HIV Anxiety Runs My Entire Life

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    **Sorry for the 12 second fade up in the beginning, just couldn't fix it** In this video, I share several messages from a young woman in distress about HIV "symptoms". I also speak more about female to male transmission (or lack thereof) and how NO ONE TALKS ABOUT IT!
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  • @anthonyiglesias2809
    @anthonyiglesias2809 3 года назад +66

    Googling symptoms is absolutely the worst. You could have a sore knee from jogging and google will say you tore your acl and ripped your leg in half. Thank you for being a beacon of hope and inspiration. Subscribed

  • @kms539
    @kms539 3 года назад +5

    I just wanted to say I found your RUclips channel about a year ago, can’t remember how or what lead me here but I’m so glad I got here. Prior to finding this channel I knew nothing about aids. Since watching and learning from you I have shared so much information even in just casual conversation. A friend of mines sister just tested positive after a long battle of testing and not knowing. I’m so thankful for you and your informational videos. What you’re doing is truly amazing and making a difference and now a lot of us follow you. You’re a very special woman and we all love you.
    Happy new year and cheers to 2021 xo

  • @soyninapena
    @soyninapena 3 года назад +21

    Oh, Jen. I remember your first video about 3 years ago and seeing you now, it fills my heart. You deserve much love and the utmost respect. You are truly an inspiration ❤️❤️❤️

  • @teddy2596
    @teddy2596 3 года назад +23

    As someone with OCD thank you so much for bringing attention to this health anxiety and for being so sympathetic. This carries over to all health anxieties (listening to you calmly dissect symptoms vs paranoia). You are helping so many of us

  • @stevestarr6395
    @stevestarr6395 Год назад +2

    Hi Jennifer and thanks for this great video which really addresses anxiety as well. Yes Googling can cause many problems and present issues you don’t have but bring on anxiety and stress that can make you sick alone!

  • @spanishtryst
    @spanishtryst 3 года назад +22

    I had an exposure seventeen years ago. Since then, I've had over 5 negative tests at fairly regular intervals. I've also been a regular blood donor. I go through periods when I'm confident I don't have it, but then I feel sick and my mind immediately goes back to the possibility and I'm completely consumed by fear. I'm an otherwise rational person, but I can't seem to get past the fear. I'm in a new relationship now, he got sick and I'm terrified that I got him sick. I appreciate your efforts. 💚

    • @nsoul4296
      @nsoul4296 2 месяца назад +1

      I think you would have tested positive if your exposure was 17 years ago, normally test positive after 3 months. Relax and enjoy life, its very short.

  • @user-xy4ff5yp7b
    @user-xy4ff5yp7b 3 года назад +6

    Your room is beautiful! Thank you for the lovely video 💜

    • @m.n.8822
      @m.n.8822 3 года назад

      I absolutely agree with you. She is so amazing and beautiful person, willing to help all people around the world. ❤️🌹🌺❤️❤️❤️❤️ I pray for a definite cure... Nobody deserves this kind of illness and stigma that goes with this virus. Love You Jennifer as a person.

  • @kokkinomalli
    @kokkinomalli 3 года назад +28

    I totally get the anxiety - the month I was on PEP following a sexual assault by an IV drug user was a very frightening time. Waiting for my test results really was anxiety provoking at an already very vulnerable time. But hearing from you and learning more about HIV reduced that anxiety a lot. Thank you x

    • @AbianahBarbie
      @AbianahBarbie 3 года назад +7

      Same boat raped by a guy from NY took PEP and was super scared for a month but I am negitive thank God. Still have ptsd and nightmares but atleast the fear of HIV is gone.

    • @Klxisog
      @Klxisog 3 года назад

      Είσαι καλά τωρα;

    • @user-74856
      @user-74856 Год назад

      @@AbianahBarbie can you guys please tell me when my results will be considered conclusive after taking one month of pep........i am in panic mode and severe anxiety and depression is making me cry every night.............. please your answers will be very helpful

    • @Aj-me8mo
      @Aj-me8mo 10 месяцев назад +1

      you guys need to start carrying guns. Word up

    • @adrianpereira2327
      @adrianpereira2327 5 месяцев назад

      I am so sorry, I am very sorry u had to experience that I hope you are better

  • @ajeeshajeeshajithan5698
    @ajeeshajeeshajithan5698 3 года назад

    U OK now.your smile gives me a great pleasure.God bless u & I pray 4 u everyday,keep smiling.

  • @berencelik3869
    @berencelik3869 Год назад

    Thank you so much for talking so openly from your hearth, it is very helpful to people like me to hear your thoughts..

  • @F3502000
    @F3502000 Год назад +5

    For the last 10 days ive waited for my HIV test results. I got the call today it was negative. I just want you to know, the waiting was obviously scary, but your channel helped immensely! I hope those that go through this watch your videos, and find calmness in all this, and realize in the end, it'll be ok. Thank You!! ❤

    • @Aj-me8mo
      @Aj-me8mo 10 месяцев назад

      Good news. Hopefully you will be more responsible now and stop being so promiscuous.

    • @imgurkirat
      @imgurkirat 5 месяцев назад

      How it takes that much days to get back test result? Which test u have done?

    • @sobhanamini3776
      @sobhanamini3776 4 месяца назад

      ​@@imgurkiratthere are many different test for hiv،rapid test will give you the results after 20 minuts
      I did elisa test and they said they will give me the results 2 weaks later،only 8 days remained😱

  • @memorymkandawire9478
    @memorymkandawire9478 3 года назад

    I am glad u made this channel❤❤💖

  • @geronico11
    @geronico11 3 года назад

    you are a very brave woman for what you do. I could fall for you

  • @guavalimeasmr3435
    @guavalimeasmr3435 3 года назад +2

    You are an angel. Thank you.

