Does a relationship work best when the guy loves the lady more 🤷🏾♂️🤔 - Open Chats Podcast Eps 20
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- Опубликовано: 30 июл 2024
- When does a relationship work best, when the girl loves the guy more or when the guy loves the girl more ? this was the topic on Open Chats Podcast episode 20
Do guys like it when a lady loves them a lot more, or do they take advantage of that and mistreated her.
Do guys value the chase more, guys love a challenge so what happens when the girl is extremely involve with the guy, at least is more invested in the relationship.
Like wise with the ladies, it is a well known thing that a lady will walk over a guy when she knows the guy would do anything for her.
We also spoke about heartbreak, healing process amongst many things
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❤ Hey guys let’s please remember to press the like button first before we enjoy … that’s our culture right 🤟🤟😉😊✨
Bro cool chats, can we also include signs how to spot a baddie like if they have a nose ring & tattoos. Also please talk about how women like being spanked and choked because when guys don't do such... women cheat with guys who will treat them like ish
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Those who believe this is a best podcasts in SA let's gather here 🔥🔥
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Todays youngesters are smart, well-informed. Bravo👏
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english malum' ...😐
Sino is actually speaking facts, they are just dismissing him because he is "light-skinned". The girl liking you more just means she is more ready to fight for the relationship than a girl who doesn't. If a woman does not think you are a catch she will always be searching for better subconsciously. You'll never compete with the guy she likes the most. Imagine everyday you have to prove your worth in the world of work, then you come back home and you have to prove to your woman why you are her best pick. Remember that a woman can never love you, only how you make her feel will make her fall for you.
Well said
you spitting facts my guy.
I agree with Sino, relationships only work when the girl loves the guy more, coz if it's vice versa she can leave anytime
I saw the same thing chief, especially the girl in white just had it out for him and making him feel wrong for wanting to be appraoched
I disagree a girl can like you by seeing the effort that you are putting in girls are natural givers that's a fact so they will reciprocate what you give in . That's how our parents did it . And most of the relationships have worked they are still married like what 36 years later they are still together that is why at home man a taught to be providers and they should offer security. A girl that likes you more is likely to be obsessed with you and you don't want that you will be annoyed and they will end up becoming a psycho. You will cheat on that girl knowing that she will forgive you and that will be hurting her contributing to a high number of suicide cases because girls are emotional being they just don't think sometimes. However if you go after a girl that doesn't not like you but she was taught well at home she will give what you give . Thats how it works boys should approach a challenge however it is our jobs as girls to keep it going . A happy wife a happy home . What am trying to saying is love can be learned if a guy respect you acts like man provides comforts you treats you good girls give in they are emotional beings they will start loving you
Sino always has solid points. everyone else just wants to be politically correct.
Hahaha sino is light skinned 😂
So true
Facts, and his views are dismissed unjustly, with no logical explanation or reasoning.
Yes for real and Mtho he acts like simp I don’t mean to be disrespectful but that’s a fact. Don’t be a simp bro
I disagree with you
Gents go for girl that likes you more instead of the one you want coz you’ll find yourself accepting or doing things you shouldn’t be doing.
Flop the one's that want us we don't want them
@@lawrencekgwadi5787😭😭😭😭
@@lawrencekgwadi5787 Flop is that the ones that you want are busy sleeping with your uncles.
Sino is so on point, the others prefer simps, feminized men. Simping is not a winning strategy for men. Well done Sino, for standing your ground!
Girls live in a world whereby they are always on the receiving end , meaning that guys are approaching and DMing them, she has constant options, its safer when she loves you more cos that limits her availability to pay attention to those options thus more available the relationship...as a guy even if I don't love the lady more I have to still try hard to get another girl. Its better for a girl to love more, for both your sakes lol
Damn I hate the fact that you actually got a point 😂😂 so y’all with Sino again 😂😭😭🚮
You got it right my brother 💯
Andrew Tate is that you?
@@KgaogelMaake 😂😂😂
Sino is the OG , he understands biological hypergamy
It's generally better for a relationship when the guy likes the girl more. The reason for this is that men are often socialized to be the "pursuer" in relationships, and so when they are more invested, it can create a dynamic that feels more balanced and comfortable for both partners.
