How To Flirt Via TEXT Message | 10 Texting Tips
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In the old days, finding love was simple. Boy sees girl. They make eye contact, they flirt, they chat, and then they get freaky. With the advancement of technology, the way that we communicate has changed the game. Our thumbs do the flirting for us. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro presents how to flirt by texting.
Ten Tips for Flirting While Texting
1. Always remind the person who you are on the 1st engagement
2. Don't be predictable - send something exciting (not dirty)
3. Compliment early but not physical
4. Be playful and not too serious - the beauty is that you can pause to think of something
5. Take it easy with sarcasm
6. Don't ask multiple questions in a single text
7. Let them breathe - desperation is not appealing
8. Don't let conversations drag on
9. Plan a date sooner rather than later - relationships are better together
10. Don't send the 'did you get my text' message - everyone gets their texts.
11. Know when you're being blown-off 
Хобби
Texting girls these days is like disarming a bomb, one slip-up and it's ALL over.
so true lol
Relatable
Throw that grenade!!!
@@user-wr4lg2co6z hahahah
This is the best things that sums it up
The real problem is, most chicks are boring to text with. They expect us to keep the conversation going.
Oscar W omfd this is the truest thing ever 🤣😵
it's the contrary for me (i'm a girl)
So damn true, girls are so boring and dont have shit to talk about. Put no effort toward a conversation and think they're interesting to chat to.
True dude
This is true.
Texted her a picture of me. I'm in the jail now.
Gohanfan719 Gohan the fuck..
Gohanfan719 videl will be so angry....
Gohanfan719 😂
text the picture of the jail and will be in her trust me im a an orphan.
Gohanfan719 yall need to stop with these comments😂😂😂😂😂😂
"The old fashioned way." You do mean the chloroform and rag method, right?
Yes exactly!
james fisher works everytime
sak sezo - how to kidnap a girl like a gentleman
james fisher 😂😂😂
james fisher I’m trying not to laugh it’s the middle of the night
Honestly I don't know how to say it but this guy has such an amazing impact on me. I mean , when I listen to him and watch his videos, his tips are not only really useful, but damn I just feel so much more confident and positive. Really awesome channel, I think I'm not the only one that thinks like that..
Arthur Pede fr
Its bcos you're a super sexy Ninja dude
Same
same goes to me, this guy really good
I agree wholeheartedly. I always take notes. I can't afford all the stuff he is advertising. But once you know your body and fit and you can find gems. Little hacks on the collar are game changers
Man... I fucking love this guy. #nohomo
+Uriel Isaac Haruv I love this guy #AllHomo
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
+Cainyoyo (⊙_⊙)
Totally dude! He rocks!
+Uriel Isaac Haruv interesting points ,if anyone else wants to discover how to flirt in text message try Tarbetti Instant Text Tutor (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my neighbor got amazing success with it.
Konstantin David im ok with it. i just like him in general
Oh great, I wouldn't have notices the fuzz if you didn't point it out....now it's bothering me through the whole video...
.-.
Saaaaaame
Amen
I Knowwww,, i can't look at anything but it
+FitzChivalry Farseer you killed me 😂👌👌😂
same
So... I'm here chilling on my bed texting with this girl and feeling a bit unsure about my texting skills, and what?
I get the notification of this video! Ahahah awesome! Cheers alpha :D
RSDTyler
I need some advice here is my question "What if a girl leaves u on seen via messages but actually TALKS to you in public?" do u still let her go like a bird or?
+Jerry Calibre 50 Did she talk with you about what you guys were texting in person? If she covered it already then there's no point for her to talk about it again. You can pick up new topics to continue the chat. If she didn't talked about your text, simply ask her in person. Intentionally ignoring your text or not, she will be impressed.
Alamanda Bud In person she just talks about other stuff (Nothing w/messaging reference) and In messages she doesnt talk to me at all which makes no sense 😕
There are several factors in get a date using text messages and discovered. One place I discovered which succeeds in merging these is the Lynzey text tactic (check it out on google) it's the most helpful resource i've heard of. Check out all the interesting info .
