EPISODE 10 | BACKLASH AFTER BACKLASH, ABORTING MISSIONS & BRITTANY RENNER CONTROVERSY

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • In Episode 10 of the Behind the Likes podcast, hosts Winter and Chy address the backlash they received from the previous episode. They talk about the importance of keeping an open mind and acknowledging that everyone is entitled to their own opinions (even if they're wrong). Winter and Chy also discuss the societal expectations around women in their 30s and the pressure to be married and have children. They share their personal experiences and challenges of being in their 30s without being wed or having kids in the near future, emphasizing that everyone's journey is unique and valid. Overall, the episode highlights the importance of understanding and respecting different life choices.
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  • @Mwuahnessa
    @Mwuahnessa Год назад +217

    People are just too damn sensitive. In my opinion, Chy and Wintr are clearly friends and HUMAN. And that’s what makes this podcast so special and natural.. The way you guys are working through things together, is beautiful. Don’t let the negativity get to you, continue being you!

    • @leftypaws1131
      @leftypaws1131 Год назад +2

      100% agree.

    • @ChyFontenette
      @ChyFontenette Год назад +3

      🤍🤍🤍

    • @rebeccamcmullen4317
      @rebeccamcmullen4317 Год назад +1

      Lets just be real for one second. IF everything is real and natural and authentic ON ALL LEVELS, why do issues exist?

    • @rebeccamcmullen4317
      @rebeccamcmullen4317 Год назад +1

      I will say this, I do like them overall. But I will always speak the truth and we want many more.

  • @breannabananaz
    @breannabananaz Год назад +2

    You said let’s just say I got quite a few guardian angels 😭😭😭😭 this is my favorite episode so far omg I am hollerin, hilarious

  • @QueenL0011
    @QueenL0011 Год назад +5

    insensitive about abortion but when it comes to your race it’s not the same energy

  • @MayaLopez-c7l
    @MayaLopez-c7l Год назад +4

    but when it was about wintr she wanted the whole episode to talk bout it like we cared

  • @djsworld4235
    @djsworld4235 Год назад +2

    Love you Chy💖! Don't let the haters get to you. People are so miserable these days, and misery loves company.

  • @sunnyz215
    @sunnyz215 Год назад +1

    “My mom Winter Blanco, is taking away my bodily rights” 💀💀😂😂😂

  • @nadiab6793
    @nadiab6793 Год назад +2

    i love this podcast y'all are so real and funny

  • @charlestonthomas7233
    @charlestonthomas7233 Год назад +3

    If y’all think that was something y’all would be like WTF at how bad me & my best friend get into. I know it’s not a good thing but disagreements happen & at the end of the day it’s all love ❤

  • @kaebrix5166
    @kaebrix5166 Год назад +1

    Chy should make a youtube... id love to see more of her..

  • @ITSSSFRANK
    @ITSSSFRANK Год назад

    where can we find the patreon?

  • @Juan-fy6fc
    @Juan-fy6fc Год назад +3

    Ive always liked winter but im loving chy shes funny goofy might smack a bitch be sweet nice and much more❤

  • @mssliciaa
    @mssliciaa Год назад +158

    Chy should be allowed to use this outlet to address the backlash just like winter does when her race gets brought up. The friendship dynamics are like big sister & little sister but if Chy likes it, i love it lol

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад +5

      Cute & passive little insult about the friendship dynamic. I bet you say shady tidbits often! 😂

    • @denitajackson474
      @denitajackson474 Год назад +7

      That’s not even the case. Winter has been in this lifestyle and she’s just reminding her friend that “WE KNOW WHO WE ARE AND HOW ARE RELATIONSHIP REALLY IS” and because of that encouraging her not to keep apologizing when she knows her intentions are good or she will be apologizing for the rest of her career for every little thing.

    • @kierrab2112
      @kierrab2112 Год назад +4

      RIGHT! they friendship kinda weird…kinda over it

    • @dezirekelly
      @dezirekelly Год назад +1

      she literally did. winter is just saying as her friend like girl you don’t have to go through and comment on everything ppl have said bad about her bc they don’t knw her it’s not giving she’s the boss or anything. not to mention CHY has 5 sisters she knows what a sister relationship is and when it’s overstepping.

  • @therealsofianova
    @therealsofianova Год назад +269

    we live in a 'I'll cut you off right away' society and people don't realize that real friends can have disagreements/arguments

    • @jadanaomi5601
      @jadanaomi5601 Год назад +10

      literalllllyyy!!

    • @Daydreamerr13
      @Daydreamerr13 Год назад +3

      Do you feel this has always been, or has slowly made rise since like 2017?

    • @therealsofianova
      @therealsofianova Год назад +3

      ​@@Daydreamerr13 yeah weirdly enough, like how the 60s were all about love.. I feel like we've headed in a total opposite direction of that these last couple of years

  • @TiarraJoi7
    @TiarraJoi7 Год назад +397

    & honestly, the black queen comment was funny & it’s uplifting bc every black woman, regardless of the shade, is a black queen. That’s the BEAUTY of being black.

