Dear Women, He wears old clothes, his dreams untold, A heart so tired, yet strong and bold. He never cries, though nights are long, His pain wrapped quiet, his soul a song. He earns, he learns, yet none can see, The weight he bears silently. For family’s joy, he gives his all, But who will catch him if he falls? nobody , we have no laws for man
Hey stranger... I m an adult aged 25 and entering into the stage of the MEN category.. somewhere I felt something inside me with your words... that touched me
what u will get in return ? u will not get mental peace. men marry for peace. in the end if the relationship does not work out u still need to pay huge alimony and maintainance, it doesnt matter whether she works or not.
Bro, I think if you are making good money, marry a good girl. Don't go for high package girl, heck if you can afford get a housewife. Much less headache.
@rohitsawant5805 marrying with housewife does not mean you are safe. But if you get married to equal earning wife, atleast you will have financial support in both cases whether marriage works or does not work.
@arunitsingh3518 well aren't it same for rich men tho? Rich men has power so he can also exploit and cheat on his wife right? Stop being a misogynistic
Society has made beauty and femininity such a thing and has always put the newlyweds and the new mothers on the pedestal. Some women think that marrying a rich guy or being financially dependent on a guy will make their life easy, some women think that their ‘beauty’ has made them so desirable that it’s a man’s responsibility to revive them forever 😅 as you pointed out very rightfully, after the initial honeymooning phase, the woman usually starts losing the respect if barring the beauty they don’t bring anything new to the table, also a man undervalues her even if she takes care of the family. Both men and women need to get out of this bollywood utopia and have their reality check.
That's a mature comment right there. Both genders looking to prioritise themselves and either choosing to be on pedestal or a victim, as per benefitting situations, that's the root cause of the issues that occur. The partriarchal mindset has brainwashed both the genders and both (not just men) need to come out of it completely, only then we can get over these stereotypes which are harmful for both the sides.
the content is fairly well but still majority of the women think if she is earning money her husband should earn at least 4 times more than how much she is earning, this is the dark truth and nobody talks about it,, their vision is always high,, if she is making 1 lakh per month she will never marry a man who is earning 30k per month but if the situation is exact opposite, the man will definitely marry that woman we always speaks about equality and this is the equality
First of all, do you have a data on your claim? Secondly, in India marriage is still largely arranged by the family not the girl herself. And to families money is a big factor behind marriage. Thirdly, men are mostly associated with their money and women with their beauty and fertility. It is a century old conditioning. We cannot expect the mindset to be vanished in a blink of an eye. Fourthly, Many women have career breaks during their pregnancy. Some even leave their job. If a household is dependent on the women's income more then it might look unsustainable. So isn't it very natural?
@@ryuchic462 You will undoubtedly bring baseless arguments to defend hypergamy but refuse to acknowledge its flaws or your own contradictions. Tell me, what kind of "arranged marriage" exists in the West? None. Yet, even in the most progressive societies, women continue to expect men to earn significantly more than they do. This phenomenon is prevalent even in highly developed Scandinavian countries, where equality is championed. Your argument about patriarchy and arranged marriages being the root cause is flawed. And NO, men do not tie their identity solely to their financial status. it’s women who often choose partners based on material success. So please, don’t gaslight. And let’s not pretend that women don’t prioritize physical attributes. we consistently see that women are often more selective about physical appearance than men. If your defense is simply "conditioning," then by that logic, dowry practices could also be justified as mere cultural conditioning. However, as rational beings, we are more than our conditioning. Humans possess a conscience, the ability to think critically, and the capability to challenge societal norms. Therefore, using "conditioning" as a blanket excuse for hypergamous behavior is both illogical and hypocritical. and also u dont need a data to understand basic gender dynamics which is happening right infront of ur eyes.
@@arpandutta134 because man always wants to dominate woman. They can't handle high earning girls attitude. So first u accept women's success as urs.. then u may find equality
Not true..i know girls who earns 1 lakhs plus per month are struggling to find a partner and still single. She is totally fine if her future partner earn less than her but men are rejecting her because she earns more than them. Recently i got asked by my relative aunty about my education when i told her she rejected me because her son is not on the same level of education. Society is not even accepting high earning DIL.
This topic is so important to discuss! 🌟 It’s interesting to see how certain narratives can unintentionally reinforce outdated stereotypes. I believe everyone should focus on building their own success and value first, regardless of gender. Thanks for shedding light on this issue and encouraging a more balanced perspective!
