As a "nonchalant guy" I swear this is why I love dating women who love to talk. Keep talking, less I need to say and I make her happy because she knows I'm listening..
Down the line- things are breaking down, he won't be able to talk to any contractors, if he rents a car that was already damaged, he's going to pay for it without asking any questions. If someone is harassing her, he won't be able to defend her. Oh, She has to ask him for dates, he won't ask- Oh, if something hurts his feeling, she won't know.. That life is COSTLY emotionally and financially period, RUN!! only an AI can date him.
@1alexnumaiunul848 "Worry" doesn't solve tomorrow's problems. It simply ruins today's peace. God never intended for us to think about the past or future. We are supposed to enjoy the moment. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift, that's why it's called The Present.
Hellish not a hellhole. Planet earth is pretty amazing. Finding love. Feeling a cool breeze. Tasty things to eat. The beaches. Maybe you just don't like the people or the way society has coalesced. Life can also be cold but once you can feel your open to whatever the weather is.
I’m 20 and I grew up with a Dad and still am growing up with a Dad who barely speaks, and is very nonchalant. It took me until I was about 16 to realize he showed enormous amounts of love through his actions, rather than his words
@@nashambenyisrael7689 No, it’s not. All my life I grew up seeing my friend’s fathers talk so much, and say “I love you” and “I’m proud of you.” Never once in my life have I seen a father that was as quiet as my Dad is. Hell, I can’t even remember the last time my Dad reached out for a hug. Fathers and mothers alike are the ones who aren’t afraid to speak up and express their feelings. I would give anything for my Dad to speak as much as a “woman” does, hopefully your sexist mind understands.
Galatians 5:16-17 (KJV) "This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would." I hope we all will repent and follow God's Commandments!🙏 Please confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus Christ, and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead and you shall be saved! Don't perish for the lack of knowledge, please SEEK God while he's still available! This isnt intended to bring you fear but to help bring you CLOSER to our heavenly father and save your soul from eternal torment! I love you all! and may the Most High God bless us all in the Mighty Name Of Jesus Christ! Amen, HalleluYah!🙌❤️🕊🔥 📖
I don’t want to agree so quickly but yes watch them quiet ones he is good as good but don’t mess with that other side ..its kinda scary cuz u don’t knw wht he thinking he not expressing himself enough he holding his emotions inside sometimes thts not good but other than tht he seem like cool dude
Yo! This is wild and truest comment ever! 😅 I too am married to one. Low key think I might go missing if I ever tried to leave.😂😂😂😂 He has done way to much stalker shit😢
my boyfriend is like this. it bothered me at first (because i’m used to MY way of communication and everyone is not the same) but honestly, he keeps me grounded and i can read him well now. and when he gets excited it’s so, so cute. treasure men like this because they often show their love through their actions, which is what a lot of relationships are missing these days.
Yeah, I need a man with negotiation skills. This guy looks like he doesn’t know how to negotiate. I also think this behavior is often reflective of depression and trauma. Not saying that as an attack, as long as mental health is managed it’s alright.
Same girl same. I would feel lonely in that kind of situation. But I love that other woman don’t mind a partner like that. There’s a lid for every jar! 💕😂
Nahhh these types will casually cheat on you and go about their life acting the exact same way and you won’t even notice… but I guess ignorance is bliss Also they are the type to dump you out of nowhere, no fighting, no complaining, just “we need to talk” one day and it’s over.
@@jamjam9564 faithful is a quality we all look for and deserve. I was simply stating that he seems to give her an easy time in that dept and it must feel good. is that okay with you??
@@someone7773 deadass “you never talk” the whole time they just be frustrated bc you never slip up and say anything that could cause a petty argument 💀 they be finding that type of stupid shit entertaining 😭😭😭
@TheJola106 He just GLADLY gave her money and told her it's for whatever she wants. I'd take his nonchalant butt over these broke dramatic ninjas any day.
@@TheJola106hey man he pulled her somehow, and unless he suddenly would have become that way. He’s still not doing anything wrong. Some people are also better at showing how they feel vs just saying it ( which imo is overplayed ) we want to have that perfect textbook relationship but the truth is real relationships are flawed and worked through. (I’m also aware this is a skit I’m talking about the situation it’s depicting)
@andrerushawn6102 I didn't say he was doing anything wrong, I'm just saying poor communication definitely causes misunderstanding. If you love someone you just try your best to make things ok. Not perfect because cause not has to be
Some quiet people are kind heared people are also rather evil if need be. We learned to observe and do more than talk. Someone talking smack may get an actual smile from us because we've been waiting for some bs to kick off way before you mistook us for a victim. 🫵🤬: @$&% ~#*×_ ! 🙂: 🎶 She's a very freaky giiirrll! The kiind you don't take home to muuthaaaaaa! 🎵🎼
Eff that. I need animation you heard me!? When they’re this way it makes me seem like an unhinged banshee. Like I’m this loud obnoxious person when really it’s just you quiet as hell 😑
This is just like my son. He was super excited and emotional and energetic as a child. After puberty hit at 14, he became soooo nonchalant and mellow. He saves his energy for the times and people he wants to. 🤷🏽♀️
@@favored6007 Savannah was Whitney Houston, hon, her mom trying to hook her up with that dude from the Allstate commercials even though he was married...?
He has a peaceful soul. He does have emotions. He just may not express them. He shows his love through his actions. Is hard to talk when there's always someone talking.😅
@@Javajavajav I meant to say butterfly, but my statement was perfectly comprehensible. Flies are so gentle that you initially don’t even know when they’re on you sometimes. Have a good day.
