Absolutely a blessing to hear this teaching about sexual fulfillment in marriage according to God’s Word. Every married couple NEEDS to hear this sermon!! It definitely emphasizes what sex should be and mean between husbands and wives. Thank you Marriage Today!!
This is absolutely awesome. I wish a lot of pastors with this known would get their thumbs out of their butts and teach people these principles in an open and honest manner because it could save so many marriages. It’s very rare to get a preacher to be this down to earth on the topic of sex.
I agree with Jimmy Evans. Very important advice: sexual abuse in the past can devastate one's marriage sexual relationship. I highly recommend seeking out Professional Counseling from a Christian Counselor to help work through past sexual abuse.
I think there’s a whole lot more that God wants for us that is so more important and come way before sex. Like Love, kindness, patience, obedience to Him, family, children. Worshipping Him and Fellowshipping with Him.
While there were some items in this I hadn’t thought of/heard of before, only in a perfect world does this work. It’s not fair to one if the other won’t compromise/communicate.
Guys, just remember when you snap at us, yell at us, criticize us, etc. it causes us to lose all desire for sex. We simply can’t get aroused. You turn us off AND kill love for you when you are snotty and mean. You drive us away from you every time you act like that. Treat us just like you did when we were dating-be that guy again. Then watch us come closer and WANT you again. It really is that simple.
Lol! You completely omit women’s emotional nature which drives how you perceive things. The absolute quickest way for anyone to kill a marriage aside from abuse is to withhold sex which is a form of abuse unless caused by medical condition or abuse of some kind.
The same can be said about wives who withold sex from their husbands to the point that husbands get totally frustrated with their wives and start in on them. Its a vicious cycle isnt it????
@@winstongoodman3244 is she withholding it or just have a different libido level? If she’s truly withholding that’s not right. But “starting in on her” will definitely kill any desire to be intimate with you. If she works full time and has to come home and do housework, laundry, homework, and running the kids to practices and games, she’s exhausted and that kills libido in women too. Often, we go ahead and accommodate our husband’s needs, but honestly, we’re too tired to get much out of it. I think 9 out of 10 women would say they’d much rather sleep. The child rearing years are straight up brutal. Couple need regular date nights, regular talks w/o accusations and getting all defensive, and negotiating different needs. Counseling if you can’t talk without getting angry. I hope you do these things. They aren’t optional if you want to have a happy marriage. If she’s on her phone have the night, she has the energy to be intimate. Just saying. Withholding is straight up wrong. So is starting in on her. Good luck!
No healthy woman who is in love is going to withhold sex. Women have desires too. She's either having health problems that he should he concerned about. Or they've lost emotional connection which he should be concerned about. If you don't care about your wives health or being emotionally connected to her no way she's ever going to want to have sex with you. @@winstongoodman3244
@winstongoodman3244 yes, I took off work on a Friday. Took the wife to get her nails done, had to run 1 errand for me then stopped for lunch. Got home I asked for some us time. I was told, ha no boy, that's not essential. Women do not realize the affects of that.
There isn't sex in heaven. There isn't marriage. Apparently there must be something better. So no one will have issues. Likewise robbers, liars, greedy people and mockers ( like the trolls that say horrid things) won' t be there. So it will be peaceful.
If I bring up sex to my husband he literally thinks I just want him for that reason, even though I've never held back my physical affection from him (more than a few hours at most, and that rarely happens) and I give him respect and we used to talk every single day, sometimes for hrs, but he recently stopped responding to me when I tried to tell him about my day, or initiate a conversation with him... So I'm stuck. Can't talk to him about anything anymore. Our 1 yr anniversary is this month. 😮💨😢 He compliments me frequently but it feels fake because he doesn't try to have sex with me or even bring it up. I don't think he really even wants to have sex with me anymore, and I don't think he find be attractive any more. Our relationship went down hill like a snowball the past 3 months.