  • @nobi7144
    @nobi7144 3 года назад +2

    Thank you you’re a blessing

  • @henryjoshual1848
    @henryjoshual1848 Год назад

    this video? SUPERB AND TOTALLY AWESOME.

  • @bhilligoss
    @bhilligoss 2 года назад +1

    What a blessing, you are. Wow.

  • @adrianpereira2327
    @adrianpereira2327 5 месяцев назад

    I love you, I think you are one of the best person on this earth, so kind and so genuine god bless your heart !!! you are amazing !!!

  • @squierstrat9502
    @squierstrat9502 2 года назад

    You are such a class act. Incredible.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  2 года назад

      Thank you so much. ♥️

  • @Polecat-qz5om
    @Polecat-qz5om 2 года назад +3

    I understand to a certain degree. I have hepatitis C and I also had a wicked spinal fusion in august because of it. I just got approved for treatment today. 🙌

  • @cr8zystar282
    @cr8zystar282 3 года назад +45

    People loved to be stressed 😩
    All HIV symptoms can be symptoms of other issues! However I know getting tested is such a challenge!

    • @sobhanamini3776
      @sobhanamini3776 4 месяца назад

      It shouldn't be،hiv is completly managble nowdays،u only need to diagnose sooner if u are at risk of it at everything will be fine

  • @julial3360
    @julial3360 3 года назад +1

    I’m listening while at the gym!

  • @jayelem5518
    @jayelem5518 2 года назад +3

    Hello jennifer! I would like to thank you for the information you gave to your viewers. It makes us anxious or overthinker people to overcome our anxiety. To share my story, I am a heterosexual male but I am not that active in sex like I have only 1 partner each year. But recently After I broke up with my ex, by the way my ex have a child and her ex did have a lot of sex partners at the time they were together. After five months of break up with her ex we met and have a relationship eventually we have sex not long ago when we first met. Then our relationship only lasted for about 3 mos. Then After we broke up, I want to know what my hiv status is. After 7 weeks we broke up I get tested and its negative. But I have doubts that I'm positive and lucky for me I watched your videos in youtube and I must say that you are the most informative and accurate person regarding to the hiv information. And thanks to you I'm now free from anxiety to my hiv status. Thank you so much!

  • @hiasia901
    @hiasia901 3 года назад +17

    I had a potential exposure last Sunday and a few days later I've felt flu like symptoms, started Googling, and sure enough freaked myself out with so much stress that it made my symptoms worse. I've been binge watching your videos and they are so helpful and calming. I'm going to get tested this week and praying for the best. Thank you!

    • @desiburks5398
      @desiburks5398 3 года назад +5

      Please make sure to get 2 more test every 3 or 6 months to be on the safe side. Good luck

    • @zackattack406
      @zackattack406 3 года назад +1

      @@stratovariusforever1724 is this true i tested after 9 months negative but have symptoms

    • @zackattack406
      @zackattack406 3 года назад +2

      @@desiburks5398 so how long is the testing a year then?

    • @desiburks5398
      @desiburks5398 3 года назад +2

      @miguel Lima I recently found out not all facilities have the updated testing kits. I had to ask my doctor which generation they had and they still had 3rd gen.

    • @adityaverma2492
      @adityaverma2492 3 года назад +3

      How long does it take to reach an advanced stage where your body stops producing antibodies, so antibody tests become useless.

  • @tatalove1875
    @tatalove1875 3 года назад +9

    Hi jennifer, I'm from Miami fl a place where HIV has a high prevalence rate. I do believe you when you say heterosexual men who dont share needles are low risk. Iv met two heterosexual males who to my knowledge weren't IVD, who were with HIV positive woman who I later found out the woman were unaware of their status as well. One man was with the woman first 9 months... the other was with his partner for 2 years and both men had tested negative, so yes I do think there is something to what your saying.

  • @frolenceaman
    @frolenceaman 3 года назад

    Thanks for your information. God bless you

  • @mvmb4537
    @mvmb4537 3 года назад +20

    It's sad that people are actually more scared of the stigma associated with hiv, instead of the actual disease. I wish more people would work towards ending this stigma.

    • @karfeishaolyia9567
      @karfeishaolyia9567 Год назад

      Our family found out about is sickness with out him ready he went mentally ill after

  • @rishi4331
    @rishi4331 3 года назад +4

    Just curious, which test does one has to take to confirm that they are cured! as the anybody/antigen tests doesn't give accurate results for someone on art?

  • @benkoim7142
    @benkoim7142 2 года назад

    Hi Jennifer you are one of the courageous women. I've seen some of your RUclips's videos and was really amazing and I am new to your channel . I wanna ask you about one of my father who slept with a positive HIV woman. He experience some of things that you explain on the other video. Symptoms like headaches,like a burning fire into limbs knots and feel tiredness and etc..So on the 27th /09/21
    he went to clinic and test and the result was negative. But he is facing the symptoms like I mentioned above. I'm from Papua New Guinea and your catches my eye.Your educational thoughts are very helpful. Can you explain little bit about how my father expose symptoms of Hiv because he slept with a positive HIV woman.

