I had an interesting experience today. A woman I dated over a year ago for couple months and who ended it as she had "options" contacted me out of nowhere wanting to go visit a museum in Brussels. I was like ok as she was paying and it was an art museum I wanted to see. Anyway the day went well and I had her laughing all day. She then wanted to have dinner so I went along. I could see where it was going as plain as day. At dinner she began apologising how she had behaved and said she wanted to try again. After dinner her ego was so big and she totally believed I was going to get back with her. She said come over to mine. The look on her face when I said no, I'm going home now because I have better options than you.
Good call. Avoid VVomen who have exemplified ficklety, and then crawl out of the woodwork expecting to be able to project (a falsified version of themselves, as all narcissists do) her way into a convenient scenario whereby she lures you into the role of temporary, and convenient (for her, for now) codependency. TBH, in my experience, even humoring it for lunch and chit-chat is facilitating it beyond the safe and risk-free threshold. [Learned the hard way]
“Solitude is dangerous. It's very addictive. It becomes a habit after you realize how calm and peaceful it is. It's like you don't want to deal with people anymore because they drain your energy.” Jim Carrey.
As the saying goes, "Chase excellence, not women." The older I get the more I get women thinking I'm the catch. Never married so no alimony, no kids so no child support, house paid for, cars paid for, my own hobbies with my own clique of friends and the freedom to go anywhere I want at anytime I feel. (work pending.) And when people, especially women try to shame you, belittle you are telling you it's not the norm, IGNORE them. Do what makes you happy and enjoy. Majority of them are jealous, bitter, miserable or all 3. Joker living his life the way HE wants. THAT'S freedom.
When a woman tries to shame you or belittle you, those are your marching orders. If a woman is going to do that, and many women will, the sooner they do it the better. Less wasted time. Just move in a direction other than them and you skip the conflict and argument and explaining. I show women the real me and that keeps them off my back. Why try to impress and give an image you can't sustain, because that just delays the same result. The ones who like the real you may stick around, and the ones who don't like you will be gone.
@bdog1323 f****ng right! i'm 47, and almost am on the level you are as far as doing what i want. but no headaches as far as coming home to drama, no kids and alimony to pay. i'm not against people that want to be involved with the married life; i'm def against being forced to comply with society's expectations. people should do what's best for them. i've seen too many guys and girls that by body language, regretted getting married with kids, but will never admit it and actually project their misery onto me LMFAOO 🤣 keep doing your thing and enjoy. cheers from southern ontario 🍁
I work a career that's female dominated, I mean 99% plus. People sometimes ask why I never got married, and my standard answer is "don't have to, I get my dose of drama every work day!" Being able to walk away to peace and quiet at the end of the day is a real blessing! 😅
@@untze0 the buttcheeks aren't that tight around here. Besides, I've got over 30 years in this particular gig, and that kind of experience is damned hard to find.
Fellas .. I’m turning 40 soon .. no marriage .. no relationship .. NEVER been happier. You don’t need ANYONE .. you just need purpose on your journey. God Bless you all !! Stay strong 💪🏾
Marriage is the quickest way to lose everything then be forced to pay for another person forever. Stay smart and never get married, don't let anyone ruin your life.
I’m in a similar place joker. I’ve been a player. Been a BF. Chased and been chased. Built business traveled the world. Lost business. Etc it’s been interesting for sure. But it’s really nice finally having peace being single and not chasing someone to be with all the time
I used to work with a guy who was just the nicest, easy going man you'd ever meet but he always looked sort of defeated and hopeless. He was married to the sort of woman that those guys tend to marry. He loved boats and had been a keen boat owner until he married. Of course, he was ordered to "Get rid of that stupid boat." early in the marriage and he often confided in me how much he missed getting out on the river to fish or just be away from everyone. Well, she divorced him and it cost him a lot but when he paid all his divorce obligations (you know, money owed to her for 'enriching his life experience'!) he bought a boat. Immediately his general demeanor changed. He looked younger and stood up straighter and was much more positive. Being allowed to follow his passion made such a difference. No wonder the media has to spend so much time warning that "Single men die younger and are more likely to end up in a mental institution!!!" etc. The truth is out.
I just love how the media, who pushed for a certain narrative when it comes to women, knowing full well that when a "social gear" is set in motion is extremely difficult to stop, now are desperately trying to stop the second "social gear" born as reaction of the one they set in motion; they will not succeed, these "gears" are extremely difficult to stop after all.
Ah, I see he was a man of culture, trying to follow the modern motto of "happy wife, happy life!" We have been lied to by so much of society and media that it's natural to believe these modern myths, like the 'women are the romantic ones' or the 'strong independent woman' (who needs and desperately wants a provider type man, even though the thing she is supposedly 'independent' from is men). No matter your relationship status at any time, you have to act like a man from the past. YOU take absolute priority in almost every way in life because if something happens to you there is logically zero way she will be picking you up and carrying you through some life situation, naturally however it's expected of men to do that for women.
A study found that German monks have a significantly higher life expectancy than the overall German male population. That puts to bed the notion that married men live longer.
I think it probably is still valid that single men die younger, but with the caveat that it only true for younger men. Once you hit your 40s and that sex drive dies down, i bet those single men live longer from then on.
It's so great to hear this from you Joker, seriously. 4 years ago I attempted suicide, stopped before following through. I had no stable job, I was obese (98Kgs as a 5'6 guy) and still living at home about to turn 30, watching/viewing social media comparing my life. Fast forward, I've just turned 33 this month, lost 25 Kgs and keeping fit, deleted all social media, bought land had a house built, moved in and found a stable job that I worked very hard for. I am now getting a German Shepherd and I'm addicted to reading about Stoicism. It really saved me. I found Solitude and I cannot be happier about it. It's very difficult for me to find a women because what exactly do they offer me? I do everything myself. Either way, I have purpose and I highly emphasize to men out there, you are strong enough to do this as well. Stay strong my dudes.
Good work sir, was good to read your story and hear of your journey. It's a reminder that it's never too late to turn things around - keep the focus on you and enjoy all life has to offer...make sure there is a tomorrow as it can be made better than today, through hard word and sacrifice. Relationships are all temporary and should be treated as such. Stay strong brother - man hugs from the UK!
Well done bro.....every man's first and most important journey is that of "self "discovery.....the world can never make sense to us if we don’t have our own sense of self first.
@@awilliams3841 I was thinking of mine, Williams is much better. At least it's not like this guy I met named Elvis, his mom was a fan. He even showed his license to prove he wasn't making it up.
@@anthonywilliams7052 Haha! So glad my mom or dad was a fan of Waylon Jennings and not Elvis. I mean that for the name sake. And I don’t really know if that’s what I was named after. Hopefully not. I gotta ask my mom next time I see her. Lol
Making dating a priority is quite possibly the worst mistake any man could make in his life. People in general will only hold you back from your true potential, there are exceptions of course.
I never famble or buy lottory tickets and the eomrn who will not hold you back bigtime is Even dumper to gamble on. You can just use Them today, so use Them.
as far as i can say, a good man, WITH a good woman, can do 10x and improve on a very high rate. a good man with the other 99.9 of women, will end up a failure miserable and with lot of problems. Now sure, a woman can improve a man life, but its so hard to find one of THAT kind, that it could be easier to win the lottery.
How they project the blame on that one usually goes like "well you are the common denominator in all your relationships so it must be your fault" despite the fact they all act entitled selfish disloyal, they give very little effort, are hard to please because of their endless online options and they defend each others heinous behaviour
It is almost ridiculous how little it takes for a man to be truly happy. Literally a roof over your head, some food, internet connection, and most importantly, peace. Everything else is extra.
A woman would prefer a man to be humble rather than brag about his money and social clout. She wants to discover on her own. That increases attraction. But she always throw in a man's face how much of an independent woman she is, how much she earn and her successful career. There's no humbleness in it. But seems logical to her.
Women complain about "toxic masculinity" while being just as bad -- if not worse -- than they accuse men of being. It's "toxic masculinity" when men do it, but "empowering" when women do it. Lol
I really like being alone too Joker, doing my own thing, being with my thoughts, focusing on my goals. I'm 38, single have never been or will get married, same with kids. I love quiet, reading, working out, cooking, video games, coffee, diy projects and taking walks in the woods. The little things make me happy 😊 Really enjoyed this.
