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  • @wholesomesimon
    @wholesomesimon  2 года назад +778

    more writing: www.wholesomesimon.com
    :)
    Much love!
    -Simon

    • @joehernandez3492
      @joehernandez3492 2 года назад +4

      yes sir

    • @oscarthenotsogrouchy
      @oscarthenotsogrouchy 2 года назад +2

      bro we fell in love in october is such a banger !! i recommend the loser by verzache 🔥

    • @vidprimorac8468
      @vidprimorac8468 Год назад +1

      My man I understand you completely and I want you to know I love you too and I love all people without exeption even when the people I love so much hurt me or make me mad I am not mad I am just frustrated that I cant love them so that even when they hurt me I show them love. So please you who is reading this (Ana lucas prehaps you) show your love twords all even the ones that hurt you

    • @bennyheadofthechairmen8808
      @bennyheadofthechairmen8808 Год назад +1

      Pain is the thing that keeps us going, and what gives us purpose.

    • @ghijbvhiigvh3940
      @ghijbvhiigvh3940 Год назад

      you haven’t been through anything

  • @Seekoiah
    @Seekoiah Год назад +6140

    Watching this video 2 years later, then clicking his account and seeing he’s travelling the world after saying he wants to but it’s impossible, is just so reassuring and lovely

    • @shap9148
      @shap9148 Год назад +14

      yes

    • @hare_krishn.77
      @hare_krishn.77 Год назад +19

      Yepp!!! :) Travelling the whole world is my dream too... And ik it's kinda impossible for cuz I'm from a middle class family!!!🥲 So I'm just dreaming but i really wanna explore this world!!!!

    • @janewambui2065
      @janewambui2065 Год назад

      ​@@hare_krishn.77you can travel the world if you want to there are so many ways to travel and make money

    • @glimmerybubbles
      @glimmerybubbles Год назад +3

      oh... that warms my heart

    • @Nia-020
      @Nia-020 Год назад +1

      I swear I love things like this

  • @MashalaT
    @MashalaT 2 года назад +4353

    “ it doesn’t get easier, you get stronger “
    Life works in circles, happy, sad, angry, scared, and all the way back to the start, trust it will always come back around to happiness

    • @ariebakhuizen5486
      @ariebakhuizen5486 Год назад +13

      I’m starting to realize that, thank you. And when you get older these ‘small’ (what first a ‘big’ thing was) things doesn’t bother you that much anymore so you are more likely to be happy (for a longer period if time) :)

    • @VoidMySoul
      @VoidMySoul Год назад +7

      Make sure you get stronger in a healthy way tho. Ive been taking the wrong route for a long time but reconnecting with family helped ground me again and realize some pain is good for you

    • @aoifemagee5447
      @aoifemagee5447 Год назад +4

      That’s a great way to put it. And it’s true. You build resilience and realise that if you’ve got through difficult things before even if you don’t know how you managed to get through, it gives you hope that you can get through pain you might not think your capable of in the moment.

    • @beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301
      @beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301 Год назад

      So, i feel like it's getting harder for me or am i just getting weaker?

    • @MashalaT
      @MashalaT Год назад +3

      @@beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301 I promise you it gets better, there was a time I could genuinely not see a future for myself and now I do, it took time and I know that’s daunting but if you try your best to have a positive mindset even when it seems impossible everything will start to make sense, stay strong and remember that you are human and it’s okay to have ups and downs and it’s actually completely normal and healthy

  • @jazme_
    @jazme_ Год назад +1875

    "You know what? Maybe life isn't so bad after all"
    💗

  • @cypherjash
    @cypherjash 10 месяцев назад +71

    “it's okay to be lost” thank you, man.

  • @verity-gv4cz
    @verity-gv4cz 11 месяцев назад +319

    Crying so bad right now, don't know what to do with my life, but i guess its okay not to be okay sometimes:(

    • @adibajannat334
      @adibajannat334 10 месяцев назад +3

      Seems like you exactly wrote my situation

    • @zoemolloy1692
      @zoemolloy1692 10 месяцев назад +12

      This may sound beyond cliche… but trust me when i say everything works out in the end. The best thing about not being ok, is you learn that you need to be there in order to get better, onwards and upwards. Hopefully this comment finds you in a better place. Go enjoy a sunset, your favourite meal and take time for solitude. You are the only person you can control, some days that is shit to hear, but there is so much freedom in it. Sending love

    • @sweetestaphrodite
      @sweetestaphrodite 9 месяцев назад +2

      I feel it so badly. I am so burdened by decision. I’m so burdened by myself. I am so so so so so burdened. Things happen for a reason but what if my life has a horrible ending? Some people just don’t get good lives. Some people die fucking horribly. What if I’m one of them? I hate everything.

    • @Thekingkhari
      @Thekingkhari 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@sweetestaphroditeyou will live. Believe in your self and try focus on that elusive good you know exists. Because you belong. We belong, even when we think we don’t

    • @GokuKakrot-ic3wz
      @GokuKakrot-ic3wz 5 месяцев назад

      I will come back here 2 years later

  • @777hailey4
    @777hailey4 Год назад +803

    We’re all the main characters of our own lives, why do we make it so embarrassing to put ourselves first?

