Abuse is abuse! Nobody has the right to hurt you verbally, physically or emotionally. I went thru a seriously abusive relationship until I decided enough. Still it hurts everyday. Hopefully those of you in an abusive situation can be strong enough to say, "Help!" Just walk away and live. Never give up.
I don't know how to live anymore, 30 years of abuse by several people, I can't cope, did drugs and been clean a week and want so much to do more as it's the only escape I know of without doing anything more stupid, how do I feel how do I breathe how do I get threw all this how do I heal how do I move forward, I just got away and my life is so uncertain and it has killed me inside, I feel dead inside, I don't know what true happy or anything feels, all I know is pain and I can't live with all these feelings anymore
@@MichelleParmely Michelle, stay strong. Remember that you have the right to live, to say no one can hurt me unless I allow it. If you pray then pray every second. Make new friends, move to a new area. The greatest gift you can give yourself is to Believe in you.
Ohh hunny, my heart breaks 💔 for. Your a good person. After going though all those broken and un promises relationships it will take some time to heal . But please don't go back to using it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. Stop with the self hurting!! Your better than that. Get a GOOD counselor for some professional help and find a GOOD support group and find an NA meeting you need to go to MEETING!!!! I have faith in you. Please keep me updated on your progress. I'm concerned about.??? I want to see you be happy . I've been clean since 1991 just before I gave birth to my twins daughters and there father was no good 😢 and stayed with him for along time.I have some ugly relationships and got out of them and so can you .please keep me up dated on your journey ❤️😘 thanks love
After 30 yrs I still have never gotten over being beat by my ex-husband 🥺 I love the fact that he would never try that with his wife now 😂 I wanted our girls to have both parents. I loved him too much 😕
I just turned 42 a few weeks ago, and this song takes me waaaayyyyyy back!!! Time sure does fly by, to all you young cats out there DONT WISH YOUR LIFE AWAY!!!! 🧟♀859KY☮
I recently got out of an emotional abusive relationship with a girl who has Borderline Personality Disorder and this song really speaks to me. The lyrics are the same thing she would say in our arguments by playing the victim. "I don't know if I've ever been really loved." "and I'm a little bit angry." "I don't know why you ever would lie to me." "Cause I've been cheated, I've been wronged." I am so glad that I got out of that abuse.
It makes me think of my narcissistic ex. He would do things and lie constantly. Drove me to my breaking point and when I snapped I was the bad guy. He didn't even give me the luxury of grieving for my family members who passed away.
Yes bro I’m 25 now feels like I’m an old head compared to most people around my age. My parents put me onto good music at a young age. I hate what the music industry has become. Tainted,shallow,& all smoke & mirrors
Dude, I know I'm only 16, but I love this stuff. I can't believe people are calling this stuff "classic" or "old" It's definitly better than the new stuff.
This song is my 8th grade lol. I listened to it on repeat and drove everyone insane. We used to go to this arcade where they had pool tables and shoot pool for hours and I literally played this on the jukebox over and over until someone would finally stop me😂 I haven't heard it in years and I just thought about the other day and couldn't remember the name until like 5 minutes ago. Man, it takes me right back to that time in my life, so nostalgic for me. Such a great song. I will ALWAYS love Matchbox Twenty and Rob Thomas❤
This is one of the thousands of songs that I grew up with back in the 1990's as a teenager. I finally found this song that I have not heard for over 21 years since early part of the year 2000 when I was 17 and a half years old. That brings me a lot of emotion.
Songs from late sixties early 70s 80s 90s etc. are still popular and get alot of airtime and commercial clips. Good artist and their contributions seem to integrate into the collective souls of the people.
@@jessicaclark5779 @MissKristi honestly! I’ve been on a MB20 binge for days. They were my favorite band in 8th grade. (98-99)Lol Rob Thomas is a beautiful writer
I heard this song on a snowboarding video (vhs)! Was stuck in my head for years but didnt know who the band was cuz no internet back then.. didnt find out till like 18 years later and still addicted to this song!! The snowboarding video was called "steak and lobster" really good video!!
