She’s happily married with kids and out of the public eye now and he’s still alone and clout-chasing online so it’s pretty clear who was likely the toxic one in that relationship. Just so happens that she’s happily married and has a healthy relationship and he happens to never have had another serious relationship and is lonely and old now. 😬 crazy.
@@katherine2000clshe was the toxic one she’s trying to play victim when she was in the wrong at least know what your talking about she deserved to be put in her place anyway don’t go around spreading lies
The amount of women in the comments defending her is insane. He clearly let her talk and she interrupts him. And you can tell she clearly interrupts him a lot
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
All these women in the comments are calling him a terrible person but ive been with someone who never lets you talk and its infuriating to end. He didnt even yell that loudly. He spoke firmly and was clearly fighting back the need to get up and walk away. I can hear the tears of rage he was golding back
And she instantly played victim by crying crocodile tears, instantly calling him the worst person she's ever met and up and left. She's not worth the time.
@@helenahooley2076where's your proof and reasoning that the people who see him as the victim are blind? You just decided it? The only blind people here are you and the re*a*ds in the comment section.
Crazy that Chris Harrison describes this as "a relationship that's gone south. A normal relationship that ends every day around the world" as she's talking about emotional and verbal abuse.
Key word domestic, that would include children, and child rearing is overwhelmingly carried out by women even in dual income households, so by default that greatly inflates that. Many of these studies specifically on intimate partner violence (not domestic) are done by self report, which gives you more insight since men are more likely to not report abuse they experience (especially sexual) but in turn since it’s collected through less verifiable means it makes it les reliable. Intimate partner violence can also be defined as threats of violence and verbal abuse. When we evaluate abuse the most concerning factor is homicide, and overwhelming women are most likely to be killed from IVP. Even fbi crime tables where they tracked relationships of perpetrators to homicide victims the person a woman is most likely to be killed by is her spouse or ex spouse, and secondly non intimate family. Another complicating factor is male sexual abuse victims aren’t often reliably counted since some data is collected by info that legally defines rape as penetrative, which leaves male victims raped by women unaccounted for. We shouldn’t be spreading around vague intel that distorts the many complexities of abuse
Funny going back and reading these comments. All the women are like "Jake is so terrible and scary!" and all the men are like "Vienna is crazy as hell and manipulative." Likely conclusion: They were both pretty foul at this point in their lives and we all are far more biased than we care to admit.
Thank you oml, these people don't seem to understand 1. We don't know them at all, 2. It's reality tv, 3. We cant project our feelings and trauma on other people. Imo they were both shitty, but yknow. We're in a day and age of gender war and as far as it goes to most its, "Man bad", "Woman bad". When everybody should be thinking "I CANT BELIEVE ITS NOT BUTTER!" Have a good day, hope that last bit gives anyome who reads this a laugh.
My view, coming in blind: She did something nasty and admits it, and her "apology" for it is saying "I did it because I know the real you and was beating you to it," this veiled jab at him, not an apology. He vents a moment of frustration about her constant talking about and over him, gets his turn to speak and she immediately talks over the top of him. He speaks up to try and get her to stop, and she does this little fake cry thing, then again interrupts him, contradicting what he's trying to say. They may both be awful, but she comes off as worse here.
I agree.. coming in blind i just searched but reality tv breakups and found this but the woman was obviously crying crocodile tears… The way she stormed off not listening, and he mentioned she never attempts to work things out either. Interrupts him too. The guy probably has his issues too but obviously from this video you can tell shes being toxic.
He is the worst person you could ever date. A nightmare. What a rude, condescending, manipulative narcissist. She has class and emotional intelligence and deserves so much better than this cynical goof.
True - He's clearly deceptive - and this is what happens when you call out a narrcist. They can't let you win. Then he justifies his actions ? Seeing this side of Jake Omg Wow - Scary.
If you watch the whole interview you would knownshe had an excuse for everything and would not let him talk for a even 2 sec without saying something about nothing She deserved it
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
@@alexh8613 Nah... people universally agree she was in the right, she tried to apologize and he handled it B A D... I believe her when she says he would have done it first. Also tabloids are just talk and exaggerate all the time, celebrities make shit up for money. If he wanted to fix it he could have.
@@azuresins6904 There's a right way and a wrong way. And she did it the wrong way. Just because he is probably a scumbag doesn't mean that she can be one too and not suffer the consequences of her actions
@@alexh8613 Okay so what she did was wrong. But that doesn't in any way justify the way he was speaking to her. I don't know anything about The Bachelor but I don't see why he couldn't have handled this situation like an adult.
No one spoke about she did what she did to him, telling the story, thinking he would do the same because she knows him? How does that make sense? So she reads minds too.