I agree with Sino. There’s no time to be fighting someone that doesn’t even want you at the end of the day. Warm leads over cold leads. Chasing is not a problem but she must keep giving you hints that she is interested
Absolutely… spot on 💯 🔥🔥😂
I agree, The man should love the Lady more than she loves him and the Woman should respect her man more than anything. This is also soo Biblical, Ephesians 5:22-33 says it even!🤞
Oh yes 🤌🙌
I I actually discovered this channel yesterday by bumping into Sino's snippet somewhere, and I got interested because he's Redpill conscious. That basically means he understands female nature. First of all, what females say they want and what they nature want are two different things. Gents, how many times have you heard "I want a nice guy, a sweet guy, a guy who listens to me, a guy who tells me im beautiful, a guy who loves me,a guy who gives all his attention and showers me with gifts". Then she gets a dude who does all these things and jiki jiki the dude starts getting disrespected and basically undermined in all expects nje. Then umjita gets cheated on or dumped and the reason is "he's being too nice." Females naturally tend to get bored by nice and sweet guys, mostly because of how their nature is addicted to an emotional rollercoaster. So nice and sweet guys tend to keep there emotions at a consistent level, where they do almost anything to try keep his girl happy. Hence females tend to gravitate and fantasize more about the so called "bad boy" because she needs to fight for his attention, for his validation etc, so her emotions are challenged. It then gets very difficult for a female to detached from that guy because she put in alot of effort. So a nice guy will tend to give free attention, free validation, free gifts and anything free will never be valued, hence the nice guy gets to be walked all over because he gave the female everything on a platter. And in most cases nice guys are placeholders. A place holder is basically what Lebo said at 13:41 to 13:46. She'll say yes to you when you've been shelaring and been trying to convince her for a while. You've been placed as a placeholder because she hasn't been approached by the guy that she's attracted to. When that guy pops up into Lebo's life, the nice guy will be cheated on or dumped sssssso quick. When a female is totally attracted to a gent and sees that man as a guy of value, she gets more cooperative, more respectful etc because she knows that she needs to fight for her place in this guys life. And to Mthoko, convincing a female will be the end of you, you can convince someone to tolerate something or someone for a while'nyana but you'll never be able to convince someone to fall inlove or respect something or someone. Attraction needs to genuinely come from the individual. So i would advise young gents to focus on aquiring the neccessary things that will attract women to you, that is going to the gym, get a clear skin, refresh your haircuts, basically take male grooming very seriously because that gets you in the door. Physical attraction needs to be on point because physical attraction is the best form of attraction. The girl who broke my heart in Varsity in 2015 has a banging body, banging face and even though i dislike her as a person but that ass is still fat😅 .Gents also working on your social and communication skills, working on your studies, working on your money and basically being the best version of yourself. Be obsessed with constant improvement and yes i mean OBSESSED, because females will forever go for the best guy possible. It's in their nature to always look or go for the better option, it's called hypergamy. Women will always always fall for a guy who's physically attractive,who's ambitious, who's confident, who's getting his money up, who's emotionally stable and who's focused his purpose because he is the prize. When you're that guy, you get an entire pool of women wanting to be in your life, you then get to choose based on your personal criteria who would be the best fit for your life. That lady will value you and the relationship because she knows that 98% of guys aren't that guy, she knows that she had to put in a certain type of effort for you to choose her, she knows that she had to behave in a certain way for you to choose her, most importantly you being that guy,she'll know that if she behaves otherwise she'll be replaced tomorrow. That's how you get a respectful, cooperative female. Her behavior will earn her the spot, the attention, the validation and so forth. Never ever ever give a female attention and validation just because she's pretty. It's free validation that will never ever be valued. So as a gent if you not attracting the type of female you want, that means you need to work on yourself more. By working on yourself and improving different aspects of your life, you're giving yourself leverage to be the guy that women pick first. Dang that was long!!😂
Beautifully said,the work never stops from both parties for it to work. Be obsessed with self improvement, yes I mean women too, gaining weight is it and don’t take offence as he is losing attraction and is letting you know before he dips. We can tell man to level up, look and act like a man but wena you want to relax haibo.