I’m so sorry. I experienced this in a past relationship that didn’t end well, so his behavior is raising a lot of red flags. I hope and pray you guys have aggressively tried to address the issues either in marriage counseling or individual counseling. Trust me, you do not want to wait. Seek counseling today if you haven’t already
I appreciate your putting some of your stuff on You Tube. I also don’t have a Problem with you leaving a an area on your site where I can give a donation, off, appreciation offer or buy Items you are offering for sale to support the work you are doing. However, I don’t like your infomercial trying to sell me something or get me to commit to sending you monthly donations. It makes me feel as if your organization is not really about doing God’s work, but a mega church interested if filling your pockets.
He is pastor with a great teaching! And Jerry Farwell's son is also Christian in Liberty university!! How can I trust who is right or not after Farwell sin and his wife?!! Oh Lord who is real and true instead of you?
Speak up man !! Or just shut your mouth and lose that weight !!! Shave , take a bath !! Do what ever it takes to help her feel more comfortable with you !!! If you just sit and give up , it's part your fault !! Make her listen to this !!! ( I know !)
I dunno. There’s something about these talks from Christian’s and how they never discuss birth control or contraception that seems very odd to me. It would be nice if this topic was addressed more :)
That’s mainly because birth control and contraception were only just recently invented coupled with the the fact that sex is a married activity. Those aren’t needed in marriage.
While I see your point, the understanding of what it means to waste sperm in this sense and what it means to be actively and conciously saying "no" to procreation is more so what I'm getting at when it comes to Christian understandings... @@SippenSomeTea
Sure, but contraception and birth control are certainly practiced with regularity in most Christian marriages, so just because they're recent developments, I would think that would mean all the more reason to discuss them as Christian's..@@ray.swayze227
Children of the most high God don't be deceived in the last days Many will come in my name but will be far from me. Pray for discernment! Because anyone that throws up horns is not of God! That's witchcraft! Please go look up the 2 fingers that the world says means peace which don't and also look up the horns. The music industry is number one in doing this. May God open eyes in Jesus Christ name
Jimmy Evans explains that statistic in other videos; He says women need sacrifice, and men need honor. That’s why doing chores and other things that support her when you don’t have the time, energy, or interest to do them is a way to value her and thereby stimulate her sexually. Check out his other good vids. :)
@@agnusplum9336 I like his videos and I enjoyed this one. I just disagree with this one point. To be fair the study that my view is based on is contradicted by another study so I'll take one step back and say maybe he's wrong.
@@namekyoyo The real issue is, "WHO " MADE THIS " STUDY "?? HOW WAS IT DONE AND WHY !!! THERE ARE SO MANY HUMANS IN THIS WORLD ... SO HOW "LARGE" WAS THIS STUDY ?? TO MANY VARIABLES TO MAKE ANY KIND OF DECISION ON SUCH A VARIED SUBJECT ... AS A WOMAN WHO'S HUSBAND RARELY DOES ANY HOUSE WORK ... I CAN SAY WITH COMPLETE ASSURANCE , IF HE "DID" DO SOMETHING , AND IT WAS WITH REAL PURPOSE ... NOT JUST FOR " SHOW"... I WOULD " LOOK" AT HIM WITH ADMIRATION , AND LOVE ! I WOULD BE MORE INCLINED TO SEE HIM LATER IN THE BED ROOM !!! THAT " IS" A FACT !!!
@@lilypowell7594 First let me walk back my statement a bit. Debunked was too strong a word. With that said what you described is appreciation not sexual desire. I dispute the claim that women are turned on by men doing traditinally female domestic work. That's all.
I am not so sure about his later point about abuse. WHY should someone have to go thru the pain and embarrassment of “counseling” when they have done their Christian duty and forgave the abuser? It is not fair. It says the receiver of the abuse (out of their control) is “damaged goods.”
WHEN YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH ABUSE ...YOU " BOTH" NEED HELP !! YOU THINK IT JUST GOES AWAY BECAUSE YOUR FORGIVING !?? THEN YOUR JUST FOOLING YOURSELF!! MORE LIKE. YOU HAVE NOT ONE IDEA WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT !!