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
You call this explosion? This shit is tame to what I've seen. Blondie kept interrupting him before he can get five words out, no wonder he's had enough of her crap.
@Giovanni DeBravo umm no thats not being a drama queen. Thats what having genuine love for someone that treats you like shit looks like. Shes bawling from the fact that she cant believe a man that she believed cared about her could speak to her in that manner. Hes abusive as fuck. you can tell. The verbally abusive ones always turn into the physically abusive ones. Especially when the girls get annoyed by their holier than thou attitude and narcissistic speech patterns. Im glad she walked out, she even apologized to him and he discredited by saying "you dont know me" ...hes the ass clown, shes just had enough of the bullshit and being blatantly lied about because of people like u who have the wrong idea
@@glennaoram4145 Oh please go away! You females will support each other no matter what! Nobody cares to hear the man's side of the story. It's always "awww, look at that poor girl". GTFOH
This woman is a clear narcissistic manipulator. This man is clearly trying to be civil and she just won't stop being emotional and refuses to let him get his side of the story in. This is clearly what bad women do to prevent men from trying to get their side of the story.
Hmm... The only thing I will say is that I watched this season, I felt like he chose the wrong girl but you could tell she reallllyyyyyyyyy reallyyyyyy liked him. Like for real.... maybe that's why he chose her. He's a narcissist.
@@kalebanth8323 nothing political argument about it. It’s an observation of the common qualities of Trump supporters. That is a character issue not a political issue. And yes I absolutely called it. You’re an astute observer Kaleb. Haha. Yes you are embarrassing.
My ex wife was the exact same way. She blew her top off on me one night for 23 minutes and 17 seconds (I was watching the clock behind her the whole time). At the end of her psycho rant she says to me "so you dont have anything to say?" I took a deep breathe and calmly tried to get through my first sentence and she talked right over me. Good riddance! She's on her third marriage now and I'm loving my peace! Learned a lot about covert narcissism thanks to her!
seeing him so removed and her so emotional is very telling. he is cold and unfeeling and self absorbed. anyone that doesn’t see that is unhinged themselves
She deserved to be talked to like that. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
This is just a two minutes clip from a lengthy interview, and throughout it, blondie kept interrupting him before he can even get five words out. No wonder he's had enough of her shit. Get real.
Wow, she could of let him talk but he didn't have to get so upset with her.. if he's like with her now imagine how ir would be if they was married wouldn't last.. seems he might have a bit of a temper.. didn't think Jake was like that.. ya, never know
Seeing that side of Jake is scary. Wow. I think Tenley dodged a bullet, along with the other 25 women. I'm behind on the bachelor so I'm binge watching them.
The man dodged a bullet, she couldnt even let him speak. She had to controll the narrative and you can see it with the fake crying, a pure manipulation tactic.
Lmao everyone so quick to jump on her side he literally asking not to be interrupted as she depicts the behavior of constantly doing it in there relationship. She did it twice when he started to talk boo hooo . You had your turn to talk now it’s his .
This guy is my hero. He’s stoic and keeps it cool even under pressure and obviously while very angry. She only cried because she got put in her place on television to make him look bad. Elementary female psychology.
All of the ppl agreeing with him, I can tell that yall speak down to your loved ones and act like you’re better than others because that was this guys whole demeanor the entire time. “Omg someone keeps interrupting him, of course he’s gonna snap” he insulted her the entire time. He belittled her and tried to confuse her about the interactions they’ve had. “Oh but I did this for you” yeah not because you cared but because you wanted to control her. Yall just be so ready to defend someone who’s being mean and nasty to a woman. Just go cuss women out if yall are itching for it that badly
@@sonder1309considering the fact that I like hearing ppl with sense, open minds, and intelligence then yeah I guess you could say I like hearing myself talk. I say things worth listening to, nice observation 😉
Anybody notice that the question was asked directly to her? It was him that jumped in the midst of her explanation and then got angered by her continued explanation….😂
I saw this on fb and now im on RUclips watching both her 10 min vid and this (his) 2 min vid lol. From an unbiased persons perspective and never seen the show: she seems believable, he seems cold and changes the subject around on her a lot, but yes i agree getting interrupted sucks and women do cry a lot during arguments, whether on purpose or not P.S. men in these comments not all the women who cry while arguing do it to "win" or end the argument. I cry when mad, sad, upset, overwhelmed and i dont choose to. Us women do not have 30 years of hardened emotions ok 😂
Jake interrupted her after she has been speaking 7 seconds. He interrupted her before she interrupted him. He has no room to talk about interrupting. He sits there looking smug like he deserves anything of an apology.
