This SZA Situation is Disgusting
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- tiktoker posts a video about how she “lives knowing that one of the biggest music artist of the decade personal hate dmed her for an hour” when it was NOT like that at all. accountability isn’t all of a sudden voided for you just because you were 18 at the time! not cool man.
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As a 13 year old girl, the "I was 18 at the time" excuse is getting really old☠
as an 18 almost 19 year old, yes. you should know right from wrong at this point.
righttt
Yeah, that's never excuse people are considered legal adults at 18 & shouldn't say negative stuff like that online, regardless of you being a celebrity your still a person at the end of the day like all of us an we all still have feeling. I don't understand why people use this excuse or logic its so immature.
EXACTLY even me, at 14, understands that your actions have consequences
I’m 29 and I have so many regrets cause my dumb ass has said dumb stuff on the internet in my teens and as a young adult.
being famous ≠ not having feelings.
So true. Celebrities aren’t just mindless entertainment robots, they have feelings too!!
@@BlueBanana. yess!!
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I definitely try to acknowledge this when firing at all systems go
Sometimes but not always
As an 18 year old, being 18 isn’t an excuse for literally anything😭
Exactly( coming from a 19 year old)
Right. (Literally a newborn)
This is why I'm gonna end it all before 15, fuck growing up, I'm gonna be a little girl forever 💘
exactly (coming from a 16 year old)
@@creepycrybabygirl girl thats so lame dont say shit like that
“you’re literally 15 years older than me” GIRL💀 age does not absolve you of consequences
@@creepycrybabygirl 👁️ 👄 👁️
Yeah, but at the same time I get it. Sure, the 18 y/o was immature, but imagine being in your 30’s and pestering a kid who just recreated a popular meme. Wack behavior
@ak-ht2gw you're part of the problem dude 💀💀💀 go rewatch the video
@@MiruDraws_ Dude, I don’t condone the kid’s actions or behavior, I just don’t get why they were targeted specifically in the beginning when they’re just a fan among many others recreating a popular meme. SZA, a 34 year old millionaire, completely blew it out of proportion and the girl profited off of the exposure to make up a whole drama. Imagine Drake doing this to random 14 year olds calling him fruity, just learn to take a joke man 😭
@ak-ht2gw Yea no..I'm just gonna direct you to my previous comment before 🧍♀️
As an 18 Y.O gen z, I'm disappointed in how some people are acting. It's beyond me how we can't just treat each other with respect.
Fr, I’m a 13yo gen z (I think) and I’m so ashamed to be a part of this generation.
As a fellow 18yo gen z, it’s embarrassing that some of the other members of my generation behave this way.
Actually it’s always been like this people have always been shitheads for no reason if you look in history humans are complete dicks and sadly always have been… *speaking of history* it can repeat itself and almost ALWAYS does because we as a society are too lazy to stand up and decide to be half decent…much for being better than the last generations huh?
(Also the first part might get confusing so I’m just gonna say this isn’t me trying to justify this behavior I’m just stating how sad it is that it’s been accepted for so long and is simply a norm and if you call it out you get labeled as a “sensitive liberal snowflake!1!1😤🤬‼️”)
I'm 17 years old and a gen z of course and I find it extremely hard to have a human to human connection. I honestly wonder why most teens my age won't get along with me socially but now I understand it's because of boundaries they have drawn due to this lack of human empathy and emotion I'm kind of just expected to not have an opinion and to not care when other leave me. It sucks and I feel like this kind of thing needs to be talked about. I'm just ashamed by being part of this generation.
@@Sally_the_GG I feel you. And so many people care about their reputation and what they don't have rather than focus on what they DO have and forming meaningful connections.
This is horrible. Celebrities are just humans like us, they have feelings, they have anxiety, they have emotions, They are not Products, and they have stress. I feel awful that Sza had to go through this, the girl who posted about it doesn't care that she hurt Sza. Sza did not sign up for this she didn't sign up for anything she makes music you all listen to it, she has concerts, and yall go to it please open your eyes when you bully someone regardless of their Public Status. Own up to your actions
More like fears than anxiety. Anxiety is a real disorder. Which you need to remember is something that not everyone has.
(Also I'm not saying that celebs/people with big followings can't/don't have anxiety lol)
@@dabi-is-online23 Anxiety isn't just a disorder and people can feel anxious. It becomes a disorder when that anxious feeling begins to hinder your daily life.
dude cmon, anxiety isn’t a rare Pokémon only a select few have that makes them different and unique. everyone has had and will have anxiety. like the other comment said, anxiety becomes a disorder when it starts to negatively affect people’s everyday lives, like, badly.
Just expect they have more control over us and more privileges so naturally they shouldn’t cry when being called names
Unfortunately, some people think that celebrities shouldn't have any feelings at all or that they shouldn't have any privacy at all and should be followed by paparazzi 24/7.
Can’t stand that people will willingly hurt others feelings and say it’s a joke.it’s dehumanizing and sickening.she came to her nicely and addressed that it hurt her but she decided to be immature and make a TikTok treating her as if she doesn’t have feelings.
Agreed and even worse are the people who egg them on like you'll have a whole group of people tearing down one person without considering at all the fact that the other person is a human being.
@@nooneneedstoknowmyname exactly!
Exactly, even young children are doing this.. this generation has the worst way to spread hate because of the internet. What’s even worse is they can hide.