And I read it imagine 😅
Y’all watch to much Fresh and Fit😂
Thanks !truely speaking
So Glad Sino Is Back I like his views we share almost the same views 🤣🤣🤣 what was that all About sino catching Stray Bullets for being light skinned
Light skinned men must fall we are tired 😂
I think its better when you're loved more but you're willing to receive the love , energy and appreciate it whether you are a female or male
I learn a lot here and the rest of the episodes. Plus it's fun.! CAN'T SKIP AN EPISODE
I'm still new here and the conversations they have are phenomenal. Thanks to the RUclips algorithm. This is really dope content❤🍻
But Sino is always on point guys.....he deserve trophy 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@OpenChatsPocast I’ve just found podcast so I’m catching up! But yhooo I’m hooked. Awesome stuff guys, well done!
#SinoForPresident
im probably 10 yrs older than everyone on this podcast but im learning something new with every episode, dope conversations as always, keep up the good work.
Thank you 🙏
I absolutely like this... Second to none. U guys are incredible
You are out numbered chief 😂 mina i agree with you... A hun that loves you more is wat gents need to go for
Her respect for you as a guy is equivalent to your love for her. So it’s should be balanced. But it’s safer for either genders to have a partner that loves them more more preferably for guy being like more. Always great having Sino and Thobile 🔥🔥
Beautiful outlook 🙌
Sino is speaking logic. Why are we playing games and fighting guys.. sibadala.
😂😂😂😂
Lekker episode guys, you know the vibes🤟🔥 Sino you're under attack chief😂😂
hahaha thanks for watching
I agree with Sino
It's better to get a girl that likes you more that's when u find peace
Y’all just want easy stuff that’s all 😂
@@OpenChatsPodcast it reduces levels of stress and depression 🤣
I actually support Sino, as a man you have to provide for your family. If she loves you more, you will be able to hustle for your family and chase success peacefully without any pressure because you get all the support and the love from her. However, if you love her more, you will want to be in many places at one, being afraid that dudes that are better than you might take here away.
Honestly this is why I play every possible angle w every hun I’m w regardless of what the dynamic is… One hand they are saying they want you to simp but only if you are what they are looking for(implicitly). On the other they say go ahead and simp but they won’t afford you the mercy of rejecting you outright & standing on it if you’re not what they are looking for(also implicitly), “hints should be enough”. They aren’t. It’s hard to tell who is genuine when they all show enough interest to keep you hooked and those rose tinted glasses aren’t doing anybody any favours. Rather be explicit & shatter my expectations than let me down easy.
First time watching this podcast...enjoyed the episode, when we log off RUclips we all on our own...so id say keep to your preferences.
This podcast is the best🔥, please drop atleast 2 episodes per week🙏
Working on it ❤😂
Best believe This is the best podcast in SA🎉🔥🔥❤️
Sino is talking from experience, which is what makes sense to those who experienced it both. Others(Mtho, Lerato) are only giving out opinions. As a guy who experienced both I say its more advisable for guys to go for girls who loves them more than they do, as a guy when u love more you lose all the touch to being a man or guy, even your Lady is gonna view u as being weak. And it's something that just happen naturally no matter how educated you are on the matter you'll still fall the victim of it. So I say to every Young man out there go for huns that love you more. It's much convenient, women provide love and Men provide strength. So if it's flipped chaos arise.
Y’all sound woke smart and wise 😂😂😂😂 till you like a girl who doesn’t like you more … what next
You gone leave her ? 😂
Probably I would invest more, not that I would leave her. Well it's another toxic trait that u acquire from heartbreak, and u begin to realize that the one who care less in a relationship rules the relationship.
Woundn't invest more *
@@mokoweodicious8277 noor man! You guys should learn to love people based on how you feel not beacause who loves who more …. So what happens when a girl likes u more and you ain’t feeling her that much … now u stay cze it’s safer for u 😂🤷♂️
The concept of love its self is difficult to understand, you know Men and women speak different love language. So my idea of love might not meet her idea of love, but if I show her d love she wants and make her love me more, my brother there is nothing wrong with that even if I don't love her more than she loves me, it's just a balancing mechanism. As long as in her mind thinks I love her that's enough
Love the show guys 🤟🏾💞🔥
Sino is a thousand times correct it’s much work to try and convince someone to like you!
