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  • @wholesomesimon
    @wholesomesimon  Год назад +757

    more writing: www.wholesomesimon.com
    :)
    Much love!
    -Simon

    • @joehernandez3492
      @joehernandez3492 Год назад +4

      yes sir

    • @oscarthenotsogrouchy
      @oscarthenotsogrouchy Год назад +2

      bro we fell in love in october is such a banger !! i recommend the loser by verzache 🔥

    • @vidprimorac8468
      @vidprimorac8468 Год назад +1

      My man I understand you completely and I want you to know I love you too and I love all people without exeption even when the people I love so much hurt me or make me mad I am not mad I am just frustrated that I cant love them so that even when they hurt me I show them love. So please you who is reading this (Ana lucas prehaps you) show your love twords all even the ones that hurt you

    • @bennyheadofthechairmen8808
      @bennyheadofthechairmen8808 Год назад +1

      Pain is the thing that keeps us going, and what gives us purpose.

    • @ghijbvhiigvh3940
      @ghijbvhiigvh3940 Год назад

      you haven’t been through anything

  • @Seekoiah
    @Seekoiah Год назад +5865

    Watching this video 2 years later, then clicking his account and seeing he’s travelling the world after saying he wants to but it’s impossible, is just so reassuring and lovely

    • @shap9148
      @shap9148 Год назад +14

      yes

    • @hare_krishn.77
      @hare_krishn.77 10 месяцев назад +19

      Yepp!!! :) Travelling the whole world is my dream too... And ik it's kinda impossible for cuz I'm from a middle class family!!!🥲 So I'm just dreaming but i really wanna explore this world!!!!

    • @janewambui2065
      @janewambui2065 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@hare_krishn.77you can travel the world if you want to there are so many ways to travel and make money

    • @glimmerybubbles
      @glimmerybubbles 8 месяцев назад +3

      oh... that warms my heart

    • @Nia-020
      @Nia-020 8 месяцев назад +1

      I swear I love things like this

  • @MashalaT
    @MashalaT Год назад +4204

    “ it doesn’t get easier, you get stronger “
    Life works in circles, happy, sad, angry, scared, and all the way back to the start, trust it will always come back around to happiness

    • @ariebakhuizen5486
      @ariebakhuizen5486 Год назад +12

      I’m starting to realize that, thank you. And when you get older these ‘small’ (what first a ‘big’ thing was) things doesn’t bother you that much anymore so you are more likely to be happy (for a longer period if time) :)

    • @VoidMySoul
      @VoidMySoul Год назад +7

      Make sure you get stronger in a healthy way tho. Ive been taking the wrong route for a long time but reconnecting with family helped ground me again and realize some pain is good for you

    • @aoifemagee5447
      @aoifemagee5447 Год назад +4

      That’s a great way to put it. And it’s true. You build resilience and realise that if you’ve got through difficult things before even if you don’t know how you managed to get through, it gives you hope that you can get through pain you might not think your capable of in the moment.

    • @beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301
      @beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301 Год назад

      So, i feel like it's getting harder for me or am i just getting weaker?

    • @MashalaT
      @MashalaT Год назад +3

      @@beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301 I promise you it gets better, there was a time I could genuinely not see a future for myself and now I do, it took time and I know that’s daunting but if you try your best to have a positive mindset even when it seems impossible everything will start to make sense, stay strong and remember that you are human and it’s okay to have ups and downs and it’s actually completely normal and healthy

  • @jazme_
    @jazme_ Год назад +1752

    "You know what? Maybe life isn't so bad after all"
    💗

  • @DaniaMihaela
    @DaniaMihaela Год назад +4949

    Sitting in my bed crying and can't think of any way life could get better but your video just helped, I cannot explain how but it came like a bandage on an open wound

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 Год назад +35

      God can help you! I’m praying for hope and peace in our Lord Jesus Christ name🙏❤️

    • @angelica11
      @angelica11 Год назад +13

      you deserve to take care of and be kind to ourself

    • @BiggestAzzHoleEver
      @BiggestAzzHoleEver Год назад +1

      @@westonlord4214 god can do waaay better tbh.

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +1

      i felt the same way, it felt like i had nothing until i saw this video and felt touched :) crazy how someone can help other people so much

    • @MochiLollz
      @MochiLollz 11 месяцев назад

      @@BiggestAzzHoleEver way to ruin the damn moment...

  • @mac-jr8vp
    @mac-jr8vp 3 года назад +9862

    I would trust Simon with my drink at a party

  • @777hailey4
    @777hailey4 Год назад +731

    We’re all the main characters of our own lives, why do we make it so embarrassing to put ourselves first?

    • @briana.hinojosa
      @briana.hinojosa 11 месяцев назад +1

      I love this !

