Some people ask why do married women betray their husbands instead of divorce them if they feel trapped in their marriages. The answer is they don't want to lose the stability husbands provide.Summing up they want the best of two worlds and in the end they lose both.
Interesting take, @artisaprimus6306! Some might see it as patience, others as a lack of boundaries. Do you think Jasmine’s growth would’ve been different if he stood his ground sooner?
Thanks for your input, Roger! Relationships can be messy and complicated. Jasmine's husband chose forgiveness, which isn’t always easy or simple. It’s interesting to think about what we’d do in his shoes. Appreciate your candid thoughts!
Drinking is a big problem in most cases of divorce! Women in higher up positions at jobs that has them surrounded by men who used these women as their toy. If they can't separated their home lives from their work lives. These are the types of people you do not married!
This story was just okay, a little to goody-goody. Most wives that choose freedom over their husbands rarely bounce back so quickly. They blame their husbands for being boring, they blame their friends for dragging them out, they blame alcohol. They blame everybody else but themselves. I'm sure her husband had his faults, too. If you are married you can't live and act like you are single. You didn't mention her wedding rings, did she wear them at the bar? If so the guy that pursued her had to notice them. He still pursued a married woman. That should tell you the type of person he is, he is in for a quick thrill. If you want quick thrills, don't get married. There is nothing wrong with partying, just don't drag your partner(him or her) into your choices. I did give you a thumbs up.
Thanks for sharing your perspective, Joseph! You’re right-choices and accountability play huge roles in relationships. Jasmine’s journey focuses on growth and learning from mistakes. Your comment sparks great discussion. Appreciate the thumbs up and thoughtful critique! 🙌
It sounds like she had cheated before. He should have kicked her to the curb when she cheated the first time. Once a cheater always a cheater. She disrespect him constantly. It is always about her.
@robertcarder4979 I hear you, but people can grow and change. Jasmine’s journey shows that mistakes don’t define us-it’s what we do after that matters. She’s learning accountability and respect, which wasn’t easy but worth it.
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There two way to look at life. Getting married early is a big mistake in all married. Neither of you saw the other person in their life. Dating should be 2 or 4 years before you get married. That way you can see the other person acting in and around other! Then you can figure out if you want a married or NOT!
There's probably no winning in modern marriages. However, statistically the younger the woman is when married, the more likely it is to last. This is likely a secondary effect that younger women have had less sexual partners -- which is the top indicator of a divorce rate -- and that religious people are more likely to get married younger.
Interesting perspective, Eric! Taking time to understand each other before marriage is definitely important. Everyone’s journey is different, though-what works for one might not work for another. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Interesting take, BW022. While stats can reveal trends, every marriage is unique. Building trust, communication, and shared values often matter more than age or past experiences. What’s your perspective on fostering lasting connections in modern relationships?
@@PodcastStories123Physiology statistics don't just reveal trends, they reveal underlying physical, emotional, and psychological reasons -- typically rooted in biology or social evolution. "connections" is a buzz word, nor have "trust", "communication", or "shared values" ever been a major factor in relationships until modern times. Until a hundred years ago arranged marriages were common (and/or your pool of those you could marry was so limited) that connections, trust, communications, etc. was never a factor in a long term marriage. My perspective is that people are inherently selfish and that relationships only work when the greater society forces trust, communication, and shared values. Whether via religion, social traditions, legal systems, financial incentives, etc. people need personal reasons to trust, communicated, and share values. If it was understood that if you cheat you'd loose your children, house, alimony, your family would disown you, your friends would leave you, etc. I'm willing to be that people would have more trust, communications, and share values in marriages or relationships. At the personal level, if you must marry, I'd say find a partner who understands this and is willing to be together under as many of them as possible -- wants a prenup, is religious, has parents who would disown them for cheating, friends would leave them if they divorced, etc., etc.
Good point, @CarlitoCarpio-f9y! Boundaries and intentions matter in any relationship. Jasmine’s story shows how important it is to recognize red flags and stand up for yourself. What do you think she could’ve done differently?
The writer himself or herself never knew meaning of marriage in the first place. Uttering so many filthy words about the marriage.The writer seems to have lost his or her mind, saying all Crazy, Stupid, Ridiculous and Useless words about marriage and their spouses.
"Wow, that's a strong take! Relationships can be complicated, and everyone handles situations differently. It's easy to judge from the outside, but sometimes emotions and circumstances make things more complex. What would you have done in his shoes?"
What happened to the cheerleading friend? She sounds like those demons that whisper sweet lies in your ears. The husband was a whimp who finally grew a pair. One good thing, there were no children involved.
AMANDA , The " Devil " in me reminds you, that you have Chris's mobile cell phone number lodged on yor phone. Maybe he's gonna be yor NEW MAN. ( from the bar ).
Appreciate the honesty, @rayairey5770! We’re always looking to improve. What kind of stories or themes would you like to see instead? Fresh ideas are always welcome!
Hey @wildylupous, I get it-not every story resonates with everyone. Jasmine’s journey might not be for you, but for others, it's about strength and growth. Curious-what kind of stories do you enjoy?
@@PodcastStories123 Logical and with logic in it. There are only couple of good podcasters on youtube who are publishing real life stories and you are not one of them.
Some people ask why do married women betray their husbands instead of divorce them if they feel trapped in their marriages. The answer is they don't want to lose the stability husbands provide.Summing up they want the best of two worlds and in the end they lose both.
The guy gave her too many chances. He was giving her permission to walk all over him.
Interesting take, @artisaprimus6306! Some might see it as patience, others as a lack of boundaries. Do you think Jasmine’s growth would’ve been different if he stood his ground sooner?
The 304 friend will always encourage you to make choices that lead to cheating and divorce.
