I’ve paid a little bit close attention to Ben’s personal life through the years because of an interaction I had with him once. My little brother is in a wheelchair full time. And we were in Brentwood CA at a Starbucks in 2014. Ben was in crazy good shape for Batman. He is incredibly intimidating in person. Wide shoulders and very serious looking. But I went for it and asked for a picture. He not only smiled hugely and gave me a pic, but he noticed my brother in his wheelchair and asked him how his day was going before kneeling down to take a picture with him. It blew me away and completely changed my perception of him. I think he gets a bad rap and deep down is a good person. Anyways just thought I would share 🤷♂️ it made my little brother feel very seen and it even made him a little bit emotional after it happened. So I will always appreciate Ben.
I believe it. I've e heard lots of stories about how he's nice in person. As opposed to her who leaves a bad impression on every stranger she meets. She's a condescending snob in person.
Thanks for sharing this! I like Ben and dislike that he is getting bashed on DM. JLo is overexposed but too addicted to stop with the paps, every effing day. My god she is out of control, and no wonder her kids seem to be despondent.
@@druseyfirecaster3675I could get attacked for my stance on this but I noticed Ben’s child transitioned from girl to boy once she spent time around Jlos kids…… I truly believe all the sites will trash Ben when the divorce is announced, but he will probably be so much more at peace once he doesn’t have to deal with her anymore. I heard from a buddy that she used to be very well known around Los Angeles for being very very rude to everyone even when Ben was kind. Feels like he’s just too physically attracted to her while his personality and personal life doesn’t mesh with hers in the slightest. He needs a way more chill girl in his life or maybe he’s just meant to be single. I believe he cares about his kids more than anything and Jlos kids have been a really bad influence in my personal opinion
I do believe Jlo knows all of what Diddy did back then and I am sure she was involved in all that. Or knew of his actions etc. But don't believe FBI handed anything to Ben. I also think he is divorcing her for showing everyone the Love Letters he wrote to her. She stepped over the line doing that. Without his permission. Such disrespect. I am sure it's a combination of things why he is divorcing her.
Agreed about their divorce. I don't read tons of comments but you're the only one I've read that brought up the betrayal of her broadcasting his love letters against his wishes. I.E. his feelings don't matter much to her.
@@shannonstevens2476 After all the media has splashed concerning. JLO. &. her betrayal …. those. Letters. Ben wrote over time, it appears this was JaLOs opportunity to “make. MONEY”’ for herself &. fund. A movie about their love. BOUNDARY. LINE !!! Ben’s love 4 her is “private”..their intimacy is sacred & should be. RESPECTED & sacred. !!! But NO !!! JLO. Was only thinking of what she could. GET. 4. HERSELF !!! Typical. NARCISSIST!!!! The TRUTH revealed 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@lifechanges557 she's so narcissistic, she shows it in going on the defense and Ben hasn't been slamming her, he has had a battle with his demons, but he's nothing but a heart with talent 💓
I have never heard jlo to ever make an apology for anything shes done wrong. Nor has she ever made any statement on the whole p diddy thing. Cus if she was so innocent, she wouldve already came out with a statement. Shes been caught doin wrong to so many people and even the way she treated her staff and fans like garbage and shes never once made any apology. Shes an extreme narcissist. She may look pretty but shes a pretty toxic rotten person inside.
It has something to do with the Diddy mess on top of everything else. She needs to get knocked down with Diddy, too. Ben doesnt want to go down with HER. Dont blame him at all.
An FBI Agent called me out of the blue to ask about my attorney from 5 years ago. Then asked about everything I'd seen or heard and about my relationship with him. The Ageñt told me the crime he had committed but did not show me any evidence. I asked why me since I hadn't seen my attorney in 5 years. He said that before going to court the FBI gather so much evidence that a guilty verdict is pretty much guaranteed. FBI Agents are like terriers they don't stop until they get there man/woman.
@@ep9421 if you ask me, he should be more embarrassed for what he’s done to her in front of everyone it will backfire they’re both not perfect but they’re both going to pay
@@ep9421 that’s right he never should’ve talked her into it. He was just damn confused. She doesn’t understand. He’s just an addict. She never really been with an addict. Alcohol is liquid drug that’s what it is.
Diddys being exposed and now jlo will too unless she probably goes back to diddy but for sure if she tries to ruin Ben... she'll lose ALL she has so she better watch herself and her circle
@@RoseofSharon-2335yeah that train seems to have already left the station, she's got NO control over her being exposed as diddys dirt comes out. But what she'll NEVER do is admit her part she played in it back then. She'll find a way to spin the narrative by blaming all the ppl around her. She DOES NOT care about her circle. What are they gonna do, cancel her? She did that on her own especially with this wackadoodle video/movie she just did. Nobody really likes her so she's not gonna rat on herself no matter how painfully clear the evidence all
Her hands are dirty. She carried the gun in her purse that evening that shot the woman in the face. She perjured herself in court to protect Diddy who was probably blackmailing her for all her involvement in his dirty shit. She stayed with him for two years, she was a whole grown married to someone else woman. She tries to say she was a kid. No, a sixteen-year-old is a kid, she was a grown married woman when she hooked up with Diddy when he was with his ex and kids. She probably was involved in many of Diddy's atrocities.