@@Nunyabusinesssa ya it’s not ok
But why still hate on someone that has no hatred but just joking?
I’m 15 and I would never behave like this💀 at this point I’m not even surprised at how ppl can be so disgusting
EXACTLY
Ik 💀 random but ur pfp is amazing
@@sanadelrey999 stan skz for happiness in life‼️‼️
ur pfp is so real
exactly, Im 16 and I have more maturity than that horrible girl in my opinion. This is why I hate this generation.
While I agree that she shouldn’t have put too much effort in this, the way this young girl is dismissive is actually scary.
SZA didn’t came to her as a star but as a human being with emotions and feelings. Just because you didn’t think she’ll see it doesn’t mean it’s okey to do it. It’s literally bullying. And to the people saying that she signed up for it, shut up. You can make your point come across without being a nasty piece of sh!t and being condescending.
@@noni7442 insulting her is not a good look, just because she did something rude doesn't mean she needs to be in turn bullied.
@@noni7442still not great to use the beauty standard and what eyebrow shape fits your face shape (wtf?? what does that even mean??) to argue against someone like this. You can criticise her with so many VALID and objectively true points, but using what is essentially bullying based on appearance and choice in makeup is just stepping down to her level.
@@noni7442 before someone says "Im not reading all of that"
it says a lot more about you than it does me that you can't take a minute to read two simple paragraphs.
You say that but makeup doesn't have rules lmao? She spent her money so she does her makeup how she wants. You talk about her being rude while sinking to her level. However this is my last reply because i know better than to feed angry people like you. You can claim that you arent but if you weren't, you wouldn't have even felt the need to roast her makeup.
Because to be honest i do agree that it looks funny, but I also kept my opinion to myself because it didn't matter to the topic at hand. You're no better than her in this regard. You'll get mad at someone for being rude and lose your morals to turn into the very person you were mad at.
Dude makeup is self expression, don’t make fun of people for it pls. By saying that, you’re just proving that our generation will use anonymity to hide and shame others. Also saying you won’t read a short paragraph also shows our generation’s lack of will to learn and grow to create a safer space. Not hating, just saying. Also you’re spreading negativity on another person’s platform, which gives them a bad look in turn. Again, just stating my opinion but I honestly think this would be a safer and better place if we all just minded our business and supported eachother. If you don’t like her makeup just don’t say anything? It’s not very hard :/
its not that deep.. 😭😭
How in the world can someone be proud to post that conversation? People are so weird 😕
She wants her 15mins of infamy
Like I’d be so embarrassed if I was her. I’d literally crawl into a hole and die.
no rlly like the more she showed, the more she just continued to prove she was in the wrong 😂
Fr
that girl is lucky it was sza bc i think most ppl these days in that position would put her on blast and take advantage of the power imbalance bc if went into those dms trying to talk about it and got hit with that gaslighting bs i'd screenshot everything and post it it's pretty sad how she doesn't even realize how mature/nice sza was being the entire time
@@inem58lit 💀
There were kids that I went to school with when I was in MIDDLE SCHOOL (key words middle school) that would start commenting nasty things on celebrities Instagram posts just to see how many they could get blocked by in a short period of time, and whoever had been blocked by a certain amount of celebrities by the end of the time period got like twenty bucks or something stupid like that. This girl is acting like a literal middle schooler, and it's so concerning thinking that she's probably in her twenties now and is considered a legal adult ://
@@kerisaltchannel3817literally im calling the biggest mf cap rn
@@BrooklynM413i believe it bro middle schoolers will be as edgy as possible and think its funny 😭
@@BrooklynM413 nah def believable i remember some cliché of girls in my class that absolutely hated popstars they were yknow 'the ultimate grunge band' type of girls and their entire personality was being grunge and they hated pink or some shit. That was their entire personality and they were insufferable to be around. I myself was even a grunge band lover bu egen I couldnt stand them.
They had a facebook group dedicated to hating popstar singers and it was their goal and mission to make said popstars miserable for well existing ig. They made anonymous posts online with hateful awful rumors completely made up like claiming katy perry had an Std and taylor swift was a nazi. Stuff like that.
Every post they made was bad mouthing these artists and claiming their work was trash, they made blogs shit talkin said individuals and woul beg people at lunch to check out said blogs to 'spread the facts'.
I remember one year these same girls sat up a stand in the cafeteria during lunch to get people to sign some sort of online petition for Taylor Swift to go perform at a school for the deaf or something like that and they basically harassed ppl about it for days until they eventually gave up or whatever
Like kids and middle schoolers in general are sometimes the worst of the human race or the best of the human race. Theres like no inbetween its a 50 50 chance of what you're getting
It's so frustrating to see people saying the most heinous shit known to man because they can hide behind a screen. They face ZERO consequences for their actions. And when others do get mad and tell them off, they always act like they're the victim.
And the people that are mean like that say that you shouldn't be on the internet if you can't handle people being mean to you. You don't *HAVE* to be mean. If you get satisfaction out of hurting someone, take a long hard look at yourself, try to understand why you react in such a negative and hurtful manner, and for the love of whatever you believe in, GET HELP. Clearly something made you hurt, so you feel the need to inflict that hurt onto others in hopes of feeling better.
To see people treat the average person, let alone celebrities as if they aren't human and don't have feelings is just insane to me.