It is such a healthy mindful perspective towards this topics...you are being the voice of many girls like me who feel the same way...people call me feminist to make fun of me completely ignoring the real problems that come with this dependency
Hi girls!Just want to add something to what she said -if you want to get married and what to have kids with your partner,know that the relationship can never be equal .Some of it is because of biology (like pregnancy and breastfeeding) and it can take anything between 2 to 7 years for your body to recover.Please take this into consideration because you won't be able to work,would be forced to take a paycut when you join workforce eventually,have less to put in savings and investment. Secondly,some of it like being awake all night for baby,being available 24*7 to attend to needs are social and extremely taxing physically esp if you are also expected to do housework along with it all ,as SAHM. You need a partner who understands that time spent on childcare is extremely valuable,imp for mental, physical,emotional development of child and that his job is primarily to support you in every way during those initial years. However,if you don't plan to have children,you would be fine if you choose to live separately from in laws.
industry doesn't care if it's a man or woman, they only care about there own business. if you comparing your personal choice and having a family which is beautiful thing than being a slaves who can replace you in a month. family always come 1st ask your dad if you have a doubt.
In short ,If you are planning to have children don't marry someone who does 50/50 nonsense only with paying monthly bills but not wanting to share equally the significant risks(to health, career, finances ) ,personal sacrifices and compromises which are necessary to raise healthy children .
Not necessarily. I have seen housewives whose children have turned out to be absolutely useless even after getting so much attention from mothers. Some of them even hate their mothers for their constant attention. Also, if we have to prioritize homemaking as women, then y educate the girl child at all? Eventually her husband will also ask her to be a housewife right? Yes women need support for initial years but they can work otherwise.
3:30 - Errorneous statement. You overlook the fact that India never denied voting rights to women from the day of independence. The feminism movement started in USA due to women not having voting rights. Do not mix up Indian women with US women. Indian women were always empowered, at least in middle class families. There was an entire women army wing in India National Army of Subash Chandra Bose. It would not have come about in a society that is supposed to have "suppressed women for generations". While 70 years later, today women are not merely empowered but weaponized. Weaponized to cause a downfall of human civilization itself.
bro what r u talking about, or may be u never travelled enough becuase india is diverse unlike US, there are many tribal community too who don't let women to take decision on their own [ever read about NEHRU'S tribal wife?] their were so many backward tradition outside of india so does in india but they choose to change rather than just boasting like us. so stop blabbering and read facts.
@@aliie1802 common girl we're not interested in someone else's wife and why you people are always trying to drag USA on Every problem trying to compare with USA please Stop this nonsense they're so much ahead of us in so much problems and solutions so please don't talk about them. Now Nehru's tribal wife he (Nehru)was a womanizer smoking addictive person . Why r you giving his example Tribal women ok what about tribal men are they fine ? Only women in this country are suffering, humiliated Open your mind kid so many tribal lower caste men suffering, humiliated ,tortured and killed by upper caste, Britishers and Mughals and still they are suffering in the remote areas of this country so please don't give nonsense facts like Dhruv Rathe.
@@aliie1802 not just tribal but rural too but I guess it's lack of public incentives on social & human development & economic participation boost. That's it
In short ,If you are planning to have children don't marry someone who does 50/50 nonsense only with paying monthly bills but not wanting to share equally the significant risks(to health, career, finances ) ,personal sacrifices and compromises which are necessary to raise healthy children .
Tumhe toh hr cheez main problem hain. Tum jaise ladke k liye na Atul Subhash ki wife jaise ladki milni chahiye. Tab tumlogo ki samaj main ayegi. This is a very sensitive topic but still I have talk about this. Because tumhare aise thought k liye hi toh us tarah ki ladkiya ladke koe fasa sakte hain.
I love to be house husband after marrying a rich strong indepandaant woman😂. I keep maid for cleaning. I use washing machine for clothes all I do is just cook for my rich wife. And when my wife goes to office I flirt with women on social media and play videogames. And ask money from her to order me some food in swiggy many women don't understand the benefits of being a modern wife😂
from what i have seen this content is usually done by western women, till date i have not seen single india based indian women post this type of content
2:15 is exactly what i try to implement in my Life , you jusy mentioned the exact things , it just gave me a sense of relief a sense of confidence that okay , i am on the correct path , thanks mate
Your content is balanced. And as a man, I very much appreciate your message. But I have a question for those who watch this video and read my comment. What is the percentage of marriages where the woman earns more than a man? This question is not intended to provoke a man vs woman debate. And the honest answer based on gut (we probably don't have the numbers to back the answer up) leads us to a societal "norm". Taken to the extreme it is normalising the kind of comments (toxicity?) that made you create this video in the first place.