I have a friend like this, never seen that fool get mad until... they got his paycheck wrong at work. Dat fool said "People gotta learn not to touch my money!". 😮😮😮
Nonchalant people like quiet people, they cool chill and often pretty nice til you cross them the wrong way or push their button or really piss them off, then your gonna see a side you’ve never seen before, a rather scary side
My grandpa was exactly like this and it made me mad when people didn’t think he loved well or wasn’t happy. He smiled, he gave money just because, he cooked and picked up groceries just because. He was a kind soul and the chillest person I ever met. When people got mad at him he chuckled. I would rather have that than a hot head 😊
@@KnightPunkThe fact that there's always folks like y'all not understanding we're talking about the character a person portrays in the skit and not the actual person will forever be confusing.
OMG I did too😂😅😂. Feels good to know I'm not alone in this. I used to think he wasn't interested in the relationship. Got to understand that it's really his personality. Sometimes he's chatty though but it only lasts for a minute 😅
My husband is like that!!! And I’m ok with that because we balance each other out… 11 yrs married wouldn’t change anything!!! His level of calmness calms me!!!
Yea so tip time cause hooww do you navigate through that? I understand it doesn’t bother you but It bothers me and makes me feel unappreciated in every aspect!
@@Momo454-zm3xn it did not happened overnight I can tell you that…ummm I used to get pissssssed!!! But then I just had to except that’s just who he is…and everything else about him I absolutely loved and out weighed that… BUT #1 I had way more flaws than him and he took me as I was… so why I couldn’t do the same for him!!! TRUST IT WAS A PROCESS… Because I wanted him to be excited because I was excited 😆… but one thing he did do was try to get excited because I was excited… and let me just tell you…. that was so awkward and it was so uncomfortable for me because I tried to make him someone he wasn’t… so either way my poe husband couldn’t win for losing!!! I said to myself one day leave that man alone🤣!!!
@@Momo454-zm3xnyou just have different personalities, no way to handle it. Just accept it, don't get offended by the smallest things i guess (depending on the context)
@@Momo454-zm3xn as a man, this is something you should tell him if you haven’t already. A lot of times we do that sort of thing without knowing or thinking about it never understanding or realizing how it makes the woman feel. Bringing it to his attention will help you understand why he does it and bring it to his attention so he knows to maybe change it a little, or you understand why he’s so quiet and then it won’t bother you as much. We deal with a lot of shit that most men don’t know how or even want to talk about which is my biggest issue, sometimes the best thing that’s happened for me was my girl calling me out in a calm and respectful way and just wanting to know why I am the way I am. Because of that I’ve been able to open up more and talk about shit I never thought I would have talked about. I think that saved my relationship honestly. Sorry that’s long but communication is absolutely one of the most important things.
She wants you to be “vulnerable” even if there’s nothing to be vulnerable about so she can feel more secure in the relationship while simultaneously loosing respect for you as a man bc even though shes seeking for that emotion she doesn’t know she really doesn’t want that until she finally obtain it…. Women 101
@@ToxicBri-mwah and Not talking is supposed to be a likable and attractive??? Straight delusion. What planet do you live on exactly because that’s pretty disconnected from reality.
Aye that’s part of what makes it fun for some girls not all of em. If they goofy and energetic enough they can always get reaction outta their man no matter how nonchalant and easy going he is
Yes! I find myself always trying to get a laugh or reaction out of my husband, doing dances, fake karate, hiding around corners. It helps break up the stress sometimes of having young kids and chores.
As a woman who loves to talk I LOVE being with nonchalant men lol. They remember everything and they listen with intent. The guy I’m dating now is like this and he shows he cares with his actions and matches my love language. 10/10 ladies
This is actually a trauma response to suppressing emotions and being told not to have emotions or express yourself. He's in survival mode 24/7... complete opposite of cool, laid back and nonchalant 🥺🙏🏾♥️ God bless
Agreed. I have been in this state for the last 5 years after a series of letdowns and shit going wrong. A part of me wants the old me back but doesn't feel like anything is worth it.
Girls will confuse nonchalant guys with boredome while Women find them peaceful. A man like that knows not to create drama where there doesn’t need to be and that's a major green flag 👌
It is a misconception that people who smoke are chill. I’ve seen the pitfalls of smoking firsthand. Become addicted to it, and instead of being chill, you become anxious when you go too long without it
😂❤ I think men like this are calm and great listeners and doers without you even asking ❤ their awareness is elite because they spend a lot of time observing and they love when you're affectionate...they just soak up all the love you have to give like sponges!!❤❤
@precious-5016 Most men who are introverts, are the same way...very expressive to those they feel are worthy of their vulnerability 💯 They're usually great writers as well 💯💕
i would be okay with it for about 2 years...😊gg maybe even longer,ill take his personality over verbal abuse and disrespect any day...hes a keeper...keep him
That ain't got shit to do with being a leader or follower or battles😄, he's just not extroverted or expressive.... that's his personality naturally I guess, unless he's just "trying" to be like that....either way everybody has different personalities.
He's not on the spectrum, and he's not checked out. He's just quiet and / or shy. I am, too, and always stayed on honor roll. But because I'm a girl as a kid, a lot of kids considered me stuck up. But I wasn't. I was just quiet and shy. And most people as myself love to date sensible extraverted personality types. The ones who ask questions, talk alot and make us laught. Lol
On the spectrum. 😂😂😂. He's proven through his actions that he loves her. He doesn't need to say I love every 5 seconds to balance out her insecurities.