    • @Tubakidsarecool
      @Tubakidsarecool 7 месяцев назад +6

      Because that’s not what God says, but of course there are specific circumstances where we need to put ourselves first. For example, when we’re struggling with our mental health, with others, or just struggling. The most humble people will be rewarded the most.

    • @bambi9703
      @bambi9703 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Tubakidsarecoolthat’s why there’s balance. God wouldn’t want you to be too selfless and putting yourself in the backseat of your own life. if you need it, put yourself first. if you’re okay, put others before you

  • @verity-gv4cz
    @verity-gv4cz 5 месяцев назад +263

    Crying so bad right now, don't know what to do with my life, but i guess its okay not to be okay sometimes:(

    • @adibajannat334
      @adibajannat334 5 месяцев назад +2

      Seems like you exactly wrote my situation

    • @zoemolloy1692
      @zoemolloy1692 5 месяцев назад +11

      This may sound beyond cliche… but trust me when i say everything works out in the end. The best thing about not being ok, is you learn that you need to be there in order to get better, onwards and upwards. Hopefully this comment finds you in a better place. Go enjoy a sunset, your favourite meal and take time for solitude. You are the only person you can control, some days that is shit to hear, but there is so much freedom in it. Sending love

    • @sweetestaphrodite
      @sweetestaphrodite 3 месяца назад +1

      I feel it so badly. I am so burdened by decision. I’m so burdened by myself. I am so so so so so burdened. Things happen for a reason but what if my life has a horrible ending? Some people just don’t get good lives. Some people die fucking horribly. What if I’m one of them? I hate everything.

    • @Thekingkhari
      @Thekingkhari 3 месяца назад +1

      @@sweetestaphroditeyou will live. Believe in your self and try focus on that elusive good you know exists. Because you belong. We belong, even when we think we don’t

  • @WitchingMoon88
    @WitchingMoon88 8 месяцев назад +672

    "we fell in love in october" was the song of me and my girlfriend. I miss her so much and I've wanted to talk to her about things and think about her all the time, despite my friends saying she was bad for me. I live with severe depression and she felt that I needed to figure things out before anything else. This video made up my mind. I'm going to talk to her again. Wish me luck.
    Update: I've moved on and found someone new, and she is perfect in every way. I'd do anything for her. These feelings are feelings I didnt know were possible. So I know no one is gonna read this, but whatever you're going through, itll turn around someday.

    • @zachripp8163
      @zachripp8163 7 месяцев назад +8

      Hope you're doing well man. Great to hear the good news.

    • @feliperamicelli5084
      @feliperamicelli5084 7 месяцев назад +1

      True!!!

    • @Will-zz5vt
      @Will-zz5vt 6 месяцев назад

      Thank you

    • @dundeethecrocodile8733
      @dundeethecrocodile8733 6 месяцев назад +6

      your comment made my day a lot brighter. I'm smiling as I'm writing this, because it makes me really happy that you got to experience the beauty of love after all that you've been through. I'm wishing you all the best for your future and I hope you are happy

    • @ronanimal1731
      @ronanimal1731 5 месяцев назад +2

      What if mine was already perfect ? she’s leaving in two months and i’ll never see her again i feel like i won’t ever find someone as good as her and i lost all hope

  • @birdmankeigo5048
    @birdmankeigo5048 Год назад +3838

    I felt like crying when he said 'it gets better' because my sister once told me 'it always gets better' when I was at my worst (I think). Thank you, Simon.
    -A struggling minor

    • @luvv985_
      @luvv985_ Год назад +16

      I'm sure your strong, and you can pass your struggles, you CAN do it

    • @manalbouanane2463
      @manalbouanane2463 Год назад +3

      I really hope you overcome this struggle soon ❤

    • @ive5773
      @ive5773 Год назад +4

      Lmao 😂

    • @birdmankeigo5048
      @birdmankeigo5048 Год назад +7

      @@ive5773 I'm- what is this supposed to mean? Genuinely confused 🤭

    • @jasoncushing5561
      @jasoncushing5561 Год назад +2

      Have you tried talking to God/Jesus? He loves you so much and can work miracles in your life.

  • @Its_semio
    @Its_semio 3 года назад +784

    "I feel kinda lost" to "oh btw do you like my crocs"😂; love the contrast haha. Love this video & you're really talented!

  • @cypherjash
    @cypherjash 4 месяца назад +37

    “it's okay to be lost” thank you, man.

  • @Agent87.647
    @Agent87.647 Год назад +322

    “Maybe parking lots are the cure to depression” - Simon

  • @nzsbxn161_
    @nzsbxn161_ Год назад +1057

    its incredibly calming to see ppl enjoying life with the smallest actions

  • @takemehome.9729
    @takemehome.9729 Год назад +699

    The beauty about this world is knowing someone is also feeling the same way as you.. and for the first time, you're no longer scared to go through another day.