Not one Idea? My wife suffered greatly thru years of sexual abuse in grade school. She forgave him and stood by him as he went thru some very difficult times in his own life. But that changed NOTHING in how she viewed sex. (hated it) I have been living with the aftermath for over 40 years. I know EXACTLY what I am talking about. Of course it does not just go away. But going thru the process of counseling and therapy (which many say is needed after many kinds of abuse) is extremely painful. Why should she have to do that?
@@davidwaggoner5901 I can answer that… Counseling helps a person deal with the after effects forgiveness doesn’t take care of. There are things we think and feel after abuse that seem permanent-like sex is disgusting, men’s genitals are revolting, certain acts trigger trauma all over again-there’s quite a list going on in the psyche of someone abused. It’s almost impossible to not feel loathing about sex, especially after the newness of a relationship wanes and the husband becomes grouchy before sex, or has become bored and wants more adventure in the bedroom. This makes the wife feel she needs to perform…again…which triggers feeling used and abused…all over again every time. With time, counseling helps the wife process the difference between sex and making love. Both should attend counseling so the husband can learn words and actions to avoid, and how to remember his critical role in helping her feel safe, cherished, and truly loved. Same thing for the wife if the husband was the one abused. Counseling helps the couple gain healthier perspectives of sex, and reduces disappointment from unmet expectations, as well as anxiety as bedtime draws near.
@@ggrace1133 Yes. Certain acts are triggers. PTSD triggers. Or in our case CPTSD. The abuse was also coupled with her mother teaching her that all sex is the invention of the devil and God hates every part of it. I see very little gain from addressing all of that stuff; it is putting her thru a lot of pain just so I can have my jollies. That is beyond selfish on my part.
So this is the only place I’m getting hung up and I’d love for someone to give me an answer He says to maintain purity and not get caught up in fantasy, but he says that dressing up like Batman is okay. Where is the line in fantasy and role play and dressing up, and not lusting and fantasizing having sex with someone other than your wife?
So he is saying that even married couples are to maintain purity, and that means not committing adultery. Christ said in the Bible if you look at a woman to lust after her (in your thoughts, fantasizing), you might well have committed adultery against your spouse with them. So that’s ruled out, that fantasy. I think with Batman, he was being sarcastic and saying yes for the couple, you are permitted under God to explore one another. Stop limiting yourselves essentially. I don’t think he was directly referring to role play but if that’s what you and your spouse want to explore as well, then by all means. I hope this helps :)
My man is in pornografie, masturbeicion, and I think he have a afaire right now. What kann I do in this case? He is violent, he don‘ t have any time for me, he is nervous all the time at home. But by his office , he is nice whit all people, he go out with women to take lunch( coworkers), he had allways enough time. It is very hard for me to be the servent for my man in bed. What kann I do, because I love my man, and our family.
Dear Mirela, I am sorry to hear about your challenges in marriage. Just few questions: what is the foundation of your marriage? Do you have a relationship with Jesus Christ.? What are conflict resolution strategies.
The number ONE TRUTH of marriage, Once you get married there is no sex life for you as a husband.! I know I have been trapped in a 31 years sexless marriage.! I have prayed to god for help and surprise god did NOT help.!
That sounds like a you problem. I know of a lot of married couples that have sex and have been married for years. Maybe you weren’t supposed to marry that person and God told you that, but you did it anyways, could be that or could not be that…only God knows
I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination).
Hey brother, I felt that way too and still struggle with that concept. This is most likely due to a few things that may have happened in your early life. Like being around people who are legalistic or super religious and treat it as something that is evil. Having a family who is very prude and never discussed sex to you in a healthy and biblical way or they made it feel like a shameful and disgusting act. That sex was ONLY for having babies and anything beyond that is sinful and shameful. It could also be a lack of sex education. Most parents don't explain this to their children because it is a bit embarrassing and they think their children will become promiscuous. When in reality they are growing and by the time they reach puberty they are already aware of these new feelings and they are already curious and they end up learning from other kids or worse they end up turning to pornography out of their curiosity and they get the wrong idea about what sex is supposed to be. When the time is right they need to be sat down and explained that their bodies are going through changes (show them a medical graph and if they are a boy or girl explain to them what will take place as they go through these changes) Then they need to be told about when men and women get together and decide to get married that is when God wants that couple to enjoy sex and also to have children. You don't have to be nasty but just tell them plainly what happens and that it's ok between a husband and wife because if they have a baby both parents will be present and that child will grow up in a healthy environment. That way they won't be curious. They know what it's for & the appropriate time and they have the right view of sex. It's not dirty nasty or forbidden. It just has it's time and place. Hope you can see this too and that you can have a wife (if you don't already) and enjoy all the blessings of sex and marriage God planned for you. God bless brother.