What does it matter, people always try and label people with these personality titles when people are very complex and we all have many layers/sides to be labeled with a personality title/trait, he nonchalant but can still express himself his own way, just leave it at that
I love my man! He's nonchalant too and it's so cute when he gets excited! When he's on energy mode he'll talk forever but I love how sweet and to himself he is. He's very gentle and very caring and likes to give me little gifts or pictures or money sometimes. He's perfect and i wanna marry him one day
@@friendlyfrenzy3498 naw you got it all wrong all women cheat clown don’t matter if she love you or not 😂😂you know how many girls love they man but cheat immediately
You gotta act like this sometimes and most other times you gotta act how they want you to act. Then they call it having emotional intelligence. "Know how to read the room" When they lack intelligence the most when they're being emotional.
@@Luca_Brycei sorry to hear that. I don't think you should stop opening up though, just refine your discernment so you could choose better people who'll reciprocate your love nd care
@@Luca_Bryceiyo stop opening if u really need to talk about your problems get a therapist if u can afford. if not hopefully u have 1 close friend or fam that u trust. Never talk to your girl about the feeling u going through that shii will be thrown in your face everytime.
Do not trust women when they say open up. Their words and actions do not match as by nature they are incongruent. Keep it in, talk to trusted friends, talk to paid therapist, even vent anonymously online, but do NOT confide in a woman. A “vulnerable” man is one open for attack. Stay safe.
@@6ixR0llistg do not EVER open up to a women. It’s really rare occasion where the women is genuinely concerned but it best not to fuck around and find out hold those feelings with the bros or pops or even OG
It's called Stoicism, and it is a valuable character trait in a person and a great way to deal with anxiety; my emotions do not control me, I control them, I cannot control what the world will throw at me, but I can control how I will react to it.
You're right he should just be talkative to another female or just hold it in until you walk into the closet and find the stool kicked underneath his feet. Then you can be like "why didn't he say anything.
He live life at 5% energy. He gonna live for 200 years.
Or he'll have a brain aneurysm out of nowhere at age 42
@@princeakeem716no in between 🤣
Fuck im laughing why you say that 😂😂😂😂@@princeakeem716
@@princeakeem716From chilling? Idk about that
@@tonyhormiga5242It be the ones who never had any issues that just up and go to the pearly gates for no discernible reason
He on power saving mode at all times 😂
😂😂😂😂
Lmao
I bet he is KILLER at mini golf or hoops tho
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He may seem nonchalant but he cares so deeply for you.
Most definitely! That's obvious even if it's not. If that makes sense ❤️
I don't see it
Ya reckon?
This is so true lol Bae has a soft side 😅☺️
Aww
The boy literally said nothing… AND STILL GOT IN TROUBLE!💁🏾♀️😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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And THIS is how it goes lmaoo
@@Bluelude89 ts be blowing me like I don't emote like you move around with that I just be chilling and you wanna create arguments it's not happening.
That’s how it be
He said you talk enough for the both of y’all. Perfect match.
This how I be w mines. Just a million questions all the time. The recording woulda irritated me too 😂😂😂
Swear
Yop exactly what it is w my girl. When we go out she speak to everybody for me she ordering my food drinks all that
😂😂😂
LOL
I LOVE them calm and quiet, as long as when he talks he's making sense and his life decisions are solid.
😂😂😂😂 right.
Facts 😂❤
True
AND actually looks you in your eyes when he talks to you or comes in to kiss you. Otherwise... His nonchalance means he don't see you
Preach!
As a "nonchalant guy" I swear this is why I love dating women who love to talk. Keep talking, less I need to say and I make her happy because she knows I'm listening..
Awww, that's a great statement 💜
So sweet ❤
I always feel like I’m being annoying by talking way more than my partner, it’s nice to know that some people like it that way!
smart man lol
Adorable.
He responds and smiles. You have to pay attention to him. Everything don't have to so loud. He's really nice.
This man’s actions speak louder then his words 👏💯
I liked that $100.00 bill he just nonchalantly gave to her, just because.
THAN NOT THEN
Especially cuz he barely says any words🤣
Period!
Down the line- things are breaking down, he won't be able to talk to any contractors, if he rents a car that was already damaged, he's going to pay for it without asking any questions. If someone is harassing her, he won't be able to defend her. Oh, She has to ask him for dates, he won't ask- Oh, if something hurts his feeling, she won't know.. That life is COSTLY emotionally and financially period, RUN!! only an AI can date him.
This man done went grocery shopping, cooked, and gave you money. Girllllll don’t question him about his nonchalantness lol
That's what you like?
No cap 😂
CHRIST ALMIGHTY THIS TYPA MATURITY AND UNDERSTANDING IS ALL I WANT I SWEAR
@@Rip_JahCraft felt
He didn’t shop alone; they went shopping together! 🤣
“Guess who getting some tonight” him- “me”😐👈🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Lmfdao
My favorite part 😂
He talks to EVERYBODY else, though😂.
Being nonchalant is how i've maintained my youth and sanity after 4 decades on this hellhole of a planet.
Your comment should be pinned
Thats the way, its the best when you figure out you cant stress about things you cant fix or you cant have
@1alexnumaiunul848 "Worry" doesn't solve tomorrow's problems. It simply ruins today's peace. God never intended for us to think about the past or future. We are supposed to enjoy the moment. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift, that's why it's called The Present.
Hellish not a hellhole. Planet earth is pretty amazing. Finding love. Feeling a cool breeze. Tasty things to eat. The beaches. Maybe you just don't like the people or the way society has coalesced. Life can also be cold but once you can feel your open to whatever the weather is.
I idolize you.
This is how my husband is. 20yrs later it’s actually soothing to my anxious spirit
Oh stfu with your anxious spirit😂😂😂
Isn’t that boring?