My thoughts exactly. The internet is a hostile place BECAUSE of trashy people like that. Yet I’ve literally seen some of these bozos recording apology type video crying and complaining when they’re on the receiving end of harassment, though they have no problem dishing it out 💀
Fr, people get too comfortable saying whatever it is that they want, without getting the taste slapped out their mouths…
The most heinous shit known to man being "wack"
Like I agree the fan was in the wrong to be dismissive of szas feelings but please be serious.
@@Michiiru p sure this person is talking about the more general problem and not only this situation
@@Feverm00n yes but it does not apply to this situation so bringing it up makes no sense.
I hope more celebrities come out and be vocal about idiot harassers like this. This should not be socially acceptable.
what annoys me is how much she’s smiling about it like it’s a joke and she’s so innocent and the fact that she gaslighted SZA to apologize to her was disgusting. ppl like this have no respect and are so entitled i can’t stand them.
I'm sitting here wondering if this kid's parents ever found out what she did , because if any child of mine did something like this I'd make them write an apology
I mean it happened to Raini Rodriguez, are we shocked? She even spoke out about her meme being hurtful to her as well.
she seems like such a nice person I thought all the jokes were just…weird because if you have to joke at someone else’s expense you’re not as funny as you think you are
they are the same people that make “jokes” about minorities then when no one laughs it’s “oh people are so sensitive nowdays!1!1”
@@Isabel-sr8ep Yeah. I was only familiar with the fake Beyonce beef.
My anger issues when I just see that girl smiling after hurting SZA's feelings 😭
Well, SZA is a baby
@@GorillaWithAPhone tf
fr, i would actually fight her bro 😭 that’s some serious shit bcs she just bullied sza and was laughing.
Well the kid is scared and shy
@@GorillaWithAPhone sza is not a baby there’s a word called sensitive and you could’ve worded it better I’m a sensitive person that doesn’t mean I’m a baby if that hurt her feelings it hurt her feelings ? The same thing doesn’t trigger everyone everyone reacts differently to certain things so just because it wouldn’t hurt you doesn’t mean it would hurt anyone else so please use kinder words or find a way to word it better than just calling someone a baby
Fr...I seriously cant stand people anymore.
I cant stand my Generation or any generations anymore .
People have always been like this we just have social media now so everyone can see it the world has always been corrupt and every generation has been cold we’ve just failed at trying to be better the cycle will continue with the next generation too smh
@@Isabel-sr8ep that’s not really true tho, people haven’t always been so comfortable saying awful shit to complete strangers, or threatening them, etc. This is new in the sense that social media has allowed for a behavior that wouldn’t fly IRL.
@@Feverm00n I mean it does still happen in real life.
@@Feverm00nit is not new at all. You live online so it may seem worse but People insult, attack, and kill in each other in real life all the time and they have for centuries
not lost on me that SZA is a beautiful, talented brown skinned black woman either.
Black women face so much hate and vitriol and dehumanizing, to a terrifying degree offline but online too. Example being how people talked about Megan Thee Stallion when she was shot.
Notice how she was respectfully stating her feelings were hurt and she was so quickly mischaracterized as being antagonistic and "mean"?
SZA is awesome for being genuine and saying something hurt her feelings. We should care about peoples feelings.
We should care about how black women feel.
Thank you I’m glad someone said this💕
right
SZA deserve nothing but respect❤ , this incident just made her more of a star to me.
The way they talked about Megan is absolutely disgusting. Poor woman was shot and they blame her? Absolutely insane.
why yall always gotta make it about race. the anti racists is why racism is such a relevant topic in everything
Saying just a joke ≠ a free pass to insult someone. Like dude. “JuSt a joKE” doesn’t take the place of an apology.
Yeah, and if the so called "joke" hurts someone's feelings they're not being sensitive or can't understand what made it funny to you , they're genuinely hurt by something you said and it's not a joke at that point
As someone who grew up their entire life being bullied I can say with absolute certainty nothing stops it, even if you block everyone there will still be an echo chamber you get wind of knowing what’s being said about you. The audacity of this girl and some other people I’ve seen to use age as a defense is ridiculous- did we stop reminding people that fighting words are a thing? Don’t start something hurtful and get annoyed that the victim of those words admit they’re hurt. It’s one thing to dislike someone’s music- but denying that sza is allowed to be hurt is giving cruel irony energy, did we not just go through the last five years saying “your feelings are valid” are her feelings suddenly not allowed because she’s an adult???
Wow this comment I completely understand
this whole situation just pissed me off and the way some people are on this girl’s side baffles me
no seriously I can only assume it has to do the the rich people are bad mentality people.
i’m so grateful u are addressing such topics… keep up the great work! love ur content!
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@@vyasunaay what how u know
i made it my xbox pfp when i made my new acc and i really like it
I don't wanna bring race up, but imma just put it out there. The part where the girl said that SZA was being "rude" and "never" said it in a respectful way is a classic example calling Black women aggressive and angry for reacting rationally and appropriately to harm and ill will being done to us (i.e. Angry Black Woman). I'm sure the way she's treating SZA is a intersectional issue of dehumanizing celebrities as well as vilifying and dehumanizing Black women. The same drama happened when Tory Lanez shot Megan Thee Stallion. Megan immediately became the bad guy. I'm not even a celebrity and I know how SZA and Megan feels because I've experienced it. They poured their heart out and people tap danced on it. Everything that happens to us is our fault and we're always the bad guy for speaking up and saying enough is enough. Even when we are rich, beautiful, famous, and educated; everything society claims they wish Black people were, we still have to deal with passive aggression and undertones of racism. I can't count the number of times I was called the n-word or physically accosted and the perp goes "OH NO SHE'S BEING MEAN TO MEEE/HIT ME FOR NO REASON. SHE YELLED AT ME AND CALLED ME RACIST. WHAAH WHAAH WHAAH," They pulled the ultimate Karen act and got away with it scott free every single time and I end up in trouble for standing up for myself or slapping the shit out of someone for touching me. Why? Because I'm a big scary violent negro gorilla with no human emotions and I can't experience pain or trauma. I feel SZA deep on this one.
i can attest to this as a a Black woman. Damned if you don't speak up, damned if you do.