This song is about a woman who is mentally abusive to a man and the stigma around men not being able to be abused. Just wanted to put it out there if anyone was confused about it.
Tenho 50 anos e esta música descreve muitos momentos de minha vida. É perfeita para quem a compreende. Maravilhosamente escrita e cantada. Amo Rob , Matchbox 20 e Push. Significa demais para mim.
I discovered the song because it was on the radio. I searched for the lyrics on Google and I found the name. Today I took a cab and this songs was playing again...💗
I remember in the 90s when my mom wouldn’t let me listen to this song and of course there was no RUclips or easy way to listen to it back then besides the radio, but eventually heard it a lot and have always loved it
I personally believe that this song is about a hurt person who is hurting someone else in a relationship because they're hurting as well. Misery enjoys company.
I just copied this comment.. "When this song first came out, there was a huge uproar from women's groups claiming that the song promoted violence toward women. However, Rob Thomas went on some talk show and discussed how it was, in fact, he who had been abused. That shut 'em up pretty quick. Kind of ironic that they jumped down his throat for perceived violence toward women, but weren't disgusted by whatever woman did this to him." So basically, he just reversed their situations, and it resulted to this masterpiece.
Sums up my life for the last 2 years. I want her to be out of my life but I feel like I owe her so much mental abuse and shitty treatment for telling me she loved me while she was sneaking around.....twice......2 different dudes. So far I've only repaid one of the cheating acts and it barely phased her.....I hope when this is all over this woman will be left alone, homeless, jobless, and near suicide. Maybe then she will learn to appreciate life and change her pathetic behavior and realize when she cheats on someone and break their heart there will be consequences.....I cant wait to ghost this whore on her bday and before I leave I'm going to take a shit and put the poo in the back of her oven and piss in the silverware drawer
Well holy shit! I've heard this song a million(ish) times. I've heard the song and I've heard "I wanna push you around. Yeah I will I will" but I never REALLY heard this song a million(ish) times.... until tonight. This is a situation that many of us men deal with in life. They say it's the man who cheats in the majority. High majority. Not in mine. I'm still here. So I keep thinking to "not rush. We may be happy again"... Huh... I JUST heard this song for the first time and will impact my listening to this song a bit deeper every time from tonight on forward.
Just found out my friend of almost 30 yrs committed suicide and this popped up on my fed- I'm in tears bcuz we used to rock out to this and the words remind me of how she must have felt.. she must have been in such deep pain that couldn't be eased.. to want to hurt everyone close to her and give up... burdens me - to be that sad, angry and lost; makes me feel like I wasn't that good of a friend or listener.. wish I looked deeper into her words and a little bit harder at her actions. This song makes it hurt that much more- Rest easy Jennifer You now are free of pain and walk in the way of the Lord Your suffering is over and I will miss you -
My mom met the lead singer of Matchbox Twenty (Rob Thomas) when he was 17. They where sitting on a dock in the sun. She asked him to sing, and back then she said he was so shy and self conscious. Alas though, he did sing for her.
Did You ever find out if it was just a bad mindset? Or the way they really felt atleast at that point in time? Do you still know them and have they changed that “mindset”
@@djcrosby3890 I’m sorry for the late response. The lady was in a abusive relationship and we were close friends. we never talked about it definitively, but I am sure her liking this song was due to a lot of the negative things she was going through. We disconnected over time but last time we talked she was out of the bad relationship and in a loving supportive one. I can say she used to play this song a lot when she was in the bad one and I never heard anything about this song after she was free from that situation. Ps. I see my original comment was three years ago and it honestly feels like so much longer. I was genuinely surprised to see that. Thank God for growth.