I am sorry but this is a high time we value those homemakers too. What they contributed was of great value in its substance. We need to develop this mindset to actually correct the situation.
im 19 now but dude i don't even remember when did i sub to you but i know it was in like class 9th or something haha i must be 14 or so when i wanted to be a "bookie" lol i was a wannabe tho, but yeah i subbed to you because of your simple and calm content unlike other ytbers who are views hungry to the point they don't care about the quality of their content , anyways keep posting more love the content, genuinely would be interested in a "day in my life" style vid too, keep up the good work regardless, cheers
Women in your family doesn't take the responsibilities and accountability does not mean all women are same. Women in my family working hard since ages could say earning more than men in our family. Traditionally women used to got married on the basis of beauty only because they were uneducated and financially dependant. Some women are still living their life with same mindset and prioritizing their beauty over intelligence and independence but some of us working hard against the family/ society will because we learned in a hard way that no matter what you serve for a man they will devalue you if you are not making money. We don't want be a burden on anyone. We are focusing on our career trying hard to build a peaceful life for us not blabbering on social media with shallow mindset
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To tell you the truth, I am actually okay with being a house husband. I know coocking, cleaning and know all the house chores include I'm good with kids. 😅 I'm currently working in a company but the salary isn't very high but I'm managing somehow. This makes me wonder "what if I get a partner who is ok with seeing his man with approan and House chores". I know it's silly but hey Theres no harm in having fantasies.
Not everyone thinks like you however, morally right you may be. Your collective of women is extremely small. What you are saying is absolutely correct. This kind of content makes modern women look extremely materialistic, shallow and heartless. That's why the term "gold digger" seems to becoming more and more applicable day by day for modern women. However, please dont forget to mention the fact that most women are hypergamous, be it by requirement or by nature. Since the last decade, this tendency has increased ten fold for modern women, even though they are earning. Majority of working women never marry a man who earns less than her (where the reverse has never been a problem for men). Even if they do, then that marriage ends in shambles, divorce, extra marital affairs, etc. (jyoti maurya case). See, the mindset of most men are changing for the good due to enforcement of accountability via law and social shaming and constant propagation of women centric messages via media and society, but the mindset of the most women is degrading day by day for the lack of accountability due to the same laws that dont hold women responsible for morally and legally wrong actions & wrong messages of empowerment disbursed in the same media and absence of social shaming. If women want equality, they have to speak up against the wrong actions and mindset of the people to their own gender and denounce them. Men do that for their own gender most of the time. I understand that women have been downtrodden for a long time, and now they are getting the chance to move ahead and many are still waiting to get that chance. There is still lot to be done in that area. But a balance had to be maintained, otherwise, we are heading towards an all out gender war.
Before you all comment on her. Look at the books behind her. That's the amount of knowledge and view it requires to be different. She is being practical talking about economy and reality, while you all are trying to be brokie cute dumb little girly. Girl work on yourself.
3:20 Didi script v achha sa banaleti research kark "centuries" even mens didn't get education in the British India ruled by the Britishers how it could be womens fight for centuries totally nonsense but I agree few things you have told on this video about feminist
bhaiya, comparing to women, men were still allowed to have education specially overseas (like freedom fighters who did their higher education in London sponsored by Britishers), I know percentage was less like only 1 in 11 women in India was literate belonging from upper class.
Bhaiya ji History book v thik se padh lete. Indian men from the upper castes did get education even under British rule. Men from upper-class society often even went overseas to get higher education. Women, on the other hand, were restricted for a long time to get any formal education. Men and women both fought against society and the system to give women their educational rights. Get your facts checked.
@H-oz9ul common don't give me lessons how to read history books Ok tell me how many upper caste peoples are I mean only mens r getting allowed for study go study and then return to India to only serve Britishers in their Adminstratives no kid no that wasn't called education usse bhikmangna khte hai education nhi aapni hi jamin me dusro ki gulami karna
Its always better to be self dependent! But...if you ask all women to earn their living then womenkind wont survive! The suspension that dependence on man likely to lead to abouse...based on what? Is it projection? Because dependence on women has led to mass abuse of men through 498A or alimony etc! This scale and degree of abouse of women has never happened! Only mothers has faught for daughter's education? Your father was not interested in educating you? Was fighting necessary to educate women? I was born in 77 and i found it normal! Women were educated not necessarily to earn money! Education is essential to self-cultivation! There were millions of women like Charulata throughout the ages in all countries with requisite leisure ( thanks to male slaves) and resources to contribute to civilization! What have they done? It will be good to think a bit about what you can contribute rather than what you can get!
