Couples Therapy With Dr. Drew - Frenemies #7
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y’all remember on certain David Dobrik vlog where Jason was wearing one of Trisha’s outfits? (I think it was a cheerleader one) and she said that she started crying because it fit him the same way it fit her and Jason and David just started laughing at her which I think resulted in her crying more, well she pretty much said the same thing in the beginning of this episode about the dress Ethan is wearing and instead of him just laughing he told her it fit him more like a shirt than a dress to make her feel better. See this is why she needs to except Ethan and Hila as good friends. Because I know she’d say the same dumb stuff for them too.
omg that's such shit, do you know what video it was??
I love this little connection you just made here, it actually pinpoints specific instances that make a friend "toxic." Now that's not to say they are toxic friends, but the chemistry and level of understanding is what separates a good friend from a "toxic" friend. Some friends can take the giggles and unintentional, or intentional, hazing; while some people would prefer or need friends who are more mindful of their feelings and values. Yanno?
@@musikluv6 idk I think she was pretty on point.
I feel like David and Jason used her as an accessory and this podcast actually goes into what she's going through. She loves being in the spotlight and doing outlandish things but I think this format is good for her???
@@musikluv6 lobbpnpnpno pn m m no p me nbbn
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Trisha saying Ethan and her are like best friends and feel connected but he still irritates her ........that’s called being siblings 💀
I think they are close to renaming the podcast then.
I think she was saying he is like her best friend, as in he is like Shane Dawson
@@igkgigoh Sibling Rivalry is already taken though lol.
@@katwebbxo lol doug walker
Or frenemies
The more ridiculous they look, the deeper the conversations get.
You’re not wrong
I'll miss those costumes
They should definitely have Dr. Drew back, and both wear Dr. Drew costumes
Lmfaoooo fr
Watch them have a Christmas episode and come in dressed like a steamed ham and a fully decorated tree and then have a philosophical talk about the materialistic nature of Black Friday.
I feel like Dr. Drew was so dismissive of Ethan's feelings in this video. It's like he wouldn't allow Ethan to express his feelings to say how Trisha hurt him but rather would just cut him off mid-sentence and make an excuse for Trisha's actions. Meanwhile, Trisha got 5 minutes uninterrupted each time to flip Ethan's pov of the issue with full support from Dr. Drew. Just sucked not being able to hear Ethan's side of the story
Well yeah because she’s the one who needs help. It’s a tactic so she feels comfortable talking to him. Really common especially with Therapists.
Trisha was allowed to act a fool towards Ethan but if he does ANYTHING... lord
@@DeeAnn97 yeah I know exactly she’s crazy that’s why Dr.Drew is treating her like taped together glass she’s about to break any second 24/7. Ethan never truly understood it but they needed to keep the show interesting so I understand that’s a hard rope to walk. Also he has a big ego Ethan that’s why he couldn’t take Dr.Drews jokes cause just like Trisha thought she was getting picked on he was doing it to him, there’s a podcast where Dr. Drew discusses the whole thing it’s really interesting because he got it down to a T the first 15 minutes of the podcast. I saw everybody saying how he’s ignoring Ethan‘s feelings it’s so wrong and they don’t understand he’s trying to understand Trisha while listening to what the problem is which is Ethan is bullying her but in reality Ethan is just joking, they both are two people with major egos who can’t handle massive criticism.
@@CrityCrit he isn’t a licensed therapist and that practice is stupid. If you’re seeing two people in a paired therapy and you dismiss one you need your license revoked.
@@breeannaedwards801 What do you think Addiction therapy is? He’s extremely qualified more than any normal therapist you would see through regular insurance. He knows what he’s doing and when you see a therapist worth there salt they cut through the bullshit unless you painfully sensitive which is what he’s know for. I do not like Trisha but she’s so fragile and clearly also an addict, Ethan is a stable person not saying he has no issues but he can handle it have you seen one episode of the show lmaooo. Drew knows what he’s doing and people seem to forget it worked it took 6 episodes for a crash and Ethan followed his advice and it worked for almost 30 episodes. Like Drew said there needs to be clear boundaries and it’s what destroyed the show and money.
This episode was much needed. Whoever decided to get a relationship therapist involved, is a genius!
Agree!!
I mentioned it a few times
It was awesome! People hating on Dr. Drew who don’t know about shit but that’s fine. Great episode.
@@kalishiva18 like they saw ur comments
@@squanch4458 im a big fan of Dr drew... watching his show so often I know he is wrong in his perceptions of people a lot of the time
I have mad respect for Ethan being willing to stand down and admit where he was wrong instead of just doubling down on his original statements. 10/10 anime character development
I'm at 45 minutes in and he has doubled down on EVERYTHING he's never wrong. It's always Trisha's fault. Are we watching the same video?
Unknownprofilegames literallyyyy!!!! he always finds a way to put it back on trisha like he can’t formally apologize or admit it
@@Unknownprofilegames what are you talking about ???? at 45 when he says what he says about her the context is literly him saying "people see you as these bad things but you're clearly NOT those things" .__.
@@Unknownprofilegames At first he started being like that with admitting error but blaming the reason he messed up being something Trish did as a means of blame shifting. Later on after Trish started crying and Ethan wanted to hug her, he was more open to understand Trish more, as was I. He took accountability and apologized to Trish and it made her smile. You have the wrong takeaway if you think it was doubling down the entire time.
Early on in this episode I felt like he wasn't but later, he definitely did
Dr. Drew clearly had a bias here. He barely even let Ethan speak, and when he did, Dr. Drew pretty much either shot it down or interrupted him. I get that Trisha obviously has way more issues to work with, but still. It's a mediation, not Trisha's personal therapy session!