This really blessed me. I always vent to my husband that there’s not enough support for marriages. I’ll be supporting this ministry.
Absolutely a blessing to hear this teaching about sexual fulfillment in marriage according to God’s Word. Every married couple NEEDS to hear this sermon!! It definitely emphasizes what sex should be and mean between husbands and wives. Thank you Marriage Today!!
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This is absolutely awesome. I wish a lot of pastors with this known would get their thumbs out of their butts and teach people these principles in an open and honest manner because it could save so many marriages. It’s very rare to get a preacher to be this down to earth on the topic of sex.
Thank you God for using pastor Jimmy to educate the body of christ with these teachings for a better marriage
Churches that have "Couple's Retreats" could use this to help their marriages become stronger.
The best advice about sex in your marriage that Ive ever heard.
I agree with Jimmy Evans.
Very important advice: sexual abuse in the past can devastate one's marriage sexual relationship.
I highly recommend seeking out Professional Counseling from a Christian Counselor to help work through past sexual abuse.
Thank God for this sermon Rev. Evans!
I think there’s a whole lot more that God wants for us that is so more important and come way before sex. Like Love, kindness, patience, obedience to Him, family, children. Worshipping Him and Fellowshipping with Him.
Thanks Pastor
While there were some items in this I hadn’t thought of/heard of before, only in a perfect world does this work. It’s not fair to one if the other won’t compromise/communicate.
Was it an ordinary Sunday sermon?! Or for a conference? What a cool pastor and church! I wish I could join this church
Conference.
“You gotta talk” great teaching, thank you.
Great Tips :)
Wow, i like the teaching, just on point and fulfilling
Guys, just remember when you snap at us, yell at us, criticize us, etc. it causes us to lose all desire for sex. We simply can’t get aroused. You turn us off AND kill love for you when you are snotty and mean. You drive us away from you every time you act like that. Treat us just like you did when we were dating-be that guy again. Then watch us come closer and WANT you again. It really is that simple.
Lol! You completely omit women’s emotional nature which drives how you perceive things. The absolute quickest way for anyone to kill a marriage aside from abuse is to withhold sex which is a form of abuse unless caused by medical condition or abuse of some kind.
The same can be said about wives who withold sex from their husbands to the point that husbands get totally frustrated with their wives and start in on them. Its a vicious cycle isnt it????
@@winstongoodman3244 is she withholding it or just have a different libido level? If she’s truly withholding that’s not right. But “starting in on her” will definitely kill any desire to be intimate with you. If she works full time and has to come home and do housework, laundry, homework, and running the kids to practices and games, she’s exhausted and that kills libido in women too. Often, we go ahead and accommodate our husband’s needs, but honestly, we’re too tired to get much out of it. I think 9 out of 10 women would say they’d much rather sleep. The child rearing years are straight up brutal. Couple need regular date nights, regular talks w/o accusations and getting all defensive, and negotiating different needs. Counseling if you can’t talk without getting angry.
I hope you do these things. They aren’t optional if you want to have a happy marriage. If she’s on her phone have the night, she has the energy to be intimate. Just saying. Withholding is straight up wrong. So is starting in on her. Good luck!
No healthy woman who is in love is going to withhold sex. Women have desires too. She's either having health problems that he should he concerned about. Or they've lost emotional connection which he should be concerned about. If you don't care about your wives health or being emotionally connected to her no way she's ever going to want to have sex with you. @@winstongoodman3244
@winstongoodman3244 yes, I took off work on a Friday. Took the wife to get her nails done, had to run 1 errand for me then stopped for lunch. Got home I asked for some us time. I was told, ha no boy, that's not essential. Women do not realize the affects of that.