Her husband is a total puke a disgrace as a man, he should have divorced her with the first cheating episode, but he stuck around like a total wimp.
how can you respect anyone who does not respect himself...even gave one last chance but got what he earned a 304
Thanks for your input, Roger! Relationships can be messy and complicated. Jasmine's husband chose forgiveness, which isn’t always easy or simple. It’s interesting to think about what we’d do in his shoes. Appreciate your candid thoughts!
Drinking is a big problem in most cases of divorce! Women in higher up positions at jobs that has them surrounded by men who used these women as their toy. If they can't separated their home lives from their work lives. These are the types of people you do not married!
This story was just okay, a little to goody-goody. Most wives that choose freedom over their husbands rarely bounce back so quickly. They blame their husbands for being boring, they blame their friends for dragging them out, they blame alcohol. They blame everybody else but themselves. I'm sure her husband had his faults, too. If you are married you can't live and act like you are single. You didn't mention her wedding rings, did she wear them at the bar? If so the guy that pursued her had to notice them. He still pursued a married woman. That should tell you the type of person he is, he is in for a quick thrill. If you want quick thrills, don't get married. There is nothing wrong with partying, just don't drag your partner(him or her) into your choices. I did give you a thumbs up.
Thanks for sharing your perspective, Joseph! You’re right-choices and accountability play huge roles in relationships. Jasmine’s journey focuses on growth and learning from mistakes. Your comment sparks great discussion. Appreciate the thumbs up and thoughtful critique! 🙌
Bad circle of friends... bad influence
Of course she forgave herself. When it comes to her husband poor guy for waste years with a woman of easy virtue
It sounds like she had cheated before. He should have kicked her to the curb when she cheated the first time. Once a cheater always a cheater. She disrespect him constantly. It is always about her.
@robertcarder4979 I hear you, but people can grow and change. Jasmine’s journey shows that mistakes don’t define us-it’s what we do after that matters. She’s learning accountability and respect, which wasn’t easy but worth it.
And then she adopted her first cat, the first that transformed her into "the cat lady"
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There two way to look at life. Getting married early is a big mistake in all married. Neither of you saw the other person in their life. Dating should be 2 or 4 years before you get married. That way you can see the other person acting in and around other! Then you can figure out if you want a married or NOT!
There's probably no winning in modern marriages. However, statistically the younger the woman is when married, the more likely it is to last. This is likely a secondary effect that younger women have had less sexual partners -- which is the top indicator of a divorce rate -- and that religious people are more likely to get married younger.
Interesting perspective, Eric! Taking time to understand each other before marriage is definitely important. Everyone’s journey is different, though-what works for one might not work for another. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Interesting take, BW022. While stats can reveal trends, every marriage is unique. Building trust, communication, and shared values often matter more than age or past experiences. What’s your perspective on fostering lasting connections in modern relationships?
@@PodcastStories123Physiology statistics don't just reveal trends, they reveal underlying physical, emotional, and psychological reasons -- typically rooted in biology or social evolution. "connections" is a buzz word, nor have "trust", "communication", or "shared values" ever been a major factor in relationships until modern times. Until a hundred years ago arranged marriages were common (and/or your pool of those you could marry was so limited) that connections, trust, communications, etc. was never a factor in a long term marriage.
My perspective is that people are inherently selfish and that relationships only work when the greater society forces trust, communication, and shared values. Whether via religion, social traditions, legal systems, financial incentives, etc. people need personal reasons to trust, communicated, and share values. If it was understood that if you cheat you'd loose your children, house, alimony, your family would disown you, your friends would leave you, etc. I'm willing to be that people would have more trust, communications, and share values in marriages or relationships.
At the personal level, if you must marry, I'd say find a partner who understands this and is willing to be together under as many of them as possible -- wants a prenup, is religious, has parents who would disown them for cheating, friends would leave them if they divorced, etc., etc.
Ms
Bs, those kind of woman do not change. She is who she is.
Ok leave her😅😅😅
@ROCKSTAR123620 Haha, no leaving her! She's too inspiring for that. Stick around-Jasmine's story has just begun! 😊🔥
Stay out of people or friends with lust intentions
Good point, @CarlitoCarpio-f9y! Boundaries and intentions matter in any relationship. Jasmine’s story shows how important it is to recognize red flags and stand up for yourself. What do you think she could’ve done differently?
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The writer himself or herself never knew meaning of marriage in the first place. Uttering so many filthy words about the marriage.The writer seems to have lost his or her mind, saying all Crazy, Stupid, Ridiculous and Useless words about marriage and their spouses.
This guy is a wimp of the highest degree. Real men would have divorced her immediately.
"Wow, that's a strong take! Relationships can be complicated, and everyone handles situations differently. It's easy to judge from the outside, but sometimes emotions and circumstances make things more complex. What would you have done in his shoes?"
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What happened to the cheerleading friend? She sounds like those demons that whisper sweet lies in your ears. The husband was a whimp who finally grew a pair. One good thing, there were no children involved.
AMANDA , The " Devil " in me reminds you, that you have Chris's mobile cell phone number lodged on yor phone.
Maybe he's gonna be yor NEW MAN. ( from the bar ).
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Same storyline as ALL the other sites publishing this garbage on RUclips......
Time for "NEW CONTENT" or just quit posting crap like this..
Appreciate the honesty, @rayairey5770! We’re always looking to improve. What kind of stories or themes would you like to see instead? Fresh ideas are always welcome!
Another crappy story. Who is writing this BSes.
Hey @wildylupous, I get it-not every story resonates with everyone. Jasmine’s journey might not be for you, but for others, it's about strength and growth. Curious-what kind of stories do you enjoy?
@@PodcastStories123 Logical and with logic in it. There are only couple of good podcasters on youtube who are publishing real life stories and you are not one of them.
Rubbish story!