  • @tamarawebley9388
    @tamarawebley9388 Год назад

    had unprotected sex last march 3 and after 5days march 8 i got mild fever and after 2 days my throat got something stuck like little tickle.. after today march 16, 7 days after the fever subside like almost gone but i got one small mouth sore .. but my partner claimed hes on prep and got his last hiv test real time pcr which is negative last feb 7.. is there any chance this could be hiv acute infection? Im having anxiety and panic attack

  • @m.n.8822
    @m.n.8822 3 года назад +4

    Dear Jennifer, thank You for all Your support, devotion. You are our hero. Do You think that pharmaceutical compsnies all ready have a definite cure for hiv and cancer, but they do not want to give it to people? Please do not stop making videos, we all LOVE YOU. ❤️🕊️🍓🌹🍒🍀 Greetings from Serbia.

  • @gopikrishnagadde6365
    @gopikrishnagadde6365 Год назад

    Hi Jenni Please make a video on Dentist Department which is not covered in ur videos as i went for dental cleaning he didnt changes the nip of machine which he cleaned my teeth. i am having severe body pains and underarm pains please make a video on Dental Dept. role passing of HIV is it rare or is it possible? Please make a video please>>>>>>>!!!!!!!!!

  • @achevevo1758
    @achevevo1758 2 года назад +2

    Hi Jenn, I really love what you're doing!👍👍👍
    I'm a straight male and circumcized. I had an unprotected 2 minutes vagina sex with a woman of an unknow hiv status. I asked about her status and she said I should not be worried about anything. Two weeks later I went for an Hiv test and the result was neg, but I'm still very anxious about my chances of contracting the virus.
    Still planning to get tested at the end of the month. Jenn, What are my chances of contracting the virus?
    Also, how can I support the channel?
    I'm messaging you from Shanghai, China.

  • @amaran8628
    @amaran8628 3 года назад +5

    Hey i have to tell something I had an horrible situation I am suffering hiv anxi
    With that I smoked hash
    After smoke . I have many problems to thing . I am so high i can not find the solution for everthing I shivered
    I want tell all about me it brings me near suside
    So guys dont smoke hash if your in situation hiv std anextcy thing about that you have hiv infection

  • @cjd.465
    @cjd.465 7 месяцев назад +1

    For everyone who’s going through this Sometimes you need to stand in front of a mirror and say to yourself ENOUGH ANXIETY you are not got to ruin my life ! ….. just know that anxiety, stress and overthinking could probably kill your before HIV or any other sickness in this world ….. So say enough is enough and move on !

  • @zackattack406
    @zackattack406 3 года назад +2

    Has anyone heard of HIV test changing from 9 months negative to positive at 1 year? Seriously stressed so many say they have stomache bloating.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 года назад +1

      Nope, this is not a thing. :)

    • @zackattack406
      @zackattack406 3 года назад

      Jennifer ? What's not a thing the test changing or the stomache bloating?

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 года назад +1

      The test changing

    • @zackattack406
      @zackattack406 3 года назад

      @@AC-kp3fs I had one sexual exposure late December last year. i had epstein barr virus in june. I had many HIV RNA PCRs test ran in the last 9 months all not detected. Seriously stressed now thinking my HIV antibodies could be delayed because of epstein barr virus. My cd4s are 1,570 so I'd be so confused on how I'd be immnocompromised or have a weakened immune system with those numbers. Along with the mutiple HIV 4th generation tests that were all negative over the last 9 months Thoughts?

    • @rumanaxoxo5338
      @rumanaxoxo5338 3 года назад +1

      @@zackattack406 If it’s negative then it’s negative it’s not HIV and it’s not going to turn positive. Stop worrying you’re okay.

  • @iyanjade1489
    @iyanjade1489 2 года назад +1

    Can anyone give me advice Im on my anxiety
    I had my last exposure
    2019 unpro and Jan or Feb of 2020 I had oral sex
    I tested twice in different clinic. the first test was April11,2022 and the second was May4,2022 both of my result was non reactive
    I'm still worried if these test is conclusive enough? Big thanks for your response:((

  • @johndesezio3776
    @johndesezio3776 3 года назад +1

    I just wanted to say that I like what you re doing helping people fight anxiety I did an antibody test four months after exposure and turned out negative after that I started to have some symptoms such as a small lymph node on neck and tiredness and body aches anxiety started to rule over me so I did another test today to clarify myself hope it turns out negative waiting is killing me two more hours for the test answer to come

    • @SenorbryanA
      @SenorbryanA 2 года назад

      What was your results?

    • @Iron_alex_559
      @Iron_alex_559 2 года назад

      After 3 months the test is said to be conclusive these days.

  • @fooduladdu4810
    @fooduladdu4810 3 года назад +6

    Hi mam I have intercourse some before 17 week before but symptoms appear like oral thrush (tongue white still on there) sometimes giddiness, rash fever, chills, lymph nodes swelling, sweats, urine tract infection, stomach upset, diarrhea after 55days I took HIV duo test it's non reactive, and after 100 I took HIV duo and rapid test both are non reactive symptoms appear what I do plan give suggestions

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 года назад +7

      Great news! You don't have HIV! Now move on with your life. :)

    • @fooduladdu4810
      @fooduladdu4810 Год назад +1

      @@Raafatgt fyn

    • @gopikrishnagadde6365
      @gopikrishnagadde6365 Год назад

      @@Pozleigh Hi Jenni Please make a video on Dentist Department which is not covered in ur videos as i went for dental cleaning he didnt changes the nip of machine which he cleaned my teeth. i am having severe body pains and underarm pains please make a video on Dental Dept. role passing of HIV is it rare or is it possible? Please make a video please>>>>>>>!!!!!!!!!