    • @BabyLov378
      @BabyLov378 Год назад +4

      PERIODT

    • @azul7401
      @azul7401 Год назад +16

      Agreed! it was just.. the timing

    • @Faithwithreail
      @Faithwithreail Год назад +2

      I agree with you

    • @princessjasmine4723
      @princessjasmine4723 Год назад +1

      Period! Lmao nobody was mad at that lol and if they were, they can pass go and go straight to hell

  • @Chrysyyyy
    @Chrysyyyy Год назад +82

    Tbh I wanted to hear Chy’s points, lol. I mean we can clearly see she’s a good friend. But, I can tell she actually wanted to talk about it. I was so ready, lol.

    • @nanakarriem
      @nanakarriem Год назад +8

      Me too 😂 I’m like let my girl defend herself

    • @Chrysyyyy
      @Chrysyyyy Год назад +4

      @@nanakarriem no fr! 😂😂

    • @Ray-ji7rb
      @Ray-ji7rb Год назад +11

      Yeah definitely. I didn’t like that she chose not to say them. Girl, if you don’t start speaking up for yourself 🗣 the people wanna hear lol

    • @Chrysyyyy
      @Chrysyyyy Год назад +3

      @@Ray-ji7rb RIGHTTTTTTTT

    • @tansybrown951
      @tansybrown951 Год назад +5

      Yes I wanted to hear what she had to say too but winter cut her off even tho she kept trying to say she just wanted to speak her piece for her own peace of mind

  • @SNG23
    @SNG23 Год назад +200

    So Winter was allowed to make bullet points and address everything but Chy can’t say what she wants to say when it’s her getting backlash?

    • @itsjailyn
      @itsjailyn Год назад +79

      I noticed that.. “how many minutes of the podcast are we going to talk about this?” when she took up a 40 WHOLE MINUTES of the last one responding to her backlash. I didn’t like that.

    • @nataliecaldera3001
      @nataliecaldera3001 Год назад

      😅😅😅😅😂 funky asss

    • @nataliecaldera3001
      @nataliecaldera3001 Год назад +2

      Can we move on, this shit is 🚮

    • @_love_cats-889
      @_love_cats-889 Год назад +24

      Winter won’t let her talk because she’s happy she’s not the only one getting dragged

    • @Mariamaria-bb9mn
      @Mariamaria-bb9mn Год назад +4

      That's her friend and she knows how to deal with her she doesn't want her to stay stuck in that place of what the internet is sayin and it's getting to her obviously

  • @TheMindfulBeauty
    @TheMindfulBeauty Год назад +213

    When winter wants to get things off her chest abt the repetitive topic abt her race it’s fine but when chy wants to vent , winter thinks “ it’s not that deep” or “we already talked abt this 100x” or “don’t feed into negativity”. There is a obvious imbalance in each other needs

    • @Curlyhairbm
      @Curlyhairbm Год назад +5

      Right

    • @niymelanin
      @niymelanin Год назад

      Girl , this the exact shit they was addressing in the video! Stop trynna pick at their friendship! Stop trying to turn them against eachother, it’s just weird.. neither of them feels it’s imbalanced clearly so why are u taking a 42min clip and judging their entire friendship?

    • @laprinceaescovedo112
      @laprinceaescovedo112 Год назад +2

      Honestly

    • @1234550913
      @1234550913 Год назад +24

      I don't think that was what Winter was trying to do. Like she said in the beginning, she and Chy had already spoken about it. I interpreted her saying you don't have to address this again as her telling her friend like girl you don't have anything to prove to these people BECAUSE you as my friend have already apologized and let me know where you were coming from. She was just letting Chy know you don't have to sit in this place of "sorry". She's literally on her side.

    • @darrylreynolds9123
      @darrylreynolds9123 Год назад

      @@1234550913that’s exactly how I took it 💯

  • @lolaflower254
    @lolaflower254 Год назад +41

    I wanna see this podcast have longevity. I think for that to happen it would be nice to get a good balance between the 2 ladies. Every episode I feel winter takes over with her life m, opinions and experiences. Almost as if chy is the cohost or sidekick. Chy seems like she’s there to accommodate and backup winter. I would love to learn more about chy, her thoughts, life experiences. Will she ever have her own RUclips channel. I feel like so far we know a good amount about winter (but also no different than what is shown or told on social media) but chy we don’t know much about. It seems she has a strong family and friend dynamic and would love to learn more about her.

  • @RoxanneBouloute
    @RoxanneBouloute Год назад +103

    first off the world can't be mad if winter isn't mad. we love u too Chy. Don't let the opinions of these crazies get to you. The internet is filled with em girl. I love that winter just let her friend get that off her chest. y'all are solid

  • @Caramelskintone10
    @Caramelskintone10 Год назад +81

    Who thought Chy was being a bad friend? If anything, just watching as a viewer winter comes across as very domineering (not that it’s a bad thing) but as I watch both of their body languages, Chy goes out of her way to be accommodating to winter and very supportive. Chy does not need to apologize ❤️ I think they just had a misunderstanding as friends & the back lash is being blown out of proportion.

