31-Year-Old Claims His Parents Are ‘So Controlling’ He Isn’t Allowed to Be Home Alone

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  • Опубликовано: 4 июл 2024
  • Yesterday, Dr. Phil spoke with Karen and Jim who claim they are desperate to remove their violent and mooching 31-year-old son, Kyle, from their home. Kyle gave reason after reason why he felt his parents were at fault for his financial situation. Today, Dr. Phil enlists the help of the star of the popular TV show, Bar Rescue, Jon Taffer, to offer advice to Kyle and his parents. Taffer has written a new book, “Don’t ******** Yourself, Crush The Excuses That Are Holding You Back”, and shares with Kyle and his parents the secrets to overcoming the excuses that keep people from being successful. Will Kyle listen to Dr. Phil and Jon Taffer? Will he finally move out of his parents’ house? (2216318RR)
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Комментарии • 94

  • @thunderibiscuitz7893
    @thunderibiscuitz7893 3 дня назад +59

    If they're that controlling then he needs to leave

  • @lyndajohnson1098
    @lyndajohnson1098 2 дня назад +44

    He needs to leave anyway he’s 32 years old. It’s their house their rules.

    • @CatieCass
      @CatieCass 21 час назад +1

      I'm 34 and still at home. The market is INSANE and I just can't afford a good place even though I make decent money and have absolutely no debt. I pay board to live with them and all, I'm no freeloader, but it's just not as easy to move out as it used to be.

    • @garylivingston9052
      @garylivingston9052 35 минут назад +1

      @@CatieCass That's Absurd! grow up and get out on your own.

  • @Fee212
    @Fee212 3 дня назад +33

    I'm impressed they got John Taffer on THIS show. He is quite a phenomenal person.

  • @GhostShiroyama
    @GhostShiroyama 3 дня назад +41

    I want to hear the whole story on this. My gut is telling me the parents are also at fault to some degree.

    • @andreajones886
      @andreajones886 2 дня назад +7

      you do not need the full story to come to that conclusion!🤣

    • @shonuffshonuff9581
      @shonuffshonuff9581 2 дня назад +12

      They enabled him, they even said they keep bailing him out

    • @GhostShiroyama
      @GhostShiroyama 2 дня назад +2

      @@andreajones886 true, though I like more details x3

    • @feliciayoung9369
      @feliciayoung9369 2 дня назад +2

      Maybe they secretly don't trust him in their house Alone 😂😄

    • @S.K.Smith-Green
      @S.K.Smith-Green День назад +1

      @@feliciayoung9369he’s a thief that’s why

  • @kathrynjohnson4982
    @kathrynjohnson4982 3 дня назад +24

    The son is acting like a teenager.

  • @charly3575
    @charly3575 2 дня назад +19

    Possibly the laziest man alive. No changing that. Lazy is just lazy.

    • @andreajones886
      @andreajones886 2 дня назад +2

      objects at rest tend to remain at rest!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @neonbunny5249
    @neonbunny5249 2 дня назад +14

    This is a 31 year old man with a profession, Get out of mommy and daddy"s house and get a life. They don't owe you anything. With their age and health issues, you should be taking care of them 111

  • @a32tl
    @a32tl 21 час назад +8

    I am definitely what one would call a late bloomer. I lived at home until I was 39. However, I pulled my weight around the house. I lived upstairs and my parents lived downstairs. I kept my part of the house clean, did my own laundry, washed their cars, handled the yard work, took out all the trash and paid for my own groceries and bills. The only thing that my parents provided was dinner. I would eat meals with them that they prepared. Honestly, I never really wanted to move out but ultimately felt so much shame and embarrassment from our culture that I chose to move out. My parents and I got along great. My first night in my new house, I knew there was no turning back. I’ve been on my own now for 17 years and the loneliness is brutal at times. I still visit them frequently but I 100% support myself. I’ve done well financially and I give back to them periodically. I bring them a meal at least once per week. Buying my own place got society’s disapproval off of my back but it really didn’t fix anything in me. I’m okay with having my own house but I do hate coming home to an empty home every single day. I’ve never been in a relationship and don’t see that changing anytime soon. I don’t know why but I never really matured emotionally beyond about age 12 or 13. I never wanted age appropriate things like my siblings and peers did. I still feel like a kid inside. I know I’m not though and I accept my adult responsibilities but emotionally I do feel like I’m 13. It’s an odd dynamic because in my profession, I have a lot of responsibility and many people are dependent on me to perform my job. I always come through. It’s just in my personal life where I’m underdeveloped.