  • @survivorpodcast7228
    @survivorpodcast7228 2 года назад +1

    I love you I really do your videos confort me

  • @justinabajian1087
    @justinabajian1087 3 года назад +6

    I’m a catastrophic thinker as well. There have been several times I’ve been convinced I have hiv. My recent time was having slept with m ex wife who I later discovered was a needle drug user and had slept with other druggies. Between sleeping with those high risk people and needle drug user I assumed she was at high risk. After sleeping with her about 2 weeks later I had all over body aches among other symptoms. I was sure I had it. I was too scared to get tested. Finally worked up the nerve to test a year and a half later and it was negative.

    • @-pp5424
      @-pp5424 Год назад

      Bro can i talk to u pls

  • @patrickmose4681
    @patrickmose4681 2 года назад +4

    Hi Jennifer I was exposed 9 months ago from a positive girl I tested negative antibody at 3 months and 6 months am so scared I usually ask the girl up now why she exposed me up to now am so scared please help everyone is talking about me now

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  2 года назад +3

      You don't have HIV, you're negative. If she's undetectable (on treatment), your risk was zero (there is no way she could transmit). If she's not on treatment, depending on her viral load, the odds of a woman transmitting to a man are 1 in 2500 exposures. I'm not sure why you are scared, you don't have it. Let it go and move on with your life. :)

    • @patrickmose4681
      @patrickmose4681 2 года назад

      @@Pozleigh thanks am a nursing student let me try to move on God bless you

  • @edmarcross5987
    @edmarcross5987 3 года назад +3

    Very2 strong women🖒

  • @georgelee7286
    @georgelee7286 Год назад +1

    Hello jeniffer how r u hope u r doing fine am George I am facing some really hard time I have unprotected sex and after that I Google hiv symptoms after one week I started to feel all symptoms I was searching my body for symptoms I have fever night swet chills joints pain and my throat feel heavy and my neck feel stiff I take a test 2 week after and another one 70 days after that one I got no result back it mean am negative my symptom not going away 4 months now I no I have the virus plz give mi on answer

  • @Texas903G
    @Texas903G 3 года назад +1

    Started Descovy today I am so deathly terrified of getting HIV 😫 hopefully it helps me have a second layer of protection outside of condoms been stealted twice and I can't do it anymore.

  • @VM-wt3ti
    @VM-wt3ti 3 года назад +30

    I was in the same boat, it was really scary and it was really depressing i don’t mean to insult people who have it... I was convinced I had it and wasted time crying and hating myself but I’m clear.

    • @dharmvir8577
      @dharmvir8577 3 года назад +1

      I was in same boat ....but after tested now happy

    • @mercow1242
      @mercow1242 3 года назад +2

      I will test it soon. Wish me luck.

    • @VM-wt3ti
      @VM-wt3ti 3 года назад +1

      @@mercow1242 you’ll be fine even if you have it it’s not a big deal at all. There’s treatment 💕

  • @guidoylosfreaks
    @guidoylosfreaks 3 года назад +6

    I'm a sexually active gay man in a big city. Now I'm very careful and always use condoms but I wasn't always that way. There was a time I was so paranoid I was having all kind of crazy symptoms: from yeast infections to night sweats. I was terrified and then the results were negative. I get scared every now and then even though I'm much more careful than I used to and I still get tested twice a year. I guess that's part of being a responsible adult now.

  • @jennynic81
    @jennynic81 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for these videos, I was told that there’s a rapid test that pricks your finger and it can detect it after 30 days instead of having to wait 3 months. Is this true?

    • @ThatGirlsGraveyard
      @ThatGirlsGraveyard 2 года назад

      Test results will always depend on viral load.

    • @jayleerivera5625
      @jayleerivera5625 2 года назад

      Most rapid test are conclusive after 3 months. If you want a test that’s a bit accurate after 30 days would be the 4th generation blood test. It’s conclusive (so I’ve heard) at 6 weeks. However, most guidelines say 3 months just to be sure!

  • @keenenmahlangu897
    @keenenmahlangu897 10 месяцев назад

    I recently started taking pep pills. While taking the pep pills. I’ve developed a rash and my body is itchy sometimes. I don’t know what to do. The pep is called Acriptega

  • @RajeshM-ty4zt
    @RajeshM-ty4zt Год назад

    How accurate HIV PCR QUALITATIVE TEST at 12th day after unsafe exposure????

  • @ukmary1968
    @ukmary1968 3 месяца назад

    I have multiple autoimmune diseases and on biologicals. It took me a year to cycle out of yeast and utii I actually had to treat the yeast every week for over the year. It happens

  • @mercow1242
    @mercow1242 3 года назад +2

    Anexty? Give a chance to our existance. We are Human. We dont born twice. 😁 Keep it up girl. Life cant break us anymore.

  • @guayo18
    @guayo18 7 месяцев назад

    Hey, any thoughts about how to cure HPV? You talked about HIV and HSV not being the only curable, thanks! I love your videos even tho I'm not HIV+, I've done 5 tests since 6 months ago after unprotected sex with a girl and I'm not bi, so I've never been with a man so yeah, your videos are so helpful.

  • @tonyp1158
    @tonyp1158 3 года назад +1

    I am suffering from sooo much anxiety right now. I am on day 10 today since exposure and feeling similar symptoms too...

    • @tonyp1158
      @tonyp1158 3 года назад

      Thank u for posting about this.