    • @noahbaby
      @noahbaby Год назад

      Girl yesss chy never said or did anything wrong winter just was being really dramatic and I feel like wanted attention. Winter just want it to be about her 24/7

  • @TunisiaNicole
    @TunisiaNicole Год назад +146

    10:36 now imagine roles were reversed last episode.. Winter trying to explain her points and Chy saying “girrrrrl how long you gon be hung up on this ?! how many minutes of the episode you wanna talk about this” .. when Winter asked Chy what she was doing on her phone and Chy saying “i’m just tryna see how many more minutes you’re gonna talk about this” lmaooo damn. you’d think she’d give her space to speak her piece the same way Chy gave her a whole ass episode to speak hers. but i digress.

  • @xyzangeel1276
    @xyzangeel1276 Год назад +44

    Yes Winter, you’re correct BUT if Chy wants to get this off her chest, when clearly she was affected by it then we should let her express her own thoughts. Like she gets your point but let HER express it for once & for all

  • @MrAndeecx16
    @MrAndeecx16 Год назад +71

    I think chy had a right to defend herself. She was being honest, and sincere something winter isn't. Winter should allow her to speak on her issues, and right them. Winter chooses to troll back, and not accept opinions, chy cares about how she looks. So, moving on... i loved the apology and love chy response to everything.

    • @aidenvega9416
      @aidenvega9416 Год назад +11

      you don't get to dictate what winter is and isnt. move on. she doesnt have to accept opinions. chy isnt any better or worse for "accepting" them.

    • @tansybrown951
      @tansybrown951 Год назад +5

      Right. Winter does troll back, as she should. But her implying in last week's episode that she was doxed for being biracial, instead of bc she was trolling trolls was so manipulative

    • @rosebud9372
      @rosebud9372 Год назад +1

      She was just trying to make Chy feel better. She didn’t want her to focus on it because she was trying to protect her.

    • @yvngjoint
      @yvngjoint Год назад +4

      @@rosebud9372that’s LITERALLY what Chy did and it was a problem. She tried to use humor to cheer winter up.

  • @ola3rd
    @ola3rd Год назад +12

    I think this podcast should be changed to "Winter Blanco and friends" and this is not even a shade, for example look at lala kent etc podcasters like that. Cuz if Chy is not allowed to speak her mind but Winter can spend an hour about her race and every episode is going to be just about Winter - then the expectations need to be clarified, and it will actually make more sense to listeners. And may even help to establish the boundaries between the 2 of them

  • @jpatrick3081
    @jpatrick3081 Год назад +26

    Shy is so afraid of getting cancelled and I get it but stop the apology tour. There are people on here that will never be satisfied. Pls don’t let this deflect from your realness and the realness of the podcast.

  • @chanc7276
    @chanc7276 Год назад +80

    So winter can get on the internet and defend herself over and over again about the same situation… now Chy wants to defend herself about something and she’s like “we know who we aree🥴” & “you can’t prove to this people” girl please be foreal. I love this podcast but this is just madness! 😂

    • @Liv5five
      @Liv5five Год назад +3

      Cringe

    • @Sahmaa
      @Sahmaa Год назад +2

      Y’all gon find a problem w anything 🙄🥱 tomato

  • @jayeno9226
    @jayeno9226 Год назад +52

    I LOVE chy’s personality. She’s friendly but like she said I wish she would stop focusing on the hate and just do her. I support!

  • @quayyyyy95
    @quayyyyy95 Год назад +19

    I don’t like how dismissive Wintrr was to Chy on this episode. Last wk she used the ENTIRE episode to express her feelings and I thought Chy was actually really sympathetic and trying to relate to her. I’m confused why she got backlash! This is Chy’s platform as well and should have been able to use the ENTIRE episode to address her issues as well.

  • @LifeWithNicolatv
    @LifeWithNicolatv Год назад +117

    If youve had to get an abortion as a result of a rape or if you had to get one because the relationship was really bad even though you wanted to be a mom….youre allowed to be sad…for however long you want

    • @e.c.1975
      @e.c.1975 Год назад +12

      Facts. Not everyone is going to react the same way. Even if they made that decision it may have not been what they wanted to do, but had no choice so it can be traumatizing to some. We can’t expect everyone to suck it up and get over it because other people did.

    • @LifeWithNicolatv
      @LifeWithNicolatv Год назад +1

      @@e.c.1975 not to mention some women are forced into abortions

    • @katybieber52629
      @katybieber52629 Год назад +15

      i don’t think she is talking about those that got raped or bc of a bad relationship. clearly that’s something different

    • @so.peachyking
      @so.peachyking Год назад +8

      @katybieber52629 right… she obviously meant something else. This is where the backlash comes from bc people take their words out of context 🙄

    • @venuswrld
      @venuswrld Год назад +6

      @@so.peachykingit’s her delivery tho. it comes off very dismissive 🙄

  • @yem950
    @yem950 Год назад +7

    Secondly, the abortion comments was lame as hell. I personally never had one but I’m not someone that takes the topic lightly because it’s simply not a light topic no matter how much y’all delude y’all selves to think so to make you feel better about your sheer lack of responsibility of your bodies. At the end of the day it’s a living organism in there duh it’s not fully developed it would be if you let it cook DUH Lmfao some women are deeply and spiritually aware of this fact so they are emotional about the decision which is absolutely valid. The only reason why people like winter aren’t is because she has to view it from a detached lense in which it’s simply “a clump of cells”. At the end of the day it was a baby that was preparing to form into a being… just like all of us did. I’m not even anti abortion but y’all handle the topic so crass and insensitively she really did the most. There’s many reasons why one gets an abortion and it can be quite traumatic. Winter you are losing me here… not that you care anyways Lmfao