    • @briana.hinojosa
      @briana.hinojosa Год назад +1

      I love this !

    • @Revelation.21.4
      @Revelation.21.4 Год назад +6

      Because that’s not what God says, but of course there are specific circumstances where we need to put ourselves first. For example, when we’re struggling with our mental health, with others, or just struggling. The most humble people will be rewarded the most.

    • @bambi9703
      @bambi9703 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@Revelation.21.4that’s why there’s balance. God wouldn’t want you to be too selfless and putting yourself in the backseat of your own life. if you need it, put yourself first. if you’re okay, put others before you

    • @goldendiamon
      @goldendiamon 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Revelation.21.4It's not selfish to want to be a main character.Even God would want you to be a main character of your life,of course,he stated in many verses that you are his child you are his prince or princess,and that doesn't mean selfishness.Being a main character means treating others equally with respect

  • @birdmankeigo5048
    @birdmankeigo5048 2 года назад +3877

    I felt like crying when he said 'it gets better' because my sister once told me 'it always gets better' when I was at my worst (I think). Thank you, Simon.
    -A struggling minor

    • @luvv985_
      @luvv985_ 2 года назад +16

      I'm sure your strong, and you can pass your struggles, you CAN do it

    • @manalbouanane2463
      @manalbouanane2463 2 года назад +3

      I really hope you overcome this struggle soon ❤

    • @ive5773
      @ive5773 2 года назад +4

      Lmao 😂

    • @birdmankeigo5048
      @birdmankeigo5048 2 года назад +7

      @@ive5773 I'm- what is this supposed to mean? Genuinely confused 🤭

    • @jasoncushing5561
      @jasoncushing5561 2 года назад +3

      Have you tried talking to God/Jesus? He loves you so much and can work miracles in your life.

  • @mac-jr8vp
    @mac-jr8vp 4 года назад +9976

    I would trust Simon with my drink at a party

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  4 года назад +1896

      😭😭 the biggest compliment everrr

    • @bigworm68
      @bigworm68 4 года назад +117

      everything led me to holding YOUR drink

    • @thefilirivera
      @thefilirivera 2 года назад +66

      I wouldn’t. He tries too hard to get your trust.

    • @glitchingberror1717
      @glitchingberror1717 2 года назад +10

      The biggest compliment!!

    • @hongwonie
      @hongwonie 2 года назад +1

      fr

  • @Introvert__queen
    @Introvert__queen 8 месяцев назад +8

    The only reason i want to learn driving : whenever i am anxious , sad , or in a bad mood i can just take out my keys and drive for 2 hrs and going to a place that nobody knows ........ a quiet place in which nobody can find me .

  • @silverkeymusic
    @silverkeymusic 6 месяцев назад +9

    You are one of those rare people that you can find in the world who just needs to be protected because you're so special. I love your mindset, and it's so inspiring. Keep it up

  • @DaniaMihaela
    @DaniaMihaela Год назад +4997

    Sitting in my bed crying and can't think of any way life could get better but your video just helped, I cannot explain how but it came like a bandage on an open wound

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 Год назад +35

      God can help you! I’m praying for hope and peace in our Lord Jesus Christ name🙏❤️

    • @angelica11
      @angelica11 Год назад +13

      you deserve to take care of and be kind to ourself

    • @BiggestAzzHoleEver
      @BiggestAzzHoleEver Год назад +1

      @@westonlord4214 god can do waaay better tbh.

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +1

      i felt the same way, it felt like i had nothing until i saw this video and felt touched :) crazy how someone can help other people so much

    • @Moonmagic81
      @Moonmagic81 Год назад

      @@BiggestAzzHoleEver way to ruin the damn moment...

  • @kenntmannichtt
    @kenntmannichtt 2 года назад +1084

    its incredibly calming to see ppl enjoying life with the smallest actions

  • @Tmntluver
    @Tmntluver 4 года назад +2695

    i lost all my friends and because of that i'm finally able to be the real me and express my actually style and just be overall free. i love your vibes and mindset simon bad weeks, months, or even years happen, but there are good outcomes so please keep it wholesome and keep pushing :) im proud of you. thank you and thank you over and over again simon.
    keeping it wholesome, also love that you listen to girl in red

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  4 года назад +145

      Keep it wholesome :)

    • @shaylav.8521
      @shaylav.8521 2 года назад +38

      We got a girl in red stan 🫶🏻❤❤

    • @Blk_N_Bleu
      @Blk_N_Bleu 2 года назад +3

      Yeah i was wondering what that song was. I finally found it here, and i love these vibes. It means a lot to me.

    • @noseokjinnolife2219
      @noseokjinnolife2219 2 года назад +12

      I also lost all my friends 💀💀

    • @jasoncushing5561
      @jasoncushing5561 2 года назад +5

      You’ll always have a best friend… Have you tried talking to God/Jesus? He loves vou so
      much and can work miracles in your life.