    • @Iron_alex_559
      @Iron_alex_559 2 года назад

      Have you tested?

    • @manuvara6883
      @manuvara6883 2 года назад

      What is ur test result now ? @Tony P

  • @johndesezio3776
    @johndesezio3776 3 года назад +1

    I feel scared and panicked

  • @yodinshrestha2852
    @yodinshrestha2852 Год назад +1

    Is soaking night sweats a symptom of hiv?

  • @rajamanibh8324
    @rajamanibh8324 2 года назад +1

    Sis am suffering from muscle loss due to sideeffect of hiv medicines I can't sit more than hour in chair plzhelp me how to come out of these

  • @childinchrist.3799
    @childinchrist.3799 3 года назад +4

    If you only know how much you've helped me , you won't believe it . I wanna write my story to you.

  • @sinusin6862
    @sinusin6862 Год назад +2

    Hi ma'am am from India 30 years old. I dn knw English very well. I have question please replay me am totally scared 😢.
    My exposure was before 5 months. Today I took test result came non-reactv. Is test accurate or not!! Need any more test? Your video made me encourage taking test thanks ma'am 😍😍.. You are great human being 👍👍👍..

  • @freepictures9036
    @freepictures9036 3 года назад

    ill have to check out action park. haha Thats a crazy story. and it reopened

  • @samanthaknight6264
    @samanthaknight6264 15 дней назад

    I google the symptoms and I was going crazy, so I went to the emergency because of anxiety they took blood samples just to find out there was troponin in my blood due to, too my worrying I spend 6 days in the hospital, I am hiv negative please don't drive yourself crazy like I did just get tested.

  • @sussusjr5333
    @sussusjr5333 Год назад +1

    I have all the symptoms that u can name and I tested negative with rapid insti test at 10 weeks and I’m very stressed out since it was risky exposure with this women and I’m planning on getting another test after 2 more weeks inshallah

    • @MrRajajee
      @MrRajajee Год назад

      @sussusjr5333 what is update ?

    • @sussusjr5333
      @sussusjr5333 Год назад +2

      @@MrRajajee it came out negative again thankfully to Allah
      It was rapid test again

    • @MrRajajee
      @MrRajajee Год назад +3

      @@sussusjr5333 just repent bro, may Allah forgive our sins. Never ever do this type of act in future. For 10 minutes enjoyment we are risking our whole life.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  Год назад +2

      Risking your life?? 😂😂 Women aren’t giving men HIV. You guys are so extra with all your praying and repenting. Jesus effing Christ.

    • @sussusjr5333
      @sussusjr5333 Год назад

      @@Pozleigh I hope I can say the same leigh and I’m planning on getting another test after 2 weeks inshallah
      I’ll comment here after that and let who ever is reading this know

  • @sashamornae3241
    @sashamornae3241 Год назад

    I don't know if not being able to poop an HIV symptom

  • @deboutkasai7009
    @deboutkasai7009 2 года назад +3

    Anxiety is real, and freaking me out, I had condomless sex with this beautiful young woman, but I learned from her cousin that she was born hiv positive, i asked her about this but she first denied,a day or two days later she called me and said it is true, she was born hiv positive ,she was afraid of telling me, she has been on medication for 3 years, but I'm freaked out, I am 100% heterosexual, i don't know the odds to be tested positive,I'm waiting for 4 weeks to go for testing,...but most of your videos have helped me relaxe

    • @unluckyman7140
      @unluckyman7140 2 года назад +1

      Relax my dear. If she is on medication she is undetactable. There is no chance transfer if you are hetero. You are safe.

    • @deboutkasai7009
      @deboutkasai7009 2 года назад

      @@unluckyman7140 thank you , that makes me feel better

    • @deboutkasai7009
      @deboutkasai7009 2 года назад

      @@unluckyman7140 thank you , that makes me feel better

    • @deboutkasai7009
      @deboutkasai7009 2 года назад

      @I I I tested negative at four weeks,after exposure, and they told me to go teste again after 8 weeks

    • @deboutkasai7009
      @deboutkasai7009 2 года назад

      @I I yes I will keep you updated

  • @nightstarstar1
    @nightstarstar1 3 года назад +4

    I don’t know but I find this person writing to you so rude and insensitive. To burden you with her BS is so outrageous to me. You have the patience of a saint. When she started listing her symptoms I wanted to reach through the screen and slap her. I’m a heterosexual woman living with HIV and I just couldn’t image people shoving their crap down my throat like this. Anyway I’m glad I found your channel because like you said most people don’t talk about it and I rarely ever hear of women my age living with HIV. Also you’re not wrong. I’ve been with my husband for 20 years and he’s negative and we don’t use condoms. So yeah a woman passing it to a man is practically zero.

  • @josesoares2366
    @josesoares2366 7 месяцев назад

    Im doing with symptoms but my test is all negative for about 2 years.

  • @rumanaxoxo5338
    @rumanaxoxo5338 3 года назад +25

    Guys please please stop freaking out. HIV is extremely rare and is mostly diagnosed among IV needle drug users and gay or bisexual men. I freaked myself out for a year thinking i had HIV and started to stress my mind out and i develop every single symptom of HIV and it controlled and ruined my life. I didn’t sleep or eat and i was planning my suicide. When i got tested i came out NEGATIVE despite having every symptom including mouth sores and oral trush. When you give your mind the power to do this you will develop symptoms and it will cause you to spiral. Please just stop freaking out and get tested to put your mind at ease. And stop bothering people who are diagnosed with HIV about your paranoia.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 года назад +6

      Just shared this in my Instagram story. Yep, your mind will convince you that you have it.

