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Asslamualaikum ma'am i want to talk with you ...i have many issues regard marrige, parents, hypocrisy of society, But don't have clearity of anything... suffered lots of things but don't find my self victim coz i believe that Allah wants me to teach himself... 2nd reason i dont want anyone sympathy ... ...can you listen me...
Eram. Your talks are phenomenal. I request you to please also talk about the rise of LGBTQ+ in Pakistan. People promoting transgenderism, homosexuality to the point they deny that Islam ever negated it in the first place. I would want you to please shed light on these things, and I'd love to hear your perspective.
Ma'am @ErumSaeedCoaching, would you please elaborate on the definition of a "forced marriage"? I was forced to get engaged to this cousin despite my refusal. My parents conducted an istikhara and told me that this engagement is happening no matter what! I got scared that if I refuse tot he marriage, I'll envoke Allah's wrath so I quietly got married.... is my marriage a forced marriage because technically I said yes to everything at the end....
You are absolutely right people should talk about this spreading problem because of this I stopped watching Pakistani dramas now and I have no regrets about it alhamdulillah.
I completely agree!!! These dramas are so full of crap and immature beliefs about women especially. I never watched them, even when my family members were watching them. I always focused on watching educational content as learning makes me the happiest. Great video Ms Eram, absolutely spot on 💯💯
Absolutely right eram ji u r u r so right i hv no words & i also feel same these stupid dramas i jus say u r talking about women's rights really very great hats off u eram ji i really appreciate
Thakyou erum for responding my question and giving guide line . pls i want you to make a video for men to guide them to how to make balance between mother and wife . I have seen now a days boys are totally abandoning mother over wife . Bcoz they think the only priority is wife only or just chose mother and abandon their wife . …. Much love and respect . Thanks alot .
I really appreciate your every single word. These dramas a garbage. I'm a university student having age of 22 years. In my hostel, in every room 95% of the girls are watching these dramas. I just really hate these dramas just bocz piyar shadi talaq ky siwa nhi dikhaty kch... Br br hr dramy me shadi shadi dikha kr srf shadi beth chuki minds me parents ko lgta hy beti bari jo gai shadi kr do girls boys same concept applies too.. These drama makers never think they posses social responsibility.. Dikhana hi kia chahty hen.. Nhi hen yr women weak hy hi nhi jb to dikha hi q rhy or phr log dekh q rhyy.. I would like to say ap ky words sun kr sakoon mila.. Koi to in andho ko bedar kry k ye dramy dekhny ky laik hen hi nhi
You are lucky to be at University, however there are dramas which are on social issues as a way to educate the masses, and many deal,with workplace harassment of women, women’s rights in a marriage, domestic violence, sexual assault, which can’t be hidden but exposed so young women can learn! Yes I agree those boring Saad Bahn,and toxic men is odious to watch, but those with social issues are well worth away h, like Dil na umeed tou nahi, Udaari etc!
@@gerryburntwood9617 yes I'm agree with your point. There are few dramas which are highly appreciable. On the other hand, this drama industry contributes to our economy, the main concern is it should be the responsibility of our youth to watch worthy dramas.
My mum.used to.tell me to watch them I'd learn something when I was a kid. I learnt nothing at all, living in a foreign country especially. I don't even understand how the stories apply to us. If I was told to watch for entertainment , I wouldn't say it was entertaining. It was like a daily dose of suffering. Yes Pakistanis are addicted to victimhood and suffering. They need to Learn to take some accountability. Same applies to my mom. Break the generational curse. Our grandparents did not raise healthy children. They went through trauma during the partition
Sorry My opinion is v different All these dramas are for entertainment And this era of sadness, anxiety and depression we need some entertainment and it's good
And please make sure when you get the chance of having a podcast with Sheikh Nadwi Sahab, do it in Urdu please. His English accent is tough to understand
💯 agree with you on these stupid dramas. Honestly if this was a real life scenario even the worst parents have figured out what has happened. And once known such calamity has happened every one would have pulled together to support them. Just to dramatise whole picture they have turned it in to a stupid scenario. About 'tere bin' one can not distinguish between a badtameez, arrogant immature young girl who does not know what she actually wants from life from a mature goal oriented lady as depicted in 'zindagi gulzar hay'
Aik to Saba Qamar ka drama aaya hoa hay in which she drives the taxi. THAT PART I loved! But the next story in the drama was SO DISGUSTING and we turned off TV
Driving taxi in Pakistan for women is like saanp k bil mein hath dena...its so insecure . Sarak par khary khary log lut jaty hain..taxi chalany wali aurat kaisay bach sakti hai..? Its too risky...in real life, sooner or later she will get into serious trouble. Coz there are no implementation of law n order...women getting raped usually dont get justice, many of them dont even dare to raise their voices... though idea of empowerment was good..that could be other safer options.
