of videos “girl talk” I absolutely love them so much, I always loved girl talk and i love it when ppl be REALLY transparent and don’t make it feel like your question is too much, so thank you thank you sooooo much ❤️❤️
Just came out of a relationship and am now DESPERATE for intimacy. Thank you for reminding me to stay strong and love myself
I totally agree with EVERYTHING. Hundred percent.
As a guy ye this is pretty accurate. I’ve not met many guys who are into subtle flirting, they’ll either ask you out or use you depending on how interested they are. It’s not great
The second one is so true😭. I just feel bad for the next girl. Hopefully she’ll see the warning signs and not ignore them like I did.
Yes i learned the hard way, one day we where on a date and and next day he had a new girlfriend on instagram like WHAT! he blocked me cause she was jealous of me lol so he could keep me in secret also. But i think he already dumped her too. But my heart was broken for almost a year.
Im on my healing journey ❤
Facts! The Truth! Amen❤
The t-shirt ayeeee...BLACKPINK represent🖤🩷✨️🤩🔥
i just got out of my first relationship (i’m 14) he pressured me into doing so much stuff i didn’t wanna do and now that i finally ended things with him he’s spreading rumors about me at school and even to my teachers!! i knew he used to be a player but i thought he changed lol. i learned the hard way for sure
Thank you!! Needed this ❤❤
me, married to the man i chased and now likes me more👀
BUT typically, i agree. I just got lucky 🤷🏼♀️
Blackpink mentioned!!!!
Yessss girl preach!!!
I’m so grateful that I stopped having crushes 😻🩷 yall can never catch me lacking 🤭‼️
Sahar this is perfect timing you’re such a big sis to me thanks girl!!!
girl this was sooo real and also what hilighter is that it’s so gorgeous
this video was on our fyp for a reason 😭🙏
thank u for thr advice like i feel delusional sometimes and off topic but u could be a model ur so pretty and i luv ur eyes 💗
I was about to say: I made all the first moves in our relationship. I said I like you first, I told him I was ready for a relationship first, and I said I love you first. HOWEVER, there’s a difference between initiating in your relationship vs chasing a man that doesn’t give back.
Don’t be afraid to initiate if the guy you’re after seems a little shy or scared to express those feelings. I knew from day 1 he liked me but was just too nervous to say so. Since then, I’ve been with a bf who genuinely gives me the world 🩷
I’m all for a girl initiating bc a lot of guys get pressured to do so unnecessarily, but make sure you’re giving that to someone who’s gonna give that energy right back when you throw it at them ;)
Thanks for all of that life changing information .
But what is your highlighter that you uses for your chicks that’s soooo beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
You put these words so well, thank you for this. I think I've been a bit dululu, this video definitely straightened that up
It’s all true , you’re very wise😊
Nah the man having to love you more is so wrong. Who tf wants to be with someone who doesn’t love them the same way they love you. It’s essentially saying women should keep their options open and men should be fully committed because they won’t find anyone else
Truth hurts. Thanks for this reminder.
Queen 👑 You are 100% right.
Yea one of my friend needs to hear the first one cause she’s constantly going through hot and cold phases with him and I’m just so done with her questioning every single thing everytime 😭😭
Sahar ur eyes are popping💖
This makes me feel so much better. The guy I'm with left his girlfriend because his mom didn't like her at all, but she lowk loves me so I feel a little more confident now😭
All of this advice is 💯
Word girl! This are all great advice ❤️
Amazing advice. Learned all of this the hard way ❤
I needed the first one. I'm gonna watch this everyday.
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WHEN BOYS GIVE U *MIXED SIGNALS IT COULD MEAN THEY LIKE U!!* it’s not 100% that the only way they show they like u is in a way you’ll understand, and although mixed signals rarely means they like u, it’s very possible it does mean they do!
Soo true and i had to learn it in hard way.
Hehe :)
Plain and simple! Straight to the point.👏🏼
thank you bro this is exactly what i needed to hear rn
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Needed to hear this ❤
I love your shirttttt
Here’s the thing tho when ppl say id know if he likes me. Im basically in love with him but i do everything in my power to make sure he doesn’t know so how can i make sure it’s not the same thing. Im prolly just delusional
Need more of these videos xx
Im 27 and just out of a divorce. Listen to her! Its all true and i wish i knew before❤
Her words are so true bruh
I wouldn’t follow this advice. “He has to like you more? No chasing?” Not how men see it.
i never have these problems cuz im a ✨lesbian✨
what powder and highlighter do you useee
Gang I confessed to my crush like 3 days ago we are together now but we have been talking less and less and like what should I do my gang
Either tell him you wanna talk more or ask why yall are talking less. He might only be with you bc you made the first move and it was easy for him
@ OK THANK YOU SO MUCH ILL TRY TALKING ABOUT IT TO HIM
As a guy who’s been played several times, if he shows you that he’s interested in you and that he cares then please reciprocate that or at least don’t ghost him :)
What do you mean by the dude you’re dating has to like you more than you like him? Shouldn’t you just shoot for liking each other equally?
