"You don't study to get a job, you study to expand your knowledge ,insight and understanding". This is my take home. Thank you Vee for that insight and Mum for hosting Vee. God bless you!
This was such a much needed conversation. Women do so much yet they feel they’ve not done much. Motherhood is a gift but a lot of work. What I’ve learnt is: 1. Do what works for you, your kids and family. 2. Be practical about what you can and cannot do from one day to the next our schedules are too busy. 3. Fed is best. Breast feeding doesn’t work out for everyone. Bottle fed works as well. 4. C-section is not an easy option. I’ve had one as well as natural but I can tell you from experience c-section is the hardest. And yes you are a fully fledged woman even if you have a c-section. If natural birth and c-section children were lined up you couldn’t tell them apart. Neither are their life chances of success better or worse because of the way they were birthed into this world. 5. Your hubby should play a significant role in the rearing of the child not just a check. 6. Give yourself permission to leave the house. I stopped saying to hubby I’ll by meeting up with friends in such and such date are you available to look after the kids Now I let him know respectfully of course I’ll be gone on such and such date. I felt like I was asking permission to go out so he can look after the kids. They are his kids too. 7. A psychologist told me mum guilt is greedy…………it just never stops until you put a stop to it otherwise it will forever consume you. 8. Contrary to culture you come first. For your family to get the best of you put yourself first otherwise you are serving them left overs, what is left of you. Take that nap if you are overworked, look after your health physically and mentally. 9. Don’t compare you motherhood with someone else’s. Yours is dynamic and beautiful. Just as you have challenges, they too have challenges.
Great content.... I like that vee was open enough to talk to a fellow woman. And mom allowing her to express herself, I am her age, all is happening at the same time as well, i have more kids and it can drive one crazy! But again, we have to create balance.
"You don't study to get a job, you study to expand your knowledge ,insight and understanding". This is my take home. Thank you Vee for that insight and Mum for hosting Vee. God bless you!
I love love this.Mum I adore U.I hope 1 day i will become a woman of God like U,even though I have strayed in my ways.I know he came 4 the sinners
Listening to mom guilt conversation when i just woke up from reality that i was really neglecting my career,,aaww thanks Vanessa and mum❤❤❤
This was such a much needed conversation. Women do so much yet they feel they’ve not done much. Motherhood is a gift but a lot of work. What I’ve learnt is:
1. Do what works for you, your kids and family.
2. Be practical about what you can and cannot do from one day to the next our schedules are too busy.
3. Fed is best. Breast feeding doesn’t work out for everyone. Bottle fed works as well.
4. C-section is not an easy option. I’ve had one as well as natural but I can tell you from experience c-section is the hardest. And yes you are a fully fledged woman even if you have a c-section. If natural birth and c-section children were lined up you couldn’t tell them apart. Neither are their life chances of success better or worse because of the way they were birthed into this world.
5. Your hubby should play a significant role in the rearing of the child not just a check.
6. Give yourself permission to leave the house. I stopped saying to hubby I’ll by meeting up with friends in such and such date are you available to look after the kids Now I let him know respectfully of course I’ll be gone on such and such date. I felt like I was asking permission to go out so he can look after the kids. They are his kids too.
7. A psychologist told me mum guilt is greedy…………it just never stops until you put a stop to it otherwise it will forever consume you.
8. Contrary to culture you come first. For your family to get the best of you put yourself first otherwise you are serving them left overs, what is left of you. Take that nap if you are overworked, look after your health physically and mentally.
9. Don’t compare you motherhood with someone else’s. Yours is dynamic and beautiful. Just as you have challenges, they too have challenges.
I just love their relationship, like mine and mum,we talk everything,laugh and challenging each other in love
Great content.... I like that vee was open enough to talk to a fellow woman. And mom allowing her to express herself, I am her age, all is happening at the same time as well, i have more kids and it can drive one crazy! But again, we have to create balance.
What an intelligent young woman❤
I love your conversations Vanessa and Mum. Love the good hearted laughter and insights.❤
Beautiful 3 generations of beautiful women💕🎉
How I love your bond❤mum cathy you are so real,I love your mum and daughter one on one. Vanessa is o composed and I love everything about you.
Always looking forward to this conversations 💃💃🙌🙌
love love the show ❤
This is so amazing, you are teaching me a lot,I missed this conversations, welcome back mum and Vee ❤️❤️
Such a good Convo, Mum I adore you❤, such a vibe
Vee english is englishing I thought it was only me who suffer alone in my own house Godbless our kids ❤️❤️
This has been so wholesome. What a blessing. Thank you🙏
wow i like this talk mum daughter relationship top
The best ❤ I pray to have such conversations with my daughters 🙏
Love the show, great insight
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Mommy,Daughter correspondence! Love the rapport ❤
I love the bond and the conversation too
Good vibes 💓
I love Cathy 😂😂... I'm also not baking!
Its Vanessa baking skills does for me❤❤❤❤
Love Love Love
Great conversation
It's that part of Nia refusing to tell us who is Thande😂😂😂❤❤❤❤weeuh who are this kids of nowadays???
Rev Kathy is a real Naija woman particularly with her pigin ascent 😂😂😂😂😂 and dramatization
Waoooooh profound
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Your daughter is literally My Gaaaaal when one function is done immediately onto the next hihihi she's only six...
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