I personally like to use my two fingers instead of the thumb for "flirting"
+habib syed thanks for the tip. (lowkey) on monday im gonna try that
+nEoncracka wolf lol man
+nEoncracka wolf goof luck!
habib syed *goof* luck! XD
hey ,if anyone else is searching for how do i how to flirt in texts try Vaxicorn Text Mastery Guide (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my friend got cool success with it.
"Do you like Chinese?" What the fuck!!😂😂
He means Chinese food by the way ;)
Best question ever!
If someone asked me, it would work because I speak chinese lol
How to leave the nuts hanging out like a gentleman
ayyyy hodge twins
+Satisfakchin back in the walls with the hodge twinnzz
Lol
Mushroom tip.
+Myxers Mind bell end
"Don't send them 27 text messages in a single day." Is 26 okay?
Only two texts to get their attention and if that doesn’t work don’t call them 7 times my friend did that once she thought that he was a stalker
100th like
Lol
Sanskaar Pal /woosh
So 26 is the limit right? Lol
Gentleman, tip #10 and bonus tip #11 are significant. know your worth and value, don't waste your time on those who do not see it.
*_U LIKE CHINESE?_*
Jonas H. *I AM AROUSED*
Jonas H. U like jazz
Jonas H. i miss u
I dun like china
There are a few factors in get a date by texting and discovered. One plan I discovered which successfully combines these is the Lynzey text tactic (check it out on google) definately the best plan that I have ever heard of. Check out all the interesting information .
hey babe how was your day LOL
My grandfather died😢.. LOL😂
Sage Lionel D'souza wtf is wrong with u!?!?
K. BRICKS.Studio bro my grandma fell into a coma LOL
The Freeday oh good so she’s doing well?
@@thefreeday234 is she okay?? :/
How to slide in the dm's like a gentleman..
Start it out with a question or reply on a story
@@e_cxsson6468 i did the same 😎
@@gauravsinghnegi5542 but then she left me....
@@e_cxsson6468lmao
MX_is life damn😂😂
I started talking to a girl. We talked everyday, she loved my jokes, she took my compliments... then she called me her "best friend"
Something similar happened to me. We talked for like a month and a half and it seemed like it was going really well. I was constantly consulting my team but then outta nowhere she sends a picture of her with her new boyfriend😵
@@Halo-lg7rq hey man sorry this happened but it happens to us all at some point or another. The real mistake was not asking her out extremely early into the texting. If you let it drag on without taking action she'll friendzone you. Good thing about making mistakes is we get to learn from them and do better the next time!
Shawn Casteels True true, I had never asked out a girl before so I wanted to be absolutely sure first but I learned and dodged a bullet.
That’s means nothing. Most partners are the best of friends
Lol
Is he gonna be on shark tank?
+Dean Snyder yes he is ;)
+alpha m.
hi (can you reply) damn it i sound pathetic 😅
alpha m. When if you don't mind?
+Dean Snyder he was on, on season 4, I think episode 2 or 3.
Hrishi Baney Yes I know but he is gonna be on this season!
3:48 me when a girl talks to me😂
How this have no likes
😂🤣🤣
😂😂
Legitest meme ever
Exciting
Compliments (not physical)
Be playful
Ez with sarcasm
Give them space
Plan a date
Don't be needy
anybody here got stack in a friendzone?
Quit contact for a few days/weeks so she realises that your're not her bitch who is always available. Then try to get her. If it doesn't work focus on other girls bc it you won't have a chance for sure. And it will be really bad for you when she starts dating other guys. There're enough amazing girls/women out there so just go on and leave that shitty situation.
(I'm not a native speaker so there're probably some mistakes in there)
Max Power:) tnx men apreciate
"friendzone" pfff more like pity zone! just let her go dude, you are embarassing yourself just with that "friendzone" shit. show her who the man is! confidence? if she still doest like you...just leave. easy. chat with other girls. just be confident! even if you are not!!
I find sometimes that friendzone is good. I mean if the girl really doesn't like you then whatever but if you still hang out as friends it just means you could have a chance with her friends that might like you or she might tell you she has a friend that thinks your cute. Or say your friends all have gf's and you always hang around them, eventually they will bring their chick friends around and that's just another chance for you to meet another girl.