    • @div-ineee
      @div-ineee Год назад +3

      this

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +1

      exactly, it makes everyone feel safer knowing that you aren’t alone and can relate to other people

  • @gigihadid-gx8ol
    @gigihadid-gx8ol Год назад +2

    "you know what, maybe life isnt so bad after all, think about that"

  • @Asticii
    @Asticii 5 месяцев назад +100

    Bro, for anyone struggling, don’t ever give up on life. There are so many things that you still haven’t done yet and you would be missed so much. You are surrounded by people who love and support you and you shouldn’t ever hesitate to ask for help. Life gets so much better. Trust❤️

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 5 месяцев назад

      Needed to hear this

    • @Asticii
      @Asticii 5 месяцев назад

      @@jaysouthmusic8230 glad I could help bro🙏

    • @aesqueth2815
      @aesqueth2815 5 месяцев назад

      Needed this

    • @aesqueth2815
      @aesqueth2815 5 месяцев назад

      Needed this

    • @Asticii
      @Asticii 5 месяцев назад

      @@aesqueth2815 that’s great to hear man, glad I could help

  • @Tmntluver
    @Tmntluver 3 года назад +2690

    i lost all my friends and because of that i'm finally able to be the real me and express my actually style and just be overall free. i love your vibes and mindset simon bad weeks, months, or even years happen, but there are good outcomes so please keep it wholesome and keep pushing :) im proud of you. thank you and thank you over and over again simon.
    keeping it wholesome, also love that you listen to girl in red

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  3 года назад +145

      Keep it wholesome :)

    • @shaylav.8521
      @shaylav.8521 Год назад +38

      We got a girl in red stan 🫶🏻❤❤

    • @Blk_N_Bleu
      @Blk_N_Bleu Год назад +3

      Yeah i was wondering what that song was. I finally found it here, and i love these vibes. It means a lot to me.

    • @noseokjinnolife2219
      @noseokjinnolife2219 Год назад +12

      I also lost all my friends 💀💀

    • @jasoncushing5561
      @jasoncushing5561 Год назад +5

      You’ll always have a best friend… Have you tried talking to God/Jesus? He loves vou so
      much and can work miracles in your life.

  • @priscillaaa_j
    @priscillaaa_j Год назад +332

    "maybe parking lots are the cure to depression" my goodness it is

    • @pastaslut
      @pastaslut Год назад

      PLS

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 Год назад +3

      Jesus is the cure for depression🙏❤️

    • @nahrafe
      @nahrafe Год назад +1

      @@westonlord4214 sure, God (your context is Jesus, it's different for me) is one of the cure of depression. But in places like parking lots, you could feel His presence better.. at least for me. I feel the chaos of life that i felt has strayed me from God, maybe that's why some religions have daily prayers.

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 Год назад +3

      @@nahrafe Yes, John 16:33 is a great verse for this; this world will throw things at us that can bring us farther from God but it’s a very important thing to stay close to God through the bad times because he’ll always stay right by you through them🙏❤️

  • @goodbyesam7564
    @goodbyesam7564 Год назад +242

    my dad passed away 2 months ago and I was freaking out today because I took a semester off for college and now I don’t know if I even want to continue, I’m literally a freshman. I was having a mental break down today and I saw this vid in my recommendations and it rlly comforted me

    • @TeaganAnn
      @TeaganAnn Год назад +22

      You’ve got this hun. I believe in you.

    • @hehehe4753
      @hehehe4753 Год назад +23

      You got this. My father passed away 5 months ago still don't know how to deal with this life now. It's still hard to digest the truth but it is what it is. You gotta be strong and acceptance is the key to feel at ease, it takes process but you'll got this.

    • @latifaalrajhi3255
      @latifaalrajhi3255 Год назад +6

      Continue don’t give up it will get easier and you will get out of it stronger ,strong heart.

    • @gagank143
      @gagank143 10 месяцев назад +1

      Are you ok?

    • @nitiaarethiya6811
      @nitiaarethiya6811 10 месяцев назад +2

      I know you can do it! Make your dad proud!!

  • @videocevirilerim
    @videocevirilerim Год назад +105

    "it's okay to feel lost" I NEEDED THIS. IM GONNA GO OUT NOW AND TRY TO REFRESH MY MIND, THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @joneyor6595
    @joneyor6595 Год назад +487

    Its okay to feel lost, just never forget where you're going.

    • @Jaxzee0122
      @Jaxzee0122 7 месяцев назад

      I’ve never heard that before what a good quote

  • @diannecastro5640
    @diannecastro5640 3 года назад +1427

    Cleaning and listening to this makes me so motivational

    • @diannecastro5640
      @diannecastro5640 3 года назад +14

      My life is now complete🥺

    • @aaronemerich383
      @aaronemerich383 Год назад +10

      Funny enough, 2 years later, I'm cleaning and listening to this video that I put on my "Watch Later" list relatively recently

    • @aicha9602
      @aicha9602 Год назад +2

      Same here 😭😭

    • @Dhead-io4om
      @Dhead-io4om Год назад

      Same cleaning/rearranging lol

  • @yuk1r0_33
    @yuk1r0_33 4 месяца назад +8

    "i cant help but feel like if we die without experiencing all these things of people that we share this planet with do we really know what its like to be human" ill think about this forever now, in a positive way. I know wanna try even more, i wanna see the world, try being positive and maybe humans arent so bad after all?