Hello mam tell us about raising a child during this period job and carrier side by side is necessory bcz msny women live alone in cities with their husband how to menage job house work and raising a childern?
You can’t. Take a break from your job and raise the child until he starts going to school or see if one of your parents or your husband’s parents can babysit the child
@@OpenThisChannel i do follow bayyanah channel noman ali khan.. n hear mufti menk, dr. Israr yc club podcasts but i need authentic books..thanks for suggestion.
First of all, these dramas are not made kepping in view Islamic values. Second of all, our culture has over-shadowed Islam hence people pay no heed to what Islam says and focus on what culture is (izzat/zillat issues) The drama industry makers are not Educators because they themselves need Education. The industry runs on ratings, viewership and survives on revenue, thats it. They are not concerned with what negative impact these dramas may have on public because moral education is none of their Business. Harsh Realities!
To be honest, I hate Pakistani dramaz but whenecer I watch Pakistani dramaz, I start getting a feeling of when I see zionist do their terrible things with innocent Falasteeni people. Aik negative hateful environment create ho jata hay ghar main
Admi ki zimidari hai woh qawam hai.....aurat ki kya zimidari hai??? Comfort provide karay ghar main bachon ki achi tarbiyat karay Deen k mutabiq right?? Tu kya jab aurat nay khana bhi nahi pakana kaam bhi nahi karna aur beth k drama dekhna hai shopping k leye browsing karni hai bachon ko hath main mobile dena hai I pad dena hai aur bus chill karna hai????? Please elaborate the responsibilities from both sides.....
And aik sawal ye ke admi ajkl actress dhek dhek kr jo apni bv ko tont krte hein or kehte hein tm apna figure ko meintainbkaro aise raho body shaming is pr bhi vedio bnain kuke wo kehte hein agar hm kise or aurat ko dhekte heun tu uski wjah ye hei ke tm maintain nahi rehti
Beta: iska jawab kisi nae dia thhaa BOHOTH achchha ke ," lakhon RS, lagtey Hain iss model ki tarha honae pe aur ke khana bhi ghar par Nahin banae ga aur baqi kaam bhi Nahin hoange 👍😬
I am from India...and I often listen to you...I esp liked this particular episode...and I also have one query...that I would like to clarify...is it possible that I can send you an email?
With respect you quoted the incidence where Hazrat Umar (R.A) and his wife's desire to pray in Masjid. But that is a specific Incidence of going to a mosque. How is that applicable in all the cases? With respect, Sheikh Akram Nadwi, isn't he the Dean of Cambridge Islamic College - UK? Here is something for you regarding the Parda/Veil ruclips.net/video/GNOIsslfd1k/видео.html You are 100% right, that women are not to be treated as slave. Pardon the incapacity, but what is your opinion about "marital rape". Marital rape as defined in west, and as practiced in Pakistan.
Yes undoubtedly. Do listen to sheikh assim al hakim, zakir naik, noman ali khan,youth club, de israr ahmed, mufti menk regarding hijab..they will provide you the better and authentic information regarding hijab with references of ahadees/quranic verses and logic. Religious scholars muftis and religious analysts have got deep knowledge regarding islam and islamic shariyah.