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад

      Yet throughout your entire response you’re laughing hysterically?!? Lmfao. I’m not laughing. This is serious. Lmfao. 🙄 pluck off 👌🏽

    • @yem950
      @yem950 Год назад +5

      @@Queen_Ce you’re very slow so slow you had to try and use two moments I said “lmfao” to deflect from a thorough and straight forward point I made. I said Lmfao to the fact that people think a “clump of cells” aren’t alive ENOUGH that is funny to me cause it’s dumb. And I said “lmfao” for the SECOND and last time cause I’m sure they don’t care cause winter quite literally said she don’t give a fuck which makes me laugh cause ignorance to that level is quite laughable. Me laughing throughout is a reach and you’re clearly bored LMFAO

  • @anyyyyyyyyyyyy
    @anyyyyyyyyyyyy Год назад +7

    People expect Black women to support every group of people & their "hardship's". Meanwhile Black Women are the least supported group and the most disrespected. Who is defending & supporting BW during these discussions? Ironically Chy was trying to express her feelings during this podcast but got dismissed. But I guess because she's Black that's normalized and expected right? It is NOT Chy's job to support Winter's biracial fight. She has bigger fish to fry simply being a Black Woman. It's crazy seeing all these groups of people including her own chastise her for not speaking up for a fight that is not hers. Where are these same people when Black Women are crying out? Chy was NOT dismissive, She was respectful and heard her friend out. Biracial people are NOT oppressed. They do not miss out on opportunities for being biracial. Infact they benefit for being biracial. Winter has every right to express her frustration's and Chy has every right to CHOOSE to sit back and listen. What did y'all want Chy to say/do?

  • @brazyspice
    @brazyspice Год назад +5

    i like both of y’all but this felt like “winters over it so everyone move on”…..like okkkk but shy’s not over it, it affected her let her express herself. what if she she did the same last week like “girrrl we been talking about this since 2015 let’s move on” but she didn’t

  • @HaiValPal
    @HaiValPal Год назад +14

    I do think Chy should be allowed to express herself. There is a line between dwelling on the topic and expressing your sentiments in full. The situation is still fresh relatively. Winter, let Chy get her emotions out. You did take the previous episode to talk about your experience in full. And I know you're no stranger to backlash but Chy is new. Let her navigate this and be her support as a friend. Love the podcast!

  • @rondazug9967
    @rondazug9967 Год назад +58

    I love you both ❤️ I wait for this podcast every Wednesday. And winter I’m sorry about last episode, people literally hide behind their phone screens and say whatever and those same ppl would ask for a picture with you if they saw you in real time 😂 stay focused! I promise 99% of us LOVE you. The others don’t matter and that goes for chy too, every friendship goes thru ups and downs and sometimes ppl don’t know how to react or get nervous esp infront of a camera. I know you were looking for more support. I’m glad you guys are still good. Can’t wait to finish this epi 💕💕

  • @gabbyperez9012
    @gabbyperez9012 Год назад +8

    How is it both of there podcast but on winters channel? Why didn’t she make a new channel for the podcast. More like HER podcast

    • @gabbyp9384
      @gabbyp9384 Год назад

      Someone else mentioned this and you already know Ms Winnie replied lol

  • @jenney923
    @jenney923 Год назад +5

    Abortion jokes ? Wth? Not okay..
    And the bad thing about that is that your body gets prepared to breast feed and when you make jokes that's how you get ovarian cancer or breast cancer,you won't be laughing then, at least be humble about it,anyways,wish you both the best🙏

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад +1

      Wait? Huh? 🧐🤔 how does one get a particular cancer again?

    • @jenney923
      @jenney923 Год назад

      @Queen_Ce breast cancer from your body gets ready to breast feed and the milk left there turns to bacteria when not used,..

  • @ericabattiest5561
    @ericabattiest5561 Год назад +21

    I’m still dying at the “let’s just say I have a few guardian angels” 😂😂😂 I love y’all ! ❤

  • @mz.infinity
    @mz.infinity Год назад +7

    Tbh y’all not putting yourself in the other people shoes. Y’all don’t know if Brittany already showed to the podcast drunk or not . Plus she is a grown woman that should know her limit . She was disrespectful going on someone podcast and throwing water on there equipment that she didn’t pay for ! Really imagine if she came on your podcast and ruined your stuff . Like I get you pro women I am too but I am woman enough to know when another woman is being out of pocket ! And as women we can not condone behavior like that and make that acceptable because it wasn’t !

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 Год назад +2

      Thank you! Her behavior was despicable regardless of gender.