"Push" She said I don't know If I've ever been good enough I'm a little bit rusty, And I think my head is caving in And I don't know If I've ever been really loved By a hand that's touched me, And I feel like something's gonna give And I'm a little bit angry, Well, this ain't over, no not here, Not while I still need you around You don't owe me, we might change it Yeah we just might feel good I wanna push you around, Well, I will, well, I will I wanna push you down, Well, I will, well, I will I wanna take you for granted, I wanna take you for granted I, I will, I will I will She said, "I don't know why you ever would lie to me. Like I'm a little untrusting when I think that the truth is gonna hurt ya. And I don't know why you couldn't just stay with me. You couldn't stand to be near me. When my face don't seem to want to shine 'Cause it's a little bit dirty. Well, don't just stand there saying nice things to me 'Cause I've been cheated I've been wronged, You, you don't know me, Yeah well, I can't change Well, I won't do anything at all." I wanna push you around, Well, I will, well, I will I wanna push you down, Well, I will, well, I will I wanna take you for granted, I wanna take you for granted I, I will, I will Oh but don't bowl me over Just wait a minute Well it kinda fell apart, Things get so crazy, crazy Don't rush this baby, Don't rush this baby, baby I wanna push you around, Well, I will, well, I will I wanna push you down, Well, I will, well, I will I wanna take you for granted, I wanna take you, take you Well, I will, well, I will I will, I will Well, I will, I will I will, I will Push you around, And drag you down I wanna push you around, Well, I will
Yeah this song ia about a woman who has been abused before, cheated, wronged, unloved. So now she's become abusive towards her partner, she wants to do him what was done to her "taked for granted" "pushed down and around". Hurt people hurt people. People, don't play with others feelings. Monsters create monsters.
On repeat and crying. A woman I was with was a prayer answered but she is so damaged she abused me physically and emotionally and cheated over and over. I thought I could love it out of her.
I never know this song before. And I only first heard this singing by a guy on a karaoke that night when me and my coworkers have celebrated her birthday in karaoke bar. That guy has something to do with my thoughts, and why all of a sudden I remember my ultimate crush in college. He's just so good. No doubt it. Not to mention that he really looked handsome too. ❤
The female’s lyrics are in quotes. The push part is the man singing to her. He wants to take the girl for granted because she is vulnerable. And he will.
MOST DEFINITELY TRUE, GREAT MUSIC, GREAT BANDS, & JUST DOWN RIGHT GREAT SONGS NEVER DIE OR OUTLIVE THERE SOUND, MEANING , AND HOW IT MAKES A PERSON ALONE FEEL AND THINK AND PERCEIVE LIFE, OR JUST A DAM GOOD SONG THAT MOVES YOU!! IM ASKED ALL THE TIME WHATS MY FAVORITE SONG AND ALWAYS IT STUMPS ME BC I DONT BELIEVE I COULD CHOSE JUST 1, MUSIC HAS ALWAYS BEEN MY ESCAPE FROM REALITY, AND MY ANTI DEPRESSANT. MUSIC IS LIKE MY BLANKY AND ITS HELPED ME THRU SOME OF MY HARDEST TIMES IN LIFE, I KNOW U CANT PONDER THE PAST AND IM NOT SAYING I HAD IT WORSE THAN ANYONE THRU MY LIFE BUT I CAN GUARNTEE IVE WENT THRU AND SEEN THINGS IN MY LIFE THAT HAS REALLY TURNED ME INTO WHAT AND WHO I AM TODAY. BUT MOST OF ALL MUSIC OF ANY ERA, TIME FRAME, OR WHATEVER IT MAY BE IS MADE FOR SOMEONE OUT THERE, MUSIC IS 100% ESSENTIAL TO ALL HUMANKIND!!
Abuse is abuse! Nobody has the right to hurt you verbally, physically or emotionally. I went thru a seriously abusive relationship until I decided enough. Still it hurts everyday. Hopefully those of you in an abusive situation can be strong enough to say, "Help!" Just walk away and live. Never give up.
I don't know how to live anymore, 30 years of abuse by several people, I can't cope, did drugs and been clean a week and want so much to do more as it's the only escape I know of without doing anything more stupid, how do I feel how do I breathe how do I get threw all this how do I heal how do I move forward, I just got away and my life is so uncertain and it has killed me inside, I feel dead inside, I don't know what true happy or anything feels, all I know is pain and I can't live with all these feelings anymore
@@MichelleParmely Michelle, stay strong. Remember that you have the right to live, to say no one can hurt me unless I allow it. If you pray then pray every second. Make new friends, move to a new area. The greatest gift you can give yourself is to Believe in you.