I think a lot of people forget the fact the Joker had extensive experience with women. He is also older so his testosterone level takes the back seat so he isn't obsessed with having sex all the time. Those are the factors that shaped his mentality now. Younger men think they can take the shortcut and come to the conclusion that they don't need relationships. However, they simply deprive themselves of the social skills.
I seriously appreciate knowing that I’m not alone in this frame of mind. Every time I almost get sucked into a relationship, I’m immediately reminded that the trade off is lack of freedom and insanity.
I'm 40 and women hit on me every day (18-50) my friends think I'm crazy because I turn down extremely hot females, yet I haven't dated in 4 years and no bedroom fun for two years. Your absolutely right people just assume if your not with someone it's because you can't or you are jaded. I'm so damn happy my job n life keep me busy and all my money is mine. I love my toys and my time, I love my life.
@@pantherman8719 a lil morbid but honestly man I have lived a very full life and feel extremely lucky. I could go tomorrow with a big ol smile on my face.
I'm so tired of dating. Even 4's and 5's expect me to chase them. I'm sick of having to pursue women and put in all of the effort and the women act like they are a prize to be won. They put in almost zero effort and just wait for the guys to chase them.
I had the same situation. It took me 9 years to find someone but I finally did and we are now going on 13 years together. It is frustrating but just be patient. It will happen.
Glacier national park: an interesting thing about this place is that it used to have signs saying that the glaciers would be gone by 2020 _because science,_ but the glaciers stubbornly refused to melt as per science, so the signs were quietly removed.
I remember 1990 school textbooks showing oil running out by 1997, natural gas by 2020 and coal by 2070. 1980s WorldBook Encyclopedia; oil 2100, natural gas 2170, coal 2800. Looks like an old WorldBook Encyclopedia gave me a better set of facts than the most up-to-date school books of the time.
My younger brother told me once-"We notice that you seem to be at your best when you are alone. You seem to find your greatest strength in solitude." I now see what he was saying.
And it involved good women to tend to them. Most men would break down and die back then without the women caring for them. We are in different times today that no ancestry would approve. It's unnatural and killing society.
I took the red pill about a year ago, I get funny looks etc occasionally. For example a lady at work asked if I have a gf i just gave a simple no, but she pressed on asking why not etc, so i told her i don't want one and I'm happy on my own, life's simpler that way. She keeps asking every now and then as if I'm gonna get a gf lol. It seems very foreign to her the concept. I keep myself occupied with a work and wildlife photography as a hobby. Sometimes I do feel a bit lonely, but that's also because I mainly keep to myself.
Photography is fun bro. Been doing it for almost 8 or 9 years now. Really keeps your mind in the moment and helps with concentration. I’m a big meditation guy so this hobby is like a side dish with the main dish.
When people say are you lonely? The loneliest I have ever been when I was in a relationship and realized I was just being used. When you are alone in a relationship that is when you are alone.
It is not women who I hate. Women's absolute refusal without exception to look at relationships, romance, family, and life outside the gynocentric context, THAT.
Agreed. I’ve even talked to female family members. They do not in any way, nor does it EVEN OCCUR to them, to think about how a man sees things, or what he needs and wants. It’s like this total blond spot.
this is why traditionally men had control of both society and relationships. because men considered not only their own wellbeing, but also the wellbeing of their wives and families. women are mostly only in their own well being. a good example of this is abortion. women see this as 'her body, her choice' even though this choice is not all about her. her decision influences the lives of both the baby and the man (the baby sometimes has to die even though it would most definitely not be their choice, and the man has to live with the decision and support the child should the women decide to keep it even though that is not always his choice). women see it as their 'right' to chose because it is 'their body' even though this right abuses the bodily rights of both the man and the baby - the baby not being entitled to stay alive, and the man not being entitled to the fruits of his labour (money from work). but these factors don't even come into play for them. all they see it is "their body' and their 'right'. and women express this same attitude towards everything in society. feminism can be summarized as 'I should be able to do this, and men should have to do this for me'. it is always, always, ALWAYS, just about them. No concern about other bodies or what other bodies want. the only thing they see is their own body.
@@RedPillTruth2023 I hear you. My mother is on her 4th divorce. no self reflection its the dudes fault every time. I just do a head smack and walk away no point trying to rationalize to her.
I get the whole "why aren't you married yet" BS. The women today are nothing like the way my Mom was; in fact, women today remind me of an Aunt of mine. My Mom was married to my Dad for 28 years before passing. My Aunt is a now a lonely 72 year old, and has given up on life. But people keep pushing me the "A man cannot take care of himself narrative"... and everytime I say no; a person gets either bitter or angry, and resort to assuming I'm Homosexual. I'm just so tired of this "Girl Power" mentality. I had the whole Girl Power thing beat into my mind for over 30 years now, you don't think that doesn't make me feel like trash? - But hey, the fems got exactly what they wanted; they don't need me in any woman's life. So I'll just take the journey alone.
Rollo doesn't really understand many strong willed guys actually want to be without the drama of a partner. To me, the best me, is when I am free. More men are waking up to this option as they are seeing past all the 'programing' pushed by the system that wants men's resources under 'control'. The lonliest men I know are married men.
I don't get the infatuation some people have with Rollo. IMO if someone, specially a man, tries to shame other men for using their resources (money, time, commitment, etc.) as they please, that should tell you all you need to know about their character or lack thereof.
When women find out that I don't want a relationship they usually come out with the " who hurt you?" but lately they're calling me selfish. I tell them " you're right". Life is good.
I had a care-free attitude yesterday when I walked across the city to go visit my family. I really took my time and just soaked up the scenery. What was really funny was: I saw a bird chasing a squirrel around a tree. They were literally just going around and around and around. I just stopped and watched for 20 seconds just to see if they would do something different. It's the little things in life.
That idea that a man should be married and supporting a wife and family is ingrained in society is partially false now. If a man interacts with a woman and she finds out that he is single and not even dating, she thinks that the he's been seriously scarred by some woman, sometimes. Most of the time they will assume that there is something wrong with him that makes him unattractive or undesirable or that there is a flaw in his way of thinking or is just plain selfish or even gay. They may not say it in front of him, but it does go through their minds. But if he interacts with another man, that other guy will approve of that choice-especially is he is already married. Very few men will disagree with that decision. Think about how often one hears married men straight out say they regret having gotten married. How they often warn or encourage single guys to stay single. So the outlook of a man having to be married and supporting a family is now maintained by women, not society as a whole. It may have been completely valid 50+ years ago, but its been perverted by modern society. I don't sugar-coat it at all; if I'm asked why I'm stil single in my 50s, I straight out say that its because I've yet to meet a woman who I deem is worthy of my time.
51 years old never married no kids, just living my life riding my mountain bike. The red pill makes you aware and watcher of people, most of the married people I've seen out in public look zombies going through the motions.
I couldnt agree more! Its interesting how my friends and family act like there is something wrong with me because I no longer want to date. Like you, my passion is travel, and the money I save from not dating helps afford me that ability. Next month I will be traveling to Poland, Prague and Germany. My friends and family are constantly trying to hook me up with people they know. I am like "No thanks, if it happens it will be organically" I am done chasing women, done with the game. Its almost funny, but I have found that I have become far more desirable by women because I dont want or wont chase them.
fun side effect of traveling: it is much easier to meet up w girls because you won't be part of her official body count lol. Besides that, Slavic girl look prettier imo and are often friendlier than western ones
"It's like finding Free Food!" (LOL). Being an Disabled Retired Veteran in his late 60's, I would add, "Before you go for the food, make sure it's not poisoned." Been married 3 times and divorced. The last one after I was being single 18 years. (What a disaster) So keep concentrating on yourselves and be the BEST you can be. I have found that because of me doing "For Myself" was the best payback I could gift to others. I am now 6 yrs in and I am enjoying life. I also solo RV and maybe I will see you on the road.
It's good to see older warriors doing their own thing and enjoying life, it gives me extra hope for the future. I'm 5 years away from hitting my 20 and I'll be 38 when I retire. I only had to put the proverbial hand on the stovetop once to learn my lesson though. I've had my two kids, so I'm done having kids, there is zero further benefit I can derive from marriage. I plan to get an RV and a motorcycle trailer myself when my apartment lease runs out.
One of my favorite lines from Star Trek TNG is when Chief O'brian was talking to a Cardassian. He said, "I don't hate you, Cardassian. I hate what I've become because of you." That's how I feel about women.
