Unscripted E35: Reflecting On How We Handle Conflict In Our Marriage

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @mwebazechristy5063
    @mwebazechristy5063 14 часов назад +1

    The root and spirit of words..
    ❤..wowww

  • @mirembehellen5387
    @mirembehellen5387 5 месяцев назад +13

    Banange those preparing for marriage you need not miss this segment. Mrs & Mrs Kitaka thanks for putting things into perspective. Much appreciated 🙏🙏

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching 🙏. We are always blessed to share from our experience and journey. -RK

    • @ssegujjadenis9697
      @ssegujjadenis9697 2 дня назад

      How i wish i had,had a change to watch this episode some time earlier before my marriage,i would have been a ready made king to my Queen 3linda❤ but thank God i came across the KITAKA's incredible life changing Exprience and am another beneficially. Be blessed Mr& Mrs Kitaka

  • @nkundwashanice574
    @nkundwashanice574 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Kitakas for sharing your life with us;As a married young person this is like downloading wisdom. Thank you and also for being this raw coz how can we learn unless we are given real life situations. Thank you

  • @bazimbyeevans7420
    @bazimbyeevans7420 5 месяцев назад +3

    Conflict resolution in marriage is very fundamental. Many have failed because of issues that would rather have been resolved if handled well or appropriately... Extending Grace and Kindness come along way to making lasting relationships and marriage. Thank you The Kitakas...

  • @MsLakeri
    @MsLakeri 5 месяцев назад +6

    Honesty on both ends is extremely commendable. Also praiseworthy is the fact that Mr. Kitaka fears the Lord so much so that he always enquires from Him of every situation he encounters. One thing I have come to learn is that life is spiritual and ought to be dealt with that way. Your podcast is such a blessing and even though I am not married yet, I know the Lord impressed on me such a strong conviction to listen in to all your episodes. Truly, my pride and culturally celebrated norms of a feminist woman are being destroyed. Am I ever so thankful that you decided to share these insights! Thank you the Kitakas😊

  • @KansiimeChristine-Aassdd
    @KansiimeChristine-Aassdd 5 месяцев назад +7

    My father always say be patient with people when they are on their journey

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад +1

      Your father is a wise man! It takes a lot to be patient and gracious with others. -RK

  • @ChisesRachael
    @ChisesRachael 8 дней назад

    My beautiful Rukh shana, patience pays,you waited and God gave you A soul that can be hardly found,FK is a man full of wisdom,

  • @imacayebazibwe
    @imacayebazibwe 5 месяцев назад +7

    The podcast ended while I was still enjoying. You didn't prepare my mind for the ending. Anyways, thanks for sharing your struggles. Ministry is not a church, God has called you to help marriages. Actually, I now believe that you are not married for your own sake, but for the Kingdom of God. From today, I'll call your marriage kingdom marriage

  • @deesky3000
    @deesky3000 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your life with us. We have been married 15 years but each time I watch your podcast am blessed, encouraged and I learn a lot but you guys describe me many times. Thanks and may God continue to bless you and your marriage

  • @nabawanukagorreth2981
    @nabawanukagorreth2981 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love how real this talk is....

  • @takanjane7527
    @takanjane7527 5 месяцев назад +3

    every husband needs the patience and calmness of Mr kitaka to be able to handle and manage the changing and unpredictable needs of a woman, wow Mrs Rukhshana u are blessed, don't take it for granted.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      True story! -RK

    • @karamagiaugustine8593
      @karamagiaugustine8593 5 месяцев назад

      I would like to say also that Mr.Kitaka is equally blessed to have woman like Mrs.Rukhshana

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Mwami Kitaka and I both agree 😃.

  • @ninsiimajosephine5881
    @ninsiimajosephine5881 5 месяцев назад +5

    Separating the person from the conflict or their weakness is really difficult. I pray for more grace in this area. Regards

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад +3

      His Grace is sufficient for you! It starts with yourself. Are you able to separate/ see yourself separate from your weakness or do you think it’s one with you? -RK

    • @ninsiimajosephine5881
      @ninsiimajosephine5881 5 месяцев назад

      @thekitakas I actually see them as one with me. This is definitely a good start.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      How do you reconcile seeing your weakness as one with you in light of who God says you are 🤔? -RK

    • @ninsiimajosephine5881
      @ninsiimajosephine5881 5 месяцев назад

      @thekitakas I would call it a journey to deliverance. Like all other things we struggle with when the Holy spirit reveals them, eventually the time of deliverance comes. Awareness is the first step to victory.