I'm Humble,Smart and Beautiful. I'm working as design,3D visualisation in Civil engineering Lot's of girls are around me but it's hard to trust or find real one .will you please help me out ❤
dont girls want their partners to be on societal attrctactivenesss like how tall a guy is , how perfect a guys bidy shape is , how fair is he , how much money does he make ....etc
You are not entitled to react on western videos where western psychology prevails and not your indian psychology. Also can you tell me how can you strongly say that thousands of women fought to study,
If I can do all the cooking cleaning dishwashing, earning everything in the world myself and I can buy that one night also for money why will I marry and settle with any woman
@@biswamohandwari6460 I'm also a Gen Z guy..she meant that both men and women need to be capable of doing everything and not label any work to any particular gender but that doesn't mean you won't need companionship if you know to do everything by yourself..a woman in your life should be there to be with you and share an emotional and physical bond which no other person can give you be it your parents or siblings or friends or relatives
Learning these chores are important too. I have seen my father who couldn't toast a bread when we were not home. You want to be like that? Like a kid who can't do basic things? And then complaint when things are not as per their wish. That's only going to make the guys look immature.
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No independent women ever denied husband money after divorce
Samantha did. 😂
@@StoryTellerOfficiallyshe is exception
@@StoryTellerOfficiallyexception cases laate raho or bolo sab changa si
@@StoryTellerOfficiallygive example that are related to your surroundings
Dear Women,
He wears old clothes, his dreams untold,
A heart so tired, yet strong and bold.
He never cries, though nights are long,
His pain wrapped quiet, his soul a song.
He earns, he learns, yet none can see,
The weight he bears silently.
For family’s joy, he gives his all,
But who will catch him if he falls?
nobody , we have no laws for man
Hey stranger... I m an adult aged 25 and entering into the stage of the MEN category.. somewhere I felt something inside me with your words... that touched me
True, sharing this.
@@diptashelby7342 advocate for gender neutral laws in India . We need domestic violence laws of man India
Real line....who will catcg him if he falls?
Dear Men, if you are earning good, pls marry girl who is earning as much as you are earning. Do Not settle for less.
DoN't be someone's ATM..
Exactly
what u will get in return ? u will not get mental peace. men marry for peace. in the end if the relationship does not work out u still need to pay huge alimony and maintainance, it doesnt matter whether she works or not.
To kitchen me kaam kerna bhi seekho ladki pagal thodi hai jo paise bhi kamayegi or khana bhi banayegi
Bro, I think if you are making good money, marry a good girl. Don't go for high package girl, heck if you can afford get a housewife. Much less headache.
@rohitsawant5805 marrying with housewife does not mean you are safe. But if you get married to equal earning wife, atleast you will have financial support in both cases whether marriage works or does not work.
I want a rich wife. 😅
Edit: Thank you guys for vising my channel. loved your comments.
Bhai, bina acche character waali rich wife mil gyi toh tumhe barbaad kardegi.. Pls beware
@arunitsingh3518 well aren't it same for rich men tho? Rich men has power so he can also exploit and cheat on his wife right? Stop being a misogynistic
She won’t choose you. The equation is male salary >= female salary
What makes you think that rich girl will marry you and make your her husband?
Beware from Peminist 😂😂
Society has made beauty and femininity such a thing and has always put the newlyweds and the new mothers on the pedestal. Some women think that marrying a rich guy or being financially dependent on a guy will make their life easy, some women think that their ‘beauty’ has made them so desirable that it’s a man’s responsibility to revive them forever 😅 as you pointed out very rightfully, after the initial honeymooning phase, the woman usually starts losing the respect if barring the beauty they don’t bring anything new to the table, also a man undervalues her even if she takes care of the family. Both men and women need to get out of this bollywood utopia and have their reality check.
That's a mature comment right there. Both genders looking to prioritise themselves and either choosing to be on pedestal or a victim, as per benefitting situations, that's the root cause of the issues that occur.
The partriarchal mindset has brainwashed both the genders and both (not just men) need to come out of it completely, only then we can get over these stereotypes which are harmful for both the sides.
the content is fairly well but still majority of the women think if she is earning money her husband should earn at least 4 times more than how much she is earning, this is the dark truth and nobody talks about it,, their vision is always high,, if she is making 1 lakh per month she will never marry a man who is earning 30k per month
but if the situation is exact opposite, the man will definitely marry that woman
we always speaks about equality and this is the equality
First of all, do you have a data on your claim?
Secondly, in India marriage is still largely arranged by the family not the girl herself. And to families money is a big factor behind marriage.
Thirdly, men are mostly associated with their money and women with their beauty and fertility. It is a century old conditioning. We cannot expect the mindset to be vanished in a blink of an eye.
Fourthly, Many women have career breaks during their pregnancy. Some even leave their job. If a household is dependent on the women's income more then it might look unsustainable. So isn't it very natural?