@RuthMorales-jm5nh medina her manager has also been accused for nearly raping Jason Dottley, if you read in detail what he did, so messed up! And jlo has had him next to her for decades and he dare insult Ben and jlo allow it
The timing makes a lot of sense. I agree that Ben could never look at her the same way again. Jlo must have lied so much to Ben back in the days over the shooting, but suddenly he would've received damning evidence, post Diddy raid, that she is a criminal and a nasty woman
Ben is still very close to ex Jenmifer Garner and somehow I see him discussing it with her and her reminding him about his sobriety and how he promised to keep their kids safe. I said it when the news broke that she carried the gun. He moved out right around thete. Someone came to him with some clear cut stuff.
The timeline says it all. After Casey’s tape came out and the Diddy raid, JLo and Ben’s public outing have been minimal to zero. What ever JLo and Diddy did back in the day must have been pretty bad. So bad that Ben cannot be married to her. Makes common sense. Track the timeline.
Jlo manipulated Ben into the marriage ! She knew what she was doing but it’s all catching up either way her ! She’ll ruin anyone’s life to get to the top of her manipulative game !
@@deedee9312 But Ben pursued her not the other way around. He repeatedly reached out to her even when she was in a relationship with A-Rod and he proposed to her and he wanted them to hurry and marry in Vegas. Takes 2 to tango…
I don't think the Feds gave him info, but I think he found something out . Maybe she told him she was never involved in Diddy's stuff, and he found out differently.
A lot of people didn't know. Ever since jlo wore the Versace dress that flooded the media and the lies in court were accepted, that's where it all got burried not ended, so now Carrie comes out of the grave to haunt all of the liars
The problem with J Lo Is she thinks she’s more of a Superstar than she is. While she works hard she seems to be a tyrant and Difficult. Her voice is average and she has other artists hit some of her high notes without ever giving credit to back up singers.Diddy set her up as a cross over artist pushing her career forward.
Not a fan of Jennifer Lopez. She comes across as being full of herself. I wouldn't spend a dime to go see her in any of her shows. I am, however, a very big fan of Jennifer Garner and the amazing Shakira!
@@dorispowell8927idk enough of these peoples' past but i feel like Garner keeps much of her life out of the public eye atleast to me it seems that way cuz i heart nothing about her unless she's cooking in her kitchen or video calling her mom. Nothing salacious, so to me, i kinda agree, she carries herself classier (then jlo at least) imo
She’s potentially an accomplice along the lines of Ghilane Maxwell. She co-hosted these freak off parties as his girlfriend; she knows exactly what happened there. She carried the gun in the club shooting, witnesses have reported. They both should’ve been jailed
couldve felt like coersion if he knew he was violent . wouldnt YOU be afraid of saying no to a msn who just shot a woman in the face?? U lying if u say no
@sleepnomore6065 diddy had already done evil before that day. Diddy ain't a hunter and wasn't going to use that gun to hunt so jlo knew exactly what it would be used for and did have a choice, just like she did leave diddy later after the club attempted murder, THAT'S how she could've done before that day when he offered her to pack heat for him. Don't make lame excuses for the jlo who bragged how she liked the bad boy
But he has no right because she had signed the papers to be the spokesperson of DelLola long before they reunited. In fact, A-Rod was instrumental in that partnership. She can’t do anything about that!
So Federal law allows the witness spouse to break Spousal Privilege in a criminal trial. So if true he could testify to things he learned from JLo during the marriage and if she is indicted it does not count as hearsay.
@@TinaGillispie-s7x Sure she has her own money, but she's deliberately trying to hurt him in his pocket just to be evil and vindictive. I swear, I can't stand her!
I’m sure he’s seen everything and he was aware she was involved, but his marriage was toxic and Controlling so to have that in his marriage who wouldn’t want out!!!
JLo was at the time night club shooting already a chart topping lip-syncher. He would never touch her like he did Cassie who was basically unknown until the tape on Diddy assaulting her was released by CNN. And yes, JLo handed the gun to Diddy. The victim who survived one of the shots (to her face no less) has already testified to this. Ben and JLo are history for many reasons with this Diddy situation being one of them.
It stopped...because he realized...she hasn't changed one uota...and is just as attention hungry as she was back in the day, which kikled their relationship back then. She did not grow out if it
And she was sleeping with Keenan wayons during her time in living colour. This woman is calculated and WOULD DO ANYTHING to elevate her career. ANYTHING! Very calculated, vain and narcissistic
Andy it makes so much sense. It was weird, to a lot of ppl. U do know about the rumors that caused all the drama of In Living Color dont u? Rumor is JLo had a full relationship with Keenan. And that he was in a full long term relationship.
Ben, probably knows people who had access to the tapes. Gave him a heads up since her name would be mentioned and it would not be good for his name. I so agree this is a definite possibility this is why he wants nothing to do with her.
I knew it wasn't a coincidence that he dropped her right around the same time Diddy gets caught up. It must be something pretty serious for him to divorce her after waiting 20 yrs to be together!
Birds of a feather flock together, JLo was with Diddy what do you think. Being with Diddy is sign sealed and delivered. She can't change that.Besides JLo is always about showing skin and way too much of it. Shows her insecurities. Wanting attention in the wrong way. Not classy!! Ben should be glad to get out of that relationship plus getting his kids away from her. Don't worry age will get JLo it gets all of us there is no way of getting out of it. I am sure she knows and has been involved with what Diddy did and does. She is not going to say anything I am sure she doesn't want to end up dead like his wufe.