@@aha1775-m6g u need to research and read don't claim something you don't know quran Allah ki kitab hai usk leye baat karnay say pehlay khud pardh lena aur research karlena ziada zarori hai
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Asslamualaikum ma'am i want to talk with you ...i have many issues regard marrige, parents, hypocrisy of society, But don't have clearity of anything... suffered lots of things but don't find my self victim coz i believe that Allah wants me to teach himself... 2nd reason i dont want anyone sympathy ... ...can you listen me...
Eram. Your talks are phenomenal. I request you to please also talk about the rise of LGBTQ+ in Pakistan. People promoting transgenderism, homosexuality to the point they deny that Islam ever negated it in the first place. I would want you to please shed light on these things, and I'd love to hear your perspective.
Ma'am @ErumSaeedCoaching, would you please elaborate on the definition of a "forced marriage"? I was forced to get engaged to this cousin despite my refusal. My parents conducted an istikhara and told me that this engagement is happening no matter what! I got scared that if I refuse tot he marriage, I'll envoke Allah's wrath so I quietly got married.... is my marriage a forced marriage because technically I said yes to everything at the end....
You are absolutely right people should talk about this spreading problem because of this I stopped watching Pakistani dramas now and I have no regrets about it alhamdulillah.
Writers from digests and now tv serials always romanticize toxic and abusive relationships. And this is dangerous
So happy Erum that God has sent you for pakistani people. Its high time to change thoughts and know our rights. May God help pakistan.
I completely agree!!! These dramas are so full of crap and immature beliefs about women especially. I never watched them, even when my family members were watching them. I always focused on watching educational content as learning makes me the happiest. Great video Ms Eram, absolutely spot on 💯💯
Great job Ma’m Eram Saeed. You are totally right about these dramas . Do talk about the vulgarity promoting drama “ Griftt” on GEO tv. 👍👌
You are right. These dramas only teach youngsters how to be romantic and stupid.
Islam does not allow friendship between Namahrams
Thankyou for this analogy. I observed the same.
Well said,
Thanks for standing up with right, true and bold
May Allah bless you
Absolutely right eram ji u r u r so right i hv no words & i also feel same these stupid dramas i jus say u r talking about women's rights really very great hats off u eram ji i really appreciate
Thakyou erum for responding my question and giving guide line . pls i want you to make a video for men to guide them to how to make balance between mother and wife . I have seen now a days boys are totally abandoning mother over wife . Bcoz they think the only priority is wife only or just chose mother and abandon their wife . …. Much love and respect . Thanks alot .
I really appreciate your every single word. These dramas a garbage. I'm a university student having age of 22 years. In my hostel, in every room 95% of the girls are watching these dramas. I just really hate these dramas just bocz piyar shadi talaq ky siwa nhi dikhaty kch... Br br hr dramy me shadi shadi dikha kr srf shadi beth chuki minds me parents ko lgta hy beti bari jo gai shadi kr do girls boys same concept applies too.. These drama makers never think they posses social responsibility.. Dikhana hi kia chahty hen.. Nhi hen yr women weak hy hi nhi jb to dikha hi q rhy or phr log dekh q rhyy..
I would like to say ap ky words sun kr sakoon mila.. Koi to in andho ko bedar kry k ye dramy dekhny ky laik hen hi nhi
You are lucky to be at University, however there are dramas which are on social issues as a way to educate the masses, and many deal,with workplace harassment of women, women’s rights in a marriage, domestic violence, sexual assault, which can’t be hidden but exposed so young women can learn! Yes I agree those boring Saad Bahn,and toxic men is odious to watch, but those with social issues are well worth away h, like Dil na umeed tou nahi, Udaari etc!
@@gerryburntwood9617 yes I'm agree with your point. There are few dramas which are highly appreciable. On the other hand, this drama industry contributes to our economy, the main concern is it should be the responsibility of our youth to watch worthy dramas.