@@ryuchic462 You will undoubtedly bring baseless arguments to defend hypergamy but refuse to acknowledge its flaws or your own contradictions. Tell me, what kind of "arranged marriage" exists in the West? None. Yet, even in the most progressive societies, women continue to expect men to earn significantly more than they do. This phenomenon is prevalent even in highly developed Scandinavian countries, where equality is championed.
Your argument about patriarchy and arranged marriages being the root cause is flawed. And NO, men do not tie their identity solely to their financial status. it’s women who often choose partners based on material success. So please, don’t gaslight.
And let’s not pretend that women don’t prioritize physical attributes. we consistently see that women are often more selective about physical appearance than men.
If your defense is simply "conditioning," then by that logic, dowry practices could also be justified as mere cultural conditioning. However, as rational beings, we are more than our conditioning. Humans possess a conscience, the ability to think critically, and the capability to challenge societal norms. Therefore, using "conditioning" as a blanket excuse for hypergamous behavior is both illogical and hypocritical.
and also u dont need a data to understand basic gender dynamics which is happening right infront of ur eyes.
@@ryuchic462 then dont have kids have surrogacy
@@arpandutta134 because man always wants to dominate woman. They can't handle high earning girls attitude. So first u accept women's success as urs.. then u may find equality
Not true..i know girls who earns 1 lakhs plus per month are struggling to find a partner and still single. She is totally fine if her future partner earn less than her but men are rejecting her because she earns more than them. Recently i got asked by my relative aunty about my education when i told her she rejected me because her son is not on the same level of education. Society is not even accepting high earning DIL.
Finally someone who speaks something that makes sense!! I'm tired with shallow mindsets!
This topic is so important to discuss! 🌟 It’s interesting to see how certain narratives can unintentionally reinforce outdated stereotypes. I believe everyone should focus on building their own success and value first, regardless of gender. Thanks for shedding light on this issue and encouraging a more balanced perspective!
It is such a healthy mindful perspective towards this topics...you are being the voice of many girls like me who feel the same way...people call me feminist to make fun of me completely ignoring the real problems that come with this dependency
Hi girls!Just want to add something to what she said -if you want to get married and what to have kids with your partner,know that the relationship can never be equal .Some of it is because of biology (like pregnancy and breastfeeding) and it can take anything between 2 to 7 years for your body to recover.Please take this into consideration because you won't be able to work,would be forced to take a paycut when you join workforce eventually,have less to put in savings and investment.
Secondly,some of it like being awake all night for baby,being available 24*7 to attend to needs are social and extremely taxing physically esp if you are also expected to do housework along with it all ,as SAHM. You need a partner who understands that time spent on childcare is extremely valuable,imp for mental, physical,emotional development of child and that his job is primarily to support you in every way during those initial years.
However,if you don't plan to have children,you would be fine if you choose to live separately from in laws.
@@archananair624 exactly
industry doesn't care if it's a man or woman, they only care about there own business. if you comparing your personal choice and having a family which is beautiful thing than being a slaves who can replace you in a month. family always come 1st ask your dad if you have a doubt.
In short ,If you are planning to have children don't marry someone who does 50/50 nonsense only with paying monthly bills but not wanting to share equally the significant risks(to health, career, finances ) ,personal sacrifices and compromises which are necessary to raise healthy children .
Not necessarily. I have seen housewives whose children have turned out to be absolutely useless even after getting so much attention from mothers. Some of them even hate their mothers for their constant attention.
Also, if we have to prioritize homemaking as women, then y educate the girl child at all? Eventually her husband will also ask her to be a housewife right? Yes women need support for initial years but they can work otherwise.
@@MB-ux4bb as women i mean mother is our first teacher, so if we don't educate them then what will they teach to the children?
What is she bringing to the table? NOTHING... Not all men are a SIMP!
But ex ke saath maze kar ke kisi responsible boy ko husband banana ye dhoka hai
Exactly 💯
First tell women to take responsibility and accountability ..
Nooo I disagree a beautiful and healthy relations is that where both partners equally depends each other
You think these women care about healthy relationships??
Just listen and save your heart. This world is not that good a place to get opinions from.
3:30 - Errorneous statement. You overlook the fact that India never denied voting rights to women from the day of independence. The feminism movement started in USA due to women not having voting rights. Do not mix up Indian women with US women. Indian women were always empowered, at least in middle class families. There was an entire women army wing in India National Army of Subash Chandra Bose. It would not have come about in a society that is supposed to have "suppressed women for generations". While 70 years later, today women are not merely empowered but weaponized. Weaponized to cause a downfall of human civilization itself.
Exactly look at her she is doing it for views only didn't research properly
bro what r u talking about, or may be u never travelled enough becuase india is diverse unlike US, there are many tribal community too who don't let women to take decision on their own [ever read about NEHRU'S tribal wife?] their were so many backward tradition outside of india so does in india but they choose to change rather than just boasting like us. so stop blabbering and read facts.