It's unfortunate that at least once in a women's life, she is treated like this. What a condescending narcissist and manipulative POS.... She and other women deserve better. Know your worth ladies
From this limited reaction that I see between them, Jake really makes it seem he manipulates the situation to make Vienna feel she’s the problem and she tries to speak up about it but he constantly finds a new way to manipulate her. Instead of himself being more aware that he is making the relationship toxic, she’s the issue and his always right. I don’t need to see much to know this is how he reacts because no one forced him to say stop interrupting me and letting Chris know this is how it is all the time
@@tatyanaanglin4834 I have not watched it since it came out like 13 and a half years ago. But it was one of the most memorable seasons for me lol. Same with the Ali Bachelorette season that came out a few months after Jake's season. 2010 was an entertaining year for the show.
She kept interrupting him though. I would have done the same. 🤷🏾♂️ Toxic people constantly interrupt people when they talking. Toxic people luck communication skills. Sorry
The fact that her apology was an accusation. And he was nice enough to wait for her to stop talking and then rebuttals. Even in the beginning they both were about to talk and he let her go. Maybe it was for the cameras maybe not but being interrupted is annoying and I have to remind myself to let my husband finish his thought and then reply
Generally speaking, you have to lack self-respect and integrity in order to be willing to be on the bachelor to begin with... so neither of them should be surprised at their situation.
He was clearly and calmly trying to express his point of view and she had a hissy fit because she wasn't having her way 😂😂😂 from my POV it's definitely safe to say he dodged a bullet. As a woman, I hate when women try to weaponize their tears to try to justify them gaslighting someone. She needs to work on herself and find her own peace before getting into another relationship. Plain and simple! 🤷🏿♀️
omg, she should be so grateful she didn't end up with an asshole like that! if he is like that now and on national television treating her like that? wow.....GIRL RUN!
Aside from the fact that she interrupted him repeatedly? That's another huge dysfunction. When a women interrupts a man and he calls her on it, he's a jerk. When a man does it to a woman and she calls him out, she's the victim. Such hypocrisy and a double standard
What crap. She interrupted him twice and he called her on it both times. That's impulsivity and that's a problem and a sign of immaturity. Run, brother, to the hills and don't look back! This woman is the type who will make all men the bad guys and is probably only suited for weak men that she can dominate and control. My mother was a controlling shrew and thanks to her, made me realize early on that NO woman was ever going to control me. My relationships with women have been mature, mutually respectful and polite....we treat each other with respect, kindness, and consideration. If these features were not to be present, I bolt and/or cut them from my life like a cancer.
Any girl who ever dates him should see this first. I am so glad I don't date anymore. (I'm not married, not gay, just blissfully single) I would RUN fast and far from anyone who ever spoke to me like this. fucking scary shit.
The man barely raises his voice and everyone's acting like he's scary. You guys are insanely soft. Society today wants us to remove all passion and emotions that have any slight aggression to them. Society wants you guys to be dull and robotic.
No, society wants reasonable, society wants to progress beyond the days where women were oppressed and dominated by men who want control. He flipped his lid because he wanted to control the narrative. Conversations are not monologues, they are dialogues. Lil Jake Pavelka (guy in video) is a narcissist douche nozzle. He was abusive to her the entire season. He has a fragile little ego.
He looks like an abuser. While she's obviously got some growing up to do she's definitely right to walk away. "Once you know, you go". She _does_ know him - he's a narc.
In this 1hrs. Netflix mini series in 8 parts, we want to know the reactions in this dramatization every week in March and April that it's over between Jake and Vienna now Ali and Jake needs a bond together, We need to know about the Netflix Mini-series for 8 weeks called Jake & Vienna and then about moving on to his new girl.
“Again I got interrupted” 😂
I don't know both sides of this story but all I can say is watching this is comedy gold when he says this 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
I cant stand people who interrupt others in mid conversation. Good for him
But he was being a jerk, not lecturing
@@thethebest3263you’re wrong, cope and seethe. She’s a kook
He dodged a cannon ball there. Finally he can have peace.
She’s happily married with kids and out of the public eye now and he’s still alone and clout-chasing online so it’s pretty clear who was likely the toxic one in that relationship. Just so happens that she’s happily married and has a healthy relationship and he happens to never have had another serious relationship and is lonely and old now. 😬 crazy.
@@katherine2000clshe was the toxic one she’s trying to play victim when she was in the wrong at least know what your talking about she deserved to be put in her place anyway don’t go around spreading lies
@@katherine2000clshe is immortalized as a crybaby snowflake who cant even stop rudely interrupting afte being asked to please stop.