+Katicus friends= good
friendzone= leave the ship ASAP
if you want to just stay friends, forget her as a potential partner. dont let her threath you how she wants. dude, friendzone is good for nothing.
Girls are boring to chat with. They think the guy shud keep the convo going and fun. While they respond with yeaa, hahah, ikr, thats awesome.
you forgot the main thing of attraction is must the girl start and leading the chat not the boy if the boy start texting then the hole process is going disaster
Sucks huh😂
@@daudd9737 How to make a girl keep the conversation going?
Not true you guys never answer us 😂
That's the problem,i think u should meet her in real life sooner cuz she can be more interested with u in person....
- How do I Know??
- Exactly!
This is gold.
"Let them go... free!"😂😂😂
Loves how you talk loud and clear
tip #1 your emoji game needs to be on fire🔥🔥😁😤🙏👌🎉🎊💯💯
+Larry The Loner ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Not to much , then you can come across not to serious about things you may say , but using them makes you look creative 👊🏼
These come in handy many times 😉😏😂🤔🙃😘😍❤️. Especially the wink emoji seems to work well.
+SomeoneYou Don'tKnow I call them the flirting starter pack 🙌🏻
My keyboard doesn't support emojis. So I don't use them. I use dots. Dots are fun.
Every time I call a Tinder girl to hang out, she suddenly disappear... That's why I hate texting, I rather have a personal conversation, I rock most of the times at the clubs because in my opinion and for my personal experience, personally, you can notice when the girl is into you or not and when the conversation is nice or boring. I think I am one of those guys who are not into digital dating, I rather go with the old fashioned way, conquering her personally is always more delightful.
Gabriel Lima you're not lying. it cuts down on the flakes because you read body language.
I hate texting, I prefer to call her. I only text to meet up.
That fuzz annoyed the shit out of me😂
Dearic Smiles if he didn't say anything about it, I wouldn't of noticed it
This guy is an amazing teacher! Thanks for all the help alpha M! You are a real friend!
I'm a girl and if the first text a guy sent me was a picture of them self, I would definitely not reply
Catlady Ally bullshit
Lmao on god
That 'let them go! FREE AS A BIRD' is the most truest thing about internet communication. If someone doesn't care for you when you show sympathy it's very unlikely they will ever change their mind about you.
Damn that disclaimer! Now I cant stop staring at the fuzz!
"He, she, or whatever you're into."
God, I love Chipotle.
the boxing analogy was actually perfect.
1. be playful so you're not too predictable(stay on your toes, bounce around)
2. just slip a compliment or racy joke (jabs, cross, hooks)
3. then after a while, if you see that they're interested, ask them out (knockout)
easy to understand but scary effective.
Giving great advice while still being funny and entertaining. Love the videos, keep up the awesome work Alpha :)
Wish you didn't point out the fuzz.. Couldn't stop looking, thru out the whole video
same
This is funny asf. I can't take it serious
I wouldn't have noticed the fuzz if you didn't say anything about it
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. You dont take too much time, your videos are too the point, and your humour is right on point. Keep it up man! You've earned my respect, and my sub.
🙌🏼 great video! BEST CHNNEL for gentlemans!
Greetings Anderson and Wilson🇨🇭🇨🇭
This video is meant to be for Men but what I'm doing here ? Cuz I'm in love with the way this guy speaks , I kinda crushing on him currently 🤩 and as I observed most of his sayings are true when it comes to girls. Go with his advice guys u r getting the gal .😄
The part with sarcasm is the most true, especially because within texting the other person will think that you are serious when saying stuff like "Yeah, I am going to punch Tom in the face because he forgot my birthday" especially when you forget to put the emojis. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aaron you should do a whole video on when its okay to quit. All i've heard for the last Nine months from my teachers, parents, friends, etc, is that you should never ever quit anything. period. And yeah i get that you cant throw in the towel when the going gets tough, and I think i do a pretty good job pushing through adversity. But i just need someone to tell me when, the girl I'm chasing just isn't worth it, or when the reward is far less than the work put into it. I need help becoming a quitter. I'd love to have a discussion over this topic too! thank you for your amazing work!!!!
the question is... why do you think it isnt worth it?