@@aliie1802 common girl we're not interested in someone else's wife and why you people are always trying to drag USA on Every problem trying to compare with USA please Stop this nonsense they're so much ahead of us in so much problems and solutions so please don't talk about them.
Now Nehru's tribal wife he (Nehru)was a womanizer smoking addictive person . Why r you giving his example
Tribal women ok what about tribal men are they fine ? Only women in this country are suffering, humiliated
Open your mind kid so many tribal lower caste men suffering, humiliated ,tortured and killed by upper caste, Britishers and Mughals and still they are suffering in the remote areas of this country so please don't give nonsense facts like Dhruv Rathe.
@@aliie1802 not just tribal but rural too but I guess it's lack of public incentives on social & human development & economic participation boost.
That's it
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This is the Reason why most Indian men are becoming Sanyasi
OMG, I have never witnessed such an intelligent lady in my entire life till now....!!
This needs TO GO VIRAL!!!
In short ,If you are planning to have children don't marry someone who does 50/50 nonsense only with paying monthly bills but not wanting to share equally the significant risks(to health, career, finances ) ,personal sacrifices and compromises which are necessary to raise healthy children .
So happy to see someone who is propogating the right ideas of feminism,something I completely agree upon and believe in .
Helly, your perspective is so valuable! 💖 Thanks for sharing your thoughts and helping to create a more empowering conversation for women! 🙌
Khub bhalo laglo tomar views jene. Thank you so much, if only the majority of women have a similar kind of mindset such as yours ❤
What the point of being in a relationship if you are not dependent on each other? If I am independent, why will I marry?
Tumhe toh hr cheez main problem hain. Tum jaise ladke k liye na Atul Subhash ki wife jaise ladki milni chahiye. Tab tumlogo ki samaj main ayegi. This is a very sensitive topic but still I have talk about this. Because tumhare aise thought k liye hi toh us tarah ki ladkiya ladke koe fasa sakte hain.
For having kids. If you do not want kids as many feminists, then there is no point of marriage. Many feminists remain single throughout their life.
These views are purely based on logic and intellect. Do what your heart says and feels right to you.
Kudos for voicing out your opinion. Much needed.❤
I don't want most beautiful girl, I am fair skin but I am ok with a dark skin girl, what I want is loyalty.
I love to be house husband after marrying a rich strong indepandaant woman😂. I keep maid for cleaning. I use washing machine for clothes all I do is just cook for my rich wife. And when my wife goes to office I flirt with women on social media and play videogames. And ask money from her to order me some food in swiggy many women don't understand the benefits of being a modern wife😂
You can have a cook too.
one of the finest and crystal clear video. Thank you for talking about it.
You have said all right things in a direct way. More power to you Helly ❤
from what i have seen this content is usually done by western women, till date i have not seen single india based indian women post this type of content
thank you. as a guy sincere content like this is much needed
2:15 is exactly what i try to implement in my Life , you jusy mentioned the exact things , it just gave me a sense of relief a sense of confidence that okay , i am on the correct path , thanks mate
Your content is balanced. And as a man, I very much appreciate your message. But I have a question for those who watch this video and read my comment. What is the percentage of marriages where the woman earns more than a man? This question is not intended to provoke a man vs woman debate. And the honest answer based on gut (we probably don't have the numbers to back the answer up) leads us to a societal "norm". Taken to the extreme it is normalising the kind of comments (toxicity?) that made you create this video in the first place.
Very thoughtful video❤
I am sorry but this is a high time we value those homemakers too. What they contributed was of great value in its substance. We need to develop this mindset to actually correct the situation.