Tbh I think they were both toxic. But who actually knows
@@katherine2000cllook at you trying to cope 😂😂😂 so sad and how wrong you are. Cry more
The only reason I watch The Bachelor as a man. "Again I got interrupted"😂
I feel his pain. I’ve been there before with someone who just plays victim and cries crocodile tears.
Shes probably right
He is funny ash tho
You're a teenager 😅
@@soulfinderecho6462does that mean bro hasn’t experienced life?
They're projecting the fact that they had no experience of it as a teenager lol
you can even hear it in her voice when she starts, its the stereotypical wail that toddlers give when they think people are watching
The amount of women in the comments defending her is insane. He clearly let her talk and she interrupts him. And you can tell she clearly interrupts him a lot
All those women in the comments better learn to love cats.
@@elsquibbsand even the cats hate when they interrupt 😂
The best is the comment from 8 years ago compared to today she thought she was so right
The way he snapped at her in anger and then just jumped back into explaining to Chris is alarming and scary
It's the way my parents speak to each other. It's hard to watch. Every time I see it, something inside me feels very very uncomfortable.
Not at all. She was a vicous bitch!
Yes
Nah, they are both dreadful...
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
At 1:00, she delivers an insulting fake apology. That was followed by fake tears and drama. He did the right thing to break up with her.
The people who think she’s right here are insane 😂😂😂
Right!!! lol
@@MircomFanHe's frustrated because he is being interrupted
I'm really surprised reading the comments.
true
@@RoughnutOHoulihan but he interrupted her the whole interview
All these women in the comments are calling him a terrible person but ive been with someone who never lets you talk and its infuriating to end. He didnt even yell that loudly. He spoke firmly and was clearly fighting back the need to get up and walk away. I can hear the tears of rage he was golding back
Women only think with feelings not facts
And she instantly played victim by crying crocodile tears, instantly calling him the worst person she's ever met and up and left. She's not worth the time.
@@Mow_Lesterand men dont think at all
@@eggthatdrawsand can you expand on that please, or are you basing your statement on your emotions
@@moresarmsmorearms6380emotions obviously
I think Christian Bale got his inspiration for American Psycho from this guy as well, not just Tom Cruise.
Sayros 😂😂🤣
I mean haha, but American Psycho came out 24 years ago lol
@@StajoLaBell dude no shit
“thats a first” with the smug look 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Female = plays victim
Male = trying to tell his side but kept being interrupted
***She gone cry in the car***🤣🤣🤣💯
You are acting like you dated him lol
If you think hes the victim, it shows how blind you are.
@@helenahooley2076 You women always think you are right cause you never let the men speak. He was right to tell her to stop interrupting.
@@helenahooley2076where's your proof and reasoning that the people who see him as the victim are blind? You just decided it? The only blind people here are you and the re*a*ds in the comment section.
Crazy that Chris Harrison describes this as "a relationship that's gone south. A normal relationship that ends every day around the world" as she's talking about emotional and verbal abuse.
women cry emotional and verbal abuse, while being the main perpetrators
@@skyheartsama over 68% of domestic abuse cases in the US are by women and that number's just going up and up... it was 62 or 63% before MeToo
Horae shit. He couldnt get five words before she immediately cuts him off. Maybe that's what shes been doing the whole time
Key word domestic, that would include children, and child rearing is overwhelmingly carried out by women even in dual income households, so by default that greatly inflates that. Many of these studies specifically on intimate partner violence (not domestic) are done by self report, which gives you more insight since men are more likely to not report abuse they experience (especially sexual) but in turn since it’s collected through less verifiable means it makes it les reliable. Intimate partner violence can also be defined as threats of violence and verbal abuse. When we evaluate abuse the most concerning factor is homicide, and overwhelming women are most likely to be killed from IVP. Even fbi crime tables where they tracked relationships of perpetrators to homicide victims the person a woman is most likely to be killed by is her spouse or ex spouse, and secondly non intimate family. Another complicating factor is male sexual abuse victims aren’t often reliably counted since some data is collected by info that legally defines rape as penetrative, which leaves male victims raped by women unaccounted for. We shouldn’t be spreading around vague intel that distorts the many complexities of abuse
The fact you think this is real is concerning
Probably the funniest thing I've ever seen.
I wonder how these people are doing now in 2024
Funny going back and reading these comments. All the women are like "Jake is so terrible and scary!" and all the men are like "Vienna is crazy as hell and manipulative." Likely conclusion: They were both pretty foul at this point in their lives and we all are far more biased than we care to admit.
Thank you oml, these people don't seem to understand 1. We don't know them at all, 2. It's reality tv, 3. We cant project our feelings and trauma on other people.