I think that men usually get babied and women get demonized. Dr drew ensured he wasn’t doing that, and the perception is that Ethan and Trish weren’t being treated equally
I'm an Ethan fan, but I think Dr. Drew did a pretty good job here. He had a very human approach. Like he didn't focus too much on jokes, even saying "I'm with Ethan here, it is a funny joke," and got Trisha back to focus several times.
I totally agree. I’m glad someone noticed this too instead of praising him
He's not a therapist moron
I think his bias is more him attempting to have Ethan understand that trisha has serious mental illness that he needs to be mindful of. I think trishas mental illness was the root of the issue, and it was kinds prefaced with "trisha has this issue and we need to solve it"
I called it, family therapy
How 😂😂😂
@@jenmflores on the episode where she walked out I commented something to the effect of, "next they will be going to family therapy"
How did you do that
@@crystal1088 the paid membership comes with those emojis and more
awesome 👍😂
This episode is gold. So glad I got to see this side of Trisha and the tone of this episode was relatively serious.
@Julie
Agreed!! 💯%!!!
100 percent
Yes! :)
Ethan’s eye rolls and eyebrow twitches with makeup is iconic
It’s his Tourettes! Still looking fabulous
ethan is literally doris the stepsister from shrek
Hahahahahahahaha!
I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT
YES!
HAHAAHAHAHHAH
BRO
This whole video was a trip. They are dressed as each other and really taking Dr. Drew seriously. Trisha crying and everyone apologizing. So rare.
Jovanna Figueroa , time stamp on when Trisha apologized, please.
@@user-oi3di7wi2h watch the flipping video! Why are you here if you won’t watch it??
@@user-oi3di7wi2h 1:06:30
@@user-oi3di7wi2h also 1:07:35 when she actually said sorry
bad b , TY for the time stamp. What makes me sad is even after all that Ethan had to practically pull the words out if her mouth and she made a video saying she F’d up... the worst of her comments were about Hila and their child and about not caring if Moses broke up with her... I completely understand why Ethan is concerned about his BIL... Just remember Dr. Drew said she will continue to say bad things too... she has serious issues, this is not CUTE stuff, and punching someone is horrendous and it needed to be talked about more... after her ‘I f**ked up’ video she should of quickly said I’m sorry. I guarantee you NOTHING about Trisha will change!
Ethan dressed as a woman makes everything he says sound even more sassy and condescending for some reason, I think it’s the hair flipping
I completely agree 😂 it comes off so much more condescending, and it's weird to realize the only difference is that he's feminine...
lol i think you guys (if you’re women) might have some self-hatred/internalized misogyny i didnt think he was being condescending at all
That’s our societal biases kicking in that we have against women, when I woman says it it’s sassy and rude but when I guy says it you don’t think twice of it.
54:11 i was wheezing at that part. Its literally ethan glitching out it was so hilarious
@@juli7747 exactly what I was thinking lol, well said
What a wholesome, healing episode. I feel like this was really good for Trisha and Ethan. Trisha can finally discuss herself without people criticizing her and cancelling her. And Ethan can finally understand Trisha and why she does what she does. I feel like the whole point of this show was so people can see Trish in a better, more real light and the potential that Ethan sees in Trish. Good episode. It also is good to talk about mental health and normalize talking about it cause especially now, people need to know that message.
man dude pass that shit over here brother
This is singlehandedly the greatest podcast ever
i love it so much1!!!!
For real!
I've said this exact thing 5 times already and I'm only 25 minuets in
Absofuckinlutely
The symbolism of the pair taking on one another's identities as they empathise with each other this episode is powerful.
Well said
I would be interested to know if it was subliminal coincidence or intentional.
You sound like my English teacher
It's so true!
Literally stole the words out of my mouth - well said
Putting themselves in each others shoes while being dressed as each other is truly iconic and symbolic
yEsss
My heart🥺
So was doing surprisingly well at trivia while dressed as Elle Woods. Costumes have been on point.
!!!!!!
This says a lot about society
Why has no one mentioned how Ethan looks exactly like the bar woman in shrek
omg yes.
Doris 💀
I’m dead
Thanks for the laugh!! 😂
Hahahahhahahaha I’m weak
Imagine showing this podcast to a Victorian child
LMAO
It might be rough for a Victorian child but throughout history, men have worn tons of makeup, dresses, wigs, etc.
@@emilywestheimer7409it’s not even about the dressing up
This comment is oddly specific
😂😂😂😂
*Ethan looks like one of the rejected mob wives from Goodfellas*
Lmao
What a specific and completely accurate memory that you just triggered 😂
Lmaoo
😂😂😂
amazing comment
Ethan looks like Ariana Grande in a different universe
@Harkeen15 AAAAH OMFG YES
Ariana if she went on drugs after victorious
@Harkeen15 jababahahaha dead
@@shorkelili lmao but if she was on drugs she'd be even skinnier
Ariana wrongay
Who’s here 2024 😢
I never knew Ethan before Trisha and I only know Trisha from nikacado😂 I'm trash brain
Ethan: *hairflip* “ so you pegged him?”
Time stamp?
hahaha
@@deviantmoore9744 25:56
Iconic that you caught this as well
😂😂
Ethan giving me Peter Griffin-in-drag vibes.
LMFAOOOOO TRUE
omg he is.