Vice versa 😂😂😂😂men need to demand woman need to be like how he see her in marriage even after she turns 50
im 19 now but dude i don't even remember when did i sub to you but i know it was in like class 9th or something haha i must be 14 or so when i wanted to be a "bookie" lol i was a wannabe tho, but yeah i subbed to you because of your simple and calm content unlike other ytbers who are views hungry to the point they don't care about the quality of their content , anyways keep posting more love the content, genuinely would be interested in a "day in my life" style vid too, keep up the good work regardless, cheers
First teach women responsibility and accountability 😊
As if they have never took responsibility 😂
@aishwarya2130 definitely they'll get f*cked up
Women in your family doesn't take the responsibilities and accountability does not mean all women are same. Women in my family working hard since ages could say earning more than men in our family. Traditionally women used to got married on the basis of beauty only because they were uneducated and financially dependant. Some women are still living their life with same mindset and prioritizing their beauty over intelligence and independence but some of us working hard against the family/ society will because we learned in a hard way that no matter what you serve for a man they will devalue you if you are not making money. We don't want be a burden on anyone. We are focusing on our career trying hard to build a peaceful life for us not blabbering on social media with shallow mindset
Not all women are like this
Thanks for sharing this
Such a thoughtful lady❤❤
Thanks for making good content we learn from it
GREAT VIDEO DIDI
2:00, 5:53
हमारा देश लाखों सालों से सोने की चिड़िया था | लड़कियां किसी भी देश की 50% आबादी होती है अगर हमारे देश में पहले लड़कियां पैसा नहीं कमाती थी तो हमारा देश सोने की चिड़िया कैसे था क्या लड़कियों के बिना पैसे कमाए कोई देश सोने की चिड़िया बन सकता है नहीं बन सकता है इसीलिए हमारे देश में इतिहास में भी लड़कियां पहले भी पैसा कमाती आती थी इसलिए कोई गलत इतिहास नहीं बताना चाहिए।
To tell you the truth, I am actually okay with being a house husband. I know coocking, cleaning and know all the house chores include I'm good with kids. 😅
I'm currently working in a company but the salary isn't very high but I'm managing somehow. This makes me wonder "what if I get a partner who is ok with seeing his man with approan and House chores". I know it's silly but hey Theres no harm in having fantasies.
It's not silly at all. Coming from a women who earns well. It's just societal roles and it's ok to not follow it. Just being genuine is enough
@@akumbhar444 bakwas ban kar , Gaslighting kar rahi bkl
I just saw a reel yesterday where girl says her husband needs to earn at least a billion🤣🤣
Someone spoke what's in my mind
Not everyone thinks like you however, morally right you may be. Your collective of women is extremely small.
What you are saying is absolutely correct. This kind of content makes modern women look extremely materialistic, shallow and heartless. That's why the term "gold digger" seems to becoming more and more applicable day by day for modern women.
However, please dont forget to mention the fact that most women are hypergamous, be it by requirement or by nature. Since the last decade, this tendency has increased ten fold for modern women, even though they are earning. Majority of working women never marry a man who earns less than her (where the reverse has never been a problem for men). Even if they do, then that marriage ends in shambles, divorce, extra marital affairs, etc. (jyoti maurya case).
See, the mindset of most men are changing for the good due to enforcement of accountability via law and social shaming and constant propagation of women centric messages via media and society, but the mindset of the most women is degrading day by day for the lack of accountability due to the same laws that dont hold women responsible for morally and legally wrong actions & wrong messages of empowerment disbursed in the same media and absence of social shaming.
If women want equality, they have to speak up against the wrong actions and mindset of the people to their own gender and denounce them.
Men do that for their own gender most of the time.
I understand that women have been downtrodden for a long time, and now they are getting the chance to move ahead and many are still waiting to get that chance.
There is still lot to be done in that area.
But a balance had to be maintained, otherwise, we are heading towards an all out gender war.
Overridden to demanding
You are awesome ❤❤
hats off ,how could think of those things and beautifully sum up in a video.
Watching you after months! How have you been ? Really missed you and your content ✨
Females in India got the right to vote since day one. They never had to fight and rightfully so.
Congratulations,,, you perfectly said most accurate things
don't talk about this kind of sh*t, i love your content in books
Hi Helly…Beautifully articulated words …
Because gold digger wants easy money.
Well said ,this is well enough for us
Immense happiness comes by achieving what these women seek in their husbands and then reject them. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 It feels really good 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
I want a dowry wife😂😂😂.. Those golden days are near🎉🎉🎉😂
fir 498a me phas gaya toh rona mat😂😂😂😂😂
@@Goldenfly737 498 is a myth😂😂😂😂even you also know that😂😂😂
@@Goldenfly737 wo toh Bina dowry liye bhi lag sakta hai , isiliye lena chahiye , itna lena chahiye ki ladki ke baap ko ghar bechna pad jaye
i just wanna say thank you :)
Do you live in Bangalore?
Nice content........Serene beauty.........A tooth though little broken.......but man........making the face only gorgeous.........❤❤❤
Before you all comment on her. Look at the books behind her. That's the amount of knowledge and view it requires to be different. She is being practical talking about economy and reality, while you all are trying to be brokie cute dumb little girly. Girl work on yourself.
👑 for you ma'am!
Wow ❤ need this type of content ❤
Nice to see a rational women
3:20 Didi script v achha sa banaleti research kark "centuries" even mens didn't get education in the British India ruled by the Britishers how it could be womens fight for centuries totally nonsense but I agree few things you have told on this video about feminist
bhaiya, comparing to women, men were still allowed to have education specially overseas (like freedom fighters who did their higher education in London sponsored by Britishers), I know percentage was less like only 1 in 11 women in India was literate belonging from upper class.