Imo they were both shitty, but yknow. We're in a day and age of gender war and as far as it goes to most its, "Man bad", "Woman bad". When everybody should be thinking "I CANT BELIEVE ITS NOT BUTTER!"
Have a good day, hope that last bit gives anyome who reads this a laugh.
My view, coming in blind: She did something nasty and admits it, and her "apology" for it is saying "I did it because I know the real you and was beating you to it," this veiled jab at him, not an apology. He vents a moment of frustration about her constant talking about and over him, gets his turn to speak and she immediately talks over the top of him. He speaks up to try and get her to stop, and she does this little fake cry thing, then again interrupts him, contradicting what he's trying to say. They may both be awful, but she comes off as worse here.
I agree.. coming in blind i just searched but reality tv breakups and found this but the woman was obviously crying crocodile tears…
The way she stormed off not listening, and he mentioned she never attempts to work things out either. Interrupts him too.
The guy probably has his issues too but obviously from this video you can tell shes being toxic.
You're a fool. It's reality TV - completely exaggerated for the viewer count. But please. Do tell us more about your amazing conclusion about it. 😂😂
I agree as well. It takes 2 to tango.
He tells her to stop interrupting him, when she was in the middle of her apology after the host asked her the question! He flipped really quick.
she interrupted him when he was speaking after she finished speaking
@@mitchellmartinsky2299 shut up
@@realdavidjones1623 No thanks
@@mitchellmartinsky2299 look at the T0XIC person you are supporting
@@mitchellmartinsky2299 huh? Your reply made no sense 😂
“again i got interrupted. good lord!” LOL
He is the worst person you could ever date. A nightmare. What a rude, condescending, manipulative narcissist. She has class and emotional intelligence and deserves so much better than this cynical goof.
Lol she's even worse than him
She has class? HAHAHA what a joke
I don’t think she has class it’s more like he’s such a gigantic narcissistic asshole it over shadows her narcissism
did you see her in bachelor pad she just like him i would say even worse no wonder all the girls always hated her we got to see how she really is
True - He's clearly deceptive - and this is what happens when you call out a narrcist. They can't let you win. Then he justifies his actions ? Seeing this side of Jake Omg Wow - Scary.
If you watch the whole interview you would knownshe had an excuse for everything and would not let him talk for a even 2 sec without saying something about nothing
She deserved it
He kept making snide, snarky remarks at her and interrupted her the entire interview "you don't know me" lmfao what a clown
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
@@alexh8613 Nah... people universally agree she was in the right, she tried to apologize and he handled it B A D... I believe her when she says he would have done it first. Also tabloids are just talk and exaggerate all the time, celebrities make shit up for money. If he wanted to fix it he could have.
@@azuresins6904 There's a right way and a wrong way. And she did it the wrong way. Just because he is probably a scumbag doesn't mean that she can be one too and not suffer the consequences of her actions
@@alexh8613 Okay so what she did was wrong. But that doesn't in any way justify the way he was speaking to her. I don't know anything about The Bachelor but I don't see why he couldn't have handled this situation like an adult.
@@alexh8613 Are you his mom or something? You seem to have a lot invested in this whole thing since you feel the need to respond to every comment.
he’s like i have to go return some video tapes
No one spoke about she did what she did to him, telling the story, thinking he would do the same because she knows him? How does that make sense? So she reads minds too.
When he exploded says everything
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
He barely raised his voice. Relax.
Where's the explosion?
You call this explosion? This shit is tame to what I've seen. Blondie kept interrupting him before he can get five words out, no wonder he's had enough of her crap.
Yea, it says that she does this all the time and plays victim.
How could someone fall in love with him after what he just did?
Edit: nvm they’re both as bad as each other
It’s biology
@Giovanni DeBravo umm no thats not being a drama queen. Thats what having genuine love for someone that treats you like shit looks like. Shes bawling from the fact that she cant believe a man that she believed cared about her could speak to her in that manner. Hes abusive as fuck. you can tell. The verbally abusive ones always turn into the physically abusive ones. Especially when the girls get annoyed by their holier than thou attitude and narcissistic speech patterns. Im glad she walked out, she even apologized to him and he discredited by saying "you dont know me" ...hes the ass clown, shes just had enough of the bullshit and being blatantly lied about because of people like u who have the wrong idea
@@glennaoram4145 Oh please go away! You females will support each other no matter what! Nobody cares to hear the man's side of the story. It's always "awww, look at that poor girl". GTFOH
Benny D shut the fuck up, Ben.