You are the priority in your life and no one else. The dreams other people in your life have for you to settle down with a woman just for them to feel fulfilled must be given the last priority .. not one of them will save you or fund you when it all goes wrong.
Your progeny are the priority in your life. You live 70-80 years if you're lucky and then you're gone forever and forgotten. Everything you're doing should be for your children, and their children, and their children, etc.
Who cares what anyone thinks, I really don't give a flying f**** what family, friends, society or anyone thinks. I do something positive everyday and I'm enjoying life.
Thanks Better Bachelor, I always thought when I grew up that I needed to find a woman to be happy or right for society standards. But thanks to you and your advice I decided to save money or spend more time on hobbies than try to get into a relationship.
As someone who had no friends until i was 17,i can say that loneliness is a state of mind, and being alone is the best, i can do what i want, i enjoy my own company and i can still have fun with my real friends when i want, i draw, i work out, i take walks, all by myself and its so relaxing
Only the jobs they want though. The dirty, dangerous jobs that cause men to make up 90% of work related fatalities they are quite happy to let men do exclusively
In my circle and family I'm sort of a "brain child" and occasionally others pick my brain on why I don't date seriously. Simple: My lifestyle of work, travel and hobbies do not support a relationship with a woman who isn't willing to get on my program. Most women aren't really marriage material to most traditional men.
You've inspired me to save to buy a cargo van and travel the us. Kinda like your bus project but smaller lol. Thank you joker, this may be buried by the endless comments, but I want to say to you, thank you.
Pity, my crippled state no longer allowed this. But in my youth I was a long haul truck driver and managed to see most everything worthwhile. Now I have internet travel logs and 4K remote cameras galore. Almost like being there from my chair. Old is what you make it.
The people shaming you for the life you're forced to lead will not back you up when your life is being destroyed by someone who promised to love you. They'll argue it's all part of the process when more and more evidence is mounting that men are NOT recovering and that men are deliberately targeted and undermined when they have relationships and family.
One of the benefits of being a 60 year old man is that almost NO one thinks I'm crazy for not having--or even wanting a girlfriend or wife! Cheers, gentlemen.
May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face; the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.
@@devilgames2217 Hahahahaha 🤣 I have a kayak camping channel, and it's been challenging to get out. I console myself with the images of Just-In-The-Bum kayaking a few years back. In ankle-deep water. Sheer gold plated platinum! Cheers, Cousin!😊
I am a extrovert. I don't need to have a partner or relationship in my life. I have so many friends and hobbies that most people are friendly with me and I feel satisfied with what I have. Its not hard guys. Invest in yourself and you win.
I knew from a very young age that I didn't want children. People couldn't wrap their heads around that sentiment. The response to my statement was "Well, who's going to take care of you in your old age?!" My response: "The same person that's going to take care of you in your old age. The staff at the nursing home. "
her: "chase me, i am the prize, you're lucky to be around me" reality: be unobtainable, she is a depreciating liability and you are the prize her reaction: omg i want him!
They are excited by the chase. You prioritize them, they don't have to chase anymore (as they got you) consequently they get bored. Since they get attention h24 from other dudes (social medias, work etc.), they switch their focus to a brand new excitement (aka a new dude to chase) and you're out of the picture. This is modern dating in a nutshell. Once you understand and accept it, it's actually very simple how they work and they ALL work that way.
For several years, people, mostly online, have something negative to say just because I "gave up" on having a family and getting married. They don't respect solitude and freedom.
Hi Joker. I totally respect your decision to live your life independently. Being mixed Native American, I struggle with where society is at today, too. However, I have done a little research on holistic wellness, and on the effects of social poverty. So, if people become too socially isolated, they can experience something called neural craving, similar to a reaction to food deprivation. So, it's good that you have your online community, and people you get to interact with wherever you stop in your travels. But, also make sure that you have ongoing, emotionally supportive relationships in your life. Whether it's family members, friends, etc. People who you can really open up to, and you know or expect them to be in your life for the long haul. I admire your strength and independence as a man, but remember, you are human, and there are certain needs that you have as a human that need to be addressed in order for you to be emotionally healthy. Safe travels and best of luck with the bus. :)
Rollo seems to derive his self worth, at least partially, through his relationships with women. There's nothing wrong with that. However, I do not... and no matter what Rollo says, there is nothing wrong with that either.
Nothing wrong with a good woman in one's life. After a serious health concern, some back up is sought. Most confuse alone with lonely. There is a social aspect within all of us. That coming from a true loner.
I'm pretty much where you're at. Just waiting to finish this divorce and get on the road. Used to hear the same nonsense from people before I got married. Realizing now how happy I was being single before that mess and glad to be back by myself honestly. Thanks for the video
Your best ever, Joker. Would love to meet you sometime. This is the essence of my message as well. I'm 70, never married, and have 40-50 family. Not all are relatives, but those I cherish and are always welcome here. I'm very selective about those I admit to my life. But once you're in, you're family. That's all I need. Paul, Psychologist in Pennsylvania
@@ajxx9987 I don't have a Golden eye but even I can see The World is Not Enough. But whatever, let women scream while they watch the Sky fall; I'll be at the Casino Royale enjoying myself while they deal with the Spectre of their bad decisions.
I needed this, i got a strong attachment towards a woman and its been affecting me negatively. This is a good insight and making some changes to be more focused towards other things rather than her.
i think the one thing we do end up craving is the human intimacy, which is not same as sexual desires, its just human touch and little bit of bond. im trying to find a work around it.
i read somewhere..life gonna give you something you work at having and GET it..something you didnt work for ( at least not in this life)but GOT it..and something you will work and work at and NEVER GET IT (at least not in this life)
I've been a Realtor for 35 yrs. Never seen a scam market like the one right now. I feel for buyers per overpaying. Bubble will burst....!!Timmy C Arizona
"having a wife is so ingrained as an expectation"...you got it! I was having it out with a bunch of feminist harpies on facebook and they were trying to goad me by saying I don't have a wife, loser, sad, etc. I simply said sad? BWAHAHAHA my life is wonderful! What's sad is you think the measure of a man is based upon whether he has a wife........
They can leave at any time for any reason. I personally do not see the point in investing in that long term. My time is better spent on getting stronger, earning a tad bit more and having more time for myself. At least when I go that route, any successes/failures are on my own shoulders and not because I made someone feel a certain way. Screw that.
I'm in a happy and healthy relationship with myself. If by chance I were to have a companion for my journey someday, great. But I'm not gonna beat myself over what I don't have, but be grateful for what I do have and excited for what I can work towards. I'd like a happy and healthy relationship for others as well.
I remember when I was single ( I am married now), but it was a horrible experience trying to date. Woman after woman was just so full of themselves and many of them were very liberal and just stuck in a high school mentality. I stopped dating for about 10 years or so, pretty much from the time I was 20. I'm an attractive guy, 6'2" with an athletic build and I didn't really have issues finding women, but the women I would meet (especially online) were just whores. They all had kids and many with multiple from different men. I know the vast majority of y'all are divorced or unmarried, but I am happy I found my wife, but if I was single I would stay single. My wife moved here to the states from Venezuela and she had a good education (in the medical field), she's anti-femiNAZI, really Conservative, and she stays out of my way and never tries to interfere with my hobbies unless she wants to learn and take part. Most women I have dated show no interest in the things I like, but my wife is now an avid camper and she likes to fish with me and likewise I like taking part in her hobbies (EXCEPT SHOPPING), LoL. Anyway, since I have been married I have had more women interested in me than a single man. They think it is attractive and that I must be head over heels for these whores. It's cringeworthy and the last thing I would do to someone I care about is cheat on them. Fellers, these women out here are snakes, liars, and thieves, stay the hell away from them. :)
Amigo, you brought her to America? Watch your back, never trust her , you should be ok. Just advice from a 55 year old Spanish man, you wish you strength , not luck.
