Goodbye Oxford!! | Reflections In Moving On
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- This is my last vlog in Oxford as I relocate tomorrow to Devon! Sharing my reflections on my time here over the last 11 years in my mental health recovery and gender transition. What a journey it has been!
For additional info about my recovery and transition journey visit : / finntheinfinncible
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Hello lovely people! I have arrived safely in Devon but currently have very limited Internet access. this will be solved next weds when I get broadband installed so untilj then forgive my slow replies but please know that your comments and support mean the world to me!
There's a quote from an episode of Buffy which I carry with me and try to remind myself of : "You think you know - what you are, what's to come - you haven't even begun." - it reminds me that so many times I've thought I knew exactly who I was and what I was doing and what my future held, and actually looking back I was just a tiny baby and had no clue what God had in store for me! It helps me to stay humble when I start thinking everything's in my hands rather than God's, and it helps me stay hopeful when I can't see a way forwards. I find it particularly healing to remember this when something is coming to an end that I didn't necessarily want or expect to. You haven't even begun, Finn
I absolutely love that thank you so much for sharing that with me. I think I may have to put a copy of that on my wall!!!
With tears running down my face I send you big massive hugs. this is the start of a new adventure. xxx
bless you! sorry about that lol! thanks so much
Incredibly proud of you for how far you've come.and what you've achieved. You came in one person and you're going out another and one that you should be very proud of. Oxford will definitely always treasure you. Sending you lots of love and luck for your new adventure xx
Bless you thats just so lovely
Peace + Love + Positivity
and to you my friend
Congrats on the new adventure. Massive step to make.
Will have to find away to meet up. Sending loads of hugs 💙
I would love that! thank you so much
Love you so much, Finn. You're amazing & I'm excited for your new adventures!
thank you so much you wonderful man! new exciting adventures for us both!!!
Bless you, Finn. Change is hard but I believe in you. Know you're on the right track x
thanks so much. it's everyone's belief that's kept me going I think!!!
Aw, bless you dear Finn. Your sister-friend from across the pond sends you love and good wishes for your new adventure. Your tears at the end of this video are eloquent---they tell us how deeply you feel about what you experienced at Oxford, and your hopes and dreams for Devon. You will always have someone praying for you here in the U.S.
You mean the world to me, thank you
Sending you all the positive vibes for your new start!😊🙌
Thank you so much
Congrats on step 12. I will pray for you for strength and solace in your new endeavors. keep your chin up brother. I believe in you!
thanks so much!
Ohhh, what a beautiful ending Finn. Wishing you the absolute best of luck in your new home, I'm incredibly proud of you, and I have every faith that you are about to enter into an amazing new chapter of your life.
thank you, your believing in me makes the world of difference to me!
Finn, we're all so incredibly proud of you. You're a huge inspiration. Best of luck in Devon, my friend. -Kai.
so kind. thank you my friend
Finn you are an amazing human being and you have such love and support around you. Things can only get better from here. We are all with you 👍🏻 take care brother.
I am one very very blessed man to have you all by my side
Now your making me all emotional! Good luck with today brother... I will be around next week to help you with any stray Nic nacs if you need me 🙌🏽😎
Yeah that was a bit of a surprise to me at the end!!! thanks so much mate
Ah bless you Finn... I bet it's going to be a wonderful new start in Devon!!!! And you're very ready for it.
Right now all you really need tonight is some food, a shower and your bed. Tomorrow is a beautiful brand new day. I moved house recently and it is wonderful to wake up in your new place for te first time!!!!!!!!
Don't drive yourself crazy about unpacking either, it will happen whether you do it quickly or slowly ;)
Hoping to see a vid of your new place soon!
Thank you, great advice, though I did kinda rush the unpcking! There is now a flat tour up on my channel :)
Well done Finn, you're incredible inspiration to not only 5,500+ on youtube but millions of people in real life. And instagram and all the things you have done on tumblr to make young trans men not fear transition and feel comfortable in their skin.. i think a lot of people can say you have been a shining star in their transition and without people like you, we would too still be trying to find/run away from ourselves! Much love
wow!!!!! what a wonderful message to receive thank you so very very much my friend. you have no idea how much that means to me.