Glenna Oram everything you just said was on point 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
This woman is a clear narcissistic manipulator. This man is clearly trying to be civil and she just won't stop being emotional and refuses to let him get his side of the story in. This is clearly what bad women do to prevent men from trying to get their side of the story.
For the first time in her life she was not getting her ass kissed, pedestalized and worshiped…she absolutely could not handle being put in her place
For anyone wondering, she is now happily married with someone else with kids and he is still single
Dude was on the bachelor. If he wanted someone he'd have them
HELL YEAH
Just watched American psycho again and I'm getting Patrick Bateman VIBEZZZZZZ
That man dodged a bullet from that crazy woman.
Hmm... The only thing I will say is that I watched this season, I felt like he chose the wrong girl but you could tell she reallllyyyyyyyyy reallyyyyyy liked him. Like for real.... maybe that's why he chose her. He's a narcissist.
Nah, the blonde is self-entitled and attention hungry. He did nothing wrong imo.
@@СлаваРоссия-у7ж why are you defending jake pavelka on every video of his ? are you jake pavelka ?
@@СлаваРоссия-у7ж why are conservatives like this?
@@realdavidjones1623 because they're logical.
@@thecensoredmuscle563 LOL that has to be a set up cause Conservatives are one of the most pathetically emotional and deluded group of people
The fact that people think she’s in the right further proves that we failed as a society. 🤦♂️
I can tell you voted for Trump. You are what’s wrong with this country.
@@RTM97701”immediately attempts to jump into a political argument”
“tells other person they are what’s wrong with this country”
Embarrassing 😂😂
@@kalebanth8323 nothing political argument about it. It’s an observation of the common qualities of Trump supporters. That is a character issue not a political issue. And yes I absolutely called it. You’re an astute observer Kaleb. Haha. Yes you are embarrassing.
My ex wife was the exact same way. She blew her top off on me one night for 23 minutes and 17 seconds (I was watching the clock behind her the whole time). At the end of her psycho rant she says to me "so you dont have anything to say?" I took a deep breathe and calmly tried to get through my first sentence and she talked right over me. Good riddance! She's on her third marriage now and I'm loving my peace! Learned a lot about covert narcissism thanks to her!
Ma man stood his ground. Good for him. He let her talk
seeing him so removed and her so emotional is very telling. he is cold and unfeeling and self absorbed. anyone that doesn’t see that is unhinged themselves
I'm sorry but if someone talked to me the way Jake talked to Vienna, I'd kick off tell him what I really thought of him
sure...
She deserved to be talked to like that. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
@@alexh8613 did you not hear her explanation? Everything she said was true, he would lie she would debunk it and he would be silenced 😂
You're sooo tough and scary
This is just a two minutes clip from a lengthy interview, and throughout it, blondie kept interrupting him before he can even get five words out. No wonder he's had enough of her shit. Get real.
You can tell this always happens. He was sick of it., she didn’t think he would get her together on national tv but he did. Then comes the fake cry.
the truth is: she really was in love with her but he wasnt. Just look at their body language. They're toxic to each other
By his reaction, you can tell this has happened a thousand times before.
Wow, she could of let him talk but he didn't have to get so upset with her.. if he's like with her now imagine how ir would be if they was married wouldn't last.. seems he might have a bit of a temper.. didn't think Jake was like that.. ya, never know
Not to mention he interupted her multiple times as well throughout the interview as well. Such a hypocrite he is.
What do u mean let him talk? She wasn't done saying why she was sorry.
@@nicolebell5311 Exactly
He’s allowed to be upset when someone’s interrupting him tho…
what’s crazy is he was my fave from Jillians season so it’s crazy this is how it ended up.
I'm watching Jillian's season for the first time currently and I couldn't agree with you more!
@@carleecarpenter7663 She was just as bad as he was on here and bachelor pad. He was just a bit obsessed with being on tv.
She is a narc, period. Those that know, know. Those that dont will be fooled.
It is absolutely insane to me that people watch this and take his side.
Oh I so love this man's reaction 😂😂😂😂
I thought she said she was done talking about it, yet as soon as he speaks she finds something else to say...
Seeing that side of Jake is scary. Wow. I think Tenley dodged a bullet, along with the other 25 women. I'm behind on the bachelor so I'm binge watching them.
The man dodged a bullet, she couldnt even let him speak. She had to controll the narrative and you can see it with the fake crying, a pure manipulation tactic.
He dodged the bullet.
He raised his voice in emotion one time, the woman did it the whole interview.
Narcissism is hating someone for being rude to you while ignoring your horrible behaviour that prompted their reaction
Y’all are so dramatic😂 all he said was can you please stop interrupting me with a little bit of base in his voice😂
stop interrupting the man damn
I doubt they’re both innocent but she definitely doesn’t exercise restraint
Heaven forbid, he gets interrupted again
Hellll no. If my husband talked to me like that my next interview would be for snatched 🤷🏻♀️
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I think you meant Snapped.