That's a bummer about the Bachelor Bus not working out as planned but how this guy has adapted to all the complications and stayed on his own personal course is so inspirational. The lone wolf lifestyle is the most rewarding choice but you have to literally carry every burden on your back by yourself and it can be overwhelming at times. Seeing videos like this is a reminder that you have to stay level headed because life is going to throw you a whole bunch of curveballs to try to derail you from your goals. Keep riding the storm Joker, you are fighting the good fight for all of us. 👍
Men need to understand that society sees us as a wallet first. Every time people see a bachelor they see a man that needs to take on the responsibility of someone else's kids( getting involved with a single mom). And the dynamics of step families is constantly under played. Were just suppose to man up and become father number 2. A lot of men die young, so there's a lot of single moms out there any way. We need to think carefully about that road. Raising kids cost money and the burden doesn't go away once their 18. Raising a family is hard work. Raising children scarred by divorce is even tougher. There's no shame in avoiding marriage or being a father number 2. We men are entitled to a happy life too.
people will slowly understand.. its going to take probably 15-20 years, but even the most stupid men after getting divorce raped for the 5th time would understand. this manosphere redpill thing is relatively young. It take A LOT OF TIME to educate people.
Dude every body I know look's at me sideways when I talk about woman's nature and men's issue it's nice no it's NEEDED ppl like you and content creators give a voice to men that no one wants to hear,I hope to have friends like you. Keep up with the good job 👍
I just want to say, you posting from the woods is awesome. Keep it up. I'd love to see more of the US. I've seen almost 40 states, but you're probably gonna end up seeing more! Love the content.
Beautiful backdrop, great pointers, much to ponder; if you can be by yourself and just be happy, without overuse of computer/smartphone, that's a win for sure. Thank you.
Excellent video, and I have to confess that I made the mistake of connecting all my joy and happiness to female validation, and having a girlfriend/wife. Unfortunately due to my below par looks, I never had any luck with the ladies, but that’s life and my tough luck. As for intimacy, I just pay a professional (ie.I pay a mature age lady of the night). Now I just focus on my hobbies and playing the guitar. Good luck with your new wheels Joker.
I always ask a woman "I already have enough [problems/challenges] in my life. What can you add to my life to make it better?" when she's interested in me. Not many women can answer that question.
Loneliness is to marriage/being single as hunger is to astronomy. The one occuring with the other is pure coincidence. I was never more lonely than when I was married
I have a friend who works late every day and then goes to the gym. He says if his wife is still awake by the time he gets home he'll sit in the car and listen to music until she goes to bed.
@@Corkfish1 exactly what my dad did, sometimes I'd be playing outside as a kid and see him jsit sitting in the driveway. He'd call me over we would grab some food somewhere till she went to bed.
My ex wife wanted me to get rid of my Camaro when we got married, she didnt like it because all her friends loved riding around town in it.... after my divorce I went straight to the dealer and got a nice brand new Camaro SS. awalt.
When you’re into your mid 30’s, by now freedom is your priority. Not a woman. A woman who complements your life is a HUGE keeper. She should NEVER take away or suck your freedom!
Top video. Enjoyed the bachelor freedom theme and what you hurdles and plans are. The birds blissfully chirping in the background at the end was perfect. Stay well, stay safe and enjoy the peace
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I had an interesting experience today. A woman I dated over a year ago for couple months and who ended it as she had "options" contacted me out of nowhere wanting to go visit a museum in Brussels. I was like ok as she was paying and it was an art museum I wanted to see. Anyway the day went well and I had her laughing all day. She then wanted to have dinner so I went along. I could see where it was going as plain as day. At dinner she began apologising how she had behaved and said she wanted to try again. After dinner her ego was so big and she totally believed I was going to get back with her. She said come over to mine. The look on her face when I said no, I'm going home now because I have better options than you.
I applaud you. It's so easy to fall into that trap when that person is being warm and nice to you. And you resisted and told her no.
Haha fucking savage nice
to bad you didnt record it =(
Good call. Avoid VVomen who have exemplified ficklety, and then crawl out of the woodwork expecting to be able to project (a falsified version of themselves, as all narcissists do) her way into a convenient scenario whereby she lures you into the role of temporary, and convenient (for her, for now) codependency. TBH, in my experience, even humoring it for lunch and chit-chat is facilitating it beyond the safe and risk-free threshold. [Learned the hard way]
Waiting for paint dry is a better option.
“Solitude is dangerous. It's very addictive. It becomes a habit after you realize how calm and peaceful it is. It's like you don't want to deal with people anymore because they drain your energy.” Jim Carrey.
@@jacko293 Actually, its paying you. With more money, time and ease.
I've never had an argument with myself.
It's been years since a woman drained me...😂
Solitude is bliss.
@@michaelrobert8476 I argue with myself all the time, but, I always win in the end.
As the saying goes, "Chase excellence, not women." The older I get the more I get women thinking I'm the catch. Never married so no alimony, no kids so no child support, house paid for, cars paid for, my own hobbies with my own clique of friends and the freedom to go anywhere I want at anytime I feel. (work pending.) And when people, especially women try to shame you, belittle you are telling you it's not the norm, IGNORE them. Do what makes you happy and enjoy. Majority of them are jealous, bitter, miserable or all 3. Joker living his life the way HE wants. THAT'S freedom.
I have money, freedom and happiness. If I have a woman in my life I would lose all three. Remember, boredom is more dangerous than bullets
When a woman tries to shame you or belittle you, those are your marching orders. If a woman is going to do that, and many women will, the sooner they do it the better. Less wasted time. Just move in a direction other than them and you skip the conflict and argument and explaining. I show women the real me and that keeps them off my back.
Why try to impress and give an image you can't sustain, because that just delays the same result. The ones who like the real you may stick around, and the ones who don't like you will be gone.
@@oneronin6186 - Boredom is better than stress.
@bdog1323 f****ng right! i'm 47, and almost am on the level you are as far as doing what i want. but no headaches as far as coming home to drama, no kids and alimony to pay. i'm not against people that want to be involved with the married life; i'm def against being forced to comply with society's expectations. people should do what's best for them. i've seen too many guys and girls that by body language, regretted getting married with kids, but will never admit it and actually project their misery onto me LMFAOO 🤣
keep doing your thing and enjoy. cheers from southern ontario 🍁
@@michaelrobert8476 Boredom can be eliminated with a hobby or new interest found . Stress becomes a permanent affliction that never ends.
I work a career that's female dominated, I mean 99% plus. People sometimes ask why I never got married, and my standard answer is "don't have to, I get my dose of drama every work day!" Being able to walk away to peace and quiet at the end of the day is a real blessing! 😅
@@untze0 ?? for why would they do that? Besides, I get too much stuff done, I'm too valuable.
@@untze0 the buttcheeks aren't that tight around here. Besides, I've got over 30 years in this particular gig, and that kind of experience is damned hard to find.
@@untze0 be well!
@comes which job is it?
@@superman-sl7qb veterinary nursing.
Fellas .. I’m turning 40 soon .. no marriage .. no relationship .. NEVER been happier. You don’t need ANYONE .. you just need purpose on your journey. God Bless you all !! Stay strong 💪🏾
Congrats to you. I turned 40, 4 months ago; and have been living Monk Mode for the last 15 years. I completely agree with you.
@@radmirov8541 👏🏾 .. much respect my brother. I just want all guys to realize “ we “ come first.
Marriage is the quickest way to lose everything then be forced to pay for another person forever. Stay smart and never get married, don't let anyone ruin your life.
I’m in a similar place joker. I’ve been a player. Been a BF. Chased and been chased. Built business traveled the world. Lost business. Etc it’s been interesting for sure. But it’s really nice finally having peace being single and not chasing someone to be with all the time
What would you say to man that wants to have children though?
I used to work with a guy who was just the nicest, easy going man you'd ever meet but he always looked sort of defeated and hopeless. He was married to the sort of woman that those guys tend to marry. He loved boats and had been a keen boat owner until he married. Of course, he was ordered to "Get rid of that stupid boat." early in the marriage and he often confided in me how much he missed getting out on the river to fish or just be away from everyone.
Well, she divorced him and it cost him a lot but when he paid all his divorce obligations (you know, money owed to her for 'enriching his life experience'!) he bought a boat. Immediately his general demeanor changed. He looked younger and stood up straighter and was much more positive. Being allowed to follow his passion made such a difference.
No wonder the media has to spend so much time warning that "Single men die younger and are more likely to end up in a mental institution!!!" etc. The truth is out.
I just love how the media, who pushed for a certain narrative when it comes to women, knowing full well that when a "social gear" is set in motion is extremely difficult to stop, now are desperately trying to stop the second "social gear" born as reaction of the one they set in motion; they will not succeed, these "gears" are extremely difficult to stop after all.