  • @Introvert__queen
    @Introvert__queen 3 месяца назад +5

    The only reason i want to learn driving : whenever i am anxious , sad , or in a bad mood i can just take out my keys and drive for 2 hrs and going to a place that nobody knows ........ a quiet place in which nobody can find me .

  • @crimson8017
    @crimson8017 Год назад +96

    “It’s okay to feel lost, it’s okay to be hurt,” hit harder than it should’ve 💀

  • @noheflog
    @noheflog 9 месяцев назад +17

    I confess that every time I feel lost and tired, I come here because this video makes me feel that I am not the only person in the world who feels lost with life

    • @austinglass1916
      @austinglass1916 8 месяцев назад

      I'm right here with you, keep your head up fam.

  • @tommy_swim243
    @tommy_swim243 4 месяца назад +7

    Dude. I’m literally feeling exactly what you’re feeling. I felt like I had everything and lost it. I don’t know why or how I lost it and I don’t know how to get it back

  • @raiderng
    @raiderng 2 года назад +783

    This guy is actually a mobile therapist, my dad has COVID and was told this morning he might not have long left, I can’t slow my breathing because I freaking out, I’ve never had someone I’m close to pass, I looked up how to deal with stress you’ve never felt before and he came up. I’ve only watched 4 videos but I feel so much better, truly thank you to this guy he really helped me in only 2 hours
    Edit: to put it in context, just last week I was going fishing with him and helping him pack his house so he can move, he moved 5 days and then I got a call from him telling me he has COVID, I thought nothing off it, then just yesterday my mom rushed home from work crying telling me and my brother to look at the face time cuz it might me our last chance, then this morning I was told again that he doesn’t have very long left, I can’t even see him because the doctors won’t pick up the phone because they’re busy and I can’t see in person cuz he’s 3 states away

    • @goldensaddle1361
      @goldensaddle1361 Год назад +58

      It's been a long time since you posted this
      How is your Dad doing now ?

    • @wophle
      @wophle Год назад +26

      i wish you the best and for your dad’s health❤️

    • @thegnome9529
      @thegnome9529 Год назад +17

      How are you doing now?

    • @raiderng
      @raiderng Год назад +97

      @@goldensaddle1361 he past away on October 5th

    • @raiderng
      @raiderng Год назад +30

      @@thegnome9529 doing good

  • @lejukaa
    @lejukaa Год назад +387

    I'm turning 19 tomorrow and let's just say this video helped me a lot. I've been feeling scared and confused about what the future holds. Thank you for this!

    • @FWyatt
      @FWyatt Год назад +31

      I've ecently turned 64 and your (L3juka) comment is how i feel. I'm scared of my "Tommorrows" my future. I lost my wife of 40 years and i get scared of life most days. But thanks for this video. I just cvame in from being at church and afterwards coming home i was feeling so lost. I turned on my computer to get some music and this was on the tope of my feed todsy. Thanks again.

    • @wookie6943
      @wookie6943 7 месяцев назад

      Hows it going bro

  • @silverkeymusic
    @silverkeymusic 28 дней назад +1

    You are one of those rare people that you can find in the world who just needs to be protected because you're so special. I love your mindset, and it's so inspiring. Keep it up

  • @rainwater375
    @rainwater375 3 года назад +87

    :) GIRL IN RED IS ELITE also downtown by peep will be a vibe. Love you Simon, keep it wholesome.

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  3 года назад +5

      Yes!!! Love ya liz! Keep it wholesome

    • @oliveee
      @oliveee 3 года назад

      ayyyy a girl inred stan letss goooo + wholesome fan = PERFECTT

  • @NiveaKhondaker
    @NiveaKhondaker 3 года назад +282

    Loved how Simon's videos aren"t really planned, especially this one because it feels like you're talking to a friend

  • @Hoi2012
    @Hoi2012 Год назад +279

    This video changed my mental health. A few months ago i was extremely depressed and i had alot of anxiety. Your videos relieved so much of my stress. I'm no longer that negative person i once was, i'm starting to become alot more positive.
    Thanks you so much Simon

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +12

      this gives me hope for myself :) thank you for sharing your experience

    • @radieschen_tv3985
      @radieschen_tv3985 10 месяцев назад +1

      W

    • @makenfenix
      @makenfenix 7 месяцев назад

      Remember this comment bro❤

  • @harryvlo909
    @harryvlo909 Год назад +10

    We have so much to say when we're alone
    But lots of us can barely think of anything to say when we're with someone else

  • @michaeldost8155
    @michaeldost8155 Год назад +200

    Girl in red legit has those LiS vibes. A game which truly made me learn to appreciate life and stop taking everything for granted. To actually live, love and laugh. To form beautiful relationships and to find the deeper meanings in things.