Good luck with your new adventures in Devon! Saying goodbye to one chapter of our lives is never easy, but sometimes a chapter of life has to end before we can enjoy the revealed good of the succeeding chapter.
exactly that! this feels so very very right. thank you so much
thank you for taking us along with your journey!
I am so very glad that you are my friend 😘
Congratulations on your growth. Unfortunately, sometimes growth hurts, but growing pains are good for us. You didn't let the pressure beat you down but you let it push you upward. It's taken a strong person to survive what you've been through. Enjoy the warmth of the sun on your face as you move up & into this next phase of life. Congratulations on job well done!
bless you, thats so kind
Thank u so much for sharing your thoughts with us(the end of this video was so emotional). U r such a great person. Sending love and positive vibes to you. Thank you one more time, u make me keep going, keep waiting that someday I will be there where you r right now in your transition. Good luck w the new house!
bless you. I love hearing that a keep people going! thank you so much
Finn I'm so happy for you, this move is truly going to be so good for you and I can't wait to be here to see your adventures in this new beginning! Hope all goes well today buddy. :)
bless you matey!
Hello Mr.F Thelnfinncible good luck to your Future. Best wishes. Love Lisa.x
+LisasNailOX2 so kind! Thank you!
What a journey, and more to come - also T stopped me from crying too!
I just cannot believe this journey! my life is just more wonderful than I could ever have imagined. even the difficult times!
Yeah man, I totally agree 💙
Well done Finn, that must have been such a hard vlog to do, and truly heartfelt. Here's to new beginnings and happier times. See you on the other side mate 👊🏻
yes it really was, more emotional than Id planned too! Thanks fella
I just looked up where Devon is in England. Looks like a beautiful place. Hope that you enjoy it there.
it's just stunning! I am very much looking forward to exploring!!!!
I wish you the best of luck in starting anew. Its tough moving to a new place. But it sounds like it will the best thing for you, and I hope it all goes very very well.
It is tough, but it feels positive, thank you :)
My thoughts, well wishes, and good vibes go out to you, man. I truly hope this move brings you the happiness and renewal that you deserve. From some of the messiest, hardest times comes clarity. Obviously I do not know your entire situation, but all splits are difficult in some shape or form and can weigh heavy on the heart. Please know you move forward with the support of many, whether they make themselves known or not. Do not hesitate to reach out to those you trust and care for if you need support. I'll keep you in my thoughts, and I hope the move into the new flat goes as smooth as possible.
such a kind message, thank you. I am so blessed and this move has been made so much easier, by all the support I have, thanks my friend
Onwards and upwards to a new place and time many adventures a wait and of course you know deep in you're heart that that it's correct. Being so very honest with yourself is whats gonna keep you going, and you're reactions as well. Remember we all have choices and choosing the ones feels better than choosing the wrong ones! much love. see you on the other side.
you are always so wise my friend. I feel I would really love to spend some time with you. thanks so much
+FinnTheInfinncible Hi Finn you are welcome. I would really love to spend time with you are well! I think me and you will get along great!
Just ❤️
xx
love you dude .. you made me cry
aw sorry hunny! xxx
Here's to the next step! :D
Indeed! thank you so much!!!
on to a new adventure.
yes indeedy!!
Your vids meen a lot to me. Well done lad crack on.
Thank you so much!!!
:D x
I definitely love all your videos and I think you are an enthusiastic person with a great personality. However, I just don't understand how you have made your transition to be a gay man. To each his own, but I definitely love women beyond words can speak. Another thing. I plan on having bottom surgery as well so please, please, please, post videos about the sexual sensation and also the ease of penetration. I'm anxiously awaiting to figure all the good stuff out! Thanks!
Thanks my friend. Trans folk can be gay, straight, bi etc just like anyone else! Besides, I dont know if I am gay, its was just that my partner began transition so by default I became gay! Im single now so I will have fun finding out!
+FinnTheInfinncible I'm terribly sorry about your breakup. I do think it's a good opportunity to explore. I'm not anti gay trans men. It's hard for me to see outside my own sexual preferences.
Thats fair enough my freind!
you're moving to my name! aha.
:)