“i dont wanna bring race up” then stfu. it has nothing to do with race.
Sza literally didn’t put her on blast, she commented on her post and privately dm’ed her, expressing how it hurts her. SHE put HERSELF on blast by posting this on TikTok trying to act like a victim, and now she’s probably being dragged by a problem she created herself. This could’ve all been resolved by taking down the post, and giving a sincere “ I’m sorry” in dms. It’s literally that easy, but no 🙄
This
I hate that gen z individuals think their feelings are all that matters in the end, but if you have feelings or boundaries it's "rude" holy shit it's so self centered and psychotic
No literally… I have had SO many run ins with horrid people who are “so accepting!!”
I had friends who completely cut me off for who I am, and that I attempted to set boundaries…
it's good that people can be confident but the kind of confidence that most people are showing isn't confidence, they're just being arrogant, selfish and rude...
you can love yourself and respect yourself while also being kind, respectful and show basic manners towards other people
I've seen so many people who call themselves a "girlboss" but they're just being a bitch ngl...
This is why I'm gonna end it all before 15, fuck growing up, I'm gonna be a little girl forever 💘
@@creepycrybabygirl...
Please don't do that, I obviously don't personally know you, but I'm pretty sure your family would be extremely heartbroken if you were to take your own life. If you're dealing with something emotionally/mentally, please talk to someone like a therapist.@@creepycrybabygirl
average black woman getting dog piled for expressing her feelings bc she seems "mad"
we neva gonna escape the angry bw accusations smh
it’s exhausting
Exactly 💯
@@Lara-vo6rpyou know what I'm white but if I was black and they kept calling me an angry black woman for just expressing feelings, I'd decide to be petty af and then pretend to be a psycho just to shut them up lol. Seriously these people love to gaslight you
@@NatashaWarden honestly ive embraced it. now people dont try me as much
How is Sza wack? She’s a amazing singer ❤ I agree with you drama kween ❤🎭
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she kept saying that it was just a meme even though sza said over and over again that it was hurtful to her, and she still took the roll of the victim which is so fucked up
dont you think sza should just move on after knowing it was just a joke. That fan is more scared and in amxiety
@@nanaouzumaki6044a joke is only a joke if all people involved find it funny. If I were to post something hurtful about you online and then said it was a joke, it wouldn’t make you feel any better
@@londonmason6129That is not true. A joke is something that is spoken out without the negative intention, so from your statement, I find a lot of joke insulting but I laughed it out because they said it was a joke. Your statement is very closed minded.
@@londonmason6129 And btw you are talking about close minded people who is doesn't like to clear their mind of it being a joke and insists on getting angry like it was a real statement.
It's like when people do something hurtful then say "It's just a prank", like that's supposed to fix everything.
Some people think that just because someone is famous, it makes them not human and think that they don't have feelings
“It’s just a joke” -every bully ever
This whole situation was blown out of proportion by that girl, SZA came to her in a respectful manner and all she had to do was delete the post. Even if it's not "that big of a deal" to YOU it is in fact to someone else. Props to SZA though for establishing boundaries and responding appropriately to something that triggered her because she easily could have got that girl bullied off the internet.
d'angelo wallace also mentioned this in his video, but i wanna bring this up here as a fellow (almost) 18 yr old.
I'm tired of other Gen Z kids around my age using the age excuse, especially after we give ourselves so much credit for being the so-called "most socially aware" gen yet, but then we do stuff like this? Like, why are some of us so hypocritical smh 😮💨
he also mentioned this (which i agree with) that a lotta of ppl in Gen Z seem to not think that certain stuff are not just online, like just because you can close your tab and forget about it doesn't mean it didn't affect someone else
This is why I'm gonna end it all before 15, fuck growing up, I'm gonna be a little girl forever 💘
Lmao we are NOT socially aware at all half of is haven't even developed our pre frontal cortex. Most of us are acx not very nice ppl and hypocrites.
UGH.. DUDE WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE ??? IM PART OF GEN Z AND IM JUST SO FUCKING FED UP WITH EVERYONE BEING LIKE THIS I CANT BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE JUST THINK ITS OKAY TO POST SHIT LIKE THIS ON THE INTERNET.
she was so proud too, like how did you post this and not once consider why she was mad?
People loveeee to act like this online then they can’t even call someone “stupid” to their face. God.
Yep they chat so much shit behind people's back but can't say shit to their face
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As an 11 year old, the "i was only 18" excuse getting old💀😭
@@creepycrybabygirl are you ok??
@@creepycrybabygirlyou good cuzzo?
@@creepycrybabygirlPlease don’t end it. Your life is so important ❤
@@creepycrybabygirl as another crybaby, i understand what its like. I dont wanna grow up either. But live life and flow with it,you have so much to live for.