You must wear the pants then
Then you don’t respect him
@@channingdavis5541 I’m with you on that brother finally somebody who thinks
"This is what happens every time we try to work things out." are you insane?
Lmao I watched this on a reel and finally found the whole video😂😂😂
Lmao everyone so quick to jump on her side he literally asking not to be interrupted as she depicts the behavior of constantly doing it in there relationship. She did it twice when he started to talk boo hooo . You had your turn to talk now it’s his .
They love to play the victim. she shouldn't have interrupted him. Its called respect whether you like it or not.
😂 this man deserves a show
She said she's done talking and then went straight back and interrupted him, no respect there.
1:16-1:23 please stop interrupted me .....lol
he interrupted her lmfao
I know. Hypocrite much?
Jay naw he let her talk
This guy is my hero. He’s stoic and keeps it cool even under pressure and obviously while very angry. She only cried because she got put in her place on television to make him look bad. Elementary female psychology.
You’re slow
RUN RUN RUN girl !!
All of the ppl agreeing with him, I can tell that yall speak down to your loved ones and act like you’re better than others because that was this guys whole demeanor the entire time. “Omg someone keeps interrupting him, of course he’s gonna snap” he insulted her the entire time. He belittled her and tried to confuse her about the interactions they’ve had. “Oh but I did this for you” yeah not because you cared but because you wanted to control her. Yall just be so ready to defend someone who’s being mean and nasty to a woman. Just go cuss women out if yall are itching for it that badly
i can tell u talk too much and love your own voice
@@sonder1309considering the fact that I like hearing ppl with sense, open minds, and intelligence then yeah I guess you could say I like hearing myself talk. I say things worth listening to, nice observation 😉
@@sydneysmith6273 cringe, not clicking read more
Comment section further proves that accountability remains women’s kryptonite
Anybody notice that the question was asked directly to her? It was him that jumped in the midst of her explanation and then got angered by her continued explanation….😂
I saw this on fb and now im on RUclips watching both her 10 min vid and this (his) 2 min vid lol. From an unbiased persons perspective and never seen the show: she seems believable, he seems cold and changes the subject around on her a lot, but yes i agree getting interrupted sucks and women do cry a lot during arguments, whether on purpose or not
P.S. men in these comments not all the women who cry while arguing do it to "win" or end the argument. I cry when mad, sad, upset, overwhelmed and i dont choose to. Us women do not have 30 years of hardened emotions ok 😂
Jake interrupted her after she has been speaking 7 seconds. He interrupted her before she interrupted him. He has no room to talk about interrupting. He sits there looking smug like he deserves anything of an apology.
Okay, but he didn't interrupt her, like at all. He let her speak. She interrupted him twice within a ten second period.
It's unfortunate that at least once in a women's life, she is treated like this. What a condescending narcissist and manipulative POS.... She and other women deserve better. Know your worth ladies
Absolutely and yes we have.
Imagine saying I gave my side of the story… he asked if she’s don’t talking she said yes… he took his turn she interrupted so idk where he was wrong
From this limited reaction that I see between them, Jake really makes it seem he manipulates the situation to make Vienna feel she’s the problem and she tries to speak up about it but he constantly finds a new way to manipulate her. Instead of himself being more aware that he is making the relationship toxic, she’s the issue and his always right. I don’t need to see much to know this is how he reacts because no one forced him to say stop interrupting me and letting Chris know this is how it is all the time
@@thecensoredmuscle563 thanks for responding I didn’t watch the season, I’m going to now😂😂😂
@@tatyanaanglin4834 I have not watched it since it came out like 13 and a half years ago. But it was one of the most memorable seasons for me lol. Same with the Ali Bachelorette season that came out a few months after Jake's season. 2010 was an entertaining year for the show.
She kept interrupting him though. I would have done the same. 🤷🏾♂️ Toxic people constantly interrupt people when they talking. Toxic people luck communication skills. Sorry
@@thecensoredmuscle563 I can tell, I am going to watch it! Omg stoppp thiss 😂😂😂
Then go and watch the full interview then.
The fact that her apology was an accusation. And he was nice enough to wait for her to stop talking and then rebuttals. Even in the beginning they both were about to talk and he let her go. Maybe it was for the cameras maybe not but being interrupted is annoying and I have to remind myself to let my husband finish his thought and then reply
Bruh became a legend instantly lol
Vienna: “I’m done talking about it”
**won’t stop interrupting Jake**
“If I didn’t do it you would have” straight up gaslighting him. While fake crying what a terrible person.