Bhaiya ji History book v thik se padh lete. Indian men from the upper castes did get education even under British rule. Men from upper-class society often even went overseas to get higher education. Women, on the other hand, were restricted for a long time to get any formal education. Men and women both fought against society and the system to give women their educational rights. Get your facts checked.
@H-oz9ul common don't give me lessons how to read history books
Ok tell me how many upper caste peoples are I mean only mens r getting allowed for study go study and then return to India to only serve Britishers in their Adminstratives no kid no that wasn't called education usse bhikmangna khte hai education nhi aapni hi jamin me dusro ki gulami karna
Honestly if the demand is before getting into relation or marriage then it's okey
we need more influencers like this
Its always better to be self dependent! But...if you ask all women to earn their living then womenkind wont survive!
The suspension that dependence on man likely to lead to abouse...based on what? Is it projection? Because dependence on women has led to mass abuse of men through 498A or alimony etc! This scale and degree of abouse of women has never happened!
Only mothers has faught for daughter's education? Your father was not interested in educating you? Was fighting necessary to educate women? I was born in 77 and i found it normal! Women were educated not necessarily to earn money! Education is essential to self-cultivation! There were millions of women like Charulata throughout the ages in all countries with requisite leisure ( thanks to male slaves) and resources to contribute to civilization! What have they done? It will be good to think a bit about what you can contribute rather than what you can get!
Suggest some detective thriller books to read but not sherlock Holmes something different
आओ मिलकर बनाएं -- "विवाह मुक्त स्वर्णिम भारत" 🙏.......
I'm Humble,Smart and Beautiful.
I'm working as design,3D visualisation in Civil engineering
Lot's of girls are around me but it's hard to trust or find real one .will you please help me out ❤
Being a man, I will marry a woman whose earning will be 70% of my earning.
True that .
Not just girls, their parents too, most of boomer uncles wants rich son in law...😅😅
I will marry whomever my father will choose. 😊
भगवान श्री कृष्ण ने कहा था कलयुग मे औरतो का चरित्र गिरेगा और वो केवल पेसे वाले मर्दो के साथ ही रहेंगी ये अब ये सच हो रहा हे।🤨
ha reference ???
No dowry No alimony 😂😂
But that's same for her as well. Ask her boyfriend's salary 😂😂
I wish I had watched this video some 20 years ago!
Never listen from a girl on these topic. - Advise by alpha boy.
After 4 months 😮
Men be like paid service lena padega 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Beta shubhash algorithm used you 😢😂😂😂😂😂😂
But men want beautiful white girls. What about that?
dont girls want their partners to be on societal attrctactivenesss like how tall a guy is , how perfect a guys bidy shape is , how fair is he , how much money does he make ....etc
No we want virgin girls
Wmen always want tall guys. me being 5.5 not visible to majority of wmen. u also want tall attractive, who is not bald and also has fair skin.
@@yournightmare12 woman also want handsome boy what about that 😡😡
😂😂 good fight by the way
This ATM is closed
female shwetabh 😊😅
Upto my knowledge she said 30L per month not even in terms of year that mean the guy should earn a package of 3-4 cr
how to find a girl like u ... that's my question.... genuinely.. 🙂
Men should start i want huge dowry content.
Only you can pull it off girl ❤
You are not entitled to react on western videos where western psychology prevails and not your indian psychology.
Also can you tell me how can you strongly say that thousands of women fought to study,
Bhagwan kare sab ladkiyo ko 1 cr salary wala husband mile .
Great Click bait 🪤😂
No seal no deal😂
drop the haircare dude
A lot of content is for shock value
If I can do all the cooking cleaning dishwashing, earning everything in the world myself and I can buy that one night also for money why will I marry and settle with any woman
I am a gen z guy, can anyone make me understand that all of you senior generations
And last question, what is the difference between a wife and a friend living in your apartment if this is the case
@@biswamohandwari6460 difference is physical & emotional intimacy
@@biswamohandwari6460 I'm also a Gen Z guy..she meant that both men and women need to be capable of doing everything and not label any work to any particular gender but that doesn't mean you won't need companionship if you know to do everything by yourself..a woman in your life should be there to be with you and share an emotional and physical bond which no other person can give you be it your parents or siblings or friends or relatives
Learning these chores are important too. I have seen my father who couldn't toast a bread when we were not home. You want to be like that? Like a kid who can't do basic things?
And then complaint when things are not as per their wish.
That's only going to make the guys look immature.
Koi rich hoga to tujhe thodi date Karega😂😂😂