    • @brendaleigh7834
      @brendaleigh7834 Час назад

      Everyone is different and you should have been allowed to live life in your own comfort zone.

    • @user-bo4gw1xj4u
      @user-bo4gw1xj4u 46 минут назад

      If your parents want you there, good for everyone. If parents don't, then kids need to stop making excuses and move.

    • @nechiedavis1779
      @nechiedavis1779 42 минуты назад

      You obviously need to discuss this with a therapist. You need to improve your relationship with yourself before you can have a relationship with someone else.

  • @user-wj7um7hn2e
    @user-wj7um7hn2e День назад +7

    Why is he at his parents home? Way too old to be at mommy and daddy's house

  • @vulcan2882
    @vulcan2882 12 часов назад +4

    I have a friend who's sister let their mother move in with her a couple of years ago. According to him their mother always wants things done her way, his sister told their mother the house belongs to his sister and her husband. As I understand it mom decided to change the kitchen around because that's the way she likes it, she then went on and moved the livingroom around as well. His sister told mom it's not her house and she's just a guest, mom moved the livingroom around again and said something like it's staying this way because she likes it like that. His sister and her husband dropped off mom at a retirement home, mom is now only allowd one day visits every other week.

  • @damondenis9406
    @damondenis9406 44 минуты назад +2

    I can solve his dilemma,... "GET YOUR OWN APARTMENT!"
    Problem solved!

  • @SteelMagnolia55
    @SteelMagnolia55 2 дня назад +7

    Paying your own way gets you the freedom!

    • @spudnut00
      @spudnut00 2 дня назад +3

      Granted, I'm 'old' but I couldn't wait to get out of my mother's house and live on my own. I raised my own kids to feel the same way but for different reasons. My kids were told, "If/when you're supporting yourself and paying your own bills, there won't be anyone waiting up, to make sure you get home safely. There won't be anyone asking you to please turn the music down (although my kids were pretty good about stuff like that), and you won't have to deny yourself an extra share of the leftovers so I can take them for my lunch." I practically had to pry my youngest out with a crowbar ~ even though she worked and paid rent. Parents will eventually die. We owe it to our kids to make sure they are self sufficient before we do.

  • @davidserlin8097
    @davidserlin8097 День назад +4

    WHY ARE YOU STILL LIVING AT HOME?!?

  • @Mmmmkay88
    @Mmmmkay88 3 дня назад +14

    Snl needs to make this whole thing a skit.

  • @rosaharris2361
    @rosaharris2361 2 дня назад +14

    I love my children but the day that I am afraid of them they have to go. I will not live in fear in my own home.

    • @azazellon
      @azazellon 2 дня назад +3

      Why would you have any reason to be afraid of your children...?

    • @Randze
      @Randze 2 дня назад +1

      Are they violent

    • @monk4ever
      @monk4ever Час назад

      That's why I live alone.

  • @Hollyucinogen
    @Hollyucinogen День назад +3

    So you're not allowed to leave the house, but you're allowed to go on a Dr. Phil show? Riiiiight...

  • @stm5578
    @stm5578 День назад +2

    I bet if the parents REQUIRE him to wear a diaper, have a bottle and pacifier, he'd take the hint and move out.

  • @JKeeran
    @JKeeran 3 дня назад +8

    This crossover is so ⚡️

  • @sappysuds4545
    @sappysuds4545 Час назад +1

    31 years old and lives with parents? Dude, go live your life.

  • @jeffsers624
    @jeffsers624 Час назад

    Never thought I'd see this particular duo taking something on.

  • @annatjiepeschel5228
    @annatjiepeschel5228 3 дня назад +4

    Now I wonder why ?????

  • @kathydehaven9145
    @kathydehaven9145 3 дня назад +4

    He needs professional help!