Ah, I see he was a man of culture, trying to follow the modern motto of "happy wife, happy life!"
We have been lied to by so much of society and media that it's natural to believe these modern myths, like the 'women are the romantic ones' or the 'strong independent woman' (who needs and desperately wants a provider type man, even though the thing she is supposedly 'independent' from is men).
No matter your relationship status at any time, you have to act like a man from the past. YOU take absolute priority in almost every way in life because if something happens to you there is logically zero way she will be picking you up and carrying you through some life situation, naturally however it's expected of men to do that for women.
About the same thing happened to me after my divorce, I got a motorcycle and some of my hairline that had begun receding actually began coming back.
A study found that German monks have a significantly higher life expectancy than the overall German male population. That puts to bed the notion that married men live longer.
I think it probably is still valid that single men die younger, but with the caveat that it only true for younger men. Once you hit your 40s and that sex drive dies down, i bet those single men live longer from then on.
It's so great to hear this from you Joker, seriously. 4 years ago I attempted suicide, stopped before following through. I had no stable job, I was obese (98Kgs as a 5'6 guy) and still living at home about to turn 30, watching/viewing social media comparing my life. Fast forward, I've just turned 33 this month, lost 25 Kgs and keeping fit, deleted all social media, bought land had a house built, moved in and found a stable job that I worked very hard for.
I am now getting a German Shepherd and I'm addicted to reading about Stoicism. It really saved me. I found Solitude and I cannot be happier about it. It's very difficult for me to find a women because what exactly do they offer me? I do everything myself. Either way, I have purpose and I highly emphasize to men out there, you are strong enough to do this as well. Stay strong my dudes.
What a comeback nice going my guy
Good work sir, was good to read your story and hear of your journey. It's a reminder that it's never too late to turn things around - keep the focus on you and enjoy all life has to offer...make sure there is a tomorrow as it can be made better than today, through hard word and sacrifice. Relationships are all temporary and should be treated as such. Stay strong brother - man hugs from the UK!
Great job man, congrats! Changing the way you did (and keeping it up!) isn't easy, most never do.
Keep up the good attitude.
Well done bro.....every man's first and most important journey is that of "self "discovery.....the world can never make sense to us if we don’t have our own sense of self first.
People who say "who hurt you" are usually of low intelligence.
They're usually narcissists. Narcissists project. Men reflect.
Marriage is the only contract that rewards someone for breaking it.
Never never get married.
Hey, you kind of have my name. My name is Waylon Anthony Williams. haha neat.
@@awilliams3841 Wow, that is close. You got lucky, my real name is way too common.
We both really have Anthony in our names.
@@anthonywilliams7052 Yea, the last name is really common. I see 'Williams' often in T.V. sports, or in movies. Can't be related to all of them.
@@awilliams3841 I was thinking of mine, Williams is much better. At least it's not like this guy I met named Elvis, his mom was a fan. He even showed his license to prove he wasn't making it up.
@@anthonywilliams7052 Haha! So glad my mom or dad was a fan of Waylon Jennings and not Elvis. I mean that for the name sake. And I don’t really know if that’s what I was named after. Hopefully not. I gotta ask my mom next time I see her. Lol
Making dating a priority is quite possibly the worst mistake any man could make in his life. People in general will only hold you back from your true potential, there are exceptions of course.
Yeah i did that once, and i regretted it.
Exceptions Don't Make The Rule! 🤔
I never famble or buy lottory tickets and the eomrn who will not hold you back bigtime is Even dumper to gamble on. You can just use Them today, so use Them.
Facts. Im trying to become a comic book writer and iv stopped dating.
as far as i can say, a good man, WITH a good woman, can do 10x and improve on a very high rate.
a good man with the other 99.9 of women, will end up a failure miserable and with lot of problems.
Now sure, a woman can improve a man life, but its so hard to find one of THAT kind, that it could be easier to win the lottery.
When I get told you’re gonna die alone I say “you mean I’m gonna die of natural causes instead of getting nagged to death?” Eyes roll
We all die alone, I'm afraid.
People seem to be afraid by dying alone.
@@mrknarf4438 Not if it's a ritual suicide pact! Pass the Koolaid!
@@mrknarf4438 don’t get why so many men don’t understand this 😮🤔
I'm probably going to die going 180 on a superbike 🤣😈 and I'm fine with that
Never make someone a priority in your life while allowing them to make you an option in theirs.
Uuurgh. Guilty on that one. Once. Never again. 🤦♂️
If I just know this 10 years sooner...
Them: "Who hurt you?"
Me: Every woman who ever got a chance.
They know very well who. They're just being deliberately obtuse.
I just say, "Only the first woman, after that they each just furthered my education."
Yup.
And/or say, "You would - if I ever made the mistake of trusting you'!
Men: who hurt you
Woman: Every men who ever got a chance.
Maybe just don't date?!?!?! You both are the same?
How they project the blame on that one usually goes like "well you are the common denominator in all your relationships so it must be your fault" despite the fact they all act entitled selfish disloyal, they give very little effort, are hard to please because of their endless online options and they defend each others heinous behaviour
“If you're lonely when you're alone, you’re in bad company” Jean-Paul Sartre
“Hell is other people” another one of his
They don"t like bachelors because we are free & they are not. Misery loves company.
Can't disagree
Yep.modern chicks r miserable..&can&do lash out@ a bachelor.
Women get lonely and alone as they age.
It is almost ridiculous how little it takes for a man to be truly happy. Literally a roof over your head, some food, internet connection, and most importantly, peace. Everything else is extra.
Bingo this is real shit right here it should be on a tee-shirt
A woman would prefer a man to be humble rather than brag about his money and social clout. She wants to discover on her own. That increases attraction.
But she always throw in a man's face how much of an independent woman she is, how much she earn and her successful career. There's no humbleness in it. But seems logical to her.
Women complain about "toxic masculinity" while being just as bad -- if not worse -- than they accuse men of being. It's "toxic masculinity" when men do it, but "empowering" when women do it. Lol
She has man envy and compensates with bragging.
Woman dont understand there power is in femininity not masculinity. It's sad.
@@latt.qcd9221 we should call it for what it is. Toxic femininity.
I wouldn't know, I have never dated a woman with a successful career.
Innate narcissism. VVomen (Narcissists) project. Men reflect.
I really like being alone too Joker, doing my own thing, being with my thoughts, focusing on my goals.
I'm 38, single have never been or will get married, same with kids.
I love quiet, reading, working out, cooking, video games, coffee, diy projects and taking walks in the woods. The little things make me happy 😊
Really enjoyed this.
@Eastern fence Lizard cool
@@benprins8240 So good for you Bro ! :-D
@@4SChris thanks Chris 😊
@Stevo so am I, sad huh
@Stevo me too man. It's super hard to even have a mature conversation with a woman these days isn't it
Men are better off alone, save your self and don't get married
I think a lot of people forget the fact the Joker had extensive experience with women. He is also older so his testosterone level takes the back seat so he isn't obsessed with having sex all the time. Those are the factors that shaped his mentality now. Younger men think they can take the shortcut and come to the conclusion that they don't need relationships. However, they simply deprive themselves of the social skills.
There's research Men are happy being alone / single. Wrote about it my book.
Joker is a bitter man who is twice divorced.
@@beckynunn4649 Crap. Are your pants on fire. If Joker had been divorced twice he would have told us.
@@CaptainKipo-n6g if my social skills need to revolve around picking up women, I’ll pass. I get along perfectly fine with all the friends I make
I seriously appreciate knowing that I’m not alone in this frame of mind. Every time I almost get sucked into a relationship, I’m immediately reminded that the trade off is lack of freedom and insanity.
I'm 40 and women hit on me every day (18-50) my friends think I'm crazy because I turn down extremely hot females, yet I haven't dated in 4 years and no bedroom fun for two years. Your absolutely right people just assume if your not with someone it's because you can't or you are jaded. I'm so damn happy my job n life keep me busy and all my money is mine. I love my toys and my time, I love my life.
Keep it that way. The secks isn't even worth it anymore. Peace of mind has it's weight on a scale called priceless
Life is good when it's on your own terms.
I like your name too.
@@pantherman8719 a lil morbid but honestly man I have lived a very full life and feel extremely lucky. I could go tomorrow with a big ol smile on my face.