    • @mz.infinity
      @mz.infinity Год назад +3

      Exactly! Clock that tea 🤏🏾🤏🏾! And that’s why I don’t understand why Winter and Chi thinks that is okay behavior. And they over 30 . Make it make sense. Y’all have a platform so what are you adding too the destruction or the elevation of the people that’s following y’all !

    • @yem950
      @yem950 Год назад

      @@mz.infinityagreed I was surprised by their take of wanting to hang with her??? Chilee they are losing me a little

  • @tatiamantiad
    @tatiamantiad Год назад +47

    I literally wait for these every week. I love hearing you guys talk and debacle 😂 its so comforting hearing two genuine friends conversate ❤

  • @Its_kkryss
    @Its_kkryss Год назад +8

    Everyone’s abortion story is different so if ppl mourn let them…

    • @yem950
      @yem950 Год назад +3

      Exactly I really hated that segment

    • @x.lamaschingonaa_
      @x.lamaschingonaa_ Год назад +1

      I'm pro-life and I can't stand the fact that we get this reputation that we condemn and look down upon women who had abortions and that's not true at all!! Abortions come with trauma and it breaks my heart to see women suffering through it. Especially rape victims. I just pray to God that they will overcome that obstacle and never have to face it again. We're all not perfect at the end of the day. Mourning for the loss of your child is absolutely ok regardless of the circumstances!! Even though I don't agree with abortions women are going to do what they want to do regardless and I just encourage women to take care of themselves if they're going to have casual sex on the regular so they won't have to get pregnant in the first place 💯 it's all peace and love from the pro-life's perspective 🫶🏼

  • @lyssac889
    @lyssac889 Год назад +27

    Friends can have moments exactly ! Misunderstanding each other is gonna happen for longevity in a friendship

  • @chellebelle210
    @chellebelle210 Год назад +20

    Brittany Renner is one of the women I hope you have on the pod

  • @jahzriagrant
    @jahzriagrant Год назад +24

    They abortion joke was funny asf 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love them

    • @KYoung-hb9od
      @KYoung-hb9od Год назад +1

      the “mommy mommy mommy” lmao

  • @Tasneem_ino
    @Tasneem_ino 6 месяцев назад +6

    I love their dark humorrrr 😂💀😭😭 “let’s just say I got a few guardian angels”

  • @b.soulei888
    @b.soulei888 Год назад +4

    Talking bout “baby’s first backlash” she like that ol girl was being trolled lol then fake throws in that it did make her sad. It didn’t. She liked it

  • @Itsingridaguilar
    @Itsingridaguilar Год назад +4

    This podcast got negative and all about winter.. Peace out lol STOP putting so much energy to people who YOU dont even know. Talk about REAL topics LMAO Im out

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад +1

      Please don’t come back. You won’t be missed. Bye! 👋🏽

    • @Itsingridaguilar
      @Itsingridaguilar Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂@@Queen_Ce

  • @amaniann8233
    @amaniann8233 Год назад +7

    This friendship is over and I know I'm not the only one who sees it. The shade Chy gave Winter last episode was obvious blatant disregard. Chy can apologize all she wants but deep down Winter knows the truth. Not saying I'm siding with Winter either.... but now you two are almost uncomfortable to watch. Even the episode before last episode..something was off. This episode Winter was lowkey disregarding Chy too. I can't be the only one who sees that Winter is just trying to be a business professional at this point and push these podcasts out. Lol... Winter is over this podcast and possibly over Chy.

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад +1

      Ms. Cleo, is that you, girl?!?
      😂😂😂😂 Do you see yourself “uncomfortably” watching the next episode? 🔮🪄👀😂😂😂🙄

    • @tinatheplanet9769
      @tinatheplanet9769 Год назад +2

      lmaooo you’re definitely dragging it

  • @lovetoday..
    @lovetoday.. Год назад +34

    Are you ever going to make a “Behind the likes podcast” RUclips page? I understand Winter has a huge following on this page but I feel like that would make Chy feel like it’s both of their equal platform. Just a suggestion. Love you ladies

    • @WinterBlanco
      @WinterBlanco  Год назад +4

      Y’all literally don’t know what you are talking about, especially from a financial standpoint. Please drop this subject.

    • @cherryontop.
      @cherryontop. Год назад +10

      right, chy said this is winters platform instead of both of theirs build from the ground up w eachother on a new yt page

    • @lovetoday..
      @lovetoday.. Год назад +5

      I totally get it from a financial standpoint! I just thought it would be a good idea to make one and build the followers up and start posting over there eventually, not necessarily right away but whatever works for both of you and you’re both happy with it that’s all that matters.
      This was sent with love. My fav podcast for sure

    • @ChyFontenette
      @ChyFontenette Год назад +4

      Being here makes the most sense. 🤍

    • @lovetoday..
      @lovetoday.. Год назад +2

      @@ChyFontenette as long as it makes sense for the both of you then I’m here for it! Thanks for being sweet 💞

  • @alyaklove
    @alyaklove Год назад +5

    Yikes... that abortion comment was brutal 😬

  • @bluwodz
    @bluwodz Год назад +5

    Not every abortion is about regretting who got you pregnant or even rape. People have medical reasons why they can’t carry a baby. Like you be having me and then lose me completely all in one sentence. Smh.