  • @sportmaster2586
    @sportmaster2586 3 дня назад +7

    Is this real?

  • @Nickinator811
    @Nickinator811 2 дня назад +2

    I was almost expecting Jon taffer to just yell at him on live TV
    😂😂😂
    I stand corrected
    Jon taffer is legendary

  • @scubasteve2132
    @scubasteve2132 2 дня назад +4

    31 he looks like 51 get out of your parents house you beta

  • @user-mz6iv8ps6c
    @user-mz6iv8ps6c 2 дня назад +11

    Bro why are you living with parents at 31

    • @kristyhughes3146
      @kristyhughes3146 2 дня назад +3

      Because He CAN.

    • @user-mz6iv8ps6c
      @user-mz6iv8ps6c 2 дня назад +1

      @@kristyhughes3146 ok Karen of the comment section ahhahahaha

    • @user-bo4gw1xj4u
      @user-bo4gw1xj4u 44 минуты назад

      Because he is lame and takes no accountability of his life.

  • @RenaudDupuis
    @RenaudDupuis 3 дня назад +5

    I have found a new way to enjoy RUclips. I click Don't Recommend Channel as soon as I see a Politician from any party .. anywhere on Earth. It works !

    • @ericbailey6779
      @ericbailey6779 2 дня назад +1

      You, my friend, are a genius. Brilliant!! lol

    • @tonyakrebs4137
      @tonyakrebs4137 2 дня назад +2

      And this has WHAT to do with Dr Phil?

    • @S.K.Smith-Green
      @S.K.Smith-Green День назад +1

      Best day ever when I found that option!

  • @Darci3333
    @Darci3333 День назад +2

    So.....move out....

  • @AL-jt6hv
    @AL-jt6hv 3 дня назад +9

    Maybe parents are right,but treating your son this way is not all right too.If they were a little bit more affectionate with him during childhood the situation was different.Throwing a child out like a piece of trash,even if he is older,is not a solution.this story has 2 faces.sad story.where we became on 21 century.

  • @darleneberry6881
    @darleneberry6881 2 дня назад +3

    So move out

  • @christinepage181
    @christinepage181 Час назад

    Why doesn't he move out into a place of his own?

  • @tr2404
    @tr2404 Час назад

    His parents are infantilizing him...its a form of mental/emotion abuse..they've ruined any opportunity hes had to get away from them in order to remain in control.... it's straight selfishness....people are quick to judge him but dont understand how big of an impact parents can have on their children even well into adulthood...i hope he leaves them soon...

  • @kabrinawright8409
    @kabrinawright8409 2 дня назад +2

    This is weird. Imagine being 31 and living at home with your parents and you don't have a severe disability...... I've been on my own since 16. My siblings all have been on their own since between 16-18 yrs. (Why). ...... Because our parents were broke 24/7 if we wanted hygiene products by 14 we needed a job to get them. Yes I wish we had more. But I'm glad I'm not a loser living with my parents. Weird

    • @tr2404
      @tr2404 Час назад

      Everyone's different. I know people who stay with their parents because their PARENTS are ill or disabled. I know people who live with their parents due to religious reasons and some because it was cheaper...or simply because they wanted to!
      Do you know what infantilizing is? Thats what this guy is experiencing...
      It seems you're projecting your bitterness about being forced to be on your own at a young age. The only "LOSERS" are your parents....

    • @kabrinawright8409
      @kabrinawright8409 Час назад

      @@tr2404 I guess you're right. There are more than one type of mold.

  • @jacobrohr9658
    @jacobrohr9658 2 дня назад +2

    John taffer is just an all around awesome man, smart, successful, great communicator. John taffer and Dr Phil teaming up is pretty legendary

  • @sarasmith9333
    @sarasmith9333 3 дня назад +4

    if he is so useless that he still lives with them is gross. old enough to live on your own and be who you should be. blah

  • @brendaleigh7834
    @brendaleigh7834 Час назад

    He looks like a young, angry Alan Alda

  • @Lauren-vd4qe
    @Lauren-vd4qe 20 часов назад

    BODY LANGUAGE: Hes scared, unsure, uncertain....