So true
OH MY GOD! I`M DEAD
there’s four people on hold but i can taaaaalk
The fact that Ethan was constantly trying to explain himself and the therapist just kept interrupting him made me sooo upset
Clarification, this dude is not licensed. He only works with celebrities in order to gain clout and reap in the money. Real professionals have a lot of issues with the man and I'd rather trust the genuine therapists if they say he's harmful then I'll go with that first.
ikr he was sucking up to trisha
“Dr” drew is far from a therapist. He makes me sooooo angry 😭
@@whitestguyuknow omg that is soo not good that he is not licensed
@@whitestguyuknow yeah my mom said in the therapist world he’s really frowned upon
He looks like the bartender from Shrek
Lmfao spot on 😂
Lmao he really does😭😭😂
WAIT THATS 10/10
Omg that's him
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think trish was pretending to be someone else for so long that now she’s expressing who she is and accepting it and nobody is believing it
🎯
Hard agree. You can tell just how comfortable she is presenting more masculinely in this video. As someone who has been a loooong time follower of Trish, I feel like it’s easier to tell when she’s trolling or hyperfocused on something versus being genuine. Oftentimes I find she has trouble putting into words her feelings, but feels genuine about it, so it may come across as ignorance or insulting when in reality she’s just struggling to clarify something she’s only just learning about herself as well
Trisha was Ethan all along
🎯🎯
@@opera_gangster 🎯🎯🎯🎯
I am so gutted this is the last Halloween ep 😔 these looks have been EVERYTHING
I wonder if we could have themes.... Christmas/Hanukah costumes coming up?
@@allygallant5917 i dont think the podcast is going to go that long... like into Christmas
They could could do it again for Purim! Which is a time in Israel where people dress up like Halloween.
They should do it until the pandemic ends to keep spirits up
There’s one more next week. They’re doing a political theme one considering next week is Election Day.
Trish: I love pegging
Dr Drew: Ethan, you okay?
Ethan: It's a lot to take in...while she's dressed like me
Ethan hairflip:
“So you pegged him?”
LMFAO PLEASE TIMESTAMP
@@hayleet9902 25:53
hahahha I am literally crying at this! I will come back to this timestamp over and over! The hair flip and THE LITTLE BLINK HE DOES!!!!!!! I. can. not. handle. it!!!!! Those 2 seconds are everything.
I love that
@@cjertel5847 The little blink is because he has Tourette’s... 😭
Yall shoulda swapped seats so it would look even more confusing🤔
Edit: From 3 likes to 1.2k ok work mama
YES THIS!
We would've never even noticed anything changed tho...
They really missed out with this one
Should've been the plan the whole time.
Omg!! 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
Ethan with a serious look on his face: “Trisha came out as a chicken nugget” 🤣🤣
I wanted to see dr Drew’s face when he said it 😂
@@Pfondeena this.
Timestamp?
@@tonib7062 21:32
Bahahahaha 😂😂, I started smirking and cracking up as soon as he said it 🤣🤣
I kind of feel like dr drew was on trisha’s side the whole time. Am I wrong
Ethan is so cute trying to make her laugh after she was doing her forced crying smh
Dr drew has admitted that he tends to coddle and side with the most mentally unstable person.
You are not wrong at all Dr. Drew isn't a licensed therapist he's a psychiatrist and completely is the inappropriate option for these kinds of conversations
It’s super inappropriate. He’s only hurting her and the people around her by giving her this eternal pass for her toxic behavior. he’s a hack.
100%
Trisha did use something extremely personal against Ethan (the pill "addiction") and he somehow spun it so Ethan is the bad guy? That because Trisha is upset about the fact he called her out on it, Ethan is in the wrong? Fuck this guy honestly, he should have been kicked after that
This is...SO WEIRD....at first Ethan brought her on the show as a joke to make funny episodes and then they really started becoming friends and they do have undeniable chemistry as friends. Ethan cracking jokes on her in the "Smarter than a 5th Grader" episode and her throwing it back to him I started to like her, which I never thought I would and Ethan probably feels the same. These episodes are train wrecks that you have to watch. *Very weird but it works somehow.*
This is far from a friendship, this is “your dating my relative, we are RUclipsrs, let’s make some coin.” When Moses move on, so will Ethan. It’s Just business.
@@She-M-C I don’t know man. I see why you would say that, but I feel something there. He cares about her! I think he’s actually intrigued by her, empathizes with her and wants to understand her better. I don’t want to believe this is strictly business.
Shelly Covington-Montana trisha wouldn’t be here if it was
@@annepan2382 ok, lol
@@alyssaburg9117 empathy doesn’t mean you have to be there. We all empathize with many but life is too short and mostly complicated to invest in those that understand their issues but repeat it.
Bro Ethan looks like the bartender from Shrek
🤣🤣🤣
Omg so true 😂😂😂😂😂
I knew he looked familiar 😂
Omggg, ur right!! 🤣😭
I CANT BREATHE
Why does this work so well? I should hate this. I should hate everything about this. But I can't stop watching
me too i love it
i literally made a video about my obsession with the podcast, if you maaaybe wanna check...... 👼
Why does she look better as a dude than a regular woman lol? My Hetero-lizard brain is confused.
Same 😭
Me too! I live this podcast so much!
“Should I worry about my brother in law who has been assaulted by his partner?” “Uh it’s not really your business” stfu dr drew
THANK YOU. They have every right to be worried about Moses.
Isn’t Moses a full grown person? A relationship is between two people. If he is concerned he should talk to Moses and not to Trish
@@jennifermeissner6063 you wouldn’t be saying the same if it was a man who hit his girlfriend
No real doctor would say this. If someone is a danger to themselves or others you have to seek outside help. Does Trisha have something on dr drew!?????