  • @Hoi2012
    @Hoi2012 Год назад +283

    This video changed my mental health. A few months ago i was extremely depressed and i had alot of anxiety. Your videos relieved so much of my stress. I'm no longer that negative person i once was, i'm starting to become alot more positive.
    Thanks you so much Simon

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +12

      this gives me hope for myself :) thank you for sharing your experience

    • @radieschen_tv3985
      @radieschen_tv3985 Год назад +1

      W

    • @makenfenix
      @makenfenix Год назад

      Remember this comment bro❤

  • @Asticii
    @Asticii 11 месяцев назад +106

    Bro, for anyone struggling, don’t ever give up on life. There are so many things that you still haven’t done yet and you would be missed so much. You are surrounded by people who love and support you and you shouldn’t ever hesitate to ask for help. Life gets so much better. Trust❤️

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 11 месяцев назад

      Needed to hear this

    • @Asticii
      @Asticii 11 месяцев назад

      @@jaysouthmusic8230 glad I could help bro🙏

    • @aesqueth2815
      @aesqueth2815 10 месяцев назад

      Needed this

    • @aesqueth2815
      @aesqueth2815 10 месяцев назад

      Needed this

    • @Asticii
      @Asticii 10 месяцев назад

      @@aesqueth2815 that’s great to hear man, glad I could help

  • @takemehome.9729
    @takemehome.9729 2 года назад +706

    The beauty about this world is knowing someone is also feeling the same way as you.. and for the first time, you're no longer scared to go through another day.

    • @div-ineee
      @div-ineee Год назад +3

      this

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +1

      exactly, it makes everyone feel safer knowing that you aren’t alone and can relate to other people

  • @diannecastro5640
    @diannecastro5640 4 года назад +1438

    Cleaning and listening to this makes me so motivational

    • @diannecastro5640
      @diannecastro5640 4 года назад +14

      My life is now complete🥺

    • @aaronemerich383
      @aaronemerich383 2 года назад +10

      Funny enough, 2 years later, I'm cleaning and listening to this video that I put on my "Watch Later" list relatively recently

    • @aicha1031
      @aicha1031 2 года назад +2

      Same here 😭😭

    • @Dhead-io4om
      @Dhead-io4om Год назад

      Same cleaning/rearranging lol

  • @joneyor6595
    @joneyor6595 2 года назад +491

    Its okay to feel lost, just never forget where you're going.

    • @Jaxzee0122
      @Jaxzee0122 Год назад

      I’ve never heard that before what a good quote

  • @Agent87.647
    @Agent87.647 Год назад +358

    “Maybe parking lots are the cure to depression” - Simon

  • @Its_semio
    @Its_semio 4 года назад +796

    "I feel kinda lost" to "oh btw do you like my crocs"😂; love the contrast haha. Love this video & you're really talented!

  • @lejukaa
    @lejukaa Год назад +390

    I'm turning 19 tomorrow and let's just say this video helped me a lot. I've been feeling scared and confused about what the future holds. Thank you for this!

    • @FWyatt
      @FWyatt Год назад +32

      I've ecently turned 64 and your (L3juka) comment is how i feel. I'm scared of my "Tommorrows" my future. I lost my wife of 40 years and i get scared of life most days. But thanks for this video. I just cvame in from being at church and afterwards coming home i was feeling so lost. I turned on my computer to get some music and this was on the tope of my feed todsy. Thanks again.

    • @wookie6943
      @wookie6943 Год назад

      Hows it going bro

  • @lucycooperofficial
    @lucycooperofficial Год назад +111

    I want a friend like this 🥺 I wish more people got deep and realistic like this, thank you.

  • @videocevirilerim
    @videocevirilerim Год назад +113

    "it's okay to feel lost" I NEEDED THIS. IM GONNA GO OUT NOW AND TRY TO REFRESH MY MIND, THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @crimson8017
    @crimson8017 2 года назад +98

    “It’s okay to feel lost, it’s okay to be hurt,” hit harder than it should’ve 💀

  • @priscillaaa_j
    @priscillaaa_j 2 года назад +339

    "maybe parking lots are the cure to depression" my goodness it is

    • @pastaslut
      @pastaslut Год назад

      PLS

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 Год назад +3

      Jesus is the cure for depression🙏❤️

    • @nahrafe
      @nahrafe Год назад +1

      @@westonlord4214 sure, God (your context is Jesus, it's different for me) is one of the cure of depression. But in places like parking lots, you could feel His presence better.. at least for me. I feel the chaos of life that i felt has strayed me from God, maybe that's why some religions have daily prayers.