Well.. simply stop interrupting him. Woman hate accountability. He let her talk .. soon. As he goes to talk she has to cut him off
Generally speaking, you have to lack self-respect and integrity in order to be willing to be on the bachelor to begin with... so neither of them should be surprised at their situation.
bro just wants to not get interrupted.
Incredible how just rising voice tone makes a woman feel threaten!
He was clearly and calmly trying to express his point of view and she had a hissy fit because she wasn't having her way 😂😂😂 from my POV it's definitely safe to say he dodged a bullet. As a woman, I hate when women try to weaponize their tears to try to justify them gaslighting someone. She needs to work on herself and find her own peace before getting into another relationship. Plain and simple! 🤷🏿♀️
She was interrupting, and claimed that she knows the “real him” as if she’s that smart.
omg, she should be so grateful she didn't end up with an asshole like that! if he is like that now and on national television treating her like that? wow.....GIRL RUN!
he gives me BIG Patrick Bateman vibes.............
Fire role model
He is a gaslighting rat and she has had enough of the abuse. Look at him always flipping everything on her.
Aside from the fact that she interrupted him repeatedly? That's another huge dysfunction. When a women interrupts a man and he calls her on it, he's a jerk. When a man does it to a woman and she calls him out, she's the victim. Such hypocrisy and a double standard
The interviewer asked her the question It was her time to answer 🚩🚩🚩
What crap. She interrupted him twice and he called her on it both times. That's impulsivity and that's a problem and a sign of immaturity. Run, brother, to the hills and don't look back! This woman is the type who will make all men the bad guys and is probably only suited for weak men that she can dominate and control. My mother was a controlling shrew and thanks to her, made me realize early on that NO woman was ever going to control me. My relationships with women have been mature, mutually respectful and polite....we treat each other with respect, kindness, and consideration. If these features were not to be present, I bolt and/or cut them from my life like a cancer.
Any girl who ever dates him should see this first. I am so glad I don't date anymore. (I'm not married, not gay, just blissfully single) I would RUN fast and far from anyone who ever spoke to me like this. fucking scary shit.
well you definitely didnt have a dad
@@bbqchickenluver222 Yes because "quoting" something that wasn't said makes you a superb genius. well done meg.
That wasn't a bullet, that was a nuke he dodged
Accountability is kryptonite for women.
Well she wouldn’t stfu
That right there is a dangerous person.
Who Jake or Vienna I'm assuming you're talking about Jake
Congratulations guy! So glad you got away from that shipwreck
1:29 again interrupted
Look how cocky he is 😒
He's more than cocky
@@KayleighNatasha i agree with you
I think Vienna emotionally abused him and he just had enough of the emotional abuse.
These women aren’t gonna sleep with you bro
It's crazy how everyone reaction changed over the years
Why is everyone coming back to this video/g i searched up something else and this appeared but i keep seeing relatively new comments defending him
The way they had Ben reading the sign and grinning at the beginning was...not a good editing choice, ABC.
They superimposed the title and just had him holding a blank sign so they could add whatever they wanted on the segment.
The amount of people in this comment section assuming who was in the wrong by just this one clip is crazy
The man barely raises his voice and everyone's acting like he's scary. You guys are insanely soft. Society today wants us to remove all passion and emotions that have any slight aggression to them. Society wants you guys to be dull and robotic.
No, society wants reasonable, society wants to progress beyond the days where women were oppressed and dominated by men who want control. He flipped his lid because he wanted to control the narrative. Conversations are not monologues, they are dialogues. Lil Jake Pavelka (guy in video) is a narcissist douche nozzle. He was abusive to her the entire season. He has a fragile little ego.
1:18 That was so visceral.
Im not taking sides but I would be pissed if im sitting there balling my eyes out and the man who just yelled at me is smiling.
“and again i got interrupted, good lord!” LOL
He comes across as suuuuper manipulative 🤷🏻♂️
He seems mean :(
He looks like an abuser.
While she's obviously got some growing up to do she's definitely right to walk away.
"Once you know, you go". She _does_ know him - he's a narc.
A abuser? Cause what? He spake firmly and said stop interrupting me?
0:51 that is the longest moment of silence she ever had.
In this 1hrs. Netflix mini series in 8 parts, we want to know the reactions in this dramatization every week in March and April that it's over between Jake and Vienna now Ali and Jake needs a bond together, We need to know about the Netflix Mini-series for 8 weeks called Jake & Vienna and then about moving on to his new girl.
He's a bad person because he knows how to control his emotions? Tf would be be mad at the interviewer for? 😂😂