@@Alexandra_Wolf something weird must be going on because it was so bizarre that Dr Drew dismissed that so quickly. He would of been 1000% cancelled if it was a male that left a bruise that size on his girlfriend and we all know it.
Trisha as ethan: " Yeah I love to peg men"
Ethan as Trisha: "That's a lot to take in."
Wording, Ethan
Screaming
LMFAO
I noticed that too 😅😅😅
HAHHAHAHAAA
Can we talk about how this series has turned into a fun AND educational experience. Thank you both for doing this episode... everything discusses is relatable and real
This!! So glad you said it 😊
A lot of people were worried about Dr. Drew coming (They think he is like Dr. Oz or Dr. Phil) but he is a real doctor! Still practices even now. I suggest you watch his episodes on YMH if you want more. Watch the ones with him and Tom Segura especially. Trust me
@@Official_KC thanks for the recommendation! I actually subscribed to Dr Drew because of this eps so I’ll check this out!
This should not be taken as educational in any sense of the word.
@@AmazinglyScherzo not sure how having a licensed physician, with experience in psychiatry studies, discuss how to appropriately and effectively navigate communication between 2 people is not educational...
This episode alone was way better than the Shane Dawson documentaries. No pushed narrative, just raw emotion
Way more authentic!
Great observation!!! Totally agree.
I agree
FACTS FR
right!?
This episode has done Trisha a huge favour.... People will understand her so much better now.
People will definitely understand her better. And that’s really good. But she will still have a hard time getting people to like and sympathize with her unless she can change her behavior. It’s good that she’s working on her problems but she is still acting out and Im sure she doesn’t want to be in that position.
Yes this episode sis her justice that's for sure !
It doesn't change the damage she does everywhere she goes...I do feel for her, but her toxicity has been rampant for YEARS
@@HH-pl4cv agreed, I do understand her more now but she needs to get out of the spotlight until she can ensure she's not going to be saying any more ridiculous stuff.
Lolol that didn’t age well
dr drew was lowkey rude to ethan lmao
SUPER RUDE
I only saw him rude at the beginning when he saw the ig vs reality vid but he's been pretty good throughout
@@kou2553 a ‘mental health specialist’ should know better tho
@@rottecavia1625 true haha he slipped up
Imagine if she used the James Charles hoodie.
💀
That would’ve been hilarious and top troll move
She’s not that smart or funny
The shaaade would be epic
Ethan wouldve curb stomped her
Honestly never saw Frenimies going in this direction but it’s such an interesting insight into the type of people that become social media celebrities and what they’re having to deal with personally as well as having public personas
When Trisha starts crying and Ethan is looking at her, even through the costume you can see how it hits him. Honestly, seeing Ethan with Trisha changes everything about how I ever perceived him.
Completely agree. I used to dislike Ethan but I’m really happy I was put my ego aside and took the L. I’ve learned about myself from this series and I think a lot of other commenters have too.
I hope they ignore the hate comments, especially on IG/Twitter. They just *hate* on Trisha hard, but I understand why. I’m bias to her, I have high functioning BPD myself so I know exactly what she’s talking about when she starts crying. I know she feels terrible, her entire identity is shattered by the idea she’s an “abuser” because she herself has been heavily abused. I think if she comes to term with the fact that, “yes, I have been abusive, it’s inexcusable and I want to change my behaviour and help repair the things I’ve damaged.”
That’s how I’ve been healing myself and healed my relationships/friendships.
She deserves a redemption arc, but she has to be willing to do the work.
It changed the way I perceived both of them tbh
@@Botatochicken same, its really changing how i view them... this podcast was a really good idea, i am happy they did it and followed through with these issues.
@@chashmal10 Please shut up.
Ethan reminds me of Michael Scott. He seems like a douche but in reality he’s got a big heart. He just has a different way of expressing himself. But I love it in a way, he’s hilarious.
Why does it seem like Dr. Drew is a secret onlyfan subscriber of Trisha’s. He’s pretty terrible at being a mediator. 😂
he was speaking facts
Because he’s a certified professional who doesn’t agree with a misogynistic, manipulative, ignorant podcaster like Ethan???
trisha crying while dressed as a man and ethan speechless dressed as the woman from shrek is not something u see everyday lol
he's.....he's dressed as trisha not the woman from shrek lmfaooo
Yeah I was getting a little emotional when Trisha was opening up and I had to laugh in the middle of it cause of how ridiculous the costumes were lol
omf this is so funnnnny omggggggg
I SCREAMED, THAT WOMAN FROM SHREK, YES
The woman from Shrek 😂
This has secured the fact that I NEED Frenemies Merch, but not just the colorblock shit, like I need options. This episode was groundbreaking.
like I don’t want just frenemies on it, maybe some infamous quotes made by either of them or some inside joke type shit. I don’t want it to be ✨basic ✨
Absolutely please Ethan and Hila, have some designs cause IM BUYING
Safe word suggestion: "STFU ethan/trisha"
Lol
Psst. Im kidding 🤞😁🤞
There should be a hoodie half black, half pink
@@jimjam2783 That'll be amazing!
Oh my god I was thinking the same thing
Trisha looked visibly relieved when Dr Drew was able to explain what is happening inside her head
how wonderful to be understood, really
@@jjjguliiich It's sad but some people live their entire lives without that.
I thought the same shit
Therapy helps us communicate 🙌🏻✌🏻
Time stamp?