Ohh hunny, my heart breaks 💔 for. Your a good person. After going though all those broken and un promises relationships it will take some time to heal . But please don't go back to using it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. Stop with the self hurting!! Your better than that. Get a GOOD counselor for some professional help and find a GOOD support group and find an NA meeting you need to go to MEETING!!!! I have faith in you. Please keep me updated on your progress. I'm concerned about.??? I want to see you be happy . I've been clean since 1991 just before I gave birth to my twins daughters and there father was no good 😢 and stayed with him for along time.I have some ugly relationships and got out of them and so can you .please keep me up dated on your journey ❤️😘 thanks love
After 30 yrs I still have never gotten over being beat by my ex-husband 🥺 I love the fact that he would never try that with his wife now 😂 I wanted our girls to have both parents. I loved him too much 😕
I just turned 42 a few weeks ago, and this song takes me waaaayyyyyy back!!! Time sure does fly by, to all you young cats out there DONT WISH YOUR LIFE AWAY!!!! 🧟♀859KY☮
Great advice man, 42 here as well. I think we were part of the last greats of many things. If that makes sense.
No truer words to explain me than “ I don’t know if I’ve ever been truly loved by a hand that’s touched me”. 😔
I'm sorry :(
Same
Unfortunately I’m with you
Same here rose 🌹petal
Truth ❤️
I recently got out of an emotional abusive relationship with a girl who has Borderline Personality Disorder and this song really speaks to me. The lyrics are the same thing she would say in our arguments by playing the victim.
"I don't know if I've ever been really loved."
"and I'm a little bit angry."
"I don't know why you ever would lie to me."
"Cause I've been cheated, I've been wronged."
I am so glad that I got out of that abuse.
I feel ya I been there and every single word of this song is me also there man try push me into relationship with him and I won't be with him
It makes me think of my narcissistic ex. He would do things and lie constantly. Drove me to my breaking point and when I snapped I was the bad guy. He didn't even give me the luxury of grieving for my family members who passed away.
Hope you are doing okay now. Get help, if you feel you can't break free on your own. You deserve real love, and safety. Good luck!
And that's all she ever heard too
Its scaring me to think the songs i grew up with are now being played on classic rock radio stations
Sucks, doesnt it!?
Yes bro I’m 25 now feels like I’m an old head compared to most people around my age. My parents put me onto good music at a young age. I hate what the music industry has become. Tainted,shallow,& all smoke & mirrors
Dude, I know I'm only 16, but I love this stuff. I can't believe people are calling this stuff "classic" or "old" It's definitly better than the new stuff.
Yep it’s sux we are getting old
"Old age is not a luxury afforded to many."
Hits different when you’re older
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You not telling any lies
Agreed
Fucked up tho
Looking in the mirror is hard to do when the person staring back is not who you thought you were.
How did I grow up screaming this song, to actually feel it word for word at 26….?
Law of attraction … your voice and thoughts have power
I feel this song just as much as you do. It sucks that we grew up on it now it's one we relate to now more than ever
Literally me right now
I suddenly feel the urge to play this song a guitar while I stare uncomfortably into a girl's eyes for 4 1/2 minutes
lately I've been having that same feeling man idk
Yes, after watch Barbie 😂
As long as they don't be go to the man down the line playing the exact same song for another barbie
All these years of listening to this song and I only just NOW realized how fucking unromantic it is. And I hate myself for it, thank you very much.
It's about a a relationship with someone who doesn't care
Mojo dojo casa house.
One of the first songs I learned to sing as a child! Crazy how 23 years later it all makes so much since
I'm sure this song is older than that isn't it?
This song is my 8th grade lol. I listened to it on repeat and drove everyone insane. We used to go to this arcade where they had pool tables and shoot pool for hours and I literally played this on the jukebox over and over until someone would finally stop me😂 I haven't heard it in years and I just thought about the other day and couldn't remember the name until like 5 minutes ago. Man, it takes me right back to that time in my life, so nostalgic for me. Such a great song. I will ALWAYS love Matchbox Twenty and Rob Thomas❤
Darling Nikki i listen to it on the radio but I am 49!😆✌❤🤘
Hello Nikki , how are you doing?
im going to 8th grade lol
The memories come back within a fraction of a second hearing that intro.