  • @ShaNayNayZontPlayPlay
    @ShaNayNayZontPlayPlay Год назад +4

    WINTRR CRAKA IS SO DELUSIONAL & CONTRADICTIVE. She dont even realize how she constantly is contradicting herself AND dismissing Chy

  • @malialei6759
    @malialei6759 Год назад +4

    I can’t see the podcast lasting. The way winter didn’t let you be able to defend yourself was annoying. But I can see winters mindset she knows ur a great friend with good intentions. Still should have let you make all your points anyways!

  • @CedesJ-
    @CedesJ- Год назад +8

    I'm 31 with no kids as well... I get asked the "kid question" all the time. I do want kids soon, but at this point I'm focused me and having a healthy relationship with myself. I spent all of my 20s in and out of a toxic situation. I would have been so much worse off if would have had kids while going through all the mental, emotional and physical abuse I went through in my last relationship. Now that I'm healing from all of that and at peace with my life, I'm focused on being physically, emotionally and mentally healthy so that my next relationship will be everything I need and most of what I want lol... And he will be somebody worth starting a family with.

  • @lynnb.3161
    @lynnb.3161 Год назад +5

    I’m trying my hardest to stay with this podcast but it’s getting more and more underwhelming. I love winter and I’ve started to love Chy and they have SOOO MUCH POTENTIAL but this content is so whack. Like come on, y’all gots to step it up. It’s giving “pretty privilege/entitlement” yeah y’all cute to look at but that’s about it. Step the intellectual part UP please. And Lord knows I’m speaking from a die hard supporter’s POV. I don’t want to detach from this podcast but something gone have to give. The last time I was genuinely intrigued was the episode when they talked about their sex lives. It was raunchy, it was borderline risqué, it was RAW but that was sadly the last good episode. (IN MY OPINION) Maybe podcasting isn’t for everyone…idk 😢🤔

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад +1

      Was the raunchy sexual episode the summit of your intellectual capacity? Bill Nye the science guy has a podcast. Feel free to be stimulated with his intelligence smarty pants 🤗

    • @katherineknight5899
      @katherineknight5899 Год назад

      @@Queen_Cedamn girl u working overtime commenting under everybody comment lol relax boo

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад

      @@katherineknight5899 Relax?! No ma’am! I’m not able to that! These trolls deserved to be trolled. No validation needed.

  • @erniemac19
    @erniemac19 Год назад +15

    We ❤ you Chy! The smart people know that wasn’t your intent!

  • @Ray-ji7rb
    @Ray-ji7rb Год назад +13

    Chy is so right!! Literally just pressed play “we give the negative comments too much energy” that is exactly right. And people who leave negative comments love and feed off of your reactions to them. Don’t give them that power

  • @daisystewart1
    @daisystewart1 Год назад +5

    To be 30 still thinking “A man can’t keep you.” Lmao sad. You can’t keep a man period

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад +1

      😂😂😂 I bet you’re emotionally struggling in your relationship. It screams HATER comment.

    • @QueenL0011
      @QueenL0011 Год назад +1

      no accountability for her actions. it is sad

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад

      @@QueenL0011 On a metric scale of 100 how sad is it to you? Let’s REALLY get into the psychology behind your sentiment.

  • @XoSosa540
    @XoSosa540 Год назад +4

    Hey just a question why did you not make a channel just for the pod cast will it be coming soon

    • @Ilmsyou
      @Ilmsyou Год назад

      Probably because this page already has tons of subscribers & that way they don’t have to wait to get monetized 💵

    • @HighlyFavoredHousewife
      @HighlyFavoredHousewife Год назад

      So winter can continue to monetize even when Chy and her stop being friends

  • @preylinlewis198
    @preylinlewis198 Год назад +5

    I feel like chy had a lot more to say n should’ve been able to

    • @WinterBlanco
      @WinterBlanco  Год назад +3

      We talk off cameras we don’t owe y’all nothing fr so be thankful for what we do share. Y’all pick a new villain every week🤣

    • @_love_cats-889
      @_love_cats-889 Год назад +5

      She wanted to share with the audience though..

    • @Queen_Ce
      @Queen_Ce Год назад +1

      @@leciamone6765 No, you stfu. You’re demanding she takes constructive criticism as you ATTEMPT to bully her into silence because of how she chose to respond to her viewer. I am convinced you have air pockets in your brain 🤯😂

  • @sashalewis3222
    @sashalewis3222 Год назад +7

    It's bothersome that Wintr is challenged by Chy wanting to speak her peace. An amend is about the individual (self) clearing his/her side of the street, owning their part, and clearing their spiritual channels. Let her talk; you're invalidating her experience by stopping her and telling her how she should feel.
    What's the point of having her on if she can't authentically share her POV.
    Lastly, I don't think Wintr was really crying. I think Chy's POV in that moment was her being her authentic self. Have this discourse feel those feelings and keep it moving.
    I took a chance on this because I thought Chy would dilute Wintr's ego. Nope. Wintr dismissing, minimizing and diminishing Chy-Same old shit.

    • @gabbyp9384
      @gabbyp9384 Год назад +1

      Agreed ! Also keep in mind Winter is borderline . A lot of her reactive behavior and responses plays a big part in her personality.