    • @Octa
      @Octa Год назад +5

      Girl in Red is the only artist that really manages to make me feel down and happy at the same time a really weird mix that I somehow like

    • @leyligoshayeva324
      @leyligoshayeva324 Год назад +6

      yeaaah, i love LiS😭😭😭

    • @margo111
      @margo111 Год назад +4

      omg yes I love Lis sm

    • @DavtheDartrix-723
      @DavtheDartrix-723 Год назад +6

      Ready for tje moshpit Shaka brah

  • @taliar8115
    @taliar8115 3 года назад +227

    it's currently 4:30am, I just finished watching the video and proceeded to bawl my damn eyes out (the acoustic version of heather at the end put me in my feels so bad). this video really made me think and I am so damn grateful for it as well as all of the amazing content you put out there. keep it wholesome and pls keep making me bawl my eyes out

    • @sledge2105
      @sledge2105 Год назад

      And? No one cares attention seeker.

  • @pondwoes
    @pondwoes Год назад +112

    ive been having i think the worst weeks i’ve had in my life so far, i couldn’t even work up the courage to go to school today because i was freaking out so bad, i just came on youtube for a distraction and i saw this video and now i’m crying hahahejf thank you for this man

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +7

      been feeling the same way as well, i had to leave school today after not even an hour of being there because of an anxiety attack🥲 but we have to remember it’s okay to go to school and it’s okay to be feeling sad as well. times like these are normal and it will pass:) i hope everything is great for you

    • @jjo.joey_
      @jjo.joey_ 5 месяцев назад +1

      real

    • @xozellet5412
      @xozellet5412 5 месяцев назад

      @@jjo.joey_same

  • @pri10101
    @pri10101 28 дней назад +1

    Since 2021, this video has returned to my recommendations every time I need it at the right time, I take it as a sign because every time I see it it makes me get back on my path. Thanks algorithm

  • @athena2597
    @athena2597 Год назад +59

    Just got rejected from Harvard yesterday and I don’t know how to feel right now. I worked really hard and I just feel lost, this video helps.
    Update : I got into Cornell! 😊

    • @mvelvt1512
      @mvelvt1512 Год назад +9

      your feelings are normal. im proud of you for working ur way this far, just know that this is not the end of the world. i wish you the best of luck for ur future

    • @athena2597
      @athena2597 Год назад +3

      @@mvelvt1512 thank you so much! I hope this feeling of hopelessness goes away soon.

    • @gracie0508
      @gracie0508 Год назад +3

      sending you so much love, you’re gonna be okay. i promise.🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

    • @laurie6837
      @laurie6837 Год назад +1

      You go go to another school and transfer? :)

    • @athena2597
      @athena2597 Год назад +3

      @@laurie6837 it’s for my MBA, it’s like 2 years lol no one transfers.

  • @loukes116
    @loukes116 Год назад +88

    this just randomly came up on my feed 2 years later and me feel a whole lot better :) love your mindset bro

  • @amyzhu5187
    @amyzhu5187 3 месяца назад +2

    After 3 years, and going through a very painful heartbreak. This just hits.

  • @julesssofficial
    @julesssofficial Год назад +109

    I want a friend like this 🥺 I wish more people got deep and realistic like this, thank you.

  • @fayejackson1524
    @fayejackson1524 Год назад +81

    I had this sudden feeling of coming back to this video to comment. My whole life quote and what I’ve always been preaching to my friends is “everything happens for a reason”. However, for a couple of days I’ve been feeling empty, I have had panic attacks and cried hard. I have no idea what the reason is and it seemed like I couldn’t pull myself out. I was so obsessed with the thought of “being happy again”. Which made me feel bad and mad at myself for not being able to feel happy.
    Right now, I’m at more peace. I’m breathing, keeping myself busy and letting everything go. Good things, good days will come.

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +2

      ive been feeling the same exact way, thank you for sharing how you feel because it made me feel a lot better about how i’m feeling and knowing you’re okay makes me so happy and gives me hope that i will be okay as well :) we can get through this❤, i am also always saying that “everything happens for a reason” or “it was meant to be this way” to my friends but weirdly i never believe it myself. it’s important to remember that what you would tell a friend or people in general is something you should say to yourself

  • @plaguey2022
    @plaguey2022 Год назад +43

    It’s okay to get lost along the way as long as you remember your destination

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 Год назад +3

      but what is my destination?🥲

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Год назад +1

      oh shoot I don't know my destination, other than death

  • @alveerachauhan
    @alveerachauhan Год назад +184

    Okay! Overthinking sucks💔
    Just keep going everyone, it's alright

    • @Deenodounia
      @Deenodounia 8 месяцев назад

      It’s hurt things overthinking

  • @tosinboluwaduro2403
    @tosinboluwaduro2403 9 дней назад

    Crying so hard because life has been so sad for me for so long now.
    This helped.
    Thank you so much, Simon.