This is one of the thousands of songs that I grew up with back in the 1990's as a teenager. I finally found this song that I have not heard for over 21 years since early part of the year 2000 when I was 17 and a half years old. That brings me a lot of emotion.
Same
My fav song by matchbox 20 still jammin Oct 2019 '
Rocking on with you
Still gammon 2019+2020
Hell yeah man
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Songs from late sixties early 70s 80s 90s etc. are still popular and get alot of airtime and commercial clips. Good artist and their contributions seem to integrate into the collective souls of the people.
All time fav.. 2019 still listening!!
THIS IS THE SONG I'VE BEEN TRYING TO FIND FOR LIKE SIX MONTHS FUCK YEAH
+Sophia Piper ...weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...finally u got it...nice job...enjoy!!..its soooooooooooooo good!!
you could have asked me.
hahaha relate
This is a hit at the retirement homes in Florida, used to be the time of my life and owe it all to you.
My mom was listening to this song, and when I heard it in fell in love with it. 🔥🔥🔥
Tq son..im mom of 4.... my theme song
These songs hit different in your 30s almost 40s.
All of there tracks to especially this one and unwell
@@jessicaclark5779 @MissKristi honestly! I’ve been on a MB20 binge for days. They were my favorite band in 8th grade. (98-99)Lol Rob Thomas is a beautiful writer
Decades passed by and still, the best song fo me
Love this song never gets old
yeah
I heard this song on a snowboarding video (vhs)! Was stuck in my head for years but didnt know who the band was cuz no internet back then.. didnt find out till like 18 years later and still addicted to this song!! The snowboarding video was called "steak and lobster" really good video!!
Can't stop myself from listening ths song since then.. loved it😊😍😘💞💞💞
This Song is Freakin' GOOD very Nice
Still mad in love with this song this 2019 ❤😍💞
Im a huge 90s fan and out of the 100s of bands of listened to, matchbox 20 is my favourite to sing a long to :)
This makes me so nostalgic for the late 90's.
This song hits so different when you've been abused by someone who says they love you
This song is about a woman who is mentally abusive to a man and the stigma around men not being able to be abused. Just wanted to put it out there if anyone was confused about it.
Common story too
: my wife
@@jianiiu8432 gotta love em through it and not return it to her. This is part of both of you and your trials
: 😁
: thank you
Tenho 50 anos e esta música descreve muitos momentos de minha vida. É perfeita para quem a compreende. Maravilhosamente escrita e cantada. Amo Rob , Matchbox 20 e Push. Significa demais para mim.
Never gets old.
Can't stop myself from listening ths song since then.. loved it😊😍😘💞💞💞
so sad to think that this kind of music is played so seldom on the radio stations nowadays.
prodigal son that's what Pandora is for
I still get these 90s songs on radio where I live. I heard this song on the radio today so came here for another listen
Even here in the Philippines it's not really popular but their song unwell i always heard it and they played it on karaoke☺
94.5 ROXY does
I discovered the song because it was on the radio. I searched for the lyrics on Google and I found the name. Today I took a cab and this songs was playing again...💗
that's amazing ! 90's music is the best ! ......
i love this , i love this
I fucking miss this song.
Love this song the the words are so true about how people are treated in real life but I love this song ❤️💙 💜
Just amazing how he was able to put melody to those lyrics
Hello Lisa, how are you doing?
Hai Iam Indonesian, I love this song so much, first timeI hear this song when I still Collage in Bandung West Java Indonesia arround 1997....
I want these days back. I really mean it. I am so depressed rn and Ive had it for years, I didn't have it back then. Happy days.
🎶 And I don't know if I've ever been really loved by a hand thats touched me, and I feel like something's gonna give and I'm a little bit angry..🎶🙋💔💗
Mary Pollack my favorite part it's too real for me
I came here for these specific words
Hello Mary, how are you doing?