Depends on what kind of situation
Some people will attack anyone just because they can and once you try to get thier attention mid attack and ask them to stop it, they'll assume you are going to attack them back.. it's so sad .. what a loser
Not enough people have been empathetic enough towards how sza calmly addressed paragraphs of info from something thats clearly triggered her!!! Like was it not clear enough in her last album how shes trying to fuckin grow & growth doesnt equate to perfection. Shes a human being with human feelings and this kid was clout-chasing.
I honestly blame the parents of Gen Z because it's clear they did not educate their children well enough, yes there are a bunch of other factors that play into this but the parenting is one of the main issues. (Yes I am Gen Z myself but not like these kids.)
I agree, me and most of my friends had to figure the most obvious stuff out.
honestly, my mom never knew how the internet worked. i don’t blame her for not being able to yeah me how to be kind online, but obviously i took it upon myself to learn. i don’t think it’s parents faults, i think some people just don’t care to put out positivity
@@leemonsharkit’s definitely a mix
Same like I see these millennials watch their kids being absolutely crappy but they do NOTHING about it. One of my friends was telling me that she was at some girl’s birthday party once and she bought her a board game and the girl was being absolutely ungrateful saying that “I don’t know how to play this board game and I don’t like your gift” and her parents are just there laughing thinking it’s funny like wth? I would have smacked my kid if they did something like that
@@Al3xAckerman And then the older generation wonders why the new Gen is so disrespectful
Number one golden rule: Treat others how you want to be treated. It doesn't matter if you're 15, 18, or 21. It doesn't matter if the person is 1 year, 4, years, 10 years, nor 20 years older than you.
This is why I'm gonna end it all before 15, fuck growing up, I'm gonna be a little girl forever 💘
People want anything for attention. I swear, you can't do anything without SOMEONE getting offended and bent out of shape. smh.
If you are being targeted in a negative way you are allowed to be upset about it LOL the issue isn’t “you can’t do anything anymore” the thing is more people are being aware of their feelings and being more open about it and I think that’s amazing because people think they can be assholes just because which you can but guess what you gotta have the balls to also deal with the backlash
@@SpicyySamantha Well, that's not exactly what I was talking about. For example, you can't speak out against supporting obesity without being hated on. It's come to a point where there isn't ANY room for debate at all whatsoever. People aren't willing to hear people of different opinions out and in turn people have become close-minded and are quick to become aggressive the moment someone's opinion isn't a carbon copy of their own.
And it's not that people have become aware of their own feelings, it's that people only CARE about their OWN feelings. And so many people act entitled and think others OWE them stuff when in reality they don't.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: how are these kids not humiliated by their own actions?? If this happened to me I'd be mortified. Combination of covid lockdowns + invasive social media brainrot is doing untold levels of harm
these are hell in no way "kids" shes an ad-ult
If a popular singer I looked up to recognized me and commented on my post…I would immediately try to make them happy and comfortable..
Well said!!!!!
Fr like, if I accidentally stutter while talking I think about it for a week afterwards and then there's people who just go online and do THIS, what is wrong with some people🤦♀️
Tbh I think some people are just stupid.
16 y/o gen z here. was she in the wrong for remaking the meme? no. if she didn’t know sza was uncomfortable and didn’t like it that is. but did she need to tag sza? absolutely not. it also doesn’t justify her reaction to sza clearly setting a boundary. it doesn’t matter your age, your fame or anything, you need to respect someone’s boundaries. the way she thought it was okay to act like this AND post it to social media… like yikes, way to self report! people really dont see celebrities as real people and it makes me honestly so sad.
@@creepycrybabygirlPlease don't. People genuinely care about you and life won't just be complete shit past a certain point. Things are bad, but they do get easier to deal with and from experience it is worth it. I recommend seeking help if you can.
Really tired of 18 year olds cosplaying as minors. You’re not in high school anymore.
This^^^
Last time I checked jokes are supposed to be funny FOR BOTH PARTIES INVOLVED. But the people not laughing at absolutely disgusting things are the sensitive ones for having feelings and not liking being insulted. It’s giving “no offense” but saying offensive things
The way that people act like musicians are like, NPCs with no real emotion. I have seen this happen before, and it's awful. THESE PEOPLE ALSO HAVE EMOTIONS, THEY AREN'T JUST HERE TO ENTERTAIN YOU ‼️‼️‼️
As a 22 year old Gen Z. I watched the internet become how big it is now. Its scary. This constant of being able to contact anyone & say anything has ruined us. You couldn’t do that in the early 2000s. Everything was just then being created & now we face the consequences
This is why I'm gonna end it all before 15, fuck growing up, I'm gonna be a little girl forever 💘
@@creepycrybabygirlI hope you’re joking ❤
@@creepycrybabygirldon’t do that. You don’t have to be involved in social media or grow up in anyway but physically. You can like whatever you like no matter your age and if something new comes along that you don’t like you don’t have to take part in it
@@creepycrybabygirl just saw this 2 months later. Disconnect while you can but not yanno. Its easy to go outside or do crafts like I do now. Its really fun
that girl is a literal bully and it's scary how many gen z act exactly like that
And whereas back ten years ago bullies would admit they were bullies (and brag about it which is weird ) modern bullies are super manipulative and gaslight the victim, and even play victim. It's scary af
@@NatashaWardenno shade bullies always been that way from my experience
Bullying is a pattern. This is one time.
people will do ANYTHING for a second of clout these days 🤦♀️
Tell me you're seeking attention without telling me you're seeking attention
The craziest thing about this whole thing is that other than her posting this on TikTok to basically run a “SZA bullied a fan” campaign, the girl actually posted this on RUclips months prior under her Instagram name which was the same but since it didn’t get enough traction on RUclips she took it down and then posted on TikTok thinking it could get more reach.