I said this over a month ago to everybody Ben wasn’t gonna stick around because shit was gonna come out about Diddy and it did and that’s the whole reason. Benny was on J Lo‘s ass to get her away from him and plan the whole thing out where she left and didn’t go back to him so she knows a lot, she also really knows what happened with the shooting that night
I think the Diddy case was just the icing on the cake for B. Seems like J started making the movie, documentary, etc etc etc alright after the wedding. (That woman suddenly became sooooooo busy) Thats why Jane Fonda had to remind her about marriage priorities, especially in the beginning. First year or two should have been their honeymoon phase. But if we dont water the garden we might not get ripped cherries.
honestly, a little humble, I CALLED IT) not all the reason for DV but she TOTALLY was 'involved' and she stayed with him for how long after that incident... well his complete history of that 8 months
As a casual listener to the gossip of the stars, I knew Ben was done when I heard about Jen and Diddy's connections, especially with the "pew pew" in that club. I think by Ben's behavior anyway towards Jen, he was just looking for a real way out.
I totally share the same sentiments with Andy. Jlo is still involved with Diddy like money laundering (allegedly) and, gun carrier for Diddy when they were together. A witness of the crime and lied about it. Besides he realized that Jlo is like a mob wife. As bad as the mob, obnoxious, treats common people like dirt. And him getting to compare his ex-wife from this woman who is narcissist and very controlling. Besides, how did Jlo get so rich despite living the high life and employing people who kiss her big butt 24 hrs. How come she has not called out Diddy.
This the reason I figured for divorce! But Ben wouldn’t allow his daughters anywhere near the people she knows or has known. This is full PapaBear move!
Reaping what she's sown.. well deserved. Her not saying anything about Cassey is a BIG red flag and solidifies the type of person she is. No accountability
He made a post about how horrible people were on social media right after the Diddy stuff started coming out and then after that the breakup rumors started 🤷
I kind of wonder if, after all the stuff about Diddy started coming out and JLo started getting brought back up for her past relationship with him and the whole 🔫 thing, if Ben started asking questions about what went on while she was with D and if she would be on any of those tapes seized by the feds, or if she could or would be linked to any other illegal or vile things involving him, and if she came clean and told him that it was all possible and/ or inevitable that she would be.
I saw that he got very upset that she a new business selling an alcoholic beverage, and she had lots of parties with the alcohol flowing, it was too much for him.
Ben Affleck has an interesting rumored background. If that rumored background is true, then yes...Affleck has either seen or heard of the tapes. And no, he will not go public. BTW, Ben Affleck's first wife has the same ties as Ben.
Ben is embarrassed and repulsed, I would be to and because her career is failing her told her not to fund her projects and lost millions now she’s an embarrassment to him as will
The FBI would show the videos if they wanted ben to get jennifer to talk about p. Diddy or to get information out of Ben that JLo has told him before the marriage. The prosecution would want ben to volunteer testimony. Cant force a testimony from spouse.
JLO back in the day was desperate to gain fame and money. That's why she was with Diddler in the first place. I'm pretty sure she was ready for anything with him. It payed off - she made it - fame and fortune was hers, but at what cost? I hope we will learn soon.
When the raid happened, it probably had people talking. Even if among themselves. You can accept skeletons in someones closet, but if they don't see what they have done as wrong, or have a different moral compass, that can cause a rift. Looking at Jlo and her conceit, she still think nothing about any behavior is wrong. Or may refuse to cooperate and he does not agree. Last time they broke up, Ben had an awakening and didn't want to go down her road. May be the same thing this time. He realizes that ass does NOT translate to happiness.
Ok people I will be entering the “assume” realm but bear with me: someone in the comments said that it was not the nightclub incident but something else! So hear me out! Let’s assume we know how abu**ve people are and assume that what PDiddy did to Cassie was done in the past (I know: it’s difficult! 👀). Let’s assume that that person is JLo, she can dance, act (or whatever) but can’t sing. She knows she needs to do what it takes to make it in the music industry, so PDiddy does those freak off with her (with S*x workers and all) records and uses it to keep her there. Then comes the night club incident and she knows she got him: he deletes (or gives her) the recordings, and in exchange she lies under oath and they go separate ways? Perfect! Now Ben is no dumb and knows she lied about the nightclub, they don’t talk about it, but EVERYONE knows (even me in Portugal 😂) but imagine if someone at the FBI (a friend or a friend of a friend) contacts Ben and tells him about those tapes? Either he gets mad because this is his wife in that position, or he knows his rep can’t take this hit, and he needs to clean the house before this gets out?! That would explain the timeline of events and why he needs to get out now!
It is strange how silence it has been lately, I don’t think that’s a reason why the divorce is happening. I think he cannot take her anymore. It’s possible he found out something about her and Diddy. It’s a possibility, but I don’t think the FBI actually sent him videos. She’s just a mean girl, and she’s very too demanding of Ben and I can’t blame him!
Ben didn’t marry her twice. They were first engaged and about to be married, but then broke up. That’s why this marriage was so big. It was like the ‘dream’ that wasn’t realized till recently, but now no more.