If dramas would make sense they can't make money out of it. They don't want anything just money. For them, Generation jaye bhaar may😕
Thanks for sharing name of the scholar. Please also share where we can get to read/listen about Hazrat Khadija R.A
What a beautiful and eloquent person you are! Really appreciate the content you come up with
What an awesome analysis on these dramas👍👍
My mum.used to.tell me to watch them I'd learn something when I was a kid. I learnt nothing at all, living in a foreign country especially. I don't even understand how the stories apply to us. If I was told to watch for entertainment , I wouldn't say it was entertaining. It was like a daily dose of suffering. Yes Pakistanis are addicted to victimhood and suffering. They need to Learn to take some accountability. Same applies to my mom. Break the generational curse. Our grandparents did not raise healthy children. They went through trauma during the partition
Thank you ❤️
Sorry
My opinion is v different
All these dramas are for entertainment
And this era of sadness, anxiety and depression we need some entertainment and it's good
And please make sure when you get the chance of having a podcast with Sheikh Nadwi Sahab, do it in Urdu please. His English accent is tough to understand
💯 agree with you on these stupid dramas.
Honestly if this was a real life scenario even the worst parents have figured out what has happened. And once known such calamity has happened every one would have pulled together to support them. Just to dramatise whole picture they have turned it in to a stupid scenario.
About 'tere bin' one can not distinguish between a badtameez, arrogant immature young girl who does not know what she actually wants from life from a mature goal oriented lady as depicted in 'zindagi gulzar hay'
Nikah to mazaaq bana diya gaya hay Pakistani dramaz main. Through that, they are FORCING this in society as well!
Subhan’Allah ❤ Masha’Allah Bohot zabardast 😊
Please do a podcast with Sheikh Akram Nadwi.
Excellent video. Always mention Allah , that I like very much.
I totally agree with this👌
Eye opening analysis of both the dramas.
Aik to Saba Qamar ka drama aaya hoa hay in which she drives the taxi. THAT PART I loved! But the next story in the drama was SO DISGUSTING and we turned off TV
Driving taxi in Pakistan for women is like saanp k bil mein hath dena...its so insecure . Sarak par khary khary log lut jaty hain..taxi chalany wali aurat kaisay bach sakti hai..? Its too risky...in real life, sooner or later she will get into serious trouble. Coz there are no implementation of law n order...women getting raped usually dont get justice, many of them dont even dare to raise their voices... though idea of empowerment was good..that could be other safer options.
Shukar hay aap nay bata diya! I am NOT going to watch Tere Bin 👍
Hello mam tell us about raising a child during this period job and carrier side by side is necessory bcz msny women live alone in cities with their husband how to menage job house work and raising a childern?
You can’t. Take a break from your job and raise the child until he starts going to school or see if one of your parents or your husband’s parents can babysit the child
100% agree.
Dear Erum, can you share the books which helped you to understand Quran ,Islam n profets pbuh teachings ? Loved ur analysis of dramas. So true 🤗
Tafimul Quran
Search top 20 Islamic books
Watch Islamic lechers, there are lot of them waiting for you. :)
Why don't start with purpose of life by Jeffrey Lang? It's an awesome lechers
@@OpenThisChannel i do follow bayyanah channel noman ali khan.. n hear mufti menk, dr. Israr yc club podcasts but i need authentic books..thanks for suggestion.
So true I totally agree with you that watching Pak dramas are mental torture I have stop watching these dramas since long
Absolutely Rigt Erum , nowadays bholybahali doesn’t exists at all
First of all, these dramas are not made kepping in view Islamic values. Second of all, our culture has over-shadowed Islam hence people pay no heed to what Islam says and focus on what culture is (izzat/zillat issues) The drama industry makers are not Educators because they themselves need Education. The industry runs on ratings, viewership and survives on revenue, thats it. They are not concerned with what negative impact these dramas may have on public because moral education is none of their Business. Harsh Realities!
Amazing review, abhi tary bin dakh kr bhatti hn, but u r rite
Your analysis was on point
Point on Erum!!! 💯
Absolutely
Hats off mam👍👍👍👍👍👍
Erum please share books also to read about Seerah.