This truly begs the question of “we’re you a fan” or “were you someone who wanted to make a gacha moment on a famous person?” Cause it’s not making sense with this now being known. This girl just wanted clout and got it but it wasn’t the one she wanted in the end.
Like girl YOU tagged SZA, got shocked she came to the post you tagged her in, deleted the comment and kept up the post still laughing then once she came to you PRIVATELY blasted that convo online thinking you were right missing the fact ppl can also read the messages that you tried to twist that were on the screen.
Like omg girl use your 18 yr old brain.🙄
That tells her brain isn't 18 years old. She needs to go back to kindergarten. She's still an adult though, but she thinks she's mommy's little angel that people will go to her and comfort her even though she bullied someone and shows her lack of decency.
People really be bullying other people and say it's fine juet because they happen to be famous. I genuinely don't understand it...
To be fair, if this person thought that the "SZA WACK" meme was a circulating meme in the fanbase, and sza maybe not publicly stating that it hurt her, id understand why she'd recreate it. But that doesn't excuse them for the way they reacted to sza telling them that it was hurtful
The “it’s just a joke!” Is actually getting really old💀
EXACTLY i hate how being a bully and disrespectful is so normalized and the second you call out that kind of shitty behavior you get dogpiled by people and get called "sensitive" and be told that its "not that deep" because apparently no one is allowed to have feelings anymore. Its also ironic how those kind of people only ever care about their own feelings and expect people to care about theirs while stomping on others, its gross
I hate that as a hard-core SZA fan that I had to learn about this situation through a mutual on twt saying "OMG IM SOO NOT BEING A FAN OF SZA THIS WAS COMPLETELY OUT OF LINE!!" And then i watch the video and nearly tear up at the situation because it genuinely hurts me how much the person did not give a shit about SZA's feelings. I absolutely understand how it feels for a joke like that to be made and how it can hurt you, and how heartbreaking it can be once the person starts ranting about how it was just a joke. also that girl's voice is annoying as hell, Im all for peace and shit but she can go burn in hell with that stanky attitude. (im sorry for being mean this situation is just really pressing me 😭)
SZA I luv you always and forever 🫶🫶🫶
we should stop looking at artist as something other than humans. Yes they make amazing art and that’s what we should recognize them for. But that’s it. we can look up to and be inspired by them but to view them as anymore more or less than human is just not okay and quite frankly immature.
Why do you say "we"? Not everyone does that thank you
@@dabi-is-online23they’re saying “we” should. We all should respect artists as human beings
As a person with anxiety this offends me greatly as well but SZA was brave dealing with it 😅❤
And, then people like this wonder Why some celebs have turned into assholes, over the years. I'm sorry, but if someone made fun of me like this and tried making me the bad guy, I might not have been as Nice and Respectful as SZA was..
Whoever posts nowadays, is gonna get hate for ABSOLUTELY NO REASON. I hate it. She did nothing to deserve that shit. I used to be a kpop fan, "fans" would act like they own the kpop idols. And that they can't get tired, they can't have feelings.... I'm not into kpop anymore but I'll never forget how bad the situation was
I swear to god if I see anyone who defended Doja cat’s recent abhorrent behavior towards her fans also defend this supposed fan or talks bad about SZA in this situation I will absolutely lose it. I was shocked by how many content creators I saw defending Doja. I am so glad I found your channel. It’s so refreshing seeing someone who isn’t afraid to share their opinion and not in the blatantly offensive and often bigoted way that most conservatives mean when they use that phrase. Also your makeup and fashion is always amazing! 🖤😊💜
People really don’t think for themselves. They just go along with what they’re told
Some people deserve to be put in their place. Plenty of people never have consequences for their bad actions.
And they posted it thinking they were in the right..embarrassing
Both sides were wrong. I know SZA has rights to have emotions and feelings and be a real human to show all of those because shes hurt. But shes middle aged. Maturity could be in any age but hopefully she had one some time if she will have to face alot of negativities. Selena Gomez, Billie Eillish and others for example, its alot that they handle but the older they get they would just have to try their hardest to ignore it to help their self.
On the other hand, yes the 18 y.o was so wrong. I'm also pissed at her. Very.
33 is not middle aged
@@intotheground range of 30-40 is middle aged. Because 50-60 are pre-seniors (80+ post seniors)
literally i don’t know why everyone is just on sza’s side or the fan’s side. there is a power imbalance in the fact she is a celebrity. and if she doesn’t like being a celebrity then she should get out of the public view, because when you are as popular as she is you are always going to get criticism, and if a meme hurts her that bad then how will she take actual criticism? but the fan is clearly entitled and an asshole. sza did try to handle this like a human, obviously trying to remove the celebrity part. and the so-called fan did not listen to her. which is disgusting
@@caveregem8473 I agree. But if I were SZA, I wouldn't give that kid attention. Theres a conscience that is being presented during her situation and I guess SZA had to do what she thinks is right.