Yea I don't think the fbi was like" imma ruin your relationship " maybe JLos lawyer got word she may get a subpoena for Diddy investigation and Ben doesn't want to get dragged into it
Jlo is the supreme narcissist. Look at the way she orchestrates the paps and has her photos photoshopped. She spends millions upon millions to ensure she has her photos taken at the right time and place plus all the editing. Who does that? A narcissist like Jlo that spends millions on her image
In creative writing they say “show don’t tell.” Great love stories are best lived, not shown. The lack of judgment and privacy must feel like torture to a private person.
He's cut nearly all his hair off .. has a little mohawk now. It's like what women do when they're getting someone out their life - cut their hair short.
I’ve paid a little bit close attention to Ben’s personal life through the years because of an interaction I had with him once. My little brother is in a wheelchair full time. And we were in Brentwood CA at a Starbucks in 2014. Ben was in crazy good shape for Batman. He is incredibly intimidating in person. Wide shoulders and very serious looking. But I went for it and asked for a picture. He not only smiled hugely and gave me a pic, but he noticed my brother in his wheelchair and asked him how his day was going before kneeling down to take a picture with him. It blew me away and completely changed my perception of him. I think he gets a bad rap and deep down is a good person. Anyways just thought I would share 🤷♂️ it made my little brother feel very seen and it even made him a little bit emotional after it happened. So I will always appreciate Ben.
That's cool.
I believe it. I've e heard lots of stories about how he's nice in person. As opposed to her who leaves a bad impression on every stranger she meets. She's a condescending snob in person.
Thanks for sharing this! I like Ben and dislike that he is getting bashed on DM. JLo is overexposed but too addicted to stop with the paps, every effing day. My god she is out of control, and no wonder her kids seem to be despondent.
❤❤❤❤😭😭
@@druseyfirecaster3675I could get attacked for my stance on this but I noticed Ben’s child transitioned from girl to boy once she spent time around Jlos kids…… I truly believe all the sites will trash Ben when the divorce is announced, but he will probably be so much more at peace once he doesn’t have to deal with her anymore. I heard from a buddy that she used to be very well known around Los Angeles for being very very rude to everyone even when Ben was kind. Feels like he’s just too physically attracted to her while his personality and personal life doesn’t mesh with hers in the slightest. He needs a way more chill girl in his life or maybe he’s just meant to be single. I believe he cares about his kids more than anything and Jlos kids have been a really bad influence in my personal opinion
I think JLo went along with Diddy because she was so determined to be famous. 💯
Unfortunately I think your right
Maybe she also sought protection from tony mottola
She sold whatever soul she had.
She is at mega star status for a reason.......yes, absolutely involved
Boy. Oh. Boy. !!! You said. It !!! Seems. She SOLD. Her. SOUL. to the DEVIL !!!!! Jesus is the only way. !!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
The fact we have heard zip from Jlo, condemning Diddys shenanigans, tells a LOT
I do believe Jlo knows all of what Diddy did back then and I am sure she was involved in all that. Or knew of his actions etc. But don't believe FBI handed anything to Ben.
I also think he is divorcing her for showing everyone the Love Letters he wrote to her. She stepped over the line doing that. Without his permission. Such disrespect. I am sure it's a combination of things why he is divorcing her.
Yeah I don't see the fbi handing anyone any kind of evidence I mean they could though because they treat celebs way differently
Agreed about their divorce. I don't read tons of comments but you're the only one I've read that brought up the betrayal of her broadcasting his love letters against his wishes. I.E. his feelings don't matter much to her.
@@shannonstevens2476 After all the media has splashed concerning. JLO. &. her betrayal …. those. Letters. Ben wrote over time, it appears this was JaLOs opportunity to “make. MONEY”’ for herself &. fund. A movie about their love. BOUNDARY. LINE !!! Ben’s love 4 her is “private”..their intimacy is sacred & should be. RESPECTED & sacred. !!! But NO !!! JLO. Was only thinking of what she could. GET. 4. HERSELF !!! Typical. NARCISSIST!!!! The TRUTH revealed 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@lifechanges557 she's so narcissistic, she shows it in going on the defense and Ben hasn't been slamming her, he has had a battle with his demons, but he's nothing but a heart with talent 💓
It could be a diddy connection. Or could it be Ben had some bad surprises after the JLo premiere? We’ll never know.
I have never heard jlo to ever make an apology for anything shes done wrong. Nor has she ever made any statement on the whole p diddy thing. Cus if she was so innocent, she wouldve already came out with a statement. Shes been caught doin wrong to so many people and even the way she treated her staff and fans like garbage and shes never once made any apology. Shes an extreme narcissist. She may look pretty but shes a pretty toxic rotten person inside.
She’s a true narcissist
Nail on the head 100%!!
It has something to do with the Diddy mess on top of everything else. She needs to get knocked down with Diddy, too. Ben doesnt want to go down with HER. Dont blame him at all.
Facts
But he's a fool he should have known better . Ben has been used and abused... Ben grow a set
And she wondeted why no one wanted to be in her ridiculous self absorbed movie!
😂
J Ho was DELUDED thinking that this marriage was going to last.
What an embarrassment making the stupid movie.