  • @sayantani3374
    @sayantani3374 Год назад +30

    His vibe is so peaceful

  • @lester7087
    @lester7087 3 года назад +71

    You seen like such a nice person to be around btw love your TikToks and videos

  • @isha_121i4
    @isha_121i4 19 дней назад +1

    Watching this after 3yrs without searching for it makes me think about everything DOES happens for a reason, but clicking in your channel and seeing your recent videos travelling the world proud of you boy!! This subscriber is clapping for you!!
    wishes buddy!!

  • @IngloriousMedia.
    @IngloriousMedia. 7 месяцев назад +12

    Im suffering from probably the worst mental health I’ve ever had in life. Anxiety through the roof all day everyday starting the moment i wake up. I watched this video probably about a month or so ago and it rly opened my eyes on my current issue. I feel like we all need to hear that its going to be okay every once in a while. Thank you

  • @1soap_2soup
    @1soap_2soup 3 года назад +72

    I’ve body shamed so many times on my life and insecure about myself. And I’ve lost so many people but that those moments made me stronger and I’ve been trying to focus on myself i and I found a lot that I didn’t know like I’m really good and writing and drawing. And I want to thank you for making these video cause you helped me so much. Love you Simon and as you like to say, keep it wholesome✨

    • @sunny_dummy833
      @sunny_dummy833 Год назад

      I know this is from 2 years ago but I want to say that,thank you for posting this comment.Maybe you think no one cares but I do,even if it was from years ago.Maybe you're fine now but idk.

    • @arcanum814
      @arcanum814 Год назад +1

      "I've body shamed so many times." Ok hear me out, I mean no disrespect, but when I read this I thought that you were the one body-shaming people, I got confused. Sorry, Lol. Great comment!

  • @miyajwrites7550
    @miyajwrites7550 3 года назад +9

    I agree there is something therapeutic about that.. Me and one of my close friends were at my best friends sleepover and so we joked we were going to my house to grab a sucker from my van because I guess we are like that always silly.. We and two others walked for almost a mile and then turned around to go back me and my close friend laid in the middle of the abandoned, quiet street and just watched the stars for a good ten minutes. We talked about life and love and deep stuff like that, under the stars, in the middle of a road where literally anyone could come and snatch us or run us over yet there was something soothing about it. Of course we could hear a vehicle from far away so we would get up and go hide in the grassy ditches until they passed then we would go lay back down, the warm asphalt against our back seeping through our clothes. It was an amazing experience!

  • @Smile_Easy
    @Smile_Easy 8 месяцев назад +6

    Sitting on my bed crying , just starting college at 23. It feels overwhelming,I feel behind cause my friends have graduated

  • @user-eq2ub5zm1r
    @user-eq2ub5zm1r 9 месяцев назад +6

    "Maybe life isn't so bad after all..." yeah I love that part❤

  • @AlexSharbono_
    @AlexSharbono_ Год назад +90

    so crazy how im going through horrible stuff rn and I wound up finding this video in my recommended 2 years after you posted it:,) thank you for this simon

    • @grain9640
      @grain9640 Год назад

      Something bad happened today and I found this video tonight

  • @HJ-sf5go
    @HJ-sf5go 3 года назад +279

    Yes im new, yes i came from tik tok, yes im like you, yes we’re meant to be here, yes you’re important and you made so many people happy, and yes you mean a lot and people who dont think that, arent in your life for the right reasons, so go, live your life, and dont worry about this, just think, will this matter in 10 years? Will it matter in 5? Now throw on your music, make yourself some 2 minute noodles and continue scrolling, and just know ur loved and have an amazing day

  • @cherthefairy
    @cherthefairy Год назад +5

    here’s a virtual hug for you🫂💓 God loves u and i do too ! praying for ur healing and peace

  • @aidanngarrettt
    @aidanngarrettt Год назад +50

    you really are something special, you were put on this earth for us to see. No religion or politics involved, no hatred just pure content wether its 2 weeks ago or 2 years ago your content is beautiful

  • @melikesmuffins6676
    @melikesmuffins6676 Год назад +10

    Ive been so apathetic recently. I told myself and my parents that I would do well this semester and make them proud. Turns out, I could barely get out of bed in the mornings. I don't know what to do. I want to be happier and make them believe in me, but I feel like I need professional help to do that. Looking at my grades makes me feel sick to my stomach. I don't want to see disappointment in their eyes when they realize just how bad it's gotten. Thank you youtube comment section, for letting me vent.