UrbanDanger ! You know it just feels like I'm putting too much time into things that never pay off in the long run. And I look back and see that i could be doing stuff i like to do, but instead im busting my ass for things that dont mean as much as i thought
Luke Hodson there's your answer then.
loooool just been told "would be weird tho because we're such good mates" rip me
Olivares hahahaha
Olivares AHHHH OMG MY WORST NIGHTMARE
This guy reminds me of Schmidt from New Girl
Haha
I'm watching new girl while watching this
is that a good thing?
Or barney Stinson from HIMYM
hi everyone ,if anyone else wants to learn about what to say to a girl in a text message try Vaxicorn Text Mastery Guide (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my mate got cool results with it.
Wait is that Motorola? I thought I was the only one!
naa mate same here
Moto Fam
Haha me too! Motorola's are the best!
yes all of mine came from Motorola only 😉
+Tushar Mane I got a Nexus 6 so I am yalls half brother
I think alpha was raised by sexy wolf ninjas in the forest who told stories of the boxing metaphors of the past. for instance - "how eating is like boxing", and "Barry learns that peppering with punches isn't actually small talk, but still is" lmao I'm bored love the videos
+EliteSniperTV i laughed way too hard
+abdelhamid ellouly lol
Exactly
Don't ever do it. Have you seen that episode of How I Met Your Mother when Ted was "sexting" with Barney and Marshall because he didn't know it was them ? It happend to me. Twice.
fuck himym
+sebastian walteros fuck you
fk uuu
+sebastian dub no, fuck you
Atryan yeah ive seen that episode
I started watching this guy a month ago and now I'm attracting woman after woman this guys a genius.
*My tips:*
1. Don't think too much on what your response will be, make it as spontaneous as possible (just as much as a face-to-face conversation is).
2. Emojis. Lots and lots of emojis.
3. Don't ask too much at once.
4. Be yourself, and don't whine if you're ignored. He/she doesn't like you, move on.
Arnau Leoni you look like a bitch if you use too many emojis.
Dont be like if u r ignored move on nah I don't let girls go off the hook that easy chicks now that that's why thy r so to me attracted😂
Hm thanks
Is it just me or are a lot of girls incapable of keeping a conversation going...? one word messages i don't even reply...
I've had that problem a lot and idk if it's me or if some of them are just bad at texting
so true. it's really hard to keep the conversation going when you're the only engaged in talking with them
they tend to have a lot of guys pursuing them at once. when you have to reply to that many people you just 1)care less and 2)don't have time for long convos. Honestly many hot girls would rather use texting just to set up times to meet you. leave the getting to know her for real life. Hot girls much prefer that way more than through text. again, they don't see it as important to text guys they don't know well. Can you flirt? if not your text game will suffer. don't try and be all inquisitive. for really hot girls use text to make plans and that's it. only if she's your girlfriend does texting really matter. prior to that she doesn't know you from Adam
Word
I'm a girl and it's the opposite for me
Haven't even started watching and I already know I'm gonna laugh a lot 😂
Your intro reminds me of the brazzers intro for some reason.
It does
+Funny M
this dude is smooth with it in ALL his videos. i cant say this abt 100% other youtubers
Of course alpha is at the most searched he's got a ton of good vids for men I glad you alive and seen your vids bro
"Really" had my dying!😂
"I look like Taylor Lautner."
😂
lmfao before he got fat 😂😂😂
+grizzlygangsk8r He got fat? link
Finally a youtuber without an iphone 😂
Fuck you
@@jeraldthomas4381 no u
@@74G_ yes him
Alpha you’ve helped save my marriage and I just want to thank you.
When I talk in person I always have a story I tend not to get people bored but when I text I AM MR.BORING XD
ThatGuy ThatPWNDYOU same ha ha
Thanks for the tips which has improved me in many ways. Keep up the great work brotha!