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 Год назад +3

      @@nahrafe Yes, John 16:33 is a great verse for this; this world will throw things at us that can bring us farther from God but it’s a very important thing to stay close to God through the bad times because he’ll always stay right by you through them🙏❤️

  • @raiderng
    @raiderng 3 года назад +786

    This guy is actually a mobile therapist, my dad has COVID and was told this morning he might not have long left, I can’t slow my breathing because I freaking out, I’ve never had someone I’m close to pass, I looked up how to deal with stress you’ve never felt before and he came up. I’ve only watched 4 videos but I feel so much better, truly thank you to this guy he really helped me in only 2 hours
    Edit: to put it in context, just last week I was going fishing with him and helping him pack his house so he can move, he moved 5 days and then I got a call from him telling me he has COVID, I thought nothing off it, then just yesterday my mom rushed home from work crying telling me and my brother to look at the face time cuz it might me our last chance, then this morning I was told again that he doesn’t have very long left, I can’t even see him because the doctors won’t pick up the phone because they’re busy and I can’t see in person cuz he’s 3 states away

    • @goldensaddle1361
      @goldensaddle1361 2 года назад +59

      It's been a long time since you posted this
      How is your Dad doing now ?

    • @wophle
      @wophle 2 года назад +26

      i wish you the best and for your dad’s health❤️

    • @thegnome9529
      @thegnome9529 2 года назад +17

      How are you doing now?

    • @raiderng
      @raiderng 2 года назад +98

      @@goldensaddle1361 he past away on October 5th

    • @raiderng
      @raiderng 2 года назад +30

      @@thegnome9529 doing good

  • @tommy_swim243
    @tommy_swim243 10 месяцев назад +10

    Dude. I’m literally feeling exactly what you’re feeling. I felt like I had everything and lost it. I don’t know why or how I lost it and I don’t know how to get it back

  • @noheflog
    @noheflog Год назад +17

    I confess that every time I feel lost and tired, I come here because this video makes me feel that I am not the only person in the world who feels lost with life

    • @austinglass1916
      @austinglass1916 Год назад

      I'm right here with you, keep your head up fam.

  • @NiveaKhondaker
    @NiveaKhondaker 4 года назад +283

    Loved how Simon's videos aren"t really planned, especially this one because it feels like you're talking to a friend

  • @loukes116
    @loukes116 2 года назад +88

    this just randomly came up on my feed 2 years later and me feel a whole lot better :) love your mindset bro

  • @taliar8115
    @taliar8115 4 года назад +229

    it's currently 4:30am, I just finished watching the video and proceeded to bawl my damn eyes out (the acoustic version of heather at the end put me in my feels so bad). this video really made me think and I am so damn grateful for it as well as all of the amazing content you put out there. keep it wholesome and pls keep making me bawl my eyes out

    • @sledge2105
      @sledge2105 2 года назад

      And? No one cares attention seeker.

  • @aidanngarrettt
    @aidanngarrettt Год назад +50

    you really are something special, you were put on this earth for us to see. No religion or politics involved, no hatred just pure content wether its 2 weeks ago or 2 years ago your content is beautiful

  • @yuk1r0_33
    @yuk1r0_33 10 месяцев назад +9

    "i cant help but feel like if we die without experiencing all these things of people that we share this planet with do we really know what its like to be human" ill think about this forever now, in a positive way. I know wanna try even more, i wanna see the world, try being positive and maybe humans arent so bad after all?

  • @rainwater375
    @rainwater375 4 года назад +88

    :) GIRL IN RED IS ELITE also downtown by peep will be a vibe. Love you Simon, keep it wholesome.

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  4 года назад +5

      Yes!!! Love ya liz! Keep it wholesome

    • @oliveee
      @oliveee 3 года назад

      ayyyy a girl inred stan letss goooo + wholesome fan = PERFECTT

  • @goodbyesam7564
    @goodbyesam7564 Год назад +248

    my dad passed away 2 months ago and I was freaking out today because I took a semester off for college and now I don’t know if I even want to continue, I’m literally a freshman. I was having a mental break down today and I saw this vid in my recommendations and it rlly comforted me

    • @TeaganAnn
      @TeaganAnn Год назад +22

      You’ve got this hun. I believe in you.

    • @hehehe4753
      @hehehe4753 Год назад +23

      You got this. My father passed away 5 months ago still don't know how to deal with this life now. It's still hard to digest the truth but it is what it is. You gotta be strong and acceptance is the key to feel at ease, it takes process but you'll got this.

    • @latifaalrajhi3255
      @latifaalrajhi3255 Год назад +6

      Continue don’t give up it will get easier and you will get out of it stronger ,strong heart.

    • @gagank143
      @gagank143 Год назад +1

      Are you ok?

    • @nitiaarethiya6811
      @nitiaarethiya6811 Год назад +2

      I know you can do it! Make your dad proud!!

  • @fayejackson1524
    @fayejackson1524 Год назад +82

    I had this sudden feeling of coming back to this video to comment. My whole life quote and what I’ve always been preaching to my friends is “everything happens for a reason”. However, for a couple of days I’ve been feeling empty, I have had panic attacks and cried hard. I have no idea what the reason is and it seemed like I couldn’t pull myself out. I was so obsessed with the thought of “being happy again”. Which made me feel bad and mad at myself for not being able to feel happy.
    Right now, I’m at more peace. I’m breathing, keeping myself busy and letting everything go. Good things, good days will come.