@@cpcpu6007 yes sir
I'm so tired of dating. Even 4's and 5's expect me to chase them. I'm sick of having to pursue women and put in all of the effort and the women act like they are a prize to be won. They put in almost zero effort and just wait for the guys to chase them.
I had the same situation. It took me 9 years to find someone but I finally did and we are now going on 13 years together. It is frustrating but just be patient. It will happen.
My sentiments exactly
@@NR-xd1vw How old have you been when you got together?
If you live in the city, you see beautiful women everywhere. A beautiful women is not something unique yet, some think they are the exception.
Wish I could like this post 100 times. 4s & 5s think they are VS models. It’s laughable.
Glacier national park: an interesting thing about this place is that it used to have signs saying that the glaciers would be gone by 2020 _because science,_ but the glaciers stubbornly refused to melt as per science, so the signs were quietly removed.
Inconvenient truths 🤣🤣
Stupid fucking glaciers. They can't read.
I remember 1990 school textbooks showing oil running out by 1997, natural gas by 2020 and coal by 2070.
1980s WorldBook Encyclopedia; oil 2100, natural gas 2170, coal 2800.
Looks like an old WorldBook Encyclopedia gave me a better set of facts than the most up-to-date school books of the time.
@@retiredkidbuck Thank you for my extended belly laugh!!
@@squirrelpower1666 2800? Guess we are going to be a steam punk society.
Huraayy! This is Joker, with face for TV and voice for radio! Hello from Russia 🇷🇺!
👍🏻🇬🇧
My younger brother told me once-"We notice that you seem to be at your best when you are alone. You seem to find your greatest strength in solitude." I now see what he was saying.
Being alone does not mean we are lonely. I love my time alone by myself.
Men were created to be Kings, Warriors and Empire Builders. History AND studies show this. Take note of this, brothers.
And it involved good women to tend to them. Most men would break down and die back then without the women caring for them. We are in different times today that no ancestry would approve. It's unnatural and killing society.
@@the90sbrain not they wouldn’t 🤦🏻♂️.
Ah yessur!
@@the90sbrain they wouldn't tend to them. A king giving reign to his queen would devastate the kingdom as a whole
@@the90sbrain there never was good women. The first empire was built by a man and his generals.. But no where was woman involved other than births.
I took the red pill about a year ago, I get funny looks etc occasionally. For example a lady at work asked if I have a gf i just gave a simple no, but she pressed on asking why not etc, so i told her i don't want one and I'm happy on my own, life's simpler that way. She keeps asking every now and then as if I'm gonna get a gf lol. It seems very foreign to her the concept. I keep myself occupied with a work and wildlife photography as a hobby. Sometimes I do feel a bit lonely, but that's also because I mainly keep to myself.
Lot of guys into wildlife who are chill easy to talk to.
Time for a bit of the blackpill, boyo
Photography is fun bro. Been doing it for almost 8 or 9 years now. Really keeps your mind in the moment and helps with concentration. I’m a big meditation guy so this hobby is like a side dish with the main dish.
When people say are you lonely? The loneliest I have ever been when I was in a relationship and realized I was just being used. When you are alone in a relationship that is when you are alone.
Nothing beats being content with yourself. When you discover you are enough on your own you find a kind of liberation that is indescribable.
After dealing with the nonstop BS women love to dish out, the peace of solitude is fabulous. .
Absolutely true, but don't take that peaceful bliss for granted, you could lose it if you don't protect it.
Focus on your purpose and passion over any woman. All you have is yourself in the end.
@Steve agreed
It is not women who I hate. Women's absolute refusal without exception to look at relationships, romance, family, and life outside the gynocentric context, THAT.
I put my money in front of everything
Agreed. I’ve even talked to female family members. They do not in any way, nor does it EVEN OCCUR to them, to think about how a man sees things, or what he needs and wants. It’s like this total blond spot.
this is why traditionally men had control of both society and relationships. because men considered not only their own wellbeing, but also the wellbeing of their wives and families. women are mostly only in their own well being.
a good example of this is abortion. women see this as 'her body, her choice' even though this choice is not all about her. her decision influences the lives of both the baby and the man (the baby sometimes has to die even though it would most definitely not be their choice, and the man has to live with the decision and support the child should the women decide to keep it even though that is not always his choice). women see it as their 'right' to chose because it is 'their body' even though this right abuses the bodily rights of both the man and the baby - the baby not being entitled to stay alive, and the man not being entitled to the fruits of his labour (money from work). but these factors don't even come into play for them. all they see it is "their body' and their 'right'.
and women express this same attitude towards everything in society. feminism can be summarized as 'I should be able to do this, and men should have to do this for me'. it is always, always, ALWAYS, just about them. No concern about other bodies or what other bodies want. the only thing they see is their own body.
@@RedPillTruth2023 LOL. 'blond' spot. inadvertant humour.
@@RedPillTruth2023 I hear you. My mother is on her 4th divorce. no self reflection its the dudes fault every time. I just do a head smack and walk away no point trying to rationalize to her.
They claim they don’t need us to be complete. It’s time we showed them we don’t need them either.
I get the whole "why aren't you married yet" BS. The women today are nothing like the way my Mom was; in fact, women today remind me of an Aunt of mine.
My Mom was married to my Dad for 28 years before passing.
My Aunt is a now a lonely 72 year old, and has given up on life.
But people keep pushing me the "A man cannot take care of himself narrative"... and everytime I say no; a person gets either bitter or angry, and resort to assuming I'm Homosexual.
I'm just so tired of this "Girl Power" mentality. I had the whole Girl Power thing beat into my mind for over 30 years now, you don't think that doesn't make me feel like trash?
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But hey, the fems got exactly what they wanted; they don't need me in any woman's life. So I'll just take the journey alone.
Rollo doesn't really understand many strong willed guys actually want to be without the drama of a partner. To me, the best me, is when I am free. More men are waking up to this option as they are seeing past all the 'programing' pushed by the system that wants men's resources under 'control'.
The lonliest men I know are married men.
Rollo and his crew still worship at the alter of the holy vag.
Rollo try to make us think that he the biggest Redpiller, but he's the biggest simp of the Manosphere.
@@SerginhoSM9151 I remember when he was trying desperately to get on the Rogan podcast. It was so cringe.
I don't get the infatuation some people have with Rollo. IMO if someone, specially a man, tries to shame other men for using their resources (money, time, commitment, etc.) as they please, that should tell you all you need to know about their character or lack thereof.
@@SomeGuy-xf9bc Holy vag?🙄
When women find out that I don't want a relationship they usually come out with the " who hurt you?" but lately they're calling me selfish. I tell them " you're right". Life is good.
It's a damn badge of honor.
Being called selfish is actually a badge of honor in this day and age.
I had a care-free attitude yesterday when I walked across the city to go visit my family. I really took my time and just soaked up the scenery. What was really funny was: I saw a bird chasing a squirrel around a tree. They were literally just going around and around and around. I just stopped and watched for 20 seconds just to see if they would do something different. It's the little things in life.
That idea that a man should be married and supporting a wife and family is ingrained in society is partially false now.
If a man interacts with a woman and she finds out that he is single and not even dating, she thinks that the he's been seriously scarred by some woman, sometimes. Most of the time they will assume that there is something wrong with him that makes him unattractive or undesirable or that there is a flaw in his way of thinking or is just plain selfish or even gay. They may not say it in front of him, but it does go through their minds.
But if he interacts with another man, that other guy will approve of that choice-especially is he is already married. Very few men will disagree with that decision. Think about how often one hears married men straight out say they regret having gotten married. How they often warn or encourage single guys to stay single.
So the outlook of a man having to be married and supporting a family is now maintained by women, not society as a whole. It may have been completely valid 50+ years ago, but its been perverted by modern society.
I don't sugar-coat it at all; if I'm asked why I'm stil single in my 50s, I straight out say that its because I've yet to meet a woman who I deem is worthy of my time.
The moment humanity reached 3 billion humans, the means of "procreation for survival" is out the window.
Truth
@@MrKentakie Yes and it is better for the planet anyway.
Giga Based
51 years old never married no kids, just living my life riding my mountain bike. The red pill makes you aware and watcher of people, most of the married people I've seen out in public look zombies going through the motions.