Ken's favorite song
Meaningful lyrics great song
Who else is listening in 2017? 🙋🏻
This Song is Freakin' GOOD very Nice
All time fav.. 2019 still listening!!
Listening in 2020
Noelia Narciso 2020 still listening
2020 baby!!!
Hello Noelia, how are you doing?
I remember hearing this when I was a kid and I still love it
Marie?
Hello Brittany, how are you doing?
This song has a smell attached to it that I remember all too well and this one boy I woulda done anything for. Nostalgia at its best!
What does it smell like? My nose is stopped up.
yeah what does it smell like?
Yes some things do it’s an imprint!!
Hello Julie, how are you doing!
I do this with songs too lol I thought I was crazy. 🤣
I used to record this song back in the 90's and i love it 👍
Sitting by the radio ready to hit record on the cassette deck. Hahaha oh man the memories.
And i'm a little bit ANGRRYY!!
When I first heard this song in 2012. I knew they would be one of my favorite groups. I still love Rob in 2020.
I remember in the 90s when my mom wouldn’t let me listen to this song and of course there was no RUclips or easy way to listen to it back then besides the radio, but eventually heard it a lot and have always loved it
Bents my favorite song by them.
Hello Andrea, how are you doing?
I personally believe that this song is about a hurt person who is hurting someone else in a relationship because they're hurting as well.
Misery enjoys company.
I agree!
I just copied this comment..
"When this song first came out, there was a huge uproar from women's groups claiming that the song promoted violence toward women. However, Rob Thomas went on some talk show and discussed how it was, in fact, he who had been abused. That shut 'em up pretty quick. Kind of ironic that they jumped down his throat for perceived violence toward women, but weren't disgusted by whatever woman did this to him."
So basically, he just reversed their situations, and it resulted to this masterpiece.
yes he wants to hurt her because she is not nice to him
Sums up my life for the last 2 years. I want her to be out of my life but I feel like I owe her so much mental abuse and shitty treatment for telling me she loved me while she was sneaking around.....twice......2 different dudes. So far I've only repaid one of the cheating acts and it barely phased her.....I hope when this is all over this woman will be left alone, homeless, jobless, and near suicide. Maybe then she will learn to appreciate life and change her pathetic behavior and realize when she cheats on someone and break their heart there will be consequences.....I cant wait to ghost this whore on her bday and before I leave I'm going to take a shit and put the poo in the back of her oven and piss in the silverware drawer
Dmia50316 Did you follow through?
This ain't over. No not here 2020
Still inlove to this song ❤️
Mr Thomas is an incredible writer any one figure it out push is about self abuse
My two kiddos my cousin and her newborn an I are out riding around in country an mountains jamming out to this song we love it
Hello Sheena, how are you doing?
I sing this on karaoke, always get a good reaction and it is often requested in my home town
Didn't ask for your mouth Jamie
Eric Springer"Jamie"...wow you are really in bad shape. Can you even read? LOL
Very mature.
Jimmie Tolliver says Mrs. "wow you are really in bad shape"
Eric Springer don't feel bad internet thugs u know, they hide behind the key board.
who's here in 2019?
Im here...
👍🏼 love them forever
me,me,me,still listening to their songs and other 90's bands,and i'll never get tired,forever❤
I'm here too!🎵
2019
Well holy shit!
I've heard this song a million(ish) times. I've heard the song and I've heard "I wanna push you around. Yeah I will I will" but I never REALLY heard this song a million(ish) times.... until tonight.
This is a situation that many of us men deal with in life. They say it's the man who cheats in the majority. High majority. Not in mine. I'm still here. So I keep thinking to "not rush. We may be happy again"...
Huh... I JUST heard this song for the first time and will impact my listening to this song a bit deeper every time from tonight on forward.
