Soft Power: Moving from You and Me to Us
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- In this podcast, Sounds True founder Tami Simon speaks with "the relationship turnaround guy" and bestselling author Terry Real about: the origins of his two-day relationship intervention; the groundbreaking-and rule-breaking-approach of Relational Life Therapy; dealing with shame and grandiosity, and the contempt underlying both; the skill of "joining through the truth"; what healthy self-esteem looks like; why "there's nothing that harshness does that loving firmness doesn't do better"; speaking to and from the mature, wise adult instead of the adaptive, wounded child; relational mindfulness; recognizing your tendency toward "fight, flight, freeze, or fix"; our toxic culture of individualism and the shift to "soft power"; why an invitation works a lot better than a complaint; the essential rhythm of relationships: harmony, rupture, and repair; honoring the ecological system of your relationship while having your individual needs met; and more.
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I was introduced to Terry Real by my therapist just a month ago. He is an inspiration and I love his honesty. Thank you Tami and Terry for this interview 🙏
Always getting at men .my father was a quiet man it was my mother that was a grandiose narcissist .
As this is long and complicated have been listening for second time. Re the couple and the sex differential. Terry says the women has little interest in sex. That would be a deal breaker for me .A kiss is not sex and I enjoy sex . GOOD sex brings great joy to me. If there is a significant gap in libido they should split. Otherwise the resentment will eat at the relationship.
I am a 59 year old divorce and in a 2nd situation that I want it to be worth fighting for; we are just hurting each other … just bought book fierce intimacy 🙏
Simply Wow!!! 🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌
The observation on shame - grandiosity - contempt was the missing piece in the puzzle of my (trans generational) birth family dynamics!
Thank you!
38:56 bookmarking this so i can share with a friend 🙏
I love Terry Real. He helps so many couples and Men.
Well well well…
Great informative video..
Beautifully!!! Grazie
Hilarious and refreshing! Thank you!
Wonderful guest!