I couldnt agree more! Its interesting how my friends and family act like there is something wrong with me because I no longer want to date. Like you, my passion is travel, and the money I save from not dating helps afford me that ability. Next month I will be traveling to Poland, Prague and Germany. My friends and family are constantly trying to hook me up with people they know. I am like "No thanks, if it happens it will be organically" I am done chasing women, done with the game. Its almost funny, but I have found that I have become far more desirable by women because I dont want or wont chase them.
You will love Poland and Prague is my favourite city with Budapest and Edinburgh. You will enjoy it.
Don't miss the "sexy saunas".
fun side effect of traveling: it is much easier to meet up w girls because you won't be part of her official body count lol. Besides that, Slavic girl look prettier imo and are often friendlier than western ones
Traveling is definitely something everyone should experience.
"It's like finding Free Food!" (LOL). Being an Disabled Retired Veteran in his late 60's, I would add, "Before you go for the food, make sure it's not poisoned." Been married 3 times and divorced. The last one after I was being single 18 years. (What a disaster) So keep concentrating on yourselves and be the BEST you can be. I have found that because of me doing "For Myself" was the best payback I could gift to others. I am now 6 yrs in and I am enjoying life. I also solo RV and maybe I will see you on the road.
If a ,man dates vvomen in their 50s-60s he finds that they are most interested in upgrading their retirement portfolio.
It's good to see older warriors doing their own thing and enjoying life, it gives me extra hope for the future. I'm 5 years away from hitting my 20 and I'll be 38 when I retire.
I only had to put the proverbial hand on the stovetop once to learn my lesson though. I've had my two kids, so I'm done having kids, there is zero further benefit I can derive from marriage.
I plan to get an RV and a motorcycle trailer myself when my apartment lease runs out.
One of my favorite lines from Star Trek TNG is when Chief O'brian was talking to a Cardassian. He said, "I don't hate you, Cardassian. I hate what I've become because of you."
That's how I feel about women.
Holy shit brother, not too long ago I finished TNG...it makes sense man.
You are the priority in your life and no one else. The dreams other people in your life have for you to settle down with a woman just for them to feel fulfilled must be given the last priority .. not one of them will save you or fund you when it all goes wrong.
Your progeny are the priority in your life. You live 70-80 years if you're lucky and then you're gone forever and forgotten. Everything you're doing should be for your children, and their children, and their children, etc.
@@Szolrykor Why?
@@Szolrykor Not for everyone, make a choice in your life. Don't let other people tell you what to do.
Who cares what anyone thinks, I really don't give a flying f**** what family, friends, society or anyone thinks. I do something positive everyday and I'm enjoying life.
Exactly, be a lone wolf not a damn sheep.
Awesome comment man 👍 I feel the same way and I couldn't be happier !!!
That is the only attitude I truly respect!
Respect
Thanks Better Bachelor, I always thought when I grew up that I needed to find a woman to be happy or right for society standards. But thanks to you and your advice I decided to save money or spend more time on hobbies than try to get into a relationship.
Are you happy as a result?
As someone who had no friends until i was 17,i can say that loneliness is a state of mind, and being alone is the best, i can do what i want, i enjoy my own company and i can still have fun with my real friends when i want, i draw, i work out, i take walks, all by myself and its so relaxing
Don't make someone a priority when you are an option to them.
Words of truth 👍
*woman:* "I don't need no man. i just need either is money (provided via men's tax dollars) or his job (provided to me via affirmative action)"
Women don't derive the same happiness from a job
Only the jobs they want though. The dirty, dangerous jobs that cause men to make up 90% of work related fatalities they are quite happy to let men do exclusively
In my circle and family I'm sort of a "brain child" and occasionally others pick my brain on why I don't date seriously.
Simple: My lifestyle of work, travel and hobbies do not support a relationship with a woman who isn't willing to get on my program.
Most women aren't really marriage material to most traditional men.
I agree a women has to get on my train ride I’m not diverting for them. Marriage is just day for women it’s all about them.
Yet be aware women who will shoehorn their style to fit yours for a while. Then they will burst at the seams. Literally and figuratively.
You've inspired me to save to buy a cargo van and travel the us. Kinda like your bus project but smaller lol. Thank you joker, this may be buried by the endless comments, but I want to say to you, thank you.
Pity, my crippled state no longer allowed this. But in my youth I was a long haul truck driver and managed to see most everything worthwhile. Now I have internet travel logs and 4K remote cameras galore. Almost like being there from my chair. Old is what you make it.
@@richardscathouse if you could go back in time. Would you do it over again but this time get a bus or camper van?
Once my lease on my apartment is close to up, I'm getting an RV and a motorcycle trailer. I'll likely sell my car while I'm at it too.
The people shaming you for the life you're forced to lead will not back you up when your life is being destroyed by someone who promised to love you.
They'll argue it's all part of the process when more and more evidence is mounting that men are NOT recovering and that men are deliberately targeted and undermined when they have relationships and family.
Good point. I rarely take advice from those who will not accept responsibility when THEIR advice, which I implement in my life, cost me...
Having a girlfriend nowadays is viewed more as a trophy than something actually wholesome. And maybe that’s becoming the truth.
One of the benefits of being a 60 year old man is that almost NO one thinks I'm crazy for not having--or even wanting a girlfriend or wife! Cheers, gentlemen.
I just turned 60 myself and its the same thing.
I wish I could go out and travel as Joker does. Maybe one day I can do the same here in Canada.
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
the rains fall soft upon your fields
and until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Just build a bus you lazy fuck
There's plenty here, just get out.
Justina don't let us.
@@devilgames2217 Hahahahaha 🤣 I have a kayak camping channel, and it's been challenging to get out. I console myself with the images of Just-In-The-Bum kayaking a few years back. In ankle-deep water. Sheer gold plated platinum!
Cheers, Cousin!😊
I am a extrovert. I don't need to have a partner or relationship in my life. I have so many friends and hobbies that most people are friendly with me and I feel satisfied with what I have.
Its not hard guys. Invest in yourself and you win.
I knew from a very young age that I didn't want children. People couldn't wrap their heads around that sentiment. The response to my statement was "Well, who's going to take care of you in your old age?!"
My response: "The same person that's going to take care of you in your old age. The staff at the nursing home. "
Almost better to be mauled by a bear or mountain lion than by the court system these days.
At least if you survive the bear it won't take your house and kids
Treat her like a celebrity & she'll treat you as a fan. 👀
If you’re not Chad, you’re getting ignored regardless of how you treat her.
Ironic that they lose interest once you start to prioritize them.
her: "chase me, i am the prize, you're lucky to be around me"
reality: be unobtainable, she is a depreciating liability and you are the prize
her reaction: omg i want him!
They are excited by the chase. You prioritize them, they don't have to chase anymore (as they got you) consequently they get bored. Since they get attention h24 from other dudes (social medias, work etc.), they switch their focus to a brand new excitement (aka a new dude to chase) and you're out of the picture.
This is modern dating in a nutshell. Once you understand and accept it, it's actually very simple how they work and they ALL work that way.
Another example people will try to criticise or make you self conscious is if you say I don't drink alcohol.
For several years, people, mostly online, have something negative to say just because I "gave up" on having a family and getting married. They don't respect solitude and freedom.
Hi Joker. I totally respect your decision to live your life independently. Being mixed Native American, I struggle with where society is at today, too. However, I have done a little research on holistic wellness, and on the effects of social poverty. So, if people become too socially isolated, they can experience something called neural craving, similar to a reaction to food deprivation. So, it's good that you have your online community, and people you get to interact with wherever you stop in your travels. But, also make sure that you have ongoing, emotionally supportive relationships in your life. Whether it's family members, friends, etc. People who you can really open up to, and you know or expect them to be in your life for the long haul.
I admire your strength and independence as a man, but remember, you are human, and there are certain needs that you have as a human that need to be addressed in order for you to be emotionally healthy.
Safe travels and best of luck with the bus. :)
Joker, your bus oil problem could be the CCV that is leaking. Stay safe and best wishes from the UK
Peter
the lonliest i've ever been was when i was married to my ex........men, it's your life, own it!
Rollo seems to derive his self worth, at least partially, through his relationships with women. There's nothing wrong with that. However, I do not... and no matter what Rollo says, there is nothing wrong with that either.
This was a great video. No nonsense and peaceful. I liked it.
Nothing wrong with a good woman in one's life. After a serious health concern, some back up is sought. Most confuse alone with lonely. There is a social aspect within all of us. That coming from a true loner.
I'm pretty much where you're at. Just waiting to finish this divorce and get on the road.