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +2

      ive been feeling the same exact way, thank you for sharing how you feel because it made me feel a lot better about how i’m feeling and knowing you’re okay makes me so happy and gives me hope that i will be okay as well :) we can get through this❤, i am also always saying that “everything happens for a reason” or “it was meant to be this way” to my friends but weirdly i never believe it myself. it’s important to remember that what you would tell a friend or people in general is something you should say to yourself

  • @IngloriousMedia.
    @IngloriousMedia. Год назад +12

    Im suffering from probably the worst mental health I’ve ever had in life. Anxiety through the roof all day everyday starting the moment i wake up. I watched this video probably about a month or so ago and it rly opened my eyes on my current issue. I feel like we all need to hear that its going to be okay every once in a while. Thank you

  • @mikithealien
    @mikithealien Год назад +8

    Hey man, whatever you’re going through, stay strong king. And thank you, I really needed this video.

  • @1soap_2soup
    @1soap_2soup 4 года назад +72

    I’ve body shamed so many times on my life and insecure about myself. And I’ve lost so many people but that those moments made me stronger and I’ve been trying to focus on myself i and I found a lot that I didn’t know like I’m really good and writing and drawing. And I want to thank you for making these video cause you helped me so much. Love you Simon and as you like to say, keep it wholesome✨

    • @sunny_dummy833
      @sunny_dummy833 2 года назад

      I know this is from 2 years ago but I want to say that,thank you for posting this comment.Maybe you think no one cares but I do,even if it was from years ago.Maybe you're fine now but idk.

    • @arcanum814
      @arcanum814 2 года назад +1

      "I've body shamed so many times." Ok hear me out, I mean no disrespect, but when I read this I thought that you were the one body-shaming people, I got confused. Sorry, Lol. Great comment!

  • @sukriti2316
    @sukriti2316 Год назад +6

    Read this in some book :
    Everytime you feel lost, be grateful. Because being lost in life, is a sign by the universe that you've grown. Everytime you grow and head towards a new chapter in life, the universe throws a new hurdle at you. Each bigger than the last. And that's just the beauty of it. The proof of your growth. And that a new, better you is waiting for you to overcome those moments where everything appears to be juggling with your sanity "

  • @AlexSharbono_
    @AlexSharbono_ 2 года назад +90

    so crazy how im going through horrible stuff rn and I wound up finding this video in my recommended 2 years after you posted it:,) thank you for this simon

    • @grain9640
      @grain9640 Год назад

      Something bad happened today and I found this video tonight

  • @ChristelleCloud
    @ChristelleCloud 2 года назад +75

    Yes, everything does happen for a reason. Because here I am watching this video 2 years later on a day I'm really needed to hear this. :')
    Thank you! ♥️

  • @alveerachauhan
    @alveerachauhan Год назад +183

    Okay! Overthinking sucks💔
    Just keep going everyone, it's alright

    • @Deenodounia
      @Deenodounia Год назад

      It’s hurt things overthinking

  • @isha_121i4
    @isha_121i4 6 месяцев назад +1

    Watching this after 3yrs without searching for it makes me think about everything DOES happens for a reason, but clicking in your channel and seeing your recent videos travelling the world proud of you boy!! This subscriber is clapping for you!!
    wishes buddy!!

  • @sayantani3374
    @sayantani3374 Год назад +31

    His vibe is so peaceful

  • @almondmelk5830
    @almondmelk5830 Год назад +42

    I completely and totally agree. The ability to find peace and beauty in the smallest and randomness of things is what brings the world to life. It's easy for life to speed up and for you to look over the small details, but noticing and appreciating little things is what makes me happy :)

  • @rebecabittencourt9398
    @rebecabittencourt9398 Год назад +18

    it’s such a warm feeling to hear that someone is feeling lost and trying to find themselves when you’re going through the same thing. being me just feels new, and see that there’s other people that is trying to figure out the way of their life it’s comforting. thank you a lot, simon

  • @Smile_Easy
    @Smile_Easy Год назад +9

    Sitting on my bed crying , just starting college at 23. It feels overwhelming,I feel behind cause my friends have graduated

  • @pondwoes
    @pondwoes Год назад +112

    ive been having i think the worst weeks i’ve had in my life so far, i couldn’t even work up the courage to go to school today because i was freaking out so bad, i just came on youtube for a distraction and i saw this video and now i’m crying hahahejf thank you for this man

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +6

      been feeling the same way as well, i had to leave school today after not even an hour of being there because of an anxiety attack🥲 but we have to remember it’s okay to go to school and it’s okay to be feeling sad as well. times like these are normal and it will pass:) i hope everything is great for you

    • @jjo.joey_
      @jjo.joey_ 11 месяцев назад +1

      real

    • @xozellet
      @xozellet 11 месяцев назад

      @@jjo.joey_same

  • @ashlynx1042
    @ashlynx1042 4 года назад +33

    Your voice is very calm and I love that

  • @astheearth
    @astheearth 4 года назад +39

    My mental health isn't that great lately but this is helping me so much, Thank you for this amazing and inspiring content! You feel at peace in a parking lot, I feel at peace when I'm watching your videos at 1 am in the garden :) I really think your videos are gonna change my live

  • @dontleavemehere
    @dontleavemehere 2 года назад +24

    I think i am gonna cry, i just need a hug. I love u and ur videos so much, keep it wholesome Simon!!