@@bdancestarsas long as theres balance
nonchalant fellas wondering if it takes 20yrs 🤔
@@bdancestarsboring is term thats made up by people that can't handle reality.
I’m 20 and I grew up with a Dad and still am growing up with a Dad who barely speaks, and is very nonchalant. It took me until I was about 16 to realize he showed enormous amounts of love through his actions, rather than his words
That’s kinda how most men are, we are not women lol
@@nashambenyisrael7689 No, it’s not. All my life I grew up seeing my friend’s fathers talk so much, and say “I love you” and “I’m proud of you.” Never once in my life have I seen a father that was as quiet as my Dad is. Hell, I can’t even remember the last time my Dad reached out for a hug. Fathers and mothers alike are the ones who aren’t afraid to speak up and express their feelings. I would give anything for my Dad to speak as much as a “woman” does, hopefully your sexist mind understands.
@@bdawg1118 learn to read young one, I said most men… that doesn’t mean all men…
I’m also 20 and have a dad similar to yours. I’ve learned to accept it and save my love only for people who will show it back
@@nashambenyisrael7689 I know what you said. I think YOU should learn to read.. because my comment talks about how MOST men aren’t like that.
He looks so cute when she said guess who get'n some tonight & he pointed to hisself and said me😂😂😂😆😆
His affection is shown in his actions,everything doesn't require words,he is settled within his energy .😂😂❤❤❤
Actions actually speak louder than words
That’s definitely true
Acts of service is BY FAR one of my love languages 😊
This is true but it’s easy to forget! But I needed this reminder!😩
ong wat i b trynn tel mfs !!💯
He shows his beautiful soul through his actions and his sweet smile 😇
Actions speak louder than words ❤️
Galatians 5:16-17 (KJV) "This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would."
I hope we all will repent and follow God's Commandments!🙏 Please confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus Christ, and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead and you shall be saved! Don't perish for the lack of knowledge, please SEEK God while he's still available! This isnt intended to bring you fear but to help bring you CLOSER to our heavenly father and save your soul from eternal torment! I love you all! and may the Most High God bless us all in the Mighty Name Of Jesus Christ! Amen, HalleluYah!🙌❤️🕊🔥 📖
@@OnFire4Yahuhh.. Amen?
@@deleanor9665😂😂😂😂😂 This is the best reply I’ve ever seen to these kinds of comments!
Lmaooo uh huh 😂😂😂
I agree❤
Being a nonchalant guy has been one of the major factors in keeping me sane and unsalty with life.
Facts!!
Damn that's Facts tho
I be too damn much most of the time
I gotta chill
No drama = peace
Right on!
@@tbtnr9851 Exactly my motto.
Them quiet ones be deadly when they snap
Probably.
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I don’t want to agree so quickly but yes watch them quiet ones he is good as good but don’t mess with that other side ..its kinda scary cuz u don’t knw wht he thinking he not expressing himself enough he holding his emotions inside sometimes thts not good but other than tht he seem like cool dude
Lol you described me. I am quiet by nature but if my buttons get pressed a lot I will snap. I am working on it though. It is improving but still there
😂😂that's what am thinking too. I hope he is good though. God help her if he wearing a mask.
Take it from someone who is married to a man like this, they are painfully shy and very emotional and they love deeply…..stalker deep!
Forreal
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They are scary- "You don't want me to fall in love scary".
Yo! This is wild and truest comment ever! 😅 I too am married to one. Low key think I might go missing if I ever tried to leave.😂😂😂😂 He has done way to much stalker shit😢
Lmao. Don’t let out our secret, we prefer for most people to think we don’t care… but the inner circle knows what’s up.
I like it. He’s quiet, cooks, and gives $$!! WHERE IS THE PROBLEM! I LOVE THIS!!😁
Some would argue the problem is that they (we) can't keep up a conversation and that they're "dry" or mid or basic, etc.
@@playdoug12that’s exactly it. A robot has more emotions and can do those things he did
That these types of guys get played and used by women like you're showing yourself to be. Your relationships are business transactions, not love.
Golddigger
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The pointing at himself 😂😂😂
“This guy” 😂
Lmao 🤣
Points at self: Meee lol
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That's how my husband and my brother are, nonchalant and stoic. 😅
my boyfriend is like this. it bothered me at first (because i’m used to MY way of communication and everyone is not the same) but honestly, he keeps me grounded and i can read him well now. and when he gets excited it’s so, so cute. treasure men like this because they often show their love through their actions, which is what a lot of relationships are missing these days.
@@thisqueenieisunique2896are you a bad troll
Amen
@@thisqueenieisunique2896
Women = Emotional
Men = Rational
@@thisqueenieisunique2896balance is key.
@@tamidobi856you = incel
you ain’t even gonna smile for me? him: “🙂” 😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂
More like😏 ..😂
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😂😂 it was cute!
you want him to fake it? he is not fake.
He’s a man of few words, and more Action.
Cos Action speaks louder than words!!!😂💯
It would drive me NUTS.. I couldn't do it.. TALK TO MEEEEE!!😂
Crazy 😂😂😂😂
Yeah, I need a man with negotiation skills. This guy looks like he doesn’t know how to negotiate. I also think this behavior is often reflective of depression and trauma. Not saying that as an attack, as long as mental health is managed it’s alright.
Same girl same. I would feel lonely in that kind of situation. But I love that other woman don’t mind a partner like that.