    • @johannnes.b8332
      @johannnes.b8332 Год назад

      I’m able to relate totally, same problem here my body is getting sick very often atm in order not to confront with stress.. 3rd fever in 2months rn

    • @melikesmuffins6676
      @melikesmuffins6676 Год назад

      @@johannnes.b8332 I'm sorry you've been feeling that way. I hope you can find a way to cope with stress without feeling sick. It's one of the worst feelings. I'm here for you, friend.

  • @allisonblakely8345
    @allisonblakely8345 5 месяцев назад +3

    this felt like a big ol' hug. thank you, stranger on the internet. sending you lots of love, many, many months later, from across the world.

    • @amira-jx7hy
      @amira-jx7hy 5 месяцев назад

      i just experienced the same feeling!!
      you seem so sweet btw 🫶🏻

  • @elenastoica5652
    @elenastoica5652 Год назад +34

    im so mad i just discovered this, i feel like a friend is talking to me, so comfortable

  • @MiniGod111
    @MiniGod111 Год назад +47

    Recently in my country Iran
    Everything is so bad ...
    But your video did calm me down now at least a little
    "Everything happens for a reason"
    I needed to hear it
    Thank you.

  • @ChristelleCloud
    @ChristelleCloud Год назад +74

    Yes, everything does happen for a reason. Because here I am watching this video 2 years later on a day I'm really needed to hear this. :')
    Thank you! ♥️

  • @sukriti2316
    @sukriti2316 Год назад +5

    Read this in some book :
    Everytime you feel lost, be grateful. Because being lost in life, is a sign by the universe that you've grown. Everytime you grow and head towards a new chapter in life, the universe throws a new hurdle at you. Each bigger than the last. And that's just the beauty of it. The proof of your growth. And that a new, better you is waiting for you to overcome those moments where everything appears to be juggling with your sanity "

  • @vivistann
    @vivistann 7 месяцев назад +15

    this showed up on my yt page after 3 years and its such a comforting video, im in the worst moment of my life, ive never felt so lonely, i go to therapy, i take meds, im depressed, im anxious and this video is so fun to watch as it makes me think of my future in a better way which is really rare for me since i have a huge fear of the future

  • @KaiyaAmba
    @KaiyaAmba Год назад +1

    I love being alone I have time to think about myself and forget about school. It’s a Sunday night and it’s 12am and I have school tomorrow. School is honestly a mood killer most of the time.

  • @kaat444
    @kaat444 Год назад +3

    everyone always says that life is too short to be sad, but I think life is just long enough to feel everything to live.

  • @almondmelk5830
    @almondmelk5830 Год назад +42

    I completely and totally agree. The ability to find peace and beauty in the smallest and randomness of things is what brings the world to life. It's easy for life to speed up and for you to look over the small details, but noticing and appreciating little things is what makes me happy :)

  • @ddeewwyy_
    @ddeewwyy_ 5 месяцев назад +15

    Going through one the toughest heartbreaks sucks but I'm holding on and trying to push through. Mental health has been on an all time low but I'll continue to try and see life through. Thank you for this.

  • @josephbecera1637
    @josephbecera1637 5 месяцев назад +7

    I’ve been told “everything happens for a reason “ so many times but this is the most sincere one thank you

  • @heyyoupretty760
    @heyyoupretty760 3 года назад +125

    Things do happen for a reason💘 I had some tough times but now I’m getting back up. Don’t give up you got this and as always keep it wholesome 💕

  • @ashlynx1042
    @ashlynx1042 3 года назад +33

    Your voice is very calm and I love that

  • @DollyRose-ne1ch
    @DollyRose-ne1ch 6 месяцев назад +1

    bro literally IS the main character.

  • @tata_shiii
    @tata_shiii 2 месяца назад

    "Everything happens for a reason .it all up to how you react " 😊 it hits hard❤

  • @rebecabittencourt9398
    @rebecabittencourt9398 Год назад +18

    it’s such a warm feeling to hear that someone is feeling lost and trying to find themselves when you’re going through the same thing. being me just feels new, and see that there’s other people that is trying to figure out the way of their life it’s comforting. thank you a lot, simon

  • @mattr11
    @mattr11 3 года назад +7

    You're welcome for the cut

  • @ClairDeLume
    @ClairDeLume 7 месяцев назад

    "y'know, maybe life isn't so bad after all" i felt this.
    ive suffered with depression for the last four years, and there have been so many times where ive thought im at the end. i mean ive even tried to kms multiple times. this month though, has been like a glimmer of hope. i feel like im finally starting to see light at the end of the tunnel. i havent experienced true happiness yet, but, i think im getting closer. i think im gonna be okay after all. i guess what im trying to say is, that maybe life isn't so bad as it felt. life is okay, life is fine. i could get used to this

  • @Joisuakajxisu
    @Joisuakajxisu Год назад +1

    This hit my YT recommendations at the best time. Thank you.