Game can only take you so far especially in the honeymoon phase but for a relationship that is to be for the long run, authenticity is a must cause you can’t psycho-play each for eternity
From following this page on Facebook, twitter and now I'm here subscribing and keeping my notifications on
Thanks for tuning in bro
Welcome to the family my dawg 🤙
Sino was right on this episode. The girl must love the guy more because girls has more options then us guys.
And, the girl that you convinced to love you won't love you like the one that genuinely loved you from start.
bro you cant convince a girl to love , she will nvr does trust me
Love it here man. ❤
Guy's your podcast is really helping this side.str from pitori Hammanskraal ❤
A women's love is the foundation of a relationship - if she doesnt love you like that you are in a situation of convenience so a relationship works better when the girl likes the guy more. The girl already has a bunch of guys that like her more than she likes them so if you're not the one that she likes more then you are in a relationship of convenience. Now she may develop feelings for you yes but she may not or not as strong as yours and women operate more on feelings
so much truth in this 👏💯
Spot on🤝
Facts
This podcast actually gave me motivation to get in the game...shoutout
Shout out bro
I love u guys ❤and I I enjoy u podcast it's a shame for me I saw u guys late otherwise u killing it bros...
And Sino is never serious 😂😂but always put him on
Ay we learning here from these talks, keep up the good work
Bless up bro
Thanks for watching man 👊
Sino is always on point , hes so genuin
Just arrived, can’t wait to watch!
Hahah welcome to the party 🎉 🕺😂
This episode got me checking my feet🤣🤣
As new operator, let me camp her and catch up ❤️ absolutely love this podcast, big up Guys🙌
u guys are the best 🔥✌️🙏🏋best podcast
I love your topics gents, SINO heal ntwanayam you a great gent and Mtho cares about his bro😅✌🏾
Hahaha shout out man 😂
I really enjoy the conversations am from Zambia 🇿🇲,,,
Keep up the good work guy u are really impacting knowledge to youths 💕
Glad to hear that
We appreciate u
I'm thobile's fan no her no watch😅😅 keep it up boys and girls❤
I’m not lightskinned and I agree with Sino and Ngyamuzwa😭✊🏾
😂 mxm you lying you probably
You guys must drop an episode everyday. Your podcast has mad potential to be at the top. And keep inviting them females
Yoh everyday !! 😂
@@OpenChatsPodcast lol k maybe not everyday but atleast 2 or 3 episodes a week. BTW the two girls are keepers love how they think
Eish but Sino he's th victory of this Epsode really...th way he articulate eish everything is correct meen......
You guys love sino too much it’s not fair 😭😭😭
thank you for keeping us entertained bro💥💥
Thank youuu for tuning in 😊
Oh Mariano it’s you 😂😂
Relatable content guys 👏,fan.
Welcome to the family
Love love this show man 😭
We love you too Richard 😂
I prefer the girl to love me more because all I had to do is to play along and make sure that she feels like a princess and respect her feelings
You’re a scam you 😂😂😂😂
The boys and girls doing the most 🎉❤😂much love from roodepoort ❤🎉
Welcome to the family Roodeport 😂❤
Sino sino sino😹😹😹❤️ yha ne......nice one guyz❤Lebo um learning a lot from you❤❤from talking stage episode😂💓💓
Be careful of Lebo she’s a scam that one 😂😂 watch out
@@OpenChatsPodcast hauuu😂😂😂
Thobile that's a queen right there❤❤🔥🔥 facts on facts Ma Bhelekazi 🏆🔥
She’s a rare breed as sino said 💯
Keep on bringing the hot topics. I recently started watching this podcast and I love it
Glad you enjoy it.. welcome to the family 😂❤
This is the challenging one.🔥
But here is the question... why when we are saying the relationship works better when the guy loves the girl more we claim that it's because is very much guaranteed that the girl will love the guy back more but when it's a girl loving the guy more, there's no guarantee claimed? Meaning it's like y'all believe that the guy can't reciprocate the same love.
Sino is talking facts...
Go for the person that likes you most that's all...