An FBI Agent called me out of the blue to ask about my attorney from 5 years ago. Then asked about everything I'd seen or heard and about my relationship with him. The Ageñt told me the crime he had committed but did not show me any evidence. I asked why me since I hadn't seen my attorney in 5 years. He said that before going to court the FBI gather so much evidence that a guilty verdict is pretty much guaranteed.
FBI Agents are like terriers they don't stop until they get there man/woman.
@@ep9421 if you ask me, he should be more embarrassed for what he’s done to her in front of everyone it will backfire they’re both not perfect but they’re both going to pay
I'm not really caught up or followed j lo & ben's relationship. What has he done to her in public? @REBECCAPGARZAMEV
@@ep9421 that’s right he never should’ve talked her into it. He was just damn confused. She doesn’t understand. He’s just an addict. She never really been with an addict. Alcohol is liquid drug that’s what it is.
Who is the victim here? So what if they don't fit? Why are people bad on JLo?
Love Ben Affleck and the fact that Matt Damon, a highly intelligent man, is a longtime friend, speaks volumes… justice for Ben! ❤
I totally agree 👍🏻
I think she won't expose Diddy because she knows once she does, she will also be exposed.
Diddys being exposed and now jlo will too unless she probably goes back to diddy but for sure if she tries to ruin Ben... she'll lose ALL she has so she better watch herself and her circle
@@RoseofSharon-2335yeah that train seems to have already left the station, she's got NO control over her being exposed as diddys dirt comes out. But what she'll NEVER do is admit her part she played in it back then. She'll find a way to spin the narrative by blaming all the ppl around her. She DOES NOT care about her circle. What are they gonna do, cancel her? She did that on her own especially with this wackadoodle video/movie she just did. Nobody really likes her so she's not gonna rat on herself no matter how painfully clear the evidence all
Her hands are dirty. She carried the gun in her purse that evening that shot the woman in the face. She perjured herself in court to protect Diddy who was probably blackmailing her for all her involvement in his dirty shit. She stayed with him for two years, she was a whole grown married to someone else woman. She tries to say she was a kid. No, a sixteen-year-old is a kid, she was a grown married woman when she hooked up with Diddy when he was with his ex and kids. She probably was involved in many of Diddy's atrocities.
@RuthMorales-jm5nh medina her manager has also been accused for nearly raping Jason Dottley, if you read in detail what he did, so messed up!
And jlo has had him next to her for decades and he dare insult Ben and jlo allow it
The timing makes a lot of sense. I agree that Ben could never look at her the same way again. Jlo must have lied so much to Ben back in the days over the shooting, but suddenly he would've received damning evidence, post Diddy raid, that she is a criminal and a nasty woman
The woman who was shot in the face that night said JLo carried the gun in her purse. Alshe is working really hard to seem happy.
Ben is still very close to ex Jenmifer Garner and somehow I see him discussing it with her and her reminding him about his sobriety and how he promised to keep their kids safe. I said it when the news broke that she carried the gun. He moved out right around thete. Someone came to him with some clear cut stuff.
Katt Williams was right, he said 2024 all Truth will come out, no matter who you are. The year is not over yet😊
I know, that's so wild!!
Yes, Ben and Jen Garner are close and that is such a great thing for their family. The other Jen gives out Markle vibes.
Ben Affleck moved out of his and JLo mansion 12 bedroom 24 bath separate guest house in March 2024
@@druseyfirecaster3675 drusey ya Nailed it!!!
The timeline says it all. After Casey’s tape came out and the Diddy raid, JLo and Ben’s public outing have been minimal to zero. What ever JLo and Diddy did back in the day must have been pretty bad. So bad that Ben cannot be married to her. Makes common sense. Track the timeline.
The timing of the demise of their marriage does coincide with the whole Diddy debacle, I noticed that at the time!
Same. There's no way it's just a coincidence.
Jlo manipulated Ben into the marriage ! She knew what she was doing but it’s all catching up either way her ! She’ll ruin anyone’s life to get to the top of her manipulative game !
She wanted Ben beack to be relevant again. It was not love for Ben but love for attention and luxury life. Ben was her ticket to more $
@@przejebanalaska AMEN !!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
She wanted Ben to use him for the Oscar which she will never get.
@@deedee9312 But Ben pursued her not the other way around. He repeatedly reached out to her even when she was in a relationship with A-Rod and he proposed to her and he wanted them to hurry and marry in Vegas. Takes 2 to tango…
Yes she was involved with that night club situation!
I don't think the Feds gave him info, but I think he found something out . Maybe she told him she was never involved in Diddy's stuff, and he found out differently.
A lot of people didn't know. Ever since jlo wore the Versace dress that flooded the media and the lies in court were accepted, that's where it all got burried not ended, so now Carrie comes out of the grave to haunt all of the liars
Anyone that has been involved in any way with Diddy knows its going to catch up with them..just a matter of time.😅
The problem with J Lo Is she thinks she’s more of a Superstar than she is. While she works hard she seems to be a tyrant and Difficult. Her voice is average and she has other artists hit some of her high notes without ever giving credit to back up singers.Diddy set her up as a cross over artist pushing her career forward.