Ethan can barley get a damn word in, they just constantly interrupted him and it’s so aggravating
Dude for real, they gave him no room to provide context for any of the stuff she talked about. And giving that it seems as if he knows nothing about the person trish is, on the surface it makes him look bad and in the wrong. Tbh this “doctor” didn’t seem too professional about it.
This is sooooo true the doctor seemed like he was walking on eggshells around Trisha or trying to stay on her good side while making Ethan look bad
IKR !!!!
*MAKE THIS A COSTUME ONLY PODCAST*
Yeah I’m gonna miss when they go back to normal.
YESSSS
LMAO yesssss
PLEASEEEE
YESS
Ethan and Trisha are literally siblings who irritate the shit out of each other but then secretly like each other at the same time 😂
Does this mean she’s going to get stuck in the dryer?
I don't like where this is going.
@@taylordial9107 stop it
@@taylordial9107 yes
@@taylordial9107 maybe...
Ethan, I just want to give huge props to you. You’ve evolved a lot and your genuine concern for her is amazing.
He is the first person to treat her like a person and not a side show. He saw a real person under all the walls she puts up. Their friendship is the best thing to happen for both of them to help them both grow
💕💕💕
She doesn't deserve his friendship.
I feel like the whole family changed her attitude and drove her into adulthood and Moses is her healthy, extremely happy cherry on top.
@@blackkat5605 YESYESYES! Exactly!
I know this word has been over used on the internet but ethan was so gaslit in this episode
thats so true
Trisha was talking about her mental health. Ethan was only really trying to justify if what he did was wrong or not.
The hair touching and Ethan's eye ticks are great as a woman.
Simp
orange sus
why is she likable yet so problematic
because she’s human and in reality everyone is problematic in some form or fashion
She's just real. If influencers were as open as she was she wouldn't seem problematic at all.
I think Because she’s too blunt but also very honest and empathetic.
@you cannot be serious I agree with this statement the only difference with like average ppl is we aren’t filming it
Did u not just watch the video-
This makes me glad that Shane never did a docuseries on Trisha like a lot of people requested. In hindsight, I think it would have hurt her more than helped her and people would not have taken it seriously because of Shane's controversies. I'm glad we are getting to know Trisha on her own terms.
Yeah I feel like this podcast is a healthy version with Ethan instead of well...
for sure
Underrated comment
didn’t he start that series with her or something similar
@@pep_z780 no i think he did a vid living a life as her for a day but it was short and not a docuseries
“Everyone thinks I’m a man beater because of you”-Trisha.
No everyone thinks this because you hit you partner 🙄
THIS
👏👏👏
The way she spun it to Dr. Drew is so beyond fucked up.
THIS 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Ethan brought up the hitting and ngl it sounded like a one time (possible) accident (I’ve also been passively listening so I may have missed something) - but SHES the one who said she left BRUISES - PLURAL.
Please don't stop the podcast, this podcast has given me inner peace.
Same
Sameeee
Sameeee!
For real .
I would rather have an extra of any of the other formats, after dark especially, over frenemies.
Ethan should have sat on Trisha's side and Trisha should have sat on Ethan's side.
missed opportunity honestly
Ethan has a different mic that is especially for him. Don't know why, but that might be the reason
Could’ve swapped the curtains at LEAST
Yes!!! Totally agree! 💖
HAHAA YESSS
Dr Drew is painful to watch. He’s so unprofessional and constantly interrupts. Don’t ask questions if you won’t wait to hear the response.
Week 7 of thinking to myself: “I hope this never ends.”
No way it’s been 70 weeks !since v
Same! I love this podcast! I am going so sad when it ends
Same it's so fucking good
Hmmm
Same
Lol, I can’t believe they sat on the wrong sides for the entire episode.
Men of culture
l
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underrated comment
Lmao
💀💀💀💀💀
Welp ig I’m famous now
oh my god I would have never noticed that lol
*Ethan: hairflip*
“So you pegged him?”
😂😂😂
Lmaooo
😂😂😂😂
"that's a lot.... To take in"
So funny bc Ethan wanted to hear more about that 😂
“We have this soulmate connection but at the same time he irritates the shit out of me, I don’t get it. “ -Trisha realizing her & Ethan are brother and sister now lol
😂😂
No I think she wanted him n obviously jealous of his happy marriage that has all these beautiful things while she forced it w Moses just so she could be IN by any means necessary.... I mean glad shes had a healthy baby now but I know she was lying about going to dbt she was not taking meds nothing she admitted to it eventually too so I just pray she does something for the sake of her new family now
I honestly hope Ethan doesn’t stop doing costumes, I’m 100% here for this brand.
Same
I think it's a Halloween thing which kinda sucks
Bout it
@spaghetti with tomato sauce trisha becomes ms piggy
ill say it again- WE NEED A MOSES MICROPHONE
no, we don't
Hear, hear
I like this idea but I genuinely don’t think he’d say much 😆
He won’t use it. He will just nod lmao
I feel like he wouldn’t want that at all it would just put him between arguments
Its crazy that there is such a double standard with domestic abuse. I cannot see people being okay with accepting a man's excuse for hitting his gf as him 'dissociating' and it being 'just a one time thing.'