There’s a lid for every jar! 💕😂
@@shawniet2352😂
@@DancingDeity Give him something actually worth talking about and he will no hesitation
You know he not cheating AT ALL!! He wouldn’t spare the energy 😂😂
Nahhh these types will casually cheat on you and go about their life acting the exact same way and you won’t even notice… but I guess ignorance is bliss
Also they are the type to dump you out of nowhere, no fighting, no complaining, just “we need to talk” one day and it’s over.
Why's everything about cheating?
@@jamjam9564 faithful is a quality we all look for and deserve. I was simply stating that he seems to give her an easy time in that dept and it must feel good. is that okay with you??
@@00Dawgggthis kind of happened to me 👀
@@00Dawggg you need therapy
These are the type of men that will step for you if need be…appreciate that Sis.
Step for you in silence..that’s sexy and I like it..😅
Women say they love it, but it be the first thing comin up in a argument 😂
They love it so they can argue bc they love to argue
@@someone7773 deadass “you never talk” the whole time they just be frustrated bc you never slip up and say anything that could cause a petty argument 💀 they be finding that type of stupid shit entertaining 😭😭😭
The incels don’t even need to be called, they just come out 😂😂
Cringe AF your probably a virgin lmao@@ronnirides9705
@@ronnirides9705facts, you showed up bright and early.
He's so confident!
I think you really make him happy 🤗
I have no chill. I'm chalanting all the time. Anywhere I go. My girl knows I get animated 😂
Chalanting! 😂😂😂😂😂
@@redbonescorpio79Right.😂😂😂
Chalanting!!!! 😂😂😂😂 I never knew how funny this word could be
😂😂😂
Me too fam,I chalanted my way into all kinds of BS 😅
Him spinning in that chair 😂 he was raging internally 🤣
If u know u know
This guy is everything! Handsome, quiet, cooking passing off bills and with whatever. One in a million!
😂😂😂😂
Lackin’ elsewhere…JS
Ofc that’s all y’all after
He’s AUTISTIC
🧢!!!! Nobody wants your ass, that’s why it feels like one in a million.
My man don't have to say too much, I luv them calm and respectful lol
This guy is about ACTIONS over WORDS ❤
Cooking, spending time, clean/well kept, gave money without you asking, etc.
Dude been nothing but nice to her and she still found a reason to complain 😂😂😂😂
Its super hard to have a relationship with someone who doesn't communicate. Its frustrating even if they are not doing it to be mean
He’s stoic as hell😂😂
@TheJola106 He just GLADLY gave her money and told her it's for whatever she wants. I'd take his nonchalant butt over these broke dramatic ninjas any day.
@@TheJola106hey man he pulled her somehow, and unless he suddenly would have become that way. He’s still not doing anything wrong. Some people are also better at showing how they feel vs just saying it ( which imo is overplayed ) we want to have that perfect textbook relationship but the truth is real relationships are flawed and worked through. (I’m also aware this is a skit I’m talking about the situation it’s depicting)
@andrerushawn6102 I didn't say he was doing anything wrong, I'm just saying poor communication definitely causes misunderstanding. If you love someone you just try your best to make things ok. Not perfect because cause not has to be
Bro Has NO Stress.
Bro Gonna Live Forever.
People like this can still be hiding a shit load of stress
Being that way doesn't mean you don't deal with stress. He's most likely someone who is heavily stressed because he's always observing everything.
People like this think a lot. Overthink too. They bottle up the stress.
Agreed. I am one of these people
@@AmericanAristo And then explode when the bottle is full.
The quietness is cute. And you can still tell here cares about you too
This is me and people be so tired of it 😂😂🤦🏽♂️
Me too! All of my friends have accepted it but we catch up on occasions
Most of the time its either this or crackhead energy
@@playdoug12 i need ONLY crackhead energy i cant live without it
Its ok😂
Same but the biggest hearts
He's a real one. He's seen some shit. This is the kind of dude you want having your back. He's a real homie.
Some quiet people are kind heared people are also rather evil if need be. We learned to observe and do more than talk. Someone talking smack may get an actual smile from us because we've been waiting for some bs to kick off way before you mistook us for a victim.
🫵🤬: @$&% ~#*×_ !
🙂: 🎶 She's a very freaky giiirrll! The kiind you don't take home to muuthaaaaaa! 🎵🎼
Eff that. I need animation you heard me!? When they’re this way it makes me seem like an unhinged banshee. Like I’m this loud obnoxious person when really it’s just you quiet as hell 😑
@@yanikeonpurpose lowkey... u might just be loud and obnoxious.😂😂
Let that man be nonchalant and great.😂 We appreciate a calm and stable king.
Girl that part! ☝🏽😂
💯 ❤
Yeah, I've really learned to appreciate nonchalant people.😂
The word king is being so overused now.
@@Truthman45 Nah, not when I want to uplift a gentleman being positive and not a public embarrassment.
This is just like my son. He was super excited and emotional and energetic as a child. After puberty hit at 14, he became soooo nonchalant and mellow.
He saves his energy for the times and people he wants to. 🤷🏽♀️
Spending time, engaged with the conversation, giving money, and cooking. Looks like a winner to me.
Girl he just gave you money, went to the grocery store with you, and continues to be with that high pitched voice, he’s in love what you talmbout? 😂
Your voice must be DEEP😳
Idk about love, but he doesn’t seem to have any inclination to leave as of this moment
This the one. Her voice really annoys me 😂😂
😭😭😭😭
He probably crazy AF about his girl and would do anything in the world for her💯💯💯💯
He might be in power saving mode, but he’s a good man Savannah a good man!😭🤣🤣🤣
I see what you did there with the "Waiting To Exhale" thing and I'm here for it, fam 👌🏾💯😉
😂😂😂❤
@@arhafrench5319Nah that "Family Reunion "😂😂
@@favored6007 Savannah was Whitney Houston, hon, her mom trying to hook her up with that dude from the Allstate commercials even though he was married...?