  • @beccalove8791
    @beccalove8791 День назад +1

    I think this kid is a narcissist

  • @ForeverUnknown92
    @ForeverUnknown92 3 дня назад +6

    I don’t think they are being fair on him

  • @NeilReynolds-hg9gh
    @NeilReynolds-hg9gh 14 часов назад

    Whatever the rights and wrongs of this situation, he really reminds me of Elijah Wood! Perhaps this guy is his less successful brother! 😁👍

  • @ImperfectChristianWoman
    @ImperfectChristianWoman 23 часа назад +1

    The title of the video doesn't match the content of the video. I thought it would talk about how controlling the parents are and why. Instead they're making it seem like the son is the problem. And maybe he is too but please put things in context if you're going to make a video.

  • @masalamasand2259
    @masalamasand2259 2 дня назад +1

    you have responsility for you

  • @smg7187
    @smg7187 День назад +1

    What is this.. fake doctor and fake psychologist 😂🤷🏻‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @colleenw8756
    @colleenw8756 День назад +2

    Do you have a pair? Grow up.

  • @tas22222
    @tas22222 3 дня назад +3

    LAZY

  • @user-bo4gw1xj4u
    @user-bo4gw1xj4u 52 минуты назад

    Move out and start being an adult, you are 31.

  • @annatjiepeschel5228
    @annatjiepeschel5228 3 дня назад +2

    This sone is so a big liar.

  • @firewood9991
    @firewood9991 20 часов назад

    Jesus H.!! Move out and get your own place.

  • @justinlarsen2952
    @justinlarsen2952 День назад +1

    Grow up

  • @user-uf6pi3mg3w
    @user-uf6pi3mg3w 3 дня назад +1

    First

    • @TheBreechie
      @TheBreechie 3 дня назад +3

      What a winner you are 🏆

    • @user-uf6pi3mg3w
      @user-uf6pi3mg3w 3 дня назад +1

      @@TheBreechie ik

    • @K.A-87
      @K.A-87 3 дня назад +1

      🎈🎉

    • @ash-hr1nf
      @ash-hr1nf 3 дня назад +2

      we don’t care

    • @jenniferesser8249
      @jenniferesser8249 3 дня назад +2

      😇💜 YOU ARE NEEDING ATTENTION !!! I HAVE SEEN THIS COMMENT MANY TIMES, and quite often it happens on The Dr.Phil Show !!!🤭 I just now gave you attention by making this comment now MOVE ON !!!

  • @SKYWAYVXLLEYDISTRICT
    @SKYWAYVXLLEYDISTRICT 3 дня назад +9

    Every old school white man has the same rap, talk to people 20-30 who actually went out and got educated and still can't make ends meet with the wages they make. Then you ask why people don't want to work or get addicted to drugs...you have a smartphone??? you're a addict too, take it away see how far you get out the driveway. These guys hail from a time when you could get ahead way quicker/easier. They say we need to earn it, some of us are still trying to work knowing it doesn't make sense. "Gotta earn it", what the right to stay broke?

    • @drakashrakenburgproduction5369
      @drakashrakenburgproduction5369 3 дня назад +5

      Sounds like you’re a moocher

    • @htcheeto420
      @htcheeto420 2 дня назад +2

      fr. All of my friends in my income class work full time “adult” jobs and we would never be able to afford to live alone in my city.
      This can absolutely be an issue of laziness and apathy but it’s becoming more and more common for people 35ish and younger to be forced to live with family because we don’t have other options.

    • @drakashrakenburgproduction5369
      @drakashrakenburgproduction5369 2 дня назад +1

      @@htcheeto420 or you just give up too easily

    • @htcheeto420
      @htcheeto420 2 дня назад +1

      @@drakashrakenburgproduction5369 where do you live?

    • @S.K.Smith-Green
      @S.K.Smith-Green День назад

      So get a better job. Move to a city. Work 2 jobs. This brat has no children and no responsibilities. He has a professional job and pays no bills. This isnt a question of not being able to afford something. This is just a garden variety mooch.

  • @sarasmith9333
    @sarasmith9333 3 дня назад +3

    uselss at that age is gross.