Right?! And the fact that Dr. Drew just simply skipped over it and went after Ethan for exposing it. This was ridiculous to watch. If Ethan had abused Hila or Moses Trisha, Dr. Drew wouldn't have glazed over it
Agreed!!!! This is alarming. I can’t stand Dr. Drew
I get that. But that does happen though. Speaking from experience. I’ve been in a relationship with someone with ptsd and there is a distinct difference between someone’s mental health and straight up domestic violence. And there is also a big issue mainly in low income households and stuff where there partner may be one of the few people in there support network. And if they get seen with as much as a bruise they’re not aloud to be around them for a set period of time. But now there’s this poor girl with ptsd scared of all the noises outside and now she’s lost one of her only supporters. Idk I know my opinion is very bias and dumb. But that’s my experience anyway
That's exactly what I thought! She thinks that because it has been kept a secret all this time, hitting her boyfriend is correct
And yet everyone in the H3 audience was accepting it up until trisha quit the show.
THE WAY THE DOCTOR LITERALLY KEEPS TRACK OF THE CONVERSATION AND POINTS OUT IF THEIR TALKING PAST EACH OTHER AND SHT WOW
Lmao right
He’s been doing this a looong time, and he’s great at it! 😊
you should watch his other stuff. he is actually famous btw lmao
@@bubbyberry even if you have he’s got the personality to multitask it and it remains impressive lol
@@A.J.805 thanks for agreeing with me i guess?
How will anything ever top this episode??? The Drew, the looks, the real emotion, the tenderness, AGAIN THE LOOKS... 😫What a time to be alive
Fr
The new Belle Delphine interview kinda tops it off, but in another direction
EDIT: now I understand you mean on future Frenemies episodes
The Drew really helped The Ethan and The Trisha
how can you get so much joy from such a thing, reveal your secret
This is the only interesting thing on RUclips I wish it came out twice a week.
I literally dislike Dr Drew so much - he’s not a therapist, does not practice unconditional positive regard, is extremely biased. Don’t say you’re a therapist when you’re not
Right!
What do you mean by biased?
Nevermind i see it now
@@bread_h20 hahaha love the character development
I was just about to say he so off putting like you cant tell a patient in conversation with them about something they felt bad about saying “ oh your those kind of people i try to fend off (online)” (while hes talking to Ethan) like wtf professionalism?? keep yourself out of your clients problems.
I imagine this episode was very difficult for everyone, especially Trisha. That being said, I'm really glad that they're sharing this episode with us because it's so important for us to 1. normalize therapy, 2. normalize these difficult and therapeutic relationships.
Yeah so true this is definitely their best podcast. And i like how Drew didn’t pick sides he made sure they both got their sides and opinions out listening to them equally
Ethan looks like overweight Lana del rey
Instead of Cinnamon Girl he’s Oregano Girl or something hahahha
Oh my God I cant unsee it help
Hahaha 🤣
@shaniqua johnson that’s EVERYTHING hahahahahha
Lmao this is the best one
I think Ethan was the best thing that happen to Trisha. She needed someone that wouldn’t be afraid to call her on her shit but also emphasized and acknowledge why she acts the way she does. You can honestly see how much concern for her he shows as soon as she started to cry. Am really starting to love this friendship
I was going to contest that & say that Moses was actually probably the best thing to have come into her life... But then I realised that she wouldn't of met him if it wasn't for Ethan, so it just further proves your point :-p
Agreed. But I would add that I think Trish came into his life to teach him as well.
@@sharondianneb teach him how to deal with idiots.
Totally agree! I think this is so good for her and I want Trisha to feel loved
@@EmmaAus also the fact that Moses apparently rejects therapy is...disheartening
dr. drew BLEW my shit what type of therapist is he. he legit sided with trisha on absolutely everything when she was in the wrong as well.
this + he also interrupted Ethan every time he tried to make a point.
Professional Dr gives his professional insight, but honestly all these youtube commenters probably know more than him. ya. that sounds right.
@@lilbigplanet4170 he's not a professional therapist
@@audreymorgan2305 his degree and certifications are at the bottom of that website
@@lilbigplanet4170 yes he works w meds and addiction. Not therapy
This podcast isn’t even a podcast it’s more of a documentary of a developing relationship
it’s so weirdly beautiful
@@tessinderbitzin right
Totally that’s why is so fascinating to watch
This is what happens when two people with differences learn about and from each other to be more accepting and understanding
It’s goals, people nowadays take 0 time to get to know other people, it’s all superficial and fake, I appreciate genuine people like them
The Frenemies series is probably the best thing that could have happened to both Trisha and Ethan as human beings
Yes, they're both true blessings for each other and all of us. Love them and that family!! 💚
Even if it ends bads they learned a great deal from eachother
What about Ethan’s...you know...son 😂
This didn't age well lmao
both best and worst
This is so emotional and weird. Them dressed up as each other while taking thearapy wow. What an episode
lol! It’s almost symbolic of them trying to put themselves in each other’s shoes.
@@jimmy2883 woahh lmaoo
@@jimmy2883 lol yeah... almost.
@@jimmy2883 damn, we’re getting poetic up in this place
I’m so happy they recorded it even it’s prob bad for their relationship lmfao 😭
dr drew is not professional at all. ethan told her that in confidence and she aired it out there and had no room to share that. ethan protecting his brother in law, was not ill intended. her saying he took pills was said with evil intentions.
33:49 she says herself him calling her crazy wasn’t triggering, what bothered her was him saying he was open. she was simply trying to bring him down by exposing that to make herself feel better.
@@donnamorgan525 calling her crazy does bother her and she did ask him to stop.