Lmboooooo 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"What's this for?!" Well, you did say he was getting some toniiiiight. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He has a peaceful soul. He does have emotions. He just may not express them. He shows his love through his actions. Is hard to talk when there's always someone talking.😅
Everything you said I agree with especially the last part 😭
😂😂😂
@@kaylabennett3149 ❤️
Fine As He Is, He Don’t Have To Say Nothing 😂… 🙌🏾❤️👍🏾
Not a damn thing
Ya’ll are crazy!😂😂😂
Much love.
@@andreanicole7217 😂😂
😂😂
@@andreanicole7217🤣🤣🤭
He's talking like he's texting someone. 😂
Great social skills 😂
😂😂😂😂
He's literally answering all her questions
Well at least he fine to look at while you talking 😂😂😂😂😂 and don’t argue back. But I bet when he need to protect you….beast mode
Just love that man for who he is, everybody ain't talkative and emotional, appreciate his calm, chill demeanor, no drama his way🤷♂️🤷♂️💯💯
That’s how my baby is and I love him to death for it. He’s actually as gentle as a butterfly and as sweet as honey🥰
That’s sweet…
@@Javajavajav I meant to say butterfly, but my statement was perfectly comprehensible. Flies are so gentle that you initially don’t even know when they’re on you sometimes. Have a good day.
An underrated blessing! Dont nobody want all that toxic drama! 😭
And y'all still find a way to fuck it up 😂😂 its coming....
@@iamnvmbr2015 we’ve been married for 4 years now and together for 5 lol. Yall
Miserable people do love company. Be blessed not bitter
I learned they show they care through their actions. Which honestly I prefer.
Sometimes
Nonchalant is not the best word. That’s a man at peace and enjoying his happiness with u. ❤🎉
This type of dude is the rock to a woman's waves. No matter how much she crashes against him, he stands firm.
Sooooo my hubby, so miss him dearly but grateful for the nearly 3 decades we shared
Aww. Your comment is in past tense. I hope you're doing well. ❤ Nice to know that you're appreciative of what you had and keeping the memories alive.
I know, men hold things deep inside and it hurts them. I took for granted he was "strong." Pain hurts, it has nothing to do with strength.
❤️🙏🏽
I once heard something that says " A nonchalant person is nice to everyone but mean to themselves" ...
Sounds like a libra
@@gerardovillarreal4640chill with that shit dawg, the astro whats it called signs dont exist they are just made up
... Guess so, huh.
Sounds about right
Maybe it's depression 😮
Hunny he’s giving BIG AQUARIUS ♒️ energy lol chileeee I know it all too well. 😮💨
I have a friend like this, never seen that fool get mad until... they got his paycheck wrong at work. Dat fool said "People gotta learn not to touch my money!". 😮😮😮
😅😅😅, they opened up dark Vader
gahahah i’m cackling at this
😂🤣
Nonchalant people like quiet people, they cool chill and often pretty nice til you cross them the wrong way or push their button or really piss them off, then your gonna see a side you’ve never seen before, a rather scary side
😂😂😂
My grandpa was exactly like this and it made me mad when people didn’t think he loved well or wasn’t happy. He smiled, he gave money just because, he cooked and picked up groceries just because. He was a kind soul and the chillest person I ever met. When people got mad at him he chuckled. I would rather have that than a hot head 😊
any day 💯
My mans full of emotion he just knows how to contain all of it. Hes probably an overthinker too
Look at those sandwiches
That mind's running. That toast is even
It’s a skit man lol you can’t tell you got all that from a video 😂
@@KnightPunkit’s real shi can’t even lie bruh nigga explained my situation perfect
nga studying the short😭🙏🏾
@@KnightPunkThe fact that there's always folks like y'all not understanding we're talking about the character a person portrays in the skit and not the actual person will forever be confusing.
The Ferb archetype
😭😭
People like us end up this way after trying for too long. Just accepting reality/life for what it is. When we’re happy though it’s genuine but rare💯
Facts
So true
100%
1000. The part I'm on. I'm just tired and want to accept as it is
Facts!
Sent this to my man so fast😂😂😂
I can tell he's the type to hit you with, "I fixed that leak you were talking about" ever so casually in passing 😂😂😂
OMG I did too😂😅😂. Feels good to know I'm not alone in this. I used to think he wasn't interested in the relationship. Got to understand that it's really his personality. Sometimes he's chatty though but it only lasts for a minute 😅
OMG your comment just touched my soul 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Men that listen & do 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@ShamyraC they are the best🤭
My husband is like that!!! And I’m ok with that because we balance each other out… 11 yrs married wouldn’t change anything!!! His level of calmness calms me!!!
Yea so tip time cause hooww do you navigate through that? I understand it doesn’t bother you but It bothers me and makes me feel unappreciated in every aspect!
@@Momo454-zm3xn it did not happened overnight I can tell you that…ummm I used to get pissssssed!!! But then I just had to except that’s just who he is…and everything else about him I absolutely loved and out weighed that… BUT #1 I had way more flaws than him and he took me as I was… so why I couldn’t do the same for him!!! TRUST IT WAS A PROCESS… Because I wanted him to be excited because I was excited 😆… but one thing he did do was try to get excited because I was excited… and let me just tell you…. that was so awkward and it was so uncomfortable for me because I tried to make him someone he wasn’t… so either way my poe husband couldn’t win for losing!!! I said to myself one day leave that man alone🤣!!!