  • @cherthefairy
    @cherthefairy Год назад +6

    here’s a virtual hug for you🫂💓 God loves u and i do too ! praying for ur healing and peace

  • @MiniGod111
    @MiniGod111 2 года назад +48

    Recently in my country Iran
    Everything is so bad ...
    But your video did calm me down now at least a little
    "Everything happens for a reason"
    I needed to hear it
    Thank you.

  • @heyyoupretty760
    @heyyoupretty760 4 года назад +125

    Things do happen for a reason💘 I had some tough times but now I’m getting back up. Don’t give up you got this and as always keep it wholesome 💕

  • @lester7087
    @lester7087 4 года назад +72

    You seen like such a nice person to be around btw love your TikToks and videos

  • @deepti-u8p
    @deepti-u8p 8 месяцев назад +1

    This video makes me feel better always, I’ll be crying, sad, etc and after watching this video I’ll just feel wayyyy better. Thank you :)

  • @allisonblakely8345
    @allisonblakely8345 11 месяцев назад +3

    this felt like a big ol' hug. thank you, stranger on the internet. sending you lots of love, many, many months later, from across the world.

    • @amira-jx7hy
      @amira-jx7hy 11 месяцев назад

      i just experienced the same feeling!!
      you seem so sweet btw 🫶🏻

  • @rebeccaa5371
    @rebeccaa5371 2 года назад +32

    Been having some pretty rough days lately. I’ve never watched any of your videos before and suddenly this one appears on my timeline. Made me feel good. You seem like a cool dude, keep doing you

  • @sunflowerstitchery
    @sunflowerstitchery 2 года назад +12

    You have a 'soulmate' essence. I resonate with this video so deeply.
    I've never seen any of your other videos before, but I'm definitely going to be checking out your channel.

  • @miyajwrites7550
    @miyajwrites7550 4 года назад +9

    I agree there is something therapeutic about that.. Me and one of my close friends were at my best friends sleepover and so we joked we were going to my house to grab a sucker from my van because I guess we are like that always silly.. We and two others walked for almost a mile and then turned around to go back me and my close friend laid in the middle of the abandoned, quiet street and just watched the stars for a good ten minutes. We talked about life and love and deep stuff like that, under the stars, in the middle of a road where literally anyone could come and snatch us or run us over yet there was something soothing about it. Of course we could hear a vehicle from far away so we would get up and go hide in the grassy ditches until they passed then we would go lay back down, the warm asphalt against our back seeping through our clothes. It was an amazing experience!

  • @harryvlo909
    @harryvlo909 Год назад +11

    We have so much to say when we're alone
    But lots of us can barely think of anything to say when we're with someone else

  • @hazelxtaliahazelxtalia9975
    @hazelxtaliahazelxtalia9975 9 месяцев назад +1

    Every once in a while this video comes up on my fyp and I am so incredibly grateful that it does because for me it reiterates the good and healthy parts of my life!!! I love you all!!!

  • @michaeldost8155
    @michaeldost8155 2 года назад +200

    Girl in red legit has those LiS vibes. A game which truly made me learn to appreciate life and stop taking everything for granted. To actually live, love and laugh. To form beautiful relationships and to find the deeper meanings in things.

    • @Octa
      @Octa 2 года назад +5

      Girl in Red is the only artist that really manages to make me feel down and happy at the same time a really weird mix that I somehow like

    • @leyligoshayeva324
      @leyligoshayeva324 2 года назад +6

      yeaaah, i love LiS😭😭😭

    • @margo111
      @margo111 2 года назад +4

      omg yes I love Lis sm

    • @DavtheDartrix-723
      @DavtheDartrix-723 Год назад +6

      Ready for tje moshpit Shaka brah

  • @marialuizar.martins2425
    @marialuizar.martins2425 4 года назад +43

    I'm literally crying here but I just wanna say thank you for all your videos

  • @sillychurl6502
    @sillychurl6502 2 года назад +8

    Thank you! I heard the words I needed to hear. Sending all of my love, and support to every and each of you guys.

  • @pri10101
    @pri10101 6 месяцев назад +1

    Since 2021, this video has returned to my recommendations every time I need it at the right time, I take it as a sign because every time I see it it makes me get back on my path. Thanks algorithm

  • @amyzhu5187
    @amyzhu5187 8 месяцев назад +2

    After 3 years, and going through a very painful heartbreak. This just hits.