    • @sashalewis3222
      @sashalewis3222 Год назад

      @@gabbyp9384 I forgot she's BPD.

  • @ggvlogs7777
    @ggvlogs7777 Год назад +10

    You guys are SO SISTERS I love how passionate and how hard y'all go for one another! last episode Chy was like Winter "you don't need to explain nunin and winter was like no this important to me" Now winter telling Chy "you don't need to explain all them points to them" and Chy like they finna hear me! Y'all are young, fresh, and this podcast is something new it almost feels like you hangout with some cool ass homegirls or you wish these were my big sisters! stay true to you I love seeing y'all just be you and we still come back

  • @CedesJ-
    @CedesJ- Год назад +6

    I understood where Chy was coming from wanting to defend her reputation, especially with her being new to this. She gave winter her moment and she just wanted her moment to address the backlash. But I think winter was basically trying to spare her from the emotional rollercoaster of being on a big social media platform. Winter being somebody who's been doing this for a long time was basically trying to give her the game and let her know there's no reason to keep explaining yourself and addressing every little thing because no matter what you say there's always going to be that percentage of the audience who just came to troll and pick people apart. Like winter said the real supporters and people who are tuning in with an open mind to really hear what they have to say, they know Chy meant no harm. So after the first couple of statements, it time to move on from the negativity because the more you try to defend your character the more you're going to fuel the negativity and the haters. And social media can take you to a dark place mentally and emotionally, if you allow it to. So focus on the positivity and genuine love and support. It's cool to make statement to address backlash but don't give it too much energy because it's a no win situation. I think Winter used the entire video to address the race issue because it has been going on for so many years and she never really went into detail like she did on the podcast.

    • @thodges326
      @thodges326 11 месяцев назад +1

      this !!! this should be pinned

  • @artinamalone6498
    @artinamalone6498 Год назад +6

    Now they are mad at winter. Just continue to be y’all selves. I love the pod proud of the accountability.

  • @b.soulei888
    @b.soulei888 Год назад +3

    Winters a troll

  • @ugleestepsistr
    @ugleestepsistr Год назад +13

    im not biracial so maybe thats why i think this but i feel like winter was doing too much and chy did nothing wrong 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @DisrespectfullyClassieMarcEBla
    @DisrespectfullyClassieMarcEBla Год назад +4

    So it’s their responsibility to make sure Brittney acts right on the show. She was unprofessional being drunk on film…. Accountability ladies

    • @thodges326
      @thodges326 11 месяцев назад +1

      mmm no the responsibility was always hers she shouldn’t have been that drunk but they should’ve had the common decency to not expose those clips of her you know what i mean ?

  • @MamaKat_4
    @MamaKat_4 Год назад +5

    As a 31 y/o mom live yall lifeeeeee. Dont rush kids

  • @inactiveuser8290
    @inactiveuser8290 Год назад +2

    She explained too much, she doesn’t realize the backlash is from a small minority of people. I’m sure it hurts but don’t give it light

  • @Korinnegill
    @Korinnegill Год назад +7

    It’s good to see y’all didn’t let a misunderstanding shake y’all. Good luck on yalls podcast 🥰

  • @emmendez28
    @emmendez28 Год назад +5

    It’s the lisp for me with those veneers lol

    • @Ilmsyou
      @Ilmsyou Год назад +2

      She has a retainer in, it’s not her veneers

  • @jxcl-8401
    @jxcl-8401 Год назад +3

    i feel like it’s about time y’all stop addressing every single minor negative comment,it’s no winning with these crazies so just ignore it and focus on growing

  • @pamelatheceo
    @pamelatheceo Год назад +2

    yall are funny asffffff😂😂😂 im crying at the abortion & angry mom
    part lmaoo

  • @anissadelarosa5203
    @anissadelarosa5203 Год назад +3

    Chy is so pretty the vibe I’m here

  • @iceyiana
    @iceyiana Год назад +3

    They love picking women apart and trying to turn people against eachother

  • @Toematetoe95
    @Toematetoe95 Год назад +6

    No one will ever make me feel bad for not having kids right now

    • @jazminecolee
      @jazminecolee Год назад

      Especially in todays society … I’m chillin

  • @antailiapearl4148
    @antailiapearl4148 Год назад +2

    I don’t think she’s bad friend but she definitely don’t look at you as black as her

  • @melymelroses2231
    @melymelroses2231 Год назад +4

    The way Chy says “tweeter” gets me every time🤣

  • @Memory8779
    @Memory8779 Год назад +1

    Life begins at time of conception not a clump of cells.. if it makes you feel better girl..but you know damn well ,heart beat is at 25 days from conception ..look at the videos of an actual abortion 👼👼👼👼That's between you and God ladies just saying aint no one here not a sinner 🤷‍♀️tho....