Lmao, this video was hilarious. Your videos have always been informative but they are getting funnier by the day, love it.
Hey Alpha,
"How to be confident in an English speaking country when English isn't your mother tongue?"
You like a sex???
Works every time
I don't know about girls opinions on that but I tend to actually find it quite cute when a girl isn't speaking my language as her mothertoungh and when she's still confident somehow and trying her best speaking it to me it's kind of interesting and adventurous you know
U me sex
Buy a new mother
let your duck do the talking.(hope he knows Engrish)
What I learned is that still situations can be changed and people can be replaced...you live once,go and propose your crush, otherwise move on..😉
man,, this guy is a vibe, whenever i open his videos I just bust in laughter
Nyeh I just need your hair and your face then I will completely got the girl 😂
King King not to mention good grammar.
That fuzz is bugging me so hard.
Crazy addiction to our phones? Nonsense! **playing game on phone while listening to video**
Why do I always end up watching his vids at like 10 or 11 o'clock at night
Can you do a video on what teens could wear that's casual/or dressy yet good looking for settings like party's to simple hangouts.
Yall know you're desperate when you're watching the old intro alpha vids
If a woman is constantly occupied with her phone and social networking, I don't wanna date her anyways.
Brother! I'm the same!
+Mark Morris i agree but thats like a lot of girls nowadays,. They're on their phones all day even on dates
+Peter PW So they are not valuable enough for me.
One thing man should know is that womans ARE NOT angels and objects to worship no matter of your interests. Screw girls who want take advantage in relation and dominate you to serve her. She must show respect and how adult she is to take a piece of my mans 'cake'.
Respect yourselves guys.
Peter PW where do you live? Because girls in their 30s don't tend to be that bad.
You should have mentioned the fuzz at the end... it bugged me so hard, if you hadnt told me I might not even have seen it.
There's no shortage of rock-solid advice in this vid
"Punch them into the corner". Gosh dude, haven't laughed that much since watching Louis CK.
0:21 - 0:33 I cringed so hard
You are now questioning your sexuality
Kevin The Cat lmaoooo
Yea that just ruined my night
James O don’t you mean: made your night?
3:40 tf was that?! 😂😂😂
El CH boxing he said it..
That's his Ryu!
Back to the OG Alpha m
Honestly, Alpha has some solid advice.
never clicked notification faster
+Amged Belgacem LOL i know right
this is maybe the third or fourth video i see you use boxing as an example, you must be a fan! i love boxing! incase you see my comment, i'm interested to know who your favorite current boxer is!?
Got amused in the boxing part. :D
I don’t know how this video showed up in my feed.... but I am sure glad I watched it
We all have to admit after every video he does he always compliments us guys.😂😎
On the next video: How To Use A Mirror & A Lint Brush.
4:53 "She was perfect!"
Nope, she wasn't, because she wasn't into you. It's far from perfect in my book.
Just tell her : Hey you , ima learn your flavor it's Brand new , Now it's in the papers
That boxing analogy was very inspired and hillarious!
i love your way of speaking mannnn....i just love itttt.....
This Guy is Amazing💪🙌
thnx for being awesome funny an helpful at the same time alpha m
I'm low key better at texting flirting then IRL
... smh.. but luckily I've never sent the Did u get my text message text.. even I know that one
I texted a girl who ended up getting me to tell her how I like that I enjoyed her company. She laughed and I’m still surprised she hasn’t ignored my texts so far. I’m still expecting the day I fuck up.
remind them who you are, keep it playful and have a long chat and eventually go for a date. got it!
This video was so funny thumbs up
3rd Alpha video I've watched with out a beautiful add segway. Im sad now.
Pro-Tip: do ONLY use your phone as a tool to arrange a date. That's it.
André you're not kidding bud. any worthwhile relationship I had didn't involve text flirting. like ever. you respect the person too much to be that lame with them. Flirting is for real life
Love the way you talk and deliver the message to us guys. Its fun and informational. I immediately subcribed.
4:14 "....yo i just spend six weeks texting ur ass...... " best line ever.
I spent two years texting this one. I dont text anymore nobody not even my mom or sister
sister?