  • @teodortodorov1662
    @teodortodorov1662 2 года назад +18

    1 year ago I was lost like you! I procrastinated all my days! Then I started something new and made ambitions. I started "Self-improvement". Still feel sad and guilty sometimes, but I feel happy most of the time :)

  • @grace7skz6
    @grace7skz6 4 года назад +18

    I can’t tell you HOW MUCH you’ve helped me, Simon. You make me so motivated and make me realize that the world is not on my shoulders; like you said, “you realize that the world actually goes really slow.” That is so meaningful to me. You helped me through life, gave me love, taught to love the darkness, and love myself, and I thank you so so much❤️. (Plus helping others) What your doing in this video(driving around and chilling, walking around and seeing life), I have always wanted to do that. I’m not old enough yet to drive and even go on a walk just by myself because my parents don’t want me to be lost or get hurt(I also live in a safe neighborhood), but it’s understandable. The closest I can be free outside is on my driveway. I can see the nature and stars so clearly, like your free, you feel amazingly calm and happy. It’s so nice to do it. Again, thank you so much and I hope you see this. Thank you, and I will support you forever❤️❤️.

  • @Berrybabe09
    @Berrybabe09 Год назад +9

    Idk what it is about this video, but it made me break down in tears in my kitchen… in a good way though. I think i haven’t cried in a while, so i just had all of these bottled up emotions building up inside me. I cried not necessarily out of sadness, but just as my body’s way of releasing these pent up emotions that i have been keeping inside me. This video was so soothing and calming that i think it just made me open enough to let myself cry right there in my kitchen ❤️

  • @JoedsonSantana
    @JoedsonSantana Год назад +5

    3 years later and this video is talking so deep with me. Thank you so much for share this with us.

  • @bloomona
    @bloomona Год назад +15

    this showed up on my yt page after 3 years and its such a comforting video, im in the worst moment of my life, ive never felt so lonely, i go to therapy, i take meds, im depressed, im anxious and this video is so fun to watch as it makes me think of my future in a better way which is really rare for me since i have a huge fear of the future

  • @Lifefromindia
    @Lifefromindia 2 года назад +7

    This video is such a vibe to be in . I love such content creators who make people feel good about themselves ,even when things don't go well ...stuff like this is like a warm cup of coffee or a pause to be taken in mental chaos and comparision ⭐

  • @marialourdesmalipol
    @marialourdesmalipol Год назад +18

    Thank you. I was having anxiety and felt like my depression will crawl out anytime soon. This video calms me tonight. Thank you.

  • @relzz211
    @relzz211 Год назад +3

    This video was recommended on youtube, and i can not explain how much it has actually impacted my life just watching it, for a while now i have been lost too, with no way of figuring out how to move forward and whenever i try to the self doubt just kicks in and im just hard on myself. This is really soo inspirational thank you soo much.

  • @-_World_-
    @-_World_- Год назад +6

    I truly think this is a sign as I lay on my bed at 4:00 am watching this video I am at the lowest that I have been in a while and this video just happens to pop up out of nowhere and the message in this video really stuck out to me, especially right now, so I thank you for giving me a little bit more hope and a new perspective

  • @talktoastranger
    @talktoastranger Год назад +8

    This is the kind of down to earth, time-slowing message that puts life in perspective. Thank you.

  • @linhquach535
    @linhquach535 2 года назад +9

    I’m just happened to see this video. And well idk but it is what i need right now. since i felt kinda lost lately, living away from family and got no friends around to share thoughts. Every second of this is so healing and therapeutic. Thank you. that was so motivated. For myself and everyone feeling lost right now, dont give up and keep it wholesome 😊

  • @bittersweetkandy3547
    @bittersweetkandy3547 4 года назад +22

    thank you

  • @athena2597
    @athena2597 2 года назад +60

    Just got rejected from Harvard yesterday and I don’t know how to feel right now. I worked really hard and I just feel lost, this video helps.
    Update : I got into Cornell! 😊

    • @mvelvt1512
      @mvelvt1512 2 года назад +9

      your feelings are normal. im proud of you for working ur way this far, just know that this is not the end of the world. i wish you the best of luck for ur future

    • @athena2597
      @athena2597 2 года назад +3

      @@mvelvt1512 thank you so much! I hope this feeling of hopelessness goes away soon.

    • @gracie0508
      @gracie0508 2 года назад +3

      sending you so much love, you’re gonna be okay. i promise.🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

    • @laurie6837
      @laurie6837 2 года назад +1

      You go go to another school and transfer? :)

    • @athena2597
      @athena2597 2 года назад +3

      @@laurie6837 it’s for my MBA, it’s like 2 years lol no one transfers.

  • @ddeewwyy_
    @ddeewwyy_ 11 месяцев назад +15

    Going through one the toughest heartbreaks sucks but I'm holding on and trying to push through. Mental health has been on an all time low but I'll continue to try and see life through. Thank you for this.

  • @yeaitsabsolutelyme1586
    @yeaitsabsolutelyme1586 Год назад +1

    i'll come back when all the mess that i'm facing right now ..changes into my best experience ever.."it's okay to feel lost sometimes..''