@@Inputdonutz him unintentionally upsetting her by calling her crazy is so lighthearted in comparison . She did it with malice and it’s undeniable
@@janelm3145 but not to her and that's clear.. calling some crazy who clearly has issues is messed up when she's asking him to stop. They don't jive well together
Omg ethan is just evil he has said so many personal stuff about her and in that podcast he was constantly telling her why her relationships don’t work and why she shouldn’t be a mom and what not y’all are just crazy for defending him and even before that he has always exposed personal stuff about her hats off to her for even sticking around for as long as she did
Does anyone else feel like we just went through a therapy session with them
Edit: Thanks for the likes friends! Ethan & Trisha - I love you both. I’ve been struggling lately and this podcast has given me something to look forward to. Even when it’s heavy I love the realness and I see the best in both of you
I've been in therapy. I felt everything!
well... we kinda did lol
yes. it literally felt like one of my therapy sessions.
Yeah really like i felt for Trisha so bad... And i started to see similarities and really he opended up my thinking about some issues in my head .. interesting
would imagine that was the secondary point, while also seeking to better their own relationship. A win-win for everyone and a great idea.
They should have switched chairs! Missed a golden opportunity.
that's for valentines day
If they switched chairs I would be even more confused ffs
It would literally be impossible to tell who is who
Fuck. You’re right.
100000000%
HOLY CRAP. This episode was intense. I've always liked Trisha and seen she was a good person and not what people made her out to be. But Trisha- you've finally got everyone else to at least UNDERSTAND your issues. You can clearly see in Ethan's reactions he didn't understand before and now he does. I really hope you guys can make a good friendship. I'm rootin' for you Trish. You deserve happiness. And you've been a rolemodel for a lot of girl/young women/ women who didn't really see anyone "real" in the media. I'm actually just so happy your and Ethan's relationship has led to this point of openness and honesty, that lets THE WORLD see Trisha as a person and not just the butt of a joke. Because there is loads of other people out there just like Trisha and we're all seeking some form of resolution for our past trauma.
ugh yes! I feel like this episode was so needed. Trisha is so hurt and never heard. people always assume and want to hate her, but they never allow her to explain herself.
Did you get paid to write this for her lol she might be a good person but that's still up for debate. Playing the victim card 24/7 isn't cool and you trying to manipulate the truth isn't cool either. She has alot of work to do so it's best to save judgment for later.
This is my favorite episodes so far hands down
@@b14ker14 did you watch the episode and do you know what comment you’re replying to?! Come on man, don’t be that person.
This is exactly it. I always followed Trisha and felt this weird connection to her even though I didn't condone a lot of her actions. It's because I could relate to the feelings that drove them and the struggle of that dissociative state she goes to. I suffer with what is most likely, but not fully diagnosed as, BPD and I finally got on medication to manage it, but it took YEARS to reach that point - and that's without having my whole disordered life on display and the exasperated issues that must come with it. It makes me so happy to see a support system like Ethan and his family willing to be there instead of just playing into the circus that gravitates to her vulnerabilities.
These conversations are so confusing. 1, a therapist isn’t supposed to have an opinion about your situation, but help you think about different perspectives and mindsets so you can fully understand a situation apart from personal feelings. 2, Ethans responsible for setting boundaries or withholding information from Trisha since they can’t differentiate but Trish is not responsible for respecting others as well? Ethan stopped a few times to apologize and let Trish know how important they are to him and his life but Trish never reciprocates with anything encouraging or positive to Ethan. None of this has to do with mental illness but more with respect and caring for their relationship. But going back to boundaries, it seems especially in the beginning Trish would just say anything they wanted about Ethan regardless of if they triggered him or made him uncomfortable and upset but there has to be a therapy session for Trish? Idk this all seems very one sided. This was an episode I avoided watching for a while because I don’t care for this environment on the internet.
I definitely agree with this feeling one sided.
Agreeeeee 10000000%%%%%
I couldn’t have said this better.
This is couples therapy though. Couples therapists do take sides. That's part of the therapeutic process.
i agree with that as its very one sided here. although i think that some people aren't great at vocal love affirmation all the time; they express it in other ways. this convo is abt both of them but mainly trish's fragile mental health and how ethan can work with her, and so trish can work with him too, but i think trish is in the spotlight because they're the one who is having problems. and the therapist seems to favour her which is unfair
I can’t wait until Trisha reaches the person she wants to be and is meant to be, and the time when she’ll be able to look back on her current and previous moments and see her progress. And I love Ethan & Hila for the podcast and how open Ethan is with the different people he speaks to and interacts with. Basically I appreciate the podcast(s) and videos so much!
Trisha!!! There's people who support you! Not matter how you behave in your past, we are all humans. Now with a lot of work you'll be able to feel better and better. Keep talking about your personal thing also with your therapist!!!
yesss, I was going to comment basically all this!
Trisha is the person she is meant to be. You may want to 'change' people, but mental health doesn't work like that. Therapy etc can help-but we are who we are!! Trisha is extremely self aware and that's all you can be-she's perfect as she is. It's more about others understanding what is going on. As someone with borderline traits myself, all you can do is make people aware of the extremity to which you feel everything, which Trisha does.
Dr. Drew needs to be a guest every 5 episodes so we can keep this podcast going! Trisha actually explained her issue so much better in this episode and why she was upset. She still needs a lot of therapy but I understand her feelings more. They both have an issue with saying “I wasn’t upset” or “I’m totally fine” when they really aren’t.
You're absolutely right 🤣
I was literally thinking of this too lol
Plus its good for Ethan to get called out cause of his fucking God complex
Yes definitely
Make this top comment! It would benefit both greatly!!
You know it’s a relatable/beautiful podcast when everyone is typing “Paragraphs”.
We are really out here having a therapy session together.