Used to hear the same nonsense from people before I got married. Realizing now how happy I was being single before that mess and glad to be back by myself honestly. Thanks for the video
Title is 100% accurate. They always want it, but will leave you if you actually listen to them.
Your best ever, Joker. Would love to meet you sometime. This is the essence of my message as well. I'm 70, never married, and have 40-50 family. Not all are relatives, but those I cherish and are always welcome here. I'm very selective about those I admit to my life. But once you're in, you're family. That's all I need.
Paul, Psychologist in Pennsylvania
If you are lonely when you’re alone, then you are in bad company - Jean Paul Sartre
You are currently doing what was daily life for me joker. (Jelm Wyoming) I'm envious. Hiking and camping constantly
Joker's actually on the run from the law. He's making a break for the Canadian border.
For French fries and gravy?
Chief Joseph of the Nez Pierce wishes him luck!!😁
Truest words ever spoken.
Honestly, id love a wife and kids, but the thought of modern marriage/divorce/courts and 'empowered' modern women tips the balance
Always a pleasure to hear from you, it also helps me in my own small journey... Thank you so much for your words of encouragement.
Life is a James Bond movie. Women are a pleasant distraction while you're saving the world.
The difference is that the world can't be saved
@@ajxx9987 I don't have a Golden eye but even I can see The World is Not Enough. But whatever, let women scream while they watch the Sky fall; I'll be at the Casino Royale enjoying myself while they deal with the Spectre of their bad decisions.
@@deanchur very nice good sir 🧐
Men need to be focused primarily on saving themselves, not the world.
I needed this, i got a strong attachment towards a woman and its been affecting me negatively. This is a good insight and making some changes to be more focused towards other things rather than her.
i think the one thing we do end up craving is the human intimacy, which is not same as sexual desires, its just human touch and little bit of bond. im trying to find a work around it.
get a dog.
i read somewhere..life gonna give you something you work at having and GET it..something you didnt work for ( at least not in this life)but GOT it..and something you will work and work at and NEVER GET IT (at least not in this life)
I've been a Realtor for 35 yrs. Never seen a scam market like the one right now. I feel for buyers per overpaying. Bubble will burst....!!Timmy C Arizona
"having a wife is so ingrained as an expectation"...you got it! I was having it out with a bunch of feminist harpies on facebook and they were trying to goad me by saying I don't have a wife, loser, sad, etc.
I simply said sad? BWAHAHAHA my life is wonderful! What's sad is you think the measure of a man is based upon whether he has a wife........
It exemplifies innate narcissism. They all are IMO/E.
They can leave at any time for any reason. I personally do not see the point in investing in that long term. My time is better spent on getting stronger, earning a tad bit more and having more time for myself. At least when I go that route, any successes/failures are on my own shoulders and not because I made someone feel a certain way. Screw that.
I'm in a happy and healthy relationship with myself. If by chance I were to have a companion for my journey someday, great. But I'm not gonna beat myself over what I don't have, but be grateful for what I do have and excited for what I can work towards. I'd like a happy and healthy relationship for others as well.
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I remember when I was single ( I am married now), but it was a horrible experience trying to date. Woman after woman was just so full of themselves and many of them were very liberal and just stuck in a high school mentality. I stopped dating for about 10 years or so, pretty much from the time I was 20. I'm an attractive guy, 6'2" with an athletic build and I didn't really have issues finding women, but the women I would meet (especially online) were just whores. They all had kids and many with multiple from different men. I know the vast majority of y'all are divorced or unmarried, but I am happy I found my wife, but if I was single I would stay single. My wife moved here to the states from Venezuela and she had a good education (in the medical field), she's anti-femiNAZI, really Conservative, and she stays out of my way and never tries to interfere with my hobbies unless she wants to learn and take part. Most women I have dated show no interest in the things I like, but my wife is now an avid camper and she likes to fish with me and likewise I like taking part in her hobbies (EXCEPT SHOPPING), LoL. Anyway, since I have been married I have had more women interested in me than a single man. They think it is attractive and that I must be head over heels for these whores. It's cringeworthy and the last thing I would do to someone I care about is cheat on them. Fellers, these women out here are snakes, liars, and thieves, stay the hell away from them. :)
Amigo, you brought her to America? Watch your back, never trust her , you should be ok. Just advice from a 55 year old Spanish man, you wish you strength , not luck.
That's a bummer about the Bachelor Bus not working out as planned but how this guy has adapted to all the complications and stayed on his own personal course is so inspirational. The lone wolf lifestyle is the most rewarding choice but you have to literally carry every burden on your back by yourself and it can be overwhelming at times. Seeing videos like this is a reminder that you have to stay level headed because life is going to throw you a whole bunch of curveballs to try to derail you from your goals. Keep riding the storm Joker, you are fighting the good fight for all of us. 👍
i gotta get busy livin. i have no attachments and life has been bland. time to spice it up a bit. thanks for the inspiration Joker!!
I don't know if it is just me, but having that scenery playing while you are talking makes it even better.
You nailed in on how people react to bachelors vs bachelorettes. Heard it so many times. Keep up the good work, BB.
Men need to understand that society sees us as a wallet first. Every time people see a bachelor they see a man that needs to take on the responsibility of someone else's kids( getting involved with a single mom). And the dynamics of step families is constantly under played. Were just suppose to man up and become father number 2. A lot of men die young, so there's a lot of single moms out there any way. We need to think carefully about that road. Raising kids cost money and the burden doesn't go away once their 18. Raising a family is hard work. Raising children scarred by divorce is even tougher. There's no shame in avoiding marriage or being a father number 2. We men are entitled to a happy life too.
people will slowly understand.. its going to take probably 15-20 years, but even the most stupid men after getting divorce raped for the 5th time would understand.
this manosphere redpill thing is relatively young.
It take A LOT OF TIME to educate people.
Wait to buy land. What goes up must come down. The Bushwaker is a great idea for the time being.
I just tell them “I don’t have time for a girlfriend. I work 55-70 hours a week. Just too busy making money and working out to have a girlfriend.”
Dude every body I know look's at me sideways when I talk about woman's nature and men's issue it's nice no it's NEEDED ppl like you and content creators give a voice to men that no one wants to hear,I hope to have friends like you. Keep up with the good job 👍
I’ve been slowly red-pilling my friends, one at a time…keep spreading the message 👍🏼
I just want to say, you posting from the woods is awesome. Keep it up. I'd love to see more of the US. I've seen almost 40 states, but you're probably gonna end up seeing more! Love the content.
Beautiful backdrop, great pointers, much to ponder; if you can be by yourself and just be happy, without overuse of computer/smartphone, that's a win for sure. Thank you.
I relate to so much of Joker’s life choices!
Excellent video, and I have to confess that I made the mistake of connecting all my joy and happiness to female validation, and having a girlfriend/wife.
Unfortunately due to my below par looks, I never had any luck with the ladies, but that’s life and my tough luck. As for intimacy, I just pay a professional (ie.I pay a mature age lady of the night). Now I just focus on my hobbies and playing the guitar.
Good luck with your new wheels Joker.
I always ask a woman "I already have enough [problems/challenges] in my life. What can you add to my life to make it better?" when she's interested in me. Not many women can answer that question.
i like your setup. need more outdoor video.
Loneliness is to marriage/being single as hunger is to astronomy. The one occuring with the other is pure coincidence. I was never more lonely than when I was married
I have a friend who works late every day and then goes to the gym. He says if his wife is still awake by the time he gets home he'll sit in the car and listen to music until she goes to bed.
@@Corkfish1 exactly what my dad did, sometimes I'd be playing outside as a kid and see him jsit sitting in the driveway. He'd call me over we would grab some food somewhere till she went to bed.
Yeah I hear ya. Married currently, lonely currently.
My ex wife wanted me to get rid of my Camaro when we got married, she didnt like it because all her friends loved riding around town in it.... after my divorce I went straight to the dealer and got a nice brand new Camaro SS. awalt.
When you’re into your mid 30’s, by now freedom is your priority. Not a woman. A woman who complements your life is a HUGE keeper. She should NEVER take away or suck your freedom!
I've got that same mindset, true words spoken Sir
Top video. Enjoyed the bachelor freedom theme and what you hurdles and plans are. The birds blissfully chirping in the background at the end was perfect. Stay well, stay safe and enjoy the peace