  • @kenyatteeeee
    @kenyatteeeee Год назад +8

    Chy be letting winter address her whole life for a whole episode and she won’t give chy 15 mins 😭 Gahdamn

  • @Dayydreamerr2
    @Dayydreamerr2 Год назад +3

    You didn’t want her to go through that but you literally caused it 😂😂😂😂😂 and posted it 😂😂😂😂

  • @jazmyn6228
    @jazmyn6228 Год назад +2

    Last episode went fine frfr… I laughed and said “lls she annoying af.” When Chy made here side comments. Not really sure shy Winter kept trying to oush chy to say something on the subject when she said I didn’t experience that so I can’t really speak on that. Knowing thats her friend and normally how she acts off camera. Kinda feel that Winter was in her feels a little and kinda exploded on her but she could have stopped Chy and been like No, stop, not with the games right now, serious topic lets be serious rn

  • @juliacabral7969
    @juliacabral7969 Год назад +2

    I have 2 kids I’m 25 y’all not missing shit time will come enjoy being selfish you’ll never get the years back lmao i love my kids but fuck i miss being young and turnt 😭🤣

  • @MelissaAlvarado-k1e
    @MelissaAlvarado-k1e Год назад +3

    Some women didn’t want to abort but had to do it ..

  • @aAngel93
    @aAngel93 Год назад +2

    You both are smart for not moving fast to get married or have kids it's SMART lol trust me I'm clapping for y'all moving at your own pace live your life and when your ready you'll be ready it's not the end of the world lol if your not wifed up and preggers tomorrow lol

  • @nathanaelsoria
    @nathanaelsoria Год назад +2

    Shy is always talking bout some gay im crying 😂

  • @TheBestJess_
    @TheBestJess_ 11 месяцев назад +1

    I ain’t gonna lie the “joking” about the abortions really made me feel uncomfortable and sad. Society is really out here celebrating abortions? What a shame! I definitely think we as women should do better. This ain’t coo AT ALL. God bless y’all.

  • @Ilmsyou
    @Ilmsyou Год назад +3

    Lmaoo y’all are funny af. I am laughing out loud about the abortion stuff because I can relate

  • @lalaa8653
    @lalaa8653 Год назад +8

    2 queens thanks for being real

  • @calledoutones0318
    @calledoutones0318 Год назад +2

    The clump of cells almost made me vomit 🤢! But I’m praying for Y’all😂😂😂

  • @princessdianaox
    @princessdianaox Год назад +4

    LOVE and appreciate the candid conversation you guys had about abortions. There is sooo much shame attached to it. I love abortion jokes lmao it’s a healthy coping mechanism

    • @yem950
      @yem950 Год назад

      She doesn’t see it as a coping mechanism she just actually doesn’t care. It’s a coping mechanism for y’all who actually deep down feel shame about it lol

  • @carleedevries1645
    @carleedevries1645 Год назад +4

    I’m Chy in all my friendships tbh she be having me so weak bc I know she means well but the silly goofy in her just wanna take the wheels!!

  • @ashleebilyeu695
    @ashleebilyeu695 Год назад +2

    Love that y’all are girls girls!!! Instead of Talkin bad about Brittney yall had her back that’s solid

  • @miapiaaa6910
    @miapiaaa6910 Год назад +3

    I’m sorry but the black queen comment took me out like the timing and delivery was a 10/10 😂😂 she funny asf

  • @TiarraJoi7
    @TiarraJoi7 Год назад +12

    I’ve been watching y’all for years and I have never been offended 😂😂 I know yalls heart bc I actually listen and watch yalls stuff to know your personality. Like winter said, we are grown, mistakes will be made but it’s all in how much care you put into recovery!

  • @thefoodmagiciann
    @thefoodmagiciann Год назад +3

    Chy is an aquarius a lot of them get uncomfortable when people express emotions its not that they dont care and they know each other, yall are just judging from the outside

    • @chellebelle210
      @chellebelle210 Год назад +1

      Agreed. If someone starts crying I’m like there there pats on shoulder…. I don’t know what to do when people cry !

    • @thefoodmagiciann
      @thefoodmagiciann Год назад

      @@chellebelle210 exactly, not everyone knows how to navigate emotions but that doesn’t mean they don’t care

  • @sj8175
    @sj8175 Год назад +3

    Having a platform with such a wide audience amplifies the opinions of many. It's hard to make mistakes in front of so many people. Keep it moving and keep testing boundaries. You can't make everyone happy and as long as you two are good that's what's important.

  • @VEDITS121
    @VEDITS121 Год назад +6

    Y’all continue to make me smile! ❤

  • @e.c.1975
    @e.c.1975 Год назад +3

    I’m glad she took accountability and apologized. I don’t think we should keep throwing things like this in ppls face if they have learned from their mistakes and progressed from it. Love this podcast. Keep it up ladies 🤍 -Aunty
    PS: The woman asking about leaving the relationship needs to run for the hills because if the roles were reversed he would’ve left her. Men always are quick to talk down about dating a baby mama and being a step dad. So let’s keep the same energy and not carry their baggage. Good luck sis!

  • @_keepingupwithshi
    @_keepingupwithshi Год назад +2

    Shai didn’t say anything wrong, she has absolutely nothing to be sorry about. She shared what she had to share and that’s it.

  • @karahcakes9146
    @karahcakes9146 Год назад +2

    Aquarius just have different emotions than others. She's not cold it's probably just something they've discussed a lot.