@@Momo454-zm3xnyou just have different personalities, no way to handle it. Just accept it, don't get offended by the smallest things i guess (depending on the context)
@@Momo454-zm3xn as a man, this is something you should tell him if you haven’t already. A lot of times we do that sort of thing without knowing or thinking about it never understanding or realizing how it makes the woman feel. Bringing it to his attention will help you understand why he does it and bring it to his attention so he knows to maybe change it a little, or you understand why he’s so quiet and then it won’t bother you as much. We deal with a lot of shit that most men don’t know how or even want to talk about which is my biggest issue, sometimes the best thing that’s happened for me was my girl calling me out in a calm and respectful way and just wanting to know why I am the way I am. Because of that I’ve been able to open up more and talk about shit I never thought I would have talked about. I think that saved my relationship honestly. Sorry that’s long but communication is absolutely one of the most important things.
@@Momo454-zm3xnthen find you an energetic and outgoing man 🤷🏾♀️ there’s not really much you can do to ‘navigate’ something like that
Guess who’s getting some tonight ? “Mmeeee” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I’m weak 😂😂 too cute ❤
That means everything’s ok. I can’t stand being asked “what’s wrong?” When I’m chilling. But I like that she cares enough to check
Gang gets it👆🏽
Exactly
She wants you to be “vulnerable” even if there’s nothing to be vulnerable about so she can feel more secure in the relationship while simultaneously loosing respect for you as a man bc even though shes seeking for that emotion she doesn’t know she really doesn’t want that until she finally obtain it…. Women 101
@@101elelky 😆😆😆well said
Good to know that I’m not alone
U know what.. as nonchalant as he is, my respect for this brotha is 100% and ion even know him. Dis man love u sis😂🤝🏾💯
Girl he cooks, gives you money, hangs out with you, he’s good looking, and he doesn’t talk!! He’s perfect 😊
How to say your shallow without directly saying your shallow ^ “he doesn’t talk, gives you money and he’s good looking” god have mercy holy fuck.
@@calebhabegger5422I meaaaaaaan would YOU turn it down?
@@ToxicBri-mwah Yes. I’m not shallow.
@@ToxicBri-mwah Handing out money like it’s a charity gala, lol what type of financially sound person does this? 🚩🚩
@@ToxicBri-mwah and Not talking is supposed to be a likable and attractive??? Straight delusion. What planet do you live on exactly because that’s pretty disconnected from reality.
Her: What you makin' to eat?
Him: Food
🤭😂
Aye that’s part of what makes it fun for some girls not all of em. If they goofy and energetic enough they can always get reaction outta their man no matter how nonchalant and easy going he is
Yes! I find myself always trying to get a laugh or reaction out of my husband, doing dances, fake karate, hiding around corners. It helps break up the stress sometimes of having young kids and chores.
@@LivinLaVidaLokaa😂 that's cool
YESS IM GOOFY AF 😭😭
@@LivinLaVidaLokaa Your are a good wife just off that alone 😂
@@KurosakiLuvar01me toooo. I play all day!
He high asf 😂
I dnt think so actually I dnt even think he doesn’t any type of drug dude looks young n healthy
When someone acts chill and shit people always say they’re high🫡
It was a joke
@@aworkofart9163 okay kid 😂
@@ToxicFear47 kid? I’m 30 years old
He's chill af, more people should be like this
As a woman who loves to talk I LOVE being with nonchalant men lol. They remember everything and they listen with intent. The guy I’m dating now is like this and he shows he cares with his actions and matches my love language. 10/10 ladies
I love guys like that though cause they don’t talk a lot, listen pretty well and surprise you with random smiles and bursts of energy 😊
This is actually a trauma response to suppressing emotions and being told not to have emotions or express yourself. He's in survival mode 24/7... complete opposite of cool, laid back and nonchalant 🥺🙏🏾♥️ God bless
The fuck? No that's literally how I am. Men aren't women.
Agreed. I have been in this state for the last 5 years after a series of letdowns and shit going wrong. A part of me wants the old me back but doesn't feel like anything is worth it.
Girls will confuse nonchalant guys with boredome while Women find them peaceful. A man like that knows not to create drama where there doesn’t need to be and that's a major green flag 👌
I know. I'm thinking just leave him alone before you mess it up.
Giving a "major green flag" to yourself tho...😅🤣🤣 too funny
STILL WATER RUNS DEEP😂 Girl leave the boy alone. People like him.. YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE THEM MAD, HURT, EMOTIONAL🆘🤣
My gf is like that. Fine as hell, sweet AF, but very, VERY chill. I'm the one that smoke, but she always the chill one😂
It is a misconception that people who smoke are chill. I’ve seen the pitfalls of smoking firsthand. Become addicted to it, and instead of being chill, you become anxious when you go too long without it
@@darcash1738 yea, that can be very true. Not my personal situation however.
Thats me fr lmao
@@Ria-sd2ex nice bro, but you’re walking on a tightrope into the future, no doubt
@@darcash1738 OMG man, plz don't be that guy😐
😂❤ I think men like this are calm and great listeners and doers without you even asking ❤ their awareness is elite because they spend a lot of time observing and they love when you're affectionate...they just soak up all the love you have to give like sponges!!❤❤
Mostly introverts
@@precious-5016 I concur! 💯💕
@@ShamiaIrving but am bit balanced despite being so introvert.. I love to express myself to they person I love too
@precious-5016 Most men who are introverts, are the same way...very expressive to those they feel are worthy of their vulnerability 💯 They're usually great writers as well 💯💕
@@ShamiaIrving yes.. I have great humor and very funny as well.