Lmao
i love trisha bro like i think this is so helpful for mental health
📠 📠📠
Trisha literally admits 'i said it to be a bitch' and one minute later she says 'i was confused I thought I could say anything because of you'
Literally
Gross ish
Ya but both can be true… Ethan exposed that shit about her relationship to just be a bitch
Yes to be a bitch but she didn’t expect his reaction, so that’s why she got confused. She literally begged him to not talk about those text messages, but he did it anyway, so that set the tone for her.
I forget what Ethan looks like at this point lmao
hahahaha I had the same at that point
ETHAN LOOKS LIKE THE STEPSISTER FROM SHREK LMAO
Omg yesss 😹
on point
Spot on!
IM CRACKING UP
It’s Doris.... lol
This is genuinely the best Trisha has ever come across in my opinion. Ethan I feel like you've managed to get closer to her than most people we've seen her in videos with before.
really? your opinion is valid but i thoroughly hated her throughout this entire thing.
@@lana4971 hated? Wow that's strong. How come?
@@lana4971 why? I normally get annoyed by her but this is the first time I love her. I enjoy how shes self aware.
@@trvgic76 you should really watch their recent podcast. although, she voted biden throughout the entire podcast she defends trump.
@@lana4971 and that relates to u hating her this episode somehow?
dr drew is giving me creepy vibes towards trisha and idgaf vibes towards ethan this was weird
Right! Totally dismissing Ethan’s feelings
I watched a later episode he was on before this and he kept looking down and I’m convinced he was watching her porn-or has-and that’s why he’s so biased. Terrible mediator.
@@calivibes_84 wait which episode
@@calivibes_84 A "later episode he was on before this?" You do realize that makes no sense right?
@@l7weenie273they watched a later episode then watched this earlier one. They didn’t watch them in order.
Ethan flicking his hair away from his face saying "so you pegged him?" I couldn't help but laugh. He's here for the tea, sis
Timestamp? I love these two lmao
@@billnyesmassivethighs3847 25:55
He really is always down
I will forever live in fear of when this podcast gets cancelled. But today... Today is not that day
This day we watch! By all that you hold dear, on this good earth, I bid you watch, fans of H3!!
I like this podcast
you are right mayonnaise, I needed this.
@@SnazzyParesh I feel you ugh that was groce
Anxiety keeps increasing
This is the trippiest costume so far! what a mind f**k
Dude you have so MANY subscriptions about 🍣?! WOW Ethan has many popular RUclipsrs on his channel.
omg i used to watch ur videos religiously, a while back. Amazing to see you here Chef Davy!
I feel like trisha manipulated this whole situation by victimizing herself and crying meanwhile Ethan couldn't even get a word in the whole episode. Dr.Drew isn't even a real therapist so I'm not surprised he couldn't really actually help these two.
@@fdexter6255 but you also have to admit that the things they did or said on the podcast affected their relationship so that includes this episode
Absolutely right
Not defending Trisha bc of everything she did, but how is she victimising? She literally talked about her feelings. The only problem was that Ethan couldn’t talk and that’s the “therapist” fault not Trisha’s.
@@sanaatayyan8632 she is victimizing herself every video she makes. She says statements that are so exaggerated or she is very cruel to others that no one with a right mind believes her. Plus Dr.Drew doesn’t specialize on treating people with bpd so he didn’t know how to handle this situation.
I think the fact that trisha admits to still being miserable after plastic surgery is very important information that should be spoken more of. Maybe plastic surgery should be the absolute last resort, AFTER you tried fixing your inner demons.
Well she did undo the results of her plastic surgery with her poor eating habits. I’d regret wasting $20,000 too.
@@x0xmadix0x you'd be surprised at how often poor eating habits are linked to poor mental health and vice versa
@Bill Anderson that’s what having low self esteem is like... can’t you relate? I can.
I felt that so hard! I wanted a nose job for over 10 years & always thought that after I got it I would feel so beautiful and feel like a whole new person. I finally got one & was just as insecure afterwards as I was before... plastic surgery will not fix an internal self esteem problem
Tends to be the reason lots go back for more surgeries, once you fix one thing you find other things you want to fix. That's why a decent plastic sugeron does consultations beforehand to make sure people arent suffering body issues that will only get worse with surgery. It's really quite common for people not to be satisfied with their bodies after plastic surgery.
This episode really did make me cry. Ethan, Hila, Moses .. everyone, Trisha really needed people like this in her life, and even after her mistakes and all of that, I really think she deserves it. Congratulations Trisha on finding people that can help you heal (even though it can be difficult at times) & thank you to the H3 fam for helping her get to that place and being patient with her along the way.
This ❤️🙏🏼
Couldn't have said it better 💯
For real .
I couldn't have put it better myself, this would be a really good network support system for her, especially Hilla as a friend. Somebody that would not take advantage of her in any way.
They should have made Ethan sit on the pink side of the set😂
Trish looks like the homie. Like we bout to go smoke a blunt together and she bringing the 40's... Let's go.
I’m fucking dead
He said forties
u what
😂😂😂😂
💀💀💀
I'm screaming
“I understand why Trisha’s upset” is something I feel like she or other people definitely doesn’t hear enough.
True - the worst thing anyone can hear when they’re upset is that they have no reason to be upset.
Yes. Dr. Drew validating her feelings (the ones people deem crazy) made Trish instantly light up and look relieved. Dr. Drew absolutely helped her in such a short period of time, impressive!
as someone who's schizophrenic, hearing people validate your feelings when almost everyone just calls you insane is one of the best feelings ever :)
I feel like she really needed this :)
why did this break my heart ,,,