Actually, I do have similar situation when it comes to bullying. In fact I have been taught ways to avoid it. Just hope SZA does too. I really love how shes standing for herself but hopefully she does it correctly by just simply ignore it.
And for the 18 y.o, even if a mind of a young adult hasn't fully developed yet, this is common sense that celebrities are humans. I dont know what got into her head. If she didnt start it, SZA wouldnt overreact. Its just ridiculous.
If she wants to be heard, she should've done it in another way instead of mocking her. Really. And im thankful that you're also agreeing with me here that neither sides are right. 😁
40-50 are middle aged@@rockylilypop951
Hear me out! If u do stupid things on the internet, while being 6 or 7 yo. people can forgive you and educate you. 16 or 18 are now the ages of responsibility, everybody will perceive you as an adult. So try to act like one.
12 and under you would be educated but over you gotta take some responsibility.
The only people who perceive you as an adult at 16-18 are little kids, and creepy adults. 18 is a kid but definitely way too old to be bullying people online
I really love how you made the point, "If you're gonna say some adult shit, you will be treated as such." Just because someone is young does not mean they should be absolved of all accountability. There's plenty of 18 year olds and younger who know that kind of behavior isn't ok. It's kind of infuriating these days to see people pull the "Oh I'm a minor" card to excuse some of the most atrocious stuff. Like, some of these folks don't wanna face any sort of consequences for their actions and it's sad.
Now that’s just f’ed up. If you don’t want to be treated like shi then don’t treat others like shi.
But remember, nobody is born bad.
“Hurt people hurt people”
-my aunt
All people are responsible for their actions/behavior, even hurt ones.
@bradleybrown8428 yes, I know and I’m not taking sides with anyone. I’m just saying that the reason that she thinks this is ok might be because of something that has happened/happening in their life, I’m not dismissing the drama and I’m not standing up for them.
@@Feverm00n yes and I agree
This is more proof that you shouldn't be considered a adult if your 18☠️
@@creepycrybabygirlive been seeing you in almost everyones comment. Why are you attention seeking at this point.
I think some people have forgotten that famous people are actually human aswell people think when you become famous and popular you just grow thicker skin and deal with all the hate without getting angry or offended it really upsets me how people think like this
I’m only 21 but it seems like their age group (current 18 & under) has no sense of accountability and just generally sucks tbh
This is why I'm gonna end it all before 15, fuck growing up, I'm gonna be a little girl forever 💘
Now now wait I'm sure you maybe can understand not ~necessarily~ everyone 18- is like that? But also isn't 18+ and up a diff age group like 18-22 (ur age, around there) although I do agree with the accountability for a good portion and just poor human function in general
this reminds me of the WHOLE Millie Bobby Brown is homophobic “meme” where people made memes and joked about Millie Bobby Brown being homophobic which hurt her and gave her anxiety and she was only 14 years old. this generation can be so gross. makes me feel so sick.
Off topic but I love how Drama Kween gives it straight, she doesn't lessen her language, she expresses her anger and disgust. Way better than a youtuber who is way too worried about trying to sugar coat everything to sound nicer.
As an 18-year-old, I feel like so many people in gen z can not have an honest conversation that involves emotion and passion, despite everyone claiming that they are accepting. I am autistic, and I have been made fun of a lot for my autistic traits like not understanding social queues, or trying to talk to someone something I am passionate about. It's so weird to me how everyone now says they are so open and accepting and how they support all the accepting social movements but make fun of people just for acting different or not following the new social norms.
This is why I'm gonna end it all before 15, fuck growing up, I'm gonna be a little girl forever 💘
If ur hurting someone physically and they tell u to stop, u do no questions asked. Why is it not the same for emotional hurt?
Some of you are acting like she called a bomb threat to sza's house lol. The girl is clearly a vapid, clout chasing idiot, but a bully? _Really?_ This situation is the epitome of people freaking out over nothing 💀
Fr💀💀
As someone who is plus-sized, neurodivergent (anxiety, depression, adhd, bipolar, autism), and just overall “weird”, I’m so upset about the way the internet is. I love SZA, she’s gorgeous and smart and great at singing, I wish people could just not be hateful.
I also wish people could be less hateful ): there’s really no point in it
@@BlueBanana.riiiggghhht like come on guys :(
@@forthefagsandneurodivergent yea :(
It's apparently too hard to be a somewhat decent person, at least online. mostly the people who bait/troll are often unhappy with their lives, or themselves.
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Aww! I remember a Drama Kween video where some things were spilling over into personal life that should not.
I felt like it was really brave and genuine of her to come forward on camera and say what was going on, like a real human. Not that I doubted or forgot that, but it is rare for us to see people on the other side of our screens being honest and vulnerable.
SZA’s polite and poised responses to try to teach someone a little humanity speaks volumes about her as a person
It's called a schrödinger's douchebag - someone who says offensive things and wether it's a joke or not is dependent on the reaction
In my country rn, we are facing a crisis because lot of teenagers have killed themselves in the last months after being bullied (online and irl). Some had received death threats. The worst is that, upon calling the Board of Education, parents were threatened with legal pursuit if they continue to ask their children to be protected. And now, their children are dead.