Bless you ❤️
She knew just what to say to make him smile!! I love it!! 🔥🔥🔥🩷❤️💙💙
i would be okay with it for about 2 years...😊gg maybe even longer,ill take his personality over verbal abuse and disrespect any day...hes a keeper...keep him
He’s a keeper! You definitely don’t have to worry about him talking to nobody else😂
He knows the cheat codes, let your actions speak for you, dont say to much dont expect much, theres no room for assumptions just expectations
Your comments should be pinned
Yup🚩Most truthful comment posted. He might slip up and tell her how much FUN he’s having with his other one🤣
That brother just peaceful
He is giving, girl get out my face energy. I love it 😂😂❤
That’s how you do it king 👑…. Reserve that energy and pick your battles wisely 🙌 a leader and not a follower!
That ain't got shit to do with being a leader or follower or battles😄, he's just not extroverted or expressive.... that's his personality naturally I guess, unless he's just "trying" to be like that....either way everybody has different personalities.
@@realn.w.a554 this is facts 😂 cause there’s plenty of beta men who are nonchalant 🤣
@@Teeanthony Right lol I don't think they thought this out to well. 🤭
Nah, he's screaming inside
Yeah I am the same way
And probably cheating on the side
@maryrossi1406 I'm the same type dude
@mokgadihopemakola9028 got to it's 2024
@@LiftBTCfor the streets.
Hes either super introverted, completely checked out, or on the spectrum.. either way hes very lovable 😍
A lot of us are "Introverted" yet get bashed over it as if it's something wrong. We Introverts think more than we talk.
He's not on the spectrum, and he's not checked out. He's just quiet and / or shy. I am, too, and always stayed on honor roll. But because I'm a girl as a kid, a lot of kids considered me stuck up. But I wasn't. I was just quiet and shy. And most people as myself love to date sensible extraverted personality types. The ones who ask questions, talk alot and make us laught. Lol
On the spectrum. 😂😂😂. He's proven through his actions that he loves her. He doesn't need to say I love every 5 seconds to balance out her insecurities.
What does it matter, people always try and label people with these personality titles when people are very complex and we all have many layers/sides to be labeled with a personality title/trait, he nonchalant but can still express himself his own way, just leave it at that
@Xoxo I agree with you, we think more than we talk
I love my man! He's nonchalant too and it's so cute when he gets excited! When he's on energy mode he'll talk forever but I love how sweet and to himself he is. He's very gentle and very caring and likes to give me little gifts or pictures or money sometimes. He's perfect and i wanna marry him one day
What you waiting on woman? 😄
@@gprince7953she cheating on him right now
He’s cheating on you
@@Shot_City313you say that because you've never been loved and are jealous, it's okay buddy, let it out
@@friendlyfrenzy3498 naw you got it all wrong all women cheat clown don’t matter if she love you or not 😂😂you know how many girls love they man but cheat immediately
His level of stoicism is over 9000
The thing is he actually shows he cares in other ways lol. Good dude
Goes Grocery shopping with her, gives her Money & cooks for her too. I bet he isn't Nonchalant when it's "sexy time" ! What more does she want?
Now if only MOST men were like this!! Not all bc that would be boring!!🤗💖💯
The Spinning In The Chair Killed Me😂😂
Me too😂😂
He was stemming 😆 Dats that autism rizz 😎
@@ai-g472 Thats Definitely Some 💩 I’ll Do😂😂
How I feel when my girl what extra edit outta me with a conversation or how I’m feeling 😂😂
Yet again we get called boring if we’re like this in a relationship, like damn let me be me 😂👌🏼
You gotta act like this sometimes and most other times you gotta act how they want you to act. Then they call it having emotional intelligence. "Know how to read the room" When they lack intelligence the most when they're being emotional.
Work on yourself and you will communicate better
Nar that shit is annoying your not 3 years old Speak up
Right. A few ex’s ago would tell me I was boring. I hated going out drinking, hated partying really (besides bbqs and get togethers) I like quiet.
Facts!
That’s how I used to be till I learned how to open up now I wish I should’ve stayed like this lol
Why?
@@Luca_Brycei sorry to hear that. I don't think you should stop opening up though, just refine your discernment so you could choose better people who'll reciprocate your love nd care
@@Luca_Bryceiyo stop opening if u really need to talk about your problems get a therapist if u can afford. if not hopefully u have 1 close friend or fam that u trust. Never talk to your girl about the feeling u going through that shii will be thrown in your face everytime.
Do not trust women when they say open up. Their words and actions do not match as by nature they are incongruent. Keep it in, talk to trusted friends, talk to paid therapist, even vent anonymously online, but do NOT confide in a woman. A “vulnerable” man is one open for attack. Stay safe.
@@6ixR0llistg do not EVER open up to a women. It’s really rare occasion where the women is genuinely concerned but it best not to fuck around and find out hold those feelings with the bros or pops or even OG
It's called Stoicism, and it is a valuable character trait in a person and a great way to deal with anxiety; my emotions do not control me, I control them, I cannot control what the world will throw at me, but I can control how I will react to it.
I prefer these type of men over the ones who are talkative & argumentative. 💖💯
.. um you can be talkative and not argumentative?? So u like ur men mute and door mats ? No one should be like that in a relationship
@@StephanieLinda_It’s more of a rather pick this than that situation
@@davida99 yes.. I know so my question still stands and it's weird to me that someone wouldn't want a partner that's talkative to them.
@@StephanieLinda_ Well I think that’s obvious that someone wants a partner to communicate with, However, some people are just too talkative.
You're right he should just be talkative to another female or just hold it in until you walk into the closet and find the stool kicked underneath his feet. Then you can be like "why didn't he say anything.