Just found out my friend of almost 30 yrs committed suicide and this popped up on my fed-
I'm in tears bcuz we used to rock out to this and the words remind me of how she must have felt.. she must have been in such deep pain that couldn't be eased.. to want to hurt everyone close to her and give up... burdens me - to be that sad, angry and lost; makes me feel like I wasn't that good of a friend or listener.. wish I looked deeper into her words and a little bit harder at her actions. This song makes it hurt that much more-
Rest easy Jennifer
You now are free of pain and walk in the way of the Lord
Your suffering is over and I will miss you -
My mom met the lead singer of Matchbox Twenty (Rob Thomas) when he was 17. They where sitting on a dock in the sun. She asked him to sing, and back then she said he was so shy and self conscious. Alas though, he did sing for her.
Kirsten Bledsoe your mom is one of those people? Poor guy. Tell your mom she's an asshole
Turn around and tell yourself, you're an asshole because you are. You deserve all the divorces and broken relationships coming your way.
@@wali.reuploads jealousy ?
Hello Kristen, how are you doing?
This songs playing right now on the radio jamming out to it
He can make it all sound darker then the real meaning of the lyrics.
LOVE MATCH BOX 20!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Someone i really like told me this was their favorite song and it broke my heart. I don't know how to get them out of this bad mindset
Did You ever find out if it was just a bad mindset? Or the way they really felt atleast at that point in time? Do you still know them and have they changed that “mindset”
@@djcrosby3890 I’m sorry for the late response.
The lady was in a abusive relationship and we were close friends. we never talked about it definitively, but I am sure her liking this song was due to a lot of the negative things she was going through. We disconnected over time but last time we talked she was out of the bad relationship and in a loving supportive one. I can say she used to play this song a lot when she was in the bad one and I never heard anything about this song after she was free from that situation.
Ps. I see my original comment was three years ago and it honestly feels like so much longer. I was genuinely surprised to see that. Thank God for growth.
Been looking for this song for years!!!
2016, thank you for this wonderful song
Never gets old
love this song
I never know what meeting this song had in the early 2000s now later on in life it makes perfect sense
Love this song❤️
I could listen to this for four hours.
"Push"
She said I don't know
If I've ever been good enough
I'm a little bit rusty,
And I think my head is caving in
And I don't know
If I've ever been really loved
By a hand that's touched me,
And I feel like something's gonna give
And I'm a little bit angry,
Well, this ain't over, no not here,
Not while I still need you around
You don't owe me, we might change it
Yeah we just might feel good
I wanna push you around,
Well, I will, well, I will
I wanna push you down,
Well, I will, well, I will
I wanna take you for granted,
I wanna take you for granted
I, I will, I will
I will
She said, "I don't know why you ever would lie to me.
Like I'm a little untrusting when I think that the truth is gonna hurt ya.
And I don't know why you couldn't just stay with me.
You couldn't stand to be near me.
When my face don't seem to want to shine
'Cause it's a little bit dirty.
Well, don't just stand there saying nice things to me
'Cause I've been cheated I've been wronged,
You, you don't know me,
Yeah well, I can't change
Well, I won't do anything at all."
I wanna push you around,
Well, I will, well, I will
I wanna push you down,
Well, I will, well, I will
I wanna take you for granted,
I wanna take you for granted
I, I will, I will
Oh but don't bowl me over
Just wait a minute
Well it kinda fell apart,
Things get so crazy, crazy
Don't rush this baby,
Don't rush this baby, baby
I wanna push you around,
Well, I will, well, I will
I wanna push you down,
Well, I will, well, I will
I wanna take you for granted,
I wanna take you, take you
Well, I will, well, I will
I will, I will
Well, I will, I will
I will, I will
Push you around,
And drag you down
I wanna push you around,
Well, I will
Matt rest in peace my love. My heart is broken for you 😢😢😢💔💔💔💔💖🙏🙏🙏
2019 whos up
how i wish there is dedicated show wether on tv or radio that plays this type of music 1990-2000...the songs they play nowadays sucks!
Hello Ann , how are you doing?
@@davidbrian2039 I am great. How about you?
@@juddesevilla1492 oh I'm fine thank you. It's my pleasure meeting you here.
@@juddesevilla1492 where exactly are you from?
This song has been stuck in my head since I heard it on XM Radio a few days ago while I was lighting up a doobie.