JLo can not sing ! She has been stealing voices, songs, styles for 30 years! 💔💔💔
Not a fan of Jennifer Lopez. She comes across as being full of herself. I wouldn't spend a dime to go see her in any of her shows. I am, however, a very big fan of Jennifer Garner and the amazing Shakira!
I agree!
@@AlicePerez-ys3qu I agree with you all the way.
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I am for JL
@lorycrisostomo5000 OK Benny Medina,😂
💯 someone gave Ben some intel or tapes of something that would make him look at her differently to leave that quick…. It’s just too coincidental
..and to not go down with the ship.
Something must of happened to get him to move on so abruptly. I bet she's shocked .
A nasty woman with a past. Poor Ben.
Garner is classy not Jlo
AGREED DEFINITELY
@@debjordan6810 Classy??????
Poor Ben wanted her like a child wants candy. Got what he deserved
@@dorispowell8927idk enough of these peoples' past but i feel like Garner keeps much of her life out of the public eye atleast to me it seems that way cuz i heart nothing about her unless she's cooking in her kitchen or video calling her mom. Nothing salacious, so to me, i kinda agree, she carries herself classier (then jlo at least) imo
She’s potentially an accomplice along the lines of Ghilane Maxwell. She co-hosted these freak off parties as his girlfriend; she knows exactly what happened there. She carried the gun in the club shooting, witnesses have reported. They both should’ve been jailed
Exactly. She's complicit.
couldve felt like coersion if he knew he was violent . wouldnt YOU be afraid of saying no to a msn who just shot a woman in the face?? U lying if u say no
@sleepnomore6065 diddy had already done evil before that day.
Diddy ain't a hunter and wasn't going to use that gun to hunt so jlo knew exactly what it would be used for and did have a choice, just like she did leave diddy later after the club attempted murder, THAT'S how she could've done before that day when he offered her to pack heat for him.
Don't make lame excuses for the jlo who bragged how she liked the bad boy
@@sleepnomore6065 he was never violent with her. There's witnesses. And JL said she'll always love him.
@@sleepnomore6065 he didn't coerce her into doing anything. Nice try.
I also read Ben was upset that she endorses her own alcohol line and it doesn’t support his sobriety.
That's nonsense. That's just a story her PR ppl are putting out to do damage control. He knew about her Delola brand BEFORE the wedding
If he's upset, it would be because why is she doing it and doesn't she have enough money already? It's a money grab and I hope it fails.
If that IS true, that’s really silly in my opinion.
@@slimbob7553 it's not true
But he has no right because she had signed the papers to be the spokesperson of DelLola long before they reunited. In fact, A-Rod was instrumental in that partnership. She can’t do anything about that!
So Federal law allows the witness spouse to break Spousal Privilege in a criminal trial. So if true he could testify to things he learned from JLo during the marriage and if she is indicted it does not count as hearsay.
😮
I haven’t seen her with her kids much at all!
No. This is his first marriage to Jlo. 2nd engagement. They were like oil and water.
Ben never seemed well or happy except when he was with his male buddies. JLo is asking court for spousal support, ridiculous, she has her own money.
@@TinaGillispie-s7x Sure she has her own money, but she's deliberately trying to hurt him in his pocket just to be evil and vindictive. I swear, I can't stand her!
@@BitchinMusic-sc2lo Sure there is a prenup, they didn't make it a year.
I’m sure he’s seen everything and he was aware she was involved, but his marriage was toxic and Controlling so to have that in his marriage who wouldn’t want out!!!
JLo was at the time night club shooting already a chart topping lip-syncher. He would never touch her like he did Cassie who was basically unknown until the tape on Diddy assaulting her was released by CNN. And yes, JLo handed the gun to Diddy. The victim who survived one of the shots (to her face no less) has already testified to this. Ben and JLo are history for many reasons with this Diddy situation being one of them.
I'm sorry if you don't know who Cassie was, a lot of us did, and have for some time! ❤
How do you know she handed him the gun? Why is everyone so convinced she carried the weapon into the club? Bizarre
@@sons1869 There's video and witnesses
I think your right about Ben finding out. I hope Ben Affleck can heal and move on
It stopped...because he realized...she hasn't changed one uota...and is just as attention hungry as she was back in the day, which kikled their relationship back then.
She did not grow out if it
*iota
@@mrsx7944 really?..you are compelled to correct a typo as if it were a grammatical error? 🤣
@@PoiDog2266 yes
@@mrsx7944 well, you missed kikled
"My Dog Stepped On A Bee", how did that play into Amber's court case. 😂😂😂
It’s possible that’s the reason. Hopefully time will show all the sick things that go on or went on in that case.
I love Jennifer gardener
Jlo was with Diddy to become famous. I believe this could definitely be a reason maybe not the only but the straw that broke the camels back.
And she was sleeping with Keenan wayons during her time in living colour. This woman is calculated and WOULD DO ANYTHING to elevate her career. ANYTHING!
Very calculated, vain and narcissistic
Looking forward to seeing you here in the UK! It’s 1am and I’m here for you Andy
Andy it makes so much sense. It was weird, to a lot of ppl. U do know about the rumors that caused all the drama of In Living Color dont u? Rumor is JLo had a full relationship with Keenan. And that he was in a full long term relationship.
Wow!
I used to love that show.
This the first hearing of this but it would not surprise me.