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I agree my devices and emails are not locked can’t say the same for his
I can’t identify with anything about this video in my sexless marriage almost 30 years! But I’m happy for you if you are having a happy time in yours!
Great talk on this topic :)
There isn't sex in heaven. There isn't marriage. Apparently there must be something better. So no one will have issues. Likewise robbers, liars, greedy people and mockers ( like the trolls that say horrid things) won' t be there. So it will be peaceful.
If I bring up sex to my husband he literally thinks I just want him for that reason, even though I've never held back my physical affection from him (more than a few hours at most, and that rarely happens) and I give him respect and we used to talk every single day, sometimes for hrs, but he recently stopped responding to me when I tried to tell him about my day, or initiate a conversation with him... So I'm stuck. Can't talk to him about anything anymore. Our 1 yr anniversary is this month. 😮💨😢 He compliments me frequently but it feels fake because he doesn't try to have sex with me or even bring it up. I don't think he really even wants to have sex with me anymore, and I don't think he find be attractive any more. Our relationship went down hill like a snowball the past 3 months.
I’m so sorry. I experienced this in a past relationship that didn’t end well, so his behavior is raising a lot of red flags. I hope and pray you guys have aggressively tried to address the issues either in marriage counseling or individual counseling. Trust me, you do not want to wait. Seek counseling today if you haven’t already
3:44 especially the bushes...
@marriedtoday have u translation the book to indonesian languages?
Amen 🙏 thanks 😊 🙏
You can’t bench press while listening to this. You’ll get stuck under the weight laughing at the Batman costume comment.
I appreciate your putting some of your stuff on You Tube. I also don’t have a Problem with you leaving a an area on your site where I can give a donation, off, appreciation offer or buy Items you are offering for sale to support the work you are doing. However, I don’t like your infomercial trying to sell me something or get me to commit to sending you monthly donations. It makes me feel as if your organization is not really about doing God’s work, but a mega church interested if filling your pockets.
I agree, Linda! I don't care for these megachurches and ministries.
I’ve heard other sources claim that men who help with chores get cheated on.
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Not house work for me
I have done everything, taken out the trash, dishwasher, fix the house, vacuum etc etc, my ex never did shit as thanks
Woman nowadays bro feminist killing it for both side
I agree in Jesus
He is pastor with a great teaching! And Jerry Farwell's son is also Christian in Liberty university!! How can I trust who is right or not after Farwell sin and his wife?!! Oh Lord who is real and true instead of you?
I want to (badly) but I'm not appealing to my wife.
I’m sorry
Did you ask her why she is not into you?
Speak up man !! Or just shut your mouth and lose that weight !!!
Shave , take a bath !! Do what ever it takes to help her feel more comfortable with you !!! If you just sit and give up , it's part your fault !! Make her listen to this !!! ( I know !)
I dunno. There’s something about these talks from Christian’s and how they never discuss birth control or contraception that seems very odd to me. It would be nice if this topic was addressed more :)
That’s mainly because birth control and contraception were only just recently invented coupled with the the fact that sex is a married activity. Those aren’t needed in marriage.
Big difference between stopping the sperm and egg from meeting (condom) and trying to stop the growth after they meet
While I see your point, the understanding of what it means to waste sperm in this sense and what it means to be actively and conciously saying "no" to procreation is more so what I'm getting at when it comes to Christian understandings...
@@SippenSomeTea
Sure, but contraception and birth control are certainly practiced with regularity in most Christian marriages, so just because they're recent developments, I would think that would mean all the more reason to discuss them as Christian's..@@ray.swayze227
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Children of the most high God don't be deceived in the last days
Many will come in my name but will be far from me. Pray for discernment! Because anyone that throws up horns is not of God! That's witchcraft! Please go look up the 2 fingers that the world says means peace which don't and also look up the horns. The music industry is number one in doing this. May God open eyes in Jesus Christ name
:05 This has been debunked. Just because women say men doing house work is attractive doesn't mean that's true.