الرحيق المختوم by safi ur rehman mubarak puri
I fully agree with you on such rubbish dramas 👏
God bless u
Eram jee your so nice MashAllah
Agree with you about today's dramas absolutely garbage.
Tamam dost namaz main pabandi kare.
To be honest, I hate Pakistani dramaz but whenecer I watch Pakistani dramaz, I start getting a feeling of when I see zionist do their terrible things with innocent Falasteeni people. Aik negative hateful environment create ho jata hay ghar main
Admi ki zimidari hai woh qawam hai.....aurat ki kya zimidari hai??? Comfort provide karay ghar main bachon ki achi tarbiyat karay Deen k mutabiq right?? Tu kya jab aurat nay khana bhi nahi pakana kaam bhi nahi karna aur beth k drama dekhna hai shopping k leye browsing karni hai bachon ko hath main mobile dena hai I pad dena hai aur bus chill karna hai????? Please elaborate the responsibilities from both sides.....
And aik sawal ye ke admi ajkl actress dhek dhek kr jo apni bv ko tont krte hein or kehte hein tm apna figure ko meintainbkaro aise raho body shaming is pr bhi vedio bnain kuke wo kehte hein agar hm kise or aurat ko dhekte heun tu uski wjah ye hei ke tm maintain nahi rehti
Beta: iska jawab kisi nae dia thhaa BOHOTH achchha ke ," lakhon RS, lagtey Hain iss model ki tarha honae pe aur ke khana bhi ghar par Nahin banae ga aur baqi kaam bhi Nahin hoange 👍😬
Husband take over karey sarae KAAM takae dramo se bhi the jaey
ہلکی پھلکی ورذش اور یوگا۔۔۔ہر عورت کو کرنا چاہیئے۔۔۔لاکھوں نہیں لگیں گے لیکن آپ واقعی شیپ میں آجائیں گی اور پر اعتماد بھی ہو جائیں گی۔۔۔
❤
Sb 1st kalma parl lain.
Mam is hijab obligatory ???
Thank god some one is talking about literally a garbage
Mam is hijab obligatory ???!
Tere bin is the biggest backwas ever
👏👍👍
اچھا بولیں آپ۔۔۔
Loving this video today amazing thought 🤎🤎
I am from India...and I often listen to you...I esp liked this particular episode...and I also have one query...that I would like to clarify...is it possible that I can send you an email?
With respect you quoted the incidence where Hazrat Umar (R.A) and his wife's desire to pray in Masjid. But that is a specific Incidence of going to a mosque. How is that applicable in all the cases?
With respect, Sheikh Akram Nadwi, isn't he the Dean of Cambridge Islamic College - UK?
Here is something for you regarding the Parda/Veil
ruclips.net/video/GNOIsslfd1k/видео.html
You are 100% right, that women are not to be treated as slave.
Pardon the incapacity, but what is your opinion about "marital rape". Marital rape as defined in west, and as practiced in Pakistan.
Mam is hijab obligatory ???
Mam is hijab obligatory ???
Yes undoubtedly. Do listen to sheikh assim al hakim, zakir naik, noman ali khan,youth club, de israr ahmed, mufti menk regarding hijab..they will provide you the better and authentic information regarding hijab with references of ahadees/quranic verses and logic. Religious scholars muftis and religious analysts have got deep knowledge regarding islam and islamic shariyah.
@@aymanbrohi6086 hijab is nor mentioned in the Quran
@@aha1775-m6g u need to research and read don't claim something you don't know quran Allah ki kitab hai usk leye baat karnay say pehlay khud pardh lena aur research karlena ziada zarori hai
Mam is hijab obligatory ???
Why asking the person ,who is not alame deen ?...
she is neither perfect.
You know its mentioned in Quran. So its obligatory. No doubt.
Hijab is obligatory . If we r not wearing we should ask forgiveness from Allah swt : but I like eram ma'am lectures sooo much