Jlo has been lying for Jhoe. Truth and Justice for Natalia Rueben❤
Yes, we want Justice ⚖️ for Natania Reuben!!!🩵🩵🩵
I think Ben was over it a while ago and this was the final straw.
Ben, probably knows people who had access to the tapes. Gave him a heads up since her name would be mentioned and it would not be good for his name. I so agree this is a definite possibility this is why he wants nothing to do with her.
Sometimes it's just life experience and actually living with someone long enough to see it was a mistake.
Now it makes sense how she got famous.
She had sheit on Diddy and to keep her mouth shut he gave her Hollywood.
I'm with ya on this. Go Ben!
Didn’t she and arod do a live with diddy during the pandemic? They were still close then
They did and flirted with eachother in it, you can tell and she liked the attention
Hollywood in its self has gone quiet..... they are all hiding 😂😂
I knew it wasn't a coincidence that he dropped her right around the same time Diddy gets caught up.
It must be something pretty serious for him to divorce her after waiting 20 yrs to be together!
exactly)
He seemed really into her in her documentary footage. It soured fast.
It was a quick breakup
So it had to be something concrete!!!!!!
@@debbiekelley9968 agree. You're not going to walk out on your NEW wife without there being a very good reason..
Birds of a feather flock together, JLo was with Diddy what do you think. Being with Diddy is sign sealed and delivered. She can't change that.Besides JLo is always about showing skin and way too much of it. Shows her insecurities. Wanting attention in the wrong way. Not classy!! Ben should be glad to get out of that relationship plus getting his kids away from her. Don't worry age will get JLo it gets all of us there is no way of getting out of it. I am sure she knows and has been involved with what Diddy did and does. She is not going to say anything I am sure she doesn't want to end up dead like his wufe.
Jlo is embarrassed..
I said this over a month ago to everybody Ben wasn’t gonna stick around because shit was gonna come out about Diddy and it did and that’s the whole reason. Benny was on J Lo‘s ass to get her away from him and plan the whole thing out where she left and didn’t go back to him so she knows a lot, she also really knows what happened with the shooting that night
The timing of there separation seems to be very close to the d I d d y raid
I think the Diddy case was just the icing on the cake for B. Seems like J started making the movie, documentary, etc etc etc alright after the wedding. (That woman suddenly became sooooooo busy) Thats why Jane Fonda had to remind her about marriage priorities, especially in the beginning. First year or two should have been their honeymoon phase. But if we dont water the garden we might not get ripped cherries.
honestly, a little humble, I CALLED IT) not all the reason for DV but she TOTALLY was 'involved' and she stayed with him for how long after that incident... well his complete history of that 8 months
I also think JLo was really awful to his kids - bordering on abuse.
As a casual listener to the gossip of the stars, I knew Ben was done when I heard about Jen and Diddy's connections, especially with the "pew pew" in that club. I think by Ben's behavior anyway towards Jen, he was just looking for a real way out.
In her video seems she touches on the subject of an abusive relationship - I immediately assumed it was Diddy
She had to pay to get in the 20 million dollar club. Cannot make it to the top without that blood libel.
maybe ben realized his concept of jlo is a mirage
I totally share the same sentiments with Andy. Jlo is still involved with Diddy like money laundering (allegedly) and, gun carrier for Diddy when they were together. A witness of the crime and lied about it. Besides he realized that Jlo is like a mob wife. As bad as the mob, obnoxious, treats common people like dirt. And him getting to compare his ex-wife from this woman who is narcissist and very controlling. Besides, how did Jlo get so rich despite living the high life and employing people who kiss her big butt 24 hrs. How come she has not called out Diddy.
JLo hasn't called Diddy out on anything except that she left him bcs he was cheating on her, for her own safety she knows what he is capable of.
Because he bribed her
This the reason I figured for divorce! But Ben wouldn’t allow his daughters anywhere near the people she knows or has known. This is full PapaBear move!
Reaping what she's sown.. well deserved. Her not saying anything about Cassey is a BIG red flag and solidifies the type of person she is. No accountability
He made a post about how horrible people were on social media right after the Diddy stuff started coming out and then after that the breakup rumors started 🤷
Late to the party as usual but watching from UK, not London but up North 🎉
I kind of wonder if, after all the stuff about Diddy started coming out and JLo started getting brought back up for her past relationship with him and the whole 🔫 thing, if Ben started asking questions about what went on while she was with D and if she would be on any of those tapes seized by the feds, or if she could or would be linked to any other illegal or vile things involving him, and if she came clean and told him that it was all possible and/ or inevitable that she would be.
Great show Andy. Thank you ❤
Maybe linking the FBI raid done earlier in the year and a timeline of when they stop going out together and/or they separated.
I saw that he got very upset that she a new business selling an alcoholic beverage, and she had lots of parties with the alcohol flowing, it was too much for him.
Heck yeah I agree he was notified that she was in Diddy's videos and was up to some shady stuff!
Ben Affleck has an interesting rumored background. If that rumored background is true, then yes...Affleck has either seen or heard of the tapes. And no, he will not go public. BTW, Ben Affleck's first wife has the same ties as Ben.