    • @zackattack406
      @zackattack406 3 года назад +1

      Yep my mind convinced me i have it. Month 10 still negative. Still have swelling.

    • @rumanaxoxo5338
      @rumanaxoxo5338 3 года назад +2

      @@zackattack406 I had joint pain, muscle pain, oral thrush, mouth sores, sore throat, coughing, swollen lymph nodes and TMI- but a yeast infection. I still turned out negative and the symptoms i was experiencing are due to something else unrelated. Believe the test because if you’re negative you’re negative especially after that many months. It’s not hiding in your body it’s not there - as jennifer says

    • @alterego2092
      @alterego2092 3 года назад +1

      @@rumanaxoxo5338 ok it’s just I’m
      So scared so I took a test today which was 7 weeks after risk and doing one ondec19im just so scared I have it

    • @ThexMonarchy
      @ThexMonarchy 3 года назад +2

      Hi, I had my first sexual experience back in February and the girl I was with had so many symptoms and very sick for a while and I also received many symptoms(especially itchy throat, oral thrush and mouth sores) I was using protection and removed it later but I’ve been having anxiety since March. The girl I was with says she doesn’t have it and she went to a hospital and says she’s fine. Considering I have social anxiety disorder you can imagine how much stress I have and also have no one I can reach out to

  • @survivorpodcast7228
    @survivorpodcast7228 2 года назад +1

    I am one of those overthinkinkers

  • @hiasia901
    @hiasia901 3 года назад +1

    Hi Jennifer I just got my HIV 4th generation test exactly 10 days after the potential exposure and it came back negative. Should I test again in another 2-3 weeks or is this test conclusive?

    • @maryperez5327
      @maryperez5327 3 года назад +3

      You should wait at least 2-3 months after a potential exposure and then wait another 3 months after that to do a second test. Good luck and stay safe!

    • @Eastsideza
      @Eastsideza 3 года назад

      Really your negativity is at 2 to 6 weeks so wait than you will be negative

    • @adityaverma2492
      @adityaverma2492 3 года назад

      @@maryperez5327 I've read on websites that for 4th gen test, 5 weeks is good enough? I'm saying this bcoz I tested at 8 weeks and haven't since then, hoping that it's conclusive already?

    • @adityaverma2492
      @adityaverma2492 3 года назад

      Ive read atleast 35 days. But apparently even that is not enough. I think there's a practical timeline and the conservative timeline which is standard 3 months from cdc. But people say that's for 3rd gen tests.

    • @jennynic81
      @jennynic81 3 года назад +1

      Isaiah, my local clinic said the 4th gen test is accurate 30 days after last possible exposure.

  • @googlynile5626
    @googlynile5626 3 года назад

    Why not just take the test???..if you suspect you might have it dont just say it was only an anxiety thing and maybe hallucinating...just go find out

  • @Me-the-One-G
    @Me-the-One-G 3 года назад +4

    Hi Jennifer! Respect for your work! I have some questions, pls answer me...: about 2 years ago i had all, but all specific symptoms (including weigh loss 7kg). From that moment i done 5 Eclia 4th test hiv1,2 and all go negative. A recent p24 separatly test is negative and i ve made about 8 mth ago a wb test for hiv 1 which was also negative.... My problem persist because even in present i have a joint paint (arthrites) ramain at a lower level in regard infection moment, i have a visible nail inflamation by white marks on the top of nail and splinter lines, a little corner crack of mouth...but my f partener which had some symthomas at that 2 y ago moment, in present have a permanent scalp inflamation, and rhynite (her nose permanent flu)...my consourn is if it poaaible to be a rare strain of hiv 1 becauae the eclia/elisa test here can detect just Hiv 1 M and O, not P or N rare strain...( but here i beleive P and N have the same structure and antigen as M or O...no?) or if is possible to be Hiv 2 by a very low level of viremya?! Or if there was/is low (not detectable level) maybe antibody are not enought produces to react?! I mention that after that infection i done a fenotyping and cd4 was 1190 cells but cd8 was over limit at 1200(800 beeeing maximum) and i repeat the test a year ago and than was in normal limits cd 8 at 780 but cd 4 was 996 cells...but cd4/cd8 was higher second time...was 1.4 in regard with inflamation time where was 1.04...so it is so hard for me to can not know and find what infection i have....also hbs, hcv, hba are negative, toxoplasma etc negative...a single igg test from ebv a year ago was 60 times over limit...but ebv is so common infection..and the analysis was an igg...also at infection time, igm for lyme was incert but wb for lyme go strong negative...so...i am so confuse and very consourn..thank you very mouch for your response😀

    • @Me-the-One-G
      @Me-the-One-G 3 года назад

      Ok but no answer...cooolll

    • @LearnwithYashi_Mehra
      @LearnwithYashi_Mehra 3 года назад

      Hey I have some doubt as well....Will I plz tell

    • @Me-the-One-G
      @Me-the-One-G 3 года назад

      @@LearnwithYashi_Mehra you can tell but she never answer us..

    • @emtiazemu2550
      @emtiazemu2550 3 года назад

      Did u test after 6 months?

    • @Me-the-One-G
      @Me-the-One-G 3 года назад

      @@emtiazemu2550 me, yes, many times..after two years also

  • @rajamanibh8324
    @rajamanibh8324 2 года назад

    Sis plz give substitutes

  • @tamannasikder626
    @tamannasikder626 Год назад

    how do i know someone is heterosexual????????????????????????????? homosexual???also i have another question STD,STI Are these what? i don't have proper knowledge about it, STDs are contiguous or Curable.. i want to know about it..