  • @dontleavemehere
    @dontleavemehere Год назад +24

    I think i am gonna cry, i just need a hug. I love u and ur videos so much, keep it wholesome Simon!!

  • @adiorable2588
    @adiorable2588 Год назад +4

    laying in my bed and watching this, Gen Z has normalized being depressing sm that every time i do feel positive and talk to my friends i feel like i'm the "odd" one, it's good to hear "maybe life isn't that bad" sometimes. even tho i feel shitty asf, there's hope.

    • @annastefanova6073
      @annastefanova6073 Год назад

      Hell yeah! I used to have problems with that all the time and even had to leave a group of people I cared about because they just felt as if I didn't belong because I was happier/positive

  • @frandernserguest_beats718
    @frandernserguest_beats718 3 месяца назад

    Over the past month, Ive lost a loved one, completely immersed myself in work, lost myself, got terribly ill with pneumonia and now I am lying in bed and feeling incredibly lost, not knowing what to do next, locked in myself, without freedom and with the desire to simply disappear or find someone who would help me. At least this video lifted me up a little. Thank you, man)

  • @nishitasaikia245
    @nishitasaikia245 7 месяцев назад +2

    Watching this video 3 years later while going through a breakup. Sometimes I feel lost, sometimes I feel like giving up yk the stress n anxiety is too much for me but I always remind myself that everything happens for a reason n things will get better idk when but surely someday. “Maybe life isn’t so bad after all “ thank u I needed that even tho I always remind myself that it’s gonna get better but sometimes I get these thoughts n everything’s dark again but I won’t give up 💗

    • @rudrajeetchaudhuri3744
      @rudrajeetchaudhuri3744 7 месяцев назад

      Yeah dude kinda same but we'll pull through lesgoooo 🔥🔥🔥

  • @hanna786
    @hanna786 3 года назад +4

    It’s 3 AM here right know. I needed this

  • @JoedsonSantana
    @JoedsonSantana 8 месяцев назад +5

    3 years later and this video is talking so deep with me. Thank you so much for share this with us.

  • @existenceisafarce._.172
    @existenceisafarce._.172 Год назад

    I like thinking that nothing happens for a reason until you give it one

  • @Yomama69_69
    @Yomama69_69 7 месяцев назад

    it helps knowing that people really feel the same way as me

  • @teodortodorov1662
    @teodortodorov1662 Год назад +18

    1 year ago I was lost like you! I procrastinated all my days! Then I started something new and made ambitions. I started "Self-improvement". Still feel sad and guilty sometimes, but I feel happy most of the time :)

  • @astheearth
    @astheearth 3 года назад +40

    My mental health isn't that great lately but this is helping me so much, Thank you for this amazing and inspiring content! You feel at peace in a parking lot, I feel at peace when I'm watching your videos at 1 am in the garden :) I really think your videos are gonna change my live

  • @11fmty11
    @11fmty11 Год назад

    I like how you can just scroll you recommendations and watch someone randomly sharing their wisdom or passion

  • @alinasonia6592
    @alinasonia6592 6 дней назад

    I was watching these videos when I was so down, in such a terrible head space and had faced too much exposure to solitude. And I really needed someone, something, anything to understand & give me a reason to keep going in this life. You’re such a savior to me & so many people. YT can really be a toxic place to an extent but ppl like you using it to relate & spread love is amazing. I just had to come back years after I’ve watched this & say thank you. Thank you so much.

  • @talktoastranger
    @talktoastranger Год назад +8

    This is the kind of down to earth, time-slowing message that puts life in perspective. Thank you.

  • @itsyoupeaches9780
    @itsyoupeaches9780 3 года назад +6

    This is so pure and wholesome .... thank u for that

  • @tzuyu1671
    @tzuyu1671 4 месяца назад

    I dont know why I cried so much after watching this video, after hearing all the inspirational sentences he said

  • @akagishi757
    @akagishi757 7 месяцев назад +1

    Somehow, 3 years later, this video got to me and I wouldn't have it any other way.

  • @cherrycola3196
    @cherrycola3196 Год назад +3

    it’s always stuff like this that makes me want to cry

  • @marialuizar.martins2425
    @marialuizar.martins2425 3 года назад +43

    I'm literally crying here but I just wanna say thank you for all your videos

  • @yoora1856
    @yoora1856 Год назад

    I can't tell you how much I needed to hear this. Thank you so much

  • @bdjxixnxiskanzy
    @bdjxixnxiskanzy Год назад

    this video feels like a warm hug. thank you.

  • @ayulaksitapramestikiranaki4007
    @ayulaksitapramestikiranaki4007 Год назад +3

    Thankyou for making this video, It’s so soothing to hear that it’s okay if you still haven’t figured things out