@Dillards Shopper can you explain what you mean by excited?
Jimmy Evans explains that statistic in other videos; He says women need sacrifice, and men need honor. That’s why doing chores and other things that support her when you don’t have the time, energy, or interest to do them is a way to value her and thereby stimulate her sexually. Check out his other good vids. :)
@@agnusplum9336 I like his videos and I enjoyed this one. I just disagree with this one point. To be fair the study that my view is based on is contradicted by another study so I'll take one step back and say maybe he's wrong.
@@namekyoyo The real issue is, "WHO " MADE THIS " STUDY "??
HOW WAS IT DONE AND WHY !!! THERE ARE SO MANY HUMANS IN THIS WORLD ... SO HOW "LARGE" WAS THIS STUDY ?? TO MANY VARIABLES TO MAKE ANY KIND OF DECISION ON SUCH A VARIED SUBJECT ... AS A WOMAN WHO'S HUSBAND RARELY DOES ANY HOUSE WORK ... I CAN SAY WITH COMPLETE ASSURANCE , IF HE "DID" DO SOMETHING , AND IT WAS WITH REAL PURPOSE ... NOT JUST FOR " SHOW"... I WOULD " LOOK" AT HIM WITH ADMIRATION , AND LOVE ! I WOULD BE MORE INCLINED TO SEE HIM LATER IN THE BED ROOM !!! THAT " IS" A FACT !!!
@@lilypowell7594 First let me walk back my statement a bit. Debunked was too strong a word. With that said what you described is appreciation not sexual desire. I dispute the claim that women are turned on by men doing traditinally female domestic work. That's all.
I think this is a general sermon but sexless marriages come with different circumstances.
I am not so sure about his later point about abuse. WHY should someone have to go thru the pain and embarrassment of “counseling” when they have done their Christian duty and forgave the abuser? It is not fair. It says the receiver of the abuse (out of their control) is “damaged goods.”
You don't have any idea , just what your talking about !!!
WHEN YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH ABUSE ...YOU " BOTH" NEED HELP !! YOU THINK IT JUST GOES AWAY BECAUSE YOUR FORGIVING !?? THEN YOUR JUST FOOLING YOURSELF!! MORE LIKE. YOU HAVE NOT ONE IDEA WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT !!
Not one Idea? My wife suffered greatly thru years of sexual abuse in grade school. She forgave him and stood by him as he went thru some very difficult times in his own life. But that changed NOTHING in how she viewed sex. (hated it)
I have been living with the aftermath for over 40 years. I know EXACTLY what I am talking about.
Of course it does not just go away. But going thru the process of counseling and therapy (which many say is needed after many kinds of abuse) is extremely painful. Why should she have to do that?
@@davidwaggoner5901 I can answer that… Counseling helps a person deal with the after effects forgiveness doesn’t take care of. There are things we think and feel after abuse that seem permanent-like sex is disgusting, men’s genitals are revolting, certain acts trigger trauma all over again-there’s quite a list going on in the psyche of someone abused. It’s almost impossible to not feel loathing about sex, especially after the newness of a relationship wanes and the husband becomes grouchy before sex, or has become bored and wants more adventure in the bedroom. This makes the wife feel she needs to perform…again…which triggers feeling used and abused…all over again every time. With time, counseling helps the wife process the difference between sex and making love. Both should attend counseling so the husband can learn words and actions to avoid, and how to remember his critical role in helping her feel safe, cherished, and truly loved. Same thing for the wife if the husband was the one abused. Counseling helps the couple gain healthier perspectives of sex, and reduces disappointment from unmet expectations, as well as anxiety as bedtime draws near.
@@ggrace1133 Yes. Certain acts are triggers. PTSD triggers. Or in our case CPTSD. The abuse was also coupled with her mother teaching her that all sex is the invention of the devil and God hates every part of it. I see very little gain from addressing all of that stuff; it is putting her thru a lot of pain just so I can have my jollies. That is beyond selfish on my part.