  • @johndesezio3776
    @johndesezio3776 3 года назад +1

    Hey Jennifer
    What's up

  • @biancabonapart08
    @biancabonapart08 2 года назад +3

    I wonder if her partner got checked she dodged a bullett

  • @pitoulifestyle1900
    @pitoulifestyle1900 3 года назад +6

    Hope American technology coming soon

  • @charlene19933
    @charlene19933 Год назад

    I ❤ you

  • @cjd.465
    @cjd.465 3 года назад +5

    The issue is that there is mixed information even till this day in 2021 , some HIV professionals say 3-6 months window period some others say 1 year to be conclusive negative results... some say yes you can get it from a woman and also thru oral sex others say no it’s a slim chance ....
    So you get anxiety from the mix info since you don’t know who to believe 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 года назад +9

      Believe me. Simple. I know what I'm my shit.

  • @_letstartariot
    @_letstartariot 2 года назад

    Anxiety can causes many mild to severe somatic symptoms (anxiety/panic can make you feel like you can experiencing signs and symptoms of an ailment or injury). There are hundreds. Some of those symptoms that people attribute to HIV could be CAUSED by the anxiety about HIV.

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan 6 месяцев назад

    I think sometimes people can get addicted to anxiety so they don’t have to look at the rest of their life.

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan 6 месяцев назад

    This woman could have just gotten a couple of instant 20 minute tests for free in the mail. No blood, just take an oral swab.
    Whatever it comes back as, then go and take a blood test (or donate blood).
    Boom. You’re done.

  • @treymamba24
    @treymamba24 3 года назад +2

    please help ive had all the symptoms for the past 7 months and they are getting worse 😔

    • @sofiabeiser2023
      @sofiabeiser2023 2 года назад +1

      usually acute symptoms only last for a few weeks... go get checked out and mention that you may have been exposed to hiv but tell them your symptoms and your length of symptoms. You probably don't have it. What are your symptoms?

    • @treymamba24
      @treymamba24 2 года назад

      @@sofiabeiser2023 extreme fatigue, joint/muscle aches, rashes that come and go, dizziness are my main ones now but initially after the encounter i had too many weight loss, loss of appetite sore throat that lasted for weeks,

    • @wildae_jean3569
      @wildae_jean3569 2 года назад

      @@treymamba24 any update?

    • @treymamba24
      @treymamba24 2 года назад +3

      @@wildae_jean3569 im negative it was all stress as soon as i found out majority of my symptoms stopped immediately so i know it was me making myself freak out. i literally wasted a year stressing about it. i honestly thought i would never be typing this but if you are going through this i highly suggest testing i spoiled so many good moments of my life because i diagnosed myself. chances are you dont have it especially if youre a straight guy! (no offense to those who may be gay or bi) Thanks to Jennifer for all her help as well! if you see this thanks

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  2 года назад +2

      Well I hate to say I told you so, but I told you so. Thank you for leaving this message. It will help others who are also scared to test.

  • @edvinaskrocas6490
    @edvinaskrocas6490 3 года назад

    🌹🌹🌹

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 года назад

      Hi Edvinas! :)

    • @TheShawnkmason
      @TheShawnkmason 3 года назад

      @@Pozleigh hi jennifer. Truly love your content which is helping others and myself through this rough time in our lives. I tested negative at 22 days post exposure and really finding it hard waiting on day 90 to test again. With out your content my stress levels would have been worst. THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @lizarb4441
    @lizarb4441 3 года назад

    J, what is your email? When you say people write to you, is it through email?
    Keep doing what you are doing. It's working, it's helping, it's generous, it's giving...People saying otherwise are just scared. They can't handle the truth.

    • @Pozleigh
      @Pozleigh  3 года назад +2

      You can DM me through my Instagram instagram.com/vongirl24

    • @pitoulifestyle1900
      @pitoulifestyle1900 3 года назад +4

      Jennifer Vaughan American gene technology coming soon 2020 hope you no more hiv any more sister .

  • @favourike7696
    @favourike7696 3 года назад

    I've been so scared...i feel i have been exposed ...3weeks later i had a sore throat, cough and a runny nose...I'm preparing to get tested tho cause google aint helping matters😭

  • @wassupg5272
    @wassupg5272 2 года назад

    I’m have such bad health anxiety over HIV, & some other things like brain tumor. But I’m gay… & I never been tested omg 😭

  • @zackattack406
    @zackattack406 3 года назад +2

    This is true i have symptoms though. I test negative after 9 months on a HIV 4th generation test. I have swelling under my ribs. I googled it abnormal swelling is an HIV symptom. Is it possible HIV could take a year or more to show up in my blood? 😕 confused please help. Doctor's find no cause for swelling And i seen alot people with HIV say they have swollen abdomen. So it is possible that a HIV 4th generation test missed it after 9 months? I also had an rna test perviously. Can HIV hide from test I'm in panic mode (275 days )9 months should be long enough???????

    • @TheShawnkmason
      @TheShawnkmason 3 года назад

      @miguel are 4th generation test really reliable at 21 days? . I did a test at 23 days and still freaking out .

    • @aktivefighta7347
      @aktivefighta7347 3 года назад

      29 days ?