Yeah this song ia about a woman who has been abused before, cheated, wronged, unloved. So now she's become abusive towards her partner, she wants to do him what was done to her "taked for granted" "pushed down and around".
Hurt people hurt people.
People, don't play with others feelings. Monsters create monsters.
On repeat and crying. A woman I was with was a prayer answered but she is so damaged she abused me physically and emotionally and cheated over and over. I thought I could love it out of her.
This song by far one of my faves
Hello Ambi, how are you doing?
This Song is Freakin' GOOD very Nice
This song is about being in a relationship with a narcissist
Love this song, great to drive with
Hello Nellie, how are you doing?
I like these kind of old videso
Love this song!
i love this song but never knew who sang it
it describes what i've been through while dating until i found the right guy
jessica grabowski same here. Dating sucks for me ugh
Looks like you did already
Ambot lang, ako paba kaya? Sa puso niya?pero soon ma alams na niya, never hurt the u love, coz its tears is so sacred....🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I never know this song before. And I only first heard this singing by a guy on a karaoke that night when me and my coworkers have celebrated her birthday in karaoke bar. That guy has something to do with my thoughts, and why all of a sudden I remember my ultimate crush in college. He's just so good. No doubt it. Not to mention that he really looked handsome too. ❤
And i dont if i've ever been really love by the hands that touched me..april 2018
chrysalene 🙁
July 2018
The beginning of the song, always felt so nostalgic. 😃
I just heard this song for the first time in well over a decade in Walmart and immediately looked it up when I got home 😂
One of my favorite songs
They always fucking leave but they always leave you with good music to cry your eyes out to.
Hello Amberly, how are you doing?
Match box 20 /2020 still a bloody good song
Push me around?
Watch it now, I push back. Lol
Toxic family members gang wya?
😴😴😴😴🦠🧁🧁🧁😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🧁🧁🧁🧁🧸🦠🦠🦠🦠
Here since day one 😭😭😭
no more music like this anymore 🥺
This shit happens everyday. Keep your head up boys, you will get through.
#SUrelyOxFordIsStrong #SurleyTheyAre
The female’s lyrics are in quotes. The push part is the man singing to her. He wants to take the girl for granted because she is vulnerable. And he will.
Tried singing this for karaoke the other day, chokesville. Sucked, I love this song.
What a great song. The writing, the singing....Outstanding.
Great song 👌👍❤️❤️🎶😊😍
It's one of my favorite song "Me and My so called Boy best friend" were both being hurt by our present relationship we both enjoying this
Still a great song!!!
Jason Fernandez has the best rendition of this song. He sang this on the Voice Philippines 💕
i love you matchbox20!
MOST DEFINITELY TRUE, GREAT MUSIC, GREAT BANDS, & JUST DOWN RIGHT GREAT SONGS NEVER DIE OR OUTLIVE THERE SOUND, MEANING , AND HOW IT MAKES A PERSON ALONE FEEL AND THINK AND PERCEIVE LIFE, OR JUST A DAM GOOD SONG THAT MOVES YOU!! IM ASKED ALL THE TIME WHATS MY FAVORITE SONG AND ALWAYS IT STUMPS ME BC I DONT BELIEVE I COULD CHOSE JUST 1, MUSIC HAS ALWAYS BEEN MY ESCAPE FROM REALITY, AND MY ANTI DEPRESSANT. MUSIC IS LIKE MY BLANKY AND ITS HELPED ME THRU SOME OF MY HARDEST TIMES IN LIFE, I KNOW U CANT PONDER THE PAST AND IM NOT SAYING I HAD IT WORSE THAN ANYONE THRU MY LIFE BUT I CAN GUARNTEE IVE WENT THRU AND SEEN THINGS IN MY LIFE THAT HAS REALLY TURNED ME INTO WHAT AND WHO I AM TODAY. BUT MOST OF ALL MUSIC OF ANY ERA, TIME FRAME, OR WHATEVER IT MAY BE IS MADE FOR SOMEONE OUT THERE, MUSIC IS 100% ESSENTIAL TO ALL HUMANKIND!!
Hello Kay, how are you doing?