I don't really like the "it's a Gen Z problem" speech, because bullying has been an issue for a long time and those teenagers aren't raising themselves. The older generations are also responsible here. The grown adults that turn a blind eye to this behavior are also to blame.
the thing i really dislike about this generation is the fast amount of people who are so desensitized to other peoples emotions and how dark they'll make their jokes. its become so normalized and not only that, you see it everywhere. i'm someone who is comfortable with dark humour but as of lately i've started to sit back and notice just how disrespectful many of these things being said and the actions being made really are. i just hope as a society we can become more empathetic because i don't want that to start being considered cringe too :(
was it common knowledge that meme hurt her the first time it went viral? like did sza post about it before? /gen. i dont pay attention to sza and didnt know about that meme before this video, so if that poster also didnt know then id find it to be a silly little joke. *but* if she knew sza was hurt by it in the past then thats awful to do 😐😐. its even WORSE that she kept that post up after she DEFINITELY knew sza didnt like it, and then she goes on to dismiss her feelings. yes its a silly meme to us, but regardless of what we think of the meme or sza's reaction, shes allowed to feel how she wants and set boundaries with fans
Meme culture has really made people insensitive af and expect you to take a literal insult at your expense as a joke
Another case of meme culture contributing to cyber bullying is one in which an Asian woman who posted for a stock family pic i think? Was made into one
Omg yes. I see so many people (mostly middle/high school kids) just insult or harass people and think its funny.. until they get reported to the principal and get yelled at by their parents💀
Bro y’all are so sensitive
@@Blackcat.therian. acting like she laughed while making a threat to her family. She said her music is wack, I’m sure there’s worse being said at your school about artists than them being wack 😂
@@GorillaWithAPhone grow tf up.
Bro literally wtf is wrong with “sza wack” she was just doing that for just to follow a trend maybe she saw it on someone’s story and she wanted to repost. DOSNT mean the girl think she’s actually wack sza how ever she needs to get her feelings on right she got her clout her money she’s doing the most for what and people are going for the girl for yea just 1 tiny post be Real😭
"I've been really respectful, she's so back n fourth and the punctiation 💀" this girl want a cookie or smth? Some people don't have the best grammar no matter their age no need to be an ass. She really is lame.
So immature and thoughtless.. this girl is unbelievable. I hope she eventually matures and grows as a person.. this is sad.
She is wack for being a baby bout that
How? She just told her to not do it again, that hater kept talking so of course she acted like that.
@@JustAoii “Of course”? She a grown woman arguing over one word, gtfo
I’m so sorry but did anyone here the line saying that the older you get then you SHOULD be a little bit mature? At 18 is when you become an official adult, so saying “ oh I was 18” ain’t gonna work
Its so disgusting how that girl was laughing and making it out to be a joke while SZA is being real with her and is trying to be honest with her. Absolutely not right. She shouldnt have posted that or the Tiktok just kept it private and took the post down. People forget celebrities are humans as well. Thank you for speaking up on this
Its scary how normal it is for people to dehumanize others on the internet
This is why I dislike cancel culture . Honestly,I am convinced if I went on a rant about sza being wack and a bad musical artist,nobody would care.The kid is in the wrong. However, what you guys are doing right now is straight-up harrassment.Being 18 is not an excuse,but sza getting made fun of is also not a reason to gang up her.
that girl is so obnoxious, you tag sza and say you weren't expecting her to notice it huh???
It’s so easy to not be a huge asshole yk. And even if you feel safe bcs you’re online one day you’re going to make the wrong joke to the wrong person and are going to get doxxed and swatted. It really isn’t worth being mean to people, it’s not even funny or cool.
She keeps saying that she was just bringing back a meme and never said anything hurtful.Like just because she didn’t say anything doesn’t mean that didn’t hurt SZA’S feelings.I absolutely Stan SZA too so it would make no sense for me to love her music and her and then recreate a meme like this girl keeps proving SZA’S point😒
Lmaoo sza is famous she's gonna have haters 🤦🏾♀️😭like she's being overdramatic ngl
Lolllll it's was only one time no the problem with gen z is y'all too dm soft sza has been rude to fans alot 😭
sza rude to her fans? proof??
@@JustAoii it's all over the Internet
how- do you know the reason why she was being mean... im sure you dont.@@zykariah5292
@@JustAoii There’s this review channel named theneedledrop that posted a very valid review against SZA’s album Love Galore filled with actual criticism and backed up why he was unimpressed by it and SZA went on a whole rant on Twitter DMS on how he was wrong and his channel sucks and how ridiculous he was
I would've traded ALL the severe bullying I endured in school.... for wtf people talk about "online". SZA, grow tf up and stop talking to your fans. Fans act like people. Yeah my feelings been hurt online too, (very much, more than I'd like to admit) yet it's nothing compared to LIFE. Stop whining, everyone. Stay offline if you must, see how easy that is?
Much as I despise bullying.... and love my faves, like SZA. I'm TIRED of petty exaggerated issues being made online as if people have NO other concerns, and they probably don't. How nice. And much as I love SZA she's rich.... the LAST type of people I can pity. End of comment.
So because she has money she doesn’t deserve empathy? It sounds like your experiences have made you hardened and jaded.
I actually love how SZA stood up for herself and said she has feeling too
This should not be anything shocking tbh, it’s so sad that some people found it as rude
i'm not even 18 yet and i would never treat anyone like she did celebrity or not
i won't lie i've made many jokes at the expense of a famous person. but if they expressed to me personally that it hurt them i'd have to retract my statements and apologise genuinely and not come out and be like omg they tried to cancel me. it's just so sad that gen z's think bullying is okay and i hate to admit i often forget there's a person behind the screen when i say things recklessly online :/