  • @gabbie.4937
    @gabbie.4937 2 года назад +7

    Being sick and listening to this make me a lot more calm and happy, thank u so much. I've never watched any of your videos....
    💌 Think i was losing some good stuff.

  • @wholesomesean3760
    @wholesomesean3760 4 года назад +812

    100% would vibe in a parking lot with Simon

    • @lasole2075
      @lasole2075 Год назад +2

      same!! also love ur name haha

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 Год назад +2

      Jesus Christ is our savior, he died on the Cross for our sins. Putting your faith in Him is the only way to get to Heaven when you die.❤️🙏

    • @Tomppsu
      @Tomppsu Год назад

      @@westonlord4214 no

    • @iCookCrystalMeth
      @iCookCrystalMeth Год назад +1

      @@westonlord4214 Bless you weston

  • @naeengmyon
    @naeengmyon Год назад +5

    i felt like i wasnt worthy of life. today. yesterday. this week, this year, the past 365 days. i lost so many people, and as a spreading affect, people who left me spread things about me that made other people avoid me. i knew i was not valued in this world, and other people knew it too. but you're right, everything happens for a reason. this video made me feel more human, and a little more valued. thanks :)

  • @averybadenhop845
    @averybadenhop845 4 года назад +6

    I don’t have a great past and I have a lot of emotional damage and listening to these just makes me feel like I want to keep living...I’m so glad I found this page

  • @nishitasaikia245
    @nishitasaikia245 Год назад +2

    Watching this video 3 years later while going through a breakup. Sometimes I feel lost, sometimes I feel like giving up yk the stress n anxiety is too much for me but I always remind myself that everything happens for a reason n things will get better idk when but surely someday. “Maybe life isn’t so bad after all “ thank u I needed that even tho I always remind myself that it’s gonna get better but sometimes I get these thoughts n everything’s dark again but I won’t give up 💗

  • @ecemsudeyalcin9655
    @ecemsudeyalcin9655 Год назад +3

    I am writing this article from Turkey. I am in a very bad period of my life. very anxious period. but watching your video made me remember that there is a reason for all this and that it is all part of life. It's midnight right now, and when I wake up tomorrow morning, I'll watch your video again, maybe the day after that. I just wanted to thank you for reminding me that there are certain problems in everyone's fault. Thank you very much

  • @HJ-sf5go
    @HJ-sf5go 4 года назад +279

    Yes im new, yes i came from tik tok, yes im like you, yes we’re meant to be here, yes you’re important and you made so many people happy, and yes you mean a lot and people who dont think that, arent in your life for the right reasons, so go, live your life, and dont worry about this, just think, will this matter in 10 years? Will it matter in 5? Now throw on your music, make yourself some 2 minute noodles and continue scrolling, and just know ur loved and have an amazing day

  • @celiaastier7672
    @celiaastier7672 Год назад +5

    I truly feel, deep within myself that I found my twin soul in you.
    Everything you said in this personal but yet very heart warming journal, represents such this tiny but very powerful part of the soul.
    Everything really happens for a reason.
    Every success, every failures, every lessons, every good or bad moments are meant to be here, on the path of our lifes.
    It’s Destiny. :)

  • @uyennguyenmaiphuong9310
    @uyennguyenmaiphuong9310 Год назад +3

    Hi I just want to say thank you. You’re right. Everything happens for a reason. This video showed up when I was feeling so lonely and depressed. It did cheer me up a little. Thank you so much. Bless you.

  • @KumaliKuruppuarachchi
    @KumaliKuruppuarachchi Год назад +6

    "Maybe life isn't so bad after all..." yeah I love that part❤

  • @yostelle
    @yostelle Год назад +3

    3 years, still calms me down :DD

    • @justabookwormhere5940
      @justabookwormhere5940 Год назад

      Same here ❤, a lot of things have happened since I first watched this.

  • @mashaali3803
    @mashaali3803 Год назад +17

    I'll come back to this video everytime i feel bad, this is my 2nd time doing that and it always puts a slight smile on my face, the type of smile when you know that life does get better eventually and you just feel at peace with what has to come.
    To whoever reads this, i hope you know that you're loved and cared about by people around you, and even if we don't know each other, i love and care about you as well.
    Have a great day, night, evening, beautiful people🫶

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад

      thank you so much, i hope everything is amazing for you❤️

  • @itsyoupeaches9780
    @itsyoupeaches9780 4 года назад +6

    This is so pure and wholesome .... thank u for that

  • @dreaorbase
    @dreaorbase Год назад +4

    this video was 2yrs ago and it appeared now on my feed when I really needed to hear those words ♥️ thank you. everything indeed happens for a reason

  • @dayy5925
    @dayy5925 Год назад +1

    3 years ago and just now showing up on my RUclips. I’m slowly but surely trying to turn over a new leaf, turn to God. Indeed everything happens for a reason. Thank you for this video, truly touched me even if you thought it was simple. God bless.

  • @whycryforthem
    @whycryforthem 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is one of my fav video of yours.... I always come back here when things go wrong 💕