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie77 5 месяцев назад +1

    So deep!
    So raw!!!
    Damn, I love this conversation!!!❤

  • @nkundwashanice574
    @nkundwashanice574 3 месяца назад

    Protecting your wife's image in your mind..WOW!That's deep

  • @phillipmoggie2035
    @phillipmoggie2035 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for opening up your life fails and achievements to us all the time, continue staying strong, compassionate ,respectful and loving all the time. God above all. The blessed @The Kitakaz.

  • @estherphiri764
    @estherphiri764 5 месяцев назад +3

    This is Deep, Thank you 🙏.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for plugging in. -RK

  • @sumayamya357
    @sumayamya357 5 месяцев назад +1

    Naye mwaami Kitaka is soo wise....

  • @judithakite3164
    @judithakite3164 5 месяцев назад +2

    It's always exciting to camp here. So much wisdom and knowledge of the Word of God.
    Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. God Bless you 🙏

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!-RK

  • @nisiimababra7732
    @nisiimababra7732 5 месяцев назад +2

    God am glad to be here again.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Bless you. You are consistent! -RK

  • @babrahtugume2827
    @babrahtugume2827 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing.
    The authenticity in this conversation is top notch.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      🙏 thank you too for joining us! -RK

  • @EngineerJohnpaulg
    @EngineerJohnpaulg 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing with us

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      You are welcome🙏. -RK

  • @janerukundo8840
    @janerukundo8840 5 месяцев назад

    It's Shan's deep breath for me😁.
    But thank you Mr&Mrs Kitaka for always opening up. I'm learning.
    I've been like Shan before in my relationship but God has worked on me

  • @caresc307
    @caresc307 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for the podcast

  • @charlesisabirye9128
    @charlesisabirye9128 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for sharing...am learning alot...Your marriage is a big blessing

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Glad to hear that and glory to God! -RK

  • @phillipawavah
    @phillipawavah 5 месяцев назад

    Deep and authentic conversation. May God continue to use you to minister to many.

  • @victoriabyoona4445
    @victoriabyoona4445 5 месяцев назад +1

    Indeed you were destined to be together.God ,bless your chn in their marriage journey. Lots of lessons.
    .

  • @ronlillie
    @ronlillie 5 месяцев назад +1

    Cant wait to dive into the word❤

  • @jollynansubuga7796
    @jollynansubuga7796 5 месяцев назад +4

    For sure lack of self control can break up marriage, holy spirit help us

  • @dalson1706
    @dalson1706 4 месяца назад +1

    We bless the lord for your marriage , your helping many couples out there ,
    My self I went through some incidences ,am grateful to God that our marriage is good now

  • @sandran1291
    @sandran1291 5 месяцев назад

    There's safety in the way of God. "Because u dnt want them to feel unloved" woow, now this is true love. Thanks Rk thanks Fk for all ministering to our souls mukama akibabaliremu okuba omukisa gyemuli🙏

  • @PrimaAinembabazi-ll4my
    @PrimaAinembabazi-ll4my 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks to God that He created us differently.
    I imagine if we were all the same.
    I love the reality in what you say.
    May God continue to use you.

  • @mukamarihoamon1377
    @mukamarihoamon1377 5 месяцев назад

    Seeing Ruk Shana the celebrity speaking from the point of her weakness
    Damn,it's so authentic and real.
    Am sure it touches many souls.
    Hope u had stayed anchoring the news on weekend.
    The ka English 😅😅

  • @worshiplyrics344
    @worshiplyrics344 5 месяцев назад +1

    I always look forward to listening to your episodes, as a single lady I am learning a lot. Thank you for this.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      So glad to be a part of your journey of learning. -RK

  • @kigg_welds
    @kigg_welds 5 месяцев назад +4

    Naye mwe these people are deep.

    • @AllenNdoli
      @AllenNdoli 5 месяцев назад

      Okitegela????I am not even married but the things they have taught me🫡We are lucky ya'll got married❤❤

  • @edlynemercy802
    @edlynemercy802 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you. I needed to be reminded of so many things

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      You are so welcome 🙏. -RK

  • @apostleelishawako
    @apostleelishawako 5 месяцев назад

    These episodes are transforming lives . . . keep on walking #TheKitakas #Mutambuze

    • @Ollie-Trades-001
      @Ollie-Trades-001 5 месяцев назад

      True, they are preparing me for marriage 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nayetegyerezajonan2066
    @nayetegyerezajonan2066 5 месяцев назад +1

    My first podcast to watch but I feel like "calmness" also rubs on others. Not sure whether Ruhk has always sounded this calm.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Nope, I did not always sound like this. -RK

  • @kyasiimirewinfred2566
    @kyasiimirewinfred2566 5 месяцев назад +2

    This story it's same to mine ehhhh God have mercy on me

  • @ahimbisibwealexander4129
    @ahimbisibwealexander4129 5 месяцев назад

    48:10 What a podcast worth watching!!