Ben is embarrassed and repulsed, I would be to and because her career is failing her told her not to fund her projects and lost millions now she’s an embarrassment to him as will
I agree- Ben know what’s on some tapes etc
The FBI would show the videos if they wanted ben to get jennifer to talk about p. Diddy or to get information out of Ben that JLo has told him before the marriage. The prosecution would want ben to volunteer testimony. Cant force a testimony from spouse.
No No No Nope… it was NOT the nightclub situation, Ben wouldn’t leave because of that. It was a video of her getting a train ran on her by 4 men
😲😲😲😲😲
Wesley Snipes said she was known as the "good time girl" back when he dated her in the 90s.
Dang! But how do you know that?
Interesting
@@anonymouse6703
That's what I wonder
JLo probably signed an NDA. Why people expect her to speak out on Combs baffles me.
Andy you’re wonderful ❤🙏
JLO back in the day was desperate to gain fame and money. That's why she was with Diddler in the first place. I'm pretty sure she was ready for anything with him. It payed off - she made it - fame and fortune was hers, but at what cost? I hope we will learn soon.
Another great stream
Yes
Travel advisory have told travelers not to go to U.k atm because of civil unrest. Be careful!!
When the raid happened, it probably had people talking. Even if among themselves. You can accept skeletons in someones closet, but if they don't see what they have done as wrong, or have a different moral compass, that can cause a rift. Looking at Jlo and her conceit, she still think nothing about any behavior is wrong. Or may refuse to cooperate and he does not agree. Last time they broke up, Ben had an awakening and didn't want to go down her road. May be the same thing this time. He realizes that ass does NOT translate to happiness.
Exactly
I'm guessing that all of this is extremely embarrassing to J lo.
Ok people I will be entering the “assume” realm but bear with me: someone in the comments said that it was not the nightclub incident but something else! So hear me out! Let’s assume we know how abu**ve people are and assume that what PDiddy did to Cassie was done in the past (I know: it’s difficult! 👀). Let’s assume that that person is JLo, she can dance, act (or whatever) but can’t sing. She knows she needs to do what it takes to make it in the music industry, so PDiddy does those freak off with her (with S*x workers and all) records and uses it to keep her there. Then comes the night club incident and she knows she got him: he deletes (or gives her) the recordings, and in exchange she lies under oath and they go separate ways? Perfect! Now Ben is no dumb and knows she lied about the nightclub, they don’t talk about it, but EVERYONE knows (even me in Portugal 😂) but imagine if someone at the FBI (a friend or a friend of a friend) contacts Ben and tells him about those tapes? Either he gets mad because this is his wife in that position, or he knows his rep can’t take this hit, and he needs to clean the house before this gets out?! That would explain the timeline of events and why he needs to get out now!
It is strange how silence it has been lately, I don’t think that’s a reason why the divorce is happening. I think he cannot take her anymore. It’s possible he found out something about her and Diddy. It’s a possibility, but I don’t think the FBI actually sent him videos. She’s just a mean girl, and she’s very too demanding of Ben and I can’t blame him!
Why would the FBI give Ben Affleck tapes to begin with? That's so stupid
Ben didn’t marry her twice. They were first engaged and about to be married, but then broke up. That’s why this marriage was so big. It was like the ‘dream’ that wasn’t realized till recently, but now no more.
Yea I don't think the fbi was like" imma ruin your relationship " maybe JLos lawyer got word she may get a subpoena for Diddy investigation and Ben doesn't want to get dragged into it
ANDY THERES A NEW SOUTH PARK EPISIDE ABOUT MEGHAN AND HARRYYYYYYYYY
No Kamala please !!!
Just make it fun and pop culture !! 😂🎉😊 I watch your show everyday!
Would be great to see you in the UK
J LO or MEGSY?? Not sure which one is worse!
Jlo is the supreme narcissist. Look at the way she orchestrates the paps and has her photos photoshopped. She spends millions upon millions to ensure she has her photos taken at the right time and place plus all the editing. Who does that? A narcissist like Jlo that spends millions on her image
JLo also uses !it's of filters to look very young with no imperfections
Megsy is worse
Last train to London, by ELO. Great song and great band.
Yes! Love them!
I reckon ben got questioned by someone , and was showed the tapes , wanting to know if jlo has said anythink about pdidy ?
They're getting divorced again .
Ooh noooo that's not a surprise come on we saw this coming a mile away
Ben Affleck and JLo only got married once. They were dating & got engaged 20 years ago but called off the wedding and later split up
I love the intro, w JD!
Andy, it’s ok. I don’t care about the Olympics.
That 'proof' would be worth more to him as leverage to get a better divorce deal. He would have nothing if he released it.
You know what he had it alll planned. He's no victim.
@Chloe-m5r 😂
😂 it's quite a clownshow 🤡
In creative writing they say “show don’t tell.” Great love stories are best lived, not shown. The lack of judgment and privacy must feel like torture to a private person.
Makes sense.
Yes!!! Bingo...I must admit I DID think that at thr very first...You're RIGHT....No...Don't stop! Thank you very much.
Thanks!
He's cut nearly all his hair off .. has a little mohawk now.
It's like what women do when they're getting someone out their life - cut their hair short.
You do know he's a producer, actor too?
He's got his bikes back again and haircut to match. I bet he couldn't wait to get his hands on a bike again, and he is looking good! 😍
Love your honesty Andy about your feelings and day 👍