    • @TheShawnkmason
      @TheShawnkmason 3 года назад +1

      @@stratovariusforever1724 I felt symptoms at day 12. 1 swollen gland and muscle aches ... No fever no flu like symptoms just freaking out and looking up symptoms ... At day 23 negative 4th generation test

    • @aktivefighta7347
      @aktivefighta7347 3 года назад +1

      @@stratovariusforever1724 4 generation vidas hiv duo ultra

    • @TheShawnkmason
      @TheShawnkmason 3 года назад

      @@nyc21282 I am a straight male. How ever the female and I engaged in both vaginal and anal sex. These symptoms are still freaking me out after a test at 23 days after exposure

  • @nazgemoks3174
    @nazgemoks3174 3 года назад

    hi jennifer...i have take 4 generation cmia ab/ag test at 6 weeks after exposure...the result was non reactive...is it conclusive or i have to take test 3 to 6 month....i'm very scared now...

    • @maryperez5327
      @maryperez5327 3 года назад +2

      Hiii it’s recommended to get tested 3 months after a potential exposure and then another 3 months after that to confirm your status! good luck and stay safe!

    • @nazgemoks3174
      @nazgemoks3174 3 года назад

      @@maryperez5327..i read and ask about 4th generation ab/ag test are conclusive at 6 weeks...some doctor tell 3 month is conclusive..some said 6 month...im very confuse..some doctor and counselor tell that i have no risk in my exposure..some doctor tell low risk...my anxiety really killing me right now..😭

    • @adityaverma2492
      @adityaverma2492 3 года назад

      @@nazgemoks3174 seriously! There's Dr Tan and some UK resource websites that say 99% by 4 weeks with 4th gen tests. But not sure myself. As a policy, people just want to be over precautions which is fine but im still looking for a practical timeline for 4th gen test.

    • @nazgemoks3174
      @nazgemoks3174 3 года назад

      @@adityaverma2492 ...here in goverment clinic says that windows period is 3 to 6 month...they use finger prick test that detect antibody only...but i also read dr tan say 28 days is conclusive using a 4th generation ag/ab test...i also have taken a cmia 4th generation ag/ab test at 6 weeks after exposure and came back non reactive...the doctor said normally if test taken after 6 weeks using cmia test is ok already...but take another test at 3 month for conclusive result...thats why im very confuse now...

    • @adityaverma2492
      @adityaverma2492 3 года назад

      @@nazgemoks3174 im going to take the pcr test soon. I thinks that's indisputable.

  • @kerizmarolle9710
    @kerizmarolle9710 2 года назад

    Going through the same thing .can I ask you a question

  • @MB-vt5cw
    @MB-vt5cw 3 года назад +3

    I don’t know if they have HIV but for sure this lady’s health is not okay if she has digestive problems, skin rashes, warts etc...so many things can lead to this. I have a different autoimmune condition that is not transmitted through sexual activity and I’ve dealt with all of the issues listed. I dunno...instead of just saying “welp, that has nothing to do with HIV...” it would be more helpful to suggest “You should go get a checkup for your health.” It could be any number of conditions including Crohn’s, Hashimoto’s, Grave’s...or a combination of a number of things. The main point is...if a person feels unwell...especially for weeks, months, or years...go get some blood tests run! Yeah, don’t be afraid...knowledge is power...but why sit around waiting and letting a condition fester? Better safe than sorry. And I think it’s important to point out (as you did using different words) that HIV is no longer a death sentence...there was a time when it was. But the public perception was never focused on or changed so many of us who grew up with that message have it engrained in us. So if, “worst case scenario” (which it’s not) this woman does have HIV...it’s manageable.

    • @boozilla3068
      @boozilla3068 3 года назад

      M B so I caught chlamyida 4 weeks ago and got it treated now I feel bad having anxiety thinking I have hiv Bc I know nothing about stds or hiv 🤦🏽‍♂️ I need help

    • @boozilla3068
      @boozilla3068 3 года назад +1

      They told me come back in 3 months :( so ig ima suffer from anxiety till then

    • @adityaverma2492
      @adityaverma2492 3 года назад

      @@stratovariusforever1724 hi, I may have messaged you elsewhere sorry. Is 8 weeks also a reliable time for 4th gen test? I ask this because I've read somewhere that after antigen declines there could be another window period where antibodies aren't enough to be tested. So the efficacy of 4tg gen test is high at 3-5 weeks when Ag is present but after that it all depends on how well your body responds to those Ag by way of Ab. I hope I'm able to covey my doubt

    • @vishalpatil465
      @vishalpatil465 3 года назад

      @@stratovariusforever1724 what about 3rd gen rapid fingerprick test done on 46th day after exposure.......do i need further testing?

    • @vishalpatil465
      @vishalpatil465 3 года назад

      @@stratovariusforever1724 it says 24 days.....but it's hard to believe that 3rd gen rapid antibody only home test will have so less window period.

  • @Eastsideza
    @Eastsideza 3 года назад +6

    I have serious anxiety question I had sex with a girl only girl I have ever had sex with I’m straight male she’s had sex multiple times not a lot but few and said she was clean idk tho and I’m just going by her word I was unprotected and got a test a month later and it’s negative for antibody and tested for other stds all negative I think I’m panicking with anxiety can’t stop lose appetite from constant worry and can’t enjoy things am I freaking out

    • @emtiazemu2550
      @emtiazemu2550 3 года назад

      Did u test again?

    • @Eastsideza
      @Eastsideza 3 года назад

      @@emtiazemu2550 yeah it was fine got tested again nothing I’m fine