  • @joanitanabulya9162
    @joanitanabulya9162 5 месяцев назад

    Wow very inspiring very encouraging

  • @RichardKusiima
    @RichardKusiima Месяц назад

    Rather than spend time abd effort on resolving conflict, simply ask why there is conflict in the first place cause, if you think about it carefully, what people call conflict in these relationships is not even conflict! People just never think carefully about these things and so they have to walk a path where they have defined things that are not as if they were, creating battles out of thin air - magicians of you will!

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you sharing this blessed me may God perfect that which concerns you Psalms 138:8

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Amen and thank you! -RK

  • @lonahsabiiti8468
    @lonahsabiiti8468 5 месяцев назад

    So impactfull

  • @Debaye494
    @Debaye494 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing🙌

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      It’s always a pleasure and thank you for the giving of your time to watch. We hope you are as blessed as we are! -RK

  • @migaddecharles1194
    @migaddecharles1194 5 месяцев назад +1

    Woooo....

  • @nisiimababra7732
    @nisiimababra7732 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with us i feel this was timely for me. I will forever be grateful to God for Kitakas.

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      We bless the Lord for He is always just on/in time. -RK

  • @joankyalisiima8242
    @joankyalisiima8242 5 месяцев назад +1

    maizing podcast

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you 🙏! -RK

  • @kabonjepkorir
    @kabonjepkorir 4 месяца назад

    The wounded.pride in.me.too
    Gal God help

  • @KemigishaShiela
    @KemigishaShiela 5 месяцев назад

    People let us subscribe to these people ❤

  • @margaretnamulondo7053
    @margaretnamulondo7053 5 месяцев назад

    This is amazing. need more of these. Mrs Kitaka. How do i reach you for a mentorship session

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Hi Margaret, please DM me through X @rukhshana and we can take it on from there.

    • @winfred4life
      @winfred4life 3 месяца назад

      ​@@thekitakasme too

  • @lutaayam
    @lutaayam 5 месяцев назад

    Bambi sounds like Mr Kitaka endured quite a bit

  • @angellasenfuma1674
    @angellasenfuma1674 4 месяца назад +1

    Marriage is lovely and it will humble you😅

    • @winfred4life
      @winfred4life 3 месяца назад +1

      The word humble must be in capital letters please..😂

  • @AnnetteInspirations
    @AnnetteInspirations 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ohhhhh wowest.
    1. Self-control self-control self-control. Let's train our children to be self-controlled from an early age. Otherwise emotional stagnation/ immaturity follows us into our adult lives & it can be very costly.
    2. Reaction vs response, so help me God.

  • @paulinemutumba9157
    @paulinemutumba9157 5 месяцев назад +1

    There is safety in the way of God

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      Indeed we can surely do all things through Christ Who gives us strength. -RK

  • @DaphineNakyanja
    @DaphineNakyanja 5 месяцев назад

  • @kabonjepkorir
    @kabonjepkorir 4 месяца назад

    Someone who.just walks away is just profound..a pattern that i need to work on as well..felex...u need.to help.me.here..

  • @esthernalweyiso9805
    @esthernalweyiso9805 4 месяца назад

    I completely understand were Rukh-shana is coming from as alpha female it takes a great guy with character to let your guard down and walk in your feminity. The kind who is consistent with their love inspite of , is my prayer. Shana we need more practical things you have done to change into your now but love changes us ladies truely

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 5 месяцев назад

    💗💞💕💓

  • @winfred4life
    @winfred4life 3 месяца назад

    Am scared😂😂😂😂😅❤

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  2 месяца назад

      Why are you afraid? What are you afraid of?

    • @winfred4life
      @winfred4life 2 месяца назад +1

      @@thekitakas of getting married.

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 5 месяцев назад

    💜❤️💚🤎💛💙

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you sharing this blessed me may God perfect that which concerns you Psalms 138:8

    • @thekitakas
      @thekitakas  5 месяцев назад

      🙏 Amen & You are so welcome! -RK