Where do you usually get all your shirts from? Just curious. I love them
dude he has told me so many times he likes me and so many people tell me all the time that he likes me but I have so much trauma so all the time I always keep thinking "oh what if he doesn't like me" 😭😭
Im glad I’m into girls, but I used to be so hard to tell the difference if a guy was being nice or flirty.
She is so right
I’m 99% sure the guy I’ve liked for 3 years likes me back, and the only reason I’m not sure is because my brain just can’t accept it😭
But idk what to do because I feel like I definitely need some self improvement before I ever even think about getting into a relationship because I don’t think I’m the best version of myself rn.
OMG IK YOU WERE AN ARMY BUT BLINK TOO?? AHH ILY🩷💜
Facts!
Only one thing i dont agree with is having a man like you more. Thats some nonsense bull game. If you both are mature enough neither party is going be moving in that type of motive or even think in that sense. Just both of you be yourself, no games and it will grow if its meant to be.
Girl I have liked this guy for like a long time, I mean like yeeears. I made myself known a couple years ago and he rejected me for my toxic ex best friend, I told him I was still interested this year. Got rejected again. I feel God always pulling me back to him and telling me to reach out, but it’s never happening. It’s really difficult on my mental health. He’s seriously a nice guy! But only likes me as a friend for now
1st 10 seconds with no makeup
is better than the end with you having it on
lol thank you for the video😭😭 I am lesbian but thank you anyway, cause I'll know if a guy likes me so I can just subtly let him know I'm a lesbian without getting him to think that I know. Like a just in case type of thing
i learned it the hard way and i’m js seeing this now it’s all making sense help 😭
so glad I saw this rn cause storytime 🛑
in one of my classes, this guy (I’ll reveal his age at 2 replies) that I sit across from that I met earlier in the year, I’m about 90% sure that he likes me and I’ll tell you why ⬇️
he looks at me A LOT AND SMILES, last week when I walked into class he was already sitting down and he looks up at me and lowkey looks like he wants to ask me something but then he let out a quiet sigh then looks down..then a couple weeks before that the teacher told him to help me with an assignment, AND BRO PULLED OUT HIS CHAIR AND SAT LESS THAN 6 INCHES FROM ME, also I feel like I should note the fact that there were multiple open seats and guess where he chose to sit…right across from me 😭
honestly it depends on the guy. You can’t say the guy has to like her more, he just has to treat her right and in a good manner. They should have the same amount of love for each other cause that’s the only thing that’s gonna keep them together
IDK how I found this as a straight man, but a word of advice for y'all: don't overcomplicate men. We don't think about much.
Perfect time !!
Juli baker needs to see this ifykyk
The shirt😍😍😍😍
What highlighter do u use?😊
First! Love ur vids!!
Your second
@@Raquelle4life12No I’m not
@@MichaelaSkaarup yes, you are
@@MichaelaSkaarup filter comments newest first and scroll to the bottom
@ All I know, is that there was no comments, 1 like, so I commented. It’s not that deep please chill
There were boys that did genuinely like me and I had no clue.
Everything she said is true. Listen to her
FACTS!!!!!!
I‘m always wondering if they like me or not, because they say they don‘t but they act like they do. 😂🤷🏻♀️
Like, I told my crush I was interested in him and he rejected me.
I then just tried to get rid of my feelings while still being friendly with him but every time he saw me with my male best friend he would act like he was jealous and I just thought, „Bro, why the hell are you jealous?! I thought you didn’t want me!“.
That guy confused the shit out of me. 😂🙈
very interesting😘😍💞❤❤
My ex has mixed feelings about me and I like him a whole lot but I don’t know what to do bc when I asked if he wanted to date he said “not rn” and I really really miss him and I don’t know what I’d without him.
I'm a dude and I agree ❤
Thank you so much I love you
Im sorry if someone takes this the wrong way but if your in middle school these do not apply most of the time guys are more nervous and dont show crushes very well they also change mature and if they like you more or in a different way they will leave or break up with you differently
What about highschool like sophomore??
@ depending on the person they might show crushing a bit better but still might not do all these things so just go with you gut and do whatever you think
@@naruparty17he might leave his ex different ways and you might not know if a guy likes you
If he likes you you’ll know if he doesn’t you’ll be confused- sahar