So this is the only place I’m getting hung up and I’d love for someone to give me an answer
He says to maintain purity and not get caught up in fantasy, but he says that dressing up like Batman is okay. Where is the line in fantasy and role play and dressing up, and not lusting and fantasizing having sex with someone other than your wife?
So he is saying that even married couples are to maintain purity, and that means not committing adultery. Christ said in the Bible if you look at a woman to lust after her (in your thoughts, fantasizing), you might well have committed adultery against your spouse with them. So that’s ruled out, that fantasy. I think with Batman, he was being sarcastic and saying yes for the couple, you are permitted under God to explore one another. Stop limiting yourselves essentially. I don’t think he was directly referring to role play but if that’s what you and your spouse want to explore as well, then by all means. I hope this helps :)
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Invite God in to my sex life? When I will have one...
Honey, I sure hear you!
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My man is in pornografie, masturbeicion, and I think he have a afaire right now.
What kann I do in this case?
He is violent, he don‘ t have any time for me, he is nervous all the time at home. But by his office , he is nice whit all people, he go out with women to take lunch( coworkers), he had allways enough time.
It is very hard for me to be the servent for my man in bed. What kann I do, because I love my man, and our family.
Dear Mirela, I am sorry to hear about your challenges in marriage. Just few questions: what is the foundation of your marriage? Do you have a relationship with Jesus Christ.? What are conflict resolution strategies.
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The number ONE TRUTH of marriage, Once you get married there is no sex life for you as a husband.! I know I have been trapped in a 31 years sexless marriage.! I have prayed to god for help and surprise god did NOT help.!
That sounds like a you problem. I know of a lot of married couples that have sex and have been married for years. Maybe you weren’t supposed to marry that person and God told you that, but you did it anyways, could be that or could not be that…only God knows
31 years, what would be your advice to someone who has gone just a couple of years without sex, and otherwise there doesn't seem to be any problems?
@@williamholmes9807 Get a divorce while you still can.
I agree in Jesus name
So good you don’t even have to be Christian to get help from this
I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination).
If you want sex don’t get married
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This video is not for you, you can kindly exit 👍🏾
@@imaniannissa6989 I’ll do what I want thank you very much 👍
@@northernbrent6334 Go ahead and do whateverrrrrr you want sweetheart 👍🏾 that includes spreading useless information 😌
@@imaniannissa6989 great thanks! So keep your comments to yourself then! Wonderful, have a nice day 😀
I do not believe for one second that God wants us to enjoy sex in marriage. I do not believe. Not one damned bit.
Why?? What do you mean with that??
Can you please explain?
Hey brother, I felt that way too and still struggle with that concept. This is most likely due to a few things that may have happened in your early life.
Like being around people who are legalistic or super religious and treat it as something that is evil.
Having a family who is very prude and never discussed sex to you in a healthy and biblical way or they made it feel like a shameful and disgusting act. That sex was ONLY for having babies and anything beyond that is sinful and shameful.
It could also be a lack of sex education. Most parents don't explain this to their children because it is a bit embarrassing and they think their children will become promiscuous. When in reality they are growing and by the time they reach puberty they are already aware of these new feelings and they are already curious and they end up learning from other kids or worse they end up turning to pornography out of their curiosity and they get the wrong idea about what sex is supposed to be.
When the time is right they need to be sat down and explained that their bodies are going through changes (show them a medical graph and if they are a boy or girl explain to them what will take place as they go through these changes)
Then they need to be told about when men and women get together and decide to get married that is when God wants that couple to enjoy sex and also to have children. You don't have to be nasty but just tell them plainly what happens and that it's ok between a husband and wife because if they have a baby both parents will be present and that child will grow up in a healthy environment. That way they won't be curious. They know what it's for & the appropriate time and they have the right view of sex. It's not dirty nasty or forbidden. It just has it's time and place.
Hope you can see this too and that you can have a wife (if you don't already) and enjoy all the blessings of sex and marriage God planned for you. God bless brother.
Men want porn stars in the bedroom. And still they cheat and watch porn. Done with men