Bruh learning a lot each episode s/o operaters
🤣🤣🤣 "We don't choose these feet!" I'm so dead🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm With Sino.... It's Way Better When The Girl Loves The Dude.... The Girls Takes A Guy For A Poes If He's A Simp 24:10
haha yea the dude had a point I won't lie
I fully agree with Sino, relationships are more likely to work if the girl likes the guy more
Im not the podcast type but is golden
Bro, she went from “your not gonna block me when I leave your place neh” to denying me a kiss saying “i don’t know you like that”😭
8:21 The way Mtho is laughing is like he has seen Sino being shouted at🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
RIP my president 🙏
Thanks 704 for contributing 😢
Parasino has a point...I will tell my little brother to go for a girl that loves him more instead of the one you want
😂😂that “let him talk” sounded so De Bruyne
😂😂😂 let him talkkk !!! 😂😭😭
Sino setting us up for success here 💯
DO NOT LISTEN TO THAT GUY IF YOU WANA GO FAR IN LIFE 😂
Yah''ll got something really good going on here. On this episode, I am with Sino though
I'm with Sino. if a guy loves a girl more, the girl will find the guy boring. she will think he's doing the guy a favour and she can do anything in the relationship, even piss the guy knowing very well she will get away with it.
I stand with Sino🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉plus Sino he approach ladies according their actions.......once he knew this 1 is a score 🎉🎉🎉he score for real coz of completion ❤
This uplifted my confidence shame 🤟🤟 danko
Glad you found value on this 😊
@@OpenChatsPodcast like I've been working on my confidence....MAN this blew my mind... Keep on pushing
Let Sino Cook ! 😤 , myekeleni umfana apheke 😂❤ love the energy and I strongly believe we still need Thobile for other conversations she has too much to offer ❤❤🙌
Thobile is Diva guys she chooses indoda over the podcast 😂😂😂
I don't blame her , it's cold mos 😂😂
Mtho's analogies 🤣🤣🔥
U knw guys am abit alder bt i really learning a lot bigup
"that's, the one, those are the ones that Muto likes, the ones that don't like him" 🤣😂🤣
just here to acknowledgethe beautiful ladies🥰
Haibo what about the gents 😂?
Thobile knows her chat😭🔥 she’s so well spoken, her delivery is on point, her facts are facting 😭🫵🏽❤️ love her loads ke sana
Thobile is the hope for South Africa 😂❤
There has to be a balance. You like me, I like you.
The moment the guy likes the girl more the problem is that the girl will start to think she is doing the guy a favor to be with him
I agree with Sino
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There's 3 people in a relationsip, you, them and the realtinship itself is an entity. So who like who more, I dont really care because it can be fluid over time, but what I need is us to like The Relationship more, that way we will always regardless of how we feel about ourselves or the other person, we will value the relationship and thus fix issues better.
Pour into the relationship, because thats what feeds us.
Mthokosizi is persuading us to buy😂❤..nice one mabrada
😂😂 buy what now ?
@@OpenChatsPodcast the authentic merch mabrada😭
@@user-jv1pu7lm6v why aren’t you guys buying 😭
What a Podcast❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥would help if you introduce the People first for those who are watching for the first time..otherwise I’m a Fan❤️❤️👊🏽😊
Haha thank you for watching welcome to the family 😊
Thanks for the suggestion … all I’m due time
I deleted the pics on my foun ....went to google photos ..found em there 😂😂😂we will never heal😂😂
I love this podcasts❤but what is up with their thumbnails😅
Mtho you forgot the cheat code to dating 😮😮😮😂 next episode please start with it
Mtho kodwa, always so eager to end episodes 😂
These people want to talk forever 😂
We love pick me girl's not that because it's easy it's because less of a headache...
Absolutely 🙌
both sides should love each other the preferable way because we all get irritated when the love is too much
True on paper but that will never be the case, someone will always love more
This question puts a condition, separate the condition and youll find that the girl and the guy should love each other at 100% everyone should fully and equally be invested in each other its that simple.
People, a relationship don't always work when a guy loves the girl more😕 these girls will take you for granted...
At 38:54 she just proved why the lady has to love the guy more 🤷🏽♂️
Haha you even have proof my G 😂
But it's a disadvantage because you will take that for granted and expect me to tolerate nonsense all in the name of "argh I know she loves me"
Yep!! Mtho gotta be pregnant 🤣🤣
Just kidding,I love these podcasts 🔥
Thank you 😊